forbidden Fruit he should surely die Now we know Adam did eat Gen. 3. and the threatning took effect for after that he had eaten every day some part of his life was gone The wise Man tells us Eccles 3.2 There is a time to be born and a time to die What no time to live Truly it may be the wise man thought this life-time was so short that it was not worth taking notice of or it may be he would give us to understand that all the while we live we are in a dying condition An Heathen by the dim candle-light of Nature had a glymps of this for saith Seneca Quotidie morimur quotidiè enim demitur aliqua pars vitae Vita hominum dum crescit decrescit dum augetur minuitur Cylind as a Candle you know is no sooner lighted but begins to waste it is not the last blaze that spends it but it spends all the while it burns So an Hour-glass is no sooner turned but presently the Sand begins to run out The longer a man lives the less he hath to live Oh did we but see the Glass of our Life running many of us would see but little Sand remaining Well then let your going to the House of Mourning and following the Corps to the Grave mind you of your mortality that God will shortly bring you to the Grave The House appointed for all men living Job 30.23 15th and last Use Lastly Let death of Friends put us upon preparing for Death Seneca said Aetate fruere mobili cursu fugit Use time while you have it He meant it not in that sence in which the merry Greeks and voluptuous Epicures take it 1 Cor. 15.32 Let us eat and drink for to morrow we die But he would have us to imploy our short time in doing vertuous actions Labour that the Temple of Grace be erected in your souls before the Temple of your bodies be pulled down I have read how Peter Waldo about the year 1160. a Merchant of Lyons Mr. Fuller in his Holy War rich in substance and learning was walking and talking with his Friends when one of them suddenly sell down dead which lively spectacle of mans mortality so impressed the soul of this Waldo that instantly he resolved on a strict reformation of life which to his power he performed Mr. Dugard in his Serm. on Ps 89 48. pag. 39. Ribad de vita Fr. Borgia lib. 1. c. 9. It is likwise reported of Sir Francis Borgia a Spanish Courtier That having been at the Funeral of the Empress and considering how little a Grave had devoured all earthly Greatness he said when he came home Augustae mors mihi vitam attulit The death of the Empress hath brought me life and forthwith he became a wonderfully reformed man So when Friends die and we return from their burial let us resolve to lay aside worldly vanities and return home more grave and serious Let us set our House and Souls in order Luke 12.40 Be ye therefore ready for the Son of Man cometh at an hour when ye think not As we know not the time of our general so neither of our particular judgment It is good for us to stand upon our watch Mar. 13.32 and to improve all our opportunities both of doing and receiving good that so we may be as the wise Virgins Mat. 25. having Oyl in our Lamps Grace in our Hearts and may be fitted and prepared to meet the Bridegroom of our Souls when ever he cometh Now because preparation for Death though last mentioned is a chief and principal use that we should make of death of Friends I shall therefore somewhat enlarge upon it and shew you in the next Chapter wherein it consists CHAP. II. Shewing wherein preparation for Death consists NOW preparation for Death consists in these following Particulars 1. In praying unto God 1. Dir. Praecandos Confess thy manifold sins at the Throne of Grace and pray to God for pardon thereof Moses David Daniel Paul and other good men mentioned in Scripture were conversant in this duty of Prayer Our Saviour himself in the dayes of his flesh offered up Prayers and Supplications with strong crying and tears Heb. 5.7 The * Per miserere mei tollitur ira Dei Publican confessing his sins and most humbly suing out the pardon of them went away justified Luke 18.13 14. How did Christ remember the Thief upon the Cross praying to him Luke 23. 42 43. Jacob was frequent and prevalent with God in prayer Gen. 32.28 even when he was old and weak he humbly presented his devotion to God Gen. 48.31 Heb. 11.21 Stephen that saw Heaven opened Acts 7.56 as he lived so he died praying Abel rediv in life of Luther and Erasmus vers 59. Luther he died praying and resigning his Spirit into Gods hands Erasmus breathed out his Soul in these Ejaculations Mercy sweet Jesus Lord loose these Bands How long Lord Jesus How long Jesus Fountain of Mercy have mercy upon me c. Bishop * Dr. Bernard in life of B. Vsher Usher he died like Mr. Perkins who expired with crying for mercy and forgiveness Pray then to God that he would pardon your manifold sins and fit you for death say with David Psal 39.4 Lord make me to know my end and the measure of my dayes that I may know how frail I am Pray with Moses Psal 90.12 Dr. Abbot on Jonah 4.2 p. 521. So teach us to number our dayes that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom Prayer rightly performed as a learned Doctor saith is the best Sacrifice which the Soul can send up into Heaven 2. Preparation for Death consists in bewailing our sins 2. Dir. Peccata deplorando We should be like Doves of the Valleys all of us mourning every one for his iniquity as the Prophet speaks Ezek. 7.16 A broken and contrite heart saith David O God thou wilt not despise Psal 51.17 The words are a 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 he means God highly prizeth a broken and contrite heart under the sence of sin St. Bernard saith Qui non plangit peccata non sentit vulnera He is not sensible of his spiritual wounds who doth not bewail his sinful condition And again saith another Father St. Austin Gravissima peccata gravissimus lamentis indigent Great sins call for great sorrows David saith Psal 6.6 All the night make I my bed to swim I water my couch with my tears and Psal 38.6 I go mourning all the day long so that night and day he mourned for his sins And Peter having sin'd he went out and wept bitterly Mat. 26.75 The crowing of the Cock was a Monitor of his fault And some say he never heard a Cock crow after but he wept bitterly for his offence in denying so shamefully as he did his Lord and Master St. Paul complains of a Body of Death Rom. 7.24 * Tertul. lib. de Panitent c. ult
Prov. 16.28 Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall Aspiring Absalom soon expired so did ambitious Adonijah Proud Haman had a sudden downfal like the Toad in the Fable he swell'd till he burst Herod when he took that glory to himself which was due to God he was 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 eaten up of Worms Acts 12.23 8. Take heed of blood-shed and murder See Psalm 55.23 Bloody and deceitful men i. e. say some deceitful murderers that lie in wait privily for blood see Prov. 1.10 to 20. that can speak fair and seek your ruine these shall not live out half their dayes they shall be suddenly cut off and come to some fearful end But whether blood-suckers do it by secret conspiracy or by open violence God hath threatned them with death So Psal 140.11 Evil shall hunt the violent man to overthrow him So Gen. 9.6 Whoso sheddeth mans blood by man shall his blood be shed The Sword of Justice is especially committed to the hand of Magistrates to cut off such offenders Rom. 13.4 To this Head I may refer your Duellists who for trifles challenge the field If you be assaulted you may justly defend your self but to agree upon a bargain of blood-shed to use Bishop Hall's Bp. Hall in Decad. 2. case 2. expression is wicked and damnable And though both should come fairly off yet the very intention to kill is murder saith that worthy Bishop To end this Prov. 28.17 A man that doth violence to the blood of any man shall flee to the Pit let no man stay him or endeavour his rescue 9. Take heed of decit and fraud See that forementioned place Prov. 55.23 I think we may safely make them two distinct Offenders and deceitful men as well as the blood-thirsty shall not long prosper The same Greek word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that signifies life signifies likewise livelyhood 1 John 3.17 and it is a grievous sin to cheat another out of his livelyhood as well as to take away anothers life 1 Thess 4.6 That no man go beyond and defraud his Brother in any matter because the Lord is the avenger of all such as we also have forewarned you and testified But the worst piece of theft or fraud is that Pia fraus to take away or alienate that which is given to pious uses as to the relief of Ministers or poor People Mal. 3.8 9. Prov. 20.25 It is a snare i. e. destruction to the man who devoureth that which is holy i. e. Takes that to his own use which was appointed to God's Achans sin in stealing the Babylonish Garment and the two hundred Shekels of Silver and the Wedg of Gold Josh 7.21 was sacriledge as well as theft for God had reserved the spoyls of Jericho for his own Treasury Josh 6.18 19. and you see it cost him his life Josh 7.25 You read Acts 5. beginning Ananias there sells a Possession which he had devouted to the Churches use and kept back a part of the price and in this as Chrysostome Chrysost in Acts. Hom. 12. saith he was 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 taken stealing his own Goods and for this struck dead Now if he that takes away from the Church but a little of that which was once his own be so severely punished how severely will divine Justice pursue those who by fraud and violence take away the possessions wherewith other men have endowed the Church So Sapphira his Wife agreeing with him in this ungodly act was struck dead immediately after her Husband as you read vers 10. These two by their lying and fraudulent dealing are said to tempt the Spirit of the Lord vers 9. You fraudulent Trades-men that say your Commodities cost you so much and you cannot afford them under such a rate and you have your Wives at your elbows ready to back you in what you say what do you by thus lying and sinning against your Consciences but even presumptuously tempt the Spirit of the Lord to try whether he will be just or no Remember Ananias and Sapphira having lyed to God and dealt fraudulently sunk down being stark dead Deal fairly then above-board as we say lest God strike you dead beside the Counter 10. Take heed of covetousness or worldly-mindedness Great and earnest care for the things of this life is called 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 which signifies heart-dividing and heart-distracting care Matth. 6.25 Phil. 4.6 excessive care for the things of this life spends a mans spirits Cura facit canos quamvis homo non habet annos See 1 Tim. 6.9 10. The wise Man tells us He that hateth covetousness shall prolong his dayes Prov. 28.16 but covetousness may provoke God to shorten them Gehezi by his covetousness provoked God to plague him with the Leprosie 2 King 5.27 Take heed then as Christ saith lest at any time your hearts be overcharged as with surfetting and drunkenness so with the cares of this life Luk. 21.34 Deluculò surgere saluberrimum est 11. Take heed of Idleness Labour in an honest Calling provided it be moderate Ad ruborem non ad sudorem is most healthful Prov. 10.16 The labour of the Righteous tends to life Moderate exercise preserves health but a sedentary idle life subjects a man to diseases Prov. 21.25 The desire of the sloathful kills him for his hands refuse to labour Otium est vivi hominis sepultura Sen. That which the slothful man desires which is his ease and rest layes his soul open to temptations and his body to diseases as standing Waters most putrifie 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Chrysost Of idleness comes no goodness therefore take heed of it 12. Take heed of unworthy receiving the Sacrament See 1 Cor. 11.29 For this cause viz. for want of due preparation when they came to the Sacrament of the Lord's Supper God sent a fearful sickness amongst them whereof some were then weak others sick and many fallen asleep that is taken away by temporal death This Sacrament which to the worthy communicant is 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 a wholesome potion of immortality to the wicked impenitent wretch through an ill disposition in him turns to the bane and ruine except speedy repentance step in both of soul and body I gave you notice this morning that your Minister purposeth the next Lord's Day through God's assistance to administer the Sacrament of the Lord's Supper be exhorted to fit and prepare your selves See Exhortation at the Celebration of the Communion else by receiaing the same unworthily you become guilty of the Body and Blood of Christ your Saviour You eat and drink your own damnation not considering the Lords Body You kindle Gods wrath against you you provoke him to plague you with divers Diseases and sundry kinds of death 13. Take heed of rejoycing at the calamity of others Prov. 17.5 He that mocketh the poor reproacheth his Maker and he that is glad at calamities shall not go unpunished So Prov. 24.17 18.
