who gave it So Mat. 10.28 our Saviour teacheth that the Soul cannot be kill'd though the Body be So Mat. 22.32 God is not the God of the dead yet he is said to be the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob These Patriarchs then were alive as to their Souls You see then the Soul dyes not with the Body And if the Soul of a good man it is in bliss and happiness even in the state of separation as these places shew Luke 23.43 2 Cor. 5.1 8. Phil. 1.23 Rev. 14.13 The Body is as it were the Nest or Cage of the Soul Death disturbs this Nest opens this Cage and then the Soul that Bird of Paradise flyes away to the kingdom of Heaven Seneca Seneca ad Merc. cap. 24. could tell disconsolate Mercia Imago duntaxat filii tui periit ipse quidem aeternus meliorisque nunc status est despoliatus onexibus alienis sibi relictus That the Image only of of her Son was defaced by death and that himself was Eternal in a better state eased of his uneasie burdens and now at freedom to enjoy himself 2. Consid There is not a fitter place for the Body of thy deceased Friend than the Grave is Gen. 23.4 Give me a possession of a burying place with you saith Abraham to the Children of Heth that I may bury my dead out of my sight He would be rid of Sarah when she was dead he would have beautiful Sarah removed out of his sight he would have the Wife of his bosom laid under foot When once we are dead all beauty and glory ceaseth and we become loathsome to our best friends and the Grave is the fittest place for us 3. Consid Thy friend fares no worse than Princes do The Grave is called The house appointed for all living Job 30.23 Living men in short time become dead men and are housed there Psal 89.48 What man is he that liveth and shall not see death Shall he deliver his soul from the hand of the Grave No death will attach the greatest and the Grave be a Prison to hold their bodyes fast 4. Consid Is not the Grave a desirable place Death is a sleep and the Vault or Grave is a Dormitory or Bed for the Body to rest in See Isa 57.1 2. The Righteous that are taken away are said to enter into peace and rest in their beds Poor afflicted Saints are glad when they can find the Grave See Job desired it Job 3.13 c. and 14.13 O that thou wouldest hide me in the Grave he longed for it 5. And lastly Consid Thy Friends Body shall rise again and if he dyed in the Lord be made a glorious body The Body of man shall rise again as appears by holy Writ Deut. 32.39 1 Sam. 2.6 Job 14.7 c. Job 19.25 26 27. Isa 26.19 Ezek 37.1 5. Dan. 12.2 Joh. 11.23 24. ◠Cor. 15. The Apostle spends the longest Chapter in all his Epistles in proving the Resurrection of the Body against some in the Church of Corinth that denyed it Most of the Heathens dreamed of an everlasting Separation Nobis cum semel occidit brevis lux Nox est perpetuò una dormienda Catullus But Christians make the Resurrection of the Body an article of their Faith Manchest All mon. in contemplatio mortis immortalitatis And truly when we see as an honourable person observed worms and flyes and other creatures that spend the winter season in a kind of Death revive in the Spring when we see our selves dead every night and alive in the morning we may easily conclude and believe the Resurrection of the Body No stone great enough could be laid in the mouth of Christs Sepulchre to hinder him from rising again and nothing shall hinder the rising of God's dear servants St. Austin saith Bodyes of Believers shall be raised tantâ facilitate quantâ faelicitate with as much facility as felicity with as much ease as happiness The Body of a Believer is a pretious treasure which God locks up in the Cabinet of the Grave so much is implyed in that Phrase Job 14.13 O that thou wouldest hide me in the Grave We use to hide our choicest treasure At the great day of Judgement he will open his Cabinet and take out the Body and it shall be as good nay better than before There shall then be a new Edition of the Body in a fairer Letter more amended for Phil. 3.20 21. Our conversation is in Heaven saith the Apostle from whence we look for a Saviour the Lord Jesus Christ who shall change our vile Body that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious Body according to the working whereby he is able to subdue all things to himself The same Body shall rise again the same for substance but not for quality a change of it there shall be but 't is for the better The vile body shall be changed that it may be fashioned like unto Christs glorious body and that you should not doubt of it he tells you it is done according to the working whereby he is able to subdue all things to himself q. d. There is nothing too hard for Omnipotency to effect Your friends body though sown in corruption is raised in incorruption sown in dishonour yet raised in glory 1 Cor. 15.42 c. It shall then be a glorious body indeed for it shall be beautiful full of brightness active and nimble not stand in need of outward refreshment it shall not be subject to irksom labours afflictions and diseases it shall not dispose the soul to sin nor the soul make use of the body as a weapon to fight against God it shall be an immortal body and every part and member of it shall have as much happiness as it is capable of Such honour have all the bodies of Believers at Christ's second coming So then thy Friends Soul is not eternally divorced from his Body nor shall the Body lye for ever in the grave but at Christ's second coming which will be shortly it shall rise again and his Soul be re-united to it in a more glorious and firm contract and they shall enter together into the Kingdom of Heaven Mat. 25.34 Dr. Abbot on Jonah Lect. 15. To end this You know a Watch is taken in pieces before it be mended and things new cast are broken first So thy Friend's Body must be knockt in pieces by death and the power of the grave that it may be new cast not only in its old figure but to a better form in the day of the Resurrection Wherefore comfort one another with these words 1 Thes 4.18 With what words with those words going before vers 13 c. Whereof this is the summe that they shall rise again and be for ever with the Lord. 13th Apology answerd Another cryes out This Friend or Relation that God hath taken away was a good and useful person a very charitable man c. not only I my self but the
lest I should exceed the bounds of an Epistle craving your Lordships Patronage and Acceptance of these my Labours I take leave and rest My Lord Your Honours most humbly devoted Servant Tho. Allestree Ashow Jan. 27. 1670. To the Reader Courteous Reader SOme judicious Divines have looked upon these following Notes as a Talent not to be buried in a Napkin or in a few sheets of Paper in my Study I therefore resolved at last to press them for publick service This I can say I have not offered thee that which cost me nothing I have spent much time and labour in the composure of this following Treatise What I have met with in reading that might serve for my present purpose I have digested into a method for thy benefit and the principal Quotations I have set down A Posy is not cast away because made up of several Flowers nor Honey distasted which the diligent Bee gathers here and there nor I hope wilt thou like this Book the worse because there are several Quotations in it The former part of this Funeral Handkerchief may teach thee to take patiently the death of Friends We read Act. 19.12 That frō the body of Paul were brought to the sick Handkerchiefs or Aprons and the Diseases departed from them and the evil spirits went out of them This Handkerchief brought to thee from mine hand may through Gods blessing be a means to cure thee of melancholly immoderate sorrow discontent and such like distempers of spirit which may arise at death of Friends and Relations Mine Arguments are grounded upon Divine Writ And as David said of the Sword of Goliah 1 Sam. 21.9 There is none like that give it me So say I of Scripture-Arguments there are none like them These are right words and so the more perswasive Job 6.25 How forcible are right words The latter part of this Treatise may teach thee several good uses which thou oughtest to make of the death of Friends and Relations The first part is far larger than the second what though A large first makes recompence for the shorter second Course at any mans Table And this I also say That though the first part be greater in bulk yet the latter is of greater worth both parts I hope may in some measure answer expectation as to what they promise but the latter chiefly if thou livest up to it may be a means to promote thy eternal Salvation which is the hearty desire of Thy faithful Friend and Servant T. 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The Porch Entrance or Preface to to the ensuing Discourse WHen a Friend is going a long Journey it is a commendable piece of civility to go with him some part of the way and to weep at parting so civil were the people to St. Paul Act. 20.37 38. they accompanied him to the ship and wept over him So when our Friends depart and go to their long-home from whence they shall never return till time shall be no more is it not good manners to accompany them to the Grave and shed some tears for them whom we shall see no more with mortal eyes Eccl. 12.5 Man goeth to his long-home and the Mourners go about the streets The Jews were wont to hire Mourners 2 Chron. 35.25 Jer. 9.17 18. Amos 5.16 and for the most part they were women called in Latin Praeficae They profest an Art in Mourning and composing doleful Ditties And for the greater solemnity persons of worth or estate would hire them to accompany the Hearse and they would mourn for the Dead with such affection gesture and lamentation that they would cause others to mourn for company We find Eccles 7.2 4. the Wise-man calling the house where one dies the house of Mourning which he would not do if it were not lawful to mourn upon such an occasion We reade in Scripture how Abraham mourned for Sarah Gen. 23.2 Joseph for his Father Jacob Gen. 50.10 The Israelites wept for Moses Deut. 34.8 so for Samuel 1 Sam. 25.1 Elisha cryes after Elijah 2 King 2.12 Jeremiah weeps for Josiah 2 Chro. 35.25 And under the New-Testament we find Act. 8.2 devout man carried Stephen to his Burial and made great Lamentation over him And Act. 9.36 37 39. We find there the Widows embalming charitable Dorcas in tears And before this we reade how Martha and Mary wept sore for their Brother Lazarus John 11.19 31 33. Nay Christ himself wept v. 35. and the Jews interpreted it as an argument of his love to Lazarus v. 36. so that civility custom and love to deceased Friends call for weeping upon such an occasion It is pronounced as a judgment upon wicked men when relations shed not a tear nor pay a solemn sigh but are rather glad to be rid of them Job 27.15 Psa 78.64 so God threatned Jehoiakim that he should die unlamented and be buried with the burial of an Ass Jer. 22. 18
Tombs but this impatient man is among the Living and molests and grieves those that are near him 2. Immoderate sorrow wasteth the Spirits See Prov. 15.13 By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken It weakens the Body and hastens Death 2 Cor. 7.10 The sorrow of the world worketh Death saith the Apostle by sorrow of the world we may understand immoderate sorrow about worldly things hastens death and eats out the very comfort of Life You read of Moses Deut. 34.7 He was an hundred and twenty years old when he dyed his eye was not dim nor his natural force abated What should be the reason Why surely under God his own meekness For Numb 12.3 He was very meek above all the men that were upon the face of the earth Hippocrates saith 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Animalia quae felle carent ut Cervi sunt longaeva So meek persons many times live longest but impatient persons through fretting discontent bring their bodies into a Consumption Suppose as Job saith Job 6.12 Your strength was the strength of stones yet continual dropping of tears and drooping under sorrow would bring you down and wear you away for the same Job tells you Job 14.19 The waters wear the stones 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Gutta cavat lapidem non vi sed saepè cadendo And the wise man tells you Prov. 12.25 Heaviness in the heart of a man makes it stoop Immoderate grief like a heavy burthen laid upon a man will make him stoop and break him Many a man looks wrinkled with sorrow and care long before he is wrinkled with age Cura facit canos quamvis homo non habet annos Let us then Seneca Consâ—l ad Poâ—â—â— c. 23. as an Heathen said spare such grief as this is Faciliùs illi nos dolor iste ad jiciet quà m illum nobis reducet For soon will it send thee to him whom thou bewailest than bring him back to thee 3dly and lastly It greatly provokes God Indeed A meek and quiet spirit is in the sight of God of great price 1 Pet. 3.4 but a froward peevish spirit is abomination to him as you may read Prov. 11.20 17.20 22.5 So Ps 18.26 Discontent is a sin that God takes special notice of Exod. 16.7 8 9 12. So the Apostle tells us God was not well pleased The meaning is for the words are a 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 He was highly displeased with the murmuring Israelites for they were overthrown in the wilderness 1 Cor. 10.5 10 compared This must needs he hateful to God for it is a decompounded sin made up of many bitter ingredients as pride passion unthankfulness c. Sighings sobbings sorrowfull exclamations do penetrate the heavens and enter into the ears of the Lord of Hosts but make no good musick there God is thereby provoked to lengthen our miseries and adjourn our mercies Paula Romana who carried it frowardly and fretfully at death of her Children met with many losses of that nature We say Impatiens aegrotus crudelem facit medicum And so it is strugling and stubbornness that makes the Father continue to beat the Child Indeed God is an indulgent tender-hearted Father to his Children Psal 103.13 yet he will not burn the Rod till their stout stomacks be taken down How did he pursue Jonah with winds and tempests nay he casts him over-board into the sea and plunged him over head and ears into the hell of the Whales belly never leaving him till he submitted to his will to go to Niniveh Ferre minora volo nè graviora feram Let us bear lesser troubles patiently lest God lay greater troubles upon us To end this A man in a seaver the more he struggles the more he encreaseth his pain A wild Bull in a net Isa 51.20 instead of breaking forth by strugling he more entangles himself So we gain nothing by our strugling impatience and obstinacy against God but encrease of our miseries Oh! then let us not by any means give passions a loose reign for Phaiton-like with his wild Horses they 'l do a world of mischief Consid 10 Tenthly and lastly consider Death is very advantagious to the godly Phil. 1.21 For me to die is gain There is a privative and positive benefit that death brings to believers To begin with the first Death frees a believer 1. From sin Peccatum peperit mortem filia devoravit matrem Sin brought in death Rom. 5.12 and 6.23 and death carryes out sin Viper-like it devoures that which brought it forth He that is dead is freed from sin Rom. 6.7 Here indeed is no perfection 1 John 1.8 Grace is like Gold in the Oar mingled with much dross the most refined soul hath some dregs and is daily contesting with home-bred corruptions Cum avarit â nobis cum impudicitiâ cum irâ cum ambitione congressis est Cyprian Here the best are continually afflicted either for their sins or with their sins But death frees them from all sin Rom. 7.24 O wretched man that I am who shall deliver me saith St. Paul from the body of this death Why by the death of the body we are delivered from sin which is the body of Death 1 Cor. 15.26 The last enemy that shall be destroyed is Death If sin continued after death death were not a believers last enemy Dictum est primo homini morieres si peccaveris nunc dicitur morere nè pecces nisi peccâssent illi non morerentur peccarent autem justi nisi moriantur St. August de Civitate Dei Lib. 13. Cap. 3. Whilst we are in the wilderness of this world latet Anguis in herbâ fiery Serpents sting us sins stick close to us but at death as St. Paul cast the Viper off his hand Acts 28.3 5. so do Believers shake off sin Their dying day is the funeral of all their Vices the least of which maks them grieve here as the least hair makes the eye to water After death they are like God himself in perfect holiness and righteousness not having spot or wrinkle Ephes 5.27 2. From Satans temptations The Devil like to Joab makes our miseries his sport and play 2 Sam. 2.14 He is the great Peripatetick going up and down the World Job 1.7 and 2.2 This roaring lyon is continually ranging for his prey 1 Pet. 5.8 He assaulted Christ the Head Mat. 4.1 c. and so he doth the members Quid aliud in mundo quà m pugna adversus Diabolum quotidiè geritur Cypr. The righteous are the white at which the Devil most shoots the Arrows of temptation Chrysostome somewhere in his Homilies hath this comparison 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 c. As Pirats upon the Sea set upon the richest Vessels so Satan seeing a Vessel fraught with Grace useth all art and exerciseth all violence to master both the Vessel and the Prize But in Heaven they shall no more be troubled with Satans fiery darts for the Accuser of the Brethren is cast out Rev.
