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B00457	The art of dying well. Deuided into tvvo books. / Written by Roberto Bellarmine of the Society of Iesus, and Cardinall. ; Translated into English for the benefit of our countreymen, by C.E. of the same Society.; De arte bene moriendi. English	Bellarmino, Roberto Francesco Romolo, Saint, 1542-1621.; Coffin, Edward, 1571-1626.	1621 (1621)	STC 1838.5; STC 1838.5; ESTC S90457	138,577	338

which belong vnto that tyme in which Death might seeme to be further off in this other which we haue now in hand we will lay downe those which apperteyne vn●o Death when it is present or neere at hand Death is said to be at hand or expecting v● at the gate when we are eyther worne out with old age the Apostle telling v● Quod antiquatur senescit prope interitum est That which groweth auncient waxeth old is neere vnto death or destruction Heb. 8. or else are taken with some great sicknes in the iudgement of Phisitians very dangerous whether this do befall an old man or a young a youth or a child Of this second ranke it seemes to vs the first precept to be the meditatiō of death for although Death be thought vpon and considered with neuer so great diligence or attention whiles we are in our youthfull yeares yet doth it very little moue vs because we apprehend it as farre off and therefore lesse dreadfull but when we see it so present as it may in a manner be felt with our handes then it stirreth vs vp indeed and the consideration thereof is very profitable all Artes are better attayned by practise then by teaching and those who if not more often did twice at least dye as Saint Christine Drithelmus the English man of whome I made mention in my booke De gemnitu Co●umbae of the mourning of the Doue the noble woman raysed by Saint Malachy of whome I shall speake in the 8. chapter and that Hermite whose history Climacus doth relate of whome also we in the end of this Chapter will say somewhat it is euident that they died cheerfully but for vs who are permitted to dye but once there is no better way then to meditate to thinke often of what is done or to be done in that houre First then we are to thinke that then there shal be a separation made of the soule from the body that neyther the soule is to be extinguished nor the body to fall be resolued to dust without hope of rising againe and being reunited vnto the soule for in case the soule should be annihilated and the body be subiect to eternal corruption as the Atheists do surmize then shold they seeme to haue spoken well who contemned death and sayd Edamus bibamus eras enim moriemur Let vs eate let vs drink for to morrow we shall dye which prouerbe is most ancient as we may see in the Prophet I say Cap. 22. Cap. 15. and in the first of S. Paul to the Corinthians and surely there are some euen amongst Christians who in wordes say that they do belieue but deny it by their deeds which may be proued out 〈◊〉 this principle that very many euen i● their old decrepit age neuer thinke vpon death as though that they were neuer 〈◊〉 dye or as if they thought with the death of the body the soule also did perish and resolue to nothing but whatsoeuer such men do dreame the separation of the body from the soule as it were of th● spouse from her husband is but an absenc● for a while not a perpetuall diuorce for the soule is immortall and the flesh without all doubt shall rise againe at the later day We must therefore if we be Christians and haue any wit dayly thinke of death at hand in this standeth the totall summe of all our weale that we dye well In this life the passage is not hard fro● vertue to vice and with the grace of God from vice vnto vertue for he who is now heir of the Kingdom of God may to morrow by synne fall from the inheritance o● God and become guilty of hell fire co●trarywise he who is a slaue of the Diuell may be deliuered from that bondage and be againe enrolled amongst the children ●f God and heyres of the heauenly King●ome But he who dyes the enemy of God ●nd guilty of euerl●sting fire he shall alwayes remayne the enemy of God tyed to these torments and on the other side he who dyeth the friend of God and heir of the Kingdome of heauen shall neuer fall from grace and that most excellent glory wherefore all our felici●y or infelicity dependeth vpō our good or bad death who then that hath not lost all is wit and iudgement will aduenture to depart out of this life vntill withall diligence he hath learned and prepared also himselfe to dye well Another consideratiō that most profitable touching death may be to conceaue well that although death be most certeyn the prophet worthily demaunding VVho is the man that liueth and shall not see death Psal 88. with whome Saint Paul agreeth saying It is decreed for all men once to dye Heb. 9. Yet is there nothing more vncerteyne then the day and houre of our death which the Scripture cleerly pronounceth saying VVatch because that you do not know the day nor houre many are taken away in