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husband_n with_o the_o hurt_n of_o other_o a_o three_o sort_n helpful_a to_o themselves_o whatsoever_o hurt_v befall_v their_o husband_n and_o last_o some_o neither_o helpful_a to_o themselves_o nor_o to_o their_o husband_n but_o hurtful_a to_o all_o but_o still_o the_o helpful_a wife_n be_v rare_a to_o come_v by_o and_o as_o we_o see_v that_o first_o helper_n of_o man_n create_v most_o perfect_a yet_o instant_o degenerate_v and_o become_v the_o great_a hurt_n to_o he_o and_o he_o so_o her_o grandchild_n still_o tread_v in_o her_o step_n so_o that_o few_o husband_n therebe_n but_o may_v say_v with_o adam_n and_o much_o more_o just_o the_o woman_n thou_o give_v i_o have_v undo_v i_o if_o it_o have_v be_v a_o stranger_n a_o enemy_n i_o can_v have_v
contract_n civil_a one_o and_o no_o more_o unsafe_a match_n for_o religious_a one_o 33._o connivers_n only_o at_o and_o not_o approover_n of_o religion_n in_o their_o yokefelowe_n taxcd_v 39_o comender_n of_o religion_n in_o their_o wife_n for_o by_o end_n reprooved_a ibid._n counsel_n for_o such_o as_o draw_v in_o a_o evil_a yoke_n pag._n 41._o 1._o rip_v up_o thy_o state_n to_o god_n 2._o redâ—eme_v old_a error_n and_o pray_v for_o pardon_n 3_o pass_v by_o pardonable_a fault_n 4._o fret_v not_o at_o thy_o lot_n 5._o utter_v not_o thy_o greivance_n easy_o 6._o justify_v not_o thâ—ne_v own_o sin_n by_o another_o ibi_fw-la &_o seq_n continency_n a_o rare_a gift_n of_o god_n therefore_o to_o be_v seek_v for_o of_o he_o 49._o no_o curiosity_n to_o marry_v apt_o 64._o corruption_n always_o affect_v a_o contrariety_n to_o the_o law_n of_o apt_a marry_n 67._o contemner_n of_o equal_a marriage_n reprooved_a 69._o counsel_n to_o such_o as_o be_v already_o unapt_o marry_v 70._o contract_n and_o consent_n of_o parent_n in_o marriage_n handle_v 71._o consent_v of_o parent_n necessary_a for_o marriage_n and_o why_o 71._o ibid._n exception_n against_o the_o strict_a rule_n of_o parent_n consent_v in_o marriage_n 77._o child_n objection_n against_o parent_n carelessness_n in_o their_o marriage_n answer_v 79._o counsel_n give_v they_o what_o to_o do_v in_o their_o suppose_a wrong_n 80._o parent_n obstinate_a to_o consent_v to_o be_v curb_v 81._o question_v about_o parent_n consent_v answer_v 81._o ibid._n cavil_n of_o such_o answer_v as_o plead_v for_o maintenance_n and_o respect_n from_o parent_n who_o consent_n they_o neglect_v 84._o dissemble_v and_o force_v consent_n of_o parent_n by_o child_n be_v sinful_a 85._o half_n consent_n of_o parent_n or_o consent_v after_o contract_n be_v faulty_a 86._o contract_n of_o marriage_n in_o what_o sense_n here_o use_v 96._o in_o what_o respect_v such_o contract_n may_v be_v say_v to_o be_v essential_a 104._o contract_v very_o ancient_a and_o of_o general_a use_n 105._o jewish_a contract_n what_o and_o how_o solemnize_v ibid._n act_n and_o performance_n of_o a_o solemn_a contract_n how_o to_o be_v do_v 106._o disdainer_n of_o contract_n tax_v 121._o contract_a couple_n must_v prize_v their_o contract_n 123._o special_a counsel_n touch_v it_o 124._o cause_o of_o the_o unhappy_a and_o unprosperous_a estate_n of_o many_o couple_n be_v the_o want_n of_o their_o joint_a religion_n 137._o chastity_n the_o main_a joint_a duty_n of_o marriage_n 163._o proof_n of_o it_o 164._o amplification_n of_o the_o point_n 166._o reason_n for_o it_o 1._o chastity_n be_v the_o main_a support_n of_o union_n 2._o the_o defilement_n of_o each_o party_n defile_v the_o whole_a marriage_n 3._o god_n have_v ordain_v one_o for_o one_o 4._o it_o cover_v all_o other_o defect_n but_o be_v cover_v by_o no_o other_o endowment_n 5._o it_o be_v the_o corner_n stone_n hold_v in_o all_o the_o building_n 6._o because_o it_o honour_v marriage_n in_o many_o respect_n 1._o in_o the_o fruitfulness_n of_o the_o womb_n 2._o bless_v of_o legitimation_n 3._o a_o curse_n be_v turn_v to_o a_o blessing_n hereby_o 167._o to_o 171._o chastity_n to_o be_v preserve_v and_o in_o how_o many_o thing_n it_o consist_v 172._o chastity_n of_o spirit_n necessary_a and_o why_o 172._o 173._o ibid._n chastity_n of_o prevention_n necessary_a wherein_o it_o consist_v why_o here_o urge_v 173._o 174._o 175._o chastity_n of_o bed_n needful_a heathen_a man_n shame_v christian_n in_o this_o two_o extreme_n here_o to_o be_v avoid_v ibid._n 175._o 176._o 177._o 178._o some_o mark_n to_o know_v moderation_n ibid._n 178._o popish_a force_a chastity_n and_o affect_a abstinence_n from_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o bed_n compare_v 179._o inconvenience_n of_o both_o unjust_a abstinence_n and_o excess_n of_o liberty_n compare_v ibid._n chastity_n of_o body_n needful_a what_o be_v mean_v thereby_o exhortation_n thereto_o 180._o 181._o consent_v between_o couple_n a_o joint_a duty_n and_o needful_a 184._o reason_n 1._o by_o the_o experience_n both_o bad_a of_o such_o as_o want_v it_o and_o sweet_a of_o such_o as_o enjoy_v it_o 2._o the_o pretiousnesse_n of_o it_o 3._o it_o have_v a_o divine_a instinct_n in_o it_o 4._o it_o bring_v god_n into_o the_o marriage_n 184._o 185._o 186._o 178_o 188._o the_o praise_n of_o consent_n 186._o consent_n stand_v in_o three_o thing_n 1._o consent_v of_o heart_n 2._o of_o speech_n 3._o of_o life_n 188._o 189._o consent_v exhort_v unto_o and_o urge_v 200._o what_o ought_v to_o be_v do_v by_o both_o after_o their_o difference_n with_o the_o conclusion_n of_o the_o point_n 201._o 202._o cohabitation_n