whatever we deliver on this point comes as far short of the Truth it self as the Picture of the Sun in the Wall doth of the greatness and brightness of it in its Orbe Gaudium erit in fine sed gaudium erit sine fine Bern. It shall be joy in the end but joy without end Carnal joy of wicked men is bruitish and sensual Eccles 2.2 I said of laughter it is mad and of mirth what doth it It is neither true nor lasting It is not true for saith the same wise-man In the midst of laughter the heart is sorrowful Prov. 14.13 Nor is it lasting for The pleasures of sin are but for a season Heb. 11.25 But now heavenly joy is both true and lasting For Psal 16.11 In thy presence is fulness of joy and at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore And Psal 36.8 9. They shall be abundantly satisfied with the fatness of thy house and thou shalt make them drink of the River of thy pleasures for with thee is the fountain of Life They shall lye at the fountain and be for ever bathing themselves in Rivers of Pleasures that flow from the everlasting Fountain The joy that comes streaming into the soul of a Believer that hath made his peace with God it passes all understanding Phil. 4.7 It is joy unspeakable and full of glory 1 Pet. 1.8 Yet this is but a dark representation of heavenly joy God indeed gives his People here a little of the hidden Manna of joy but hereafter he will give into their bosoms good measure pressed down shaken together and running over as expression is Luke 6.38 Tanta est dulcedo coelestis gaudii saith St. Austin ut si una guttula diffluerit in infernum totam amaritudinem inferni absorberet The joyes of heaven saith * Mr. Strode's Anatom of Mortality p. 294 295. another are so many that God only can number them so great that he onely can aestimate them of such variety and perfection that this world hath nothing comparable unto them they are so great that they cannot be measured so long that they cannot limitted so many that they cannot be numbred so pretious that they cannot be valued yet we shall see them without weariness love them without measure and praise them without end It is such joy as our Lord and Master hath And because too great to enter into us he bids us enter into it Mat. 25.23 Well done good and faithful servant enter thou into the joy of thy Lord. O joy surpassing all other joy when shall I enjoy thee Thus courteous Reader I have like the searchers of Canaan brought thee a cluster of Grapes a taste as it were of the plentiful Vintage which thou mayest expect in the heavenly Canaan Now considering these manifold benefits that come by death both privative and positive we may conclude on better grounds than the heathen did that the dead are blessed Faelices nimiùm quibus est fortuna peracta Jam sua Blessed they are and that by a voice from heaven who dye in the Lord Rev. 14.13 In Domino i. e. in Domini favore Happy they are that dye in the Lords favour Death is so sanctified in Christs death that of a curse it is changed into a blessing Christ tasted deaths bitter Cup and suck'd out the venom of it Now then to conclude this Chapter if death be so advantagious to Believers upon the account of Christ Let us not sorrow as without hope for those that sleep in him 1 Thes 4.13 14. If the dead in the Lord could speak they would say as our Saviour did to the women that lamented him Luke 23.27 28. Weep not for me but weep for your selves and for your Children You and yours are in the valley of Bochim subject to sin sorrow devils assaults wicked mens rage suspensions of the light of Gods countenance c. weep then for your selves and your children that are thus tossed upon the waves of a troublesome world but weep not for us who are at rest in the Haven of Heaven Me-thinks dear Friends these several Considerations as Davids Harp should charm down all passions and distempers of spirit that arise at loss of Friends They may be called Eshcol for they are a whole cluster of Grapes Numb 13.24 Press them by Meditation and squeeze out the wine that is in them to your comfort CHAP. III. Several Apologies answered NOtwithstanding what I have said to make us patient at death of Friends me thinks I hear several complaining every one thinking their burthen greatest and they want not arguments and pleas to aggravate their sorrows Every sin hides it self under some Fig-leaf Excuse and this sin of Discontent at death of Friends hath several Apologies Let us discuss the chief of them I know most commonly sorrow stops its ears against the sweet charmes of Reason yet for father satisfaction of the discontented I shall give in Replys to several Pleas and according to my ability I shall faithfully debate the case And to begin first with complaints that Parents take up at loss of Children for they usually are most discontented One cryes out My Child was still-born or died presently after it was born 1. Apology answ and which most of all troubles me it died unbaptized Answer To have a Child still-born or suddenly expiring is matter of grief especially to the female Parent Our Saviour observes John 16.21 A woman when she is in travel hath sorrow because her hour is come but as soon as she is delivered of her child she remembreth no more the anguish for joy that a man is born into the world The sight of a living child is the best cordial that can be given to a fainting woman under her pain and travel but if the child be still-born or suddenly expiring the pangs of grief conceived hereat are greater to the tender mother than pangs of travel For the former pangs at most do but rend the flesh but these inward throes do tear the very soul Luk. 2.35 Yet for your comfort consider these ensuing particulars 1. Consider He that hath taken this Child away can give another God gave Eve another seed another son instead of Abel Gen. 4. last God took away Job's children as you reade Job 1. but he gave him as many more afterwards Job 42.13 God's hand is not shortned nor grows he infirm in the latter end of the world He can do the like for thee if it please him 2. Consider If your Child had lived Moses-like it had been exposed to the water of Affliction For as St. Austin saith Aug. Ser. de bono pat Infans nondum loquitur tamen prophetat The poor Infant that cannot speak yet by crying when it comes into the world prophesies of its future condition as very lamentable It cryes as soon as born and cannot laugh as some observe till it hath been forty dayes in the world And little cause it has God-wot to laugh then for
it sleeps by fits and starts either cold starves it or heat overcomes it or hunger pines it or wind pains it sickness sores and teeth-breeding torture it When it begins to go if with Mephibosheth it be not lame on its feet 2 Sam. 9.13 it may meet with many a knock And afterwards it is beset with bryars and thorns of temptations and troubles So that in time if thy Child had lived it might have complained with Job chap. 3.11 Why died I not from the womb why did I not give up the ghost when I came out of the belly for now should I have lyen still and been quiet I should have slept then had I been at rest v. 13. so Job 6.8 9. 10.18 19. he still harps upon the doleful string and continues his pittiful complaint as weary of life Put case thy Child had not been so sorely afflicted yet no mothers Child can escape scot-free for Job 5.7 Man is born unto trouble as the sparks fly upward Blow the coal and you shall see the sparks fly upward 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Haec enim levium Lex est Duport 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 in loc It is the nature of sparks to fly upwards so it is ordinary for man to be in trouble So Job 14.1 That is true of Bóetius In hoc vitae salo circundantibus agitamur procellis Whilst we are in this life we are tost on a sea of troubles Shall we grieve that our Child is come so soon to the shoar and freed from the winds and waves of care and trouble 3. Consider If your Child had lived it would have been matter of pains and care to you What great care do Parents take what great pains are they at to provide for Children Prov. 13.22 2 Cor. 12.14 1 Tim. 5.8 Nulli parentibus magis noxii quam filii nimis amati Salvian ad Eccl. Cathol lib. 3. p. 435. The care of the Mother for the little Child is great she hath troublesome dayes and wakeful nights in the nursing of it How doth the Father cark and care for its Education and future Portion The care of both eats out many times the heart of their Religion St. Jerom reports of Metania who when she saw her Husband dead presently before he was cold had two Children died also whereupon she said Expeditius sum tibi servitura Domine quia tanto me onere liberâsti I will now serve thee more readily being delivered from many encumberances 4. Consider If this Child had lived it had been a great question whether you might have had any comfort of it or not Who knows whether it might have proved a wise-man or a fool Children are certain cares but uncertain comforts Some Children Viper-like seek the death of those that were a means to give them life Dr. Vanes Wisdome Innocence p. 143. Hecuba when with child of Paris dreamed she was brought to bed of a Firebrand and so indeed he proved afterwards Our first Parents had great hopes that their first-born would have been a comfort to them and therefore gave him an honourable name Gen. 4.1 calling him Cain that signifies a Possession They looked upon him as a choice Possession but he proved a very wicked person and to the great grief of his Parents murdered his Brother Abel v. 8. How was Eli crossed in his Hophni and Phineas see 1 Sam. 2.12 1 Sam. 3.13 compared David promised himself some happiness in his son Absalom which name signifies a Father of Peace but the Child proved a Father of War and Misery to him 2 Sam. 16.11 David said to Abishai and to all his Servants Behold my Son which came forth of my bowels seeketh my life So Adonijah whom his Father David had not displeased at any time even this his Darling usurps his Fathers Kingdom as you may see 1 Kin. 1.5 6. Many times aged Parents are forced to complain as the Tree did in the Fable that it was rent and torn and split asunder with the same Wedg that was cut off from its own Body Children many times are living Monuments of Disgrace to their Parents Mic. 7.6 The Son dishonoureth the Father the Daughter riseth up against her Mother So that instead of finding Honey thou mightest have met with a Sting To end this the Wise-man saith Prov. 17.21 He that begets a Fool doth it to his sorrow and the Father of a Fool hath no joy And v. 25. A foolish Son is a grief to his Father and bitterness to her that bear him And who knows but thy Child might have proved such a one 5. Lastly consider It had been better for the greatest part in the world they had died as soon as they were born St. John tells us The whole World i. e. the greatest part of the World lieth in wickedness 1 Joh. 5.19 Few there be that serve God And if we serve him not as Christ said of Judas Mat. 26.24 It had been good for us if we had not been born Or like Aristotle's Ephemeron or Jonah's Gourd we had perished the same day or night that we came into the world For the longer we live the more sin we commit and the greater will be our damnation at last Surely an untimely birth is better than he that comes in with vanity and departs in darkness Eccl. 6.3 4. Surely The day of death is better than the day of ones birth Eccles 7.1 And the Heathen as though he had lighted his Candle at this Torch said right Optimum non nasci proximum quà m citò mori It is best not to be born or being born to die soon for by this means poor mortals are freed from much sin and misery I conclude this with that of Lactantius Lactant. de opificio hominis c. 4. Stultissimi sunt qui de morte immaturâ quaeruntur They are Fools in the Superlative degree that complain because Friends die soon Object But my chid dyed unbaptized Answ Children of believing parents are within the Covenant Act. 2.39 The Promise is to you and to your children c. Rom. 11.16 1 Cor. 7.14 * See Mr. Attersal on Book of Numbers pag. 1081. Unto Infants belongs the promise of Grace the forgiveness of sins the regeneration of the Spirit the Imputation of Christs Righteousness the Kingdom of Heaven Mat. 19.13 14. And therefore they ought by no means to be denyed the outward sign and ceremony which is the least part of the Sacrament if the things signified belong to them who shall dare to debar them of the outward sign It is the duty of Parents to bring their children to Baptism which is the Seal of the Covenant and Sacrament of admission or entrance into the Church Besides who knows not but Circumcision was a type of Baptism Col. 2.11 12. or that Baptism succeeded in the room of it now we know children were circumcised the eighth day Gen. 17.12 so 21.4 before that time the child was too weak to bear the pain
