Selected quad for the lemma: death_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
death_n	call_v	life_n	see_v	4,904	5	3.2741	3	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A14989	A bride-bush, or A vvedding sermon compendiously describing the duties of married persons: by performing whereof, marriage shall be to them a great helpe, which now finde it a little hell.	Whately, William, 1583-1639.	1617 (1617)	STC 25296; ESTC S101310	36,172	54

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proverb_n and_o let_v every_o of_o you_o mend_v one_o i_o mean_v himself_o and_o contention_n will_v cease_v pray_v for_o each_o one_o self_n first_o then_o for_o each_o other_o where_o you_o have_v offend_v labour_v to_o see_v it_o confess_v bewail_v it_o and_o call_v for_o power_n to_o reform_v and_o be_v not_o skilful_a to_o cast_v the_o fault_n upon_o another_o but_o to_o cast_v it_o out_o of_o thyself_o so_o shall_v your_o love_n be_v sure_a your_o heart_n comfortable_a your_o example_n commendable_a your_o house_n peaceable_a yourselves_o joyful_a your_o life_n cheerful_a your_o death_n bless_v and_o your_o memory_n happy_a for_o ever_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d finis_fw-la ¶_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o marry_a people_n be_v either_o 1._o principal_a the_o breach_n of_o which_o annihilate_v the_o former_a covenant_n by_o they_o make_v which_o be_v 1._o the_o chaste_a keep_n of_o their_o body_n for_o each_o other_o to_o which_o be_v oppose_v adultery_n sect_n 3._o 2._o cohabitation_n or_o dwell_v together_o to_o which_o be_v oppose_v desertion_n sect_n 4._o 2._o less_o principal_a the_o breach_n whereof_o notwithstanding_o the_o comnant_n be_v firm_a and_o these_o be_v of_o two_o sort_n 1._o such_o as_o concern_v their_o ordinary_a society_n of_o life_n which_o be_v either_o 1._o mutual_a such_o as_o both_o must_v mutual_o perform_v which_o do_v respect_n either_o 1._o their_o person_n and_o these_o be_v 1._o love_n sect_n 7._o 2._o faithfulness_n &_o helpfulnes_n conjoin_v sect_n 11._o 2._o their_o family_n as_o concern_v their_o 1._o maintenance_n sect_n 13._o 2._o govern_v sect_n 14._o 2._o special_a pertain_v to_o either_o separately_z 1._o the_o husband_n who_o duty_n be_v 1._o to_o keep_v his_o authority_n sect_n 15._o 2._o to_o use_v his_o authority_n of_o which_o i_o show_v 1._o the_o end_n sect_n 16._o 2._o the_o manner_n with_o three_o virtue_n 1._o wisdom_n sect_n 18._o 2._o meekness_n sect_n 21._o 3._o justice_n sect_n 26._o 2._o the_o wife_n who_o duty_n be_v 1._o to_o confess_v her_o inferiority_n sect_n 27._o 2._o to_o carry_v herself_o as_o inferior_a 1._o in_o reverence_n sect_n 29._o 2._o obedience_n sect_n 34._o 2._o such_o as_o concern_v their_o society_n in_o the_o marriagebed_n that_o it_o be_v 1._o love_v sect_n 35._o 2._o sanctify_a sect_n 35._o 3._o seasonable_a sect_n 35._o

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