in_o marry_v without_o their_o parent_n consent_v 450_o 20_o of_o objection_n for_o child_n marry_v without_o parent_n consent_n answer_v 451_o 21_o of_o sâ—ealing_a child_n from_o parent_n for_o marriage_n sake_n 452_o 22_o of_o minister_n sin_n in_o marry_v child_n without_o parent_n consent_n 452_o 23_o of_o child_n forbear_n to_o dispose_v any_o of_o their_o parent_n good_n without_o consent_n 453_o 24_o of_o the_o sin_n of_o child_n in_o purloin_v and_o waste_v their_o parent_n good_n 454_o 25_o of_o child_n contentedness_n to_o be_v apparel_v after_o their_o parent_n mind_n and_o like_n 456_o 26_o of_o child_n forbear_n to_o bind_v themselves_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n against_o their_o parent_n consent_n 456_o 27_o of_o child_n active_a obedience_n 457_o 28_o of_o child_n obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n commandment_n 457_o 29_o of_o child_n disobedience_n to_o their_o parent_n commandment_n 459_o 30_o of_o child_n obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n instruction_n 459_o 31_o of_o 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the_o contrary_n to_o love_n 499_o 4_o of_o parent_n pray_v for_o their_o child_n 500_o 5_o of_o vice_n contrary_a to_o parent_n pray_v for_o their_o child_n 501_o 6_o of_o parent_n endeavour_v to_o be_v righteous_a that_o they_o may_v leave_v god_n blessing_n to_o their_o child_n 502_o 7_o of_o the_o preposterous_a course_n which_o covetous_a and_o unjust_a parent_n take_v for_o the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n 503_o 8_o of_o parent_n providence_n for_o their_o child_n 505_o 9_o of_o a_o mother_n care_n over_o her_o child_n while_o it_o be_v in_o her_o womb_n 505_o 10_o of_o provide_v thing_n needful_a for_o the_o child_n so_o soon_o as_o it_o be_v bear_v and_o of_o cruelty_n contrary_a thereunto_o 506_o 11_o of_o give_v suck_n to_o child_n 507_o 12_o of_o mother_n give_v suck_n to_o their_o own_o child_n 508_o 13_o of_o the_o objection_n for_o put_v child_n forth_o to_o nurse_n 513_o 14_o of_o the_o father_n duty_n in_o encourage_v his_o wife_n to_o nurse_v her_o child_n 517_o 15_o of_o the_o fault_n contrary_a to_o a_o mother_n nurse_v her_o child_n 517_o 16_o of_o a_o father_n fault_n in_o hinder_v his_o wife_n nurse_v of_o her_o child_n 518_o 17_o of_o parent_n joint_a care_n about_o their_o child_n baptism_n 518_o 18_o of_o the_o reason_n to_o move_v parent_n to_o see_v their_o child_n baptize_v 519_o 19_o of_o parent_n procure_v their_o child_n to_o be_v right_o baptize_v 521_o 20_o of_o parent_n care_v to_o give_v a_o fit_a name_n to_o their_o child_n at_o his_o baptism_n 522_o 21_o of_o parent_n care_v in_o bring_v their_o child_n to_o be_v baptize_v in_o due_a season_n 523_o 22_o of_o parent_n fault_n in_o neglect_v their_o child_n baptism_n 523_o 23_o of_o parent_n provide_v thing_n needful_a for_o the_o life_n and_o health_n of_o their_o child_n 525_o 24_o of_o parent_n too_o much_o niggardliness_n and_o carelessness_n towards_o their_o child_n 527_o 25_o of_o parent_n too_o much_o lavishness_n and_o indulgency_n upon_o their_o child_n 527_o 26_o of_o well_o nurture_a child_n 529_o 27_o of_o parent_n neglect_v in_o nurture_a child_n 529_o 28_o of_o parent_n teach_v their_o child_n good_a manner_n 530_o 29_o of_o the_o objection_n against_o good_a manner_n 531_o 30_o of_o parent_n suffer_v their_o child_n to_o be_v rude_o bring_v up_o 532_o 31_o of_o parent_n train_v up_o their_o child_n to_o some_o good_a call_n 532_o 32_o of_o parent_n care_v in_o choose_v a_o fit_a call_n for_o their_o child_n 534_o 33_o of_o parent_n fault_n contrary_a to_o their_o duty_n of_o train_v their_o child_n up_o to_o a_o calling_n 535_o 34_o of_o parent_n teach_v their_o child_n piety_n 536_o 35_o of_o direct_a parent_n how_o to_o teach_v their_o child_n true_a piety_n 539_o 36_o of_o parent_n fault_n contrary_a to_o their_o duty_n of_o teach_v their_o child_n piety_n 542_o 37_o of_o instruct_v child_n so_o soon_o as_o they_o be_v capable_a 543_o 38_o of_o mother_n peculiar_a care_n in_o nurture_v young_a child_n 546_o 39_o of_o let_v slip_n the_o best_a time_n for_o nurture_n 547_o 40_o of_o parent_n continue_v to_o nurture_n their_o child_n 547_o 41_o of_o parent_n folly_n in_o let_v go_v all_o their_o power_n over_o their_o child_n 548_o 42_o of_o add_v admonition_n to_o instruction_n 548_o 43_o of_o parent_n wearisomeness_n in_o instruct_v their_o child_n 550_o 44_o of_o parent_n reprove_v their_o child_n 550_o 45_o of_o parent_n cocker_a their_o child_n 551_o 46_o of_o correct_a child_n 552_o 47_o a_o direction_n to_o parent_n in_o correct_v their_o child_n 555_o 48_o of_o parent_n too_o much_o indulgency_n 557_o 49_o of_o parent_n too_o much_o scuerity_n in_o correct_v their_o child_n 558_o 50_o of_o parent_n care_v in_o provide_v fit_a calling_n for_o their_o child_n 558_o 51_o direction_n for_o parent_n in_o provide_v calling_n for_o their_o child_n 560_o 52_o of_o the_o extreme_n contrary_a to_o a_o parent_n lawful_a care_n in_o provide_v fit_a calling_n for_o his_o child_n 561_o 53_o of_o parent_n care_v in_o provide_v fit_a marriage_n for_o their_o child_n 563_o 54_o direction_n to_o parent_n in_o provide_v marriage_n 564_o 55_o of_o the_o extreme_n contrary_a to_o parent_n care_v in_o provide_v fit_a marriage_n for_o their_o child_n 564_o 56_o of_o parent_n provide_v a_o stock_n for_o calling_n and_o marriage_n of_o their_o child_n 565_o 57_o of_o the_o extreme_n contrary_a to_o a_o parent_n provide_v portion_n for_o his_o child_n 566_o 58_o of_o parent_n last_o speech_n to_o their_o child_n 567_o 59_o of_o parent_n last_o blessing_n to_o their_o child_n 569_o 60_o of_o parent_n care_v to_o commend_v their_o child_n to_o some_o faithful_a friend_n 569_o 61_o of_o parent_n neglect_v of_o their_o child_n for_o time_n to_o come_v 570_o 62_o
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moment_n as_o marriage_n the_o parent_n shall_v have_v a_o stroke_n §._o 18._o of_o a_o child_n carriage_n in_o case_n a_o parent_n provide_v a_o unfit_a mate_n or_o none_o at_o all_o quest_n what_o if_o parent_n urge_v their_o child_n to_o marry_v such_o no._n as_o they_o can_v not_o affect_v and_o love_v must_v child_n therein_o against_o their_o mind_n and_o like_n yield_v obedience_n answ_n if_o there_o be_v no_o just_a exception_n against_o the_o party_n commend_v they_o ought_v with_o the_o uttermost_a of_o their_o power_n to_o endeavour_v 54._o to_o bring_v their_o affection_n to_o the_o bent_n of_o their_o parent_n will_v and_o as_o a_o help_n thereunto_o be_v persuade_v that_o their_o parent_n be_v as_o careful_a of_o their_o good_a as_o they_o themselves_o be_v and_o wise_a than_o themselves_o yea_o above_o all_o they_o ought_v to_o make_v instant_a prayer_n unto_o god_n in_o who_o hand_n man_n heart_n be_v to_o turn_v it_o 1._o whither_o soever_o he_o will_v that_o he_o will_v be_v please_v to_o alter_v the_o course_n of_o their_o affection_n and_o to_o settle_v it_o on_o the_o party_n who_o their_o parent_n have_v choose_v for_o they_o if_o at_o least_o they_o see_v no_o just_a cause_n to_o the_o contrary_n but_o if_o notwithstanding_o all_o the_o mean_n that_o they_o can_v use_v they_o still_o find_v their_o heart_n altogether_o averse_a they_o may_v in_o a_o reverend_a manner_n entreat_v their_o parent_n to_o forbear_v to_o press_v that_o match_n and_o to_o think_v of_o some_o other_o 2._o quest_n what_o if_o the_o parent_n be_v negligent_a and_o in_o due_a time_n provide_v no_o fit_a match_n may_v not_o the_o child_n provide_v one_o for_o himself_o answ_n a_o parent_n negligence_n be_v not_o a_o sufficient_a pretext_n to_o make_v a_o child_n cast_v off_o that_o subjection_n which_o he_o owe_v to_o his_o parent_n yet_o i_o deny_v not_o but_o that_o a_o child_n know_v where_o a_o fit_a match_n be_v to_o be_v have_v may_v make_v know_v as_o much_o to_o his_o parent_n as_o samson_n do_v and_o crave_v both_o his_o consent_n and_o help_v thereunto_o 2._o and_o if_o his_o parent_n give_v no_o ear_n to_o his_o humble_a suit_n he_o may_v use_v the_o mediation_n of_o his_o kindred_n or_o other_o friend_n yea_o if_o necessity_n require_v that_o the_o child_n be_v marry_v and_o his_o parent_n add_v wilfulness_n to_o negligence_n and_o will_v not_o be_v move_v at_o all_o neither_o by_o