Sylvanus 1 Pet. 5.12 a faithful Brother as I suppose so our knowledge of others sincerity is but opiniative no certain knowledge But suppose I say he was really gracious and so might have persevered unto the end as these Scriptures shew Psal 125.1 Isa 40.31 41.10 Jer. 32.39 40. Mat. 16.18 24.24 John 10.28 29. 13. 1. Rom. 8.33 34. Rom. 11.29 Col. 3.3 2 Tim. 2.19 1 Pet. 1.5 1 Joh. 2.19 27 compared Jude 1. yet he is not the less mortal for being the more gracious Nay God usually takes them away the sooner from this miserable sinfull world which is not worthy of them Heb. 11.38 Dr Abbot Lect. 28. on Jonah p. 594. Sudden glories saith a learned Doctor decay suddenly fruit soonest ripe is soonest rotten when the greenness freshness and shade is extraordinary fear some worm which may gnaw as it did Jonah's refreshing Gourd We know sweetest fruit is soonest gathered Thus the Child Abijah dies young because in him was found some good thing towards the Lord God of Israel in the house of Jeroboam 1 King 4.12 13. Those that are good betimes are apt Scholars 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 which having quickly learnt the lessons of Christianity God their Master hath set them have leave to go home the sooner God gathered thy Child betimes because it was ripe betimes We reade Mark 4.29 how the husband-man when the fruit is ripe immediately puts in the sickle because the harvest is come so God puts in the sickle of death when Children are ripe and fit to be taken away We judge him to blame who when his fruit is ripe doth not gather it And shall we blame God for taking away relations when they are fit for him And whereas you say He might have come to great preferment 1. Consider this is very uncertain Many times men of great worth pass their dayes in obscure privacy Salvian lib. 4. de Gubern Dei pa. 114. and men of least desert are highly promoted Si bonus est quispiam quasi malus spernitur si malus est quasi bonus honoratur Haman the Agagite one base by birth and base in life like a dunghil vapour was extracted to an high place of dignity by the influential Sun-shine of his Princes favour and in the mean time godly honest loyal-hearted Mordecai notwithstanding his good service is forgotten Esth 6.1 2 3. till almost too late to remember him 2. Consider Those that are in favour may he present lie under a cloud Favour is deceitful Prov. 30.31 The Court is like Glass or Ice cum maximè splendet frangitur when it shines brightest then it is the brittlest It is called 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Phil. 2.3 vain-glory It carries vanity in its name Joab who was once the greatest about David is by David's appointment designed to execution 1 King 2.5 And Haman even now mentioned that was so great a Favorite with Ahasuerus the King is by the King appointed to be hanged on an high Gallows Est 7.9 10. a just punishment for his ambitious climbing 3dly and lastly consider Your Child is highly preferr'd by Death He is possessed of Heavenly preferment which as far exceeds earthly as the shining of the Sun in its Meridian Lustre doth the shining of a Candle Our Saviour tells us there was not a greater then John the Baptist yet he that is least in the Kingdom of Heaven is greater then he Luke 7.28 The least in the Kingdom of Heaven is greater then the greatest on Earth for he is above a state of Ignorance Misery and Mortality Joseph was highly preferr'd by Pharaoh who committed to him Despotical Government over all Egypt Gen. 41.40 c. David Esther and several others of Gods dear Servants come to great preferment here on Earth but what is this to the preferment of thy dear Child who shines as the Sun in the Kingdom of his Father Mat. 13.43 He is in the Presence-Chamber of the King of Kings and Lord of Lords Surely thou hast no cause to weep except it be for joy that thou wast the Parent of such a Child Who as one saith whilst he lived was the joy of Glorifyed Angels Luk. 15.10 and being dead encreaseth the number of Glorifyed Saints But saith another This was an onely Child 5th Apology answered I had but one onely Son or Daughter to delight in to leave mine Estate unto and to bear my Name And God hath taken him or her away from me Surely the Lord hath dealt bitterly with me Answ Indeed Scripture Spectacles represent it as a sad loss to lose an only Son or Daughter Judg. 11.34 1 King 17.12 17 c. 2 King 4.20 27. compared Jer. 6.26 Amos 8.10 Zach 12.10 Luk. 7.12 13. Luk. 8.42 I have read of one * Mr. Hausteds Serm. on Luke 19.41 42. who being found weeping and the cause of his grief being demanded answered Filius unicus habilis pollens ingenio Adolescens An onely Son a pritty witty young man and being able to go no further had his faltring halting speech made up by a stander-by Obijt diem is dead which he for the greatness of his grief was not able to pronounce himself An only Child is our Darling as we translate 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Psal 22.20 Unicam meam And the loss of an only Child must needs be sadly resented because it is our Darling or most dearly beloved the stream of parental affection like a River not parted into Chanels is not divided amongst other children but runs whole and entire towards one object But consider under this sad tryal a few things 1. Consider The greater the Tryal is the greater is the commendation to bear it chearfully It is a sign thou art a great Christian when thou canst bear patiently great Tryals A Wasp if not cross'd puts not forth its sting the most waspish and peevish person can carry it calmely and gently while Providences of God please him but to carry it patiently and evenly under great tryals is admirable When Alexander met with great troubles he would say here is a tryal for the mind of Alexander he is truly Magnanimous that holds up his Spirit under great afflictions Magnus est animus qui se Deo tradidit Sen. Job met with great tryals ' 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Mr. Duport in his 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Job 1.18 p. 6 7. Semper enim malum malo fulciebatur Sicut quando crebri sibi invicem superfusi sunt Ponti fluctus longi antè quidem alius alius verò post One affliction followed on the back of another as wave after wave the Sabeans took away Jobs Oxen and Asses Lightning kild his Sheep the Caldaeans carried away his Camels and which was the fluctus decumanus the last worst and greatest wave of all the rest the wind blows down the house upon the head of his Children yet for all this see his
may read Heb. 11. that Chapter is a little Martyrology ver 35 36 37. how some were tortured scourged stoned sawn asunder slain with the sword c. Mr. Fox or Mr. Clark in his Martyrology will tell you that many Martyrs had their skins pulled off joynts racked bodies torn in pieces c. willing to endure for Christ's sake what the wit of man could invent or cruelty impose Now God might have called thy Friend to such a death which would have been far more sad cruel and painful as to outward appearance Well then consider God might have delivered thy Friend into the hands of cruel man which would have been very sad as appears by David's speech 2 Sam. 24.14 but God cast him on a soft Bed amongst Friends who did carefully attend him and minister unto him 3. Consid The greater thy Friends pain was the more fervent prayers were put up for him You find David in Psal 38. lying under God's afflicting hand what servent ejaculations he sent up towards the Throne of Grace So Asaph Ps 77.2 In the day of his trouble sought the Lord. So Jesus Christ in his Agony prayed more earnestly Luke 22.44 Great Miseries make the loudest Eccho's in the ears of Mercy And as the afflicted party himself so all that saw him or heard of his misery would be ready to pity and pray for him Methinks the sad groans of a dying Friend are sufficient to dissolve an heart of stone into prayers and tears especially godly Friends would pray fervently for him And these are most likely to prevail for Jam. 5.16 The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much That Ship saileth the surest to the haven of Heaven which is driven with the breath of godly mens prayers 4. Consid The greater the pain was the shorter was the continuance of it Dolor si gravis brevis si longus levis We reade how Aeneas kept his bed eight years and was sick of the Palsie Act. 9.33 We read of one that had an issue of blood twelve years Mat. 9.20 and had suffered many things of many Physicians and had spent all that she had and was nothing bettered but rather grew worse Mark 5.26 So John 5.5 there we read of one that had an infirmity thirty eight years Now if thy Friend's pain had not been so great he might have continued still a burden to thee and to himself but the greatness of his pain hastened death which put an end to all trouble and grief his great pangs and struglings as throes of a travelling woman made way for deliverance And therefore 5. And lastly Consider Thy Friend is now at rest Rev. 14.13 Let them die of never so cruel a death if they die in the favour of God they are blessed for they rest from their labours It may be thou grievedst but little whilest thy Friend laboured for rest and wilt thou grieve much when he rests from his labours Whilst thy Friend was ground with the Stone or burnt up with a Feaver and rouled upon his bed without sleep thou hadst cause to weep and it was thy duty to sympathize with him Rom. 12.15 but being dead he is at rest Isa 57.2 for death to a Child of God is but a sleep Joh. 11.11 12 13. so Act. 7.60 and being buried he hath laid his head upon the lap of his mother for so the Earth is called Job 1.21 to be awakened again at the last Trump to the everlasting comfort both of soul and body And shall we now weep Surely this sorrow is unseasonable We prayed or else we were to blame whilst our Friend was in pain that God would deliver him and therefore when God by death hath put an end to all his pain we should give thanks to God and rejoyce rather than weep The Church our careful Mother hath taught us as much in the Funerals of the Dead We give thee hearty thanks for that it hath pleased thee to deliver this our Brother or Sister out of the miseries of this sinful world Another cryes out 10th Apology answerd This Eriend of mine dyed of a sad mischance he fell into the Fire or Water or was kill'd of Lightning fell off a Horse or Cart or was shot in War or otherwise or he was kill'd by Thieves or wicked men c. or he fell suddenly sick groan'd sigh'd dyed And this troubles me that he dyed such a sudden violent and untimely death Answ From sudden death i. e. from death not thought-of and so not provided-for good Lord deliver us not only for our own sakes but for our Friends sakes too they 'l take it the less sudden it is the more patiently See how sadly Jacob takes the supposed death of his son Joseph upon the sight of his bloudy coat he too rashly concluded his son was dead that he was devoured by some cruel beast Significans inâ—ternum animi dilacerationem seu moestitiaeÌ„ And the Text tells you Gen. 37.33 34. He rent his cloaths in token as Pareus saith upon the place that his heart was rent through with sorrow and he put on sackcloth a coarse and sorry stuff which was the usual Mourning-Weed in those times And he refused to be comforted Thus his father wept for him for Joseph who dyed as he thought a sudden death David himself proclaimed a solemn and publick Funeral-Mourning for the death of Abner who was cowardly and suddenly slain when he did least suspect it by one that pretended peace and friendship And David himself laid aside his Royal Dignity and attended the Corps joyning with the People in that sad Consort as you may reade 2 Sam. 3. towards the latter end of the chapter So David weeps excessively for the space of three whole years because his son Amnon dyed so unnaturally untimely unexpectedly being kill'd by Absalom 2 Sam. 13.28 c. And we reade how the true Mother of the living Child had rather her Adversary should have the comfort of her Child than that it should dye a violent and untimely death 1 King 3.26 And in that appeared both the truth of her affection towards it and that she was the true Mother of it v. 27. Job hearing the heavy tydings of the sudden death of his Children could no longer contain but vents his grief in words being more affected with the sudden loss of his Children than all the rest of his Goods Job 1.18 19 20. But for your comfort 1. Consid It hath been the lot of some of Gods dear Servants to dye so Thus righteous Abel was suddenly butchered by his brother Cain Gen. 4.8 So old Eli though indeed he had his failings in not correcting and severely punishing his wicked Sons 1 Sam. 2.23 c. and 1 Sam. 3.13 as he should have done being chief-Magistrate as well as Parent yet questionless was a good man as may be gathered from sacred Story and the manner of his death was sudden he fell off from his seat backward and
whole Town and Country too will have a loss of him for the streams of his goodness flowed abroad plentifully to the refreshing of many Answ Indeed the loss of a good man is a great loss if we consider 1. Good men are very scarce See Psal 12.1 Help Lord for the godly man ceaseth the faithful fail from among the children of men So Ps 14.1 2 3. The fool hath said in his heart There is no God they are corrupt they have done abominable works there is none that doth good The Lord look'd down from heaven upon the children of men to see if there were any that did understand and seek God They are all gone aside they are altogether become filthy there is none that doth good no not one So Rom. 3.10 c. Good men are as the shaking of an Olive tree and as the gleaning Grapes when the Vintage is done as it is Isa 24.13 So Mic. 7.1 2 3 4. The Church there complains of her small number Christ's flock is called a little flock Luke 12.32 Orig. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 a little little flock They are indeed little in their own eyes little in the eyes of the world and little or few in number In God's field there are many Tares little good Corn In this great house of the World many Vessells of dishonour but few there are of honour Salvian Salvian de Gub. Dei lib. 3 pag. 87. crys out Ipsa Dei Ecclesia quae in omnibus esse debet placatrix Dei quid est aliud quà m exacerbatrix Dei aut praeter paucissimos quosdam qui mala fugiunt quid est aliud penè omnis coetus Christianorum quà m sentina vitiorum So then they can ill be spared they are so few 2. Good men are blessings to the places where and persons among whom they live See Exod. 32.9 10 14 compared God oft spared Israel at the prayer of Moses The Righteous keep off God's Judgments as these places shew Job 22.30 Prov. 29.8 Jer. 5.1 Ezek. 22.30 31. Had there been but ten righteous persons in Sodom it had not been destroyed Gen. 18.32 And God tells us he would not destroy it till righteous Lot was gone forth Gen. 19.22 And God oft-times for the sake of the Righteous removes Judgements inflicted see Psal 106.23 29 30. so Isa 65.8 It is an extraordinary case when God will not spare for the sake of Moses and Samuel Jer. 15.1 so when Noah Daniel and Job shall deliver but their own souls Ezek. 14.14 The Tares are usually spared till the Harvest for the Wheat 's sake A cursed Cham was preserved in the Ark with Noah Gen. 7.1 St. Paul saved the lives of all that sailed with him in the Ship two hundred threescore and fifteen souls see Act. 27.22 23 24 37 compared Indeed the Righteous are Conduit-pipes of Blessings the greatest Benefactors to the places where they live See what Jacob saith to Laban Gen. 30.30 It was little that thou hadst before I came 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 and it is now encreased to a multitude since my coming or according to the Original at my feet Blessings are sent to every place where the Saints feet tread So God blessed the Egyptians house for Joseph's sake Gen. 39.5 Wicked men are beholden to the Godly for their Lives Liberties estates c. In a word the Righteous are the Equites cataphracti the Chariots and horsemen of Israel 2 King 2.12 They are the glory and safety of a Nation they are instruments of doing much good by their purses prayers counsels reproofs and good example They like Lamps spend themselves for the good of others and when such Lights are extinguished by death how can we choose if we seriously consider it but be overcast with darkness and sorrow 3. And lastly The loss of a good man is great if we consider that the death of good men bodes misery It is a sad symptom or prognostication of approaching Judgments The people of Rome when they heard Germanicus was recovered of his sickness they sang it about the streets Salva Roma salva Patria salvus est Germanicus While that good man was well they thought it could not be ill with them And indeed a good man is 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 as Greg. Nazianzene Gregor Nazian Orat in laudem Patres calls him a crutch prop or pillar to support the Church when these pillars are taken away the building of frame of outward prosperity continues not long It is like Sampsons pulling down the pillars whereupon ensued a great destruction as you may read Judg. 16.29 30. A man intending to break up House removes his goods and truly God usually removes his People which are his peculiar treasure Exod. 19.5 either into some other place of the World or out of the World when he intends to leave a sinful people naked and destitute of defence and safety When Noah was housed in the Arke the storm came and the whole world save some few with him were buried in a watry winding-sheet Gen. 7. When Lot entered into Zoar the Sun was risen upon the Earth Gen. 19.23 The Sun was risen and the wicked Sodomites thought they should have had a fair day on 't but it was presently overclouded and there followed a fearful showre of fire and brimstone vers 24. Then when Lot was removed the Lord rained upon Sodom and Gomorrah brimstone and fire from the Lord out of heaven After the death of good Josiah evil ensued upon Israel 2 King 22.20 And this was a chief reason why Jeremy and others made such sad moan at the loss of that good man and ever after in their doleful Elegies made mention of his death as you see they did 2 Chron. 35.25 After the death of St Austin Hippo was sack'd by the Vandals when Luther was dead then the civil wars broke out in Germany So then as the Prophet speaks Isa 57.1 The Righteous are taken away from the Evil to come And he there complains of a peoples stupidity when they do not lay to heart the death of righteous and merciful men We should weep if not for them yet for our own sakes who may justly fear miserys coming upon us Yet we must not weep immoderately or murmur at God's handy-work To this end let us consider 1. Consid Good men must dye as well as others It is said Gen. 47.29 The time drew nigh that Israel must die The godly must of necessity dye one time or other All the Patriarchs and godly Prophets are dead Zach. 1.5 John 8.52 The Apostles and Ministers are Earthen vessels 2 Cor. 4.7 like those Pitchers of Gideon Judg. 7. they are Earthen pitchers and have a Lamp in them they are chosen Vessels to bear the name of Christ to witness to his truth Acts 9.15 but earthen pitchers still and must shortly be broken by death We are all made of the same clay Isa 64.8 And as rich gilding upon an earthen pot keeps it not from