of_o husband_n with_o wife_n a_o necessary_a duty_n many_o abuse_n of_o this_o kind_n tax_v humiliation_n to_o such_o 217._o reproach_n of_o seperater_n 218._o condition_n requisite_a in_o a_o wife_n in_o the_o act_n of_o god_n matter_n 286._o whether_o wife_n may_v give_v to_o charitable_a use_n or_o not_o 272._o the_o mother_n consent_n in_o marriage_n not_o absolute_o require_v 81._o exhortation_n to_o chastity_n to_o keep_v our_o vessel_n with_o holiness_n and_o honour_n 354._o three_o counsel_n propound_v to_o abhor_v somewhat_o 1._o thou_o own_o self_n 2._o thought_n of_o contemplative_a uncleanness_n 3._o all_o colour_n and_o excuse_n of_o it_o 4._o all_o inward_a fomenter_n of_o it_o 5._o all_o outward_a temptation_n counsel_n 2._o to_o meditate_v of_o somewhat_o 2._o property_n of_o it_o 1._o that_o it_o be_v wise_a 2._o that_o it_o be_v deep_a and_o serious_a about_o both_o the_o property_n and_o penalty_n of_o this_o sin_n first_o the_o property_n and_o they_o be_v three_o 1._o the_o spiritualue_n of_o this_o sin_n show_v in_o six_o step_n or_o degree_n 1._o a_o evil_a heart_n 2._o evil_n work_n 3._o unbelief_n 4._o delusion_n and_o defilement_n 5._o hardness_n of_o heart_n 6._o depart_v from_o the_o live_a god_n second_o meditate_v of_o the_o peculiarne_n of_o this_o sin_n evil_a the_o three_o thing_n that_o it_o separate_v from_o god_n and_o from_o communion_n through_o excommunication_n if_o not_o inflict_v yet_o deserve_v the_o spirit_n of_o god_n excommunicate_v he_o in_o the_o court_n of_o his_o own_o conscience_n then_o second_o meditate_v on_o the_o penalty_n of_o this_o sin_n 1._o a_o giddiness_n and_o drunken_a security_n disable_n the_o sinner_n to_o lay_v it_o to_o his_o heart_n a_o woeful_a example_n of_o it_o from_o 354._o to_o 368._o then_o second_o temporal_a penalty_n of_o it_o 369._o the_o three_o counsel_n to_o practice_v somewhat_o and_o that_o concern_v either_o such_o as_o have_v be_v only_o guilty_a of_o it_o or_o else_o relapse_v to_o it_o after_o conversion_n for_o the_o former_a they_o must_v practice_v 1._o due_a humiliation_n and_o abasement_n under_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n 2._o they_o must_v gather_v hope_v out_o of_o the_o promise_n of_o god_n to_o pardon_v it_o 3._o glorify_v god_n in_o the_o confession_n of_o it_o 4._o set_a before_o thy_o eye_n the_o promise_n in_o 4._o respect_n 5._o sue_v out_o the_o kill_a power_n of_o christ_n to_o destroy_v lust_n 6._o return_v to_o the_o lord_n in_o chastity_n for_o ever_o last_o such_o as_o have_v revolt_v to_o it_o again_o must_v take_v counsel_n in_o divers_a particular_n to_o 384._o encouragement_n to_o all_o undefiled_a one_o 385._o magistrate_n both_o civil_a and_o ecclesiastical_a to_o who_o the_o censure_n of_o lust_n pertain_v must_v be_v in_o god_n stead_n to_o judge_n and_o censure_v all_o unclean_a person_n 384._o d._n diverter_n of_o their_o wife_n from_o religion_n to_o other_o matter_n reprooved_a 39_o duty_n of_o parent_n towards_o child_n unwise_o suffer_v to_o link_v themselves_o 78._o dissension_n of_o religious_a couple_n the_o shame_n of_o profession_n 190._o difference_n in_o couple_n wherein_o it_o stand_v 313._o e._n entrance_n into_o good_a marriage_n require_v marry_v in_o the_o lord_n and_o apt_a marry_n in_o the_o lord_n 21._o exhortation_n to_o it_o in_o many_o branch_n 45._o 46._o 48._o error_n of_o the_o time_n and_o prejudice_n of_o outward_a compliment_n must_v be_v abhor_v by_o he_o who_o will_v marry_v in_o the_o lord_n 51._o exception_n against_o the_o general_a rule_n of_o apt_a marriage_n many_o 62._o exhortation_n to_o parent_n not_o to_o fail_v their_o child_n in_o the_o business_n of_o their_o marriage_n 95._o exhortation_n to_o all_o good_a couple_n to_o close_v together_o in_o religion_n both_o inward_a as_o faith_n and_o outward_a in_o family_n worship_n and_o private_a 138._o 141._o 143._o exhortation_n to_o private_a intercourse_n with_o god_n 145._o exhortation_n to_o wife_n to_o be_v helpful_a in_o their_o place_n 302._o encouragement_n to_o such_o 303._o f._n faith_n the_o main_a duty_n for_o couple_n to_o join_v in_o the_o infinite_a misery_n of_o a_o marry_a life_n for_o lack_v of_o it_o 140._o family_n duty_n and_o private_a worship_n necessary_a for_o the_o marry_v to_o
join_v together_o close_o in_o the_o cause_n why_o the_o duty_n open_v urge_v 141._o 143._o 144._o counsel_n about_o it_o ibid._n force_v and_o loveles_a marriage_n dangerous_a 154._o and_o in_o what_o respect_v ibid._n how_o far_o the_o wife_n may_v undertake_v the_o service_n of_o god_n in_o her_o family_n 268._o of_o choice_n of_o wife_n out_o of_o bad_a family_n see_v wife_n fornication_n a_o great_a sin_n 331._o g._n god_n be_v seldom_o find_v out_o of_o his_o way_n 26._o grace_n level_v all_o disproportion_n in_o marriage_n 27._o grace_n must_v be_v preserve_v yea_o all_o count_v as_o dross_n to_o grace_n for_o a_o good_a marriage_n 52._o good_a marriage_n must_v be_v buy_v 53._o guardian_n and_o governor_n and_o bind_v to_o look_v to_o orphan_n marriage_n aswell_o as_o parent_n to_o child_n 73._o how_o they_o fail_v therein_o by_o sundry_a abuse_n 93._o the_o woeful_a fruit_n of_o it_o 94._o gracefulnes_n a_o three_o peculiar_a duty_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n 304._o what_o this_o gracious_a virtue_n be_v ibid._n two_o thing_n in_o it_o matter_n and_o that_o be_v grace_n especial_o these_o 7._o 1._o humility_n 2._o self_n denial_n