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A61390 A discourse concerning old-age tending to the instruction, caution and comfort of aged persons / by Richard Steele ... Steele, Richard, 1629-1692. 1688 (1688) Wing S5386; ESTC R34600 148,176 338

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the world and to the desire of Life When the Aged man hath made it his business to honour God to save his own soul and to serve his own generation he may with unconceivable comfort say with Old Simeon Lord now lettest thou thy Servant depart in peace I have done with this life welcome be the grave welcome everlasting life SECT VIII THE Eighth Work of Old-age is Laying up a treasure in Heaven Where by Heaven I understand not only the Place but the Nature of the Treasures heavenly Treasures Some of these the Aged will have need of Before Death of some At Death of some After Death 1. You should lay up for your selves a Treasure of Prayers and Promises to support you before Death comes Of Prayer I have spoken before but there are Promises that are very comfortable and very necessary for Old people which they who are assured of Gods Veracity and their own Integrity may apply to themselves as if individually directed unto them The Apostle makes that inference from that excellent Promise which hath more value in it than all the Old mans baggs and bonds Heb. 13. 5. I will never leave thee nor forsake thee whence he inferrs vers 6. So that we even we may boldly say The Lord is my helper Another Promise there is most comfortable for Ancient people Isa. 46. 4. Even to your Old-age I am he and even to hoar hairs will I carry you I have made and I will bear even I will carry and will deliver you When our feeble legs will not carry us when the pillars of the house tremble and in effect cry out we can bear you no longer then will the power and goodness of God carry us up and deliver us yea when we approach to Death and fear presents it and the grave most formidably we may then apply what the Lord spake to Old Iacob concerning his going down into Egypt Gen. 46. 3. I am God the God of thy father fear not to go down into Egypt For I will go down with thee and will also surely bring thee up again So assuredly will the Lord go down with us to the grave and as surely bring us up again and how can we be afraid with such company and with such a promise Hoard on still there is another gracious Promise Psal. 23. 4. Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death I will fear no evil for thou art with me thy rod and thy staff they comfort me More yet Psal. 48. last For this God is our God for ever and ever he will be our guide even unto death These and such like Promises left by him that cannot lye will support the sinking spirits of a poor Christian more than all the friends the cordials the extrinsick comforts in the whole world 2. At Death you will need a Treasure of Faith and Patience The reign of Sense is expired somewhat is necessary to support a dying man more than a living healthy man. What is it that makes Death terrible to a poor creature The withdrawing of all a mans outward comforts and the Appearance of all his Sins When one is dying they must leave husband wife children parents friends house all Now Faith will give us a real sight of the other world and one sight of that quite disgraces and annihilates all the comforts of this world Adieu poor house I see a far better ready for me adieu my dearest friends and relations I see those enjoyments before me that utterly eclypse you all And then when your Sins are mustered up before you their heinous nature and deserved punishment and that Satan bestirs him to represent them with the greatest Terror to the Aged dying person if Faith be dormant the poor soul is driven into the pit of despair But a lively Faith flies to Iesus Christ runs into his wounds lays hold on his everlasting righteousness and so bids defiance to Satan yea even to the law and all his sins with Who is he that condemneth It is Christ that dyed It is related in an Epistle prefixed to Brentius's works that when a certain Senator in Suevia lay dying one like a Scribe came into his chamber with pen and paper calling to him to reckon up his sins for saith he I am sent from God to bring an account of them to his Tribunal Well saith the Sick man raising up himself as well as he could and perceiving that he had to do with his great Enemy the Devil write this down first The seed of the woman shall break the serpents head and thou mayst write all my sins under it Whereupon the Accuser of the brethren presently vanished and left the weak man in peace And you will have need of Patience also that after ye have done and suffered the will of God ye may receive the promise Heb. 10. 36. So acute or else tedious are some Distempers that they will strain all the nerves of the Soul to wrestle with them Lay up therefore by diligent reading hearing meditation and Prayer a stock of these Graces before the evil day come These are the true riches and which neither the fire can burn nor the plague infect nor time wast nor thieves purloyn 3. And lastly It behoves the Aged to lay up a Treasure which they may meet with After death to wit of Good works In this life is your seed time for these and they that scatter this precious seed shall doubtless mark doubtless they shall come again with rejoycing bringing their sheaves with them Psal. 126. 