had a notional knowledge of God and his Laws yet they had not a spiritual practical saving knowledge You may read of their wickedness and how God threatned to cut off Eli's posterity Samuel tells him this sad news 1 Sam. 3.11 12. What saith Eli vers 18. It is the Lord let him do what seems him good Job's Children were no better than they should be they used to feast much and Job was afraid lest they should sin much at such a time Job 1.5 he feared lest at such a time of feasting they should offend God as we are apt so to do by excessive mirth immodest gestures luxury intemperance forgetfulness of the poor c. or by having irreverent thoughts of God and at a feast his Children were suddenly swept away by a great wind in the midst of their jolity vers 18.19 Yet see Jobs patient carriage vers 20 21 22. He charged not God foolishly but thought well of him and his providence notwithstanding the manifold miseries that befel him 3. Consid Weeping though never so excessive cannot recall them either from the gates of death or hell Incestuous Amnon being slain when drunk 2 Sam. 13.28 David bewailed him for a great while together vers 37 38 39. but as you may there read David at last ceased mourning because it would not fetch him again He was comforted concerning Amnon seeing he was dead 4. Consid God is glorified even in the destruction of the wicked Prov. 16.4 The Lord hath made all things for himself yea even the wicked for the day of evil So Job 21.30 God got himself glory by wicked Pharaoh Exod. 9.16 So Exod. 14.4 17. Moses told Aaron even now mentioned that God would be glorified and this made Aaron hold his peace when his sons were cut off in their act of sin Levit. 10.3 See Rom. 9.21 22 23. 5. Consid If thy Child had lived longer he might have been a greater grief and burthen to thee He might with the Prodigal have spent thy substance in riotous living Luke 15.13 30. and so he would have brought shame to thee for he that is a companion of riotous men shameth his Father Pro. 28.7 Yea thy whole family might have fared the worse for him he might have taken such courses as would have brought him to the gallows which would have been a greater shame and grief to thee nay farther yet if he had lived longer he might have gone about to take away thy life from all which frights fear and shame God by cutting him off hath delivered thee It was sure a great weakness in David so pathetically to lament the death of Absalom 2 Sam. 18.33 who went about to take away his life 2 Sam. 16.11 and was a continual grief and vexation to him 6. Consid If he had lived longer he would have multiplied his sin here and sorrow hereafter Impenitent wretches as it is said of the Crocodile quà m diu vivit crescit daily add something to their stature in sin Job 36.13 The hypocrites or as it is in the Orig. Prophane men in heart heap up wrath So Isa 1.5 Why should ye be smitten any more ye will revolt more and more Jer. 9.3 They proceed from evil to evil and they know not me saith the Lord. 2 Tim. 3.13 Evil men and Seducers shall wax worse and worse It was a sad curse wherewith David did imprecate some of God's implacable enemies Psal 69.27 Add iniquity unto their iniquity q. d. Give them over to a Reprobate sense as a punishment of their incorrigibleness that so they may encrease their sin here and sorrow hereafter Such as these do treasure up wrath against the day of wrath Rom. 2.5 They do 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 heap up wrath in manner of a treasure which you know encreaseth by daily addition Forbearance we say is no acquittance God suffers some to run their race to the utmost length as the Amorites were suffered to make up the full measure of their offences to the full Gen. 15.16 He lets some wicked men live become old c. Job 21.7 but it is for their greater punishment at last For God will more severely punish these Psal 50.21 These things hast thou done and I kept silence thou thoughtest saith God to the impenitent wicked wretch that I was altogether such a one as thy self but I will reprove thee and set them in order before thine eyes Confusion will cover that mans face whose sins God sets in order before his eyes Lasa patientia fit furor The longer the hand is in lifting up when it strâ—kes the greater will the blow be when it falls The Water-course the longer it is stopped the more violently it breaks foâ—th The Justice of God as one saith whilst dormant is crescent and though couchant will be rampant Psal 50.22 Consider this ye that forget God lest I tear you in pieces saith God and there be none to deliver you Well then consider if thy Child had lived longer it might have been worse for him 7. And lastly consider If he be damned who can help it Religion cannot be conveyed to Children as House and Lands c. it descends not from Father to Son John 1.12 13. What the Apostle speaks of Ministers may be here applied 1 Cor. 3.6 7. Paul may plant Apollos water but God gives the increase so then neither is he that planteth any thing neither he that watereth but God that giveth the encrease The Husbandman may plant and sow yet he cannot bring down the early and latter rain to bring seed to perfection So Parents may instruct reprove exhort correct pray for Children and go before them by good example but it is God that must reform them It is God that quickneth such as are dead in trespasses and sins as we are all by nature Eph. 2.1 2 3 5. Regeneration is Creation-work v. 10. which is only proper to God A Parent can but shew the way wherein a Child should walk It is God that must draw him that way Cant. 1.4 John 6.44 It is God that delivers from the power of darkness and translates us into the Kingdom of his dear Son Col. 1.13 It is he that effectually calls us out of darkness into his marvelous Light 1 Pet. 2.9 It is God that gives Faith Phil. 1.29 Ephes 2.8 He gives Repentance Act. 5.31 2 Tim. 2.25 He sanctifies us Jude 1. He saves us Eph. 2.5 8. Rom. 8.30 Well then if we have done our duty and yet fail of our end and desire viz. the conversion of our Children or any other Friends and Relations let us rest contented assuring our selves 1 Cor. 3.8 Every one shall receive his own reward according to his own labour not according to our success but according to our labour We may say Liberavimus animas we have freed our souls from the guilt we might have contracted through negligence Ezek. 3.18 19 20 21 And so the Will of the Lord be done Why should we vex our selves for what
thou hast magnified thy mercy which thou hast shewed unto me in saving my life Oh then let death of others put thee upon blessing and praising God for sparing thee and not only praise him with thy Lips but with thy Life too Love him obey him cleave to him for he is thy Life and the length of thy dayes Deut. 30.20 Use 6 6. Let death of Friends teach you not to trust in the arm of flesh God would not have us by any means to put our trust in man as these places shew Isa 2.22 Isa 30.23 Isa 36.6 Jer. 17.5 7. So Psal 118.8 9. Luther on that place It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man c. calls it Artem artium mirificam sacrificium omnium gratissimum suavissimum cultum omnium pulcherrimum To trust in God and not in man is the Art of Arts the wonderful and great Art a most excellent Sacrifice and commendable piece of Religion He that builds his hopes on so weak a foundation as the life of Man he is like that foolish Man in the Gospel that built his House on the Sand Mat. 7.26 Or like a foolish Merchant that ventures all his substance in a crazy Vessel The Psalmist tells you Men of low degree are a vanity and men of high degree are a lie he gives great ones the lie Psal 62.9 He means all Friends both of high and low degree are lying vanities and perform not what they seem to promise so that whoever trust in any Friends as it is said in another case Isa 28.15 They have made lies their refuge and under falshood they have hid themselves And these Friends that they trust in like Absaloms Mule 2 Sam. 18.9 many times give them the slip when they have most need of their support and assistance for if they fail them not through willful treachery as many times they do Psal 55.12 Mic. 7.5 6. Luke 21.16 yet they may through unavoidable mortality as Jonathan failed and disappointed David of whom he saith I am distressed for thee my Brother Jonathan 2 Sam. 1.26 27. Mr. Duguard's Sermon on Psal 89.48 p. 17 18. Caesar Borgia that wicked Son of a more wicked Father Pope Alexander the sixth grounded many designs on his relation to the Pope but the Pope suddenly dies and dashes all And Borgia when he heard of his death cryed out I never dreamed of such an accident now all my purposes and projects are stifled and come to nothing He that knows man well enough knows him better then to trust in him Wherefore as it is Psal 146.3 4. Put not your trust in Princes nor in the Son of man in whom there is no help his breath goeth forth he returneth to his earth in that very day his thoughts perish His thoughts and designs of doing thee good if he had any die with him and thine hopes and expections are buried in his Grave therefore as it follows vers 5. Happy is he that hath the God of Jacob for his help whose hope is in the Lord his God He casts Anchor amiss that casts it any where else save on the Rock of Ages Use 7 7. Let death of Friends teach you not to set your affections too much upon any Relation We see Friends stay but a short time with us who would be too fond of them We may love and rejoyce one in another Husband in Wife Wife in Husband Parents in Children Children in Parents c. But it must be moderately as though we rejoyced not seeing the time of enjoying is short and will quickly be expired 1 Cor. 7.29 30 31. The rivolet of our affections may run to other things but the full stream must run towards God Luke 14.26 If any man come to me saith Christ and hate not that is loveth not less then me Mat. 10.37 Father and Mother Wife and Children Brethren and Sisters yea and his own life also he cannot be my Disciple Say then with the Psalmist Psal 73.25 Whom have I in Heaven but thee And there is none upon Earth that I desire besides thee God is called the Living God Psal 42.2 Let therefore the life and vigour of your affections as love joy delight c. be for ever set upon him and not upon mortal Friends which like Noah's Dove however they bring an Olive Branch promising peace and comfort yet they are upon the Wing and presently fly from us Or like Thorns under a Pot though they give a little blaze shining and comfort for a while yet they presently drop into ashes When you too fondly set your affections on them and think to hold them fast they give you the slip as Juno did Ixion or as Joseph did his Mistress when she laid hold on his Coat Gen. 39.12 13. Let therefore these perishing comforts have perishing affections Use 8 8. Let death of Friends put a stop to covetousness and immoderate desires after the riches of this World The wise man saith Prov. 23.4 Labour not to be rich And the Prophet Jeremiah saith to Baruch Jer. 45.5 Seekest thou great things for thy self Seek them not And David saith Psal 62.10 If riches increase set not your heart upon them Riches indeed are a very uncertain tenure 1 Tim. 6.17 Orig. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Silver and Gold those refined parts of the Earth are but corruptible things 1 Pet. 1.18 Worldly possessions are nothing certain Prov. 23.5 If they leave not us which they may do for they are subject to many casualties Fire may burn them Thieves steal them c. yet we must ere long leave them Death gives a Bill of Ejectment It divorceth from Gold and Silver Houses and Lands c. It squeezeth those Spunges that have suckt themselves full and leaves them as dry and empty as they were at first Job 1.21 Eccles 5.15 16. Psal 49.10 17. comp Luke 12.20 1 Tim. 6.7 8. Death that surly Serjeant as you see daily will not be bribed to put off his Arrest In a word you may be sick and die and be turned to dust yea and be damned too for any thing your riches can help you Prov. 11.4 And therefore project not for time to come as if this life would never be done Use 9 9. Let death of Friends be a curbing-bit to restrain intemperance in eating and drinking and an eager prosecution of sinful pleasures Many in the last dayes of this Worlds continuance Jehu-like drive on furiously in sinful pleasures They are lovers of pleasures more then lovers of God 2 Tim. 3.4 but God would not have us to indulge our selves in rioting and drunkenness in chambering and wantonness he would not have us to make provision for the flesh to fulfil the lust thereof Rom. 13.13 14. And methinks the meditation of death of Friends should be a means to prevent intemperance As I have read of one who had continually amidst the multitude of his dainties a Deaths Head served up in a Charger to