the_o 3._o i'faith_o &_o both_o in_o the_o truth_n &_o in_o the_o life_n of_o it_o a._n 4._o innocency_n 5._o zeal_n and_o piety_n 6._o mercy_n and_o compassion_n 7._o confidence_n with_o other_o as_o cheerfulnes_n &_o sincerity_n etc._n etc._n from_o 305._o to_o 312._o second_o the_o form_n or_o temperature_n of_o it_o in_o what_o it_o consist_v ibid._n graceless_a and_o bad_a wife_n what_o misery_n to_o their_o husband_n 314._o graceful_a wife_n must_v express_v it_o to_o their_o husband_n 315._o husband_n that_o be_v happy_a in_o the_o grace_n of_o their_o wife_n must_v return_v the_o like_a ibid._n general_n use_v arise_v from_o the_o whole_a treatise_n 316._o objection_n about_o degree_n of_o grace_n in_o either_o party_n of_o the_o marry_a 56._o h._n heathen_a opinion_n of_o fornication_n 3._o honour_n of_o marriage_n uphold_v by_o two_o mean_n viz._n good_a entrance_n and_o good_a continuance_n 21._o honour_n of_o marriage_n stand_v both_o in_o joint_a act_n and_o several_a 128._o motive_n to_o the_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n 160._o to_o the_o wife_n to_o love_v he_o 162._o humiliation_n meet_v for_o all_o couple_n who_o have_v live_v in_o dissension_n 192._o the_o duty_n urge_v 193._o ill_o husbandry_n what_o it_o be_v 233._o husband_n especial_a duty_n to_o be_v a_o man_n of_o understanding_n 203._o what_o that_o understanding_n be_v what_o particular_n it_o stand_v in_o 1._o in_o what_o not_o viz._n not_o in_o a_o high_a spirit_n 2._o not_o in_o a_o rash_a selfe-wildnesse_n 3_o not_o in_o knowledge_n without_o practice_n 4._o not_o in_o yield_v to_o good_a counsel_n without_o embrace_v it_o 5._o not_o in_o give_v counsel_n to_o other_o take_v none_o ourselves_o 204._o 205._o 206._o second_o in_o what_o it_o consist_v 1._o in_o renounce_v our_o own_o understanding_n 2._o to_o be_v first_o subject_n to_o god_n and_o so_o to_o guide_v the_o wife_n 3._o to_o be_v more_o sensible_a of_o a_o burden_n then_o of_o a_o honour_n 4._o to_o be_v qualify_v with_o a_o spirit_n of_o grace_n for_o all_o occasion_n 206._o 207._o 208._o wasteful_n heir_n overthrower_n of_o their_o marriage_n 232._o unnatural_a husband_n language_n 244._o several_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n look_v wise_a husband_n though_o but_o mean_o part_v deserve_v subjection_n by_o the_o ordinance_n 260._o man_n heart_n not_o so_o tender_a as_o woman_n if_o they_o be_v right_a vide_fw-la men._n i._o jew_n confute_v in_o his_o conceit_n of_o marriage_n 2._o joint_a act_n of_o the_o marry_a 4._o 1._o joint_n religion_n 2._o joint_n love_n 3._o chastity_n 4._o consent_n 128._o jealousy_n between_o couple_n most_o odious_a p._n 182._o remedy_n for_o the_o wrong_a party_n ibid._n the_o duty_n urge_v ibid._n idleness_n in_o a_o man_n calling_n to_o be_v avoid_v 225._o engross_a many_o farm_n at_o once_o ill_a husbandry_n 234._o impudence_n in_o usurp_a wife_n in_o matter_n of_o god_n tax_v 284._o god_n deal_v with_o his_o own_o by_o judgement_n and_o threat_n and_o why_o 328._o godly_a person_n have_v a_o slavish_a part_n in_o they_o as_o well_o as_o a_o free_a 329._o judgement_n of_o god_n grievous_a against_o uncleanness_n in_o many_o branch_n declare_v 1._o god_n dear_a servant_n not_o exclude_v from_o this_o sentence_n of_o punishment_n 2._o the_o offspring_n of_o the_o adulterer_n exclude_v for_o many_o generation_n from_o the_o tabernacle_n or_o temple_n worship_n 3._o the_o old_a penalty_n of_o adultery_n death_n without_o remedy_n 4._o severe_a judgement_n execute_v upon_o adulterer_n do_v show_v it_o sundry_a of_o thâ—m_n in_o scripture_n and_o from_o experience_n mention_v 5._o manifold_a mark_n of_o wrath_n upon_o uncleanness_n 1._o upon_o the_o soul_n 2._o upon_o the_o name_n when_o man_n have_v have_v fail_v god_n have_v strike_v in_o 3._o beggary_n 4._o coherence_n of_o uncleanness_n 1._o upon_o the_o soul_n 5._o it_o be_v the_o devil_n nest-egge_n 6._o consequence_n of_o mischief_n upon_o it_o 7._o upon_o the_o body_n 337._o to_o 346._o instruction_n to_o man_n to_o be_v subdue_v by_o the_o terror_n of_o god_n against_o it_o 351._o l._n conjugal_a love_n the_o second_o mutual_a duty_n of_o the_o marry_a handle_v 146._o love_n matrimonial_a be_v preserve_v cause_v marriage_n to_o be_v honourable_a ibid._n love_n of_o the_o marry_v not_o only_o breed_v by_o instinct_n but_o oftentimes_o also_o by_o other_o occasion_n outward_a inducement_n and_o motive_n 147._o 148._o love_n conjugal_a neither_o only_a a_o natural_a nor_o yet_o a_o religious_a thing_n but_o a_o mixture_n of_o both_o 150._o love_n necessary_a for_o sundry_a reason_n ibid._n love_n though_o a_o joint_a duty_n of_o both_o the_o party_n yet_o have_v a_o different_a carriage_n in_o either_o and_o what_o 152._o love_n will_v not_o nourish_v itself_o but_o must_v be_v nourish_v daily_o between_o couple_n 155._o and_o by_o what_o mean_v it_o may_v be_v so_o 156._o admonition_n to_o the_o joint_a practice_n of_o conjugal_a love_n 157._o danger_n of_o the_o breach_n thereof_o 158._o exhortation_n to_o love_n joint_o 159._o m._n marriage_n be_v honourable_a the_o main_a doctrine_n prove_v and_o reason_v at_o large_a by_o 4._o reason_n 1._o in_o respect_n of_o the_o party_n 2._o the_o nature_n of_o marriage_n 3._o the_o use_n of_o it_o 4._o the_o sacrednes_n from_o p._n 4._o to_o the_o 9_o marriage_n abhor_v by_o the_o base_a life_n of_o many_o couple_n 13._o marriage_n no_o buckler_n to_o fence_v off_o reproach_n