6. Faith and good works may well agree in a Christian and though they cannot cooperate to a mans Iustification for though both of them are Acts of a creature yet Faith derives not this influence from the Subject but from the Object it justifies as it apprehends and imbraces Christ notwithstanding both are necessary to Salvation Luk. 12. 33. Sell that ye have and give alms provide your selves baggs which wax not old a treasure in the heavens that faileth not where no thief approacheth neither moth corrupteth i. e. This treasure is neither liable to intrinsick decay nor to extrinsick casualty What other treasure hath escaped danger but who can scale the Empyrean Heaven These the Apostle calls a good foundation 1 Tim. 6. 19. Charge the rich that they do good that they be rich in good works ready to distribute willing to communicate Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come that they may lay hold on eternal life Other riches you lay up for others yea perhaps for such as you know not but by doing all the good you can you lay up something in store for your selves What if the advantage be not at present visible men will lay out money upon a good Reversion though they never live to injoy it Here is a Reversion worth the having Eternal life Many useful things may be done in this life which cannot be done by
be afraid going to receive your just punishment but hoping for my reward in the other Life I am not amazed with this at all But now when a man hath set his House and Heart in order and finisht his work he may sing his Nunc dimittis with comfort and say as that holy Woman x I am one that neither wisheth Death nor feareth his might but as merry as one that 's bound for Heaven 4. There is much Folly in this slavish fear of Death A holy Care to prepare for it is far better than an unprofitable Fear For the passion of Fear is planted in us for the avoiding of things hurtful but there is no avoiding of this fate There is no man that hath power over the Spirit to retain the Spirit and there is no discharge in that War Eccles. 8. 8. That disquiet is therefore foolish that torments but profits not How can the mind be quiet at any time which is afraid of what is impendent at all times It is observed by Seneca that neither Children nor Idiots are afraid of Death and he infers that it is a base thing that Reason I add the Scripture should not work as much security in us as Folly doth in them Shall learned Old men fear that which foolish Young men do not O wretched Old man said Tully that in so long life hast not learn'd to despise Death I end this with the Observation of Iudicious Mr. Calvin He that cannot quiet his Heart in the holy contempt of Death hath profited but little in the Faith of Christ. Let it therefore be the business of each Aged person to be reconciled to Death to be dying daily by Mortifying your affections to all the vanities of this life and by meditating on the life to come Never fret at that Death which leads you to immortality Rather rejoyce that you are taking leave of a World of Sin and taking flight into a Land of uprightness O Father said an Officer to a noble Ancient Persian Minister that trembled at the approach of Death shut your Eyes but a little and you shall see God in Glory And thus I conclude this Particular that too many Old people never fear Death for they never spend thoughts about it that the young have as much reason to apprehend it as the Old that a slavish fear of it is folly in any and that no good man needs to be affrighted but rather comforted with it So that upon a just Survey of all the Inconveniences of Old-age all Aged persons may answer as Tully tells of one Gorgias who being 107 years old was asked why he was contented to live so long Why said he I have nothing whereof to accuse Old-age and the truth is it seems perverse and unreasonable that all people should desire to attain unto it and then when they have attain'd it to dislike it Difficulties and Disadvantages there are with it Whereof no Age or condition is free but they are Tolerable and Ordinable to the good of all that fear God. And so much may suffice for this fifth Point to be handled CHAP. VI. The Priviledges of Old-age SECT I. I Proceed now in the Sixth place to discourse the Priviledges and Comforts of Old-age That there is some peculiar Blessing and Dignity in Old-age is evident both by the Light of Scripture and the Light of Nature The First Commandment with promise is Honour thy Father and thy Mother that thy days may be long in the Land which the Lord thy God giveth thee The like Promise you will find Psal. 91. last With long life will I satisfie him and shew him my Salvation Which shews that Old-age whatever Inconveniences it is attended withall is in its self a special Blessing And on the Contrary it is threatned as an heavy Judgment unto Eli that God would cut off his Arm and the Arm of his Fathers House that is he would take away his might and the strength of his Family in that there should not be an Old man in his House 1 Sam. 2. 31. And in general that bloody and deceitful men shall not live out half their days Psal. 55. last Whereupon holy David prays Psal. 102. 24. O my God take me not away in the midst of my days Finally the Holy Ghost assures us that the Beauty of old men is the Gray Head Psal. 20. 