the_o humble_a suit_n of_o his_o child_n nor_o by_o the_o earnest_a solicitation_n of_o any_o friend_n mean_n may_v be_v make_v to_o the_o magistrate_n who_o be_v in_o god_n place_n over_o the_o parent_n as_o well_o as_o over_o 19_o the_o child_n and_o aught_o to_o afford_v relief_n unto_o the_o child_n and_o what_o the_o magistrate_n do_v in_o that_o case_n be_v as_o good_a a_o warrant_n to_o the_o child_n as_o if_o the_o parent_n have_v do_v it_o the_o like_a mean_n may_v be_v use_v if_o a_o parent_n be_v a_o idolater_n heretic_n or_o atheist_n and_o will_v not_o yield_v that_o his_o child_n be_v marry_v to_o any_o but_o to_o one_o of_o his_o own_o profession_n and_o disposition_n §._o 19_o of_o the_o sin_n of_o child_n in_o marry_v without_o their_o parent_n consent_v contrary_n be_v the_o mind_n and_o practice_v of_o such_o child_n as_o over_o light_o esteem_v their_o parent_n power_n take_v match_n of_o their_o own_o choice_n and_o that_o sometime_o privy_o without_o give_v any_o notice_n at_o all_o to_o their_o parent_n and_o sometime_o most_o rebellious_o against_o their_o parent_n mind_n and_o charge_n not_o much_o unlike_o those_o who_o in_o the_o old_a world_n be_v condemn_v for_o take_v wife_n of_o all_o that_o 2._o they_o choose_v which_o be_v one_o branch_n of_o that_o wickedness_n for_o which_o the_o world_n be_v drown_v or_o rather_o like_o esau_n who_o take_v 35._o such_o wife_n as_o prove_v a_o grief_n to_o his_o parent_n what_o blessing_n can_v be_v expect_v to_o fall_v upon_o such_o marriage_n or_o rather_o what_o 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conscience_n perform_v the_o limitation_n then_o which_o the_o forename_a clause_n in_o the_o lord_n afford_v be_v this_o child_n must_v perform_v no_o other_o obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n then_o may_v stand_v with_o their_o obedience_n to_o god_n the_o reason_n render_v by_o the_o apostle_n prove_v as_o much_o this_o be_v right_a this_o be_v well_o please_v to_o 20._o the_o lord_n but_o to_o obey_v parent_n against_o the_o lord_n be_v neither_o right_a nor_o well-pleasing_a to_o the_o lord_n if_o therefore_o parent_n command_v their_o child_n to_o do_v any_o thing_n obedience_n which_o the_o lord_n have_v forbid_v they_o they_o ought_v not_o to_o do_v it_o on_o this_o ground_n do_v michal_n well_o in_o suffer_v her_o husband_n david_n to_o escape_v out_o of_o the_o hand_n of_o saul_n her_o father_n i_o justify_v not_o her_o manner_n of_o carry_v the_o matter_n with_o untruth_n and_o false_a tale_n but_o her_o refuse_v to_o yield_v to_o her_o father_n mind_n and_o will_n be_v 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child_n ought_v to_o do_v it_o notwithstanding_o the_o parent_n inhibition_n we_o may_v well_o think_v that_o ahaz_n who_o set_v himself_o so_o violent_o to_o deface_v the_o holy_a thing_n of_o god_n to_o profane_v his_o ordinance_n and_o to_o shut_v up_o the_o door_n of_o god_n house_n give_v straight_o charge_n to_o his_o son_n that_o he_o etc._n shall_v not_o repair_v they_o again_o yet_o hezekiah_n so_o soon_o as_o he_o have_v power_n do_v repair_v all_o if_o a_o parent_n forbid_v his_o child_n to_o go_v to_o the_o protestant_n church_n to_o hear_v a_o sermon_n to_o pray_v in_o a_o know_a tongue_n to_o give_v just_a weight_n and_o measure_n to_o speak_v the_o truth_n when_o he_o be_v call_v to_o witness_v it_o with_o the_o like_a he_o must_v be_v of_o daniel_n mind_n 10._o and_o notwithstanding_o that_o prohibition_n do_v the_o thing_n which_o god_n require_v §._o 38._o of_o child_n sin_n in_o yield_v to_o their_o parent_n against_o god_n contrary_n to_o this_o limitation_n be_v on_o the_o one_o side_n a_o flatter_a eie-seruice_n in_o many_o child_n who_o care_v not_o what_o they_o do_v be_v service_n it_o good_a or_o evil_n lawful_a or_o unlawful_a so_o they_o may_v please_v their_o parent_n thereby_o and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n a_o slavish_a fearfulness_n fearfulness_n which_o make_v they_o so_o to_o dread_v their_o parent_n as_o they_o fear_v not_o god_n at_o all_o they_o will_v rather_o choose_v to_o sin_n and_o so_o provoke_v god_n wrath_n then_o do_v any_o thing_n whereby_o their_o parent_n wrath_n may_v be_v provoke_v it_o be_v a_o brand_n set_v upon_o evil_a king_n that_o they_o 52._o walk_v in_o the_o way_n of_o their_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o do_v wicked_o 4._o as_o they_o counsel_v they_o wherefore_o the_o follow_a and_o obey_v of_o
child_n reason_n being_n child_n come_v out_o of_o the_o substance_n of_o both_o alike_o 2._o the_o care_n and_o pain_n of_o both_o for_o the_o good_a of_o the_o child_n be_v very_o great_a i_o know_v not_o of_o whether_o the_o great_a the_o mother_n pain_n and_o care_n in_o bring_v forth_o the_o child_n be_v indeed_o the_o great_a and_o it_o may_v be_v also_o the_o great_a in_o bring_v up_o the_o child_n especial_o while_o it_o be_v young_a at_o least_o if_o she_o give_v it_o suck_v herself_o yet_o afterward_o the_o father_n exceed_v in_o provide_v fit_a calling_n sufficient_a mean_n of_o maintenance_n yea_o and_o portion_n or_o inheritance_n for_o it_o and_o that_o after_o he_o himself_o be_v dead_a thus_o one_o way_n or_o other_o the_o child_n be_v equal_o bind_v to_o both_o and_o according_o god_n law_n make_v no_o difference_n betwixt_o they_o object_n the_o wife_n be_v subject_a to_o her_o husband_n therefore_o a_o child_n ought_v to_o prefer_v his_o father_n before_o his_o mother_n answ_n though_o there_o be_v a_o difference_n betwixt_o father_n and_o child_n mother_n in_o relation_n of_o one_o to_o another_o yet_o in_o relation_n to_o their_o child_n they_o be_v both_o as_o one_o and_o have_v a_o like_a authority_n over_o they_o now_o child_n be_v not_o to_o look_v to_o that_o difference_n that_o be_v betwixt_o their_o parent_n in_o that_o mutual_a relation_n that_o be_v betwixt_o husband_n and_o wife_n but_o to_o that_o authority_n which_o both_o parent_n have_v over_o their_o child_n and_o so_o to_o carry_v a_o equal_a respect_n to_o both_o 2._o object_n what_o if_o the_o father_n and_o mother_n disposition_n another_o be_v contrary_a and_o the_o one_o command_v what_o the_o other_o forbid_v answ_n the_o thing_n command_v or_o forbid_v must_v be_v observe_v if_o it_o be_v about_o a_o thing_n simple_o good_a or_o evil_n lawful_a or_o unlawful_a than_o the_o parent_n which_o will_v have_v the_o thing_n lawful_a to_o be_v do_v or_o unlawful_a to_o be_v for_o bear_v though_o it_o be_v the_o mother_n must_v be_v obey_v for_o in_o this_o case_n she_o be_v back_v with_o god_n authority_n but_o if_o the_o matter_n be_v mere_o indifferent_a than_o i_o doubt_v not_o but_o the_o father_n must_v be_v obey_v yet_o so_o as_o the_o child_n no_o way_n show_v any_o contempt_n to_o his_o mother_n but_o with_o all_o reverence_n and_o humility_n make_v it_o know_v to_o she_o that_o it_o be_v best_a both_o for_o herself_o and_o himself_o that_o his_o father_n be_v obey_v but_o if_o the_o father_n contrary_a authority_n be_v not_o interpose_v or_o if_o the_o father_n be_v dead_a then_o be_v a_o mother_n as_o simple_o and_o absolute_o to_o be_v obey_v in_o all_o thing_n as_o a_o father_n §._o 55._o of_o pretence_n allege_v to_o obey_v father_n rather_o than_o mother_n contrary_n on_o the_o one_o side_n be_v their_o childish_a fondness_n who_o so_o whole_o respect_v their_o mother_n and_o seek_v to_o please_v she_o as_o they_o little_o regard_v their_o 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they_o now_o familiarity_n andr._n breed_v contempt_n answ_n this_o be_v the_o abuse_n of_o familiarity_n love_n shall_v breed_v love_n and_o love_n must_v be_v order_v according_a to_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o party_n love_v and_o love_v as_o child_n with_o one_o eye_n behold_v the_o affection_n of_o the_o mother_n so_o with_o another_o they_o shall_v behold_v god_n image_n in_o the_o mother_n and_o then_o that_o which_o be_v 3._o note_v as_o the_o ground_n of_o all_o child_n duty_n a_o loving-feare_n will_v be_v wrought_v in_o their_o heart_n which_o will_v cast_v out_o all_o contempt_n 3._o the_o mother_n have_v not_o that_o power_n to_o reward_n or_o revenge_n that_o a_o father_n have_v answ_n 1._o this_o be_v not_o to_o obey_v in_o the_o lord_n no_o outward_a