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in_o quarrel_v and_o fight_v in_o whore_v and_o rant_a and_o such_o like_a woeful_a do_n which_o can_v but_o prove_v to_o those_o who_o have_v any_o the_o least_o degree_n of_o real_a goodness_n so_o very_o uneasy_a and_o afflictive_a that_o wealth_n and_o riches_n can_v make_v no_o amends_o for_o they_o such_o unfortunate_a person_n can_v but_o often_o envy_v the_o happiness_n of_o those_o who_o be_v in_o a_o very_a poor_a and_o low_a estate_n and_o condition_n but_o yet_o live_v in_o peace_n and_o quietness_n in_o love_n and_o concord_n and_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n and_o so_o enjoy-real_a satisfaction_n and_o contentment_n and_o have_v a_o great_a deal_n of_o comfort_n to_o sweeten_v their_o outward_a want_n and_o necessity_n prov._n 15.16_o 17._o better_a be_v little_a with_o the_o fear_n of_o the_o lord_n than_o great_a treasure_n and_o trouble_v therewith_o better_a be_v a_o dinner_n of_o herb_n where_o love_n be_v than_o a_o stall_v ox_n and_o hatred_n therewith_o three_o parent_n be_v to_o provide_v for_o they_o world_n 3._o duty_n about_o provide_v somewhat_o that_o may_v be_v the_o foundation_n of_o their_o comfortable_a subsistence_n in_o the_o world_n if_o they_o can_v somewhat_o that_o may_v be_v a_o foundation_n for_o their_o comfortable_a subsistence_n in_o the_o world_n which_o by_o the_o blessing_n of_o god_n on_o their_o calling_n may_v be_v improve_v towards_o their_o live_n decent_o and_o honest_o parent_n be_v not_o to_o propose_v to_o themselves_o the_o render_v their_o child_n very_o great_a and_o rich_a but_o as_o they_o themselves_o have_v food_n and_o raiment_n be_v to_o be_v therewith_o content_a so_o if_o they_o can_v get_v necessary_n for_o their_o child_n they_o ought_v to_o rest_v satisfy_v and_o be_v thankful_a our_o life_n that_o be_v the_o happiness_n of_o our_o life_n do_v not_o consist_v in_o the_o abundance_n of_o the_o thing_n we_o possess_v luke_n 12.15_o though_o you_o be_v thus_o to_o provide_v for_o your_o child_n yet_o you_o be_v not_o out_o of_o too_o great_a thoughtfulness_n about_o the_o time_n to_o come_v to_o restrain_v yourselves_o from_o do_v all_o necessary_a office_n of_o charity_n to_o the_o poor_a who_o do_v now_o stand_v in_o need_n of_o your_o help_n never_o neglect_v a_o present_a duty_n for_o fear_n of_o a_o uncertain_a inconvenience_n you_o be_v forbid_v to_o take_v think_v for_o the_o morrow_n matth._n 6.34_o but_o you_o be_v require_v to_o do_v good_a to_o all_o man_n while_o you_o have_v opportunity_n gal._n 6.10_o to_o cast_v your_o bread_n upon_o the_o water_n to_o give_v a_o portion_n to_o seven_o as_o also_o unto_o eight_o because_o you_o know_v not_o what_o evil_n there_o may_v be_v in_o the_o earth_n eccles_n 11.1_o 2._o this_o be_v the_o way_n to_o lay_v up_o treasure_n for_o your_o child_n to_o entail_v upon_o they_o great_a blessing_n to_o make_v god_n their_o guardian_n to_o leave_v they_o to_o his_o merciful_a and_o kind_a providence_n and_o to_o his_o almighty_a protection_n ps_n 37.25_o 26._o i_o have_v be_v young_a and_o now_o be_o old_a yet_o have_v i_o not_o see_v the_o righteous_a forsake_v nor_o his_o seed_n beg_v bread_n he_o be_v ever_o merciful_a and_o dare_v and_o his_o seed_n be_v bless_v so_o that_o by_o your_o bounty_n and_o charity_n you_o put_v forth_o your_o money_n into_o god_n