Tombs but this impatient man is among the Living and molests and grieves those that are near him 2. Immoderate sorrow wasteth the Spirits See Prov. 15.13 By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken It weakens the Body and hastens Death 2 Cor. 7.10 The sorrow of the world worketh Death saith the Apostle by sorrow of the world we may understand immoderate sorrow about worldly things hastens death and eats out the very comfort of Life You read of Moses Deut. 34.7 He was an hundred and twenty years old when he dyed his eye was not dim nor his natural force abated What should be the reason Why surely under God his own meekness For Numb 12.3 He was very meek above all the men that were upon the face of the earth Hippocrates saith 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Animalia quae felle carent ut Cervi sunt longaeva So meek persons many times live longest but impatient persons through fretting discontent bring their bodies into a Consumption Suppose as Job saith Job 6.12 Your strength was the strength of stones yet continual dropping of tears and drooping under sorrow would bring you down and wear you away for the same Job tells you Job 14.19 The waters wear the stones 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Gutta cavat lapidem non vi sed saepè cadendo And the wise man tells you Prov. 12.25 Heaviness in the heart of a man makes it stoop Immoderate grief like a heavy burthen laid upon a man will make him stoop and break him Many a man looks wrinkled with sorrow and care long before he is wrinkled with age Cura facit canos quamvis homo non habet annos Let us then Seneca Consâ—l ad Poâ—â—â— c. 23. as an Heathen said spare such grief as this is Faciliùs illi nos dolor iste ad jiciet quà m illum nobis reducet For soon will it send thee to him whom thou bewailest than bring him back to thee 3dly and lastly It greatly provokes God Indeed A meek and quiet spirit is in the sight of God of great price 1 Pet. 3.4 but a froward peevish spirit is abomination to him as you may read Prov. 11.20 17.20 22.5 So Ps 18.26 Discontent is a sin that God takes special notice of Exod. 16.7 8 9 12. So the Apostle tells us God was not well pleased The meaning is for the words are a 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 He was highly displeased with the murmuring Israelites for they were overthrown in the wilderness 1 Cor. 10.5 10 compared This must needs he hateful to God for it is a decompounded sin made up of many bitter ingredients as pride passion unthankfulness c. Sighings sobbings sorrowfull exclamations do penetrate the heavens and enter into the ears of the Lord of Hosts but make no good musick there God is thereby provoked to lengthen our miseries and adjourn our mercies Paula Romana who carried it frowardly and fretfully at death of her Children met with many losses of that nature We say Impatiens aegrotus crudelem facit medicum And so it is strugling and stubbornness that makes the Father continue to beat the Child Indeed God is an indulgent tender-hearted Father to his Children Psal 103.13 yet he will not burn the Rod till their stout stomacks be taken down How did he pursue Jonah with winds and tempests nay he casts him over-board into the sea and plunged him over head and ears into the hell of the Whales belly never leaving him till he submitted to his will to go to Niniveh Ferre minora volo nè graviora feram Let us bear lesser troubles patiently lest God lay greater troubles upon us To end this A man in a seaver the more he struggles the more he encreaseth his pain A wild Bull in a net Isa 51.20 instead of breaking forth by strugling he more entangles himself So we gain nothing by our strugling impatience and obstinacy against God but encrease of our miseries Oh! then let us not by any means give passions a loose reign for Phaiton-like with his wild Horses they 'l do a world of mischief Consid 10 Tenthly and lastly consider Death is very advantagious to the godly Phil. 1.21 For me to die is gain There is a privative and positive benefit that death brings to believers To begin with the first Death frees a believer 1. From sin Peccatum peperit mortem filia devoravit matrem Sin brought in death Rom. 5.12 and 6.23 and death carryes out sin Viper-like it devoures that which brought it forth He that is dead is freed from sin Rom. 6.7 Here indeed is no perfection 1 John 1.8 Grace is like Gold in the Oar mingled with much dross the most refined soul hath some dregs and is daily contesting with home-bred corruptions Cum avarit â nobis cum impudicitiâ cum irâ cum ambitione congressis est Cyprian Here the best are continually afflicted either for their sins or with their sins But death frees them from all sin Rom. 7.24 O wretched man that I am who shall deliver me saith St. Paul from the body of this death Why by the death of the body we are delivered from sin which is the body of Death 1 Cor. 15.26 The last enemy that shall be destroyed is Death If sin continued after death death were not a believers last enemy Dictum est primo homini morieres si peccaveris nunc dicitur morere nè pecces nisi peccâssent illi non morerentur peccarent autem justi nisi moriantur St. August de Civitate Dei Lib. 13. Cap. 3. Whilst we are in the wilderness of this world latet Anguis in herbâ fiery Serpents sting us sins stick close to us but at death as St. Paul cast the Viper off his hand Acts 28.3 5. so do Believers shake off sin Their dying day is the funeral of all their Vices the least of which maks them grieve here as the least hair makes the eye to water After death they are like God himself in perfect holiness and righteousness not having spot or wrinkle Ephes 5.27 2. From Satans temptations The Devil like to Joab makes our miseries his sport and play 2 Sam. 2.14 He is the great Peripatetick going up and down the World Job 1.7 and 2.2 This roaring lyon is continually ranging for his prey 1 Pet. 5.8 He assaulted Christ the Head Mat. 4.1 c. and so he doth the members Quid aliud in mundo quà m pugna adversus Diabolum quotidiè geritur Cypr. The righteous are the white at which the Devil most shoots the Arrows of temptation Chrysostome somewhere in his Homilies hath this comparison 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 c. As Pirats upon the Sea set upon the richest Vessels so Satan seeing a Vessel fraught with Grace useth all art and exerciseth all violence to master both the Vessel and the Prize But in Heaven they shall no more be troubled with Satans fiery darts for the Accuser of the Brethren is cast out Rev.
this he had said to God Job 10.2 Shew me wherefore thou contendest with me When God takes away Relations he testifieth against you as he did against Naomi who had lost her husband and two sons Ruth 1.5 21 compared that something in your lives hath been displeasing to him God oft-times visits the iniquity of the Fathers upon the Children Exod. 20.5 34.7 2 Sam. 12.14 1 King 15.29 30. Isa 14.21 Parents may by their sins provoke God to bring upon their children a temporal but not an eternal death for Ezek. 18.20 The soul that sinneth it shall die Indeed all persons as well Children as Parents ow a death to God if not by reason of actual yet of original corruption that is in them Psa 51.5 Rom. 5.12 Yet God many times takes away Children and other Relations not having an eye so much to their sins as to the sins of parents and others that provoke God to inflict a penal evil Well then pray to the Lord to discover to thee thy sin which provoked him so soon to take away thy Friend Psal 4.4 Commune with your own heart upon your bed and be still When others are a sleeping do you be a thinking what sins you were guilty of that might cause God to deprive you of such a Relation Search into God's Word and see for what sins God usually punisheth with loss of Friends Now God might take away thy Relation for such sins as these 1. Thy sin might be undervaluing thy Friend May be thou didst not prize him according to his worth and now God will teach thee the worth of him by the want of him You would not follow his good counsels reproofs example c. and therefore God might because you did not work by it put out this burning and shining Light It may be you dealt by him as the Philistines did by Sampson make sport with him and a laughing-stock of him and therefore God took him away Or 2dly Thy sin might be overvaluing thy Friend You might over-love him too much rejoyce in him or trust in him too much God breaks the Conduit-pipes when you forget the Fountain Gustavus the renowned King of Sweden said God would take him away because he was too much admired and his words were too true a prophecy Indeed hopeful Children godly Relations they are Jewels Mal. 3.17 but if you take them and make a golden calf of them and idolize them God may justly break them to pouder as Moses dealt with the golden Calf Exod. 32.3 4 20 compared So Hezekiah brake in pieces the brazen Serpent that Moses had made when he saw the people give divine worship unto it 2 King 18.4 When you make Idols of Friends and Relations bestowing that love joy and delight upon them which is due to God he may justly break them to pieces Jonah took more delight than he should have done in his refreshing Gourd and that hand that sent it sent a worm to destroy it Fond Parents like foolish Apes kill their young ones with imbraces Or 3dly Thy sin might be foolish indulgence Eli was too indulgent towards his Sons 1 Sam. 3.13 his Sons made themselves vile and he restrained them not or according to the Original frowned not upon them he was too gentle in his reproofs and corrections as you may see 1 Sam. 2.22 c. and God threatned that all the encrease of his house should die in the flower of their age and his two sons Hophni and Phineas should in one day die both of them ver 33 34. And accordingly it came to pass 1 Sam. 4.17 So David too fondly affected Absolom and he lived to see him come to an untimely death Or 4thly Thy sin might be undutifulness to thy own Parents Absalom even now mentioned had once three sons as you may read 2 Sam. 14.27 but he lived to see them all buried as you may gather from 2 Sam. 18.18 Absalom was an undutiful child seeking to take away the life of his Father and God takes away his childrens lives Or 5thly Thy sin might be Lasciviousness or Wantonness You read 2 Sam. 12.14 The Child gotten in Adultery dieth Solomon loved many strange women 1 King 11.1 and he left but one son behind him as we read of in Scripture Rehoboam by name v. 43. and he no wiser than he should be as you may reade 1 King 12. Or 6thly Thy sin might be Bloodshed or Murder God threatned Ahab's posterity for his murdering of Naboth 1 King 21.21 so God threatned David for his murdering Uriah 2 Sam. 12.9 10. that the Sword-should never depart from his house and he lived to see two of his Children slain incestuous Amnon 2 Sam. 13. and rebellious Absalom 2 Sam. 18. Or 7thly Thy sin might be Oppression See Job 27.13 14 15. God there threatens that the Sword or Famine or some such sudden and fearful Judgment shall sweep away the Oppressors Children So Amos 4.1 2. There is the posterity of Oppressors threatned God may most justly take away the lives of their Children who take away the livelihood of others Children It is seldom seen that a covetous griping Oppressor or Usurer leaves many Children behind him For these and some other sins mentioned before God may suddenly deprive us of dear and near Relations Now what saith Conscience doth it not fly in your face and tell you that you have been guilty of some one or more of these sins With Pharoah's Butler call to mind thy fault this day Gen. 41.9 And having thus found it out 2. Confess it to God be deeply humbled for it and pray heartily for pardon thereof Say as Josephs Brethren did Gen. 42.21 We are verily guilty concerning our Brother Let your uncircumcised hearts be humbled and accept of the punishment of your iniquity as the Expression is Levit. 26.41 Turn sorrowing for your Friend into sorrowing for your Sins that have deprived you of his sweet society We find 2 Sam. 24. David sin'd in numbering of the People and God punisheth him in lessening the number of them See what David doth vers 10. His heart smote him after he had numbred the People and he said unto the Lord I have sinned greatly in that I have done And now I beseech thee O Lord take away the iniquity of thy Servant for I have done very foolishly No sooner was David convinced of his sin by the testimony of his Conscience acted by the Spirit of God but presently makes his humble addresses to God confessing his sin and heartily bewailing his folly he prayes to God for pardon thereof vers 17. David seeing the People smitten by the destroying Angel he cries out Lo I have sinned and I have done wickedly but these Sheep what have they done David knew very well that the People were not without their faults justly deserving this and a greater judgment yet reflecting upon his sin as an occasion of this judgment he endeavours to acquit them taking the fault wholly upon himself and
yearning in his bowels with bitter grief that he should be the cause of bringing this destruction upon his dearly beloved People So should we when our sins have been a cause to hasten the death of our dear Friend confess them unto God be deeply humbled for them and pray heartily for pardon thereof And then Thirdly and lastly Let us be careful to avoid these sins for the future This God expects Job 36.9 10. He shews them who are holden in the Cords of Affliction their work and their transgressions that they have exceeded he openeth also their ear to discipline and commandeth that they return from iniquity This the Church hath practised in times of great distress Lam. 3.40 Let us search and try our wayes and turn again unto the Lord. Oh! how should our hearts rise against such sins as rob us of our dear Friends If any mortal man had murdered our Father or Mother Son or Daughter Brother or Sister or any other near and dear Friend or Relation We would not endure that man but prosecute the Law on him to the uttermost and we would rejoyce to see justice done upon him Our hand would not spare our eye would not pitty him Oh then take an holy revenge upon your Lusts which have provoked God to take away such or such Relations let your hearts be transported with infinite indignation against them 2 Cor. 7.11 Say in the Language of Elihu Job 34.31 I have born chastisement I will not offend any more nor provoke God in this manner by my sins to take away my Friends Mortifie therefore your earthly members fornication uncleanness inordinate affection c. Coloss 3.5 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 kill or make dead Pursue these sins with a deadly implacable hatred not only odio aversationis but inimicitiae Oh! let not your sins survive any longer but as they have killed your Friend so let them be buried with him in his Grave Use 4 4. Imitate deceased Friends in what is good There is no Friend so universally bad but there is something of good in him worth imitation some good might be distil'd from him if we put under the fire of Charity Who so deeply buried * Refined Courtier p. 58. saith a learned man under the rubbish of his own ruines that something of goodness may not be discerned by a charitable Surveyor We find David commending Saul in that Panegyrick or Funeral Oration mentioned 2 Sam. 1. Do not like the silly Sheep leaping off a Bridge follow one another in irregular wayes to your destruction Nequaquà m facere nos improbos improbitas debeat aliena Salv. Salv. de Gub. Dei lib. 7 p. 241. What you find in any materially good follow it but chiefly imitate your godly Friends Phil. 3.17 But in as much as they have their failings as pure Gold hath its dross and the purest Wheat its Chaff follow them so far onely as they follow Christ 1 Cor. 11.1 Make then your godly Parents your Paterns as * Mr. Dugard in Epist deâ—icat to his Sermon on Ps 89 48 Constantines Sons are said to resemble him to the life 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Euseb Write after those good Copies which deceased Friends have set you Jerom having read