in_o bad_a cause_n 15._o marriage_n no_o loose_a nor_o idle_a way_n of_o service_n 18._o encouragement_n to_o religious_a marry_a couple_n 19_o misery_n shun_v by_o good_a couple_n ibid._n marry_a couple_n must_v serve_v god_n in_o their_o time_n 20._o marry_v in_o the_o lord_n what_o some_o mark_n of_o it_o 1._o sight_n of_o unworthiness_n of_o this_o favour_n 2._o they_o see_v a_o reconciliation_n 3._o their_o heart_n be_v break_v by_o it_o 4._o they_o be_v convince_v of_o god_n end_n believe_v it_o 5._o from_o hence_o they_o be_v encourage_v to_o obey_v other_o lesser_a mark_n add_v 22._o to_o 24._o rash_n match_n unblessed_a 24._o jewel_n of_o the_o marriage_n ring_n 4._o 1._o i'faith_o with_o humility_n and_o self_n denial_n 2._o peace_n 3._o purity_n 4._o righteousness_n 25._o trial_n of_o marriage_n many_o ibid._n by_o end_n in_o marriage_n oft_o plague_v by_o god_n 26._o objection_n concern_v marriage_n answer_v 28._o 29._o 30._o 31._o the_o man_n have_v the_o lead_a hand_n in_o the_o onset_n of_o marriage_n have_v need_n be_v the_o wise_a in_o his_o choice_n 57_o touch_v marry_v in_o the_o lord_n three_o question_n answer_v 58._o apt_a marry_v be_v as_o necessary_a for_o entrance_n as_o religious_a marry_v 60._o marriage_n must_v be_v honour_v in_o preserve_v the_o same_o unstein_v during_o the_o conversation_n of_o it_o 126._o marry_a person_n who_o forsake_v their_o own_o fellowship_n in_o worship_n and_o run_v to_o stranger_n with_o complaint_n faulty_a 136._o marriage_n dishonour_v by_o base_a trade_n and_o course_n of_o life_n 232._o man_n heart_n not_o general_o so_o tender_a and_o zealous_a as_o woman_n if_o they_o be_v right_a 309._o marriage_n be_v a_o shadow_n of_o the_o spiritual_a union_n of_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n p._n 321._o 1._o in_o their_o meeting_n and_o marriage_n itself_o and_o how_o 2._o in_o their_o mutual_a converse_n 1._o what_o christ_n be_v to_o his_o church_n 2._o what_o his_o church_n be_v to_o he_o 322._o 323._o doubt_n concern_v marry_v in_o the_o lord_n answer_v eight_o of_o they_o p._n 28._o 1._o many_o do_v well_o want_v religion_n 2._o it_o may_v grow_v in_o time_n afterward_o 3._o many_o have_v fail_v in_o seek_v good_a wife_n 4._o many_o
religious_a one_o have_v perilous_a quality_n 5._o what_o shall_v become_v of_o the_o it_o religious_a 6._o but_o we_o be_v snare_v already_o 7._o very_o few_o such_o be_v to_o be_v find_v 8._o parent_n across_o good_a match_n p._n 28._o to_o 31._o papist_n tax_v for_o their_o dishonour_n of_o marriage_n 9_o papist_n have_v their_o personal_a sacrament_n ibid._n practice_n and_o life_n of_o papistical_a uncleanness_n just_o plague_v by_o god_n 10._o marriage_n with_o they_o that_o be_v only_o civilise_a unsafe_a 33._o by-respect_n in_o marriage_n as_o portion_n and_o beauty_n and_o the_o like_a oftentimes_o by_o the_o just_a judgement_n of_o god_n prove_v unfortunate_a 33._o 34._o 52._o advice_n to_o be_v take_v in_o marry_v see_v advice_n marriage_n why_o call_v a_o match_n 61._o n._n woman_n ought_v to_o nurse_v their_o own_o child_n 279._o o._n observation_n of_o the_o spirit_n of_o each_o other_o meet_v for_o such_o as_o will_v marry_v well_o 55._o objection_n of_o the_o 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of_o parent_n in_o disregard_n of_o their_o child_n to_o be_v tax_v what_o those_o be_v 90._o parent_n offence_n in_o the_o extreme_a of_o over-providing_a for_o child_n by_o undo_v of_o themselves_o p._n 91._o two_o degree_n of_o it_o ibid._n promise_v of_o marriage_n the_o root_n of_o a_o explicate_v contract_n 97._o to_o be_v very_o cautious_o make_v ibid._n the_o property_n of_o they_o ibid._n what_o promise_v for_o marriage_n do_v bind_v 99_o viz._n a_o mutual_a one_o 2._o a_o free_a one_o 3._o a_o plain_a and_o undeceive_a one_o and_o what_o that_o be_v 101._o rash_n inconsiderate_a promise_n of_o marriage_n very_o foolish_a and_o sinful_a 103._o providence_n a_o second_o peculiar_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n necessary_a 219._o open_v of_o the_o point_n ibid._n reason_n of_o it_o because_o its_o honour_n to_o marriage_n and_o how_o 220._o 221._o providence_n of_o the_o husband_n in_o what_o it_o consist_v 1_o in_o skill_n in_o the_o trade_n of_o his_o way_n 2._o wisdom_n insight_n and_o experience_n in_o it_o 3_o curiosity_n in_o trade_n abhor_v 4._o a_o stock_n necessary_a to_o occupy_v with_o 5._o application_n of_o himself_o to_o his_o object_n diligent_o 221._o 222._o 223._o vusubjectednesse_n of_o mind_n to_o the_o rule_n of_o providence_n a_o ill_a sign_n of_o good_a husbandry_n 235._o exhortation_n to_o husband_n to_o be_v provident_a ibid._n providence_n of_o the_o wife_n in_o conjugal_a estate_n a_o three_o part_n of_o her_o helpfulnesse_n 296._o in_o what_o particular_n it_o stand_v 297._o 298._o 299._o 300._o forward_a professor_n to_o take_v heed_n of_o uncleanness_n vid._n adultery_n because_o professor_n can_v dispense_v with_o this_o sin_n 353._o q._n question_v about_o publication_n of_o contract_n answer_v 109._o question_v about_o marry_v by_o a_o minister_n answer_v 110._o question_v whether_o cozen-germans_a may_v marry_v answer_v 111._o question_v wherein_o marriage_n and_o a_o contract_n differ_v 115._o why_o a_o space_n be_v allot_v betwixt_o contract_n and_o marriage_n 118._o what_o space_n be_v most_o convenient_a 119._o quest_n what_o if_o either_o party_n defile_v he_o or_o herself_o after_o contract_n 120._o