respect_n shall_v move_v the_o child_n to_o obey_v his_o parent_n so_o much_o as_o conscience_n to_o god-ward_n if_o child_n due_o consider_v god_n how_o he_o have_v make_v no_o difference_n but_o command_v they_o to_o obey_v both_o alike_o and_o how_o he_o be_v able_a abundant_o to_o reward_v and_o severe_o to_o revenge_v that_o reason_n will_v be_v no_o reason_n 4._o the_o mother_n be_v subject_a to_o the_o father_n answ_n this_o be_v remove_v 54._o before_o as_o a_o general_a answer_n to_o these_o and_o all_o other_o such_o pretence_n as_o can_v be_v allege_v let_v it_o be_v note_v that_o the_o lord_n do_v not_o only_o in_o express_a term_n charge_v child_n to_o fear_v their_o mother_n but_o also_o the_o more_o to_o press_v this_o point_n sometime_o set_v the_o mother_n in_o the_o first_o place_n thus_o you_o shall_v fear_v every_o man_n his_o mother_n 3._o and_o his_o father_n which_o be_v not_o so_o to_o be_v take_v as_o if_o the_o mother_n of_o the_o two_o be_v the_o more_o excellent_a in_o this_o respect_n the_o father_n for_o the_o most_o part_n be_v first_o name_v but_o because_o it_o be_v the_o true_a trial_n of_o a_o child_n subjection_n to_o be_v subject_a to_o his_o mother_n he_o that_o 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and_o stepmother_n or_o father_n in_o law_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n 2._o such_o as_o have_v the_o government_n and_o tuition_n of_o child_n commit_v to_o they_o common_o call_v guardian_n tutor_n governor_n yea_o also_o foster-fathers_n and_o foster-mothers_n quest_n be_v the_o same_o duty_n in_o every_o respect_n due_a to_o those_o who_o be_v in_o place_n of_o parent_n as_o to_o natural_a parent_n themselves_o answ_n not_o so_o there_o be_v such_o a_o prerogative_n appertain_v to_o natural_a parent_n from_o who_o child_n have_v receive_v their_o be_v that_o many_o thing_n wherein_o child_n by_o a_o absolute_a necessity_n necessitate_v be_v bind_v to_o they_o be_v bind_v unto_o the_o other_o who_o be_v but_o in_o place_n of_o parent_n only_o by_o the_o law_n of_o honesty_n of_o meetness_n &_o honestate_fw-la conveniency_n whence_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o such_o thing_n as_o be_v do_v by_o child_n rebellious_o without_o or_o against_o the_o consent_n of_o natural_a parent_n 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30._o 1._o object_n 20._o the_o righteousness_n of_o the_o righteous_a shall_v be_v upon_o himself_o answ_n that_o be_v mean_v rather_o of_o a_o man_n personal_a righteousness_n and_o grace_n itself_o which_o be_v not_o communicate_v to_o child_n then_o of_o the_o fruit_n thereof_o that_o faith_n in_o christ_n fear_v of_o god_n obedience_n to_o god_n word_n or_o any_o other_o personal_a grace_n which_o be_v in_o righteous_a parent_n shall_v not_o justify_v or_o save_v their_o child_n for_o the_o just_a shall_v live_v by_o his_o own_o faith_n yet_o this_o hinder_v 4._o not_o but_o that_o the_o benefit_n and_o blessing_n of_o righteous_a parent_n may_v fall_v upon_o their_o child_n according_a to_o the_o extent_n of_o god_n promise_n 2._o object_n by_o experience_n we_o find_v it_o verify_v that_o the_o child_n of_o some_o righteous_a parent_n be_v curse_v and_o the_o scripture_n give_v we_o many_o example_n thereof_o as_o 11._o cain_n 25._o cham_n 15._o absolom_n and_o other_o like_v they_o 1._o answ_n such_o child_n by_o their_o unworthy_a and_o degenerate_a carriage_n make_v forfeiture_n of_o god_n covenant_n and_o 30._o so_o deprive_v themselves_o of_o the_o benefit_n thereof_o 2._o answ_n many_o good_a reason_n may_v be_v give_v why_o god_n shall_v sometime_o alter_v his_o course_n and_o withhold_v his_o blessing_n from_o the_o child_n of_o his_o servant_n as_o 1._o lest_o god_n gift_n and_o blessing_n shall_v otherwise_o seem_v to_o come_v rather_o by_o natural_a propagation_n from_o the_o parent_n then_o by_o free_a donation_n from_o god_n 2._o lest_o parent_n shall_v thereby_o be_v draw_v to_o neglect_v the_o mean_n of_o good_a education_n 3._o lest_o child_n also_o themselves_o trust_v too_o much_o to_o their_o parent_n righteousness_n shall_v take_v too_o much_o liberty_n and_o wax_v licentious_a 4._o lest_o god_n free_a election_n shall_v seem_v hereby_o to_o be_v restrain_v 3._o object_n if_o this_o be_v so_o what_o motive_n can_v it_o be_v unto_o parent_n to_o labour_n after_o righteousness_n for_o their_o child_n sake_n answ_n though_o god_n do_v reserve_v in_o himself_o a_o freedom_n to_o order_v his_o blessing_n as_o it_o please_v he_o and_o to_o bestow_v they_o upon_o who_o he_o will_v and_o thereupon_o sometime_o bless_v the_o child_n of_o a_o wicked_a parent_n instance_n 27._o hezekiah_n &_o deny_v his_o blessing_n to_o the_o child_n of_o a_o righteous_a parent_n instance_n loc_n ammon_n yet_o in_o that_o it_o be_v a_o very_a usual_a course_n with_o he_o to_o extend_v his_o blessing_n according_a to_o his_o promise_n to_o the_o child_n of_o the_o righteous_a it_o be_v a_o strong_a motive_n to_o such_o as_o desire_v the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n the_o rather_o for_o their_o child_n sake_n to_o endeavour_v after_o righteousness_n for_o thus_o do_v they_o use_v the_o mean_n which_o by_o god_n word_n be_v warrant_v and_o sanctify_v for_o procure_v god_n blessing_n to_o their_o child_n leave_v therefore_o a_o good_a memory_n to_o thy_o child_n rather_o than_o much_o wealth_n §._o 7._o of_o the_o preposterous_a course_n which_o covetous_a and_o unjust_a parent_n take_v for_o the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n contrary_n be_v the_o course_n of_o such_o parent_n as_o by_o unrighteous_a mean_n think_v to_o provide_v well_o for_o their_o child_n for_o many_o do_v not_o only_o too_o cark_o and_o distrustful_o moil_n and_o toil_n to_o scrape_v together_o great_a mass_n of_o money_n or_o great_a store_n of_o land_n or_o other_o stock_n for_o their_o child_n neglect_v duty_n of_o piety_n and_o mercy_n but_o also_o by_o unjust_a and_o wrongful_a course_n defraud_v other_o to_o make_v their_o child_n rich_a so_o common_a be_v this_o undue_a course_n of_o provide_v for_o child_n as_o thence_o have_v arisen_a this_o proverb_n happy_a be_v those_o child_n who_o parent_n go_v to_o the_o devil_n a_o curse_a proverb_n for_o what_o other_o thing_n can_v it_o intend_v but_o this_o that_o they_o who_o fear_v not_o god_n nor_o take_v care_n for_o their_o own_o saulation_n will_v have_v most_o respect_n to_o the_o outward_a estate_n of_o their_o child_n and_o be_v most_o careful_a to_o make_v they_o great_a and_o rich_a in_o this_o world_n wherein_o note_n how_o many_o way_n they_o bewray_v their_o notorious_a folly_n 1._o they_o prefer_v the_o outward_a estate_n of_o their_o child_n before_o the_o eternal_a salvation_n of_o their_o own_o soul_n yea_o and_o before_o god_n himself_o 2._o they_o place_v the_o happiness_n of_o their_o child_n in_o the_o good_n of_o this_o world_n 5._o than_o which_o nothing_o more_o vain_a 3._o they_o make_v themselves_o drudge_n to_o their_o child_n and_o so_o debase_v themselves_o below_o that_o dignity_n which_o by_o reason_n of_o god_n image_n on_o they_o appertain_v to_o they_o 4._o they_o with_o much_o pain_n care_n grief_n and_o fear_n be_v long_o gather_v that_o which_o their_o child_n in_o short_a time_n most_o riotous_o and_o prodigal_o will_v lavish_a out_o 5._o they_o make_v themselves_o vassal_n to_o satan_n and_o seek_v by_o he_o to_o be_v make_v rich_a whereas_o indeed_o 22._o it_o be_v the_o blessing_n of_o god_n that_o make_v rich_a thus_o they_o take_v a_o wrong_a course_n to_o get_v wealth_n if_o it_o be_v say_v that_o many_o be_v thus_o make_v rich_a i_o answer_v that_o as_o â—it_n god_n give_v a_o king_n to_o israel_n so_o he_o give_v wealth_n to_o they_o in_o wrath_n and_o in_o wrath_n will_v he_o take_v it_o away_o 6._o they_o bring_v god_n curse_v into_o their_o house_n and_o leave_v it_o unto_o their_o child_n so_o as_o these_o be_v the_o riches_n that_o be_v reserve_v to_o the_o owner_n thereof_o for_o their_o evil_n let_v not_o therefore_o care_v for_o child_n draw_v thou_o to_o any_o covetous_a or_o unjust_a course_n but_o know_v that_o he_o who_o make_v thy_o son_n make_v thou_o also_o and_o he_o who_o afford_v thou_o mean_n of_o nourishment_n will_v also_o afford_v thy_o child_n