the Life and Death of Hilarion who died Christianly as he lived Religiously Well said he Hilarion shall be the Champion whom I will follow Zeno Cilliaeus consulted with the Oracle how he might live well and he received this answer 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 If he was of the same colour with the dead This he interpreted to mean That he should get and read all the antient Books that he could hear of and then steep and die his mind in those sacred Notions A * Mr. Patrick in his Serm on Psal 90.12 Reverend Divine saith of this Sentence what St. Paul did of Epimenides's Sentence Tit. 1.13 This testimony is true If you would live well Look as like to the dead in the Lord as ever you can and labour to turn your Souls into their shape As living Examples are to be followed so the dead are not to be forgotten Heb. 6.12 Be not slothful but followers of them who through Faith and Patience inherit the Promises It is said of Abel Heb. 11.4 That being dead yet speaketh which as it may be understood of his blood calling for Vengeance Gen. 4.10 Heb. 12.24 So likewise of his example calling for our imitation Heb. 12.1 Well then was thy Friend a strict observer of the Sabbath a constant frequenter of the Ordinances a diligent reader of God's Word a faithful Instructer of his Children and Servants Was he a lover of good Ministers a reliever of good People a reprover of Vice an encourager of Vertue Was he much in praying laborious in his Calling Was he serviceable to his Neighbour faithful to his Friend a forgiver of his Enemies In a word Was he temperate meek patient peaceable humble honest heavenly-minded c If these and the like vertues were conspicuous in thy Friend Go thou and do likewise Luke 10.37 Though your Friend be dead and buried yet let his vertues live in your practice Use 5 5. Admire Gods goodness who as yet continues thee in the land of the Living Life is a mercy that we ought to bless God for Psal 66.8 9. O bless our God ye people and make the voice of his praise to be heard who holdeth our soul in life So Ps 103.1 2 3 4. The Psalmist there amongst other mercies blesseth God for healing his Diseases and redeeming his life from destruction Indeed God's delivering our Soul from Death is an effect of his bounty as ye may gather from Psal 116.7 8. It is of the Lords mercies that we are not consumed Lam. 3.22 For God to maintain that radical moisture that Oyl that feeds the Lamp and Light of thy Life is as * Mr. Goodwin on Rom. 2.4 5. one saith as great a miracle as the maintaining the Oil in the cruse of the poor famished Widow 1 Kings 17.16 When thou therefore hearest of the death of any Friend Neighbour or Relation consider with thy self it might have been thine own case thou art made of no better Mould then he was 'T is God only that preserveth the House of Clay from falling to the ground As thou accompaniest him to the Grave to pay the last office of Love consider thou mightest have been carried forth and others have accompanied thee Is it not a miracle of mercy that the Dart of Death should kill many round about thee and yet miss thee Conclude that the Hand of God guides it and it is his meer mercy that thou art yet spared When Lot as I told you before had his Wife turned into a Pillar of Salt and his Sons in Law swept away by a fearful showr of Fire and Brimstone he took it for a great favour that God had spared his life Gen. 19.19 Behold now thy Servant hath found grace in thy sight and
Tertullian said Nulli rei natus nisi poenitentiae That he was born for penitential sorrow All that are fitted for death are Benoni's Sons of Sorrow and their tears for sin are so many dissolved Pearls Nay they do not only weep for their own sins but likewise for the sins of others So did Ezra Nehemiah Daniel c. They endeavour to wash away those sins with a flood of tears which they cannot bear down with a stream of power Thus did David Psal 119.136 So did Isaiah Isa 6.5 And Jeremiah wisheth his eyes were a Fountain Jer. 9.1 he would have them not to drop as a Limbeck but like a Fountain send forth streams of tears to bewail the sins and miseries of the People So St. Paul could not speak of the sins of others without tears in his eyes Phil. 3.18 Now as St. Ambrose told Monica weeping for her Son Austine Impossibile est tantarum lachrymarum filium perire So may I say to those that weep for their own sins and the sins of others it is impossible they should eternally miscarry Yea Austin himself said of his Mother and other good Women Mulierculae istae lachrymis suis Coelum nobis praeripiunt when we have done all we can with our learning these Women with their tears will get Heaven before us Indeed the way to Heaven is by Weeping-Cross Jacob as you read Gen. 29. could not obtain Rachel till he had first married Leah Heaven is a beautiful place as Rachel was a beautiful person but there is no obtaining it till we have got our eyes bleared Leah-like with penitential tears To end this Christ oft went as we read in the Gospel from Bethanie to Jerusalem So a true Christian must go from the House of Sorrow to the Vision of Peace 3. Preparation for Death consists In forsaking the sins we mourn for 3. Dir. Deplorata relinquendo After you have disgorged your sin by sorrowful confession take heed you turn not again with the Dog to your former vomit 2 Pet. 2.22 which if you do it will highly aggravate your sin not at all ease you of the burthen So saith St. Austin Qui pectus suum tundit se non corriget aggravat peccata non tollit And St. Bernard saith Verus poenitens semper est in labore dolore dolet de praeteritis laborat pro futuris cavendis A true Penitent saith he is full of sorrow and care sorrowful he is for what is past careful he is for the future to avoid the sins he hath sorrowed for And St. Ambrose saith Ille vere plangit commissa qui non committit plangenda He truly lamenteth the sins he hath committed who doth not afterwards commit such things as are to be lamented We ought to renounce all sin Peccatum in deliciis as St. Bernard calls it that darling sin which lies nearest the heart According to our Saviours Precept we should pluck out a right eye and cut off a right hand i. e. Part with sins that are as near and dear unto us as the members of our body Mat. 5.29 30. Col. 3.5 Immedicabile vulnus Ense recidendum est ne pars sincera trahatur Better to part with a gangren'd Member that is offensive then endanger the whole life So it is better for you to leave your dearest sins or the occasions and incentives thereto then that the whole man should be utterly and eternally ruined by them St. * Jerom. lib. 2. Ep. 15. Jerom's counsel is to be followed Nulli parcas ut soli parcas animae Spare not lust but let it be mortified that so thy Soul may be spared for fleshly lusts war against the Soul 1 Pet. 2.11 Say not of any sin as Lot did of Zoar Gen. 19.20 Is it not a little one and my Soul shall live O my Friend there is no little God to sin against no little punishment reserved for any sin for Rom. 6.23 The wages of sin is death 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 It is not said that the wages of this or the other sin is death but of sin indefinitely i. e. of all sin of every sin of any sin Death not onely temporal but eternal too for this is chiefly here meant as it appears by the opposition to eternal life in the Text is as due to every sin lived in as wages is to him that earns it And thereupon St. Austin said Audacior est qui cum uno peccato dormit quà m qui cum septem hostibus He is fool-hardy indeed that can sleep securely in any known sin Even those sins which you count small faults become great by frequent repetition and in a short time lay Conscience waste As small expences multiplied insensibly waste a vast Revenue and therefore saith the same * Aust lib. De decem chordis Father Noli illa contemnere quia minora sunt sed cave quia plura sunt c. What your little sins as you call them want of other sins in weight they make up in number and therefore take heed of them †See Resin'd Courtier Small wounds multiplyed will let out life and a great number of narrow leaks endanger the sinking of the stateliest Ship and several minute drops of Rain swell to an overflowing deluge Ehud kill'd Eglon who was a very fat man with a Dagger of a cubit long as you may read Judg. 3.16 a long Sword could have done no more it may be not so much A Pocket-Pistol Pen-Knife or Stilletto are more dangerous many times than bigger Weapons because not discerned and so no danger is suspected Thus it is with your small sins as you are pleased to call them they are not taken notice of by you and therefore you fear no harm from them whereas indeed because undiscerned they are the more deadly Resolve then with David to refrain thy feet from every evil way Psalm 119.101 Yea to hate every fable way vers 104. Vain thoughts vers 113. as well as lying vers 163. For Jam. 2.10 Whosoever shall keep the whole Law and yet offend in one Point he is guilty of all That is say some he makes it appear that he keeps no Precept in obedience to God for if he did he would refrain from every sin as well as any sin Or according to Dr. Hammond's Paraphrase 'T is but a small excuse for you to think that this is but one transgression and therefore not considerable for obedience to God's Will is required universally to all that he commands and he that offends in one though he keep all the rest is guilty of the breach of that obedience and punishable as well as if he had broken all In vain doth any man hope for Heaven that lives in any known sin 1 John 3.3 He that hath this hope viz. of seeing God in glory vers 2. purifieth himself even as he is pure Heaven is not like your common Inns that receive all commers or like the Ark in which entred both clean and
and tost upon the Waves of a troublesome World Is not this World like a round Ball stuck full of Pins so that upon what part soever the Godly are cast they meet with trouble and misery According to that of our Saviour John 16.33 In the World ye shall have tribulation So that to have his life prolonged what was it but a prolongation of his misery and an adjournment of his happiness Tiberius Caesar said to one that requested death rather than long imprisonment Sueton. Nondum tecum redii in gratiam he told him He had not such a favour for him The like favour God here denies for the present to Epaphroditus and can this be truly call'd a Mercy Answ It cannot be denied but death is better than life to the Godly and rather to be chosen for it frees from sin sickness Satans temptations c. Yea it brings them to the happy vision and fruition of God to the society of blessed Saints and Angels and puts them into possession of everlasting happiness Calvin in Phil. 2.27 Longum esset enumerare omnia quae faciunt ut mors fidelibus potior sit vitâ optabilior Yet for all this as that learned Author saith Vita per se aestimata est praeclarum Dei beneficium praesertum qui Christo vivunt iis vitam lucro esse dicimus Life considered in it self is a choice mercy of God and advantagious to the Godly And to glorifie God in this bodily life is Non parva dignatio no little savour which God vouchsafeth to us so Calvin And Musculus Muscul in Phil. 2.27 saith Mors ipsa quatenus est peccati stipendium horribilis naturae in seipsâ considerata capax est misericordiae tà m corà m Deo quà m corà m hominibus Death as it is the wages of sin and terrible to nature is capable of mercy both before God and Man Besides as the same Author observes there were several circumstances which would have rendered his death in a sort miserable and no doubt did then trouble his mind Desolatio videlicet perturbatio Ecclesiae as the too much dejection of his people at the sad news of his death and the desolation that might follow upon it and withal the consideration that he could be no longer serviceable to them and to the Apostle in his bonds which he much desired Besides we may farther add that the continuance of a good mans life is a great blessing in this respect that the longer he lives the more good he doth and so his reward will be the greater 2 Cor. 9.6 He that soweth bountifully shall reap bountifully There are degrees of glory as may be gathered from 1 Cor. 15.41 42. 1 Cor. 3.8 Secundum non propter opera The most gracious here shall be most glorious hereafter Those that do most for God here shall receive most from God hereafter So that had Epaphroditus died he had had his reward the sooner but living he makes it the greater For those of the longest standing and greatest proficiency in the School of Grace here shall take the greatest degrees of Glory hereafter I end this with the words of that truly pious and learned * Doctor Hammond in Phil. 1.22 Divine Life in it self and for the advantages of serving God and encreasing our Crown is a desirable thing Use and Application Vse 1 1. This may serve to confute or reprove the Manichees or any others that hold this present life in it self is evil Heming in Phil. 1.17 Manichei hanc praesentem vitam ut malum per se damnarunt Heming Surely God would never have made prolongation of life a motive to obedience as you find Deut. 6.2 30.16 c. so Prov. 3.16 4.10 22. 9.10 11. and elsewhere nor would the Apostle here have reckoned Epaphroditus's recovery amongst the mercies of God if this present life had been evil This is such a mercy we ought to bless God for Psal 66.8 9. O bless our God ye people and make the voice of his praise to be heard who holdeth our soul in life Muscul in Psal 103.3 4. Nè umbrâ quidem corporis nedum vivo ac sano corpore dignus est c. He is not worthy of the shadow and shape of a body much less of a living and healthful body that doth not look upon life and health as mercies Vse 2 2. This consideration should make us patient under afflictions that befal us So long as we have life and health we have no cause to complain as though God dealt hardly with us We read Gen. 19. that Lot had most of his Goods which he had not time to remove and his Sons in Law consumed in a fearful fire from Heaven and his Wife turned into a Pillar of Salt before his eyes a sad spectacle yet he counted it a mercy amidst manifold miseries that God had spared his life Vers 19. Behold now thy Servant hath found grace in thy sight and thou hast magnified thy mercy which thou hast shewed unto me in saving my life It is a mercy thou hast thy health but if this be gone after loss of Goods and Children as in Job's case yet it is a mercy thy life is spared that thou art on this side the Grave and a sad eternity Lam. 3.22 23. It is of the Lords mercies that we are not consumed because his compassions fail not they are new every morning great is thy faithfulness Therefore as he adds vers 39. Wherefore doth a living man complain A living man hath cause to be thankful but none to murmur life and health being the choicest of outward mercies 3. and last Vse 3. And lastly Let us not if life and health be such choice mercies provoke God to deprive us of them Sin as I told you before is the procuring cause of sickness yea and of death too Rom. 5.12 so Rom. 6.23 Death both Temporal and Eternal is as due to sin as wages to him that earns them Temporal Death 't is true sooner or later will seize on us all yet many by sinning impair their health and shorten their dayes as these places shew Job 15.32 Psal 94.23 Prov. 10.27 Eccles 7.17 But more particularly I shall name several sins some of which in their own nature tend to impairing of health and shortening a mans dayes and others of them God hath threatned with destruction I pray you observe them and learn to avoid them as you love prolongation of health and life 1. Disobedience to Superiours See Exod. 20.12 This fiffh Commandement of honouring thy Father and Mother is said to be the first Commandement with promise Ephes 6.2 It is the first Commandement that hath this special promise annexed to it viz. Prolongation of dayes By Father and Mother we understand Political Ecclesiastical and Natural Parents Take heed then of an irreverent and disobedient carriage towards the King and those that are in authority under him You read Numb 16.
