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A33338 Medulla theologiæ, or, The marrow of divinity contained in sundry questions and cases of conscience, both speculative and practical : the greatest part of them collected out of the works of our most judicious, experienced and orthodox English divines, the rest are supplied by the authour / by Sa. Clarke ... Clarke, Samuel, 1599-1682. 1659 (1659) Wing C4547; ESTC R1963 530,206 506

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weakness_n of_o judgement_n slipperinesse_n of_o memory_n violence_n of_o passion_n etc._n etc._n 4._o with_o their_o outward_a infirmity_n which_o arise_v from_o instant_a tentation_n such_o be_v those_o gen._n 9.21_o and_o 19.33_o 2_o sam._n 11.4_o and_o 18.33_o gen._n 12.13_o and_o 26.7_o and_o 37.34_o 35._o quest._n what_o duty_n do_v child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n after_o death_n answ._n first_o to_o inter_v their_o body_n with_o such_o decency_n and_o honour_n as_o may_v be_v answerable_a to_o the_o place_n and_o reputation_n wherein_o they_o live_v gen._n 25.9_o and_o 35.29_o and_o 50.7_o for_o 1._o it_o be_v a_o testimony_n of_o their_o great_a love_n and_o respect_n to_o they_o 2._o it_o be_v a_o blessing_n promise_v by_o god_n to_o his_o saint_n 1_o king_n 14.13_o 2_o king_n 22.20_o the_o contrary_a be_v threaten_v as_o a_o curse_n jer._n 22.19_o
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be_v it_o to_o the_o great_a giver_n of_o all_o good_a gift_n to_o play_v those_o gift_n away_o which_o he_o have_v afford_v we_o of_o his_o bounteous_a liberality_n and_o which_o have_v be_v acquire_v for_o we_o by_o the_o sweat_n and_o hard_a labour_n of_o other_o and_o though_o the_o pa●ties_n at_o play_n be_v consent_v to_o that_o strange_a way_n of_o acquisition_n yet_o that_o consent_n make_v it_o not_o lawful_a neither_o of_o they_o be_v owner_n of_o those_o good_n which_o he_o call_v he_o but_o only_a steward_n who_o must_v give_v a_o account_n to_o their_o master_n so_o then_o whether_o we_o win_v or_o lose_v we_o commit_v robbery_n for_o if_o we_o rob_v not_o our_o adversary_n we_o rob_v ourselves_o our_o family_n and_o god_n and_o herein_o be_v worse_a than_o that_o ill_a servant_n that_o hide_v his_o talon_n in_o a_o napkin_n for_o the_o gamester_n if_o he_o be_v a_o loose_a have_v make_v away_o his_o talon_n wherewith_o god_n have_v entrust_v he_o and_o though_o he_o be_v a_o gainer_n yet_o he_o make_v himself_o uncapable_a of_o give_v a_o good_a account_n of_o his_o talon_n to_o his_o lord_n see_v he_o have_v put_v it_o to_o a_o unrighteous_a bank_n dr._n du_n moulin_n upon_o contentment_n quest._n why_o be_v just_a honour_n due_a to_o our_o body_n answ._n as_o they_o be_v necessary_a instrument_n of_o the_o soul_n to_o work_v by_o as_o they_o be_v temple_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n and_o as_o they_o be_v member_n of_o christ_n body_n quest._n how_o manifold_a be_v the_o care_n of_o our_o body_n ans._n the_o one_o evil_a and_o forbid_v which_o tend_v to_o the_o fulfil_n of_o the_o lust_n of_o the_o flesh_n rom._n 13.14_o the_o other_o good_a and_o lawful_a which_o tend_v to_o the_o preservation_n of_o our_o life_n and_o health_n that_o so_o we_o