Tombs but this impatient man is among the Living and molests and grieves those that are near him 2. Immoderate sorrow wasteth the Spirits See Prov. 15.13 By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken It weakens the Body and hastens Death 2 Cor. 7.10 The sorrow of the world worketh Death saith the Apostle by sorrow of the world we may understand immoderate sorrow about worldly things hastens death and eats out the very comfort of Life You read of Moses Deut. 34.7 He was an hundred and twenty years old when he dyed his eye was not dim nor his natural force abated What should be the reason Why surely under God his own meekness For Numb 12.3 He was very meek above all the men that were upon the face of the earth Hippocrates saith 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Animalia quae felle carent ut Cervi sunt longaeva So meek persons many times live longest but impatient persons through fretting discontent bring their bodies into a Consumption Suppose as Job saith Job 6.12 Your strength was the strength of stones yet continual dropping of tears and drooping under sorrow would bring you down and wear you away for the same Job tells you Job 14.19 The waters wear the stones 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Gutta cavat lapidem non vi sed saepè cadendo And the wise man tells you Prov. 12.25 Heaviness in the heart of a man makes it stoop Immoderate grief like a heavy burthen laid upon a man will make him stoop and break him Many a man looks wrinkled with sorrow and care long before he is wrinkled with age Cura facit canos quamvis homo non habet annos Let us then Seneca Consâ—l ad Poâ—â—â— c. 23. as an Heathen said spare such grief as this is Faciliùs illi nos dolor iste ad jiciet quà m illum nobis reducet For soon will it send thee to him whom thou bewailest than bring him back to thee 3dly and lastly It greatly provokes God Indeed A meek and quiet spirit is in the sight of God of great price 1 Pet. 3.4 but a froward peevish spirit is abomination to him as you may read Prov. 11.20 17.20 22.5 So Ps 18.26 Discontent is a sin that God takes special notice of Exod. 16.7 8 9 12. So the Apostle tells us God was not well pleased The meaning is for the words are a 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 He was highly displeased with the murmuring Israelites for they were overthrown in the wilderness 1 Cor. 10.5 10 compared This must needs he hateful to God for it is a decompounded sin made up of many bitter ingredients as pride passion unthankfulness c. Sighings sobbings sorrowfull exclamations do penetrate the heavens and enter into the ears of the Lord of Hosts but make no good musick there God is thereby provoked to lengthen our miseries and adjourn our mercies Paula Romana who carried it frowardly and fretfully at death of her Children met with many losses of that nature We say Impatiens aegrotus crudelem facit medicum And so it is strugling and stubbornness that makes the Father continue to beat the Child Indeed God is an indulgent tender-hearted Father to his Children Psal 103.13 yet he will not burn the Rod till their stout stomacks be taken down How did he pursue Jonah with winds and tempests nay he casts him over-board into the sea and plunged him over head and ears into the hell of the Whales belly never leaving him till he submitted to his will to go to Niniveh Ferre minora volo nè graviora feram Let us bear lesser troubles patiently lest God lay greater troubles upon us To end this A man in a seaver the more he struggles the more he encreaseth his pain A wild Bull in a net Isa 51.20 instead of breaking forth by strugling he more entangles himself So we gain nothing by our strugling impatience and obstinacy against God but encrease of our miseries Oh! then let us not by any means give passions a loose reign for Phaiton-like with his wild Horses they 'l do a world of mischief Consid 10 Tenthly and lastly consider Death is very advantagious to the godly Phil. 1.21 For me to die is gain There is a privative and positive benefit that death brings to believers To begin with the first Death frees a believer 1. From sin Peccatum peperit mortem filia devoravit matrem Sin brought in death Rom. 5.12 and 6.23 and death carryes out sin Viper-like it devoures that which brought it forth He that is dead is freed from sin Rom. 6.7 Here indeed is no perfection 1 John 1.8 Grace is like Gold in the Oar mingled with much dross the most refined soul hath some dregs and is daily contesting with home-bred corruptions Cum avarit â nobis cum impudicitiâ cum irâ cum ambitione congressis est Cyprian Here the best are continually afflicted either for their sins or with their sins But death frees them from all sin Rom. 7.24 O wretched man that I am who shall deliver me saith St. Paul from the body of this death Why by the death of the body we are delivered from sin which is the body of Death 1 Cor. 15.26 The last enemy that shall be destroyed is Death If sin continued after death death were not a believers last enemy Dictum est primo homini morieres si peccaveris nunc dicitur morere nè pecces nisi peccâssent illi non morerentur peccarent autem justi nisi moriantur St. August de Civitate Dei Lib. 13. Cap. 3. Whilst we are in the wilderness of this world latet Anguis in herbâ fiery Serpents sting us sins stick close to us but at death as St. Paul cast the Viper off his hand Acts 28.3 5. so do Believers shake off sin Their dying day is the funeral of all their Vices the least of which maks them grieve here as the least hair makes the eye to water After death they are like God himself in perfect holiness and righteousness not having spot or wrinkle Ephes 5.27 2. From Satans temptations The Devil like to Joab makes our miseries his sport and play 2 Sam. 2.14 He is the great Peripatetick going up and down the World Job 1.7 and 2.2 This roaring lyon is continually ranging for his prey 1 Pet. 5.8 He assaulted Christ the Head Mat. 4.1 c. and so he doth the members Quid aliud in mundo quà m pugna adversus Diabolum quotidiè geritur Cypr. The righteous are the white at which the Devil most shoots the Arrows of temptation Chrysostome somewhere in his Homilies hath this comparison 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 c. As Pirats upon the Sea set upon the richest Vessels so Satan seeing a Vessel fraught with Grace useth all art and exerciseth all violence to master both the Vessel and the Prize But in Heaven they shall no more be troubled with Satans fiery darts for the Accuser of the Brethren is cast out Rev.
thou hast magnified thy mercy which thou hast shewed unto me in saving my life Oh then let death of others put thee upon blessing and praising God for sparing thee and not only praise him with thy Lips but with thy Life too Love him obey him cleave to him for he is thy Life and the length of thy dayes Deut. 30.20 Use 6 6. Let death of Friends teach you not to trust in the arm of flesh God would not have us by any means to put our trust in man as these places shew Isa 2.22 Isa 30.23 Isa 36.6 Jer. 17.5 7. So Psal 118.8 9. Luther on that place It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man c. calls it Artem artium mirificam sacrificium omnium gratissimum suavissimum cultum omnium pulcherrimum To trust in God and not in man is the Art of Arts the wonderful and great Art a most excellent Sacrifice and commendable piece of Religion He that builds his hopes on so weak a foundation as the life of Man he is like that foolish Man in the Gospel that built his House on the Sand Mat. 7.26 Or like a foolish Merchant that ventures all his substance in a crazy Vessel The Psalmist tells you Men of low degree are a vanity and men of high degree are a lie he gives great ones the lie Psal 62.9 He means all Friends both of high and low degree are lying vanities and perform not what they seem to promise so that whoever trust in any Friends as it is said in another case Isa 28.15 They have made lies their refuge and under falshood they have hid themselves And these Friends that they trust in like Absaloms Mule 2 Sam. 18.9 many times give them the slip when they have most need of their support and assistance for if they fail them not through willful treachery as many times they do Psal 55.12 Mic. 7.5 6. Luke 21.16 yet they may through unavoidable mortality as Jonathan failed and disappointed David of whom he saith I am distressed for thee my Brother Jonathan 2 Sam. 1.26 27. Mr. Duguard's Sermon on Psal 89.48 p. 17 18. Caesar Borgia that wicked Son of a more wicked Father Pope Alexander the sixth grounded many designs on his relation to the Pope but the Pope suddenly dies and dashes all And Borgia when he heard of his death cryed out I never dreamed of such an accident now all my purposes and projects are stifled and come to nothing He that knows man well enough knows him better then to trust in him Wherefore as it is Psal 146.3 4. Put not your trust in Princes nor in the Son of man in whom there is no help his breath goeth forth he returneth to his earth in that very day his thoughts perish His thoughts and designs of doing thee good if he had any die with him and thine hopes and expections are buried in his Grave therefore as it follows vers 5. Happy is he that hath the God of Jacob for his help whose hope is in the Lord his God He casts Anchor amiss that casts it any where else save on the Rock of Ages Use 7 7. Let death of Friends teach you not to set your affections too much upon any Relation We see Friends stay but a short time with us who would be too fond of them We may love and rejoyce one in another Husband in Wife Wife in Husband Parents in Children Children in Parents c. But it must be moderately as though we rejoyced not seeing the time of enjoying is short and will quickly be expired 1 Cor. 7.29 30 31. The rivolet of our affections may run to other things but the full stream must run towards God Luke 14.26 If any man come to me saith Christ and hate not that is loveth not less then me Mat. 10.37 Father and Mother Wife and Children Brethren and Sisters yea and his own life also he cannot be my Disciple Say then with the Psalmist Psal 73.25 Whom have I in Heaven but thee And there is none upon Earth that I desire besides thee God is called the Living God Psal 42.2 Let therefore the life and vigour of your affections as love joy delight c. be for ever set upon him and not upon mortal Friends which like Noah's Dove however they bring an Olive Branch promising peace and comfort yet they are upon the Wing and presently fly from us Or like Thorns under a Pot though they give a little blaze shining and comfort for a while yet they presently drop into ashes When you too fondly set your affections on them and think to hold them fast they give you the slip as Juno did Ixion or as Joseph did his Mistress when she laid hold on his Coat Gen. 39.12 13. Let therefore these perishing comforts have perishing affections Use 8 8. Let death of Friends put a stop to covetousness and immoderate desires after the riches of this World The wise man saith Prov. 23.4 Labour not to be rich And the Prophet Jeremiah saith to Baruch Jer. 45.5 Seekest thou great things for thy self Seek them not And David saith Psal 62.10 If riches increase set not your heart upon them Riches indeed are a very uncertain tenure 1 Tim. 6.17 Orig. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Silver and Gold those refined parts of the Earth are but corruptible things 1 Pet. 1.18 Worldly possessions are nothing certain Prov. 23.5 If they leave not us which they may do for they are subject to many casualties Fire may burn them Thieves steal them c. yet we must ere long leave them Death gives a Bill of Ejectment It divorceth from Gold and Silver Houses and Lands c. It squeezeth those Spunges that have suckt themselves full and leaves them as dry and empty as they were at first Job 1.21 Eccles 5.15 16. Psal 49.10 17. comp Luke 12.20 1 Tim. 6.7 8. Death that surly Serjeant as you see daily will not be bribed to put off his Arrest In a word you may be sick and die and be turned to dust yea and be damned too for any thing your riches can help you Prov. 11.4 And therefore project not for time to come as if this life would never be done Use 9 9. Let death of Friends be a curbing-bit to restrain intemperance in eating and drinking and an eager prosecution of sinful pleasures Many in the last dayes of this Worlds continuance Jehu-like drive on furiously in sinful pleasures They are lovers of pleasures more then lovers of God 2 Tim. 3.4 but God would not have us to indulge our selves in rioting and drunkenness in chambering and wantonness he would not have us to make provision for the flesh to fulfil the lust thereof Rom. 13.13 14. And methinks the meditation of death of Friends should be a means to prevent intemperance As I have read of one who had continually amidst the multitude of his dainties a Deaths Head served up in a Charger to