lest I should exceed the bounds of an Epistle craving your Lordships Patronage and Acceptance of these my Labours I take leave and rest My Lord Your Honours most humbly devoted Servant Tho. Allestree Ashow Jan. 27. 1670. To the Reader Courteous Reader SOme judicious Divines have looked upon these following Notes as a Talent not to be buried in a Napkin or in a few sheets of Paper in my Study I therefore resolved at last to press them for publick service This I can say I have not offered thee that which cost me nothing I have spent much time and labour in the composure of this following Treatise What I have met with in reading that might serve for my present purpose I have digested into a method for thy benefit and the principal Quotations I have set down A Posy is not cast away because made up of several Flowers nor Honey distasted which the diligent Bee gathers here and there nor I hope wilt thou like this Book the worse because there are several Quotations in it The former part of this Funeral Handkerchief may teach thee to take patiently the death of Friends We read Act. 19.12 That frō the body of Paul were brought to the sick Handkerchiefs or Aprons and the Diseases departed from them and the evil spirits went out of them This Handkerchief brought to thee from mine hand may through Gods blessing be a means to cure thee of melancholly immoderate sorrow discontent and such like distempers of spirit which may arise at death of Friends and Relations Mine Arguments are grounded upon Divine Writ And as David said of the Sword of Goliah 1 Sam. 21.9 There is none like that give it me So say I of Scripture-Arguments there are none like them These are right words and so the more perswasive Job 6.25 How forcible are right words The latter part of this Treatise may teach thee several good uses which thou oughtest to make of the death of Friends and Relations The first part is far larger than the second what though A large first makes recompence for the shorter second Course at any mans Table And this I also say That though the first part be greater in bulk yet the latter is of greater worth both parts I hope may in some measure answer expectation as to what they promise but the latter chiefly if thou livest up to it may be a means to promote thy eternal Salvation which is the hearty desire of Thy faithful Friend and Servant T. 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The Porch Entrance or Preface to to the ensuing Discourse WHen a Friend is going a long Journey it is a commendable piece of civility to go with him some part of the way and to weep at parting so civil were the people to St. Paul Act. 20.37 38. they accompanied him to the ship and wept over him So when our Friends depart and go to their long-home from whence they shall never return till time shall be no more is it not good manners to accompany them to the Grave and shed some tears for them whom we shall see no more with mortal eyes Eccl. 12.5 Man goeth to his long-home and the Mourners go about the streets The Jews were wont to hire Mourners 2 Chron. 35.25 Jer. 9.17 18. Amos 5.16 and for the most part they were women called in Latin Praeficae They profest an Art in Mourning and composing doleful Ditties And for the greater solemnity persons of worth or estate would hire them to accompany the Hearse and they would mourn for the Dead with such affection gesture and lamentation that they would cause others to mourn for company We find Eccles 7.2 4. the Wise-man calling the house where one dies the house of Mourning which he would not do if it were not lawful to mourn upon such an occasion We reade in Scripture how Abraham mourned for Sarah Gen. 23.2 Joseph for his Father Jacob Gen. 50.10 The Israelites wept for Moses Deut. 34.8 so for Samuel 1 Sam. 25.1 Elisha cryes after Elijah 2 King 2.12 Jeremiah weeps for Josiah 2 Chro. 35.25 And under the New-Testament we find Act. 8.2 devout man carried Stephen to his Burial and made great Lamentation over him And Act. 9.36 37 39. We find there the Widows embalming charitable Dorcas in tears And before this we reade how Martha and Mary wept sore for their Brother Lazarus John 11.19 31 33. Nay Christ himself wept v. 35. and the Jews interpreted it as an argument of his love to Lazarus v. 36. so that civility custom and love to deceased Friends call for weeping upon such an occasion It is pronounced as a judgment upon wicked men when relations shed not a tear nor pay a solemn sigh but are rather glad to be rid of them Job 27.15 Psa 78.64 so God threatned Jehoiakim that he should die unlamented and be buried with the burial of an Ass Jer. 22. 18
19. Herod looked on it so sad to die unlamented that he gave express command that when he died one of every Noble Family in his kingdom should be slain Dr. Abbot 6th Lect. on Jonah p. 124.1 that by that means his death might of necessity be lamented if not for love of him as the Tyrant had no reason to expect yet for the loss of others Joseph Antiquit. The saying of Solon Dr. Willet on Gen. p. 251. Mors mea non careat Lachrymis and let not my death want tears so it be done temperately is to be preferred before that of Ennius Nemo me lachrymis decoret Let no man mourn for me He hath lived Tellius inutile pondus a very unprofitable wretch who being dead is carried forth as servants carry out the sweepings of the House or guts of Birds or entrails of Beasts without any shew of sorrow Tears then at death of Friends are silent expressions of the usefulness of our dead Friend whilest living and of our value and esteem of him And if we seriously consider losses of this nature how can we chuse but weep For a wife to lose her husband the Guide of her Youth Pro. 2.7 who was a shield to defend her or as the Sun to chear her Gen. 37.9 10. must needs be a bitter loss So for a Husband to lose his Wife the Wife of his Youth Prov. 5.18 or the Wife of his Bosom Mic. 7.5 the desire of his eyes Ezek. 24.16 18. must needs be a bitter loss So for Parents to lose Children who have their being from them and from whom they expect comfort in their old age must needs be a bitter loss So how can Children chuse but weep at death of Parents to lose a Father that begot them Prov. 23.22 and took pains to provide for them 1 Tim. 5.8 so to lose a dear Mother that bare them nine months in her belly twelve months in her arms and many years in her mind and care must needs be a bitter loss Yet the Apostle in the catalogue of offenders that should come in the last dayes and surely ours are the last tells us of some that shall be 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 2 Tim. 3.3 without natural affection unnatural to Relations whilst living and when dead as if their hearts were hewen out of a Rock they are unmoved they can with dry eyes and cheeks behold the Funeral Solemnities of Parents Children Husband Wife c. without any shew of sorrow Though God strikes them through their Relations yet they have not grieved Jer. 5.3 let such consider that of the Psalmist Psal 28.5 because they regard not the works of the Lord nor the operations of his hands he shall destroy them and not build them up God there threatens such as are affected with sad passages of his providence the chief of which we conclude are loss of Friends and Relations The Poet had observed an unnatural Son that before the time would be enquiring into his Father's age Filius ante diem Patrios inquiret in annos He would have his Father wrapt up in his winding-sheet 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Mixtus fletui risus Sphinx Philos p. 316. that he might rip open his Baggs would have him in his Coffin that he might enter into his Coffers And when the time of his Fathers interment is at hand which to him comes never sooner than expected or desired this unnatural Son it may be goes clothed in black having a light and merry heart under a sad and mournful habit So many Wives that have lived it may be too loosly and wantonly at their husbands death like that woman that Joab sent for 2 Sam. 14.2 feigh themselves to be Mourners and put on monring Apparel Thus Bathsheba's mourning for her husband Uriah 2 Sam. 11.26 is thought by some to be hypocritical for by his death she was freed from her husbands rage from shame and punishment which she justly deserved and withal she had hopes to become a Queen as indeed she did But let such hypocritical Mourners consider without repentance their portion will be with Hypocrites where Mat. 24.51 there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth In Hell there is weeping in good earnest And every tear shed is so far from quenching Hell-fire that like Oyl it will encrease the flame thereof and here I leave such unnatural wretches On the other side some there are that at death of Friends weep immoderately they weep till they can weep no more as the expression is 1 Sam. 30.4 they are so impatient that for ever after they lead disconsolate lives sitting daily inter suspiria lachrymas sighing sobbing and sorrowing they are so discomposed that they cannot as the Apostle commands attend upon the Lord without distraction 1 Cor. 7.35 They cannot pray nor meditate nor give thanks to God with that fixedness and composure as they ought to do Psal 57.7 And it may be they forbear going to Church because they cannot endure the sight of their friends grave Nay further they are not only inwardly pensive but outwardly passionate they fill Heaven and Earth with Exclamations Horrendis gravitèr Coelum pulsâsse querelis And many times passionate unsavory Speeches the scum of a discontented spirit proceed from them as from Jonah when his Gourd withered Jonah 4.8 9. He wish'd himself dead and tells God He did well to be angry even unto death St. Austin speaking of his Mothers Death said Aug. Confess lib 9 cap. 12. Oculi mei resorbebant fontem suum usque ad siccitatem His eyes had drained his very Fountains dry so excessive he was in weeping Indeed this hath been an infirmity in the best of men and women See Jacob at the supposed death of Joseph Gen. 37.33 34 35. He rent his clothes and put sackcloth upon his loins and mourned for his son many dayes and all his sons and all his daughters rose up to comfort him but he refused to be comforted and he said For I will go down into the grave unto my son mourning thus his father wept for him His mourning like the swelling of Jordan Jer. 12.5 impetuously passed the banks of Reason So if mischief saith he befal Benjamin by the way in which ye go then shall ye bring down my gray hairs with sorrow to the grave Gen. 42.38 So David hearing news of the untimely death of Absalom the text tells you ◠Sam. 18.33 The king was much moved and went up to the chamber over the gate and as he went thus he said O my son Absalom my son my son Absalom would God I had died for thee O Absalom my son my son David is too excessive in his grief and speaks things that were not fitting as passionate men use to do Would God I had died for thee Why David what would have become of the Kingdom what miseries would it have been involved in if Absalom had survived The violence of Passion here makes David forget himself Gods
as my Husband my Wife my Father my Mother my Brother my Sister my Son my Daughter my Friend c. Whereas the truth is they are not ours but Gods he is the absolute owner of them he made them and hath freely lent them to us without any certain time or date or promise of continuance and what is lent freely we cannot deny but may be call'd for most justly at the pleasure of him that lent it May not God most justly say as the Owner of the Vineyard to the murmuring Labourer Mat. 20.15 Is it not lawful for me to do what I will with mine own Well then we hold our Friends non jure sed gratis not by a juridical right but upon favour and courtisie and if we enjoyed our Relations some time we should be thankful to God that hath lent them to us so long rather then murmur that he takes them so soon St. Jerome comforting Paula for the death of her Daughter Bresilla said Durum quidem sed tolerabile quia sustulit ille qui dederat It was a heavy loss but to be born patiently because he took that gave at first This comforted Job when amongst other things he had lost his Children Job 1.21 22. The Lord gave and the Lord hath taken away blessed be the Name of the Lord. Job considered that God had taken but what he gave at first and so doth thankfully resign up his losses to him Consid 3 Thirdly consider God hath a hand in death of Friends Psal 31.15 My times are in thy hand saith David times of plenty and times of poverty times of health and times of sickness living times and dying times are in the hand i. e. of the disposal of God He measures time of life in what proportion he pleaseth to some he gives a large piece to others a small remnant Job 7.1 Is there not an appointed time to man upon earth Here he puts it by way of question but Job 14.5 There he puts it out of question and takes it for granted That mans dayes are determined the number of his moneths are with thee O Lord thou hast appointed his bounds that he cannot pass So that when a Friend departs that 's the time that God hath appointed So it is said of David Acts 8.36 After he had served his own generation by the will of God fell asleep c. Will of God may be annexed to his falling asleep as well as serving his generation he dyed then by the will of God and was gathered to his Fathers and saw corruption Job saith Job 30.23 I know that thou wilt bring me unto death and to the house appointed for all living Naomi said when she was deprived of her Husband and two Sons in a strange Land The Almighty hath dealt very bitterly with me and the Lord hath testifyed against me and the Almighty hath afflicted me Ruth 1.5 20 21. compared So Moses speaking of the frailty and shortness of mans life saith Thou turnest man to destruction and sayest Return ye children of men Psal 90.3 Gods dixit is his fecit as in the first Creation he said Let there be light and there was light Gen. 1.3 So God here saith Return i. e. he makes them to return viz. to their Original The Body to the earth and the Spirit to him that gave it Eccles 12.7 So David tells us God takes away mens breath and then they dye and return to their dust Psal 104.29 God indeed is the orderer and ordainer of all conditions 1 Sam. 2.6 The Lord killeth and maketh alive he brings down to the grave and bringeth up So Isa 45.7 I form the light and create darkness I make peace and create evil I the Lord do all these things Our Saviour tells us not a Sparrow falls to the ground nor a hair from our heads without the overruling providence of God Mat. 10.29 30. Here is Argumentum a minore ad majus If not a Sparrow a bird of small price and account or an Hair which is no essential part but made for convenience and ornament if these fall not to the ground without the will of our heavenly Father surely a Friend cannot dye but God wills it Let us then at loss of Friends patiently submit to Gods will The Heathenish Idolaters were loth to cast Jonah overboard but when they had cast lots and found it to be Gods will it should be so they patiently submitted 1 Jonah 13.14 Let not Heathens outstrip Christians Let us say with Christ John 18.11 The Cup which my Father hath given me shall I not drink it See Jobs carriage Job 1.20 21 22. He fell down and worshipped not murmured he charged not God foolishly by railing as though he dealt unjustly with him but saith The Lord hath given and the Lord hath taken He saw the hand of God in whatever befel him and this was a strong pillar of supportment to his drooping spirit It is no striving against the stream or current of Gods powerful will Job 9.4 Isa 45.9 Let Gods authority over thee prevent impatience in thee God who doth what he will and will do what he pleaseth Psal 115.3 So Psal 135.6 He takes away and none can hinder him who will say unto him What dost thou Job 9.12 Say then when a Friend is dead Truly this is a grief yet I must bear it Jer. 10.19 And as Seneca saith Aequum est ut patientèr feras quicquid corrigere est nefas It is but fit to bear that patiently which we cannot remedy Consid 4 Fourthly consider God intends it for thy good Psal 119.68 Thou art good O Lord and doest good So vers 75. I know O Lord that thy judgments are right and that thou in faithfulness hast afflicted me So Psal 145.17 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Misericors The Lord is righteous in all his wayes and holy or according to Orig. merciful in all his works Plutarch in his Epistle consolatory to his Wife on the death of a Child amongst others hath this Argument We must always think well of what the Gods do Christians should consider that God in the saddest passages of his providence aims at their good Though indeed his ways be sometimes hidden yet they are alway just When clouds and darkness are round about him then righteousness and judgment are the habitation of his Throne Psal 97.2 Though his Providences sometimes seem to cross his Promises yet in the conclusion you shall see all things work together for good as Physick works for the good of the Patient Rom. 8.28 Every Rod like Jonathans 1 Sam. 14.27 hath Honey at the end of it All things even loss of Friends work together for good to those that love God We read how Sampson fetch'd Honey out of the carcase of the Lyon Judg. 14.8 9. So may we find or fetch good instructions from the Carcase of a deceased Friend God it may be took away such or such a Relation as the Widow of Sarepta said when