mind him of his mortality and keep him temperate in the use of Gods good Creatures Oh consider thou wretched Epicure that thy pamper'd body will shortly be a most noysome Corps Job 24.20 The Worm shall feed sweetly on it Consider the pleasures of sin are but for a season Heb. 11.25 Thou mayest hear that voice this present hour in the midst of Drinking Dancing Feasting Gaming Whoring c. which Pope Innocentius the 4th heard in his Court and was found dead the next day Veni miser ad judicium Come thou wretch to judgment Use 10 10. Let death of Friends give a check to pride and ambition * Dr. Stuarts Cathol Divin pag. 150. Some say The hand of a dead man stroaking the part cures the Tympany Methinks the spectacles of mortality presented so frequently before us should asswage the swelling of pride that is within us Who would be proud of popular applause which is indeed but a fancy for so Agrippa's pomp is called Acts 25.23 Orig. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 did he consider his own mortality Herod would not have erected the plumes of pride as he did when the people flattered him had he looked on himself as a mortal man and that he should be so soon eaten up of Worms the vilest of Creatures Acts 12.21 22 23. Who would be proud of beauty considering if Deaths Hand do but touch the best complection'd Persons like the * Contacto◠cinerescunt Apples of Sodom they drop speedily into dust and ashes Who would be proud of Gifts and Parts seeing the Wise Man dies as well as the Fool Psal 49.10 Who would be proud of stately and pleasant Houses considering shortly he must be housed in dark and dankish rooms under ground Job 17.13 Who would be proud of his Pedigree considering he must say ere long to corruption Thou art my Father and to the worm Thou art my Mother and my Sister Job 17.14 Who would be proud of Apparel which must shortly be laid aside Or who would be proud of Riches which must be left at death and we know not to whom Psal 39.6 Who would be ambitious of great swelling titles as your Worship your Honour your Grace your Excellency your Greatness your Highness c. considering that the Greatest die and their Titles with them and their Glory will not descend after them Psal 49.17 Ambition like a blazing Comet portends no good and in a while vanisheth and comes to nothing How unbefitting a thing is it for man to be daily aspiring who is daily expiring to soar so high who must lie so low even under the feet of those whom he desires to tread upon Ahasuerus that could reckon 127 Provinces under his command Esth 1.1 had but about seven foot Sepulchre at most being dead And Alexander that sweated within the compass of the world as too narrow for him Aestuat infoelix angusto limite mundi Juvenal Sat. 10. Yet being dead had but a little patch of ground to contain his Body and that was with much difficulty obtained There is indeed some odds betwixt men whilst living in respect of birth education wealth wit alliance honour beauty c. yet to pull down the top-sail of pride man should consider that the same God made us all Job 31.15 Mal. 2.10 and of the same matter and we all at last return alike to the same earth Gen. 3.19 Eccl. 12.7 There is no odds amongst dead men Respice sepulchra vide quis servus quis dominus quis dives quis pauper discerne si potes vinctum a Rege fortem a debili pulchrum a deformi * Aug. lib. de nat et grat Aust Take a view of the Graves of men and you shall find all there have a like hollow eyes flat noses ghastly looks noysom scents c. there Dives cannot be distinguished from Lazarus nor beautiful Rachel from blear-ey'd Leah At a game of Chess as a learned * Doctor observes we see Kings and Queens and Bishops †Dr. Stuart's Catholic Divinity pag. 151 152. and Knights upon the board and they have their several walks and contest one with another in points of state and honour but when the game is done all together with the pawns are shuffled in one bag In like manner in this life men appear in different garbes and take diverse courses some are Kings some are Officers some Bishops some Knights some of other ranks and orders But when this life like a game is done which is sometimes sooner sometimes later all are shuffled together with the many or vulgar sort of people and lie in darkness and obscurity All their pomp is brought down to the grave and the worms shall cover them Isa 14.11 To shut up this point A proud man is a vain supercilious bubble that swells for a while and danceth about with a splendid gaiety upon the surface of the waters but presently disappears and is seen no more Who would then boast himself with Theudas to be some body Act. 5.36 or with Simon-Magus look upon himself as 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Act. 8.9 some grand Magnifico whereas in his best state he is but altogether vanity Psal 39.5 Use 11 11. Let death of Friends be a Cordial to keep you from fainting under any affliction You see Friends die daily assure your self ere long your turn will come and by death you shall be delivered from all your sorrows A Christian may say with Jacob Gen. 47.9 Few and evil have the dayes of the years of my life been This is Jacobs Arithmetick he casting the account of his days tells you they were by substraction and diminution Few by addition and multiplication full of evil Indeed Psal 34.19 Many are the afflictions of the Righteous The Latin word Quies which signifies rest wanteth the plural number for there is little rest in this world A good man meets with contempt from the world temptations from the Devil assaults from the flesh sometimes with rebukes from God checks from Conscience with spiritual desertions with poverty sickness reproach c. like a Ship sayling on the Sea of this world no sooner is he freed from one waye but he is immediatly lifted up by another but when he dyes he is safely landed on the shoar in the haven of Heaven above a state of misery and mortality too Old Chaucer's Epitaph is a good one * Manch Al. Mond p. 61. Mors aerumnarum requies Death puts an end to all sorrow We may write upon the Grave-stone of a Spiritual Pilgrim Hic mortuus requiescit semel Qui vivus requievit nunquam Death is a Sleep and the Coffin a Couch In quo illé mollius dormit quisquis durius in hâc vità se gèsserit Ambros The Sepulcher is a place of rest for the Antients called it Requietorium or Dormitorium And the Prophet Isaiah calleth it a Bed Isa 57.2 They shall rest in their Beds Men being hard-work't all day sleep sweetly at night So
on Luk. 7.12 13. p. 13. Dr. saith Their less confirmed constitution is sooner discomposed and out of temper Their fresher blood is more susceptive of infection their warmer and agil spirits more easily blown up into a feaverish heat and flame Infectious Distempers as Plague Measels Small-Pox c. soonest seize on the purest Complexions and speedily overturn the best-built structures of Nature The purest Fruit soonest perisheth When Jonah's Gourd was fullest of Sap and Verdure then the Worm smites it and it is gone Strong Cedars sturdy Oaks are hewen down when Death layes the Ax to the Root of the Tree Great Zerxes wept to think that the strength of his Army could not keep Death out of his Quarters If thou beest as strong as Sampson or David's three Worthies whom you read of in 2 Sam. 23.8 yet sickness may soon weaken thee and Death lay thee flat on thy back 2. Some measure their life by the lives of others as their Neighbours and their own Kindred They see many Neighbours older than they by many years and besides their Father is alive and Grandfather lived long Their Generation used to be long-liv'd and therefore they reckon on many years But this is deceitful reckoning for young men die as well as those that are striken in years see Job 21.23 24 25 26. So Job 36.14 They die in youth So Jer. 9.21 Death is come up into our Windows and is entered in at our Palaces to cut off the Children from without and the young Men from the streets Old Age is a Distemper that very few in comparison die of And though your Father be alive and your Grandfather lived long yet many times Children die before their Parents Gen. 11.28 Haran died before his Father Terah Absalom out-lived all his Children Naomi lived to see her Children buried as well as her Husband Ruth 1.5 So did Job Job 1.18 19. To end this The Sons of Jacob as * Mr. Fuller in his Comment on some of Ruth one observes when they came to the Table of Joseph sat down the eldest according to his Age and the youngest according to his Youth Gen. 43.33 But Death observes not this method he takes not Men in seniority but sometimes sends them first to their Burial that came last from the Birth and those that came last from the Womb first to their Winding-sheet 3. Some think they shall live long because they are temperate and chast Intemperance doubtless destroys many Plures gulâ quà m gladio More perish by gluttony than by the Sword Multos morbos multa fecerunt fercula Seneca Epist 95. And drunkenness is destructive to the bodies of those that delight in it Prov. 23.29 30. Whence come Dropsies Gouts Feavers Rheums and such like Distempers but usually from excess in eating and drinking Lasciviousness and excessive wantonness is likewise an impairer of strength Prov. 5.11 so Prov. 31.5 But yet the most temperate and chast men may die soon For these are very subject to infectious Maladies neither are they priviledged from manifold chances and unexpected surprisals which may suddenly put an end to life 4. and lastly Others because they have been sick and are recovered they hope to see many dayes But alas how ordinary are relapses into the same distemper that men think they are recovered of And those relapses as Physitians say and Experience doth witness most dangerous But if a man be perfectly recovered of one distemper how ordinary is it for that man to fall irrecoverably into another Ambros. de Obitu fratris 3 Tom. p. 16. Satyrus St. Ambrose's Brother returned from Africk by a perilous Voyage for he suffered shipwrack and escaped drowning very narrowly by swimming yet having escaped so great a danger within a short t me after his arrival and return to his Friends fell sick and died amongst them If you escape one danger you know not how soon you may fall into another If you recover of one distemper you are but reprieved for how short a time God only knows O courteous Reader deceive thy self no longer Death like a Mole is secretly undermining thee Thou art far nearer Death and the Grave than thou art aware of Consider 1. How many Diseases thou art subject to which like so many Worms lie gnawing at the Tree of Life The very eye as some Oculists observe hath above sixty Diseases attending it Innumerable then must the diseases be which the whole body is subject unto This Body of ours which is fearfully and wonderfully made Psal 139.14 like a curious Watch is soon out of order and oft-times Physicians with all their skill cannot mend it again Non est in medico semper relevetur ut aeger Ovid de Pont. Lib. 1. Eleg. 4. Interdum doctá plus valet arte malum Some mens Bodies are ground to pieces with the Stone some destroyed with the Epilepsie See Mr. Ley's Sermon on Jam. 4.14 or an Imposthume which insensibly gathers to an head breaks in a moment and stops the breath of mans Bosom or stifles the spirits of his Brain Some Bodies are blown up with the Cholick or Illiaca Passio Some eaten up insensibly by a Consumption some drowned with the Dropsie some burnt with a Feaver And indeed many new Diseases break forth amongst us which puzzle Physitians not only how to cure them but how to call them These bodily Distempers are as so many warning-pieces which God many times shoots off before he send his murdering-piece 2. De civit Dei lib. 22 cap. 22. Consider the manifold chances which may befal thee Quid de innumeris casibus qui forinsecùs corpori formidantur Aug. There are casual mishaps as well as Diseases innumerable which may prove destructive to life We all receive life but one way viz. by Generation but we may lose it many * Mille modis morimur Sen. l. 7. 1. Controvers wayes As we see in a Garden-Pot the Water is poured in but at one place viz. the narrow mouth but it runs out at an hundred holes If we ride on Horseback the Horse may start or stumble and cast us that we may rise no more Absaloms Mule running from under him hastned his destruction 2 Sam. 18.9 c. If we walk on foot we may take immoderate heats and colds which may bring with them incurable Distempers Thieves and Robbers may surprize us wound us and leave us for dead Luke 10.30 Some Beast or other may kill us as the disobedient Prophet was slain with a Lyon 1 Kings 13.24 Or a Drunkard worse then a Beast enraged by strong drink Prov. 20.1 may speedily dispatch us Walking in the streets a piece of Timber a Stone or Tile from an House may suddenly fall upon thee and strike thee dead As a piece of a Mill-stone thrown from a Tower broke the Skull of Abimelech Judg. 9.53 D. Stuarts Catholick Divinity p. 163. Martial makes mention of one that was kill'd with the fall of an Ice-sicle which caused