her Son was dead to call your sins to remembrance 1 King 17.18 May be your sin might be foolish Indulgence or too much Fondness you loved your Relation too much and therefore God took him or her away that you might not commit spiritual adultery which you do when you bestow that love and delight upon the Creature that is due to the Creator Psal 73.27 God there threatens such as go a whoring from him He will not suffer such behaviour in those whom he hath marryed to himself Hos 2.19 God is a Jealous God Exod. 20.5 And as a discreet Wife if she perceives her Husband to be in love with her Maidservant will presently put her away that she may be chief in her Husbands affection So if God loves us he will take that away which steals our affections from him Privat bonis aut liberis nimium amatis ut desiderium bonorum praestantiorum atque coelestium magis in eis excitat He deprives us saith Paraeus Paraeus in Gen. 37. chap. of Children or some such outward good things which we love too much that he may thereby excite us to love better things more Or your sin might be worldly-mindedness you were it may be over-worldly in providing portions for such or such a Child Salvian ad Ecles Cathol lib. 2 pag. 380. Quae insania est ô miserrimi ut haeredes alios quoscunque faciatis vos ipsos vero exhaeredetis God saw thee well nigh lost in a croud of worldly cares and therefore took away thy Child that thou mightest sit loose to the world and mind heavenly things God is a gracious Father as one saith wisely tempering the Cup for his Children lest they should surfeit on worldly enjoyments which they might easily do if they were not mixed with occasions of sorrow Or it may be thou didst not think sufficiently on thy latter end as God requires Deut. 32.29 We are ready to say with Peter It is good for us to be â—ere Mark 9.5 God therefore took away a near Relation which speaks as Dalilah to Sampson The Philistines be upon thee Sampson Judg. 16.9 So thy dead friend speaks to thee thou hast a mortal Body Death is at the door By this means God teacheth thee to number thy dayes and apply thy heart to wisdom as Moses prayed Ps 90.12 Or lastly God it may be took away thy Friend to humble thee and prove thee to try thy Obedience to exercise thy Faith and Patience as in Jobs case James 5.11 Thus as the Author to the Hebrews Heb. 12.11 No chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous but grievous nevertheless afterwards it yeeldeth the peaceable fruit of Righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby So that this crossing of us is to do us more good at our latter end Deut. 8.16 Moses with his Rod wrought wonders Exod. 4.17 And God teacheth us many admirable and excellent Lessons with a Fescu made of a Rod Job 6.8 9 10. Mic. 6.9 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Nocumenta documenta Well then as a Patient refuseth not from his Physitian a bitter Potion or from the Chyrurgeon a corrhoding Plaister because it makes way for healing it is in order to a Cure So loss of Friends though of all outward losses most bitter yet should be taken patiently because it is a Medicine to heal spiritual Maladies See Isa 27.9 Me-thinks this consideration should make us not only submit but rejoyce under such losses Consid 5 Fifthly consider God is still with thee Psal 46.1 God is our refuge and strength a very present help in trouble So Psal 90.2 From everlasting to everlasting thou art God Though Friends forsake us through unavoidable mortality yet an Eternal God is still where he was he keeps his standing He can supply the place of Father Mother Husband Wife Son or Daughter for he is an All-sufficient God So it is in the Original Gen. 17.1 In him there is all excellency beauty comfort and good of the creature in a most superlative and glorious manner sufficiently eminently transcendently so that every loss is made up in him as Philip said Shew us the Father and it sufficeth us John 14.8 and St. Paul saith Phil. 4.19 My God shall supply all your need There is sweetness enough in God to sweeten all outward bitterness so that though the Conduit Pipes through which mercies were conveyed unto us be taken away yet the Fountain runs still entire in God Hagar we read had a Fountain by but her blubbering eyes kept her from seeing it Gen. 21.17 18 19. God the fountain of happiness is still with thee and thou maist have daily recourse to him and therefore wipe thine eyes and â—â—â—t contented God saith to his People what the King of Israel did to the King of Syria I am thine and all that I have 1 Kings 20.4 Let us then under loss of Friends comfort our selves in the Lord our God and say with David Psal 18.46 The Lord liveth and blessed be my Rock and praised be the God of my Salvation When Creture-crutches fail we have the Rock of Ages to rely upon Therefore Rejoyce in the Lord and again I say rejoyce Phil. 4.4 Consid 6 Sixthly consider Thou deservest greater losses and crosses than those thou meetest with Thy sins are far heavier than thy sufferings The shower of misery and trouble that befalls us through loss of Friends was raised by the ascending vapour of our sin Nehem. 9.33 So Psal 39.10 God corrects man for his iniquity and therefore Wherefore doth a living man complain a man for the punishment of his sin Lam. 3.39 Why doth vain man fret as though his sins cast not one mite into the treasury of his sufferings Whereas indeed his sufferings are less than his sins As Ezra said Thou our God hast punished us less than our iniquities deserve Ezr. 9.13 And as Zophar told Job Job 11.6 Know that God exacts of thee less than thine iniquity deserveth So David Psal 103.10 He hath not dealt with us after our sins nor rewarded us according to our iniquities Quamvis aspera adversa patiamur minora patiamur quà m meremur Quid querimur Salv. lib. 4 de gub Dei pag. 114. quod dure agat nobiscum Deus multò nos cum Deo duriùs agimus Exacerbamus quippe Deum impuritatibus nostris ad puniendum nos trahimus invitum The fire of Gods wrath is not proportionable to the fuel of our sins whilst we live in this world Let us then bear the indignation of the Lord because we have sinned against him Thus the Church resolves Mich. 7.9 Let us not murmur that it is so bad but rather admire at Gods goodness that it is not worse with us Consid 7 Seventhly consider The many undeserved favours which God confers upon thee He might have taken away all thy Relations whereas he hath left several to chear thee And therefore as Jonadab said to David Let not my Lord suppose that they have slain all
12.9 10. He is cast out Ejectione firmâ and shall never re-enter He sets not his ugly Paw upon the pavement of Heaven The tempter enters not into this Paradise for Rev. 21.27 There shall in no wise enter into it any thing that defileth 3. From Spiritual desertions The Church like the Moon hath her spots and therefore sometimes her Eclipses so long as she wanders in this Planetary world See Isa 50.10 The Prophet there intimates unto us that A Child of God may walk in darkness and see no light So it was with David Psal 22.1 with Asaph Psal 77.7 8 9. with Heman Psal 88. with Ethan Ps 89.46 So it was with Jonah Jon. 2.2 4. Nay it was thus with Christ himself Mat. 27.46 And thus to want the sense of Gods favour must needs be troublesom Psal 30.7 Thou didst hide thy face and I was troubled So Psal 104.29 So Cant. 5.6 My beloved had withdrawn himself and was gone saith the Spouse and then it follows my soul failed Egressa est anima mea She was as it were without her soul whilst without the sence of Gods favour But Death frees Believers from such desertions They shall be for ever with the Lord 1 Thes 4.17 There shall be no more suspensions of the light of God's countenance no more eclipses of his savour never cloud more shall interpose betwixt Heaven and their souls but the Sun of Righteousness shall shine upon them with perpendicular rayes of comfort to all eternity 4. From evil Company It is a sad affliction to live amongst the Wicked Psal 84.10 so Psal 120.5 Wo is me saith David that I sojourn in Mesech that I dwell in the tents of Kedar And Isaiah sadly complains Isa 6.5 Wo is me for I am undone because I am a man of unclean lips and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips Sad indeed it is to live amongst them for their wicked manner of living is an heart-break to the Righteous Psal 119.136 Rivers of tears run down mine eyes because they keep not thy Law And St. Paul could not speak of their sins without tears in his eyes Phil. 3.18 And before this Lot was vexed with the filthy conversation of the Sodomites 2 Pet. 2.7 8. See Mr. Leigh's Crit. Sac. in vocem 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 significat oppressus fatigatus graviter afflictus We translate it vexed but according to Orig. He was laboured against He laboured under it as under a burden he was even tired out under their wicked courses Besides the Wicked load the Righteous amongst whom they live with calumnies raylings revilings scoffs jears taunts c. if they run not with them to the same excess of riot see 1 Pet. 4.4 like the troubled Seas they 'l cast forth mire and dirt upon them Isa 57.20 Thus the old world dealt with Noah that Preacher of Righteousness 2 Pet. 2.5 So David was abused for his goodness Psal 69.12 he tells us he was spoken against he was the Drunkards song and v. 19. Lord saith he thou hast known my reproach and my shame and my dishonour mine adversaries are all before thee See the complaint of the Church Psal 44.14 so 79.4 We are become a reproach to our neighbours a scorn and derision to them that are round about us No wonder it is thus with the servant when it was so with the Lord and Master Christ himself was set 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 as old Simeon said Luke 2.34 He was set for a sign that shall be spoken against To end this The Righteous are the mark at which wicked men shoot their Arrows even bitter words but Death takes them out of their company and from the reach of their malice See Job 3.17 There the wicked speaking of the Grave cease from troubling and there the weary be at rest 5. From bodily Aches and Diseases The body here is the receptacle of innumerable distempers St. Austin tells us de ipso corpore tot exstant morborum mala De Civit. Dei lib. 22. c. 22. ut nec libris medicorum cuncta comprehensa No Book that ever Physicians wrote contains a perfect Narrative of all distempers Many distempers daily arise unknown to our fore-fathers One alas lies languishing through a Consumption another's tortured with the Stone another with the Gout another burnt with a Feaver another complains under Head-ach Tooth-ach c. some lie under one distemper some under another So that as one alludes to the speech of our Saviour Luke 17.37 Where the body is there sicknesses and sores as so many Eagles are preying upon it And some by reason of these distempers lie under so great misery that they wish for death but it comes not and would be glad and rejoyce exceedingly if they