29. By all which it plainly appears that Old-age is a desirable Mercy in the judgment of God himself Agreeable hereunto is the Ancient Hebrew Proverb in Ben Syra to this effect Senex in domo bonum signum in domo And if that be a real good thing which all men desire then certainly there is some peculiar Goodness in Old-age for that all men desire to attain it So also we mingle among our good wishes to others this of a long life When Kings and Grandees are saluted this is the common Acclamation that they may live long and if it were possible live for ever And Antiquity is so valuable a thing that not only Families and Cities but Nations have had long and sharp disputes about the Antiquity of their respective people as the Egyptians Phoenicians Scythians And the Athenians had this Character affixed upon them that they could discourse well but the Lacedemonians could do well because an aged person coming upon a time into a great Assembly at Athens had no Respect given him but at Sparta in the like Convention they all rose up to seat him So that it grew Proverbial That Old-age dwelt most like its self at Sparta So then as there are some Inconveniences in Old-age which yet as you have seen have divers things to mitigate them so it hath many Priviledges and Comforts which do over-ballance them God hath set the one over against the other to the end that man should find nothing after him There is only this difference that all our Troubles spring from below but all our Mercies drop from above The particular Priviledges and Comforts of Old-age are these following First Old-age is Greater in Authority than any other Age. There is an Authory resulting from the Law of Nature as well as that which is conferr'd by Civil Laws the former is that wherewith Old-age is invested God himself who is the Fountain of Honour hath given them a Patent for it so that their Authority hath something in it divine and they seem to have a kind of Natural Government over others Hereby the Sentence or Opinion of the Aged may well conclude as much as the Arguments of the younger and he must have a great deal of Wisdom or of Confidence that shall contradict what a wise Aged person hath asserted That there is a certain Authority in Old-age is plain from divers Scriptures As Isa. 9. 15. The Ancient and the Honourable he is the Head. Now we know that the Head is the Seat of Rule When Moses had occasion for some Coadjutors with
SECT VII THE Seventh Work of Old-age is Mortification And the Object hereof is double 1. That which is Evil in it self 2. That which is Lawful in it self The Religious Old person hath work in both these 1. One great work of Old-age is Dying to sin to all sin The time past of our life may suffice us to have walked in lasciviousness lusts excess of Wine revellings banquettings c. 1 Pet. 4. 3. We have sinn'd enough already yea much more than enough it is high time to undo that which hath almost undone us We are dying it is necessary that our sins dy before us and that by Faith in the death of Christ and Repentance from dead works for want of which course our Evidences prove litigious and snarled with inextricable doubts It is not enough that we want strength or opportunity to sin but our wills and desires towards it must be dead also Sin is only asleep or benumbed in us if we have not used Gods means to crucify it It 's not sufficient that we leave it except we loath it Go through-stitch therefore with this work do it quickly do it sincerely it is Kill or be Kill'd and necessity makes the Coward resolute Dread not any Scriptural severities necessary in Mortification Some Devils are not cast out without Prayer and Fasting and Hippocrates observes that Old-age is the fittest for the use of Fasting The wounds that sin hath made must be searched to the bottom and doubtless it is never crucified no more than Christ was without pain How justly doth the Scripture still stigmatize sin with the name of Folly to weave a Webb that must be unrav'led and to make us spend our lives between sinfull joyes and painfull sorrowes And though Old-age doth not mortify sin by it self yet cooling our lusts and passions it proves helpfull in that work and provided we be truly thankful unto God for that advantage and that we use other necessary means to that end we may comfortably acquiesce in that blessed effect and rejoyce that the things which are displeasing to God are become unpleasant to us But we must not be content to be only passive in the decayes of sin we must be active in that work If ye through the Spirit mortifie the deeds of the Body ye shall live Rom. 8. 13. And as All sin must be the Object of Mortification so especially all Youthful sins For as Chrysostom says An Old man acting juvenile sins is far more ridiculous than young persons that commit those sins To have our hearts burn with Lust or Revenge when our veins are freezing with Age the soul rampant and the body dying is monstrous And yet we know how S. Hierom himself complains of scalding motions that were ready to invade his withered body And the Scripture gives us a sad Instance hereof even of Solomon the best and wisest of men alive that had done more for God and God for him than any man in the age he lived in that he when he was between Fifty and Sixty years of age should be so far inslaved to his strange wives as to be carried by them to worship strange gods For it came to pass when Soloman was Old that his wives turned away his heart c. 1 Kin. 11. 4. Whereby he set in such a cloud as hath drawn his very Salvation into question Let it be a warning to all Aged people to see that their Corruptions be not asleep but dead as far as is attainable in this life that the Old man as well as the outward man perish and which will be a good proof thereof that the inward man be renewed day by day That our Thoughts our Words our very Behaviour and Attire proclaim that Sin and we are parted never to meet again It was a good answer of a Lacedemonian to one that asked him why he wore his Beard so long Answ. It is to mind me that I do nothing unbeseeming my hoary hairs A light behaviour in a grave person is foolish and loathsome For as dead flies cause the ointment of the Apothecary to send forth a stinking saviour so doth a little folly him that is in reputation for wisdom and honour Eccl. 10. 