three_o question_n touch_v marry_v in_o the_o lord_n answer_v 58._o q._n whether_o a_o parent_n forbid_v marriage_n with_o such_o a_o person_n upon_o his_o deathbed_n may_v be_v lawful_a and_o bind_a and_o how_o far_o 81._o 82._o r._n religion_n the_o best_a object_n in_o marriage_n 43._o reason_n 4._o ibid._n reason_n why_o marry_v person_n must_v enter_v in_o the_o lord_n be_v four_o 24._o 25._o 26._o 27._o rational_a respect_n three_o in_o number_n of_o use_v a_o contract_n 107._o 1._o the_o sutablenes_n of_o so_o weighty_a a_o thing_n 2._o the_o prevent_n of_o inconstancy_n 3._o good_a of_o the_o party_n so_o contract_v 108._o religion_n joint_o use_v a_o main_a preservative_n of_o the_o honour_n thereof_o 128._o in_o what_o it_o consist_v and_o the_o duty_n urge_v 129._o six_o reason_n for_o it_o 1._o god_n be_v their_o mutual_a god_n 2._o the_o grace_n of_o either_o further_v both_o 3._o they_o enjoy_v all_o thing_n both_o good_a and_o have_v in_o common_a 4._o religion_n be_v the_o cement_n of_o all_o fellowship_n 5._o by_o instance_n of_o one_o joint_a necessity_n of_o trust_v god_n 6._o bless_v annex_v to_o it_o 130._o 131._o 132._o a_o question_n what_o if_o one_o party_n refuse_v to_o join_v with_o the_o other_o 133._o hinderer_n of_o each_o other_o in_o such_o joint_a religion_n to_o be_v tax_v 135._o such_o as_o remain_v in_o each_o other_o religion_n tax_v ibid._n reproof_n of_o wasteful_a wife_n 300._o s._n scorner_n to_o be_v draw_v by_o their_o wife_n religion_n blame_v 40._o 50._o single_a life_n more_o free_a from_o trouble_n then_o the_o marry_a condition_n 47._o sound_v judgement_n self_n denial_n and_o subdue_a of_o rebellious_a lust_n meet_v for_o he_o who_o will_v prepare_v for_o marriage_n 48._o 50._o severalnesse_n in_o the_o marry_a sinful_a if_o affect_v 133._o subjection_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n one_o principal_a part_n of_o her_o duty_n 254._o reason_n of_o the_o point_n 1._o from_o the_o law_n of_o creation_n 2._o from_o the_o penalty_n of_o disobedience_n 255._o proof_n of_o the_o point_n 256._o reason_n 3._o hereby_o she_o preserve_v the_o honour_n of_o her_o marriage_n 258._o subjection_n what_o it_o be_v 259._o it_o be_v two_o foul_v 1._o of_o the_o spirit_n ibid._n objection_n against_o it_o answer_v 260._o qualification_n of_o the_o wife_n subjection_n in_o many_o respect_n 1._o in_o prompt_v the_o husband_n with_o religious_a counsel_n 2._o in_o cause_n of_o difficulty_n 262._o 263._o 264._o second_o subjection_n stand_v in_o his_o practice_n wherein_o 3._o particular_n 1._o in_o matter_n of_o god_n a_o question_n answer_v how_o far_o a_o woman_n have_v liberty_n to_o perform_v the_o service_n of_o god_n in_o family_n 266._o 267._o 268._o if_o they_o be_v deny_v this_o liberty_n by_o bad_a husband_n they_o must_v be_v subject_a 269._o second_o subjection_n in_o respect_n of_o their_o husband_n estate_n 270._o limitation_n of_o the_o woman_n subjection_n in_o worldly_a business_n 270._o a_o question_n answer_v may_v the_o woman_n give_v to_o charitable_n use_v ordinary_o not_o how_o she_o may_v in_o sundry_a respect_n whereof_o seven_o be_v mention_v 272._o the_o occasion_n of_o this_o argument_n ibid._n the_o three_o branch_n of_o subjection_n in_o marriage_n conversation_n in_o many_o thing_n 1._o attire_n and_o fashion_n 2._o gesture_n 3._o domestical_a deportment_n 4._o abroad_o 5._o in_o his_o tongue_n and_o company_n 6._o in_o nursery_n use_v 2._o first_o admonition_n to_o shun_v rebellion_n against_o the_o husband_n second_o exhortation_n to_o embrace_v subjection_n from_o 275._o to_o 282._o wife_n not_o subject_a to_o the_o unlawful_a command_n of_o their_o husband_n 262._o t._n terror_n to_o all_o dishonourer_n of_o marriage_n 9_o profaner_n of_o it_o ib._n &_o 12._o 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blame_v 212._o husband_n
the_o three_o their_o heartsore_a break_a hereby_o zach._n 10._o 12._o the_o four_o they_o be_v convince_v of_o god_n end_n believe_v it_o the_o five_o from_o hence_o they_o be_v encourage_v to_o obey_v psal_n 45._o eph._n 6._o mâ—â—kes_v of_o a_o low_a degree_n job_n 33._o 23._o zach._n 9_o 9_o cant._n 3._o reason_n of_o this_o first_o branch_n the_o first_o rash_a match_n unblessed_a the_o jewel_n of_o the_o marriage_n ring_n faith_n and_o humility_n peace_n ephes_n 6._o purity_n righteousness_n trial_n of_o mriage_n many_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 35._o god_n be_v seldom_o find_v out_o of_o his_o own_o way_n 2_o tim._n 3._o 3_o grace_n level_v all_o disproportion_n objection_n and_o doubt_n answer_v 1_o king_n 21._o 25._o 2_o king_n 4._o 27._o luk._n 23._o 31._o mat._n 12._o 35._o rom._n 1._o 13._o luke_n 9_o 60._o 1_o cor._n 5._o 10._o instan_n pro._n 24._o 34._o 2_o cron._n 19_o 11._o eccles_n 7._o 26._o ephes_n 4._o 14._o isaiah_n 30._o use_v of_o the_o point_n 1._o terror_n and_o reproof_n bran._n 1._o pâ—opnane_fw-la scorner_n to_o mâ—rry_v in_o the_o lord_n terrify_v 1_o king_n 12._o 10._o juâ—g_n 14_o 3._o josh_n 23._o 29._o prov._n 9_o 17._o jedg_n ult_n as_o gen._n 6._o 2_o 3_o 2._o branch_n of_o terror_n marriage_n with_o they_o that_o be_v only_o civilise_a unsafe_a gen_n 6._o 1._o psal_o 4._o 8._o branch_n 3._o reproof_n of_o such_o in_o which_o either_o party_n be_v bad_a 1_o king_n 21._o 25_o cap._n 21._o ver_fw-la 7._o 1_o king_n 21._o 7._o eccles_n 4._o 9_o judg._n 11._o 38._o mat._n 23._o 15._o a_o villainous_a speech_n admonition_n