sufficient_a succour_n §._o 8._o of_o parent_n providence_n for_o their_o child_n itself_o the_o head_n whereunto_o all_o the_o particular_a duty_n which_o parent_n owe_v to_o their_o child_n may_v be_v refer_v be_v a_o provident_a care_n for_o their_o child_n good_a this_o extend_v itself_o to_o all_o time_n and_o to_o all_o thing_n to_o all_o time_n as_o to_o the_o infancy_n youth_n and_o man-age_n of_o their_o child_n and_o that_o not_o only_o while_o parent_n live_v but_o after_o their_o departure_n to_o all_o thing_n namely_o tend_v both_o to_o the_o temporal_a good_a of_o their_o child_n and_o also_o to_o their_o spiritual_a good_a child_n be_v of_o the_o very_a substance_n of_o their_o parent_n &_o therefore_o ought_v parent_n so_o far_o to_o seek_v their_o child_n good_a as_o their_o own_o the_o pattern_n of_o holy_a parent_n record_v and_o commend_v in_o scripture_n do_v lively_o set_v forth_o this_o provident_a care_n but_o this_o general_n we_o will_v exemplify_v in_o the_o particular_n and_o in_o order_n declare_v how_o parent_n must_v provide_v both_o for_o the_o temporal_a and_o also_o for_o the_o spiritual_a good_a of_o their_o child_n in_o every_o degree_n of_o their_o age_n they_o who_o at_o any_o time_n in_o any_o thing_n be_v negligent_a and_o careless_a of_o their_o child_n good_a offend_v in_o the_o contrary_a to_o this_o general_a duty_n the_o heinousnesse_n of_o which_o offence_n will_v appear_v in_o the_o particular_n §._o 9_o of_o a_o mother_n care_n over_o her_o child_n while_o it_o be_v in_o her_o womb_n the_o first_o age_n of_o a_o child_n be_v the_o infancy_n thereof_o i_o will_v therefore_o first_o show_v how_o therein_o parent_n must_v procure_v the_o temporal_a good_a of_o their_o child_n and_o then_o their_o spiritual_a good_a the_o first_o part_n of_o a_o child_n infancy_n be_v while_o it_o remain_v in_o the_o mother_n womb_n here_o therefore_o the_o
that_o father_n can_v endure_v therein_o their_o fault_n therefore_o must_v needs_o be_v the_o great_a if_o any_o way_n they_o be_v a_o occasion_n of_o their_o child_n put_v forth_o to_o nurse_n which_o i_o have_v the_o rather_o note_v because_o husband_n for_o the_o most_o part_n be_v the_o cause_n that_o their_o wife_n nurse_v not_o their_o own_o child_n and_o that_o partly_o by_o suffering_n and_o partly_o by_o egg_v they_o on_o to_o put_v out_o their_o child_n if_o husband_n be_v willing_a that_o their_o wife_n shall_v perform_v this_o duty_n and_o will_v persuade_v and_o encourage_v they_o thereto_o and_o afford_v they_o what_o help_v they_o can_v where_o one_o mother_n now_o nurse_v her_o child_n twenty_o will_v do_v it_o §._o 17._o of_o parent_n joint_a care_n about_o their_o child_n baptism_n there_o be_v a_o further_a duty_n to_o be_v perform_v of_o parent_n to_o their_o child_n even_o in_o their_o infancy_n and_o that_o be_v in_o regard_n of_o their_o spiritual_a good_a which_o be_v this_o parent_n ought_v to_o procure_v that_o their_o child_n be_v right_o baptize_v in_o due_a season_n this_o be_v indeed_o a_o common_a duty_n appertain_v to_o both_o parent_n but_o most_o principal_o to_o the_o father_n and_o that_o for_o two_o reason_n 1._o the_o father_n be_v the_o chief_a and_o principal_a governor_n and_o have_v the_o great_a charge_n according_o he_o ought_v to_o have_v the_o great_a care_n even_o in_o such_o matter_n as_o be_v common_a to_o both_o 2._o the_o mother_n at_o that_o time_n by_o reason_n of_o her_o travel_n and_o delivery_n be_v weak_a and_o not_o in_o case_n to_o have_v her_o head_n much_o trouble_v with_o many_o care_n much_o less_o able_a herself_o to_o take_v order_n for_o such_o weighty_a matter_n only_o the_o husband_n be_v to_o make_v know_v to_o his_o wife_n if_o she_o be_v not_o extraordinary_o weak_a what_o his_o purpose_n be_v concern_v the_o place_n time_n manner_n and_o other_o like_a circumstance_n of_o baptise_v the_o child_n and_o to_o advise_v with_o she_o about_o the_o name_n witness_n and_o such_o like_a point_n and_o if_o the_o husband_n be_v too_o backward_o and_o negligent_a the_o wife_n ought_v so_o far_o as_o she_o be_v able_a to_o put_v he_o in_o mind_n of_o his_o duty_n therein_o and_o to_o stir_v he_o up_o by_o herself_o or_o some_o other_o to_o perform_v it_o §._o 18._o of_o the_o reason_n to_o move_v parent_n to_o see_v their_o child_n baptize_v that_o parent_n be_v bind_v to_o procure_v baptism_n for_o their_o child_n these_o reason_n declare_v 1._o the_o commandment_n of_o god_n concern_v circumcise_n 5._o child_n in_o the_o room_n whereof_o baptism_n succee_v now_o â—nder_a the_o gospel_n col._n 2._o 11_o 12._o god_n commandment_n to_o â—his_fw-la duty_n be_v first_o give_v to_o abraham_n and_o that_o for_o himself_o â—nd_v all_o his_o posterity_n to_o observe_v gen._n 17._o 10._o after_o this_o it_o be_v â—n_v the_o law_n lay_v down_o as_o a_o positive_a statute_n leu._n 12._o 3._o 2._o the_o practice_n of_o the_o jew_n in_o a_o faithful_a and_o constant_a observance_n of_o this_o ordinance_n as_o of_o abraham_n of_o zachary_n and_o elizabe_v of_o joseph_n and_o mary_n and_o many_o other_o object_n the_o child_n which_o be_v bear_v in_o the_o wilderness_n be_v not_o circumcise_v answ_n they_o have_v no_o abide_v place_n in_o the_o wilderness_n but_o be_v ever_o and_o anon_o remove_v so_o as_o it_o will_v have_v be_v dangerous_a for_o the_o child_n to_o have_v be_v circumcise_v in_o that_o extraordinary_a case_n this_o rule_n take_v place_n i_o will_v have_v mercy_n and_o 7._o not_o sacrifice_v 3._o the_o practice_n of_o christian_n who_o believe_v be_v themselves_o 33._o and_o their_o whole_a household_n baptize_v under_o whole_a household_n child_n must_v needs_o be_v comprise_v 4._o christ_n embrace_v and_o bless_v such_o child_n as_o be_v 13._o bring_v to_o he_o and_o rebuke_v those_o that_o will_v have_v keep_v they_o from_o he_o 5._o the_o promise_n of_o god_n make_v to_o they_o for_o see_v god_n be_v so_o 39_o gracious_a as_o to_o extend_v his_o promise_n to_o our_o child_n our_o care_n must_v be_v to_o procure_v the_o seal_n which_o god_n offer_v for_o the_o confirmation_n of_o that_o promise_n 6._o the_o right_n they_o have_v to_o god_n kingdom_n baptism_n be_v a_o 14._o evidence_n of_o that_o their_o right_n it_o be_v parent_n duty_n to_o get_v they_o that_o evidence_n if_o child_n have_v just_a title_n to_o any_o land_n and_o revenue_n or_o to_o any_o earthly_a honour_n and_o dignity_n parent_n will_v do_v what_o they_o can_v to_o make_v that_o title_n sure_a unto_o they_o even_o in_o their_o infancy_n much_o more_o careful_a shall_v they_o be_v to_o make_v that_o rich_a and_o glorious_a inheritance_n which_o be_v in_o heaven_n reserve_v for_o they_o as_o sure_a unto_o they_o as_o they_o can_v now_o no_o better_a mean_n for_o the_o effect_n of_o this_o then_o baptism_n 7._o their_o conception_n and_o birth_n in_o sin_n child_n draw_v contagion_n 5._o from_o their_o parent_n therefore_o great_a reason_n it_o be_v that_o their_o parent_n shall_v see_v they_o wash_v with_o the_o water_n of_o regeneration_n 8._o the_o comfort_n which_o from_o the_o performance_n of_o this_o duty_n will_v arise_v to_o christian_a parent_n yea_o and_o to_o the_o child_n also_o themselves_o when_o they_o come_v to_o the_o age_n of_o understanding_n when_o parent_n behold_v the_o covenant_n of_o god_n sure_o seal_v and_o confirm_v to_o their_o child_n they_o can_v if_o at_o least_o they_o bear_v any_o love_n to_o their_o child_n but_o much_o rejoice_v therein_o and_o it_o must_v needs_o also_o much_o comfort_v the_o child_n when_o be_v of_o understanding_n he_o shall_v know_v that_o from_o his_o infancy_n he_o have_v carry_v the_o seal_n and_o pledge_v of_o his_o regeneration_n 9_o the_o constant_a continue_a custom_n of_o the_o true_a catholic_a in_fw-la church_n which_o ever_o since_o the_o apostle_n time_n have_v afford_v the_o 23._o sacrament_n of_o baptism_n to_o child_n §._o 19_o of_o parent_n procure_v their_o child_n to_o be_v right_o baptize_v there_o be_v such_o forceable_a motive_n to_o stir_v up_o parent_n to_o perform_v the_o duty_n which_o motive_n show_v it_o to_o be_v a_o weighty_a duty_n i_o will_v further_o show_v how_o this_o duty_n ought_v to_o be_v perform_v two_o thing_n in_o child_n baptism_n ought_v to_o be_v observe_v 1._o that_o it_o be_v right_o do_v 2._o that_o