their infancy some arryue arryue vnto crooked old age some dy● young some at matures yeares and which is more miserable some do dy so sodēly as they haue no leasure left then to call vpo● God or to commend their soules to his mercy and these thinges doth the diui●● prouidence of God according to the treasures of his wisdome for no other cause ordeyne after this manner but to the end that none of his elected children and seruaunts should presume or be so hardy as to remayne for one moment plunged i● the durt of deadly synne and therefore whosoeuer thou be that doest reade thes● thinges if perhaps thy conscience giue testimony against thee of a deadly synne be not so bold as to stay till to morrow in it nor yet to expect till the end of this day or houre but presently with a contrite and humble hart before God detest and be sorrowfull for the same The third Consideration no lesse profitable then the former may be if in the morning before thou go out to thy daily busines at night before thou goest to bed least soden death should tak● thee at vnawares that thou diligently examin thy conscience what thou hast done the night past what the day immediately ●efore especially whether there be any ●ing that may seeme a deadly syn and if ●ou find nothing yield thanks vnto God ●e Authour of all good and it thou fynd ●●y thinge committed against God seri●usly repent thee from thy hart and at the ●rst occasiō prostrating thy selfe at the feet of the Priest confesse the same receaue willingly the pennance imposed faithfully performe it ●his method of exami●ing our selues twice in the day wonder●ully helpeth that death neuer take vs hēce ●nprouided The fourth consideration may be that which Ecclesiasticus setteth downe that In euery thinge thou doest remember the last things ●nd thou shalt neuer synne For how can he o●●end in any worke who first doth weigh ●ll his works in the ballance

sonnes of Iudas the Patriarcke is ●●arply reprehēded for that whē he knew is wife he cast out the seed on the earth ●●at no child might be born for this is not ●o vse but to abuse Matrimony and if sō●●mes it happen that the vertuous parents ●re ouerburdened with multitude of their ●ssue in so much as by reason of their po●erty they cannot mainteyne them there 〈◊〉 a remedy in it selfe good and gratefull vnto God by continuall consent to sepa●ate thēselues from the bed knowledge of each other and for the tyme to come to attend vnto prayer and fasting for it it be gratefull acceptable vnto God for man and wife to continew stil euen vnto their old age in virginity after the example of the mother of God and Saint Ioseph whose example Saint Henry the Emperour and Chunegunda his Empresse Saint Edward the Confessour King and Editha his Queene Elizearius Earle and his Lady Dalphina many others did follow why shold it displease God or men that marryed folke hauing now children by mutuall consent should refraine from copulation that they may bestow what resteth their life in fasting prayer Moreouer it is a grieuous synne for any in the state of Matrimony to ●●glect his children and let them want eyther vertuous education or necessary maintenance of clothes diet and the li●● many examples there are extant of th● matter at well in sacred as prophane historyes but for that I intend to be briefe 〈◊〉 will content myselfe with one which 〈◊〉 in the first booke of Kings Thus in that place doth God himselfe speake In that 〈◊〉 I will raise vp all these thinges which I haue spoke● against the house of Heli. I will begin and I will end For I foretold him that I was to iudge his house for euer for the iniquity thereof because he knew that his children did wickedly behaue themselues he did not correct them therefore haue I s●●orne to the house of Heli that the iniquity of his houses shall not be blotted out for euer with victimes or gifts This did our Lord fortell and a little after did execute for the children of He●● were slaine in warre and Heli himselfe s●ting on his seat fell backeward brake his necke dyed miserably if then Heli who was otherwise a good man iust Iudge of the people for the synnes of his children which he had not brought vp so wel as he should haue done and when afterwards they became worse and worse he ●ad not cheked and amended them came ●ith his Children to a miserable end and 〈◊〉 the gouernment or principality ouer ●he people what shall become of them ●ho not only do not endeauour to bring vp their children well but by their own example of bad life teach them to do ill Surely they can expe●● nothing else for themselues or their children but a dreadful death vnlesse they amend be tyme and do pennance condigne to their former offences Another good of matrimony is fidelity which consisteth in this that ech of the maried couple do know that their bodyes are not their owne but that the body of the wife is the husbands and the body of the husband is the wiues and as the one cannot deny coniugall duty vnto the other so can neyther of them both yield their