rest from their labours 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 signifies both 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Serm. 46. Orig. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 as from troubles of condition so from labours of calling as from pain so from pains-taking Mors remedium potiùs poenae quam vindicta culpae saith St. Ambrose for a punishment was it said to man In the sweat of thy brows thou shalt eat thy bread i. e. get thy living but for his comfort was it added until thou return to the Earth for then no more toyling wearying our selves about the things of the world Our sweat aswel as our tears shall then be wiped away Death gives a Quietus est it brings to rest The body shall no longer be worn with care when laid up in the common Wardrobe of the Grave 7. From Ignorance Job 11.12 Man is born like a wild Asses Colt he is a rude and silly creature The most intelligent person may complain with Agur of his bruitishness Prov. 30.2 David compares himself to a worm Psal 22.6 which is a poor sandblind creature The best are ignorant of far more things than they know Maxima pars eorum quae scimus est minima pars eorum quae nescimus Our understanding naturally is darkned and we are alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in us Ephes 4.18 The Devil who was a lyar from the beginning told our first Parents Gen. 3.5 In the day ye eat thereof your eyes shall be opened and ye shall be as Gods knowing good and evil As though the Tree of Knowledge should be Eye-bright to them but alas by this means they lost their spiritual eye-sight Ever since the fall the Lamp of Reason burns dim how busie is Man to gain a little knowledge and after all his industry how staggering is he in the apprehension of Truth Even God's dear Children whilst in this world see many things darkly 1 Cor. 13.12 Orig. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 many things seem to be a riddle and mystery to them which they cannot unfold here they meet with Arcana Naturae Scripturae Providentiae many knots in Nature Scripture and Providence which they cannot untye but hereafter when the dust of mortality is wiped from their eyes and they placed in Heaven then shall they see face to face and know even as they are known then shall they perfectly recover their eye-sight and have the perfect use of their reason In tuo Lumine videbimus lumen In thy Light we shall see light Psal 36.9 And this Light shall be clear without any mixture of Errour 8. And lastly Death frees Believers from Death As it was with Christ the Head being raised from the dead dieth no more death hath no more dominion over him Rom. 6.9 so it is with the members being once dead they die no more Indeed while they live here they die daily 1 Cor. 15.31 for our life is in a dying condition Infancy dies in childhood childhood in youth youth in manhood manhood in old age we are never at one stay till dust return to dust But when the Righteous die then they live Rev. 21.4 There shall be no more death Mr. Hill Life-Everlasting p. 75. So that as the Greek Critick said of the Bow 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 the name signifies life but the work was death We may say the contrary of Death 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Its name is Death but it brings to Life everlasting 2 Cor. 5.4 Mortality at death is swallowed up of Life I come now to the positive benefit that a Believer receiveth by death But here I may take up that doleful Query of the captivated Jews Psal 137.4 How shall we sing the Lord's song in a strange Land how should we who are but strangers and pilgrims here on Earth 1 Chron. 29.15 speak of the happiness that Believers are enstated in when this life is ended Had I the tongue of glorified Angels I could not fully express it and had you the hearts of glorified Saints ye could not fully conceive it David cryes out O how great as not able to express it is thy goodness which thou hast laid up for them that fear thee Psal 31.19 And Isaiah saith Isa 64.4 Since the beginning of the World men have not heard nor perceived by the ear neither hath the eye seen O God besides thee what he hath prepared for him that waiteth for him And St. John the beloved Disciple that lay in his Master's bosom John 13.23 and 21.20 a place near his heart thence drank deep of the heavenly wisdom tells us Nemo scit Rev. 2.17 No man knows it but he that receives it St. Paul tells us 1 Cor. 2.9 Eye hath not seen nor ear heard neither have entred into the heart of man the things which God hath prepared for them that love him Yea the same person caught up into Paradise 2 Cor. 12.4 tells us he heard 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 unspeakable words which it is not lawful or possible for a man to utter Whatever you reade of Heaven or future happiness either in this or any other Book whatever you hear of it either from me or any other person falls infinitely short of it and you 'l confess as much when you come to Heaven As the Queen of Sheba said 1 King 10.4 5 6 7. when she had seen all Solomon's Wisdom and the House that he had built c. she said to the King It was a true report that I heard in mine own Land of thy Acts and of thy Wisdom howbeit I believed not the words until I came and mine eyes had seen it and behold the half was not told me thy Wisdom and thy Prosperity exceedeth the Fame which I heard So when a Child of God shall come to Heaven and behold a far greater than Solomon Mat. 12.42 even the Lord JESUS hee 'l find that not a quarter of the joy and glory of Heaven was told him All that we can hear speak or conceive of it is but as a drop to the main ocean Yet we who have the Light of God's Word gloriously shining amongst us cannot be altogether in darkness as to the Inheritance of the Saints in light Col. 1.12 God's little Children for so Believers are called 1 Joh. 2.12 can lisp forth something though but little concerning their Father's Kingdom To give you then a glimpse for a full sight here is impossible of the happiness that Death invests a Believer in 1. It brings to the beatifical vision and fruition of the blessed Trinity so far as a * Dr. Sclaters Fun. Serm. on 2 Tim. 4.7 8. finite being for our humane nature continues still though glorified may be capable to apprehend of that Majesty which is infinite See Mat. 5.8 John 17.24 2 Cor. 5.8 We reade Gen. 41.14 how Joseph was brought hastily out of the Dungeon and came in unto Pharaoh King of Egypt Sure I am the soul of a Believer is no
sooner let out of the prison of the body but is brought to Heaven the Presence-Chamber of God who is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords where we shall see him as he is so saith St. John 1 Joh. 3.2 And St. Paul tells us 1 Cor. 13.12 We shall see him face to face and know◠him even as we are known 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 as * Mr. Abr. Wright's Serm. on Luk. 16.9 one observes is Nota similitudinis non aequalitatis As God knows me so shall I know God but I shall not know God so as God knows me It is not quantum but sicut not as much but as truly as the Fire doth as truly shine as the Sun shines though it shine not out so far nor to so many purposes Believers at death know God perfectly though not comprehensively for as †Mr. Frost at the end of his Serm on Acts 17.23 another Divine saith well God is infinitae Veritatis Cognoscibilitatis as well as Entitatis and so must either lay aside his Infinity and cease to be God or elevate us above the condition of finite creatures before we can be capable of any comprehensive vision which supposeth an equal commensuration between the object and the faculty but we shall know God so fully see Christ so face to face as that we shall be perfectly happy The Wisemen rejoyced to see the Star that directed to Christ Mat. 2.10 What exceeding Joy will it then be to see the Sun of Righteousness for so Christ is called Mal. 4.2 Old Simeon upon the sight of Christ in the flesh got him into his arms and desired to die Luke 2.28 29. We reade of some John 12.21 that came to Philip and said Sir we would see Jesus And to see Christ in the flesh was one of the three things St. Austin much desired And we read John 20.20 The Disciples were glad when they saw the Lord. It was matter of joy to them to see Christ after he was risen from the dead Now if it was so joyfull a sight to see Christ in the flesh and to see him after he was risen before his Ascension What a joyful sight will it be to see Christ in Glory sitting at his Father's right-hand If the enjoyment of God's Spirit in the Ordinances be so sweet to a Child of God that one dayes communion with God there is better than a thousand Psal 84.10 what will it be to enjoy the immediate Presence of God for ever here the Soul 's Beloved shews himself as it were through the Lattice Cant. 2.9 for clear visions of God are too glorious for this state but hereafter he will shew sorth himself in his full glory To end this Moses prayed Lord shew me thy Glory Exod. 33.18 To whom God answered v. 20. Thou canst not see my face for there shall no man see me and live Whereupon St. Austin meditating cryed out Moriar Domine ut te videam Lord let me die that I may see thee So that you see Death brings a Believer to a sight of him 2. Death brings a Believer to the society of glorified Saints and Angels Heb. 12.22 23. When godly Friends depart they go to better company from Church-militant to Church-triumphant We find Gen. 15.15 compared with Gen. 25.8 Abraham was gathered to godly Fathers Adam Seth Enoch Noah c. that went before him So it is said Isa 57.1 The Righteous perisheth and no man layeth it to heart and merciful men are taken away none considering that the Righteous is taken away from the evil to come The righteous man's perishing is but a taking away Or according to the Original 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Collecti a gathering to their Fathers and godly Friends Many shall come saith Christ from the East and from the West yea and from the North and South from all the quarters of the World Luke 13.28 29. and shall sit down with Abraham Isaac and Jacob in the Kingdome of Heaven Mat. 8.11 I have read how Cato comforted himself in his old age with this consideration that he should depart from the rude multitude and go to the company of blessed Souls O praeclarum diem cum ad illud animorum concilium coetumque proficiscar cum ex hâc turbâ colluvione discedam And Socrates dying rejoyced to go to the place where he should see Homer Hesiod and other Worthies who lived in the Age before him Sure it will be very comfortable to Believers to see Abraham Isaac and Jacob Job David St. Paul St. Austin St. Jerom and innumerable others in the Kingdom of Heaven where joyntly with the blessed Angels as so many Quiristers they sing continually divine Anthems of praise Rev. 4.8 10 11. 19.4 5. David counted the Godly The only Excellent in whom was all his delight Psal 16.3 If it be so delightful to be in company with them here where the best of their actions are mingled with many imperfections Oh! how delightful will it be to be in their company in Heaven where they serve God perfectly without sinning day and night in his Temple Rev. 7.15 We find Luke 16 2◠how that Lazarus departed is carried by the Angels into Abrahams bosom and then v. 25. It is said he is comforted And no wonder for if to be with glorified Saints and blessed Angels be not a comfort I pray you tell me what is 3dly and lastly Death brings a Believer to joy unspeakable We read Heb. 12.2 Christ for the joy that was set before him endured the Cross And Saints are said Rev. 7.9 13. To be cloathed in white Robes Now white as it is an Emblem of purity so likewise of joy And this heavenly joy is so great Dr. Stuarts Cathol Divinity pag. 249 250. that we cannot express it St. Austine said of Jerome Quae Hieronymus nescivit nullus hominum unquam scivit that which Jerome knew not no man ever knew And St. Cyril said also to St. Austin in magnifying St. Jerome That when a Catholick Priest disputed with an Heretick and cited a passage of St. Jerome and the Heretick said Jerome lyed instantly he was struck dumb Yet of the joy of Heaven this learned St. Jerome would adventure to say nothing no not when he was divested of his mortal Body for as soon as he dyed at Bethleem he came instantly to Hippo St. Austins Bishoprick and though he told him Hieronymi anima sum I am the soul of that Jerome to whom thou art now writing o◠the joys and glory of Heaven Mr. Abr. Wright's Serm. on Luk. 16.9 yet he said no more then this Quid quaeris brevi immittere vasculo totum mare Why goest thou about to pour the whole Sea into a Thimble this is easier than to comprehend the joy and glory of Heaven in this Life If all sublunary delights were put together yet were they but as a Candle to the Sun or Drop to the main Ocean if compared with Heavenly joyes And