it_o be_v seasonable_o do_v in_o the_o right_a performance_n thereof_o some_o thing_n be_v necessary_a and_o some_o expedient_a thing_n of_o necessity_n be_v these_o especial_o 1._o that_o the_o child_n be_v baptize_v by_o a_o minister_n of_o the_o word_n 5._o 2._o that_o it_o be_v baptize_v with_o the_o element_n of_o water_n the_o only_a element_n sanctify_v to_o this_o purpose_n 3._o that_o the_o form_n prescribe_v by_o christ_n matth._n 28._o 19_o be_v 4._o use_v in_o the_o name_n of_o the_o father_n and_o of_o the_o son_n and_o of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n whereby_o the_o unity_n of_o the_o godhead_n and_o trinity_n of_o person_n be_v plain_o set_v forth_o 4._o that_o the_o proper_a rite_n be_v use_v of_o apply_v the_o water_n to_o the_o body_n of_o the_o child_n so_o as_o at_o least_o the_o face_n of_o the_o child_n may_v be_v sprinkle_v therewith_o thing_n of_o expediencie_n be_v 1._o that_o the_o child_n be_v baptize_v in_o a_o public_a place_n where_o god_n people_n ordinary_o meet_v together_o be_v set_v apart_o for_o the_o worship_n and_o service_n of_o god_n 2._o that_o such_o a_o time_n be_v choose_v out_o as_o a_o assembly_n of_o saint_n may_v be_v there_o present_a these_o two_o circumstance_n be_v the_o rather_o to_o be_v observe_v because_o baptism_n be_v one_o of_o the_o solemn_a part_n of_o god_n public_a worship_n a_o pledge_n of_o our_o incorporation_n into_o the_o body_n of_o christ_n and_o communion_n of_o his_o saint_n and_o therefore_o with_o the_o more_o solemnity_n as_o a_o matter_n of_o great_a moment_n before_o many_o witness_n with_o the_o assistance_n of_o the_o faithful_a prayer_n of_o a_o assembly_n of_o saint_n to_o be_v perform_v §._o 20._o of_o parent_n care_n to_o give_v a_o fit_a name_n to_o their_o child_n at_o his_o baptism_n a_o three_o matter_n of_o great_a expediencie_n about_o a_o child_n baptism_n be_v that_o parent_n be_v careful_a in_o give_v a_o fit_a name_n it_o belong_v to_o parent_n to_o give_v the_o name_n to_o their_o child_n for_o so_o name_n holy_a parent_n who_o pattern_n in_o scripture_n be_v in_o this_o respect_n commend_v unto_o we_o have_v do_v from_o time_n to_o time_n and_o for_o their_o warrant_n to_o do_v it_o it_o be_v worthy_a to_o be_v note_v that_o when_o god_n be_v please_v to_o appoint_v a_o name_n to_o a_o
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then_o to_o keep_v in_o their_o tongue_n with_o bit_n and_o bridle_n but_o most_o of_o all_o to_o take_v heed_n that_o their_o husband_n taste_v not_o of_o the_o bitterness_n thereof_o no_o not_o though_o they_o shall_v by_o some_o oversight_n of_o their_o husband_n be_v provoke_v it_o be_v to_o be_v note_v how_o solomon_n call_v the_o jar_n which_o be_v between_o man_n and_o wife_n the_o contention_n of_o a_o wife_n whereby_o he_o intimate_v that_o she_o common_o 13._o be_v the_o cause_n thereof_o either_o by_o provoke_v her_o husband_n or_o not_o bear_v with_o he_o §._o 16._o of_o a_o wife_n speech_n of_o her_o husband_n 36._o in_o his_o absence_n the_o reverence_n which_o a_o wife_n bear_v to_o her_o husband_n must_v further_o be_v manifest_v by_o her_o speech_n of_o he_o in_o his_o absence_n so_o do_v sarah_n manifest_v her_o reverence_n and_o so_o must_v all_o such_o as_o desire_v 12._o to_o be_v account_v the_o daughter_n of_o sarah_n the_o church_n speak_v of_o her_o spouse_n do_v it_o with_o as_o great_a reverence_n as_o if_o she_o etc._n have_v speak_v to_o he_o it_o be_v for_o honour_n and_o reverence_n sake_n that_o the_o virgin_n mary_n call_v joseph_n the_o father_n of_o jesus_n when_o she_o 48._o speak_v of_o he_o this_o show_v that_o a_o wife_n reverend_a speech_n in_o presence_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o to_o his_o face_n be_v not_o in_o flattery_n to_o please_v he_o and_o fawn_v upon_o he_o but_o in_o sincerity_n to_o please_v god_n and_o perform_v her_o duty_n contrary_n therefore_o to_o their_o duty_n deal_v they_o who_o in_o presence_n back_n can_v afford_v the_o fair_a and_o meek_a est_fw-fr speech_n that_o may_v be_v to_o their_o husband_n face_n but_o 36._o behind_o their_o back_n speak_v most_o reproachful_o of_o they_o §._o 17._o of_o a_o wife_n obedience_n in_o general_n hitherto_o of_o a_o wife_n reverence_n it_o follow_v to_o speak_v of_o her_o obedience_n the_o first_o law_n that_o ever_o be_v give_v to_o woman_n since_o her_o fall_n lay_v upon_o she_o this_o duty_n of_o obedience_n to_o her_o husband_n in_o these_o word_n 16._o thy_o desire_n shall_v be_v to_o thy_o husband_n and_o he_o shall_v rule_v over_o thou_o how_o can_v a_o husband_n rule_n over_o a_o wife_n if_o she_o obey_v not_o he_o the_o principal_a part_n of_o that_o submission_n which_o in_o this_o 22._o text_n and_o in_o many_o other_o place_n be_v require_v of_o a_o wife_n consist_v in_o obedience_n and_o therefore_o it_o be_v express_o commend_v unto_o wife_n in_o the_o example_n of_o sarah_n who_o 〈◊〉_d obey_v abraham_n thus_o by_o obedience_n do_v the_o church_n manifest_v her_o subjection_n to_o christ_n the_o place_n wherein_o god_n have_v set_v a_o husband_n namely_o to_o be_v a_o 23._o head_n the_o authority_n which_o he_o have_v give_v unto_o he_o to_o be_v a_o 6._o lord_n and_o 17._o master_n the_o duty_n which_o he_o require_v of_o he_o 16._o to_o rule_v do_v all_o require_v obedience_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v not_o obedience_n to_o be_v yield_v to_o a_o head_n lord_n and_o master_n take_v away_o all_o authority_n from_o a_o husband_n if_o you_o exempt_v a_o wife_n from_o obedience_n contrary_n be_v the_o stoutness_n of_o such_o wife_n as_o must_v have_v their_o stoutness_n own_o will_n and_o do_v what_o they_o list_v or_o else_o all_o shall_v be_v out_o of_o quiet_a their_o will_n must_v be_v do_v they_o must_v rule_v and_o over-rule_v all_o they_o must_v command_v not_o only_a child_n and_o servant_n but_o husband_n also_o if_o at_o least_o the_o husband_n will_v be_v at_o peace_n look_v into_o family_n observe_v the_o estate_n and_o condition_n of_o many_o of_o they_o and_o then_o tell_v i_o if_o these_o thing_n be_v not_o so_o if_o a_o husband_n be_v a_o man_n of_o courage_n and_o seek_v to_o stand_v upon_o his_o right_n and_o maintain_v his_o authority_n by_o require_v obedience_n of_o his_o wife_n strange_a it_o be_v to_o behold_v what_o a_o hurly_n burly_n she_o will_v make_v in_o the_o house_n but_o if_o he_o be_v a_o milksop_n and_o base_o yield_v unto_o his_o wife_n and_o suffer_v she_o to_o rule_v then_o it_o may_v be_v there_o shall_v be_v some_o outward_a quiet_a the_o ground_n hereof_o be_v a_o ambitious_a and_o proud_a humour_n in_o woman_n who_o must_v needs_o rule_v or_o else_o they_o think_v themselves_o slave_n but_o let_v they_o think_v as_o they_o list_v assure_o herein_o they_o thwart_v god_n ordinance_n pervert_v the_o order_n of_o nature_n deface_v the_o image_n of_o christ_n overthrow_n the_o ground_n of_o all_o duty_n hinder_v the_o good_a of_o the_o family_n become_v a_o ill_a pattern_n to_o child_n and_o servant_n lay_v themselves_o open_a to_o satan_n and_o incur_v many_o other_o mischief_n which_o can_v but_o follow_v upon_o the_o violate_v of_o this_o main_a duty_n of_o obedience_n which_o if_o it_o be_v not_o perform_v how_o can_v other_o duty_n be_v expect_v §._o 18._o of_o the_o case_n wherein_o a_o wife_n have_v power_n to_o order_v thing_n of_o the_o house_n without_o her_o husband_n consent_n a_o wife_n obedience_n require_v submission_n contentment_n  _fw-fr submission_n in_o yield_v to_o her_o husband_n mind_n and_o will_n 49._o contentment_n in_o rest_v satisfy_v and_o content_a with_o his_o estate_n and_o ability_n that_o submission_n consist_v in_o two_o thing_n first_o in_o abstain_v from_o do_v thing_n against_o her_o husband_n mind_n second_o in_o do_v what_o her_o husband_n require_v the_o former_a of_o these_o require_v that_o a_o wife_n have_v her_o husband_n consent_n for_o the_o thing_n which_o she_o do_v for_o the_o better_a clear_n whereof_o we_o be_v to_o consider_v 1._o what_o kind_n of_o husband_n they_o must_v be_v who_o consent_n be_v require_v 2._o how_o many_o way_n his_o consent_n may_v be_v give_v 3._o what_o be_v the_o thing_n whereabout_o his_o consent_n be_v to_o be_v expect_v for_o the_o first_o as_o on_o the_o one_o side_n it_o