1. 2. The Other Object of Mortification proper for Old-age is The World and all the innocent but charming vanities thereof Not that they are bound actually to forsake the World either the needful cares or the lawful comforts of it But to wean and abate their desires of it their delights in it their cares about it This should be every Christians work but it should be the Aged persons care in a more eminent measure For they are ready to leave this world and ascend into another and every one takes off their mind from an house they are leaving The world also is forsaking them the pleasure they have formerly taken in meats apparel building is much decayed the things which did formerly ravish are now grown insipid and doth not this call aloud to them to real Mortification you should most readily consent to part with them and say Farewell my gold and all my gayeties I meant not to injoy but use you I can be happy without you It is the absurdest sight in the world to see one gaping and grasping after this world when he is going into another Let your moderation be known unto all men the Lord is at hand Phil. 4. 5. Your loyns should be always girded about and your lights burning and ye your selves like unto men that wait for your Lord Luk. 12. 35. I write unto you Fathers Love not the world neither the things that are in the world 1 Joh. 2. 14 15. Abate your love to things below and increase your love to things above Nothing can overcome love but Love love of earthly things but the Love of heavenly things as nothing can fetch out fire like fire O when we do love all these things for God we will willingly leave them all to go to God for whose sake only we valued them Otherwise you will find it an hard pluck to leave them even like the plucking the Skin off your hand whereas the heart that is mortified to them can part with them as easily as you can draw the glove off your hand How readi●… did 〈◊〉 g●… up into the mount and dye what little noise or dispute did Iacob or David or Paul make about leaving ●…he world They were dead to 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 He that said I am ready to be offer●… had said before the world is crucified to me and I unto ●…he world So that the Aged person should be mortified to Life it self he should be very well content to dy It was a sad Confession of Caesar Borgia that ambitious Grandee when he was near his end that he was prepar'd for every occurrent but Death which was the only thing that he should have been most ready for But 't is Grace not years that makes us dead to
what is your pillow or rather your heart made of that you can sleep so long in a state of Condemnation To be born in sin is sad but to live and dye in sin will prove a thousand times worse Remember that the destroying Angels began at the Ancient men before the house Ezek. 9. 6. It s true late Repentance is seldom true but yet true Repentance is never too late O then lay all business aside and set your selves about the New creature Now or never now and ever If you turn the deaf ear unto God now beware lest he deny you either the space or the grace to repent hereafter lest he answer you Ubi consumpsisti farinam c. where thou hast spent the flour of thy life there bestow the bran of it Take warning by that Penitent in story who had often determined to begin his Amendment from som●… eminent time as the First day of the year or his Birth day that so his Repentance might have some Remarkable date but when that Time came he was ready to adjourn it till another time Who thereupon concluded that he would make that present Day though it were obscure in the Calender yet memorable to his Soul by his turning through divine assistance unto God. Do you not perceive how you are in danger to be trapann'd by Satan who suggested to you in the time of youth that Repentance was then too early and who will now perswade it is grown too late ye have de●…err'd this work long enough already now you must use double diligence about it It is said of the Mulberry tree that it casts out its buds latest but then thrusts them all out in a night You are late in the Vineyard you must work the harder The whole business of your life hitherto stands for nothing if you be not new born you will cease to be in this world before you begin to live if your last change get the start of this first change you will curse the day of your birth to all eternity Now for your Direction in this great Work your present business is to get a Competence of Knowledge in the Doctrine of Religion and then searching your own Hearts to compare them with the holy Law of God. For example look your face in the glass of that hundred and nineteenth Psalm or of the Fifth Sixth and Seventh of Matthew and then through Gods help you will presently find the dissimilitude yea the contrariety between them And then fix your mind upon the Wrath of God hanging over all persons in your Condition and upon the sufficient satisfaction made by Iesus Christ for all that believe and repent and apply all this to your selves Frequent the serious Preaching of Gods word and begin to pray in good earnest Turn thou me and I shall be turned and be assured that Spirit which inclines you to the use of these means will breath life into your dead and