may_v be_v the_o better_o fit_v and_o enable_v to_o the_o duty_n of_o our_o calling_n general_a and_o special_a chap._n xx._n question_n and_o case_n of_o conscience_n about_o borrow_v and_o lend_v quest._n what_o rule_n be_v the_o borrower_n to_o observe_v towards_o the_o lender_n answ._n that_o he_o do_v nothing_o to_o the_o hurt_n and_o hindrance_n of_o he_o in_o his_o outward_a estate_n quest._n how_o may_v the_o borrower_n hurt_v the_o lender_n in_o his_o outward_a estate_n atsw_n first_o when_o the_o borrower_n do_v not_o return_v or_o restore_v the_o thing_n borrow_v at_o all_o to_o the_o lender_n if_o he_o can_v retain_v it_o contrary_a to_o 2_o king_n 6.5_o psal._n 37.21_o rom._n 13.8_o second_o if_o he_o return_v or_o restore_v not_o the_o thing_n borrow_v to_o the_o lender_n in_o due_a time_n at_o the_o time_n appoint_v but_o keep_v it_o long_o without_o the_o consent_n of_o the_o lender_n and_o it_o may_v be_v force_v the_o lender_n to_o recover_v that_o by_o
1_o king_n 21.23_o 24._o psalm_n 79.3_o 3._o it_o be_v a_o great_a deformity_n for_o a_o corpse_n to_o lie_v above_o ground_n therefore_o child_n who_o be_v most_o bind_v to_o cover_v their_o parent_n deformity_n be_v in_o this_o respect_n bind_v to_o bury_v they_o second_o child_n must_v have_v respect_n to_o the_o credit_n of_o their_o decease_a parent_n and_o that_o especial_o in_o three_o thing_n 1._o in_o pay_v their_o just_a debt_n so_o far_o as_o they_o can_v when_o their_o good_n or_o land_n come_v to_o their_o hand_n psal._n 37.21_o 2._o in_o suppress_v evil_a report_n of_o their_o parent_n as_o much_o as_o they_o can_v for_o matth._n 7.2_o 3._o in_o imitate_v their_o parent_n good_a example_n so_o 1_o king_n 3.3_o 2_o king_n 22.2_o 1_o king_n 15.11_o quest._n after_o what_o manner_n must_v child_n perform_v all_o these_o duty_n to_o their_o parent_n answ._n first_o for_o conscience-sake_n rom._n 13.5_o 〈◊〉_d 3.20_o 1_o pet._n 2.13_o second_o in_o sincerity_n col._n 3.23_o three_o cheerful_o and_o with_o a_o ready_a mind_n 2_o cor._n 9.7_o four_o reverendly_a as_o to_o they_o that_o bear_v the_o image_n of_o god_n five_o so_o as_o yet_o not_o to_o sin_v against_o god_n it_o must_v be_v in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n six_o constant_o or_o else_o they_o lose_v their_o reward_n quest._n must_v equal_a respect_n be_v show_v to_o both_o parent_n answ._n yea_o the_o law_n mention_n both_o father_n and_o mother_n so_o gen._n 28.7_o and_o solomon_n 1._o because_o both_o parent_n under_o god_n be_v alike_o mean_v of_o their_o child_n being_n 2._o the_o care_n and_o pain_n of_o both_o be_v very_o great_a object_n the_o wife_n be_v subject_a to_o the_o husband_n therefore_o ought_v a_o child_n to_o prefer_v his_o father_n before_o his_o mother_n answ._n though_o there_o be_v a_o difference_n betwixt_o they_o in_o relation_n of_o one_o to_o another_o yet_o in_o relation_n to_o their_o child_n they_o be_v both_o as_o one_o and_o have_v alike_o authority_n over_o they_o quest._n what_o if_o one_o command_v what_o the_o other_o forbid_v answ._n the_o thing_n command_v or_o forbid_v must_v be_v observe_v if_o it_o be_v about_o a_o thing_n simple_o good_a or_o evil_n than_o the_o parent_n that_o will_v have_v what_o