bodyes to be vsed by any other the signe of this fidelity is the ring giuen in the solemnity of Marriage this doctrin is cleerly deliuered by the Apostle saying Let the husband render duty to his wife shee likewise to her husband the woman hath not power ouer her but the husband 1. Cor. 7. and likewise the husband hath not power ouer his body but the woman defraude not one another vnlesse it b● mutuall consent for a tyme that you may atten● prayer This is the Apostolicall doctri●● which all Christian maried folkes m●● diligently obserue if they desire to liue dye well if there be any publike adulterers eyther the Iudges do iustly puni●● them or else the friends and kinsfolk● of the party reuenge the wronge offered by that disgrace but for secret adulterers who are many more then the open the Almighty and most iust Iudge from whome no secrets lye hid will doubteles in the end condemne them to euerlasting torments The third good or perfection of Matrimony and that most noble is the grace of the Sacrament which God powreth into the harts of the marryed couple if in the tyme of their Marriage they be duly disposed and prepared thereunto this grace besides other good which it bringeth with it is of wonderfull force to effect mutuall loue betweene both the partie notwithstanding that different iudgemēts maners diseases diuersitys of dispositions of body mind may easily sow dissensions betweene them but aboue all the ●mitation of the wedlocke or Marriage ●hat is betweene Christ and his Church maketh this corporall Marriage most ●weet and blessed of which matter thus writteth S. Paul Viridiligite vxores vestras c. Ephes 5. Husbands loue your wiues as Christ hath loued his Church and deliuered vp himselfe for it that he might sanctifye it cle●nsing it by the lauer of water in the word of life that he might present or exhibite vnto himselfe a glorious Church not hauing spot or wrinkle Which Blessed Apostle also admonisheth women saying Let women be subiect to their husbands as vnto our Lord because the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church But as the Church is subiect to Christ so let the women be subiect in all thinges to their husbands and in fine thus he concludeth Let euery one loue his wife as himselfe and let the wife feare or reuerence her husband This doctrine if it be so considered and practised as is requisite will make the Marriages happy both in earth heauen Let vs in briefe explicate this Apostolicall doctrine of Saint Paul first of all he exhorteth husbands to loue their wiues as Christ loued his Church Truly Christ loued his Church Amore amicitiae with a fi●endly loue as Schooles do speake and ●more concupiscentiae with the loue of desiring any thing for himself he sought the goo● of the Church the profit of the Church the saluation of the Church not any profit or pleasure of his owne And therfore they do not imitate christ who loue their wiues for their great beauty allured with the loue of her fairenes or for her dow● of many thousand crownes or for some rich and wealthy inheritance for such do not loue their wiues but themselues desiring to satiate or satisfy the concupiscence of the flesh the concupiscence of the eyes which is tearmed couetousnes So S●lomon wise in the beginning and a foole● the end loued wiues and concubines not for the loue of them but for the loue o● his owne lust desiring not to gratify a●● do them good but to fulfill his owne carnall desire with which he was so blinded as he

cheerfully we do the same where the dāger is both corporall and spirituall temporall euerlasting Lastly there remayneth a consideration for these men who are so carnal sensuall that they esteeme not the losse of eternall life and that glory which surpasseth all vnderstanding these men are to be warned that in case they esteeme not the glory of heauen which they neuer saw at least they contemne not the fire brimstone and other corporall punishments which they know and which in hell are found to be most outragious truly carnall pleasure which in this life is light and momentary doth worke in the wicked aboue measure an euerlasting weight of misery And truly our Lord Sauiour Christ in the last day in few words will make this euident saying go ye accursed into euerlasting fire prepared for the Diuell his Angells But S. Iohn i● his Apocalips hath expressed more fully what māner o● torments are prepared for the Diuell and his Angells for men circumuented seduced by these Apostata spirits of the Diuell Prince of the wicked thus we reade in the Apocalips Apoc. 20. Et Diabolus c. And the Diuell who seduced them was cast into the sake of fire and brimstone where the beast the false Prophet shall be tormented day and night for euer in the next Chap. of others condemned to hell he sayth Cap. 21. to the fearfull vnbelieuing and to the execrable murtherers fornicatours and sorcerers idolaters al lyars their part shal be in the lake that burneth with fire brimstone which is the second death of which