could find the grave as Job tells you Job 3.20 21 22. Some with Job ch 7.3 4. Possess months of vanity and have wearisom nights appointed for them when they lie down they say When shall we arise and the night be gone And they are full of tossings to and fro unto the dawning of the day And again v. 13 14. saith Job When I say my Bed shall comfort me my Couch shall ease my complaint as sick people think to change their pain with changing their place then thou scarest me with dreams and terrifiest me with visions so that what with frightful dreams when sleeping and evil thoughts whilst waking the sick man takes little rest in his resting-time and finds little ease in an easie bed but now Death frees them from all pain Rev. 21.4 There shall be no more sorrow nor crying neither shall there be any more pain Death frees Believers from heats and colds from hunger and thirst Rev. 7.16 17. or any thing else that is painful to the body It is the best Physician curing them of all bodily distempers 6. From troublesome works of Calling Man at first before the fall was to labour Gen. 2.15 Adam was not to live an idle life but to imploy himself like a Gardener in pruning and dressing the trees and herbs of the Garden c. But this labour would not have been a toil but a recreation to him had he not faln into sin For weariness and sweat came as a curse upon him for the commission of sin Gen. 3.17 18 19. In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread c. By sweat we understand all manner of labour whether of body or brain and this he was doom'd unto because he ate of the forbidden fruit What is Mans diet now but bread of carefulness got with the sweat of his brows what disquieting projects hath sinfull man to get worldly things what riding up and down what digging and delving toyling and moyling is there in the world some taking pains in one calling some in another and all to get oyl to maintain the lamp of life but after death there is no such working Rev. 14.13 Blessed are the dead that die in the Lord they
may read Heb. 11. that Chapter is a little Martyrology ver 35 36 37. how some were tortured scourged stoned sawn asunder slain with the sword c. Mr. Fox or Mr. Clark in his Martyrology will tell you that many Martyrs had their skins pulled off joynts racked bodies torn in pieces c. willing to endure for Christ's sake what the wit of man could invent or cruelty impose Now God might have called thy Friend to such a death which would have been far more sad cruel and painful as to outward appearance Well then consider God might have delivered thy Friend into the hands of cruel man which would have been very sad as appears by David's speech 2 Sam. 24.14 but God cast him on a soft Bed amongst Friends who did carefully attend him and minister unto him 3. Consid The greater thy Friends pain was the more fervent prayers were put up for him You find David in Psal 38. lying under God's afflicting hand what servent ejaculations he sent up towards the Throne of Grace So Asaph Ps 77.2 In the day of his trouble sought the Lord. So Jesus Christ in his Agony prayed more earnestly Luke 22.44 Great Miseries make the loudest Eccho's in the ears of Mercy And as the afflicted party himself so all that saw him or heard of his misery would be ready to pity and pray for him Methinks the sad groans of a dying Friend are sufficient to dissolve an heart of stone into prayers and tears especially godly Friends would pray fervently for him And these are most likely to prevail for Jam. 5.16 The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much That Ship saileth the surest to the haven of Heaven which is driven with the breath of godly mens prayers 4. Consid The greater the pain was the shorter was the continuance of it Dolor si gravis brevis si longus levis We reade how Aeneas kept his bed eight years and was sick of the Palsie Act. 9.33 We read of one that had an issue of blood twelve years Mat. 9.20 and had suffered many things of many Physicians and had spent all that she had and was nothing bettered but rather grew worse Mark 5.26 So John 5.5 there we read of one that had an infirmity thirty eight years Now if thy Friend's pain had not been so great he might have continued still a burden to thee and to himself but the greatness of his pain hastened death which put an end to all trouble and grief his great pangs and struglings as throes of a travelling woman made way for deliverance And therefore 5. And lastly Consider Thy Friend is now at rest Rev. 14.13 Let them die of never so cruel a death if they die in the favour of God they are blessed for they rest from their labours It may be thou grievedst but little whilest thy Friend laboured for rest and wilt thou grieve much when he rests from his labours Whilst thy Friend was ground with the Stone or burnt up with a Feaver and rouled upon his bed without sleep thou hadst cause to weep and it was thy duty to sympathize with him Rom. 12.15 but being dead he is at rest Isa 57.2 for death to a Child of God is but a sleep Joh. 11.11 12 13. so Act. 7.60 and being buried he hath laid his head upon the lap of his mother for so the Earth is called Job 1.21 to be awakened again at the last Trump to the everlasting comfort both of soul and body And shall we now weep Surely this sorrow is unseasonable We prayed or else we were to blame whilst our Friend was in pain that God would deliver him and therefore when God by death hath put an end to all his pain we should give thanks to God and rejoyce rather than weep The Church our careful Mother hath taught us as much in the Funerals of the Dead We give thee hearty thanks for that it hath pleased thee to deliver this our Brother or Sister out of the miseries of this sinful world Another cryes out 10th Apology answerd This Eriend of mine dyed of a sad mischance he fell into the Fire or Water or was kill'd of Lightning fell off a Horse or Cart or was shot in War or otherwise or he was kill'd by Thieves or wicked men c. or he fell suddenly sick groan'd sigh'd dyed And this troubles me that he dyed such a sudden violent and untimely death Answ From sudden death i. e. from death not thought-of and so not provided-for good Lord deliver us not only for our own sakes but for our Friends sakes too they 'l take it the less sudden it is the more patiently See how sadly Jacob takes the supposed death of his son Joseph upon the sight of his bloudy coat he too rashly concluded his son was dead that he was devoured by some cruel beast Significans inâ—ternum animi dilacerationem seu moestitiaeÌ„ And the Text tells you Gen. 37.33 34. He rent his cloaths in token as Pareus saith upon the place that his heart was rent through with sorrow and he put on sackcloth a coarse and sorry stuff which was the usual Mourning-Weed in those times And he refused to be comforted Thus his father wept for him for Joseph who dyed as he thought a sudden death David himself proclaimed a solemn and publick Funeral-Mourning for the death of Abner who was cowardly and suddenly slain when he did least suspect it by one that pretended peace and friendship And David himself laid aside his Royal Dignity and attended the Corps joyning with the People in that sad Consort as you may reade 2 Sam. 3. towards the latter end of the chapter So David weeps excessively for the space of three whole years because his son Amnon dyed so unnaturally untimely unexpectedly being kill'd by Absalom 2 Sam. 13.28 c. And we reade how the true Mother of the living Child had rather her Adversary should have the comfort of her Child than that it should dye a violent and untimely death 1 King 3.26 And in that appeared both the truth of her affection towards it and that she was the true Mother of it v. 27. Job hearing the heavy tydings of the sudden death of his Children could no longer contain but vents his grief in words being more affected with the sudden loss of his Children than all the rest of his Goods Job 1.18 19 20. But for your comfort 1. Consid It hath been the lot of some of Gods dear Servants to dye so Thus righteous Abel was suddenly butchered by his brother Cain Gen. 4.8 So old Eli though indeed he had his failings in not correcting and severely punishing his wicked Sons 1 Sam. 2.23 c. and 1 Sam. 3.13 as he should have done being chief-Magistrate as well as Parent yet questionless was a good man as may be gathered from sacred Story and the manner of his death was sudden he fell off from his seat backward and
to lie unburied and dye unlamented Deut. 28.26 1 King 21.23 24. 1 King 14.11 2 Chron. 21.19 Isa 14.20 Jer. 7.33 8.2 14.16 16.4 and 22.19 Fit then it is that we attend at the Obsequies of deceased Friends not that it helps the Dead But 1. For their Honour it being a decent respect we pay to their name and memory for it is an honour to live desired and die lamented See Dr. Walker Fun. Sermon on Luke 7.12 13. 2. In Charity to the Living for their comfort and alleviating their sorrow while the burden is made lighter by many helping them to bear it John 11.31 The Jews were with Mary to comfort her at the death and burial of her Brother Lazarus Curatio Funeris conditio Sepulturae pompa Exequiarum magis vivorum solatia sunt quà m subsidia mortuorum Aug. 3. For our own advantage and encrease of Piety Eccles 7.2 3 4. 4. And lastly To testifie our faith in that great Article of the Resurrection of the Dead For if in this life onely we have hope in Christ we are of all men most miserable 1 Cor. 15.19 Now it strengthens our faith of the Resurrection when bodies of Christians are not cast away as beasts bodies are But if thy Friend wanted decent Burial if there was no Funeral-solemnity for thy comfort 1. Consid It cannot reasonably be expected that there should be Funeral-Solemnities in Pestilential-places for this would occasion further infection We read Luke 7.12 how the Widows son of Naim was carried out of the City to be buried Hinc collige Judeos Sepulchra sua habuisse non in Urbe sed extra Urbem idque tùm ob nitorem tùm ob sanitatem nè cadavera suo faetore putredine aerem inficerent Cornel. à . Lap. The Jewes buried out of the City that the Graves might not deface the comliness of their Cities nor noysome Exhalations and Vapours of the Graves infect the Air and hazard the health of the Living Great care is to be had that the Living be not infected with the Contagion of the Dead For if a living Dog be better than a dead Lion as Solomon concludes Eccles 9.4 Surely the persons of Christians that survive are more to be respected than the bodies of those that are dead Now how dangerous were it for the Living to accompany the Corps of such as dyed of the Plague how noysome to bury them there where the Living have often occasion to make their recourse so that it were incommodious to humane society to perform solemn Funeral Rites at such a time I end this with words taken out of that godly Exhortation at the end of Divine-Service appointed to be used on the Monthly-Fast during the continuance of the Plague The words are these Though it be a Christian and laudable custom to accompany the Bodies of the Dead unto the Grave and commend them in decent manner unto their rest yet seeing the end of such Assemblies as are then gathered together is by the use of Prayer and the Word preached rather to give comfort unto the Living than any benefit unto the Dead let men be advised perswaded and content that their Dead should be buried with no more company than is needful for the interring and laying them up in the Earth because the gathering together of Friends and Neighbours in so common a Contagion cannot be without present danger and hazard of their health and lives and it is verily thought that Infection by this means of meeting hath ensued unto many 2 Consid It is all one to the Dead whether their Bodies be drown'd or burnt or buried and if buried it is all one where the Grave is made for them Facilis jactura Sepulchri Lucan lib. 16. If they fail of the Burying-Place they expected the loss