whatever we deliver on this point comes as far short of the Truth it self as the Picture of the Sun in the Wall doth of the greatness and brightness of it in its Orbe Gaudium erit in fine sed gaudium erit sine fine Bern. It shall be joy in the end but joy without end Carnal joy of wicked men is bruitish and sensual Eccles 2.2 I said of laughter it is mad and of mirth what doth it It is neither true nor lasting It is not true for saith the same wise-man In the midst of laughter the heart is sorrowful Prov. 14.13 Nor is it lasting for The pleasures of sin are but for a season Heb. 11.25 But now heavenly joy is both true and lasting For Psal 16.11 In thy presence is fulness of joy and at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore And Psal 36.8 9. They shall be abundantly satisfied with the fatness of thy house and thou shalt make them drink of the River of thy pleasures for with thee is the fountain of Life They shall lye at the fountain and be for ever bathing themselves in Rivers of Pleasures that flow from the everlasting Fountain The joy that comes streaming into the soul of a Believer that hath made his peace with God it passes all understanding Phil. 4.7 It is joy unspeakable and full of glory 1 Pet. 1.8 Yet this is but a dark representation of heavenly joy God indeed gives his People here a little of the hidden Manna of joy but hereafter he will give into their bosoms good measure pressed down shaken together and running over as expression is Luke 6.38 Tanta est dulcedo coelestis gaudii saith St. Austin ut si una guttula diffluerit in infernum totam amaritudinem inferni absorberet The joyes of heaven saith * Mr. Strode's Anatom of Mortality p. 294 295. another are so many that God only can number them so great that he onely can aestimate them of such variety and perfection that this world hath nothing comparable unto them they are so great that they cannot be measured so long that they cannot limitted so many that they cannot be numbred so pretious that they cannot be valued yet we shall see them without weariness love them without measure and praise them without end It is such joy as our Lord and Master hath And because too great to enter into us he bids us enter into it Mat. 25.23 Well done good and faithful servant enter thou into the joy of thy Lord. O joy surpassing all other joy when shall I enjoy thee Thus courteous Reader I have like the searchers of Canaan brought thee a cluster of Grapes a taste as it were of the plentiful Vintage which thou mayest expect in the heavenly Canaan Now considering these manifold benefits that come by death both privative and positive we may conclude on better grounds than the heathen did that the dead are blessed Faelices nimiùm quibus est fortuna peracta Jam sua Blessed they are and that by a voice from heaven who dye in the Lord Rev. 14.13 In Domino i. e. in Domini favore Happy they are that dye in the Lords favour Death is so sanctified in Christs death that of a curse it is changed into a blessing Christ tasted deaths bitter Cup and suck'd out the venom of it Now then to conclude this Chapter if death be so advantagious to Believers upon the account of Christ Let us not sorrow as without hope for those that sleep in him 1 Thes 4.13 14. If the dead in the Lord could speak they would say as our Saviour did to the women that lamented him Luke 23.27 28. Weep not for me but weep for your selves and for your Children You and yours are in the valley of Bochim subject to sin sorrow devils assaults wicked mens rage suspensions of the light of Gods countenance c. weep then for your selves and your children that are thus tossed upon the waves of a troublesome world but weep not for us who are at rest in the Haven of Heaven Me-thinks dear Friends these several Considerations as Davids Harp should charm down all passions and distempers of spirit that arise at loss of Friends They may be called Eshcol for they are a whole cluster of Grapes Numb 13.24 Press them by Meditation and squeeze out the wine that is in them to your comfort CHAP. III. Several Apologies answered NOtwithstanding what I have said to make us patient at death of Friends me thinks I hear several complaining every one thinking their burthen greatest and they want not arguments and pleas to aggravate their sorrows Every sin hides it self under some Fig-leaf Excuse and this sin of Discontent at death of Friends hath several Apologies Let us discuss the chief of them I know most commonly sorrow stops its ears against the sweet charmes of Reason yet for father satisfaction of the discontented I shall give in Replys to several Pleas and according to my ability I shall faithfully debate the case And to begin first with complaints that Parents take up at loss of Children for they usually are most discontented One cryes out My Child was still-born or died presently after it was born 1. Apology answ and which most of all troubles me it died unbaptized Answer To have a Child still-born or suddenly expiring is matter of grief especially to the female Parent Our Saviour observes John 16.21 A woman when she is in travel hath sorrow because her hour is come but as soon as she is delivered of her child she remembreth no more the anguish for joy that a man is born into the world The sight of a living child is the best cordial that can be given to a fainting woman under her pain and travel but if the child be still-born or suddenly expiring the pangs of grief conceived hereat are greater to the tender mother than pangs of travel For the former pangs at most do but rend the flesh but these inward throes do tear the very soul Luk. 2.35 Yet for your comfort consider these ensuing particulars 1. Consider He that hath taken this Child away can give another God gave Eve another seed another son instead of Abel Gen. 4. last God took away Job's children as you reade Job 1. but he gave him as many more afterwards Job 42.13 God's hand is not shortned nor grows he infirm in the latter end of the world He can do the like for thee if it please him 2. Consider If your Child had lived Moses-like it had been exposed to the water of Affliction For as St. Austin saith Aug. Ser. de bono pat Infans nondum loquitur tamen prophetat The poor Infant that cannot speak yet by crying when it comes into the world prophesies of its future condition as very lamentable It cryes as soon as born and cannot laugh as some observe till it hath been forty dayes in the world And little cause it has God-wot to laugh then for
the Righteous when the night of Death approachcth after all their hardship and sore labours have their bodies laid down to rest in the Grave where they sleep quietly until the Resurrection Chear up then ye Servants of the Lord under all your Grievances your Afflictions cannot continue long because your life is short See 1 Cor. 7.29 30. Weep as if you wept not for it will be shortly better with you than now it is God will wipe away all tears from your eyes Rev. 7.17 21.4 As Athanasius said of his Banishment so may you of your Affliction what ever it be * Bp. Pilkington on Neh. 4.16 it is but Nubecula cito transitura a little Cloud that will soon be dissipated and blown over Niceph. 10. cap. 19. Thus as the Psalmist saith Psal 30.5 Weeping may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning After a wet night of Affliction comes a bright morning of Consolation which no night shall ever overtake Though Spectacles of Mortality administer Comfort to the Righteous under Affliction yet they may strike terror into the hearts of impenitent Wretches for they may reade their own death in the death of their Friends They must shortly die aswell as others Job 24.24 Psal 37.35 36. 49.10 And though Death put a period to the sorrows of the Righteous yet it is an inlet to the wicked man's misery See Job 20.5 6 c. The Lord laughs at the cruel wicked man for he seeth that his day is coming Psal 37.13 The day of vengeance is drawing on therefore envy him not v. 1 2. Neither be afraid of him Isa 51.12 To end this we read Dan. 5.5 6. There came forth fingers of a mans hand and wrote over against the Candlestick upon the plaister of the wall of the Kings Palace and the King saw the part of the hand that wrote These fingers did not snuff the Candle of Belshazzars joy to make it burn the brighter but quite put it out for the King's countenance was changed and his thoughts troubled him so that the joints of his bones were loosed and his knees smote one against another Methinks every Spectacle of Mortality should be to wickedmen as this Hand-writing upon the wall to Belshazzar It should make them crest-faln stand in fear For Death like Israels Pillar of the Cloud Exod. 14.20 as it brings Light to the Godly so Darkness to the Wicked Prov. 13.9 The Light of the Righteous rejoyceth but the Lamp of the Wicked shall be put out Use 12 12. Let death of Friends make us careful to do all good with as much speed as we can It is said Gen. 47.29 The time drew nigh that Israel must die So the time of thy Departure draws nigh therefore whatever thine hand finds to do do it with all thy might Eccl. 9.10 hide not thy Talent in a Napkin thou knowest not how soon thou mayest be called to an account assure thy self when a night of Death comes no man can work John 9.4 Why stand you idle the day of your life being for ought ye know well-nigh spent A man cannot think to have his money when he hath spent it you cannot spend your time and have it As you have therefore opportunity do good to all especially to them of the houshold of Faith Gal. 6.10 Make to your selves friends of the Mammon of unrighteousness that when ye fail they may receive you into everlasting habitations Luk. 16.9 and as Solomon adviseth Withhold not good from them to whom it is due when it is in the power of thine hand to do it Say not to thy neighbour Go and come again and to morrow I will give when thou hast it by thee Prov. 3.27 28. Be provident to lay up something for Wife and Children Prov. 13.22 1 Tim. 5.8 We hold our life with great uncertainty be careful as may be with a good conscience to lay up something for posterity to live upon Joseph in a time of plenty laid up against dearth and scarcity Gen. 41.48 especially labour to promote the spiritual welfare of Relations and others whom you converse with lead an exemplary life reprove rebuke instruct and pray for them Ministers should do so ex officio they are called and appointed hereunto Isa 58.1 2 Tim. 4.2 Private Christians should likewise do it ex charitate out of christian care and charity Levit. 19.17 so 1 Pet. 4.10 And for encouragement consider Prov. 11.30 He that winneth souls is wise And Dan. 12.3 They that be wise shall shine as the brightness of the Firmament and they that turn many unto righteousness as the Stars for ever and ever So Jam. 5.19 20. Brethren if any of you do err from the truth and one convert him let him know that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death and shall hide a multitude of sins Furthermore if we endeavour the conversion of souls and do not effect it yet the Apostle tels us for our comfort we shall not lose our reward 1 Cor. 3.8 Every man shall receive his own reward according to his own labour It is not said according to success but according to labour Heb. 6.10 God is not unrighteous to forget your work and labour of love This comforted the Prophet Isa 49.4 Then I said I have laboured in vain I have spent my strength for nought and in vain yet surely my judgment is with the Lord and my work or reward with my God However as another Prophet shews Liberavimus animas Ezek. 3.17 18 c. we free our selves from that guilt which we might have contracted through negligence Well then hast thou a treasure of spiritual Wisdom and Grace labour to communicate it betimes for Death ere long may stop either your mouth or the ears of others and then it will be too late to make Dives's motion to forewarn your Brethren lest they come into the place of torment Luke 16. latter end The Apostle Peter was diligent in putting people in remembrance of good things knowing that shortly he must put off his tabernacle 2 Pet. 1.13 14 15. And St. Paul is earnest in his exhortations and spiritual directions to Timothy especially knowing the time of his departure to be at hand 2 Tim. 4.5 6. Mr. Perkins his Motto was Hoc age do the business you are about what concerns you most Abel-Redivivus in Life of Mr. Perkins do it speedily exactly And truly that good man as if presaging that his life was likely to be short for he dyed at the 44th year of his age husbanded his time with double diligence to God's glory and the good of many others Oh then let us consider the taper of our life may be almost spent and therefore tanquam ultimus lucernae fulgor let us now shine most gloriously to the good of others And truly as some think if there were grief in Heaven it would be most of all for this that Believers did no
the Poet to melt into tears saying O ubi Mors non est si jugulatis aquae What cannot make an end of us if a little congealed Water can do it Aeschylus the Tragedian was killed by a Crab-fish which fell from an Eagles talons who mistook as it was thought his bald Head for a Stone If thou stayest within doors thou art not there safe neither The House may fall upon thee as upon Job's Children Fire may burn thee a Spider may poyson thee Or thou mayest have a deadly fall from some upper Room As Ahaziah falling through a Lattess in his upper Chamber fell sick and died 2 Kings 1.2 17 compared And Eutychus falling into a deep-sleep fell down from the third lost and was taken up dead Acts 20.9 Pliny Plin. Nat. Hist lib. 7. cap. 53. reports of Emilius Lepidus that he did but hit his Toe upon the Door-sil yet though the hurt was so far from his heart he died upon it And the same Author tells us That Anacreon the Poet was choaked with the Kernel of a Grape And an Hair in a mess of Milk choaked Fabius See Dr. Abbot on Jonah 4.3 4. Lect. 26. p. 543. And we read elsewhere how a Fly in the Cup choaked Pope Adrian the 4th And Pope Victor was poysoned with Wine and one of the Emperors with the Bread he received in the Sacrament When we lie down to rest we are not sure we shall arise again in safety Sisera slept but never awaked more in this World Judg. 4.21 Benhadad being sick was confined to his Bed yet his sickness was not so destructive to take away his life therefore Hazael that treacherous Servant under pretence of doing him a kindness cunningly stifies him as you may read 2 Kings 8. chap. Furthermore we read in Scripture how Joab was slain at the Altar Zachariah in the Temple Amnon at his Table And prophane stories tell us That Carus the Emperor was slain by a Thunder-bolt so was the Emperor Anastatius Antiochus was murdered in his Coach Domitian in his Chamber Caligula in the Theatre Caesar in the Senate-house and Caracalla was put to death whilst he was about to case Nature Thus we are not safe by Land much less by Sea for there men are within a few inches of Death Qui nescit orare discat navigare The Poet said Illi robur as triplex circa pectus qui fragilem commisit pelago ratem Hor. He was a very bold man who first exposed himself to the Seas in so frail a Vessel as a Ship is How soon may it be split upon a Rock and cast forth its burden So uncertain a thing is Life that it is like a Candle carried in the open Air which every blast is ready to extinguish Thus as Seneca saith Mors ubique nos expectat tu si sapiens eris ubique eam expectabis Death waits upon us every where both at Sea and Land at home and abroad let us in every place and at all times wait for it sure I am it will be our wisdom so to do Deut. 32.29 O that they were wise that they would consider their latter end The Servants of the Lord expect it and look upon themselves as dying Creatures Abraham counts himself but Dust and Ashes Gen. 18.27 Jacob lookt upon himself as an Individuum Vagum as a Stranger or Pilgrim here to day and gone to morrow Gen. 47.9 So did the rest of the Patriarchs 1 Chron. 29.15 St. Paul durst not presume on much time but said He would do this and that if the Lord permit or if the Lord will as you may read Acts 18.21 Rom. 1.10 1 Cor. 4.19 1 Cor. 16.7 he thought himself Tenant at Will in the Clay-farm of his body So did St. James James 4.13 14 15. St. Peter lookt not to dwell long in his earthly Tenement 2 Pet. 1.14 Joseph of Arimathea erected his Tomb in his life-time in the midst of his Garden as some gather from Mat. 27.60 compared with John 19.41 that in the midst of his delights and pleasant walks he might think of Death The Heathens some of them have been very careful to preserve in their minds the thoughts of Death Plato one of the chief defined Life to be Meditatio Mortis a Meditation of Death And truly Death as the Philosopher writes of the Heart * Cor est primum vivens ultimum moâ—iens 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Aristot should be the first thing that lives and last that dies in our meditation Some †Manchest Al. Mond p. 51. Philosophers had their Graves alway open before their Gates that going out and coming in they might alway think of Death And we read of one * Ibid. p. 139 140. Philostrates that lived seven years in his Tomb that he might be acquainted with it against his Bones came to lie in it And though Lewis the XI King of France of that Name gave a strict charge that none should dare to name Death within his Court Yet Philip the Father of Alexander and King of Macedon every morning had a Monitor of Mortality for a Trumpet every morning was sounded at his Chamber and these words uttered with a loud Voice by one whom he had appointed 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Remember thou art a mortal Man He was willing every day to hear of Death which might any day rush in upon him Shall we by putting the thoughts of Death from us prove our selves to be worse than Heathens God forbid God as you have heard hath compared our Life in Scripture to things of short continuance And to such things as are oft in our eye that so we might not forget Death The two first Books of Moses 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Nativitas 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Exitus called Genesis and Exodus should mind us of that of the Poet Nascentes morimur finisque ab origine pendet At Birth begin we life to end This end doth on that Birth depend Every Dish of Meat that comes to our Table stands as a dead Corps So true is that of Seneca Mortibus vivimus We live by the death of other Creatures The four Seasons of the Year the Garments we wear scarce any thing that we behold but may mind us of our change for all things here below ring Changes The Sun setting may mind us that ere long the Sun of our Life must set Our very houses may mind us of our long homes When we are in Bed and darkness round about us we should consider that ere long we must lie in the Grave that House of Darkness for so it is called Job 17.13 Furthermore for I would fain convince the Reader of the shortness and uncertainty of his life every degree of Life is a step to Death one day added to our lives brings us nearer unto death Your life is shorter to day than it was yesterday God threatned Adam Gen. 2.17 That in the day that he did eat the