oft_o fall_v out_o that_o a_o wife_n consent_n provident_a and_o religious_a man_n 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of_o diverse_a kind_n of_o consent_n ii_o a_o consent_n may_v be_v general_a or_o particular_a a_o general_a consent_n consent_n be_v give_v when_o without_o distinct_a respect_n to_o this_o or_o that_o particular_a liberty_n be_v grant_v to_o a_o wife_n by_o her_o husband_n to_o do_v all_o thing_n as_o seem_v good_a in_o her_o own_o eye_n etc._n that_o excellent_a good_a wife_n and_o notable_a good_a housewife_n that_o be_v set_v forth_o by_o the_o wiseman_n have_v such_o a_o consent_n for_o first_o it_o be_v say_v 11._o the_o heart_n of_o her_o husband_n trust_v in_o she_o and_o than_o it_o be_v infer_v that_o she_o order_v all_o the_o thing_n of_o the_o house_n whereof_o many_o particular_n be_v there_o specify_v whence_o i_o gather_v that_o her_o husband_n observe_v she_o to_o be_v a_o godly_a wise_a faithful_a and_o industrious_a woman_n give_v her_o power_n and_o liberty_n to_o do_v in_o the_o household_n affair_n what_o she_o think_v good_a he_o be_v a_o public_a magistrate_n for_o 23._o he_o be_v know_v in_o the_o gate_n sit_v among_o the_o elder_n of_o the_o land_n and_o according_o she_o use_v her_o liberty_n a_o particular_a consent_n be_v that_o which_o be_v give_v to_o one_o or_o more_o particular_a consent_n thing_n as_o that_o consent_n 6._o which_o abraham_n give_v to_o sarah_n about_o hagar_n and_o 23._o that_o which_o elkanah_n give_v to_o hanna_n about_o tarry_v at_o home_n till_o her_o child_n be_v wean_v this_o particular_a consent_n may_v be_v express_v or_o imply_v a_o express_a consent_n be_v when_o the_o husband_n manifest_v his_o good_a like_n by_o word_n writing_n message_n or_o sign_n and_o that_o whether_o his_o consent_n be_v ask_v as_o be_v note_v in_o the_o example_n of_o elkanah_n or_o free_o offer_v a_o implicit_a consent_n when_o by_o any_o probable_a conjecture_n it_o may_v be_v gather_v that_o the_o husband_n will_v be_v not_o against_o such_o a_o thing_n consent_n though_o he_o have_v not_o manifest_v his_o mind_n concern_v 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her_o husband_n mind_n she_o ought_v when_o convenient_o she_o can_v to_o make_v know_v to_o her_o husband_n what_o she_o have_v do_v as_o without_o all_o question_n annah_n do_v and_o so_o much_o may_v be_v gather_v out_o of_o these_o word_n which_o elkanah_n utter_v to_o annah_n 23._o the_o lord_n establish_v his_o word_n §._o 20._o of_o the_o thing_n whereabout_o a_o wife_n must_v have_v her_o husband_n consent_n the_o thing_n whereabout_o a_o husband_n consent_n be_v to_o be_v expect_v be_v such_o as_o he_o by_o virtue_n of_o his_o place_n and_o authority_n have_v power_n to_o order_n as_o for_o example_n order_v and_o dispose_v the_o good_n cattle_n servant_n and_o child_n of_o the_o family_n entertain_v stranger_n yea_o also_o order_v even_o his_o wife_n go_v abroad_o and_o make_v of_o vow_n with_o the_o like_a now_o then_o distinct_o to_o lay_v down_o a_o wife_n duty_n in_o this_o first_o branch_n of_o obedience_n it_o be_v this_o a_o wife_n must_v do_v nothing_o which_o 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he_o will_v by_o no_o mean_n like_o it_o as_o rahel_n take_v her_o father_n idol_n without_o all_o 32._o consent_n of_o jaakob_n that_o be_v do_v direct_o against_o consent_n which_o be_v express_o forbid_v and_o disclaim_v by_o the_o husband_n but_o to_o descend_v to_o the_o particular_n before_o mention_v first_o concern_v the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n it_o be_v a_o question_n controvert_v whether_o the_o wife_n have_v power_n to_o dispose_v they_o without_o or_o against_o the_o husband_n consent_n before_o i_o determine_v the_o question_n i_o think_v it_o needful_a to_o declare_v 1._o what_o good_n 2._o what_o occasion_n of_o give_v the_o question_n be_v about_o §._o 21._o of_o the_o thing_n which_o a_o wife_n may_v dispose_v without_o her_o husband_n consent_n 1._o for_o the_o good_n some_o be_v proper_a and_o peculiar_a to_o the_o wife_n 16._o other_o be_v common_a good_n proper_a to_o the_o wife_n be_v such_o as_o before_o marriage_n she_o herself_o or_o her_o friend_n except_o from_o the_o husband_n to_o her_o sole_a and_o proper_a use_n and_o dispose_n whereunto_o he_o also_o yield_v or_o such_o as_o after_o marriage_n he_o give_v unto_o she_o to_o dispose_v as_o she_o please_v suppose_v it_o be_v some_o rent_n annuity_n fee_n â—ailes_n or_o the_o like_a these_o kind_n of_o good_n be_v exempt_v out_o of_o the_o question_n donata_fw-la in_o hand_n the_o wife_n have_v liberty_n to_o dispose_v they_o as_o she_o please_v without_o any_o further_a consent_n than_o she_o have_v by_o virtue_n of_o her_o hausband_n former_a grant_n to_o these_o i_o may_v refer_v other_o good_n but_o of_o another_o nature_n namely_o such_o as_o some_o friend_n of_o she_o suppose_v father_n mother_n brother_n or_o any_o other_o observe_v her_o husband_n to_o be_v a_o very_a â—ard_a man_n not_o allow_v sufficient_a for_o herself_o much_o less_o to_o distribute_v on_o charitable_a use_n shall_v give_v unto_o she_o to_o dispose_v as_o â—e_v please_v charge_v she_o not_o to_o let_v her_o husband_n know_v thereof_o how_o because_o it_o be_v in_o the_o power_n of_o a_o free_a donor_n to_o order_v his_o â—ift_n as_o he_o please_v and_o because_o he_o so_o order_v this_o gift_n as_o he_o will_v not_o have_v her_o husband_n know_v of_o it_o i_o doubt_v not_o but_o she_o may_v of_o herself_o according_a to_o the_o doner_n mind_n without_o her_o husband_n consent_n dispose_v such_o good_n she_o be_v herein_o but_o as_o a_o â—offee_n in_o trust_n again_o of_o common_a good_n some_o be_v set_v forth_o by_o the_o husband_n to_o be_v spend_v about_o the_o family_n other_o he_o reserve_v for_o a_o â—ocke_n or_o to_o lay_v forth_o as_o he_o himself_o shall_v see_v occasion_n concern_v those_o which_o be_v set_v forth_o to_o be_v spend_v i_o doubt_v â—ot_n but_o the_o wife_n have_v power_n
affection_n whereof_o i_o speak_v be_v not_o a_o carnal_a sensual_a beastly_a affection_n but_o such_o a_o one_o as_o may_v stand_v with_o christian_a gravity_n and_o so_o briety_n have_v relation_n to_o the_o soul_n of_o a_o man_n wife_n as_o well_o as_o to_o her_o body_n ground_v both_o on_o the_o near_a conjunction_n of_o marriage_n and_o also_o on_o the_o inward_a quality_n of_o his_o wife_n thus_o far_o of_o a_o husband_n inward_a respect_n of_o his_o wife_n it_o follow_v to_o speak_v of_o his_o outward_a carriage_n towards_o she_o §._o 13._o of_o a_o husband_n 10._o kind_a acceptance_n of_o such_o thing_n as_o his_o wife_n do_v s._n peter_n give_v a_o general_a rule_n for_o a_o husband_n outward_a carriage_n to_o his_o wife_n which_o be_v that_o he_o dwell_v with_o she_o according_a to_o knowledge_n that_o be_v as_o a_o man_n able_a to_o order_v his_o carriage_n wise_o to_o his_o own_o honour_n and_o his_o wife_n good_a that_o so_o she_o may_v have_v just_a cause_n to_o bless_v god_n that_o ever_o she_o be_v join_v to_o such_o a_o husband_n out_o of_o this_o general_a these_o two_o branch_n sprout_v forth_o 1._o that_o a_o husband_n give_v no_o just_a offence_n to_o his_o wife_n 2._o that_o wise_o he_o order_v that_o offence_n which_o be_v give_v by_o she_o to_o avoid_v give_v of_o offence_n he_o must_v have_v respect_n 1._o to_o that_o which_o she_o do_v as_o duty_n to_o he_o 2._o to_o that_o which_o he_o do_v as_o duty_n to_o she_o in_o regard_n of_o the_o former_a two_o thing_n be_v requisite_a 1._o that_o he_o kind_o accept_v what_o she_o be_v willing_a and_o able_a to_o do_v 2._o that_o he_o wise_o commend_v and_o reward_v what_o she_o do_v well_o thus_o have_v for_o order_n sake_n lay_v down_o these_o head_n i_o will_v distinct_o handle_v the_o several_a point_n the_o first_o particular_a wherein_n a_o husband_n show_v himself_o 8._o to_o be_v a_o man_n of_o knowledge_n in_o walk_v before_o his_o wife_n be_v by_o a_o kind_n and_o respective_a acceptation_n of_o every_o good_a duty_n which_o his_o wife_n perform_v abraham_n in_o testimony_n of_o his_o good_a acceptance_n of_o sarahs_n pain_n in_o nurse_v her_o child_n make_v a_o great_a feast_n when_o the_o child_n be_v wean_v and_o elkanah_n on_o a_o like_a respect_n give_v liberty_n 23._o to_o his_o