dry bones and make you new Creatures And in case you find your selves at a loss in this affair repair to some Able and faithful Minister of Christ and be not afraid or asham'd to lay open your Condition and follow his guidance therein For if men are not content in case of an Infirmity of body to hear the Physick Lectures or to read books of Receits but will state their own case to the Physician himself and will do the like to the Lawyer in weighty cases concerning their Estates how much more need have you of a Godly Divine to direct and assist you in an affair wherein body and Soul are at stake and that for Eternity And so much for that First and fundamental Repentance so absolutely necessary for such Ancient people as have spent their lives in the service of the world and the flesh and were never truly converted unto God. But besides these Repentance in the renewed Acts thereof is a proper and necessary work for All Old people whatsoever You have lived a long time and through Omissions and Commissions have contracted abundance of guilt Trace your selves therefore from place to place from one period of your life to another and strictly reckon with your selves Study the Ten Commandments in their true extent they are called Ten words but they command ten thousand Duties and forbid ten thousand Sins many whereof you have ten thousand times failed in and in divers of them with great aggravations and then sit down and cry out O that my head were a fountain and mine Eyes rivers of tears to bewail these offences against a gracious God Upon this account did holy Augustine in his Old-age write his Confessions wherein he makes no difficulty to shame himself that he might give glory to God. And the Book of Ecclesiastes is judged to be the Poenitenials of King Solomon in his Old-age wherein he plainly confesseth his Vanity in seeking for Happiness in a vain and vexatious World and warns all young men to beware of such like folly Alas if you had fallen but seven times a day yet in seventy years those Sins would have amounted unto almost Two hundred thousand offences and can you reflect upon this without amazement nay it is a wonder that we do not as Nectarius his Accuser of old weep out our Eyes for very grief When the leaves are fallen from the trees as is aptly observed by One the birds nests are easily seen which were invisible before so when through Age our frothy vanities are wither'd we may palpably discover the sallies of Pride Wantonne●…s and Folly yea those nest of vermine and vipers which replenished our youthful dayes It was the sober Advice of that Statesman Sir Thomas Randolph in his Old-age after he had been eighteen times Embassador in forreign parts to Sir Thomas Walsingham Secretary of State It is now time sayes he for us to leave the tricks of State and to imploy our time before Death in Repentance for the Sins of our Lives And Blessed be God that hath appointed this Remedy and the Blood of Christ without which all our tears could not wash out one Sin that poor Sinners have this after-game of Recovery when they have been undone by Sin when we have eaten so much of the forbidden fruit in our youth we have need of this worm-wood in our Old-age Renew therefore daily the Acts of unfaigned Repentance and take account duly of your selves as some of the very Heathens have done sith you must give account to God very shortly and he that daily reckons with himself will have but one day to reckon for when he comes to dye But be sure you mistake not the Nature of Repentanee For it is not only a Trouble an Anger a Sorrow but it is made up of Grief and Hatred Grief for the Offence to God and Hatred of the Sins we grieve for So that Repentance is a turning to God from all sin with grief for it and hatred of it And the best Proof you can
had not beguiled us Hence comes Neglect of the means of Grace to which we may adde Drowsiness in the use of them Aged people are apt to satisfie themselves in the Omission of Reading Hearing Praying by their craziness and infirmities Indeed when we are inevitably hindred in these Means and are grieved for that hindrance God will supply those wants but if we be glad that we have an occasion comen in the way whereby we may without sin omit our duty it savours strongly of hypocrisie And Old people are more concern'd than others to be diligent herein for many of them have put off much of their greatest business to their Old-age and therefore their plea of Impotence will be overruled I have lost a World of time said the learned Salmasius on his death-bed If I had one year longer I would spend it in reading David's Psalms and in Paul's Epistles Neither imagine that you are too old to learn for the Fundamentals of Doctrine and Practice may easily and must necessarily be learned else he that made you will not save you and he that formed you will shew you no favour Isa. 27. 11. As weak as you are you could creep to the Assembly to be laden back again with Gold and a grain of grace is worth a world of riches When some outward sickness afflicts you find a man carried in a bed to Christ and the house untiled to let him down through the roof rather than continue under it Luk. 5. 18. and will you languish in your spiritual distempers and use no means for healing Be not deceived God is not mocked he never accepts the will for the deed if the deed can well be done nor chuses Mercy before sacrifice where both may be offered And though your Years may dispose you to Drowsiness in the service of God yet they will not wholly excuse you We read but of one person in the Bible that slept at Sermon and he was taken up dead thereby Act. 20. 