forbidden Fruit he should surely die Now we know Adam did eat Gen. 3. and the threatning took effect for after that he had eaten every day some part of his life was gone The wise Man tells us Eccles 3.2 There is a time to be born and a time to die What no time to live Truly it may be the wise man thought this life-time was so short that it was not worth taking notice of or it may be he would give us to understand that all the while we live we are in a dying condition An Heathen by the dim candle-light of Nature had a glymps of this for saith Seneca Quotidie morimur quotidiè enim demitur aliqua pars vitae Vita hominum dum crescit decrescit dum augetur minuitur Cylind as a Candle you know is no sooner lighted but begins to waste it is not the last blaze that spends it but it spends all the while it burns So an Hour-glass is no sooner turned but presently the Sand begins to run out The longer a man lives the less he hath to live Oh did we but see the Glass of our Life running many of us would see but little Sand remaining Well then let your going to the House of Mourning and following the Corps to the Grave mind you of your mortality that God will shortly bring you to the Grave The House appointed for all men living Job 30.23 15th and last Use Lastly Let death of Friends put us upon preparing for Death Seneca said Aetate fruere mobili cursu fugit Use time while you have it He meant it not in that sence in which the merry Greeks and voluptuous Epicures take it 1 Cor. 15.32 Let us eat and drink for to morrow we die But he would have us to imploy our short time in doing vertuous actions Labour that the Temple of Grace be erected in your souls before the Temple of your bodies be pulled down I have read how Peter Waldo about the year 1160. a Merchant of Lyons Mr. Fuller in his Holy War rich in substance and learning was walking and talking with his Friends when one of them suddenly sell down dead which lively spectacle of mans mortality so impressed the soul of this Waldo that instantly he resolved on a strict reformation of life which to his power he performed Mr. Dugard in his Serm. on Ps 89 48. pag. 39. Ribad de vita Fr. Borgia lib. 1. c. 9. It is likwise reported of Sir Francis Borgia a Spanish Courtier That having been at the Funeral of the Empress and considering how little a Grave had devoured all earthly Greatness he said when he came home Augustae mors mihi vitam attulit The death of the Empress hath brought me life and forthwith he became a wonderfully reformed man So when Friends die and we return from their burial let us resolve to lay aside worldly vanities and return home more grave and serious Let us set our House and Souls in order Luke 12.40 Be ye therefore ready for the Son of Man cometh at an hour when ye think not As we know not the time of our general so neither of our particular judgment It is good for us to stand upon our watch Mar. 13.32 and to improve all our opportunities both of doing and receiving good that so we may be as the wise Virgins Mat. 25. having Oyl in our Lamps Grace in our Hearts and may be fitted and prepared to meet the Bridegroom of our Souls when ever he cometh Now because preparation for Death though last mentioned is a chief and principal use that we should make of death of Friends I shall therefore somewhat enlarge upon it and shew you in the next Chapter wherein it consists CHAP. II. Shewing wherein preparation for Death consists NOW preparation for Death consists in these following Particulars 1. In praying unto God 1. Dir. Praecandos Confess thy manifold sins at the Throne of Grace and pray to God for pardon thereof Moses David Daniel Paul and other good men mentioned in Scripture were conversant in this duty of Prayer Our Saviour himself in the dayes of his flesh offered up Prayers and Supplications with strong crying and tears Heb. 5.7 The * Per miserere mei tollitur ira Dei Publican confessing his sins and most humbly suing out the pardon of them went away justified Luke 18.13 14. How did Christ remember the Thief upon the Cross praying to him Luke 23. 42 43. Jacob was frequent and prevalent with God in prayer Gen. 32.28 even when he was old and weak he humbly presented his devotion to God Gen. 48.31 Heb. 11.21 Stephen that saw Heaven opened Acts 7.56 as he lived so he died praying Abel rediv in life of Luther and Erasmus vers 59. Luther he died praying and resigning his Spirit into Gods hands Erasmus breathed out his Soul in these Ejaculations Mercy sweet Jesus Lord loose these Bands How long Lord Jesus How long Jesus Fountain of Mercy have mercy upon me c. Bishop * Dr. Bernard in life of B. Vsher Usher he died like Mr. Perkins who expired with crying for mercy and forgiveness Pray then to God that he would pardon your manifold sins and fit you for death say with David Psal 39.4 Lord make me to know my end and the measure of my dayes that I may know how frail I am Pray with Moses Psal 90.12 Dr. Abbot on Jonah 4.2 p. 521. So teach us to number our dayes that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom Prayer rightly performed as a learned Doctor saith is the best Sacrifice which the Soul can send up into Heaven 2. Preparation for Death consists in bewailing our sins 2. Dir. Peccata deplorando We should be like Doves of the Valleys all of us mourning every one for his iniquity as the Prophet speaks Ezek. 7.16 A broken and contrite heart saith David O God thou wilt not despise Psal 51.17 The words are a 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 he means God highly prizeth a broken and contrite heart under the sence of sin St. Bernard saith Qui non plangit peccata non sentit vulnera He is not sensible of his spiritual wounds who doth not bewail his sinful condition And again saith another Father St. Austin Gravissima peccata gravissimus lamentis indigent Great sins call for great sorrows David saith Psal 6.6 All the night make I my bed to swim I water my couch with my tears and Psal 38.6 I go mourning all the day long so that night and day he mourned for his sins And Peter having sin'd he went out and wept bitterly Mat. 26.75 The crowing of the Cock was a Monitor of his fault And some say he never heard a Cock crow after but he wept bitterly for his offence in denying so shamefully as he did his Lord and Master St. Paul complains of a Body of Death Rom. 7.24 * Tertul. lib. de Panitent c. ult
Man is renewed in knowledge after the Image of him that created him Col. 3.10 Gods Children are savingly enlightned 2. Cor. 4.6 Such as have their understandings darkned through the ignorance that is in them are alienated from the life of God Ephes 4.18 Yea and from the life of Christ too 2. There was in Christ meekness and patience Christ was a Man of sorrows and acquainted with grief Isa 53.3 He was a Man of sorrows it is an Hebraism and signifies the manifold sorrows he met with as though he had been wholly made up of sorrow and he is said to be acquainted with grief Grief was his Acquaintance Tota vita Christi continuata passio his Familiar it lodged with him it was no stranger to him He was hurried from place to place posted from Judge to Judge put over from torment to torment from the Garden to Annas from Annas to Caiphas from Caiphas to Pilate from Pilate to Herod from Herod to Pilate again Cruelty as one faith walking the Circle and Impiety if ever now treading the Ring Yet under all indignities offered he opened not his mouth murmuringly or impatiently Isa 53.7 He was oppressed he was afflicted saith the * Non tam Propheta quam Evangelista dicendus Hieron ad Paul Eust Tom. 3. p. 26. Evangelical Prophet yet he opened not his mouth he is brought as a Lamb to the slaughter and as a Sheep before the shearers is dumb so he openeth not his mouth He died the painful shameful and accursed death of the Cross without the least bleating of impatience see Heb. 12.2 3. so 1 Pet. 2.21 22.23 This Lesson he would have us learn from him promising that thereby we shall find rest to our Souls Matth. 11.29 Considering the manifold afflictions we may meet with in our Christian course we have need of patience Heb. 10.36 Ye have need of patience that after ye have done the Will of God ye might receive the promise 3. There was in Christ humility and self-denyal Gal. 4.4 When the fulness of the time was come God sent forth his Son And this Son emptied himself of his glory * Bishop Andrews on Gal. 4.4 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 He that thought it no robbery to be equal with God made himself of no reputation and took upon him the form of a Servant and was made in the likeness of men and being found in fashion as a Man he humbled himself c. Phil. 2.5 6 7 8. He was born in Bethlem a mean City in a Stable a very mean Room the Manger was his Cradle the Cobwebs his Canopy He conversed with not as a Companion but as a Physitian the meanest of men Publicans and Sinners He sought not humane applause but suppres'd his own praises We read in the Gospel how he forbad his Patients to declare their Cure Mr. Abraham Wrights 3d Serm. Cant. 2.2 and desired his Miracles might be as invisible as his God-head He unlockt the mouth of the Dumb and then cryed See you tell no Man which was to tie up that Organ which he had before loosed so he drew the Curtain from the blind mans eyes and yet commanded him not to see and take notice of his Physician so he restored the withered hand and straight-way as it were dryed it up again in forbidding its use crying Point not at me What greater token of his humility and self-denyal than this Nay when some would have made him King he with-drew himself John 6.15 and elsewhere told them His Kingdom is not of this World He washed his Disciples Feet to teach us by his own Example a Lesson of loving condescention John 13.14 15. Let us resemble Christ in humility and self-denyal Mat. 11.29 Learn of me saith Christ for I am meek and lowly in heart and ye shall find rest to your souls And Luke 9.23 Christ said Descende ut ascendas humiliare ut exalta is Aug. If any man will come after me let him deny himself and take up his Cross daily and follow me A proud man that will not stoop cannot enter into the narrow Wicket of Heaven The Kingdom of Heaven belongs to the poor in Spirit Mat. 5.3 and to such as are little in their own eyes Luke 12.32 4. There was in Christ harmlesness and inoffensiveness He is compared to a Lamb John 1.29 A Lamb he was for innocency as well as meekness The Spirit is said to descend upon him in the likeness of a Dove Mat. 3.16 What Creature more harmless then a Lamb among Beasts and a Dove among Birds They may suffer wrong from others but they do none to others Christ was very inoffensive some of his very enemies acquit him as you may read Luke 23.4 22. Judas who betray'd him said He had sin'd in betraying innocent blood Mat. 27.4 He walked very inoffensively both before God and Man 1 Pet. 2.22 Though he made his Grave with the World and suffered betwixt two Malefactors yet he did no violence neither was any deceit in his mouth Isa 53.9 He is such an High Priest as is holy harmless undefiled Heb. 7.26 Indeed many took offence at Christ at the meanness of his Person strictness of his Life purity of his Doctrine c. Mat. 15.12 Mar. 6.3 but he gave none offence Thus ought we to walk inoffensively with St. Paul endeavouring to keep a Conscience void of offence both towards God and towards Man Acts 24.16 so 1 Cor. 10.32 Give none offence saith the Apostle We should he blameless and harmless Phil. 2.15 so 1 Thes 2.10 Christ would have us to be harmless as Doves as well as wise as Serpents Mat. 10.16 Ut nulli nocuisse potes imitare columbam Serpentem ut possit nemo nocere tibi 5. There was in Christ usefulness and profitableness He did good both to the Souls and Bodies of all that came to him with a desire to profit by him He was anointed for this purpose Luke 4.18 19. And we read Acts 10.38 He went about doing good He did not confine himself to one place but as the Sun in its perambulation so this Sun of Righteousness for so he is called Mal. 4.2 went about that he might do the more good So let us do what good we can both to the Souls and Bodies of such as we converse with Let us be useful with our Purses Prayers and wholsome Instructions Believers are profitable Converted Onesimus was 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 according to his * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Vtilis fructuosus Name to which perhaps the Apostle alludeth he was profitable God bestows his Spirit upon them that they may be profitable 1 Cor. 12.7 The Apostle sought the profit of many that they might be saved Muscul in Gen. 1. p. 23. 1 Cor. 10.33 Mundo fideles utilitatem suae praesentiae non denegant 6. There was in Christ zeal for his Fathers Glory Christ though cool in his own yet was hot in the concerns of his