is not great for the Body is not sensible how it is used Neither do such Solemnities do the Dead either good or hurt Though they adde to the comfort of the Living yet not of the Dead 3 Consid What if the Body be thus used the Soul is safe if thy Friend belonged to God The Soul of man is his Darling Psal 22.20 and 35.17 If this Jewel be preserved no matter what becomes of the Cabinet 4 Consid Many of Gods dear Servants have wanted decent Burial See Psal 79.2 3. The dead Bodies of thy Servants have they given to be meat unto the Fowls of the Heaven the Flesh of thy Saints unto the Beasts of the Earth their Blood have they shed like water round about Jerusalem and there was none to bury them There was none to bury them either none that durst for fear of the enemy or so many slain by the enemy that the living sufficed not to bury the dead In persecuting times many Martyrs have been devoured of wild-beasts torn in pieces hang'd on gibbets burnt to ashes drowned c. so that they have wanted burial Moses himself a dear Servant of the Lord was buried no man knows where Deut. 34.6 5. And lastly consider The Dead in the Lord are never the worse thought of by God if without decent burial Sore Lazarus had little cost bestowed on him at his Death that found so little mercy in his Life It is said Luke 16.22 This Beggar died no mention made of his Burial yet he was carried by the Angels into Abraham's bosom which as St. Ambrose Ambros Orat. fun de obitu Valent. saith is a certain retiring-place of eternal rest Sinus Patriarcharum recessus quidam est quietis aeternae But it is said of the Rich-man that he died and was buried buried he was and probably with great pomp yet the next news we hear of him is that in Hell he lift up his eyes being in torment ver 23. Another cryes out 12. Apology answered It troubles me to think the body should lye rotting and stinking in the grave and be eaten up of wormes and be turned to dust disrobed of all amiable features so that after a few years there are but few remains of our dear friend here perhaps a scalp and there a bone c. Answer 1. Consid The Soul of thy Friend if a Child of God is in bliss whilest the Body lies in the grave that place of silence rottenness stench and corruption That the Soul dyes not with the Body these places of Scripture shew See 1 King 17.21 Elijah raising to life the Widows Son of Sareptah cryed unto the Lord and said O Lord my God I pray thee let this Childs Soul come into him again Which expression as it shews the Child was really dead and that death separates the Soul from the Body so it shews that after death the soul lives or hath a being for he said Let this Childs Soul come into him again or let it return He doth not say let a new one be made for him So Eccles 12.7 Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was and the Spirit shall return to God
who gave it So Mat. 10.28 our Saviour teacheth that the Soul cannot be kill'd though the Body be So Mat. 22.32 God is not the God of the dead yet he is said to be the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob These Patriarchs then were alive as to their Souls You see then the Soul dyes not with the Body And if the Soul of a good man it is in bliss and happiness even in the state of separation as these places shew Luke 23.43 2 Cor. 5.1 8. Phil. 1.23 Rev. 14.13 The Body is as it were the Nest or Cage of the Soul Death disturbs this Nest opens this Cage and then the Soul that Bird of Paradise flyes away to the kingdom of Heaven Seneca Seneca ad Merc. cap. 24. could tell disconsolate Mercia Imago duntaxat filii tui periit ipse quidem aeternus meliorisque nunc status est despoliatus onexibus alienis sibi relictus That the Image only of of her Son was defaced by death and that himself was Eternal in a better state eased of his uneasie burdens and now at freedom to enjoy himself 2. Consid There is not a fitter place for the Body of thy deceased Friend than the Grave is Gen. 23.4 Give me a possession of a burying place with you saith Abraham to the Children of Heth that I may bury my dead out of my sight He would be rid of Sarah when she was dead he would have beautiful Sarah removed out of his sight he would have the Wife of his bosom laid under foot When once we are dead all beauty and glory ceaseth and we become loathsome to our best friends and the Grave is the fittest place for us 3. Consid Thy friend fares no worse than Princes do The Grave is called The house appointed for all living Job 30.23 Living men in short time become dead men and are housed there Psal 89.48 What man is he that liveth and shall not see death Shall he deliver his soul from the hand of the Grave No death will attach the greatest and the Grave be a Prison to hold their bodyes fast 4. Consid Is not the Grave a desirable place Death is a sleep and the Vault or Grave is a Dormitory or Bed for the Body to rest in See Isa 57.1 2. The Righteous that are taken away are said to enter into peace and rest in their beds Poor afflicted Saints are glad when they can find the Grave See Job desired it Job 3.13 c. and 14.13 O that thou wouldest hide me in the Grave he longed for it 5. And lastly Consid Thy Friends Body shall rise again and if he dyed in the Lord be made a glorious body The Body of man shall rise again as appears by holy Writ Deut. 32.39 1 Sam. 2.6 Job 14.7 c. Job 19.25 26 27. Isa 26.19 Ezek 37.1 5. Dan. 12.2 Joh. 11.23 24. ◠Cor. 15. The Apostle spends the longest Chapter in all his Epistles in proving the Resurrection of the Body against some in the Church of Corinth that denyed it Most of the Heathens dreamed of an everlasting Separation Nobis cum semel occidit brevis lux Nox est perpetuò una dormienda Catullus But Christians make the Resurrection of the Body an article of their Faith Manchest All mon. in contemplatio mortis immortalitatis And truly when we see as an honourable person observed worms and flyes and other creatures that spend the winter season in a kind of Death revive in the Spring when we see our selves dead every night and alive in the morning we may easily conclude and believe the Resurrection of the Body No stone great enough could be laid in the mouth of Christs Sepulchre to hinder him from rising again and nothing shall hinder the rising of God's dear servants St. Austin saith Bodyes of Believers shall be raised tantâ facilitate quantâ faelicitate with as much facility as felicity with as much ease as happiness The Body of a Believer is a pretious treasure which God locks up in the Cabinet of the Grave so much is implyed in that Phrase Job 14.13 O that thou wouldest hide me in the Grave We use to hide our choicest treasure At the great day of Judgement he will open his Cabinet and take out the Body and it shall be as good nay better than before There shall then be a new Edition of the Body in a fairer Letter more amended for Phil. 3.20 21. Our conversation is in Heaven saith the Apostle from whence we look for a Saviour the Lord Jesus Christ who shall change our vile Body that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious Body according to the working whereby he is able to subdue all things to himself The same Body shall rise again the same for substance but not for quality a change of it there shall be but 't is for the better The vile body shall be changed that it may be fashioned like unto Christs glorious body and that you should not doubt of it he tells you it is done according to the working whereby he is able to subdue all things to himself q. d. There is nothing too hard for Omnipotency to effect Your friends body though sown in corruption is raised in incorruption sown in dishonour yet raised in glory 1 Cor. 15.42 c. It shall then be a glorious body indeed for it shall be beautiful full of brightness active and nimble not stand in need of outward refreshment it shall not be subject to irksom labours afflictions and diseases it shall not dispose the soul to sin nor the soul make use of the body as a weapon to fight against God it shall be an immortal body and every part and member of it shall have as much happiness as it is capable of Such honour have all the bodies of Believers at Christ's second coming So then thy Friends Soul is not eternally divorced from his Body nor shall the Body lye for ever in the grave but at Christ's second coming which will be shortly it shall rise again and his Soul be re-united to it in a more glorious and firm contract and they shall enter together into the Kingdom of Heaven Mat. 25.34 Dr. Abbot on Jonah Lect. 15. To end this You know a Watch is taken in pieces before it be mended and things new cast are broken first So thy Friend's Body must be knockt in pieces by death and the power of the grave that it may be new cast not only in its old figure but to a better form in the day of the Resurrection Wherefore comfort one another with these words 1 Thes 4.18 With what words with those words going before vers 13 c. Whereof this is the summe that they shall rise again and be for ever with the Lord. 13th Apology answerd Another cryes out This Friend or Relation that God hath taken away was a good and useful person a very charitable man c. not only I my self but the
I know there is a kind of bastard counterfeit patience which as one saith ariseth from the natural constitution whereby the heat not abounding too much the man is not so prone as some others to choler and discontent but useth his reason in ordering of himself and bears what he cannot avoid but this is but 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 the shadow and picture of true patience which indeed is an herb of Grace not growing in Natures Garden or if you will it is a Slip taken from the Tree of Life and planted in the Soul by the finger of God it is of an heavenly extract or descent from God as well as Faith Phil. 1.29 Men naturally meek good natures as we call them may bear a little but not enough nor in a right manner nor to right ends without the supernatural work of patience The Apostle placeth it amongst the fruits of the Spirit Gal. 5.22 23. Well then If any man be afflicted let him pray Jam. 5.13 Let him under loss of Friends or any other Affliction lay open his sad condition before God in prayer as a man opens his mind to his Friend So did Hannah 1 Sam. 1.12 and then with her ver 18. he may in time come from prayer and his countenance no be more sad The End of the First Part. Deo gratias A Funeral Handkerchief The Second Part. Containing severall Uses which we ought to make of the Death of Friends By Thomas Allestree M. A. Rector of Ashow in the County of Warwick 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Nocumenta documenta Hear the Rod and who hath appointed it Mic. 6.9 So teach us to number our dayes that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom Psal 90.12 LONDON Printed for the Author Anno Dom. 1671. To that Worthy Gentleman and my much esteemed Kinsman Mr. William Allestree Living in Darby Grace and Peace be multiplied Dear Sir DIvine Providence hath deprived you of many dear Friends and Relations amongst others he hath taken away your Religious Parents and lately your dear * Mâ—is Frances Lorymore Wife the choicest under heaven of all your outward Possessions and Delights made nearer unto you by Marriage than either Father or Mother I call her one of Gods Jewels such there are Mal. 3.17 she was little of stature but of great worth She was a Great Fortune but which is more considerable she was an huge good person She was a constant frequenter of the Ordinances a strict observer of the Sabbath her Family-devotion was great and her secret ejaculations fervent and constant She was meek modest chaste courteous charitable patient humble c. These and the like Virtues came streaming into her Soul from the Fountain of Divine Grace She was no scoffing Michal nor you a churlish Nabal The onely strife betwixt you was this which should shew most dearness and tenderness so pleasing was your deportment each to other that