to_o such_o 2_o king_n 1._o 13._o psal_n 39_o 13._o job_n 20._o 11._o branch_n 4._o admonition_n to_o the_o religious_a marry_v to_o the_o irreligious_a bran._n 1._o luk._n 1._o 6._o 1_o sam._n 18._o 27._o 1_o sam._n 25._o job_n 1_o 8_o 9_o dâ—â—â—_n 22._o 11._o 2_o cor._n 6._o 15._o dâ—n_n 2_o 32._o prov._n 19_o 13._o job_n 2._o 9_o 12._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 23._o luk._n 1._o 6._o luke_n 15._o 28_o branch_n 2._o diverter_n of_o their_o wife_n from_o religion_n to_o other_o matter_n reprove_v connivers_n only_o at_o the_o religion_n of_o their_o yoke-fellow_n not_o approver_n thereof_o tax_v commender_n of_o religion_n in_o their_o wife_n for_o other_o respect_n not_o for_o religion_n blame_v 1_o pet._n 3._o 1._o 1_o cor._n 1._o 25._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 16._o luk._n 10._o 42._o scorner_n to_o be_v draw_v by_o their_o wife_n religion_n faulty_a counsel_n for_o such_o as_o draw_v in_o a_o evil_a yoke_n gen._n 41._o 9_o 1._o rip_v up_o thy_o state_n to_o god_n 2._o redeem_v old_a error_n and_o pray_v for_o pardon_n gen._n 17._o 18._o deut._n 5._o 28._o 3._o pass_v by_o ordinary_a fault_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 1._o 4_o fret_v not_o at_o thy_o lot_n luke_n 21._o 19_o isaiah_n 26._o 20._o luke_n 5._o 40._o 5._o conceal_v grievance_n so_o long_o as_o be_v possible_a heb._n 12._o 13._o prov._n â—8_o 10._o prov._n 10._o 29._o 6._o justify_v not_o thy_o own_o error_n by_o other_o instruction_n what_o the_o best_a object_n of_o the_o married_a be_v 1._o respect_n job_n 28._o 18._o prov._n 8._o 11._o 2_o sam._n 23._o 19_o prov._n 19_o 22._o 2._o respect_n 3._o respect_n jonah_n 2._o 8._o ad_fw-la monition_n against_o some_o error_n herein_o the_o first_o the_o second_o gal._n 6._o 7._o 3._o branch_n recle_n 9_o 11._o exhortation_n to_o marry_v in_o the_o lord_n in_o 3._o branch_n three_o branch_n of_o it_o the_o first_o youth_n must_v redeem_v her_o golden_a season_n for_o this_o end_n eccles_n 12._o 1._o mat._n 12._o 35._o luke_n 10._o 42._o eccles_n 12._o 1._o john_n 21._o 18._o single_a life_n not_o like_a marriage_n in_o point_n of_o trouble_n but_o more_o free_a read_v prov._n 5._o 11._o 12._o john_n 3._o 8._o gen._n 6._o 2._o lam._n 3._o 23._o isaiah_n 63._o 9_o 10._o mat._n 12._o 45._o isaiah_n 57_o 17._o the_o second_o branch_n of_o exhortation_n in_o many_o particular_n duty_n 1._o selfe-deniall_n and_o trial_n what_o god_n mind_n be_v about_o our_o estate_n mat._n 16._o 24._o 1_o thes_n 4._o 4._o mat._n 21._o 17._o 17._o all_o receive_v not_o this_o gift_n mat._n 19_o 12._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 8._o 1_o cor._n 5._o 5._o continency_n being'a_fw-fr gift_n of_o god_n must_v be_v seek_v for_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 35._o no_o vow_n of_o single_a life_n warrant_v the_o second_o sound_v judgement_n and_o subdue_a of_o a_o rebellious_a heart_n job_n 39_o 9_o 10._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 38._o luke_n 23._o 21._o duty_n 3._o error_n of_o the_o time_n to_o be_v abhor_v grace_n must_v be_v prefer_v to_o weâ—lâ—th_n in_o marriage_n 1_o sam._n 25._o 18._o good_a marriage_n must_v be_v buy_v the_o four_o pray_v hard_o for_o good_a marriage_n pay_v and_o pray_v too_o mat_n 15._o 18._o ezek._n 36._o end_n ps_n l._n 37._o 5._o 1_o sam_n 1._o 27._o gen._n 33._o 5._o tit._n 1._o 15._o 1_o sam_n 25._o 1._o judg._n 14._o 3._o duty_n 5._o advice_n of_o the_o most_o judicious_a and_o impartial_a friend_n requisite_a for_o good_a marriage_n joh._n 14._o 14_o 15._o 1_o sam._n 16._o 6._o duty_n 6._o observe_v the_o spâ—ttis_n of_o each_o other_o meet_v for_o such_o as_o will_v marry_v in_o the_o lord_n job_n 34._o 3._o prov._n 15._o 22._o 〈◊〉_d 1._o 5._o â—ob_v 32_o 8._o 1_o cor._n 2._o 15._o exod._n 33._o 6._o rom._n 12._o 16._o act_n 15._o 15._o prov._n 17._o 24._o isaiah_n 65_o 8._o zach._n 4._o 10._o conclusion_n of_o this_o second_o duty_n the_o man_n have_v the_o lead_a hand_n therefore_o aught_o to_o be_v wary_a woman_n wooer_n threaten_v woe_n touch_v marry_n in_o the_o lord_n three_o question_n answer_v 1._o question_v answer_v psal_n 37_o 5._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 15._o psal_n 37._o 6._o 2._o question_v answer_v 1_o sam._n 8._o 5._o act._n 10._o 34._o 1_o cor_fw-la 14._o 33._o gen_n â—â—_o gen._n 19_o â—_o the_o three_o duty_n preparation_n between_o the_o contract_n and_o the_o marriage_n necessary_a the_o second_o general_n for_o entrance_n be_v to_o mairy_n apt_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 35._o 35._o jugaiâ—s_n who_o be_v unapt_a exceptioâ—s_n against_o the_o 〈◊〉_d of_o 〈◊〉_d aptness_n many_o more_o exception_n phil._n 4_o 8._o psal_n 131._o 1._o instruction_n no_o curiosity_n to_o marâ—y_n apt_o exod_n 8._o 3._o judge_n 21._o 23._o admonition_n against_o overween_a our_o own_o strength_n in_o unapt_a marriage_n terror_n to_o affector_n of_o unequal_a match_n reproof_n branch_n 1._o corruption_n always_o affect_v a_o contrariety_n to_o the_o ordinance_n prov._n 30._o 23._o branch_n 2._o repose_v contemner_n of_o equal_a marnage_n reprooved_a exportation_n affecter_n of_o of_o unequal_a marriage_n learn_v to_o be_v wise_a rom._n 12._o 16._o 1._o sam._n 18._o 23._o 1._o sam._n 25._o 41._o matt._n 20._o 22._o branch_n 2._o counsel_n to_o such_o as_o be_v already_o unapt_o marry_v jam._n 4._o 10._o occasion_n of_o this_o digression_n for_o handle_v of_o consent_n of_o parent_n