to perform God sent us not into the World as he did the * Psalm 104.26 Leviathan into the Sea to take our sport and pastime therein but he sent us hither as into a School to learn this one Lesson to die well Yet alas how negligent are most as if unconcerned herein This great concern is the least of their care Tell them of preparing for Death and they are ready to put us off as Felix did Paul Acts 24.25 Go thy way for this time when I have a convenient season I will call for thee but we never read that he call'd for him after I shall therefore Courteous Reader lay before thee some Considerations to move thee to prepare thy self for Death according to the forementioned Directions And here I have a large field before me but as the Disciples passing through the Field of Corn pluckt onely an ear or two and rubbed them in their hands so shall I content my self with three Considerations amongst many and handle them as briefly as I can with conveniency First then Consider 1 1. By this means thou shalt live comfortably 2 Cor. 1.12 Our rejoycing is this the testimony of our Conscience that in simplicity and Godly sincerity we have had our conversation in the World Rejoycing and working Righteousness is put together Isa 64.5 What joy and peace is there in believing Rom. 15.13 If the Angels in Heaven rejoyce at the conversion of a sinner as the Scripture affirms Luk. 15.7 10. surely the joy of a sinner converted must needs be very great in his heart How can it otherwise be For such an one is reconciled to God his sins are pardoned whereupon follows peace with God and rejoycing in hope of the Glory of God as you may see Rom. 5.1 2. And this peace of Conscience passeth all understanding Phil. 4.7 It is joy unspeakable and full of glory 1 Pet. 1.8 A continual Banquet together with the joy of the Harvest and of such as divide the spoyl are but dark representations of it Prov. 15.15 Isa 9.3 This is Manna in the Wilderness a foretaste and earnest of future Jubilees such an one is even in the Suburbs of Heaven so that the Term of a godly mans life who is continually fitting himself for Death may be truly called Hilary Term for a pure Christal Torrent of Divine Joy comes streaming into his Soul from the God of all comfort What should such an one fear Of whom should he be afraid At what should he be dismaid If he lives he lives to the Lord if he dies he dies in the Lord Living or dying he is the Lords Rom. 14.8 Object But do not we see those who take most pains in fitting themselves for Death most sad and sorrowful mourning for their own and other mens sins do they not meet with most trouble and afflictions so that their lives of all men are most uncomfortable Answ A carnal man can no more judge of a good mans condition than a pur-blind man can of Colours He is not acquainted with a good mans joy Prov. 14.10 The righteous have meat to eat which the World knows not of They have hidden Manna secret joy 2 Cor. 6.10 As sorrowful yet alwayes rejoycing Their weeping for their own and other mens sins Est quedam flere voluptas makes way for spiritual comfort As April-showers refresh the face of the Earth When the Righteous have been shedding tears at the Throne of Grace they oft arise from their knees with their hearts brim full of comfort If they meet with outward trouble as the Waves encrease so doth the Ark of Comfort arise above these Waves See 2 Cor. 1.3 4 5. Blessed be God even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ the Father of Mercies and the God of all Comfort who comforteth us in all our tribulation that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble by the comfort wherewith we our selves are comforted of God for as the sufferings of Christ abound in us so our consolation also aboundeth by Christ We read Acts 5.41 how the Apostles rejoyced that they were counted worthy to suffer When Saint Paul was in that great storm at Sea Acts 27. When neither Sun nor Stars in many dayes appeared vers 20. In the midst of that danger his Soul was 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Chrysost in a quiet Haven Dr. Boreman in Serm. on Phil. 3.20 p. 33. even in the bosom of God In that great darkness he had a light within the light of joy and comfort because God was with and in him I end this with that of Solomon Prov. 29.6 In the transgression of an evil man there is a snare that strangleth his joy but the Righteous doth sing and rejoyce Consider 2 2. By this means you may die comfortably A man who in his life-time hath been fitting himself for death is not afraid of it when God shall please to send it He can say Come Death come Lord Jesus come and well-come He can say to Death as Adonijah did to Jonathan the Son of Abiathar the Priest 1 King 1.42 Come in for thou art a valiant man and bringest good tydings He knows Death sets his Soul at liberty out of the Prison of the Body as the Angel did Peter out of Prison Acts 12.7 Upon the sight of Death his Spirit revives as Jacob's did when he saw the Wagons that were sent to carry him from a place of penury and misery to a place of plenty and happiness Gen 45.27 When Moses the Servant of the Lord had finisht his course God bids him Go up and die in the Mount Deut. 32.49 50. Deut. 34.5 It is there said He died according to the Word of the Lord secundum os Domini The Jews say that his Soul was suckt out of his mouth with a kiss God dealt by him as a fond Nurse by her Babe kissed him and laid him down to sleep Elijah requests God to take away his life 1 King 19.4 Aged Simeon like a Swan welcomed his approaching death with this melodious Song Sapientis animus totus in mortem prominet hoc vult hoc meditatur hac semper cupidine fertur Sen. ad Marcium c. 23. Nunc dimittis c. Luke 2.29 Lord now lettest thou thy Servant depart in peace according to thy Word c. St. Paul cries out Cupio dissolvi Phil. 1.23 I desire to depart and to be with Christ which is far better St. Ambrose ready to depart said to his Friends Non sic vixi ut me pudent inter vos vivere sed nec mori timeo quia bonum Dominum habemus He was neither ashamed to live nor afraid to die Old Hilarion being somewhat backward at first to entertain Death he checkt himself for his vain fears Egredore anima quid times Septuaginta annos servivisti Deo jam mori times Egredere Anima Go out my Soul said he what fearest thou Thou hast served God these threescore years and ten
and what art thou now afraid to depart Go out my Soul And with that he laid himself down upon his Pillow and quietly slept in the Lord. That good man Oecolampadius when he lay a dying being asked by some of his friends whether the light did not offend him he clapt his hand on h s breast saying Hic sat lucis est Here is light enough meaning comfort So that solid Divine and eminent Christian Master Bolton said to some of his Friends that came to visit him at the point of death I am said he by the wonderful mercies of God as full of comfort as mine heart can hold and feel nothing in my Soul but Christ I could produce great store of such like Examples but let these suffice Object But are not some of God's dear Servants unwilling to die as was David Psal 102.24 and Hezekiah Isa 38.1 2 3 Do not some die with little or no comfort Answ As for David and Hezekiah they were publick Magistrates and desired to live longer that they might be serviceable in their Generation and bring glory to God They knew if they had died at such a time the wicked would have insulted and made Songs of Tryumph at their Funeral They feared Distractions both in Church and State which might follow upon their death And haply they were the more unwilling to die because in their apprehensions not sufficiently prepared for Death Possibly by falling unadvisedly into some sins they had blurred their evidences and wounded their Consciences It is therefore good counsel which * Dr. Boreman in Serm. on Phil. 3 20. p. 45. Carthusianus gives and that is so to provide for the coming of Death ut nihil in mente resideat quod Conscientiam mordeat cum quo mori timeat that no sin reside or remain in our breast which may wound and trouble the Conscience and with which we being guilty cannot die in peace and safety Sin like Jonah in the Ship raiseth a tempest in the Soul The reason why many find so little comfort at death is because they are too negligent in preparing themselves for it I end this with that of the Psalmist Psal 37.37 Mark the perfect man and behold the upright for the end of that man is peace 3. and last Consider 3. And lastly By this means you shall arise again with comfort That there will be a Resurrection of the Body is clear from Scripture Insomuch that our Saviour told the Sadduces which said there is no Resurrection Matth. 22.29 Ye do err not knowing the Scriptures When Jesus told Martha that her Brother should rise again Joh. 11.23 she replyed vers 24. I know that he shall rise again in the Resurrection at the last Day And the Apostle spends the largest Chapter in all his Epistles in proving this Point against some in the Church of Corinth who denied it 1 Cor. 15.12 Well then at Christs second coming to Judgment we must all rise again with our own bodies and give an account of our own Works as you may see 2 Cor. 5.10 Rom. 14.12 This will be a joyful day to such as have lived in expectation of it and preparation for it For when Christ their life appears they shall appear with him in glory Col. 3.4 They shall have a Crown of Righteousness conferred upon them 2 Tim. 4.7 8. They shall rise to everlasting life Dan. 12.2 John 5.29 They shall lift up their heads with joy They shall have confidence and not be ashamed before him at his coming 1 Joh. 2.28 For he who is their Saviour Surety Intercessor Head and Husband will be their Judge He will at that day gather them together and place them on his right hand and pronounce that blessed Sentence Mat. 25.34 Come ye blessed of my Father inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the World They shall be Assessores in judicio like Justices of the Peace upon the Bench with the Judge approving of that righteous Sentence which Christ shall pronounce upon the wicked both Men and Devils 1 Cor. 6.2 3. Know ye not that the Saints shall judge the World Know ye not that we shall judge Angels * Psalm 149.9 This and much more honour have all the Saints in that great day They enter upon such happiness as shall never end Dan. 12.3 They shall shine as the brightness of the Firmament and as the Stars for ever and ever see 1 Thes 4.14 c. After the Apostle had spoken of the Resurrection and second coming of Christ he tells us that Believers shall be for ever with the Lord vers 17. And then he adds Comfort one another with these words vers 18. This eternal happiness will make amends for all our pains and care in our Christian course Thus you see how comfortable their condition is that live in continual expection of Death and preparation for Death They live comfortably they die comfortably and they shall rise again with comfort Whereas on the other side if men be careless herein they have no true comfort whilst they live even in laughter their heart is sorrowful and the end of that mirth is heaviness Prov. 14.13 So it was with Belshazzar Dan. 5.4 5. God saith again and again by the Prophet Isaiah That there is no peace to the wicked Isa 48.22 57.21 And if they have no true peace and comfort whilst they live I am sure they have none when they come to die As Ahab said to Elijah so may a wicked man say upon the approach of Death 1 King 21.20 Hast thou found me O mine Enemy Death to him is the King of Terrors as Bildad in Job call'd it Job 18.14 Or as the Philosopher Arist Eth. ad Nic lib. 3. c. 9. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Nothing is so terrible to him as Death The Soul at such a time is usually full of horrors and heavy apprehensions Pangs of Death horrour of Conscience sense of Guilt and frights of Hell are sufficient to render him perfectly miserable If there be any wicked men that die with little sense of pain and less fear of Death as Psal 73.4 we must know that this is security and sensless stupidity no true peace And if they have no true peace and comfort neither in life nor at death they 'l have none after death nor at the general Resurrection for no sooner is the soul separated from the body but God passeth a particular judgment upon it Eccles 12.7 Heb. 9.27 and dooms it to misery Even as Sodom and Gomorrah are set forth for an Example suffering the vengeance of eternal fire Jude 7. And at the second coming of Christ to Judgment the body shall rise and be reunited to the soul and Christ will pronounce that dreadful Sentence upon all wicked persons Mat. 25.41 Depart from me ye cursed into everlasting fire prepared for the Devil and his angels And this Sentence being once pass'd shall never be alter'd Hence it is called
Eternal Judgment Heb. 6.2 If Felix trembled to hear of judgment to come as you may read he did Acts 24.25 How will wicked men tremble when Christ comes to execute Judgment upon them as you read he will Eccles 11.9 12. last vers 2 Thess 1.7 8 9. Jude 15. Wicked men will then cry to the Hills to fall upon them and hide them from the face of him that sits upon the Throne c. Rev. 6.16 17. They would then count it an happiness to be able to die but alas They shall seek for death but they shall not find it and they shall desire to die but death shall flee from them Rev. 9.6 So then wicked men shall rise again but it will be to their everlasting shame and misery Dan. 12.2 They shall come forth to the Resurrection of ◠Damnation John 5.29 And they shall have bodies to be tormented in which Devils have not and they shall be miserable as long as God is happy and that is to all eternity and for ever Mat. 25.46 These shall go away into everlasting punishment Sinner and Hell-fire shall never be parted This word never breaks the heart of a sinner and gives new life to those insufferable torments which exceed all expression or imagination When ten hundred thousand millions of Ages are past the misery of the damned is as fresh to begin as it was the first moment they entred upon it If there was any hope of an end 't would something ease the heart but Eternity is intolerable O Eternity Eternity Eternity Methinks the dreadful terrors of Eternity should strike fire out of a Flint and make the hardest heart to melt into tears for sin and quicken the dullest soul to Godliness Death which is the end of all things Ex hoc momento pendet Aeternitas shall bring Man to a condition that shall never end Vegetative and sensitive Creatures when once dead they have no more a Beeing But Man when this life is ended shall live again and that to eternity either in bliss or misery Where are mens wits or what think they on that they do not prepare Wherefore Courteous Reader as David said to Solomon in another case so say I to thee 1 Chron. 22.16 Arise and be doing and the Lord be with thee Amen FINIS 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Epaphroditus's Sickness AND RECOVERY In three Sermons The First Preached at St. Michaels in Coventry upon the 14th day of December in the morning being the Lecture day And the two other Preached the Lords Day following being the 18th of the same instant in the same Church Anno Dom. 1670. By Thomas Allestree M. A. Rector of Ashow in the County of Warwick I was brought low and he helped me Psal 116.6 The Lord hath chastned me sore but he hath not given me over unto Death Psal 118.18 Nè umbrâ quidem corporis nedum vivo ac sano corpore dignus est quisquis usque adeò Stoicus est factus ut vitam ac sanitatem corporis quâ utraque ad gloriam Dei uti poterit non sentiat donum esse divinae munificentiae sed susque deque faciat sive sanus sit sive aegrotet vivatne vel moriatur Musculus in Psal 102.3 4. LONDON Printed for the Author Anno Dom. 1671. To the Right Worshipful Mr. Thomas King Mayor with the Aldermen his Brethren and the rest of the Inhabitants of the City of Coventry The Author wisheth continuance of health with increase of grace and peace SIRS THese three following Sermons though conceived elsewhere were first brought forth in your Ancient Honourable City The subject matter of them is seasonable for these sickly times Though you in your City as I am informed by * Mr. Feak and Mr. Wanley your present Ministers those who have best reason to know have been this last year as healthful as at other times a mercy which you can never be too thank-full for yet the Towns and Villages about you yea the most part of this Nation I hope you are sensible of it have been sorely visited with sickness I therefore at the importunity of some Friends thought good to make these Notes publick The Word preached is too soon †Vox audita perit sed litera scripta manebit forgotten and reacheth but to few but Printed may be seen by many and perused at pleasure I hope these Sermons that found acceptance with many when Preached will being Printed find the like acceptance with the sober Christian You have that here presented to the eye which was delivered to the ear for I have made little or no alteration onely I have inserted several Latine Sentences which I did not mention in the Pulpit partly because I would avoid the suspition of vain-glory and partly because they would have taken up too much of that little time alotted every Sand of which we should frugally improve to the profit of the bearer You that understand Latine may read these Quotations to your better satisfaction You that like them not because you cannot understand them may over-look them These Sermons like the Author come forth in a plain dress My desire was not with elegant cadencies of words to please an itching ear but with plain Scripture-evidence to affect an honest heart And strong-lines could not reasonably be expected from one so weak as I then was being but lately recovered of a grievous sickness Well dear Friends whatever they be I humbly present them to your acceptance as a testimony of my thankfulness and to shew how willing I am To serve your Souls in what I may T. Allestree Ashow March 27. 1671. Epaphroditus's sickness First Sermon PHIL. 2.27 For indeed he was sick nigh unto death but God had mercy on him THE Philippians to whom St. Paul wrote his Epistle were Inhabitants of Philippi which was a chief City of Macedonia and a Colonie Acts 16.12 It was the Metropolis of that part of Macedonia and a Roman Colonie whose Inhabitants came from Rome to dwell there vers 21. * Musculus in Phil. 1.1 Coloniae sunt gentes ad terram aliquam habitandum missae saith Musculus It was formerly called Crenida 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 because of the fruitful Fountains that issued from the Hill on which it was built Eò quòd circa collem cui inaedificata fuit uberrimi Fontes promanarent Muscul in Phil. 1. v. 1. Some * Itinerarium totius sacrae scripturae p. 539. say there were veins of Gold found close by it Philip King of Macedon Father of Alexander the Great caused it in the year before Christ 354. to be reedified and enlarged and then after his own name called it Philippos or Philippi Hanc Philippus Rex Macedoniae munitiorem reddidit propter vicinos Thraces ac in nominis sui memoriam Philippus vocavit Muscul Muscul in Phil. 1.1 It was enriched with many priviledges much Gold found there but it was not so happy in that as in Pauls praying