wife_n to_o do_v what_o seem_v she_o best_o a_o great_a encouragement_n must_v this_o need_v be_v unto_o wife_n to_o be_v subject_a unto_o their_o husband_n in_o all_o thing_n when_o they_o observe_v no_o part_n of_o their_o subjection_n to_o be_v careless_o neglect_v but_o rather_o gracious_o accept_v it_o quicken_v the_o spirit_n of_o a_o wife_n to_o think_v that_o her_o care_n and_o pain_n in_o please_v her_o husband_n shall_v not_o be_v in_o vain_a §._o 14._o of_o husband_n slight_v and_o reject_v their_o wife_n goodness_n contrary_n be_v their_o practice_n who_o think_v all_o which_o a_o wife_n goodness_n do_v to_o be_v but_o her_o duty_n take_v little_a or_o no_o notice_n thereof_o or_o if_o they_o can_v but_o take_v notice_n of_o it_o yet_o light_o regard_v it_o and_o slight_o pass_v it_o over_o this_o oftentimes_o make_v a_o wife_n even_o repent_v the_o good_a she_o have_v do_v as_o david_n repent_v the_o service_n 21._o which_o he_o have_v do_v for_o nabal_n the_o truth_n be_v that_o wife_n ought_v rather_o to_o look_v unto_o god_n for_o his_o acceptation_n then_o unto_o their_o husband_n and_o though_o their_o husband_n will_v take_v no_o notice_n or_o not_o regard_v what_o good_a thing_n they_o do_v yet_o for_o conscience_n sake_n and_o for_o the_o lord_n sake_n to_o do_v their_o duty_n but_o yet_o notwithstanding_o consider_v our_o weakness_n and_o backwardness_n unto_o every_o duty_n it_o can_v not_o be_v deny_v but_o that_o a_o husband_n sleight_n regard_v of_o his_o wife_n goodness_n be_v a_o occasion_n to_o make_v her_o weary_a thereof_o and_o that_o he_o do_v as_o much_o as_o in_o he_o lie_v to_o make_v she_o repent_v thereof_o but_o what_o may_v we_o say_v of_o such_o as_o scornful_o reject_v their_o wife_n it_o duty_n yea_o like_v they_o the_o worse_a for_o make_v conscience_n thereof_o and_o so_o clean_a contrary_n to_o the_o rule_n of_o christianity_n overcome_v goodness_n with_o evil_n sure_o they_o show_v a_o very_a diabolical_a spirit_n 21._o to_o be_v in_o they_o and_o can_v but_o minister_v much_o grief_n and_o offence_n to_o their_o wife_n and_o make_v that_o which_o they_o do_v to_o be_v very_o irksome_a and_o tedious_a father_n ought_v not_o to_o provoke_v their_o 4._o child_n much_o less_o husband_n their_o wife_n §._o 15._o of_o husband_n 55._o courteous_a accept_v their_o wife_n reverend_a carriage_n for_o the_o better_a conceive_v of_o this_o so_o needful_a a_o point_n i_o will_v manifest_v somewhat_o more_o particular_o and_o distinct_o apply_v the_o same_o to_o the_o several_a duty_n of_o a_o wife_n which_o be_v draw_v to_o two_o head_n reverence_n obedience_n for_o the_o first_o if_o a_o wife_n manifest_v her_o dutiful_a respect_n of_o her_o 7._o husband_n by_o any_o reverend_a behaviour_n gesture_n or_o speech_n he_o ought_v to_o meet_v she_o as_o we_o say_v in_o the_o midst_n of_o the_o way_n and_o manifest_v his_o gracious_a acceptance_n thereof_o by_o some_o like_a courteous_a behaviour_n gesture_n and_o speech_n be_v seemly_a not_o foolish_a object_n thus_o shall_v a_o husband_n abase_v himself_o and_o disgrace_v his_o place_n answ_n the_o courtesy_n which_o i_o speak_v of_o as_o it_o come_v from_o a_o superior_a be_v a_o mere_a voluntary_a matter_n and_o a_o token_n superiority_n of_o kindness_n and_o favour_n be_v no_o abasement_n of_o himself_o but_o a_o advancement_n of_o his_o inferior_a a_o great_a grace_n to_o she_o no_o disgrace_n to_o he_o abram_n be_v count_v of_o the_o hittite_n a_o prince_n of_o 7._o god_n yet_o in_o commune_v with_o they_o he_o bow_v unto_o they_o it_o be_v note_v as_o a_o commendable_a thing_n in_o esau_n that_o though_o at_o that_o time_n he_o be_v his_o brother_n superior_a at_o least_o he_o take_v himself_o so_o to_o be_v yet_o observe_v how_o jaakob_n reverence_v he_o bow_v seven_o time_n to_o the_o ground_n he_o run_v to_o meet_v he_o and_o embrace_v 4._o he_o and_o fall_v on_o his_o neck_n most_o pertinent_a to_o the_o point_n be_v the_o example_n of_o king_n ahashverosh_n who_o behold_v esther_n reverend_a 2._o stand_n before_o he_o hold_v out_o his_o sceptre_n unto_o she_o which_o in_o a_o king_n be_v great_a courtesy_n but_o to_o put_v the_o matter_n out_o of_o all_o question_n let_v the_o example_n of_o christ_n note_v in_o salomon_n song_n be_v observe_v and_o we_o shall_v find_v his_o courtesy_n every_o way_n answer_v the_o reverence_n of_o his_o spouse_n §._o 15._o of_o husband_n too_o great_a loftiness_n contrary_n be_v a_o lofty_a carriage_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n who_o overlook_v all_o reverence_n show_v by_o wife_n no_o more_o respect_v their_o wife_n in_o this_o case_n than_o child_n or_o servant_n or_o than_o king_n do_v respect_v the_o reverence_n of_o their_o subject_n oft_o have_v i_o note_v that_o there_o be_v a_o great_a difference_n betwixt_o a_o wife_n and_o all_o other_o inferior_n in_o which_o respect_n all_o evidence_n of_o reverence_n shall_v much_o better_o be_v respect_v yet_o we_o know_v that_o king_n and_o queen_n will_v put_v out_o their_o hand_n to_o be_v kiss_v by_o their_o subject_n when_o they_o kneel_v before_o they_o which_o be_v a_o token_n of_o courtesy_n how_o much_o more_o ought_v husband_n to_o show_v courtesy_n unworthy_a they_o be_v to_o be_v reverence_v of_o their_o wife_n who_o too_o lordlike_o overlook_v they_o §._o 16._o of_o husband_n 15._o ready_a yield_v to_o their_o wife_n humble_a suit_n again_o it_o be_v a_o token_n of_o reverence_n in_o a_o wife_n humble_o to_o request_n make_v know_v her_o desire_n to_o her_o husband_n he_o ought_v to_o show_v so_o much_o courtesy_n as_o ready_o to_o grant_v her_o desire_n this_o courtesy_n the_o forename_a 3._o ahashuerosh_n afford_v to_o esther_n etc._n david_n to_o bathsheba_n 1._o isaak_n to_o rebekah_n 6._o abraham_n to_o sarah_n and_o many_o other_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n 11._o abraham_n show_v herein_o such_o respect_n to_o his_o wife_n that_o though_o the_o thing_n which_o she_o desire_v be_v grievous_a to_o he_o yet_o he_o yield_v to_o his_o wife_n object_n god_n first_o command_v he_o so_o to_o do_v answ_n this_o add_v the_o more_o force_n unto_o the_o argument_n show_v that_o it_o be_v god_n express_a will_n that_o a_o husband_n shall_v show_v this_o kind_n of_o courtesy_n to_o his_o wife_n much_o more_o ought_v a_o man_n to_o do_v at_o his_o wife_n request_n then_o at_o any_o other_o whether_o friend_n child_n or_o parent_n yea_o much_o more_o free_a
forward_o and_o cheerful_a aught_o he_o to_o show_v himself_o in_o grant_v his_o wife_n request_n then_o any_o other_o provide_v notwithstanding_o that_o her_o desire_n be_v of_o that_o which_o may_v lawful_o be_v grant_v to_o yield_v in_o thing_n unlawful_a be_v to_o lose_v his_o authority_n as_o be_v show_v 5._o before_o §._o 17._o of_o husband_n harshness_n to_o their_o wife_n contrary_n be_v the_o harshness_n of_o their_o disposition_n who_o yield_v to_o their_o wife_n request_n as_o a_o hard-milch-cow_n let_v down_o her_o milk_n not_o without_o much_o ado_n whereby_o the_o grace_n of_o all_o their_o yield_a be_v take_v away_o there_o can_v be_v no_o courtesy_n in_o yield_v when_o it_o be_v against_o their_o mind_n and_o will_n force_v from_o they_o their_o wife_n must_v ask_v and_o entreat_v again_o and_o again_o yea_o be_v force_v to_o use_v the_o mediation_n of_o other_o to_o persuade_v their_o husband_n to_o yield_v to_o their_o request_n before_o they_o will_v yield_v if_o 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parent_n prefer_v the_o young_a before_o the_o elder_a and_o this_o be_v plain_a partiality_n this_o kind_n of_o partiality_n be_v common_o in_o such_o parent_n as_o have_v have_v child_n by_o several_a wife_n sometime_o dislike_v of_o a_o former_a wife_n make_v a_o father_n dislike_v the_o child_n he_o have_v by_o she_o and_o through_o dislike_n to_o disinherit_v the_o heir_n by_o she_o god_n give_v the_o jew_n a_o express_a law_n against_o this_o kind_n of_o etc._n partiality_n sometime_o again_o a_o gripulous_a seek_v of_o advantage_n to_o themselves_o make_v parent_n to_o disinherit_v the_o right_a heir_n as_o when_o a_o man_n after_o he_o have_v bury_v the_o mother_n of_o his_o first_o bear_v hear_v of_o another_o woman_n which_o be_v of_o great_a wealth_n make_v suit_n for_o she_o she_o refuse_v