words the very first only needeth explicatiō for the other sins are manifest cleere S. Iohn calleth the fearefull those who dare not resist the tempter be he Diuell or man but presently yield and consent to the tentatation to such S. Iames sayth resistite Diabolo fugiet à vo●is resist the Diuell he will fly from you there are not a few but rather innumerable who haue not learned to fight in our Lords warfare but without all resistance receaue the wounds of the Diuell dy the first death which is deadly syn because they are fearfull also in doing pennance whiles they dare not chastise their body bring it in subiection they fall vpon the second death which is hell therfore S. Iohn put the fearefull in the first place because this timidity drawes infinit men into hell What heere will carnall men say For that all temporale moluments whatsoeuer are momentary light we haue all learned by our owne and other mens experience that the torments of hell fire are most weighty to ēdure for euer the holy Scripturs in which no falsity can be cōteyned do cleerly testify Out of which it followeth that the total summe of this Art of dying well is that which is comprized in the three ensuing propositions or which is euinced in the sillogisme following in the next and last Chapter of this booke CHAP. XVII The Summe or Abridgement of the Art of dying well AS well the comfort as the tribulation of this life is momentary and small the comfort and tribulation of the next life is for durāce euerlasting for greatnesse without measure therefore they are fooles who contemne the comfort tribulation of the next life The first proposition of this argument is cleere by experience the assumption is more cleare in the Scriptures which are penned by the holy Ghost the conclusion followeth ineuitably out of them both if thē any one will easily and soone learne this art let him not content himselfe with the reading of this or the like bookes but let him attentiuely consider not once but often not of curiosity to learne but out of sincere intention to liue and dye well what distance there is betweene momentary things and euerlasting betweene thinges of no moment and such as are of most importance most weighty and if he desire to be throughly grounded in this most profitable perspicuous truth let him call to mynde the examples of such as haue beene before vs whether by good life they came to a good end or by their il behauiour haue euerlastingly perished to case him of the labour of seking after examples I will help him to three payre of them one of Kings one of priuate men the last payre of Clergy men and all these I wil take out of the holy Scripture The first shall be of Saul and Dauid Saul whiles that he was a priuate man poore was so honest and good as that the Scripture testifyeth there was not a better then he amongst the children of Israel being made King he changed his behauiour 1. Reg. 9. in so much as there was not found a worse then he for he persecuted Dauid who was innocent euen vnto death and that for no other cause but for that he suspected that Dauid should be a King raigne after him and when he had raygned 20. yeares he was slayne in warre descended to hell Dauid a faythfull and vertuous man after a long persecution procured by Saul was declared King and for forty yeares raygned gouerned his Kingdome most prudently and iustly in which tyme he endured many tribulations at length rested in peace Now let vs compare togeather the comforts and tribulations of them both see whether of thē had better learned the art of liuing dying well Saul whils he liued had not that cleere and perfect delight which yet of all others is wont to be greatest in Kings and men of supreme authority whiles he swayed the scepter that for the great hatred wherwith he pursued Dauid therfore he tasted not in the twenty yeares of his raign the sweetnes of his crowne without the gall of enuy those yeares being expired all the pleasure of this life left him and there succeeded a perfect and euerlasting calamity and now for the space well neere of two thousand threescore ten yeares his chiefest part to wit his soule liueth in vnspeakable torments that which is more miserable these torments are to endure for euer Dauid on the other side liued 70. yeares and raigned of that number forty and although he tasted of tribulations and these neyther few nor small yet found he very frequent singular comforts out of the reuelations he had from God which he expressed in his most sweet and heauenly psalmes after his death descended not into tormēts but with the holy Fathers into repose the bosome of Abraham and after the resurrection of our Sauiour he ascended with Christ into the euerlasting Kingdome of heauen Let the Reader now iudge whether the passadge of the wicked frō their body be not most miserable although it be of Kings and Emperours and the passage of the iust most happy be it also eyther of Kings or Emperours Saul as I sayd raygned twenty yeares and now after his death for