one would think one Soul animated two Bodyes You did never grieve her Spirit but by your excessive grief to see her in that extreamity of She dyed in child-bed pain which with greatest care you could not remedy and with admirable patience and Christian courage she chearfully underwent She was not afraid of Death Though she loved her Husband as dearly as any Christian ought to do yet she loved him much less than her Saviour and she knew that Death would bring her to an happy sight of him and I doubt not but she is with him whom her soul longed for What remains sweet Sir but that you look upon your self at least as half dead and become a most serious and mortified man I know when God first snatched this precious Jewel out of your bosom you were sadly affected with your loss indeed her Funerals were celebrated with great solemnity with many a weeping eye and sorrowful heart let not sensual delights make you to forget it Labour to get good by this affliction Let her Memory be still pretious with you not for adoration leave that foppery to the Papists but for imitation And that you may make a right use of this and such like losses which have and may still befal you let me entreat you to peruse this following Treatise to which I take the boldness to prefix your Name to testify my thankfulness for former Favours and to declare to the world That I am SIR Yours unfainedly T. Allestree Ashow March 3d. 1670. A Funeral Handkerchief Part 2. CHAP. I. Containing several Uses which we ought to make of the Death of Friends SAint Austin cryed out against some who did not profit by afflictions August de Civit. Dei lib. 2 cap. 33. Perdidistis utilitatem calamitatis Ye have lost the benefit of your affliction Christians should improve cross Providences to their spiritual advantage Sad it is when as Salvian Salvian lib. 7. de Cub Dei p. 231. complains Curâ ipsâ deteriores sumus we are made worse by that which should make us better It is with Spiritual as with bodily Physick if it makes us not better it leaves us worse than we were before I shall therefore Courteous Reader for thy spiritual benefit shew thee what Use ought to be made of the Death of Friends which discourse like the Wine in the Gospel John 2.10 though it come now at last yet through God's blessing may be best of all And here my Prayer is That my Doctrine may drop as the Rain my speech distil as the Dew as the small Rain upon the tender Herb and as the Showers upon the Grass Deut. 32.2 Now if you would make a right Use and spiritual improvement of the Death of Friends and Relations you must Use 1 1. Eye the hand of God in such losses Gods Providence reacheth to all worldly occurrences Not a Sparrow falls to the ground nor an Hair from our Heads without the will of our heavenly Father Mat. 10.29.30 Of him and through him and to him are all things to whom be glory for ever Amen Rom. 11.36 God worketh all things after the Counsel of his own will Ephes 1.11 There is no evil befalls us but God hath a hand in it Amos 3.6 Shall there be evil in a City he speaks of malum culpae of the evil of punishment and the Lord hath not done it God is the appointer of the Rod as the Prophet Micah tells us Mic. 6.9 In particular God hath an hand in loss of Friends as I shewed at large in the former Treatise and therefore under such losses look up to God and give him the glory of all The Psalmist Psal 28.5 there threatens with destruction all such as regard not the works of the Lord nor the operation of his hands So Isa 26.11 Lord saith the Prophet when thine hand is lifted up they will not see but they shall see and be ashamed It is a most grievous sin when people do like the Dog snap at the stone forgetting the hand of him that sent it It is a
mind him of his mortality and keep him temperate in the use of Gods good Creatures Oh consider thou wretched Epicure that thy pamper'd body will shortly be a most noysome Corps Job 24.20 The Worm shall feed sweetly on it Consider the pleasures of sin are but for a season Heb. 11.25 Thou mayest hear that voice this present hour in the midst of Drinking Dancing Feasting Gaming Whoring c. which Pope Innocentius the 4th heard in his Court and was found dead the next day Veni miser ad judicium Come thou wretch to judgment Use 10 10. Let death of Friends give a check to pride and ambition * Dr. Stuarts Cathol Divin pag. 150. Some say The hand of a dead man stroaking the part cures the Tympany Methinks the spectacles of mortality presented so frequently before us should asswage the swelling of pride that is within us Who would be proud of popular applause which is indeed but a fancy for so Agrippa's pomp is called Acts 25.23 Orig. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 did he consider his own mortality Herod would not have erected the plumes of pride as he did when the people flattered him had he looked on himself as a mortal man and that he should be so soon eaten up of Worms the vilest of Creatures Acts 12.21 22 23. Who would be proud of beauty considering if Deaths Hand do but touch the best complection'd Persons like the * Contacto◠cinerescunt Apples of Sodom they drop speedily into dust and ashes Who would be proud of Gifts and Parts seeing the Wise Man dies as well as the Fool Psal 49.10 Who would be proud of stately and pleasant Houses considering shortly he must be housed in dark and dankish rooms under ground Job 17.13 Who would be proud of his Pedigree considering he must say ere long to corruption Thou art my Father and to the worm Thou art my Mother and my Sister Job 17.14 Who would be proud of Apparel which must shortly be laid aside Or who would be proud of Riches which must be left at death and we know not to whom Psal 39.6 Who would be ambitious of great swelling titles as your Worship your Honour your Grace your Excellency your Greatness your Highness c. considering that the Greatest die and their Titles with them and their Glory will not descend after them Psal 49.17 Ambition like a blazing Comet portends no good and in a while vanisheth and comes to nothing How unbefitting a thing is it for man to be daily aspiring who is daily expiring to soar so high who must lie so low even under the feet of those whom he desires to tread upon Ahasuerus that could reckon 127 Provinces under his command Esth 1.1 had but about seven foot Sepulchre at most being dead And Alexander that sweated within the compass of the world as too narrow for him Aestuat infoelix angusto limite mundi Juvenal Sat. 10. Yet being dead had but a little patch of ground to contain his Body and that was with much difficulty obtained There is indeed some odds betwixt men whilst living in respect of birth education wealth wit alliance honour beauty c. yet to pull down the top-sail of pride man should consider that the same God made us all Job 31.15 Mal. 2.10 and of the same matter and we all at last return alike to the same earth Gen. 3.19 Eccl. 12.7 There is no odds amongst dead men Respice sepulchra vide quis servus quis dominus quis dives quis pauper discerne si potes vinctum a Rege fortem a debili pulchrum a deformi * Aug. lib. de nat et grat Aust Take a view of the Graves of men and you shall find all there have a like hollow eyes flat noses ghastly looks noysom scents c. there Dives cannot be distinguished from Lazarus nor beautiful Rachel from blear-ey'd Leah At a game of Chess as a learned * Doctor observes we see Kings and Queens and Bishops †Dr. Stuart's Catholic Divinity pag. 151 152. and Knights upon the board and they have their several walks and contest one with another in points of state and honour but when the game is done all together with the pawns are shuffled in one bag In like manner in this life men appear in different garbes and take diverse courses some are Kings some are Officers some Bishops some Knights some of other ranks and orders But when this life like a game is done which is sometimes sooner sometimes later all are shuffled together with the many or vulgar sort of people and lie in darkness and obscurity All their pomp is brought down to the grave and the worms shall cover them Isa 14.11 To shut up this point A proud man is a vain supercilious bubble that swells for a while and danceth about with a splendid gaiety upon the surface of the waters but presently disappears and is seen no more Who would then boast himself with Theudas to be some body Act. 5.36 or with Simon-Magus look upon himself as 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Act. 8.9 some grand Magnifico whereas in his best state he is but altogether vanity Psal 39.5 Use 11 11. Let death of Friends be a Cordial to keep you from fainting under any affliction You see Friends die daily assure your self ere long your turn will come and by death you shall be delivered from all your sorrows A Christian may say with Jacob Gen. 47.9 Few and evil have the dayes of the years of my life been This is Jacobs Arithmetick he casting the account of his days tells you they were by substraction and diminution Few by addition and multiplication full of evil Indeed Psal 34.19 Many are the afflictions of the Righteous The Latin word Quies which signifies rest wanteth the plural number for there is little rest in this world A good man meets with contempt from the world temptations from the Devil assaults from the flesh sometimes with rebukes from God checks from Conscience with spiritual desertions with poverty sickness reproach c. like a Ship sayling on the Sea of this world no sooner is he freed from one waye but he is immediatly lifted up by another but when he dyes he is safely landed on the shoar in the haven of Heaven above a state of misery and mortality too Old Chaucer's Epitaph is a good one * Manch Al. Mond p. 61. Mors aerumnarum requies Death puts an end to all sorrow We may write upon the Grave-stone of a Spiritual Pilgrim Hic mortuus requiescit semel Qui vivus requievit nunquam Death is a Sleep and the Coffin a Couch In quo illé mollius dormit quisquis durius in hâc vità se gèsserit Ambros The Sepulcher is a place of rest for the Antients called it Requietorium or Dormitorium And the Prophet Isaiah calleth it a Bed Isa 57.2 They shall rest in their Beds Men being hard-work't all day sleep sweetly at night So