9. It is a sin charged on them of old Isa. 64. 7. There is none that calleth on thy name that stirreth up himself to take hold on thee You should use all possible means to shake off that drowsie distemper and set the holy God before you and remember that your own cause is still pleading or trying that the diligent hand makes rich in this world and the diligent heart rich for ever and that Grace and Comfort are like the Manna which was to be gather'd early or else it vanished they that loved their beds starved their bellies How much good might you do and get notwithstanding your years if you would shake off that slothful distemper that haunts you how many have lamented at their end their loss of time Nothing so much troubled that Excellent Preacher Dr. Robert Harris when he was on his death-bed as Loss of time Rouse up then your benumbed spirits your time of Action will last but a while Consider wherein you are capable to serve your generation by the will of God and up and be doing The Grave will be most irksome to the loyterer but most welcome to the labourer for there the weary and only they will be at rest 4. The Fourth Temptation which Aged persons are liable unto is Expectation still of longer life No man is so Old saith the Orator but thinks it very possible to weather it out a year longer and such men do upon the matter think they may live alwayes It hath been an old complaint that men eat and drink as though they must dye to morrow and yet buy and build as though they must live alwayes How usual is it with very Aged men and women to contrive and appoint affairs for a month or a year beforehand It is not only young persons that say To day or to morrow we will go into such a City and continue there a year and buy and sell and get gain Whereas you know not what shall be on the morrow For what is your life it is even a vapour that appeareth for a little time and then vanisheth away Jam. 5. 13 14. But even Old persons are apt to think the same thing The most decrepit person fancies he shall abide here a little longer and when that time is expir'd still reckons to continue a little longer The folly and ungroundedness of this Imagination is obvious For what should induce one that is already dying to think that he shall not very quickly dy out and out Alas Death hath laid its cold hand already upon us Our Eyes our Ears our Hands our Legs our Lungs our very Vitals are death-struck already Death puts in for a share in every day we spend Have we taken any Lease of our lives for a determinate time Can we produce any Reason any one Reason to prove that we should live a year or a week longer I am sure the provoking Sins which are in our Souls and the unruly Humours which are in our Bodies render our speedy death more likely than a longer life besides the rage of Satan against us and the many Casualties incident to us Now when a man expects any thing and hath no reason for such his expectation it is lamentably ridiculous But what little Reason soever there is for such an Imagination there is some Cause of it And the cause seems to be a Lothness to dy Too few there are that are willing to part with things seen for things unseen They are loth to go out of this world of men and women into a world of Souls Death is like a cup that will either mend or end and such a dose is taken with a trembling hand And therefore the heart cryes out Let me alone this year also Thus men would put far from them the evil day and it will prove an evil day when it is thus deferr'd Alas it is not the duration of ones life but the goodness and comfort of it that is considerable This the dim eye of Nature saw and concluded that a wise man chuses to live as long as he ought not as long as he could I know it is a hard pluck to have a Soul and a body that have lived long together to part a-sunder but it is irrevocably appointed unto men to dye and when a thing is indispensably necessary it is the best course to consider what will best mitigate and render it either desirable or tolerable Wherein as right Reason may contribute much so Christian Religion much more whereby the holy Soul is assured of a far better house than the body and the body of a far better estate after it hath slept a while in the grave To Remedy therefore this Temptation Consider the Folly and ill Effects thereof That is a foolish Traveller who being quite spent with the fatigue of his journey would turn again and trave●… it over again when as nothing is more welcome to the weary than a quiet lodging Upon
occasion of this groundless Expectation in that rich man Luk. 12 our Saviour plainly calls him Thou fool For it is the rankest folly to expect when winter is coming that it will relent and retire again because we distast it No more will Death forbear us but when our Name is called we must go But this vain expectation of a longer life unfits us for Death it keeps the Soul secure and careless we deferr that till to morrow which should be done to day we lose the present time and dispose of the future which is not in our hands but in Gods This causes Men to procrastinate their Repentance to deferr the Good works which they have purposed to do yea the very making of their Last Will hath been protracted hereupon by many until they have bin uncapable to do it Let all Aged persons therefore be advised to set Death each morning between themselves and the ensuing night and every night make that reasonable supposition that it may arrest you before morning The messenger that you have so long looked for will