hand_n who_o will_v not_o fail_v to_o repay_v it_o with_o usury_n he_o that_o give_v to_o the_o poor_a dare_v to_o the_o lord_n you_o thereby_o bring_v your_o ware_n to_o a_o good_a market_n the_o liberal_a soul_n shall_v be_v make_v fat_a prov._n 11.25_o he_o that_o give_v to_o the_o poor_a shall_v not_o lack_v prov._n 28.27_o and_o deut._n 15.10_o it_o be_v write_v thou_o shall_v sure_o give_v he_o to_o wit_n thy_o poor_a brother_n and_o thy_o heart_n shall_v not_o be_v grieve_v when_o thou_o give_v unto_o he_o because_o that_o for_o this_o thing_n the_o lord_n thy_o god_n shall_v bless_v thou_o in_o all_o thy_o work_n and_o in_o all_o that_o thou_o put_v thy_o hand_n unto_o and_o in_o the_o epistle_n to_o the_o hebrew_n ch_n 6._o v._n 10._o it_o be_v say_v god_n be_v not_o unrighteous_a to_o forget_v your_o work_n and_o labour_n of_o love_n which_o you_o have_v show_v towards_o his_o name_n in_o that_o you_o have_v minister_v to_o the_o saint_n and_o do_v minister_v from_o all_o which_o it_o appear_v that_o charity_n and_o liberality_n be_v the_o best_a husbandry_n as_o you_o be_v to_o beware_v lest_o your_o care_n for_o your_o child_n make_v you_o neglect_v necessary_a duty_n of_o charity_n so_o you_o be_v to_o take_v heed_n lest_o you_o use_v any_o unlawful_a method_n to_o get_v wealth_n to_o bestow_v upon_o they_o this_o be_v not_o a_o way_n to_o make_v they_o rich_a for_o such_o riches_n seldom_o prosper_v there_o be_v a_o curse_n which_o attend_v all_o unlawful_a gain_n and_o like_o a_o canker_n eat_v it_o out_o and_o consume_v it_o all_o age_n and_o place_n afford_v example_n which_o confirm_v this_o observation_n better_o say_v solomon_n prov._n 16.8_o be_v a_o little_a with_o righteousness_n than_o great_a revenue_n without_o right_n thus_o i_o have_v show_v you_o what_o be_v the_o principal_a duty_n you_o owe_v to_o the_o soul_n and_o body_n of_o your_o child_n and_o what_o you_o be_v to_o do_v for_o they_o as_o to_o their_o outward_a estate_n the_o above_o mention_a particular_n earnest_o recommend_v to_o parent_n from_o what_o have_v be_v say_v you_o may_v see_v what_o a_o weighty_a and_o difficult_a charge_n you_o have_v the_o sense_n whereof_o shall_v excite_v you_o to_o beg_v of_o god_n earnest_o every_o day_n that_o he_o will_v direct_v and_o assist_v you_o to_o perform_v the_o duty_n that_o belong_v to_o christian_a parent_n that_o you_o may_v the_o better_a act_n your_o part_n it_o be_v fit_a for_o you_o when_o you_o call_v yourselves_o to_o a_o account_n about_o your_o life_n and_o conversation_n to_o make_v enquiry_n particular_o how_o you_o perform_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n towards_o your_o child_n as_o to_o their_o soul_n their_o body_n and_o outward_a concern_v and_o if_o upon_o serious_a enquiry_n you_o find_v that_o you_o sincere_o endeavour_v to_o do_v whatever_o you_o know_v yourselves_o to_o be_v bind_v to_o do_v for_o they_o then_o bless_v and_o praise_n god_n who_o give_v you_o both_o to_o will_v and_o to_o do_v according_a to_o his_o good_a pleasure_n beg_v his_o pardon_n for_o those_o imperfection_n and_o defect_n that_o attend_v all_o humane_a action_n resolve_v to_o go_v on_o and_o not_o to_o grow_v weary_a in_o your_o duty_n towards_o they_o that_o so_o they_o may_v be_v as_o happy_a in_o all_o respect_n as_o be_v possible_a for_o you_o by_o the_o help_n of_o god_n to_o make_v they_o but_o