be_v good_a to_o be_v do_v and_o what_o be_v evil_a to_o be_v forbear_v must_v be_v obey_v though_o it_o be_v the_o mother_n but_o if_o it_o be_v a_o thing_n indifferent_a then_o the_o father_n be_v to_o be_v obey_v yet_o no_o contempt_n must_v be_v show_v to_o the_o mother_n therein_o quest._n whether_o do_v child_n owe_v subjection_n to_o step-fathers_n and_o mother_n and_o to_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n answ._n yea_o as_o to_o those_o that_o be_v in_o the_o place_n of_o natural_a parent_n so_o do_v moses_n exod._n 18.7_o and_o ruth_n chap._n 1.16_o 17._o and_o 2.22_o and_o christ_n luke_n 2.51_o and_o that_o 1._o because_o the_o marriage_n bond_n make_v they_o one_o flesh_n with_o our_o natural_a parent_n 2._o the_o law_n make_v it_o incest_n for_o a_o man_n to_o lie_v with_o his_o stepmother_n leu._n 18.8_o 17._o therefore_o they_o be_v in_o the_o room_n of_o natural_a parent_n and_o so_o to_o be_v honour_v 3._o it_o be_v a_o great_a honour_n which_o a_o child_n do_v to_o his_o natural_a father_n or_o mother_n to_o respect_v such_o as_o they_o have_v make_v one_o flesh_n with_o themselves_o object_n nature_n can_v so_o well_o brook_v a_o step-parent_n as_o a_o natural_a parent_n answ._n first_o if_o not_o so_o well_o yet_o we_o must_v not_o depise_v they_o second_o conscience_n and_o religion_n shall_v alter_v corrupt_a nature_n object_n step-parent_n seldom_o care_v for_o their_o husband_n or_o wife_n former_a child_n answ._n first_o god_n teach_v not_o only_o to_o be_v subject_a to_o the_o good_a and_o gentle_a but_o also_o to_o the_o froward_a 1_o pet._n 2.18_o and_o not_o to_o be_v overcome_v of_o evil_a but_o to_o overcome_v evil_a with_o good_a rom._n 12.21_o second_o the_o scripture_n reckon_v such_o as_o rise_v up_o against_o their_o parent_n in_o law_n among_o such_o as_o rise_v up_o against_o their_o natural_a parent_n mic._n 7.6_o quest._n must_v child_n be_v subject_a to_o guardian_n and_o tutor_n answ._n yea_o for_o the_o apostle_n faith_n that_o they_o be_v under_o they_o gal._n ●4_n 2_o so_o esther_n ch_n 2.20_o and_o elisha_n 2_o king_n 2.15_o etc._n etc._n and_o 6.1_o quest._n what_o argument_n may_v move_v child_n to_o obey_v their_o parent_n answ._n first_o they_o be_v command_v to_o obey_v they_o in_o the_o lord_n i._n e._n because_o parent_n be_v to_o the_o child_n in_o the_o lord_n stead_n liberis_fw-la suis_fw-la pater_fw-la est_fw-la vice_fw-la dei_fw-la greg._n nazian_n they_o bear_v god_n image_n and_o child_n in_o obey_v they_o obey_v god_n second_o it_o be_v right_a col._n 6.1_o which_o imply_v three_o thing_n 1._o it_o be_v agreeable_a to_o all_o law_n of_o god_n nature_n nation_n 2._o the_o place_n of_o parent_n require_v so_o much_o for_o right_a require_v that_o every_o one_o shall_v have_v his_o due_n 3._o parent_n deserve_v so_o much_o so_o that_o be_v do_v by_o way_n of_o recompense_n three_o it_o be_v well_o please_v to_o the_o lord_n col._n 3.20_o and_o he_o will_v reward_v it_o gen._n 31.7_o etc._n etc._n 42._o contrary_a 1_o sam._n 2.34_o 2_o sam._n 18.9_o 1_o king_n 2.25_o four_o its_o god_n charge_n to_o they_o honour_v thy_o father_n and_o thy_o mother_n it_o be_v a_o perpetual_a and_o general_a law_n quest._n what_o if_o child_n be_v