sickness but Epaphroditus did not regard his life to supply the Philippians lack of service towards Paul Heming in Phil. 2.30 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 significat perperam consulere uti faciunt qui se in apertum vitae periculum conjiciunt Epaphroditus was willing to hazard health and life to supply St. Pauls wants And as Hemingius saith Hoc facere in loco pro Christo non est stultitiae aut imprudentiae sed verè coelestis sapientiae c. Thus to hazard life is not folly but true wisdom And as Musculus saith of Epaphroditus's sickness Muscul in Phil. 2.27 Id omnium erat optimum quòd in tà m pio verè Christiano opere incidit in hanc morbum beati sunt qui hoc mortis genere auferuntur ex hoc saeculo It was best of all that he fell sick in so good a work and happy are all they that die thus in the Work of the Lord Rev. 14.13 I end this point with that of our Saviour John 12.25 He that loveth his * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Chrysost Hom. 66. Luk. 14.26 more then is fitting more then Christ his Church or Truth shall lose it in another World but he that hateth his life in this World loving it less for that 's the hatred here meant Gen. 29.31 then the Truth and Church of Christ shall keep it unto life eternal So much for this time Epaphroditus's Recovery Third Sermon PHIL 2.27 but God had mercy on him Dearly Beloved I Handled in the morning a Doctrine implyed which was this That life and health are mercies And in handling that Point as a Divine though TheologoruÌ„ minimus I shewed you Viam rectam ad vitam longam the true way to health and long life according to the Scriptures I shall not trouble you with repetition of what I then delivered because I have much matter before me and I would willingly finish this Text at this time I come then to the last and chief Point these words import which is this That God doth sometimes graciously recover or mercifully restore his People though they be grievously visited with sickness That God that knockt off Peters Chains and released him from Prison brought forth this Epaphroditus who like a Prisoner was confined to a sick Bed with few Attendants about him That God that ruleth the raging of the Sea Job 38.11 and stilleth the Waves thereof when they arise as it is Psal 89.9 put a stop in his due time to the fury of his Distemper We read of Dr. Willet that 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that in his Journey from London he was forced to take up his lodging at Hodsdon in Hertfordshire having by a fall from his Horse broken his right Leg there being sick he continued God's Prisoner about nine dayes together and died It pleased God as my * Abel Redivivâ—â— in life of Dr. Willet Author speaks who hath appointed to every man 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 his own proper and peculiar kind of death and without whose providence not a Leaf falls from the Tree so to dispose of this Godly mans death that as a Pilgrim here on earth he must die in an Inn He was carried thence by Coach to his Town of Barley where he was Preacher and there buried He fell sick not far from home yet recovered not to go alive thither But Epaphroditus who fell sick at Rome above six hundred miles from Philippi through God's mercy was restored to health and returned to his People who were not a little comforted at the sight of him Now that God doth sometimes deliver his when nigh unto death is clear 1. From Scripture Texts see 1 Sam. 2 6. so Deut. 32.39 so Job 5.18 19. Eliphaz speaking of God saith He maketh sore and bindeth up he woundeth and his hands make whole He shall deliver thee in six troubles yea in seven there shall no evil touch thee So saith David Psalm 34.19 Many are the afflictions of the Righteous but the Lord delivereth him out of them all So Psal 68.20 He that is our God is the God of Salvation 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Ad salutes Bythner according to the Original it is Salvations in the plural Number because he delivers several wayes and at several times and is the God of all manner of Salvation Temporal Spiritual and Eternal and then it follows * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Exitus i e Domini est educere a morte Bythner in locum Unto God the Lord belong the issues from death in most deadly dangers he oft-times sends in help 2. The Point is clear by Scripture-Examples God recovered Hezekiah who was deadly sick 1 King 20.1.5 So he did Job yea and David oft insomuch that he describes God by this Periphrasis Psal 9.13 Thou that liftest me up from the gates of death That is from the power of death E portis mortis i. e. è potestate mortis sumiter enim porta in Scripturis pro magistratu potestate quòd in portis solerent exerceri judicia Muscul Muscul in Psul 9.13 in loc So Psal 116.6 I was brought low and he helped me So God delivered Paul from deadly dangers as you may gather from 2 Cor. 1.8 9 10. Thus it was with Epaphroditus in my Text who being sick nigh unto death the Lord had mercy on him Significat quod attinebat naturae vires actum fuisse de vitâ illius ideóque quòd sanitatè restitutus erat singulari fuisse ope ac virtute Dei factum Muscul Muscul in Phil 2.27 Vbi humanum deficit ibi incipit divinum auxiliums Many thousands in this Nation who have been sick even unto death both in the apprehension of themselves and others have been raised up again by God as so many Acts and Monuments of his mercy I therefore cease any farther proof of this known Point and shall proceed to give you the reasons of it And here for your profit I will take the Proposition into two parts and accordingly to each give in the Reasons of the Point and then I shall put them together again and make application of the whole The first part is this God is the Deliverer of his People And the chief Reasons why he doth deliver them I conceive to be these three 1. Because he is related to them and they to him He is their Husband Head King Master Father c. and they are his peculiar People his Spouse Members Subjects Servants Children and what not that speak thâ—m a People near and dear unto him Surely then as Samuel said 1 Sam. 12.22 The Lord will not forsake his People for his great Names sake because it hath pleased the Lord to make you his People 2. Because of his Promises of deliverance which he hath made to them See Psal 41.3 Psal 50.15 Isa 41.10 1 Cor. 10.13 These are precious Promises 2 Pet. 1.4 which God hath given to his People and in
best for us to pay our Vows Deut. 23.21 Eccl. 5.4 5. we are perjur'd persons truce-breakers if we do not Defer not to put into action what God's Spirit in sickness put into intention Do as David did when he was brought low God helped him Psal 116.6 God delivered his soul from death v. 8. See his resolution v. 9. I will walk before the Lord in the land of the living He devoted himself to God's Service v. 16. Truly O Lord I am thy Servant I am thy Servant And he likewise resolved to pay his Vows v. 14. so v. 18. so likewise Psal 66.13 14. I will go into thine house with burnt-offerings I will pay thee my Vows which my lips have uttered and my mouth hath spoken when I was in trouble Let health strength life soul and body the products of Gods mercy be presented to his service Rom. 12.1 I end this with that advice which Christ gave to one whom he cured John 5.14 Behold thou art made whole sin no more lest a worse thing come unto thee 3. Apply your selves to God in future straits pray unto him trust in him Thus did David Psal 116.2 Because he hath enclined his ear unto me therefore will I call upon him as long as I live So v. 17. I will call upon the Name of the Lord. So Ps 56.3 What time I am afraid I will put my trust in thee for v. 13. Thou hast delivered my soul from death So Ps 63.7 Thou hast been my help therefore in the shadow of thy wings will I rejoyce See 1 Sam. 17.37 so 2 Cor. 1.9 10. We had the sentence of death saith the Apostle in our selves that we should not trust in our selves but in God which raised the dead who delivered us from so great a death and doth deliver in whom we trust that he will yet deliver us It is good Scripture-logick as * Mr. Reyners Praecepts p. 266. one saith to draw conclusions of confidence from premises of experience Such then whom God hath restored to health when God casts them again into the Prison of a sick-bed let them be still Prisoners of Hope as the expression is Zach. 9.12 Suffer not Faith to flag and Hope to hang wing Lam. 3.26 It is good that a man should both hope and patiently wait for the salvation of the Lord. 4. Sympathize with others that are in misery If God have had mercy on thee go thou and have mercy on others Be not straitned in your bowels as some in the Church of Corinth were 2 Cor. 6.12 Oh pity and pray for such as are in sickness and misery and do them all offices of love and kindness that may be Not only God calls for this but the Law of friendship calls for it Job 6.14 To him that is afflicted pity should be shewed from his friend But yet Job's friends dealt very unfriendly with him as you may see v. 15. whom he compares to a Brook which in open weather when people have least need of water promiseth refreshment but in cold weather is frozen up and in hot weather is become dry so that the weary Travellers fall short of their expectation So you may find him complaining how he was forsaken of all Relations Job 19.2 c. insomuch that he begs their pity upon the account of friendship v. 21. Have pity upon me have pity upon me O ye my Friends for the hand of God hath touched me here is another Argument for if you touch or strike upon the string of an Instrument other strings move too When God strikes another with sickness we our selves should be moved with compassion towards them the sicknesses and miseries of others call for your help Jos 10.6 Acts 16.9 As the Father said of Lazarus's sores Quot ulcera tot ora so many sores so many mouths calling for the rich mans help Yea though they be their enemies you should pity them as David did Psal 35.11 12 13 14. Though compassion begin at the heart yet it should proceed to the hand and mouth help them with your counsels and prayers and purses too Sic mens per compassionem doleat ut larga manus affectum doloris ostendat What the good Samaritan did Luk. 10.30 c. By which passage our Saviour would teach us to have pity on those whether friends or enemies acquaintance or strangers that stand in need of our help v. 37. Go thou and do likewise The Greek word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that signifies Alms comes from 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that signifies Pity Alms should be a fruit of pity 1 Joh. 3.17 If you who have known what it is to lie under sickness do not pity such folk who should if you do not who will 5. Lastly Give God the sole praise of all let him have the glory of the cure for to him it belongs and it is a piece of sacriledge to rob God of his due We should not give nor should any man take to himself the glory of a cure Neither Peter nor John Act. 3.12 Paul nor Barnabas Act. 14.11 c. durst take to themselves the glory of a cure Every Physitian should say as the King of Israel in another case said to the Woman crying out to him for help 2 King 6.26 27. If the Lord do not help thee whence shall I help thee The best Physitians can do nothing without Gods assistance Simples are but simple things without the blessing of God upon them Who put medicinal qualities into Drugs but the God of Nature Whence had the Physitian his skill to find out the quality of the Distemper and apply sutable means but from the God of Wisdom Jam. 1.5 Christ said Mat. 4.4 Man lives not by bread alone c. Nor is man recovered by Physick alone without Gods blessing Ps 107.18 19 20. Their soul abhorreth all manner of meat and they draw near to the gates of death then they cry unto the Lord in their trouble he saveth them out of their distress he sent his Word and healed them and delivered them from their destructions It follows v. 21. O that men would praise the Lord for his goodness and for his wonderful works to the children of men Quest But may we not thank our Physitian Answ Yes and you are too blame if you do not Ingratitude is an odious sin Gen. 40.23 compared with Gen. 41.9 It is one of the sins that makes the last times so perillous 2 Tim. 3.2 The Heathen thought you could not give a man a more odious title then to call him ungrateful Ingratum si dixeris omnia as though it was a compendium of all vices and indeed it is a decompounded sin Ahasuerus was too blame to forget loyal-hearted Mordecai so long who had been a means to save his life till it was almost too late to remember him He was to be commended for conferring civil dignities upon him afterwards as you read he did Esth 6. Let such as are unthankful to Physitians and to such as are a means to save their lives from destruction go to School to those Barbarians Acts 28.8 9 10. from whom they may learn lessons of Civility They honoured Saint Paul who healed many amongst them of many Diseases with many honours and when he with the rest of his company departed they laded them with such things as were necessary Well then you may and ought to thank them as Instruments but remember that God is the supream efficient They are to be rewarded and respected for their pains and care with us but God alone is to be praised for the Cure wrought upon us God is the Fountain they are but as Pipes to convey God's mercies to us Let us then give God the praise of all as the Angels sung Gloria in Excelsis Glory be to God on high Luk. 2.14 And as Christ hath taught us Mat. 6.13 For thine is the Kingdom and the Power and the Glory for ever Amen That Woman in the Gospel cured of the Distemper called by the Greeks 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Glorified God as you may read Luke 13.13 There were ten Lepers that lift up their voices and said Jesus Master have mercy on us Luk. 17.13 Yet being cleansed there was but one of them that turned back and with a loud voice glorified God vers 15. But Christ took notice of their ingratitude v. 17 18. There was but one of ten that returned to give thanks 'T is ten to one if God cure us but we prove ungrateful Oh let us not in sickness pray for mercy and in health forget to return thanks for the receit of mercy Non sonet illud tantum miserere Deus sed sonet etiam laus gratianum actio pro accepta illius misericordia Muscul in Phil. 2.27 David was much in praising God for delivering him from deadly dangers as the Psalms testifie Psal 30.1 3 4. 86.12 13. 103.3 104.33 116.6 12 17. 118.14 146. v. 1 2. So Hezekiah being recovered pens a Song of Thanksgiving Isa 38.9 c. Oh my beloved extraordinary mercies call for more then ordinary thanks Exod. 12.42 Communicate your experiences Psalm 66.16 Tell others of the cures God hath wrought Joh. 5.15 Mar. 5.19 The tongue is called our glory Psal 16.9 Let your glory sing praise to God and not be silent Psal 30.12 Wherein is your tongue a glory if not in setting forth the glory of God I end all with that Doxology of the Apostle 1 Tim. 1.17 Now unto the King Eternal Immortal Invisible the only wise God be honour and glory for ever and ever Amen 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 FINIS