should bestir themselves who have as we say one foot in the Grave already A * Omnis motus naturalis velotior est in fine Stone the nearer it comes to the Center the swifter it moves The nearer any come to Death the greater should their preparation be for it It is * Abel Rediv in life of Mr Perkins observed of the Birds of Norway that they having in Winter very short dayes fly swifter than other Fowl in other Countries as if principled by the instinct of Nature thriftily to improve the little light allowed them and by the swiftness of their Wings to regain the shortness of their time How speedy and earnest should old men especially be in preparing themselves for Death who if they have neglected God in their youthful dayes have a great deal of work to do in a very short time 3. Constanter 3. And lastly Prepare your selves for Death Constantly so long as life shall last This God calls for 1 Cor. 15. last verse Be constant and immoveable alway abounding in the Work of the Lord. This was David's resolution Psal 119.112 I have enclined my heart to keep thy Statutes alway even unto the end So it was Job's Job 14.14 All the dayes of my appointed time will I wait till my change come So Job 27.5 6 Till I die I will not remove my integrity from me My Righteousness I hold fast and will not let it go my heart shall not reproach me so long as I live The like did Saint Paul as you may read Acts 20.24 Phil. 3.13 14 15. 2 Tim. 4.6 7 8. God hath promised to give the Crown of Glory or Eternal Happiness to such as persevere in a Christian course of life see Rev. 2.10 so Rev. 3.11 12. Heaven is not got per saltum at one sudden leap you must set out betimes and advance forward in the race of Christianity so long as you live You must run and not be weary walk and not faint Isa 40.31 Charles the fifths Motto Ulterius becomes every Christian he must advance still forward for he that runs half the Race and then gives it over Ioseth the Wager as well as he that never set forth See what is said Ezek. 18.24 When the Righteous turneth away from his righteousness and committeth iniquity and doth according to all the abominations that the wicked man doth shall he live All his righteousness that he hath done shall not be mentioned in his trespass that he hath trespassed and in his sin that he hath sinned in them shall he die If any man draw back saith God Heb. 10.38 my Soul shall have no pleasure in him and again ver 39. They draw back unto perdition Let Christians then who expect the Crown fight manfully under Christ's Banner against the World Sin and the Devil and continue Christ's faithful Souldiers and Servants unto their lives end Let them do that in their Spiritual what Caesar is said to do in his Temporal-Warfare Nil actum credens siquid superesset agendum Lucan Pharsal Lib. 2. Be still doing as though they had done nothing till all be done Now there will be alway something for a Christian to do till Death give him his Quietus est a Writ of Ease Rev. 14.13 Blessed are the dead that die in the Lord they rest from their labours There must be no resting till death We should be Volunteers in God's Service till Death disband us When William the Conqueror landed his men in Sussex he caused all Ships to be sunk that all hope of flying back might be taken away We are here landed saith an ingenious * Dr. Boys in his Postils on Rev. 12.7 Divine in this Valley of Tears we must neither faint nor fly but fight it out valiantly till Death the last Enemy be destroyed 1 Cor. 15.26 Good Christians are like Wine full of Spirits that continues good to the last drawing yea the older they are like good Wines the better they be Lâ—k 5.39 They are compared to Trees in Scripture Psal r. 3. so Isa 61.3 called Trees of Righteousness because filled with the Fruits of Righteousness Phil. 1.11 These Trees are never past bearing They shall bring forth Fruit in old age they shall be fat and flourishing Psal 92.14 It is an honour to be thus gray-headed in Religion Prov. 16.31 The hoary-head is a Crown of Glory if it be found in the way of Righteousness God highly prizeth a Mnason an old Disciple as he was Acts 21.16 that hath served him from his youth upwards Well then let us put the former directions constantly into practice Let us pray continually 1 Thess 5.17 Let us have our * Stata tempora set-times for Prayer and at least morning and evening let us offer unto God the sacrifice of Prayer Let us daily mourn for the sins we daily commit Nay those sins which God hath pardned we should reflect upon with grief of heart and pray for a farther manifestation of pardoning Grace so did David For the one and fiftieth Psalm was pen'd by David after he had gone into Bathsheba and after Nathan had brought him the news of a Pardon 2 Sam. 12.13 Some * Mr. Smith in his Doctrine of Repentance p. 105. observe after God had cast Adam out of Paradise he set him e regione Horti over against the Garden in the very sight and view of the place where he had offended that so oft as he lookt towards the Garden he might remember his sin and lament for it Let us constantly avoid such sins as we do lament So did St. Paul Acts 24.16 Herein do I exercise my self to have alway a Conscience void of offence towards God and towards men Let us do good works constantly Gal. 6.9 2 Thes 3.13 Let us constantly put on the vertues of Christ growing in number measure and exercise of grace Let us daily act faith upon Christ If we do thus not only begin well but continue in thus doing until death we shall when we have acted the last part of our life upon the Stage of this World every one of us apart here that joyful Sentence pronounced by Christ himself Eugè bone serve Well done thou good and faithful Servant Enter thou into the joy of thy Lord Matth. 25.21 Thus you see the forementioned Directions are to be practised Early Earnestly and Constantly these three Ingredients make our Services a sweet Perfume But because we are so backward to these things I shall in the next Chapter lay down a few Considerations to quicken us to the performance of the whole and so conclude CHAP. IV. Containing certain Motives to move us to prepare for Death NO Man can truly say of mine advice touching preparation for Death as Hushai said of Ahitophel's 2 Sam. 17.7 It is not good at this time Sure I am advice to it or practice of it is never unseasonable for this is the 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 the main business that we come into the World
and what art thou now afraid to depart Go out my Soul And with that he laid himself down upon his Pillow and quietly slept in the Lord. That good man Oecolampadius when he lay a dying being asked by some of his friends whether the light did not offend him he clapt his hand on h s breast saying Hic sat lucis est Here is light enough meaning comfort So that solid Divine and eminent Christian Master Bolton said to some of his Friends that came to visit him at the point of death I am said he by the wonderful mercies of God as full of comfort as mine heart can hold and feel nothing in my Soul but Christ I could produce great store of such like Examples but let these suffice Object But are not some of God's dear Servants unwilling to die as was David Psal 102.24 and Hezekiah Isa 38.1 2 3 Do not some die with little or no comfort Answ As for David and Hezekiah they were publick Magistrates and desired to live longer that they might be serviceable in their Generation and bring glory to God They knew if they had died at such a time the wicked would have insulted and made Songs of Tryumph at their Funeral They feared Distractions both in Church and State which might follow upon their death And haply they were the more unwilling to die because in their apprehensions not sufficiently prepared for Death Possibly by falling unadvisedly into some sins they had blurred their evidences and wounded their Consciences It is therefore good counsel which * Dr. Boreman in Serm. on Phil. 3 20. p. 45. Carthusianus gives and that is so to provide for the coming of Death ut nihil in mente resideat quod Conscientiam mordeat cum quo mori timeat that no sin reside or remain in our breast which may wound and trouble the Conscience and with which we being guilty cannot die in peace and safety Sin like Jonah in the Ship raiseth a tempest in the Soul The reason why many find so little comfort at death is because they are too negligent in preparing themselves for it I end this with that of the Psalmist Psal 37.37 Mark the perfect man and behold the upright for the end of that man is peace 3. and last Consider 3. And lastly By this means you shall arise again with comfort That there will be a Resurrection of the Body is clear from Scripture Insomuch that our Saviour told the Sadduces which said there is no Resurrection Matth. 22.29 Ye do err not knowing the Scriptures When Jesus told Martha that her Brother should rise again Joh. 11.23 she replyed vers 24. I know that he shall rise again in the Resurrection at the last Day And the Apostle spends the largest Chapter in all his Epistles in proving this Point against some in the Church of Corinth who denied it 1 Cor. 15.12 Well then at Christs second coming to Judgment we must all rise again with our own bodies and give an account of our own Works as you may see 2 Cor. 5.10 Rom. 14.12 This will be a joyful day to such as have lived in expectation of it and preparation for it For when Christ their life appears they shall appear with him in glory Col. 3.4 They shall have a Crown of Righteousness conferred upon them 2 Tim. 4.7 8. They shall rise to everlasting life Dan. 12.2 John 5.29 They shall lift up their heads with joy They shall have confidence and not be ashamed before him at his coming 1 Joh. 2.28 For he who is their Saviour Surety Intercessor Head and Husband will be their Judge He will at that day gather them together and place them on his right hand and pronounce that blessed Sentence Mat. 25.34 Come ye blessed of my Father inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the World They shall be Assessores in judicio like Justices of the Peace upon the Bench with the Judge approving of that righteous Sentence which Christ shall pronounce upon the wicked both Men and Devils 1 Cor. 6.2 3. Know ye not that the Saints shall judge the World Know ye not that we shall judge Angels * Psalm 149.9 This and much more honour have all the Saints in that great day They enter upon such happiness as shall never end Dan. 12.3 They shall shine as the brightness of the Firmament and as the Stars for ever and ever see 1 Thes 4.14 c. After the Apostle had spoken of the Resurrection and second coming of Christ he tells us that Believers shall be for ever with the Lord vers 17. And then he adds Comfort one another with these words vers 18. This eternal happiness will make amends for all our pains and care in our Christian course Thus you see how comfortable their condition is that live in continual expection of Death and preparation for Death They live comfortably they die comfortably and they shall rise again with comfort Whereas on the other side if men be careless herein they have no true comfort whilst they live even in laughter their heart is sorrowful and the end of that mirth is heaviness Prov. 14.13 So it was with Belshazzar Dan. 5.4 5. God saith again and again by the Prophet Isaiah That there is no peace to the wicked Isa 48.22 57.21 And if they have no true peace and comfort whilst they live I am sure they have none when they come to die As Ahab said to Elijah so may a wicked man say upon the approach of Death 1 King 21.20 Hast thou found me O mine Enemy Death to him is the King of Terrors as Bildad in Job call'd it Job 18.14 Or as the Philosopher Arist Eth. ad Nic lib. 3. c. 9. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Nothing is so terrible to him as Death The Soul at such a time is usually full of horrors and heavy apprehensions Pangs of Death horrour of Conscience sense of Guilt and frights of Hell are sufficient to render him perfectly miserable If there be any wicked men that die with little sense of pain and less fear of Death as Psal 73.4 we must know that this is security and sensless stupidity no true peace And if they have no true peace and comfort neither in life nor at death they 'l have none after death nor at the general Resurrection for no sooner is the soul separated from the body but God passeth a particular judgment upon it Eccles 12.7 Heb. 9.27 and dooms it to misery Even as Sodom and Gomorrah are set forth for an Example suffering the vengeance of eternal fire Jude 7. And at the second coming of Christ to Judgment the body shall rise and be reunited to the soul and Christ will pronounce that dreadful Sentence upon all wicked persons Mat. 25.41 Depart from me ye cursed into everlasting fire prepared for the Devil and his angels And this Sentence being once pass'd shall never be alter'd Hence it is called
God's dearest Children Jacob was sick Gen. 48.1 So was Hezekiah 2 King 20.1 So Job was smitten with a sore Boyl from the crown of the head to the sole of the foot Job 2.7 8. He was so loathsome a Creature none would come near him he was fain to be his own Chyrurgeon and his dressing Instrument was a piece of a broken Pot see likewise Job 7.3 4 5 13 14 15 16. So David was sick nigh unto death read Psal 6. Psal 38. So under the New Testament we read Dorcas that Woman full of good Works and Alms-deeds which she did fell sick Acts 9.36 37. So Paul himself saith We had that Sentence of Death in our selves c. 2 Cor. 1.9 He means the great danger he was in by reason of his Adversaries or by reason of sickness or both Thus he was in deaths oft i. e. in deadly dangers 2 Cor. 11.23 So before this you read of some in the Church of Corinth that were chastned of the Lord by some violent sickness that they might not be condemned with the World 1 Cor. 11.30 32. Timothy had but bad health which made the Apostle to give him this advice To drink no longer Water but to use a little Wine for his Stomachs sake and his often infirmities 1 Tim. 5.23 So we read of Trophimus the Ephesian Paul's Disciple and Companion in travels Acts 20.4 21.29 left of Paul at * This Miletum or rather Miletus Act. 20.17 was a City famous for Wool and Cloathing Nec Miletus erat vellere digna tuo Martial Miletum sick 2 Tim. 4.20 But we need not light up a Candle at noon-day and seek for that which is neither hid nor lost This truth is confirmed or Proposition verified by daily experience I therefore pass on to the Reasons of the Point which may be taken from three heads 1. From their natural constitution The Godly though they be the Sons of God by the grace of Adoption yet they are the Sons of Adam by natural production And as the Wood breeds a Worm that eats it the Garment a Moth that frets it and Fruit that which doth corrupt it so natural bodies produce Diseases to destroy them The bodies of the best are earthly houses 2 Cor. 5.1 which moulder away of themselves The Apostle calls the body even of the best men a vile body because Tot miseriis obnoxium subject amongst other miseries to sickness and distempers Calv in Phil. 3.21 If the humours of the body be but a little stirred they turn to the nutriment of a Disease Our very blood as Dr. Taylor saith wherein our life dwells is the scene under which nature acts many sharp Feavers and heavy Sicknesses Many men saith another * Mr. Byfield on 1 Pet. 2.24 p. 883. Divine that for the present are free from the pains of Diseases yet have their enemies in their bodies in divers parts of them laid as it were in Garison which may and will break out upon them at a time they know not 2. From inherent corruption The best besides original corruption have many actual provocations 1 King 8.46 Psal 19.12 Psal 143.2 Prov. 20.9 Eccles 7.20 1 John 1.8 If we say we have no sin we deceive our selves and the truth is not in us If the best of us saith he hath no sin he sins in saying so De vero cultu lib. 6. c. 13. for this is sin in the best Nemo esse sine delicto potest quamdiù indumento carnis oneratus est Lactant. Now sin is the procuring cause of sickness Had not sin entred into the World there had been no sickness Had our first Parents continued in a state of holiness they had continued in a state of health and happiness everlasting but their eating the forbidden fruit brought Diseases upon them and their posterity It is sin that brings all mankind even the best to the Grave Rom. 5.12 And no wonder if it cast them upon a sick-bed Sin is the Pandora's Box that filleth the World with innumerable diseases and calamities Like another Jonah it raiseth storms and aestuations in the Body as he did in the Sea Jonah 1.4 7. compared What saith David Psal 31.10 My life is spent with grief and my years with sighing My strength faileth because of mine iniquity and my bones are consumed It was sin that weakned him and brought as it were his body into a consumption So Psal 38.3 There is no soundness in my flesh because of thine anger Agnoscit morbi istius causam esse iram Dei propter selera sua in se accensam Muscul in loc neither is there any rest in my bones because of my sin So vers 5. My Wounds stink and are corrupt because of my foolishness So Psal 39.11 God with rebukes doth correct man for iniquity Diseases are properly the Rod of the Lord and the Rod for the fools back seems to have been a Proverb amongst the Jews Prov. 10.13 26.3 Hence the Psalmist allusively tells us Psal 107.17 Fools because of their transgressions and because of their iniquities are afflicted The best of men are no wiser than they should be nay they too oft play the fool as David did 2 Sam. 24.10 and no wonder if God chastise them with sickness 3. And lastly From Divine Ordination 1 Thes 3.3 The Devil cannot smite us with sores or sickness without God's Commission or at least without his Permission as you may see in the case of Job Job 2.6 Whatever may be the instrumental or material cause of any affliction yet God himself is the supream efficient Job 5.6 as Eliphaz said Affliction cometh not forth of the dust neither doth trouble spring out of the ground By this proverbial Speech he would have us look higher than to secondary causes even to God himself as the Author for so he is Isa 45.7 so Amos 3.6 Shall there be evil in a City and the Lord hath not done it It is not to be understood of the malum culpae sed poenae evil of sin but of affliction and punishment God then sends sickness to his Children or he is pleased to exercise them with sickness and such like afflictions for good ends I 'le name two especially 1. For the purging out or preventing of sin Psal 119.67 71. so Isa 1.25 Isa 27.9 so Heb. 12.10 11. God sends sickness as he sent an Angel with a drawn Sword in his hand to Balaam Numb 22.32 to divert us from sinful courses God takes away corporal to recover spiritual health he weakens thee in body to weaken the body of sin in thee If he cast thee into a Feaver or burning Ague it is to refine thee and make thee a Vessel unto Honour sanctified and meet for the Masters use and prepared unto every good work as expressions be 2 Tim. 2.21 I have somewhere read how Basil the Great that holy Man being much troubled with the Head-ach prayed to God to remove it and was at length