grow_v to_o year_n and_o not_o under_o their_o parent_n government_n answ._n this_o may_v cause_v some_o difference_n yet_o so_o long_o as_o a_o child_n have_v a_o parent_n he_o owe_v honour_n to_o he_o as_o we_o see_v in_o joseph_n though_o marry_v and_o a_o great_a man_n gen._n 47.12_o and_o 48.12_o and_o 50.5_o and_o in_o solomon_n 1_o king_n 2.19_o five_o because_o of_o god_n promise_v make_v to_o such_o obedient_a child_n that_o thy_o day_n may_v be_v long_o in_o the_o land_n etc._n etc._n dr._n gouge_n household_n duty_n quest._n whether_o be_v many_o child_n a_o blessing_n answ._n yea_o so_o say_v david_n psal._n 127.5_o and_o 128.3_o 6._o hence_o ruth_n 4.11_o quest._n whether_o may_v parent_n make_v void_a a_o contract_n secret_o make_v by_o their_o child_n without_o or_o against_o their_o consent_n answ._n the_o scripture_n give_v they_o authority_n either_o to_o ratify_v such_o contract_n or_o to_o make_v they_o void_a numb_a 30.6_o the_o father_n may_v make_v void_a a_o vow_n of_o his_o child_n in_o matter_n pertain_v to_o god_n worship_n much_o more_o a_o matrimonial_a promise_n if_o a_o young_a man_n deflower_v a_o maid_n in_o equity_n he_o be_v to_o be_v compel_v to_o marry_v she_o deut._n 22.28_o yet_o by_o god_n law_n it_o may_v not_o be_v without_o the_o father_n consent_n exod._n 22.17_o quest._n whether_o be_v a_o marriage_n make_v without_o or_o against_o the_o parent_n consent_v valid_a or_o no_o answ._n it_o may_v be_v valid_a in_o the_o court_n of_o man_n according_a to_o humane_a law_n and_o therefore_o the_o issue_n of_o such_o be_v free_a from_o bastardy_n yet_o it_o be_v not_o a_o divine_a or_o spiritual_a conjunction_n or_o marriage_n be_v flat_o against_o god_n precept_n deut._n 7.3_o exod._n 34.16_o 1_o cor._n 7.38_o mr._n perk._n upon_o gal._n quest._n what_o rule_n be_v parent_n to_o observe_v in_o give_v name_n to_o their_o child_n answ._n first_o they_o shall_v give_v they_o such_o name_n as_o may_v put_v they_o in_o mind_n of_o some_o good_a duty_n paul_n can_v never_o hear_v or_o remember_v his_o new_a name_n but_o he_o be_v thereby_o put_v in_o mind_n of_o his_o new_a office_n and_o duty_n which_o he_o be_v to_o perform_v among_o the_o gentile_n second_o as_o much_o as_o may_v be_v these_o name_n must_v be_v give_v in_o the_o natural_a language_n thus_o the_o hebrew_n give_v fit_a name_n in_o hebrew_n the_o greek_n in_o greek_a as_o timothy_n etc._n etc._n act._n 26.1_o the_o latin_n in_o latin_a as_o tertius_fw-la quartus_fw-la rom._n 16.22_o 23._o three_o we_o must_v neither_o be_v too_o curious_a nor_o too_o careless_a in_o give_v name_n to_o our_o child_n quest._n who_o be_v too_o curious_a answ._n such_o as_o give_v they_o name_n above_o the_o nature_n of_o man_n some_o draw_v too_o near_o the_o deity_n itself_o as_o emanuel_n and_o the_o jesuit_n some_o of_o angel_n as_o gabriel_n michael_n etc._n etc._n some_o of_o virtue_n as_o grace_n faith_n mercy_n patience_n etc._n etc._n quest._n who_o be_v too_o careless_a answ._n such_o as_o name_v their_o child_n with_o heathenish_a name_n as_o hector_n achilles_n hannibal_n julius_n caesar_n etc._n etc._n as_o if_o they_o will_v have_v they_o prove_v like_o they_o sometime_o they_o give_v they_o name_n of_o thing_n