and_o a_o contract_n consent_v of_o parent_n necessary_a for_o marriage_n and_o why_o parent_n can_v do_v as_o they_o will_v in_o match_v of_o their_o child_n guardian_n and_o governor_n be_v to_o look_v to_o their_o orphan_n as_o well_o as_o parent_n to_o child_n in_o point_n of_o marriage_n see_v these_o text_n deut._n 7._o 3._o jer._n 29_o 6._o gen._n 24._o 3_o 4._o exod._n 22._o 16._o judg._n 14._o 3._o verse_n 4_o 5._o gen._n 21._o 21._o further_a proof_n of_o the_o point_n cornel._n à _fw-fr lap._n terent._n andr._n scen._n 3._o confut._n exception_n against_o this_o general_a rule_n exod._n 22._o 16._o duty_n of_o parent_n towards_o child_n unwise_o suffer_v to_o link_v themselves_o num._n 30._o 4._o another_o exception_n 1_o cor._n 6._o 36._o parent_n must_v observe_v the_o condition_n of_o their_o child_n child_n objection_n against_o parent_n carelessness_n in_o their_o marriage_n answer_v counsel_n to_o such_o child_n mal._n 4._o ult_n parent_n obstinate_a in_o consent_n to_o be_v curb_v matt._n 8._o mat._n 16._o 25._o question_n about_o parent_n consent_n answer_v reproof_n terror_n to_o all_o rebellious_a child_n who_o marry_v against_o their_o parent_n consent_n cavil_n of_o such_o child_n answer_v as_o will_v be_v loose_a in_o duâ—ty_n to_o their_o parent_n consent_n yet_o will_v have_v their_o parent_n tie_v to_o they_o in_o mean_n and_o maintenance_n joh._n 9_o 5._o parent_n may_v be_v shy_a to_o disobedient_a child_n and_o why_o 2._o sam._n 14._o 24._o branch_n 2._o dissemble_v and_o force_v consent_n of_o parent_n by_o child_n be_v sinful_a galat._n 6._o 4._o rom._n 12._o 9_o luc._n 15._o 12._o matt._n 7._o 2._o branch_n 3._o half_a consent_n of_o parent_n or_o conâ—ent_a afâ—er_n their_o contract_n be_v faulty_a exhortation_n to_o marry_v with_o consent_n of_o parent_n 1._o sam._n 25._o pro._n 10._o mica_n 2._o branch_n 2._o dignity_n of_o parent_n use_v of_o reproof_n
to_o they_o that_o neglect_v the_o care_n of_o their_o child_n parent_n must_v go_v in_o a_o middle_a way_n between_o â—â—usterity_n and_o fâ—lly_o towards_o their_o child_n bâ—se_a shift_n and_o respect_n of_o parent_n in_o disregard_n of_o their_o child_n a_o contrary_a extreme_a of_o parent_n in_o overmuch_a love_n to_o child_n the_o 1._o degâ—eâ—â—_n the_o 2._o degree_n abuse_n of_o guardian_n and_o governor_n of_o orphan_n in_o this_o kind_n of_o neglect_n sundry_a way_n woeful_a fruit_n hereof_o use_v of_o exhortation_n of_o parent_n to_o attend_v their_o child_n in_o this_o great_a work_n second_o digression_n to_o the_o point_n of_o contract_n contract_n in_o what_o sense_n here_o use_v promise_n of_o marriage_n the_o root_n of_o a_o contract_n to_o be_v very_o cautious_o make_v and_o their_o property_n real_a contact_n as_o good_a as_o verbal_a what_o promise_v for_o marriage_n do_v bind_v a_o mutual_a one_o a_o free_a or_o voluntary_a one_o 3._o a_o plain_a one_o without_o deceit_n what_o that_o be_v admonition_n to_o all_o party_n to_o beware_v of_o their_o marriage_n promise_n raâ—h_o and_o inconsiderate_a promise_n of_o marriage_n very_o foolish_a and_o sinful_a whether_o a_o contract_n be_v essential_a to_o marriage_n contract_v very_o ancient_a and_o of_o general_a use_n jewish_a contract_n what_o josh_n 15._o 16._o action_n and_o performance_n of_o the_o contract_n â—ow_o to_o be_v do_v rational_a respect_n in_o which_o a_o contract_n may_v be_v use_v the_o 1._o sutablenes_n to_o the_o weight_n of_o the_o thing_n the_o 2._o to_o prevent_v inconstancy_n respect_n 3._o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o party_n contract_v general_n touch_v question_n whether_o publication_n of_o contract_n be_v necessary_a what_o be_v to_o be_v think_v of_o the_o marry_n by_o a_o minister_n whether_o cousin_n germane_a may_v marry_v answer_v i_o make_v no_o quarrel_n but_o oâ—ly_o show_v my_o opinion_n leave_v uther_n to_o themselves_o wherein_o differss_n contractfrom_o marriage_n god_n be_v in_o a_o contract_n for_o good_a and_o not_o evil_a but_o in_o marriage_n whether_o good_a or_o evil_n one_o be_v better_a spoil_v than_o 〈◊〉_d why_o a_o space_n be_v allot_v betwixt_o contract_n and_o marriage_n what_o spâ—ce_n be_v he_o most_o convenient_a what_o if_o either_o party_n defile_v itself_o before_o marriage_n of_o reproof_n of_o all_o disdainer_n of_o contract_n exhortation_n contract_a couple_n prize_v your_o contract_n 1._o sam._n 13._o 12._o job._n heb._n 13._o 5._o zach._n 12._o end_n 1._o cor._n 7._o deut._n 32._o end_n luc._n 22._o gâ—lath_n 6._o counsel_n in_o peciall_a for_o such_o the_o second_o general_a preservation_n of_o the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n in_o the_o conversation_n of_o it_o 2._o john_n 8._o prov._n 13._o honour_n of_o marriage_n to_o be_v preserve_v partly_o by_o the_o joint_a act_n of_o both_o and_o partly_o by_o the_o several_a act_n of_o each_o party_n joint_a act_n of_o the_o marry_v four_o jointhes_n iâ—_n worship_v a_o main_a preservative_n of_o honourable_a marriage_n 1._o sam._n 25._o reason_n of_o joinâ—_n religion_n of_o couple_n gâ—â—_n be_v their_o mutual_a god_n because_o the_o grace_n of_o each_o further_v both_o they_o enjoy_v all_o thing_n both_o good_a and_o bad_a in_o common_a religion_n be_v the_o cement_n of_o all_o fellowship_n from_o one_o instance_n viz._n their_o necessity_n of_o joint_a trust_n in_o god_n nothing_o have_v such_o blessing_n annex_v to_o it_o what_o if_o he_o one_o party_n will_v not_o join_v with_o