the Poet to melt into tears saying O ubi Mors non est si jugulatis aquae What cannot make an end of us if a little congealed Water can do it Aeschylus the Tragedian was killed by a Crab-fish which fell from an Eagles talons who mistook as it was thought his bald Head for a Stone If thou stayest within doors thou art not there safe neither The House may fall upon thee as upon Job's Children Fire may burn thee a Spider may poyson thee Or thou mayest have a deadly fall from some upper Room As Ahaziah falling through a Lattess in his upper Chamber fell sick and died 2 Kings 1.2 17 compared And Eutychus falling into a deep-sleep fell down from the third lost and was taken up dead Acts 20.9 Pliny Plin. Nat. Hist lib. 7. cap. 53. reports of Emilius Lepidus that he did but hit his Toe upon the Door-sil yet though the hurt was so far from his heart he died upon it And the same Author tells us That Anacreon the Poet was choaked with the Kernel of a Grape And an Hair in a mess of Milk choaked Fabius See Dr. Abbot on Jonah 4.3 4. Lect. 26. p. 543. And we read elsewhere how a Fly in the Cup choaked Pope Adrian the 4th And Pope Victor was poysoned with Wine and one of the Emperors with the Bread he received in the Sacrament When we lie down to rest we are not sure we shall arise again in safety Sisera slept but never awaked more in this World Judg. 4.21 Benhadad being sick was confined to his Bed yet his sickness was not so destructive to take away his life therefore Hazael that treacherous Servant under pretence of doing him a kindness cunningly stifies him as you may read 2 Kings 8. chap. Furthermore we read in Scripture how Joab was slain at the Altar Zachariah in the Temple Amnon at his Table And prophane stories tell us That Carus the Emperor was slain by a Thunder-bolt so was the Emperor Anastatius Antiochus was murdered in his Coach Domitian in his Chamber Caligula in the Theatre Caesar in the Senate-house and Caracalla was put to death whilst he was about to case Nature Thus we are not safe by Land much less by Sea for there men are within a few inches of Death Qui nescit orare discat navigare The Poet said Illi robur as triplex circa pectus qui fragilem commisit pelago ratem Hor. He was a very bold man who first exposed himself to the Seas in so frail a Vessel as a Ship is How soon may it be split upon a Rock and cast forth its burden So uncertain a thing is Life that it is like a Candle carried in the open Air which every blast is ready to extinguish Thus as Seneca saith Mors ubique nos expectat tu si sapiens eris ubique eam expectabis Death waits upon us every where both at Sea and Land at home and abroad let us in every place and at all times wait for it sure I am it will be our wisdom so to do Deut. 32.29 O that they were wise that they would consider their latter end The Servants of the Lord expect it and look upon themselves as dying Creatures Abraham counts himself but Dust and Ashes Gen. 18.27 Jacob lookt upon himself as an Individuum Vagum as a Stranger or Pilgrim here to day and gone to morrow Gen. 47.9 So did the rest of the Patriarchs 1 Chron. 29.15 St. Paul durst not presume on much time but said He would do this and that if the Lord permit or if the Lord will as you may read Acts 18.21 Rom. 1.10 1 Cor. 4.19 1 Cor. 16.7 he thought himself Tenant at Will in the Clay-farm of his body So did St. James James 4.13 14 15. St. Peter lookt not to dwell long in his earthly Tenement 2 Pet. 1.14 Joseph of Arimathea erected his Tomb in his life-time in the midst of his Garden as some gather from Mat. 27.60 compared with John 19.41 that in the midst of his delights and pleasant walks he might think of Death The Heathens some of them have been very careful to preserve in their minds the thoughts of Death Plato one of the chief defined Life to be Meditatio Mortis a Meditation of Death And truly Death as the Philosopher writes of the Heart * Cor est primum vivens ultimum moâ—iens 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Aristot should be the first thing that lives and last that dies in our meditation Some †Manchest Al. Mond p. 51. Philosophers had their Graves alway open before their Gates that going out and coming in they might alway think of Death And we read of one * Ibid. p. 139 140. Philostrates that lived seven years in his Tomb that he might be acquainted with it against his Bones came to lie in it And though Lewis the XI King of France of that Name gave a strict charge that none should dare to name Death within his Court Yet Philip the Father of Alexander and King of Macedon every morning had a Monitor of Mortality for a Trumpet every morning was sounded at his Chamber and these words uttered with a loud Voice by one whom he had appointed 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Remember thou art a mortal Man He was willing every day to hear of Death which might any day rush in upon him Shall we by putting the thoughts of Death from us prove our selves to be worse than Heathens God forbid God as you have heard hath compared our Life in Scripture to things of short continuance And to such things as are oft in our eye that so we might not forget Death The two first Books of Moses 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Nativitas 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Exitus called Genesis and Exodus should mind us of that of the Poet Nascentes morimur finisque ab origine pendet At Birth begin we life to end This end doth on that Birth depend Every Dish of Meat that comes to our Table stands as a dead Corps So true is that of Seneca Mortibus vivimus We live by the death of other Creatures The four Seasons of the Year the Garments we wear scarce any thing that we behold but may mind us of our change for all things here below ring Changes The Sun setting may mind us that ere long the Sun of our Life must set Our very houses may mind us of our long homes When we are in Bed and darkness round about us we should consider that ere long we must lie in the Grave that House of Darkness for so it is called Job 17.13 Furthermore for I would fain convince the Reader of the shortness and uncertainty of his life every degree of Life is a step to Death one day added to our lives brings us nearer unto death Your life is shorter to day than it was yesterday God threatned Adam Gen. 2.17 That in the day that he did eat the
to perform God sent us not into the World as he did the * Psalm 104.26 Leviathan into the Sea to take our sport and pastime therein but he sent us hither as into a School to learn this one Lesson to die well Yet alas how negligent are most as if unconcerned herein This great concern is the least of their care Tell them of preparing for Death and they are ready to put us off as Felix did Paul Acts 24.25 Go thy way for this time when I have a convenient season I will call for thee but we never read that he call'd for him after I shall therefore Courteous Reader lay before thee some Considerations to move thee to prepare thy self for Death according to the forementioned Directions And here I have a large field before me but as the Disciples passing through the Field of Corn pluckt onely an ear or two and rubbed them in their hands so shall I content my self with three Considerations amongst many and handle them as briefly as I can with conveniency First then Consider 1 1. By this means thou shalt live comfortably 2 Cor. 1.12 Our rejoycing is this the testimony of our Conscience that in simplicity and Godly sincerity we have had our conversation in the World Rejoycing and working Righteousness is put together Isa 64.5 What joy and peace is there in believing Rom. 15.13 If the Angels in Heaven rejoyce at the conversion of a sinner as the Scripture affirms Luk. 15.7 10. surely the joy of a sinner converted must needs be very great in his heart How can it otherwise be For such an one is reconciled to God his sins are pardoned whereupon follows peace with God and rejoycing in hope of the Glory of God as you may see Rom. 5.1 2. And this peace of Conscience passeth all understanding Phil. 4.7 It is joy unspeakable and full of glory 1 Pet. 1.8 A continual Banquet together with the joy of the Harvest and of such as divide the spoyl are but dark representations of it Prov. 15.15 Isa 9.3 This is Manna in the Wilderness a foretaste and earnest of future Jubilees such an one is even in the Suburbs of Heaven so that the Term of a godly mans life who is continually fitting himself for Death may be truly called Hilary Term for a pure Christal Torrent of Divine Joy comes streaming into his Soul from the God of all comfort What should such an one fear Of whom should he be afraid At what should he be dismaid If he lives he lives to the Lord if he dies he dies in the Lord Living or dying he is the Lords Rom. 14.8 Object But do not we see those who take most pains in fitting themselves for Death most sad and sorrowful mourning for their own and other mens sins do they not meet with most trouble and afflictions so that their lives of all men are most uncomfortable Answ A carnal man can no more judge of a good mans condition than a pur-blind man can of Colours He is not acquainted with a good mans joy Prov. 14.10 The righteous have meat to eat which the World knows not of They have hidden Manna secret joy 2 Cor. 6.10 As sorrowful yet alwayes rejoycing Their weeping for their own and other mens sins Est quedam flere voluptas makes way for spiritual comfort As April-showers refresh the face of the Earth When the Righteous have been shedding tears at the Throne of Grace they oft arise from their knees with their hearts brim full of comfort If they meet with outward trouble as the Waves encrease so doth the Ark of Comfort arise above these Waves See 2 Cor. 1.3 4 5. Blessed be God even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ the Father of Mercies and the God of all Comfort who comforteth us in all our tribulation that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble by the comfort wherewith we our selves are comforted of God for as the sufferings of Christ abound in us so our consolation also aboundeth by Christ We read Acts 5.41 how the Apostles rejoyced that they were counted worthy to suffer When Saint Paul was in that great storm at Sea Acts 27. When neither Sun nor Stars in many dayes appeared vers 20. In the midst of that danger his Soul was 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Chrysost in a quiet Haven Dr. Boreman in Serm. on Phil. 3.20 p. 33. even in the bosom of God In that great darkness he had a light within the light of joy and comfort because God was with and in him I end this with that of Solomon Prov. 29.6 In the transgression of an evil man there is a snare that strangleth his joy but the Righteous doth sing and rejoyce Consider 2 2. By this means you may die comfortably A man who in his life-time hath been fitting himself for death is not afraid of it when God shall please to send it He can say Come Death come Lord Jesus come and well-come He can say to Death as Adonijah did to Jonathan the Son of Abiathar the Priest 1 King 1.42 Come in for thou art a valiant man and bringest good tydings He knows Death sets his Soul at liberty out of the Prison of the Body as the Angel did Peter out of Prison Acts 12.7 Upon the sight of Death his Spirit revives as Jacob's did when he saw the Wagons that were sent to carry him from a place of penury and misery to a place of plenty and happiness Gen 45.27 When Moses the Servant of the Lord had finisht his course God bids him Go up and die in the Mount Deut. 32.49 50. Deut. 34.5 It is there said He died according to the Word of the Lord secundum os Domini The Jews say that his Soul was suckt out of his mouth with a kiss God dealt by him as a fond Nurse by her Babe kissed him and laid him down to sleep Elijah requests God to take away his life 1 King 19.4 Aged Simeon like a Swan welcomed his approaching death with this melodious Song Sapientis animus totus in mortem prominet hoc vult hoc meditatur hac semper cupidine fertur Sen. ad Marcium c. 23. Nunc dimittis c. Luke 2.29 Lord now lettest thou thy Servant depart in peace according to thy Word c. St. Paul cries out Cupio dissolvi Phil. 1.23 I desire to depart and to be with Christ which is far better St. Ambrose ready to depart said to his Friends Non sic vixi ut me pudent inter vos vivere sed nec mori timeo quia bonum Dominum habemus He was neither ashamed to live nor afraid to die Old Hilarion being somewhat backward at first to entertain Death he checkt himself for his vain fears Egredore anima quid times Septuaginta annos servivisti Deo jam mori times Egredere Anima Go out my Soul said he what fearest thou Thou hast served God these threescore years and ten