and tost upon the Waves of a troublesome World Is not this World like a round Ball stuck full of Pins so that upon what part soever the Godly are cast they meet with trouble and misery According to that of our Saviour John 16.33 In the World ye shall have tribulation So that to have his life prolonged what was it but a prolongation of his misery and an adjournment of his happiness Tiberius Caesar said to one that requested death rather than long imprisonment Sueton. Nondum tecum redii in gratiam he told him He had not such a favour for him The like favour God here denies for the present to Epaphroditus and can this be truly call'd a Mercy Answ It cannot be denied but death is better than life to the Godly and rather to be chosen for it frees from sin sickness Satans temptations c. Yea it brings them to the happy vision and fruition of God to the society of blessed Saints and Angels and puts them into possession of everlasting happiness Calvin in Phil. 2.27 Longum esset enumerare omnia quae faciunt ut mors fidelibus potior sit vitâ optabilior Yet for all this as that learned Author saith Vita per se aestimata est praeclarum Dei beneficium praesertum qui Christo vivunt iis vitam lucro esse dicimus Life considered in it self is a choice mercy of God and advantagious to the Godly And to glorifie God in this bodily life is Non parva dignatio no little savour which God vouchsafeth to us so Calvin And Musculus Muscul in Phil. 2.27 saith Mors ipsa quatenus est peccati stipendium horribilis naturae in seipsâ considerata capax est misericordiae tà m corà m Deo quà m corà m hominibus Death as it is the wages of sin and terrible to nature is capable of mercy both before God and Man Besides as the same Author observes there were several circumstances which would have rendered his death in a sort miserable and no doubt did then trouble his mind Desolatio videlicet perturbatio Ecclesiae as the too much dejection of his people at the sad news of his death and the desolation that might follow upon it and withal the consideration that he could be no longer serviceable to them and to the Apostle in his bonds which he much desired Besides we may farther add that the continuance of a good mans life is a great blessing in this respect that the longer he lives the more good he doth and so his reward will be the greater 2 Cor. 9.6 He that soweth bountifully shall reap bountifully There are degrees of glory as may be gathered from 1 Cor. 15.41 42. 1 Cor. 3.8 Secundum non propter opera The most gracious here shall be most glorious hereafter Those that do most for God here shall receive most from God hereafter So that had Epaphroditus died he had had his reward the sooner but living he makes it the greater For those of the longest standing and greatest proficiency in the School of Grace here shall take the greatest degrees of Glory hereafter I end this with the words of that truly pious and learned * Doctor Hammond in Phil. 1.22 Divine Life in it self and for the advantages of serving God and encreasing our Crown is a desirable thing Use and Application Vse 1 1. This may serve to confute or reprove the Manichees or any others that hold this present life in it self is evil Heming in Phil. 1.17 Manichei hanc praesentem vitam ut malum per se damnarunt Heming Surely God would never have made prolongation of life a motive to obedience as you find Deut. 6.2 30.16 c. so Prov. 3.16 4.10 22. 9.10 11. and elsewhere nor would the Apostle here have reckoned Epaphroditus's recovery amongst the mercies of God if this present life had been evil This is such a mercy we ought to bless God for Psal 66.8 9. O bless our God ye people and make the voice of his praise to be heard who holdeth our soul in life Muscul in Psal 103.3 4. Nè umbrâ quidem corporis nedum vivo ac sano corpore dignus est c. He is not worthy of the shadow and shape of a body much less of a living and healthful body that doth not look upon life and health as mercies Vse 2 2. This consideration should make us patient under afflictions that befal us So long as we have life and health we have no cause to complain as though God dealt hardly with us We read Gen. 19. that Lot had most of his Goods which he had not time to remove and his Sons in Law consumed in a fearful fire from Heaven and his Wife turned into a Pillar of Salt before his eyes a sad spectacle yet he counted it a mercy amidst manifold miseries that God had spared his life Vers 19. Behold now thy Servant hath found grace in thy sight and thou hast magnified thy mercy which thou hast shewed unto me in saving my life It is a mercy thou hast thy health but if this be gone after loss of Goods and Children as in Job's case yet it is a mercy thy life is spared that thou art on this side the Grave and a sad eternity Lam. 3.22 23. It is of the Lords mercies that we are not consumed because his compassions fail not they are new every morning great is thy faithfulness Therefore as he adds vers 39. Wherefore doth a living man complain A living man hath cause to be thankful but none to murmur life and health being the choicest of outward mercies 3. and last Vse 3. And lastly Let us not if life and health be such choice mercies provoke God to deprive us of them Sin as I told you before is the procuring cause of sickness yea and of death too Rom. 5.12 so Rom. 6.23 Death both Temporal and Eternal is as due to sin as wages to him that earns them Temporal Death 't is true sooner or later will seize on us all yet many by sinning impair their health and shorten their dayes as these places shew Job 15.32 Psal 94.23 Prov. 10.27 Eccles 7.17 But more particularly I shall name several sins some of which in their own nature tend to impairing of health and shortening a mans dayes and others of them God hath threatned with destruction I pray you observe them and learn to avoid them as you love prolongation of health and life 1. Disobedience to Superiours See Exod. 20.12 This fiffh Commandement of honouring thy Father and Mother is said to be the first Commandement with promise Ephes 6.2 It is the first Commandement that hath this special promise annexed to it viz. Prolongation of dayes By Father and Mother we understand Political Ecclesiastical and Natural Parents Take heed then of an irreverent and disobedient carriage towards the King and those that are in authority under him You read Numb 16.
Rejoyce not when thine Enemy falleth and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth lest the Lord see it and it displease him Job 31.29 and he turn away his wrath from him and lay it upon thee See Obad. 12.13 14 15. God there threatneth the Edomites for rejoycing at the calamity that befel the Israelites This sin call'd 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 was condemned by the Heathens It is most opposite to the rule of charity which rejoyceth not in iniquity 1 Cor. 13.6 It maketh not others evil be it of sin or suffering matter of rejoycing 14. Take heed of innovating in God's Worship Nadab and Abihu for offering strange fire by fire from the Lord as with lightning were destroyed as you may read Levit. 10.1 2. 15. Take heed of invading the Ministers Office without a Call See Numb 16.35 You read there of two hundred and fifty men that offered Incense usurping the Priests Office were punished by fire wherein they offended So Vzziahs rash adventure to do the like was punished with the Leprosie as you read 2 Chron. 26.16 c. 16. Lastly Take heed of sins of the tongue as Lying Swearing Forswearing Cursing False-accusing Backbiting Brawling Blasphemy c. See Prov. 17.20 He that hath a perverse tongue falleth into mischief And Prov. 13.3 He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction So Prov. 18.21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof The Psalmists words shall shut up this Point Psal 34.12 13 14. What man is he that desireth life and loveth many dayes that he may see good Keep thy tongue from evil and thy lips from speaking guile Depart from evil and do good seek peace and ensue it I might add to these sins which endanger health and life bold and audacious attempts as leaping Hedges swimming Waters c. when there is no necessity for either This is called properly a tempting of God when men without any warrant from God's Word make tryal of his Wisdom Power and Goodness which is expresly forbidden Deut. 6.16 Ye shall not tempt the Lord your God as ye tempted him in Massah whereof you read Exod. 17.2 where they are said to tempt God by requiring a miraculus evidence of his presence among them Our Saviour did beat back the Devil with this Text out of Deuteronomy when he would have had him to cast down himself from the * Doctor Hammond Annot. on Mat. 4.5 Pinacle i. e. out-wing or battlement of the Temple Mat. 4.7 If Christ had cast himself down into a needless danger God might have justly left him to destruction without breach of his Promise God indeed hath promised to keep us but it must be in all our wayes Psal 91.11 which necessary part of the Sentence the Devil left out Mat. 4.6 God hath promised to keep us in all our wayes or warrantable courses but not in our wanderings The Israelites fell in the Wilderness when they tempted God 1 Cor. 10.9 Object But some may say Are not they that tempt God delivered Mal. 3.15 Do not we daily see many wicked men that are disobedient to Superiours drunkards lustful impatient envious ambitious c. live become old and are mighty in power yea and the Rod of God is not upon them Job 21.7 9. Did not the Psalmist see such were not in trouble like other men nor plagued like other men that made conscience of their wayes Psal 73.5 Answ Indeed it may so fall out that a wicked man may prolong his life in his wickedness Eccles 7.15 God may bear long with some such notorious offenders to shew his own patience and long suffering to exercise the faith and patience of his Servants To teach that there is a day of judgment wherein he hath appointed to judge the World in Righteousness Acts 17.31 God may bear with them to leave them inexcusable that they may fill up the measure of their sins and for their greater damnation at last Rom. 9.22 For these and other reasons best known unto himself he may suffer some wicked men to live and prosper But let not us let loose the reyns to sin and make the impunity of some few an encouragement to wickedness It is folly and madness to be careless because some few have escaped shipwrack Certainly as the Apostle saith after he had told us of several punishments befalling several Offenders for several sins 1 Cor. 10.11 Now all these things happened unto them for ensamples and they are written for our admonition upon whom the ends of the World are come And as an Heathen Author said Felix quem faciunt aliena pericula cautum Happy is he whom other mens harms do make to beware Well then life being so great a mercy let us avoid all such sins as may be a means to shorten it and let us use all lawful means to preserve it as Food and Physick which God hath appointed Let us not through discouragement of Spirit because of deadly dangers which we meet with in our Christian Callings Numb 10.14 15. as weary of life wish for death which was an infirmity in that good Man Elijah 1 King 19.4 Much less ought we through discontent as Jonah did Jonah 4.3 8. wish for death But most prodigiously to blame are they that lay violent hands upon themselves Man's breath saith a worthy Bishop is put into his body as a Tenant at Will into an house Dr. Abbot on Jonah 4.3 4. Lect. 26. p. 543. whereinto it may not enter without the good will of the Land-lord and being once in it must keep there and hold the building upright till it have its discharge to remove somewhere else Yet after all this that I have spoken concerning the care you should have to maintain health and preserve life Give me leave to put in a Caveat or cautionary Proposition to prevent a mistake And it is this Caution That you ought to hazard health and life for the Churches sake and for Christs sake to witness to his Truth if called to it 1 John 3.16 We ought to lay down our lives for the Brethren St. Paul was willing to spend and be spent 2 Cor. 12.15 for the propogation of the Gospel and good of God's Church and People see Acts 20.24 and 21.13 Truth hath been sealed with the blood of many Martyrs An Heathen set such a price on Truth that he thought it worth our lives Vitamque impendere vero Nec propter vitam vivendi perdere causam What saith the Apostle of Epaphroditus see Phil. 2.30 For the work of Christ he was nigh unto death not regarding his life to supply your lack of service towards me Epaphroditus undertook a great Journey to minister to Pauls necessity which is here called the Work of Christ for what is done to his Members he takes it as done to himself Mat. 25.40 This Journey occasioned his