the_o other_o reproof_n severalnesse_n of_o religion_n in_o the_o marry_a sinful_a if_o affect_v branch_n 2._o hinderer_n of_o each_o other_o in_o such_o joint_n religion_n to_o be_v tax_v branch_n 3._o such_o as_o dore_v in_o each_o other_o religion_n tax_v marry_a person_n who_o forsake_v their_o own_o fellowship_n and_o run_v to_o stranger_n faulty_a cause_n or_o the_o unhappy_a and_o unprosperous_a state_n of_o many_o couple_n be_v want_v of_o mutual_a religion_n exhortation_n to_o all_o good_a couple_n to_o be_v joint_a in_o their_o religion_n both_o inward_a as_o in_o faith_n and_o the_o like_a i'faith_o the_o principal_a prop_n of_o the_o marry_v infinite_a misery_n of_o the_o marry_v through_o the_o distrust_n of_o god_n providence_n family_n duty_n and_o private_a worship_n necessary_a for_o good_a couple_n to_o join_v in_o close_o needfnll_n to_o use_v private_a worship_n cause_n why_o it_o shall_v be_v so_o great_a benefit_n of_o prâ—vaâ—e_n jâ—â—â—t_a worship_n counsel_n about_o it_o exhortation_n to_o private_a enâ—â—â—ourse_n with_o god_n the_o second_o joint_a office_n of_o the_o marry_v conjugal_a love_n love_v aught_o to_o be_v joint_o preserve_v for_o the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n not_o only_o breed_v by_o peculiar_a instinct_n but_o oftentâ—ms_n by_o outward_a occasion_n and_o motive_n conjugal_a love_n a_o mix_a affection_n and_o how_o reason_n of_o it_o ephe._n 5._o 29._o rom._n 12._o 20._o ephe._n 5._o 25._o tit._n 2._o 4_o 5._o conjugal_a love_n though_o a_o joint_a duty_n to_o be_v carry_v in_o a_o several_a way_n psal_n 134._o 2._o tit._n 2._o 4._o ephe_n 5._o 22._o 24._o what_o that_o way_n be_v reproof_n branch_n 1._o force_v and_o lovelesse_a match_n dangerous_a and_o in_o what_o respect_v reproof_n branch_n 2._o love_n will_v not_o nourish_v self_n but_o must_v be_v nourish_v daily_o between_o couple_n by_o what_o mean_v love_n may_v be_v nourish_v gen._n 20._o 16._o admonition_n to_o the_o joint_a practice_n of_o conjugal_a love_n pro._n 23._o 29._o 30._o 4._o james_n 1._o danger_n of_o breaâ—h_n of_o conjugal_a love_n be_v sad_a 2._o king_n 7._o 4._o judg._n 18._o 23._o 24._o exhertation_n to_o couple_n to_o love_v join_o john_n 21._o 15._o john_n 14._o 15_o john_n 15._o 12._o 2._o gen._n 23._o motive_n to_o thehuâ—_n band_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n 1_o tim._n 2._o 15._o 1_o sam._n 25._o 39_o motive_n to_o the_o wife_n to_o love_v he_o 2_o sam._n 12._o 3._o third_o mutum_n all_o duty_n of_o the_o marry_v chastity_n chastity_n the_o mâ—yn_n joint_a duty_n of_o the_o marry_a proof_n of_o it_o math_n 196._o mal._n 2._o 15._o 2._o cor._n 7._o 2._o 1._o tim._n 3._o 2._o 1._o thes_n 4._o 4._o 1._o cor._n 3._o 16._o 17._o dâ—ut_fw-la 21._o 14._o gen_n 49._o 4._o pro._n 6._o 33._o judg._n 11._o 3._o 4._o judg._n 16._o 21._o amplification_n of_o this_o truth_n levit._fw-la 14_o 44._o 45._o chastity_n the_o main_n support_v of_o union_n the_o defilement_n of_o each_o party_n be_v enough_o to_o defile_v the_o whole_a state_n of_o marriage_n god_n have_v ordain_v one_o for_o one_o it_o cover_v all_o other_o defect_n but_o itself_o can_v be_v cover_v by_o no_o endowment_n it_o be_v the_o corner_n stone_n which_o hold_v in_o the_o whole_a building_n 1_o sam._n 18._o 28._o â—eâ—â—use_n in_o somerespect_n it_o make_v marriag_n honourable_a 12_o ps_n 3._o 8._o 1._o fruitfulness_n of_o womb_n numb_a 5._o 21._o isai_n 56._o 4._o 2_o respect_n bless_v of_o 〈◊〉_d gen._n 21._o 10._o 3._o the_o curse_n of_o siâ—_n turn_v to_o blessing_n by_o chastity_n 13._o levit._fw-la 49._o tit._n 1_o 15._o luc._n 11._o 41._o how_o chastity_n may_v be_v preserve_v 4._o way_n 1._o the_o spirit_n 2._o prevention_n 3._o bed_n 4._o body_n math._n 12._o 24._o pro._n 2d_o 26._o the._n 1._o chastâ—â—y_o of_o spirit_n must_v be_v keep_v against_o contemplative_a uncleanness_n why_o so_o needful_a the._n 2._o chastity_n of_o prevention_n necessary_a what_o be_v 2._o sam._n 11._o 2._o gen._n 34._o 1._o why_o this_o be_v here_o urge_v 2_o cor._n 12._o 7._o job._n 31._o 1._o 1_o cor._n 9_o 7._o the_o three_o chastity_n of_o the_o bed_n two_o extreme_n here_o the_o first_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 3._o the_o second_o levit._fw-la 20._o 18._o gen._n 26._o 8._o heathen_n shame_v we_o christian_n in_o this_o mark_v to_o know_v the_o moderation_n of_o the_o bed_n popish_a force_a chastity_n and_o affect_a abstinence_n from_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o bed_n compare_v inconvensence_n of_o both_o unjust_a abstinence_n and_o excess_n of_o liberty_n compare_v the_o four_o &_o last_o head_n of_o the_o mutual_a duty_n be_v the_o chastity_n of_o body_n gen._n 39_o 8._o exhortation_n to_o the_o duty_n of_o chastity_n pro._n 5._o 〈◊〉_d and_o 9_o against_o base_a and_o unjust_a jealousy_n it_o be_v most_o odious_a pro._n 31._o 11._o remedy_n of_o the_o innocent_a party_n the_o four_o general_n and_o joint_a duty_n of_o the_o marry_a consent_n branch_n 1._o experience_n of_o such_o as_o want_v it_o prov._n 13._o 12._o branch_n 2._o the_o experience_n of_o such_o as_o enjoy_v it_o show_v it_o to_o be_v worth_a the_o preserve_n joint_o the_o price_n of_o this_o jewel_n in_o her_o nature_n deserve_v the_o careful_a improove_v of_o it_o the_o praise_n of_o consent_n consent_n hâ—th_v a_o divine_a instinct_n in_o it_o psal_n 133._o 23._o consent_n bring_v god_n into_o the_o marry_a 12._o math._n 26._o 2._o cor_fw-la 6._o 15