of the rebellion of Corah and how the Earth opened her mouth and swallowed him up and his Company vers 32 33. So rebellious Absalom came to an untimely death and David was much moved with grief in that he died in rebellion 2 Sam. 18.9 33 compared See Prov. 16.14 The wrath of a King is as Messengers of Death but a wise man will pacifie it and it follows vers 15. In the light of the Kings countenance is life Be not disobedient and irreverent in your carriage towards Ministers which are your Spiritual Parens You may read 2 King 2.23 24. Two She Bears destroyed forty two Children for mocking the Prophet Though Children yet God would not bear it in them Possibly as some think because there were so many gathered together they were set on by their Idolatrous Parents to do what they did and therefore God justly punished them with the loss of their Children Lastly Be not disobedient to Natural Parents God may justly deprive them of natural life that are without natural affection Prov. 30.17 Prov. 20.20 Mar. 7.20 The eye that mocketh at his Father and despiseth to obey his Mother the Ravens of the Valley shall pick it out and the young Eagles shall eat it Homer though commonly reported to be blind yet saw and observed as much for speaking of one that did not relieve his Parents he tells us he lived but a short time 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Iliad Δ. Take heed then of disobedience to Magistrates Ministers or Natural Parents as you love your lives 2. Take heed of lustful uncleanness Sodom and Gomorrha and the Cities about them burnt strongly in lust Jude 7. and God sent a strange fire to destroy them from off the face of the Earth Gen. 19.24 25. So God cut off Onan for his filthiness Gen. 38.9 10. So 1 Cor. 10.8 you read how that for uncleanness there fell in one day three and twenty thousand Plin. Nat. Hist lib. 7. c. 53. Pliny tells us of Cornelius Gallus and T. Aetherius two great persons in Rome that died in the act of unchastity The Dog-dayes of lust are very dangerous Indeed this sin consumes the radical moisture and so in its own nature tends to weakness and sickness and the shortening of a mans dayes The wise Man tells you The Harlots house enclineth unto death and her paths unto the dead Prov. 2.18 so likewise Prov. 5.9 11. Prov. 6.26 33 34 35. Prov. 7.22 23. Prov. 31.3 Solomons Mother there adviseth him not to give his strength unto Women 3. Take heed of intemperance in eating and drinking This is as a Knife to cut our own Throats see Prov. 23.1 2. When thou sittest to eat with a Ruler a Magistrate or some great Man consider diligently what is before thee and put a Knife to thy Throat if thou be a man given to appetite Some read it impones cultellum gutturi tuo and then the sence is this thou dost as good as put a Knife to thy Throat if thou be a man given to appetite thou mayest endanger thy life if thou feedest too plentifully So vers 29 30. Who hath wo who hath sorrow who hath wounds without cause who hath redness of eyes They that tarry long at the Wine Our own luxuries as one saith fill us full of Diseases which shorten this our short day of life and set our Clock forward that it striketh dead before the time of our natural circle is gone about Deinde cogitemus saith Musculus Musculus in Ps 6.2 quae sit illorum vaesania qui per gulam intemperantiam seipsos donâ— sanitatis privant variis morbis obnoxios reddunt We may say of fasting and feasting as the Womâ—n sang of Saul and David Sam. 18.7 Saul hath slain his thousands and David his ten thousands feasting kills more ten to one than fasting Poor people who have the shortest meals have commonly the longest graces and the best health The Glutton digs his Grave with his own teeth the Drunkard drinks healths so long to others that he hath none to himself Non est in potâ vera salute salus And it is but just with God to strike him dead that makes himself dead drunk Take heed then of this sin it is good advice at all times but most seasonable at this time which is a time of much feasting 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Pythag. Aurea Carmina We ought saith an Heathen to have a care of our bodily health and to observe a mean in drinking dyet and recreation 4. Take heed of immoderate sorrow This like an heavy burthen breaks a man and makes him stoop Prov. 12.25 Heaviness in the heart of man makes it stoop So Prov. 15.13 A merry heart makes a chearful countenance but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken David tells us Psal 31.10 My life is spent with grief and my years with sighing And the Apostle saith 2 Cor. 7.10 The sorrow of the World worketh death Immoderate sorrow for loss of worldly things weakens the body and hasteneth death 5. Take heed of impatience passion and discontent The murmurring Israelites were destroyed of the destroyer 1 Cor. 10.10 An impatient man is 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 his own scourge We say truly the hasty man never wants wo. Pettish fretful passionate persons like the Demoniack in the Gospel Mar. 5.2 3. wound and cut themselves Wrath is compared to fire in Scripture Gen. 39.19 20. Esth 1.12 Est intus flamma medullas This fire of passion devours and consumes that which should maintain natural life The passionate man like Mount Aetna consumes his own bowels with inward burnings Thus as Eliphas tells Job Job 5.2 Wrath killeth the foolish man Vexing and fretting under providential dispensations spends a mans spirits and puts him upon taking such unlawful courses as are oft-times attended with destruction Prov. 19.19 A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment for if thou deliver him yet thou must do it again q. d. A passionate man is no sooner delivered from one danger but he brings himself into another 6. Take heed of Envy Job 5.2 Envy slayeth the silly one If a man be so silly as to hug this Viper in his bosom he doth it to his destruction Envy like a Moth doth insensibly consume a man depriving him of health and the comforts of this life Hence the wise Man calls envy the rottenness of the bones Prov. 14.30 The envious man melts away at the prosperity of others as you may see Psal 112.10 Invidus alterius rebus macrescit opimis The Dart of Envy is as a worthy Divine observes like that in Homer Dr. Pierce in Sinner impleaded 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Iliad γ. v. 348. Reflexa est ei cuspis Scuto in valido It alway recoyls into the breast of him that shot it and mischieves most at rebound 7. Take heed of pride and ambition
Rejoyce not when thine Enemy falleth and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth lest the Lord see it and it displease him Job 31.29 and he turn away his wrath from him and lay it upon thee See Obad. 12.13 14 15. God there threatneth the Edomites for rejoycing at the calamity that befel the Israelites This sin call'd 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 was condemned by the Heathens It is most opposite to the rule of charity which rejoyceth not in iniquity 1 Cor. 13.6 It maketh not others evil be it of sin or suffering matter of rejoycing 14. Take heed of innovating in God's Worship Nadab and Abihu for offering strange fire by fire from the Lord as with lightning were destroyed as you may read Levit. 10.1 2. 15. Take heed of invading the Ministers Office without a Call See Numb 16.35 You read there of two hundred and fifty men that offered Incense usurping the Priests Office were punished by fire wherein they offended So Vzziahs rash adventure to do the like was punished with the Leprosie as you read 2 Chron. 26.16 c. 16. Lastly Take heed of sins of the tongue as Lying Swearing Forswearing Cursing False-accusing Backbiting Brawling Blasphemy c. See Prov. 17.20 He that hath a perverse tongue falleth into mischief And Prov. 13.3 He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction So Prov. 18.21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof The Psalmists words shall shut up this Point Psal 34.12 13 14. What man is he that desireth life and loveth many dayes that he may see good Keep thy tongue from evil and thy lips from speaking guile Depart from evil and do good seek peace and ensue it I might add to these sins which endanger health and life bold and audacious attempts as leaping Hedges swimming Waters c. when there is no necessity for either This is called properly a tempting of God when men without any warrant from God's Word make tryal of his Wisdom Power and Goodness which is expresly forbidden Deut. 6.16 Ye shall not tempt the Lord your God as ye tempted him in Massah whereof you read Exod. 17.2 where they are said to tempt God by requiring a miraculus evidence of his presence among them Our Saviour did beat back the Devil with this Text out of Deuteronomy when he would have had him to cast down himself from the * Doctor Hammond Annot. on Mat. 4.5 Pinacle i. e. out-wing or battlement of the Temple Mat. 4.7 If Christ had cast himself down into a needless danger God might have justly left him to destruction without breach of his Promise God indeed hath promised to keep us but it must be in all our wayes Psal 91.11 which necessary part of the Sentence the Devil left out Mat. 4.6 God hath promised to keep us in all our wayes or warrantable courses but not in our wanderings The Israelites fell in the Wilderness when they tempted God 1 Cor. 10.9 Object But some may say Are not they that tempt God delivered Mal. 3.15 Do not we daily see many wicked men that are disobedient to Superiours drunkards lustful impatient envious ambitious c. live become old and are mighty in power yea and the Rod of God is not upon them Job 21.7 9. Did not the Psalmist see such were not in trouble like other men nor plagued like other men that made conscience of their wayes Psal 73.5 Answ Indeed it may so fall out that a wicked man may prolong his life in his wickedness Eccles 7.15 God may bear long with some such notorious offenders to shew his own patience and long suffering to exercise the faith and patience of his Servants To teach that there is a day of judgment wherein he hath appointed to judge the World in Righteousness Acts 17.31 God may bear with them to leave them inexcusable that they may fill up the measure of their sins and for their greater damnation at last Rom. 9.22 For these and other reasons best known unto himself he may suffer some wicked men to live and prosper But let not us let loose the reyns to sin and make the impunity of some few an encouragement to wickedness It is folly and madness to be careless because some few have escaped shipwrack Certainly as the Apostle saith after he had told us of several punishments befalling several Offenders for several sins 1 Cor. 10.11 Now all these things happened unto them for ensamples and they are written for our admonition upon whom the ends of the World are come And as an Heathen Author said Felix quem faciunt aliena pericula cautum Happy is he whom other mens harms do make to beware Well then life being so great a mercy let us avoid all such sins as may be a means to shorten it and let us use all lawful means to preserve it as Food and Physick which God hath appointed Let us not through discouragement of Spirit because of deadly dangers which we meet with in our Christian Callings Numb 10.14 15. as weary of life wish for death which was an infirmity in that good Man Elijah 1 King 19.4 Much less ought we through discontent as Jonah did Jonah 4.3 8. wish for death But most prodigiously to blame are they that lay violent hands upon themselves Man's breath saith a worthy Bishop is put into his body as a Tenant at Will into an house Dr. Abbot on Jonah 4.3 4. Lect. 26. p. 543. whereinto it may not enter without the good will of the Land-lord and being once in it must keep there and hold the building upright till it have its discharge to remove somewhere else Yet after all this that I have spoken concerning the care you should have to maintain health and preserve life Give me leave to put in a Caveat or cautionary Proposition to prevent a mistake And it is this Caution That you ought to hazard health and life for the Churches sake and for Christs sake to witness to his Truth if called to it 1 John 3.16 We ought to lay down our lives for the Brethren St. Paul was willing to spend and be spent 2 Cor. 12.15 for the propogation of the Gospel and good of God's Church and People see Acts 20.24 and 21.13 Truth hath been sealed with the blood of many Martyrs An Heathen set such a price on Truth that he thought it worth our lives Vitamque impendere vero Nec propter vitam vivendi perdere causam What saith the Apostle of Epaphroditus see Phil. 2.30 For the work of Christ he was nigh unto death not regarding his life to supply your lack of service towards me Epaphroditus undertook a great Journey to minister to Pauls necessity which is here called the Work of Christ for what is done to his Members he takes it as done to himself Mat. 25.40 This Journey occasioned his