if_o upon_o enquiry_n you_o find_v that_o you_o have_v be_v very_o defective_a in_o your_o duty_n towards_o your_o child_n that_o you_o have_v do_v very_o little_a good_a for_o their_o soul_n and_o not_o what_o you_o shall_v and_o may_v have_v do_v for_o their_o 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their_o parent_n or_o if_o what_o they_o say_v have_v not_o the_o design_a effect_n than_o they_o may_v recommend_v this_o charitable_a office_n to_o the_o care_n of_o some_o other_o body_n who_o be_v a_o wise_a and_o kind_a a_o pious_a and_o serious_a friend_n who_o may_v have_v some_o more_o influence_n than_o themselves_o towards_o the_o reclaim_n their_o parent_n this_o be_v the_o great_a expression_n of_o true_a kindness_n honour_n and_o respect_n to_o they_o when_o their_o child_n sincere_o endeavour_v in_o the_o discreet_a manner_n to_o be_v the_o happy_a instrument_n of_o their_o conversion_n and_o reformation_n of_o turn_v they_o from_o satan_n unto_o god_n this_o be_v to_o be_v in_o some_o sort_n the_o father_n in_o christ_n to_o those_o who_o be_v their_o parent_n by_o nature_n o_o how_o happy_a be_v the_o parent_n of_o such_o worthy_a child_n how_o may_v they_o rejoice_v and_o bless_v god_n who_o have_v bestow_v on_o they_o so_o great_a a_o blessing_n if_o child_n be_v thus_o oblige_v to_o honour_v their_o parent_n parent_n against_o those_o who_o dishonour_n their_o parent_n what_o shall_v be_v say_v of_o those_o who_o dishonour_n despise_v and_o slight_v they_o all_o that_o ever_o they_o can_v who_o undervalue_v they_o in_o their_o thought_n who_o speak_v of_o they_o with_o great_a contempt_n and_o disdain_n who_o speak_v to_o they_o with_o great_a insolence_n who_o mock_n and_o scorn_v they_o who_o laugh_v at_o they_o and_o make_v mouth_n at_o they_o and_o point_n at_o they_o with_o the_o finger_n who_o reproach_n and_o revile_v they_o who_o break_v indecent_a jest_n upon_o they_o who_o make_v they_o the_o object_n of_o their_o sport_n and_o pastime_n who_o take_v pleasure_n in_o publish_v their_o weakness_n and_o indiscretion_n that_o other_o also_o may_v laugh_v at_o they_o and_o despise_v they_o how_o dreadful_a and_o terrible_a be_v the_o curse_n and_o judgement_n which_o god_n have_v in_o store_n against_o such_o wretched_a child_n prov._n 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not_o but_o increase_v mighty_o his_o grief_n and_o make_v his_o punishment_n lie_v more_o heavy_a upon_o he_o 2._o duty_n to_o obey_v their_o parent_n second_o child_n be_v to_o obey_v their_o parent_n to_o do_v what_o they_o bid_v they_o see_v this_o in_o the_o example_n of_o joseph_n when_o jacob_n send_v he_o to_o his_o brethren_n gen._n 37.13_o 14._o and_o israel_n say_v unto_o joseph_n do_v not_o thy_o brethren_n feed_v the_o flock_n in_o shechem_n come_v and_o i_o will_v send_v thou_o unto_o they_o and_o he_o say_v to_o he_o here_z am_z i._o and_o he_o say_v to_o he_o go_v i_o pray_v thou_o see_v whether_o it_o be_v well_o with_o thy_o brethren_n and_o well_o with_o the_o flock_n and_o bring_v i_o word_n again_o so_o he_o send_v he_o out_o of_o the_o vale_n of_o hebron_n and_o he_o come_v to_o shechem_n the_o command_v of_o parent_n be_v either_o about_o the_o same_o thing_n which_o god_n have_v command_v or_o they_o be_v about_o thing_n indifferent_a or_o about_o thing_n 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