place Psalm 68.20 He that is our God is the God of Salvation and to God the Lord belongs the issues from death This God whom the Righteous are related to and have an interest in can help in greatest straits and send in deliverance when they are nigh unto death and stand in most need of help That God that kept Moses's Bush burning yet it was not consumed Exod. 3.2 and preserved Noah's Ark upon the Waters from perishing in the Waters This God can preserve his People under sickness and their saddest tryals and in his due time give them an happy issue out of all afflictions See what the Psalmist saith Psal 73.26 My flesh and my heart faileth but God is the strength of my heart or according to Orig. The Rock of my heart or according to Septuag 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 The God of mine heart and my portion for ever When the Godly Man's flesh fails health declines strength is weakned then is God ready to support him under sickness and to ease him of his pains either by restoring him to health or by taking him out of the miseries of this sinful World by death So that if we belong to God as Bullinger Bulling in phil 2.27 saith Optimè nobiscum agitur sive revalescamus sive moriamur it will go well with us whether we live or die 2. This Consideration affords comfort not only to believers ' midst personal sickness but likewise to God's Church ' midst national calamities Though Church and State lie as it were bed-rid languishing unto Death under Schism and Division Sin and Errour and other national Calamities Yet let us not despair of help for he that cured Epaphroditus here who was sick nigh unto death can help us even in this extremity See Ezek. 37.11 12 13. God like a skilful Bone-setter or Chyrurgeon can bind up the breach of his People and heal the stroak of their Wound as the expression is Isa 30.26 God hath promised to heal in case we return unto him by prayer and unfeigned repentance Isa 19.22 so Jer. 33.6 None indeed can heal us but he Hos 5.13 All others except God be of the Quorum are Physitians of no value Let us then as it is Hos 6.1 Come and return unto the Lord for he hath torn and he will heal us he hath smitten and he will bind us up Una eademque manus vulnus opemque feret 3. This consideration may afford comfort to such as are spiritually sick and in their apprehensions nigh unto eternal death and destruction That God that raised Epaphroditus who was deadly sick in body can cure thy Soul mortally wounded with sin Let such as are wounded in conscience consider this Though your wounds have been grievous and of a long standing yet they exceed not the skill and power of God the spiritual Physitian God can yea and will cure you if you turn to him and relie upon him Take my word for it Nay it is not only mine but God's Word or I should be loth to speak it in this place See Isa 55.7 Let the wicked forsake his way Ezek. 18.27 and the unrighteous man his thoughts and let him return unto the Lord and he will have mercy upon him and to our God for he will abundantly pardon So Matth. 11.28 Come unto me saith Christ all ye that labour and are heavy laden and I will give you rest Come to Christ and wellcome he keeps open house to all comers 4. And lastly Gods dear People that by their sinning have blurred their evidences for Heaven and fallen from some degrees of Grace and Spiritual Comfort as David did Psal 51.8 12. Let them not despair of recovery That God that restored Epaphroditus's sick body to its pristine health Ps 147.3 can restore thy soul to spiritual health peace and comfort Thus he dealt by David Psal 23.3 He restoreth my soul He is the Creator of Peace and Comfort Isa 45.7 so Isa 57.17 18 19. and hath promised in his due time to speak peace unto his People and to his Saints but let them not turn again to folly Psal 85.8 I end this with that of the Evangelical Prophet Isa 50.10 Who is among you that feareth the Lord that obeyeth the voice of his Servant that walketh in darkness and hath no light a Child of light it seems may walk in darkness i. e. have little or no comfort for the present yet let him trust in the Name of the Lord and stay upon his God Let him still wait on God prayingly believingly obediently c. in God's due time which is ever best comfort will come And so much for this Use by way of comfort Vse 2 2. By way of instruction We learn if God cure the body of sickness as he did Epaphroditus here surely it is he that cures the Soul of sin which is a far harder work God upon the account of Christ who as at this time came into the World to undertake for us heals our souls of sin by applying Christs perfect Righteousness to the soul he removes the guilt and by his blessed Spirit implanting in the soul the Seeds of Divine Grace he heals it of the filth of sin Psal 103.3 Who pardoneth all thine Iniquities who healeth all thy Diseases God alone that cures the body of its distempers heals the soul of its spiritual maladies The Scribes and Pharisees acknowledged as much Luke 5.21 The Pope cannot pardon sins The Ministers of the Church of England absolve no otherwise then declarativè as the Embassadors of Christ God doth it autoritativè the authority is wholly his We do but pronounce the Pardon which before we speak is really done in Heaven to sincere Penitents Vse 3 and last 3. And lastly By way of Exhortation 1. To all in general Let us be exhorted to go to God for help in time of sickness It was he that cured Epaphroditus when sick nigh unto death Too too blame are they who in sickness and such like straits consult Astrologers Witches Devils and I know not whom for help It was an inexcusable sin in Ahaziah King of Israel who in his sickness sought to Baalzebub the Godd of Ekron for recovery of his health and for so doing God threatned him and accordingly brought it to pass that he should not come down from his sick-bed but should surely die Read the passage in 2 King 1.2 c. What good got Saul by consulting the Witch of Endor Surely the Wounds of God are rather to be chosen than the Devils Plaisters Indeed their best cures are deadly wounds For if the mortal body should be restored by such unlawful means yet the immortal soul which is the far better part is thereby much endangered Habes hoc loco qui omnes depollit morbos Bul in Phil. 2.27 O do not go about indirectly to wind your selves out of trouble you have a God to repair unto who can help at all straits and at every turn your head cannot ake
best for us to pay our Vows Deut. 23.21 Eccl. 5.4 5. we are perjur'd persons truce-breakers if we do not Defer not to put into action what God's Spirit in sickness put into intention Do as David did when he was brought low God helped him Psal 116.6 God delivered his soul from death v. 8. See his resolution v. 9. I will walk before the Lord in the land of the living He devoted himself to God's Service v. 16. Truly O Lord I am thy Servant I am thy Servant And he likewise resolved to pay his Vows v. 14. so v. 18. so likewise Psal 66.13 14. I will go into thine house with burnt-offerings I will pay thee my Vows which my lips have uttered and my mouth hath spoken when I was in trouble Let health strength life soul and body the products of Gods mercy be presented to his service Rom. 12.1 I end this with that advice which Christ gave to one whom he cured John 5.14 Behold thou art made whole sin no more lest a worse thing come unto thee 3. Apply your selves to God in future straits pray unto him trust in him Thus did David Psal 116.2 Because he hath enclined his ear unto me therefore will I call upon him as long as I live So v. 17. I will call upon the Name of the Lord. So Ps 56.3 What time I am afraid I will put my trust in thee for v. 13. Thou hast delivered my soul from death So Ps 63.7 Thou hast been my help therefore in the shadow of thy wings will I rejoyce See 1 Sam. 17.37 so 2 Cor. 1.9 10. We had the sentence of death saith the Apostle in our selves that we should not trust in our selves but in God which raised the dead who delivered us from so great a death and doth deliver in whom we trust that he will yet deliver us It is good Scripture-logick as * Mr. Reyners Praecepts p. 266. one saith to draw conclusions of confidence from premises of experience Such then whom God hath restored to health when God casts them again into the Prison of a sick-bed let them be still Prisoners of Hope as the expression is Zach. 9.12 Suffer not Faith to flag and Hope to hang wing Lam. 3.26 It is good that a man should both hope and patiently wait for the salvation of the Lord. 4. Sympathize with others that are in misery If God have had mercy on thee go thou and have mercy on others Be not straitned in your bowels as some in the Church of Corinth were 2 Cor. 6.12 Oh pity and pray for such as are in sickness and misery and do them all offices of love and kindness that may be Not only God calls for this but the Law of friendship calls for it Job 6.14 To him that is afflicted pity should be shewed from his friend But yet Job's friends dealt very unfriendly with him as you may see v. 15. whom he compares to a Brook which in open weather when people have least need of water promiseth refreshment but in cold weather is frozen up and in hot weather is become dry so that the weary Travellers fall short of their expectation So you may find him complaining how he was forsaken of all Relations Job 19.2 c. insomuch that he begs their pity upon the account of friendship v. 21. Have pity upon me have pity upon me O ye my Friends for the hand of God hath touched me here is another Argument for if you touch or strike upon the string of an Instrument other strings move too When God strikes another with sickness we our selves should be moved with compassion towards them the sicknesses and miseries of others call for your help Jos 10.6 Acts 16.9 As the Father said of Lazarus's sores Quot ulcera tot ora so many sores so many mouths calling for the rich mans help Yea though they be their enemies you should pity them as David did Psal 35.11 12 13 14. Though compassion begin at the heart yet it should proceed to the hand and mouth help them with your counsels and prayers and purses too Sic mens per compassionem doleat ut larga manus affectum doloris ostendat What the good Samaritan did Luk. 10.30 c. By which passage our Saviour would teach us to have pity on those whether friends or enemies acquaintance or strangers that stand in need of our help v. 37. Go thou and do likewise The Greek word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that signifies Alms comes from 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that signifies Pity Alms should be a fruit of pity 1 Joh. 3.17 If you who have known what it is to lie under sickness do not pity such folk who should if you do not who will 5. Lastly Give God the sole praise of all let him have the glory of the cure for to him it belongs and it is a piece of sacriledge to rob God of his due We should not give nor should any man take to himself the glory of a cure Neither Peter nor John Act. 3.12 Paul nor Barnabas Act. 14.11 c. durst take to themselves the glory of a cure Every Physitian should say as the King of Israel in another case said to the Woman crying out to him for help 2 King 6.26 27. If the Lord do not help thee whence shall I help thee The best Physitians can do nothing without Gods assistance Simples are but simple things without the blessing of God upon them Who put medicinal qualities into Drugs but the God of Nature Whence had the Physitian his skill to find out the quality of the Distemper and apply sutable means but from the God of Wisdom Jam. 1.5 Christ said Mat. 4.4 Man lives not by bread alone c. Nor is man recovered by Physick alone without Gods blessing Ps 107.18 19 20. Their soul abhorreth all manner of meat and they draw near to the gates of death then they cry unto the Lord in their trouble he saveth them out of their distress he sent his Word and healed them and delivered them from their destructions It follows v. 21. O that men would praise the Lord for his goodness and for his wonderful works to the children of men Quest But may we not thank our Physitian Answ Yes and you are too blame if you do not Ingratitude is an odious sin Gen. 40.23 compared with Gen. 41.9 It is one of the sins that makes the last times so perillous 2 Tim. 3.2 The Heathen thought you could not give a man a more odious title then to call him ungrateful Ingratum si dixeris omnia as though it was a compendium of all vices and indeed it is a decompounded sin Ahasuerus was too blame to forget loyal-hearted Mordecai so long who had been a means to save his life till it was almost too late to remember him He was to be commended for conferring civil dignities upon him afterwards as you read he did Esth 6. Let such as are unthankful to Physitians and to such as are a means to save their lives from destruction go to School to those Barbarians Acts 28.8 9 10. from whom they may learn lessons of Civility They honoured Saint Paul who healed many amongst them of many Diseases with many honours and when he with the rest of his company departed they laded them with such things as were necessary Well then you may and ought to thank them as Instruments but remember that God is the supream efficient They are to be rewarded and respected for their pains and care with us but God alone is to be praised for the Cure wrought upon us God is the Fountain they are but as Pipes to convey God's mercies to us Let us then give God the praise of all as the Angels sung Gloria in Excelsis Glory be to God on high Luk. 2.14 And as Christ hath taught us Mat. 6.13 For thine is the Kingdom and the Power and the Glory for ever Amen That Woman in the Gospel cured of the Distemper called by the Greeks 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Glorified God as you may read Luke 13.13 There were ten Lepers that lift up their voices and said Jesus Master have mercy on us Luk. 17.13 Yet being cleansed there was but one of them that turned back and with a loud voice glorified God vers 15. But Christ took notice of their ingratitude v. 17 18. There was but one of ten that returned to give thanks 'T is ten to one if God cure us but we prove ungrateful Oh let us not in sickness pray for mercy and in health forget to return thanks for the receit of mercy Non sonet illud tantum miserere Deus sed sonet etiam laus gratianum actio pro accepta illius misericordia Muscul in Phil. 2.27 David was much in praising God for delivering him from deadly dangers as the Psalms testifie Psal 30.1 3 4. 86.12 13. 103.3 104.33 116.6 12 17. 118.14 146. v. 1 2. So Hezekiah being recovered pens a Song of Thanksgiving Isa 38.9 c. Oh my beloved extraordinary mercies call for more then ordinary thanks Exod. 12.42 Communicate your experiences Psalm 66.16 Tell others of the cures God hath wrought Joh. 5.15 Mar. 5.19 The tongue is called our glory Psal 16.9 Let your glory sing praise to God and not be silent Psal 30.12 Wherein is your tongue a glory if not in setting forth the glory of God I end all with that Doxology of the Apostle 1 Tim. 1.17 Now unto the King Eternal Immortal Invisible the only wise God be honour and glory for ever and ever Amen 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 FINIS