not amaze you when he comes As the meeting of a stroke breaks the force of it so the Sting of death is in a great measure lost when we are first aware of it He that in this respect dyes daily will easily and happily dye at last SECT VI. THE Sixth Work of Old-age is Providence for Posterity Too many when they are going out of this World care not what becomes either Temporally or Eternally of those that shall come after them And accordingly will neither plant'a Tree nor repair an House nor do any thing for the benefit of Posterity They cry It will serve our time and so suffer all things to go to ruine because they are removing into another world themselves yea and commit or permit wilfull wast divers ways for somepresent small advantage leaving great inconveniences to their Successors whereas the very Heatheus had better principles and injoyned their Old men to plant trees c. which might be usefull to another Generation Thus a man may be benefiting others still after he is dead and gone and God may be praised for your care and kindness by them which succeed you And another sort there are that in stead of leaving any Blessing or benefit do lay up a Curse for their Posterity by leaving them Estates which they have got by Fraud and Injustice or some unconscionable course which is the ready way to melt away the rest how justly soever obtained You cannot invent a more compendious and infallible means to undoe all your Posterity than by transferring to them Goods or Estates indirectly gotten for God is righteous and will not prosper unrighteous dealings Those riches will perish by evil travel and he begetteth a Son and there is nothing in his hand Eccl. 5. 14. But if you have any care or concern for your Posterity lay up a stock of Prayers for them and leave them as is aforemention'd wholsome and good Rules concerning Piety Equity and Charity Leave them an Account of your own Experience in all things material that so if they have any brains they may cheaply learn what you have dearly bought And especially leave them a Copy of your own good Example which will be a constant Monitor and Check to them in the whole course of their conversation But these having bin touched before that which remains for the Peace Comfort and good of Posterity is a Prudent and seasonable Settling of your outward Estate It is strange to see the great backwardness of many Aged persons to this work as if making their Will would either lessen their Estates or shorten their Lives a gross and groundless Opinion whereas the neglecting of this affair hath a train of very ill consequences particularly many of the most tedious Suits of Law are occasion'd thereby mutual Love among Relations spoiled the poor overcome by the rich the simple by the cunning the Orphan by the Guardian and very often the whole Estate squandred away in trying for it What a folly is this to neglect that which would both quiet your own minds and preserve quiet among them that come after Ten lines discreetly written would prevent ten thousand lines when you are dead When the Lord therefore sent a Message of Death by the Prophet Isaiah to King Hezekiah he commanded him to set his house in order Isa. 38. 1. as if that work must of right go before his death The Aged person then ought to present this Message daily to his Soul Man Woman set thy house in order For since it is uncertain in what place or in what moment Death waiteth for us it behoves us to wait for it in every place and every moment and consequently to set not only the heart but the house in Order And in the doing of this work let Reason and Iudgment over-rule Passion and Affection If need be advise in Law the neglect whereof renders the Testaments of many persons nothing but Bones of Contention and so the sparing of a small Fee at present proves the spending of many in a short time But however weigh your Purposes in a good Conscience and remember that you are only Deputies under God whose you are and your whole Estate that it be so Devised as may agree with his Revealed will Think with your selves what judgment wise and impartial persons will pass upon your Disposals when you are in the grave Pray therefore unto God on this occasion that he would first Direct and then Establish your Purposes which is the likeliest way to bring them to pass And dispatch this affair Timcusly while you are in health and strength For you can never do it as you would nor perhaps as you should when you are in the power of those that stand waiting for your Estate They who are so weak that they must be beholden to their Relations for every Refreshment they have need of cannot have the liberty or opportunity to order their affairs in an impartial manner What if upon the alteration of your circumstances you revise your Will and alter it every year Is it not much better to be at that trouble than either to deferr it till you can make none at all or such as must savour greatly of your present weakness Do not imagine that the Expedition of this will hasten your Death For what influence or efficacy can this have to procure any such effect It were easie to produce those that have never bin without a Will written and sealed for Thirty or Forty years together It affords a man great satisfaction in case any sudden sickness seize upon him that he hath nothing of any earthly affairs to trouble him nothing to do but to bear or to be relieved of his distemper For when our inward State is fixed and our outward State is settled yet we shall find it work enough to grapple with the disquiets of a disease and with the pangs of Death