because_o he_o have_v a_o heir_n of_o a_o former_a wife_n he_o to_o remove_v that_o block_n enter_v covenant_n to_o make_v the_o son_n which_o he_o have_v by_o she_o if_o he_o have_v 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beat_v down_o with_o blow_n 29._o smite_v a_o scorner_n say_v the_o wise_a man_n and_o again_o judgement_n be_v prepare_v for_o scorner_n and_o stripe_n for_o the_o back_n of_o fool_n see_v servant_n in_o year_n be_v in_o this_o case_n to_o be_v correct_v it_o be_v further_a requisite_a to_o put_v a_o difference_n betwixt_o the_o kind_n or_o measure_n of_o correction_n which_o be_v give_v to_o they_o and_o to_o the_o young_a sort_n if_o they_o be_v correct_v as_o child_n they_o may_v either_o make_v a_o toy_n of_o it_o or_o the_o more_o disdain_n at_o it_o 2._o blueness_n wound_n and_o stripe_n pierce_v into_o the_o inward_a part_n of_o the_o belly_n be_v a_o purge_a medicine_n against_o evil_n to_o stout_a servant_n of_o ripe_a year_n 2._o if_o there_o be_v a_o master_n and_o mistress_n joint_a governor_n over_o a_o house_n it_o be_v fit_a for_o the_o master_n to_o correct_v men-seruant_n the_o mistress_n maid_n 11._o abraham_n put_v his_o maid_n over_o to_o sarah_n in_o such_o a_o case_n yet_o if_o a_o maid_n shall_v wax_v stout_a and_o mannish_a and_o turn_v against_o her_o mistress_n she_o be_v weak_a sickly_a with_o child_n or_o otherwise_o unable_a to_o master_v her_o maid_n the_o master_n may_v and_o must_v beat_v down_o her_o stoutness_n and_o rebellion_n 20._o so_o much_o do_v the_o law_n of_o god_n permit_v 3._o if_o servant_n be_v of_o a_o ingenious_a disposition_n willing_a and_o forward_a to_o do_v that_o which_o belong_v unto_o they_o sorry_a when_o they_o have_v commit_v a_o fault_n and_o careful_a to_o amend_v their_o fault_n many_o thing_n may_v be_v pass_v over_o in_o they_o which_o must_v be_v correct_v in_o other_o to_o this_o may_v be_v apply_v the_o counsel_n of_o the_o wiseman_n take_v no_o heed_n to_o all_o the_o word_n that_o be_v 21._o speak_v 4._o correction_n must_v be_v measure_v according_a to_o the_o greatness_n 3._o of_o the_o fault_n punish_v and_o the_o circumstance_n whereby_o the_o fault_n may_v just_o be_v aggravate_v the_o servant_n that_o know_v his_o master_n will_v and_o do_v it_o not_o shall_v be_v beat_v with_o many_o stripe_n but_o he_o that_o know_v not_o and_o do_v commit_v thing_n worthy_a of_o stripe_n shall_v be_v beat_v with_o few_o stripe_n luk._n 12._o 47_o 48._o many_o aberration_n be_v daily_o commit_v contrary_a to_o every_o branch_n of_o this_o direction_n in_o that_o master_n and_o mistress_n in_o exercise_v this_o part_n of_o their_o power_n be_v carry_v away_o with_o passion_n and_o do_v that_o which_o they_o do_v in_o this_o kind_n after_o their_o own_o pleasure_n thus_o they_o turn_v a_o duty_n into_o sin_n and_o by_o undue_a correct_v of_o their_o servant_n provoke_v god_n to_o correct_v they_o in_o his_o wrath_n either_o here_o or_o in_o the_o world_n to_o come_v §._o 17._o of_o master_n power_n over_o their_o servant_n in_o and_o about_o their_o marriage_n the_o three_o point_n to_o be_v note_v concern_v a_o master_n power_n over_o his_o servant_n be_v about_o his_o servant_n 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servant_n from_o marry_v any_o other_o then_o who_o the_o master_n shall_v give_v 2._o quest_n be_v not_o a_o master_n power_n in_o the_o matter_n of_o marriage_n as_o great_a over_o a_o servant_n as_o a_o parent_n over_o a_o child_n answ_n no._n see_v the_o reason_n treat_n 5._o §_o 20._o 3._o quest_n may_v a_o master_n deny_v his_o servant_n liberty_n to_o marry_v answ_n yea_o for_o the_o time_n that_o the_o servant_n have_v covenant_v to_o be_v a_o servant_n with_o his_o master_n for_o that_o time_n a_o servant_n be_v part_n of_o his_o master_n good_n and_o possession_n as_o bond_n servant_n be_v a_o master_n possession_n for_o ever_o so_o covenant_v servant_n be_v his_o possession_n for_o the_o time_n of_o their_o covenant_n when_o god_n give_v the_o devil_n leave_v to_o seize_v on_o all_o that_o job_n have_v by_o virtue_n of_o that_o 16._o permission_n he_o seize_v on_o all_o kind_n of_o job_n servant_n bond_n and_o free_a as_o well_o as_o on_o his_o good_n which_o he_o can_v not_o have_v do_v if_o job_n servant_n have_v not_o be_v as_o his_o good_n yet_o notwithstanding_o if_o servant_n shall_v make_v it_o know_v to_o their_o master_n that_o necessity_n require_v they_o shall_v marry_v such_o respect_n ought_v to_o be_v have_v to_o the_o chastity_n even_o of_o servant_n as_o in_o this_o case_n i_o may_v use_v the_o phrase_n with_o the_o apostle_n use_v in_o reference_n to_o child_n let_v they_o be_v marry_v 36._o 4._o quest_n what_o if_o servant_n marry_v without_o consent_n of_o master_n be_v that_o marriage_n nullify_v thereby_o answ_n no._n the_o marriage_n be_v otherwise_o right_o perform_v valet_fw-la remain_v a_o firm_a marriage_n though_o the_o servant_n in_o so_o do_v have_v sin_v for_o which_o their_o master_n may_v just_o punish_v they_o 5._o quest_n may_v a_o master_n keep_v his_o servant_n so_o marry_v without_o his_o consent_n from_o their_o bedfellow_n answ_n he_o may_v exact_v the_o whole_a time_n of_o his_o covenant_n for_o service_n but_o that_o power_n which_o by_o the_o bond_n of_o marriage_n husband_n and_o wife_n have_v over_o one_o another_o body_n suffer_v 4._o they_o not_o to_o be_v altogether_o separate_v one_o from_o another_o beside_o our_o law_n free_v a_o maid-servant_n when_o she_o be_v marry_v from_o her_o master_n covenant_n §._o 18._o of_o master_n rigour_n in_o force_v marriage_n on_o servant_n or_o in_o separate_a man_n and_o wife_n contrary_n to_o a_o master_n power_n do_v they_o who_o force_n their_o servant_n to_o marry_v who_o they_o like_v not_o as_o when_o a_o master_n have_v deflower_v his_o maid_n to_o cover_v his_o shame_n he_o will_v make_v one_o of_o his_o servant_n marry_v she_o they_o also_o do_v contrary_a to_o their_o power_n who_o seek_v to_o separat_fw-la their_o servant_n that_o be_v marry_v from_o their_o bedfellow_n some_o will_v keep_v the_o man_n at_o his_o house_n day_n and_o night_n from_o his_o wife_n and_o so_o the_o wife_n from_o her_o husband_n other_o will_v send_v one_o of_o they_o into_o remote_a part_n of_o the_o land_n where_o the_o other_o shall_v not_o know_v yea_o other_o will_n be_v sure_a to_o keep_v they_o one_o from_o another_o for_o they_o will_v send_v one_o of_o they_o beyond_o sea_n for_o many_o year_n together_o if_o not_o for_o ever_o these_o practice_n be_v against_o the_o law_n of_o marriage_n and_o too_o rigorous_a and_o unjust_a §._o 19_o of_o master_n power_n to_o dispose_v their_o servant_n person_n the_o four_o point_n to_o be_v note_v of_o a_o master_n power_n over_o his_o servant_n respect_v their_o person_n which_o so_o proper_o belong_v to_o a_o master_n for_o the_o time_n of_o their_o service_n as_o he_o may_v not_o only_o keep_v they_o himself_o for_o his_o own_o service_n but_o also_o pass_v they_o over_o and_o give_v or_o sell_v they_o to_o another_o by_o god_n law_n not_o only_a 44._o stranger_n but_o jew_n also_o may_v be_v sell_v for_o servant_n the_o custom_n and_o statute_n of_o our_o land_n do_v also_o permit_v master_n servant_n to_o make_v over_o their_o servant_n from_o one_o to_o one_o and_o on_o their_o deathbed_n to_o bequeath_v they_o to_o who_o they_o will_v even_o as_o their_o good_n and_o possession_n that_o this_o power_n be_v not_o abuse_v in_o the_o execute_n thereof_o master_n must_v principal_o respect_v the_o good_a of_o their_o servant_n and_o for_o that_o end_n put_v they_o over_o to_o fit_a master_n such_o master_n as_o may_v do_v they_o good_a and_o not_o evil_a all_o the_o time_n of_o their_o abode_n with_o they_o and_o service_n under_o they_o contrary_n hereunto_o do_v they_o who_o aim_v mere_o at_o their_o own_o advantage_n not_o care_v to_o who_o they_o put_v over_o their_o servant_n so_o they_o may_v make_v gain_n thereby_o some_o will_v sell_v
they_o namely_o when_o they_o have_v they_o beyond_o sea_n to_o turk_n and_o infidel_n some_o to_o papist_n and_o other_o idolater_n some_o to_o profane_a person_n some_o to_o cruel_a inhuman_a beast_n some_o to_o man_n of_o unlawful_a trade_n some_o to_o man_n of_o no_o trade_n such_o master_n as_o make_v their_o servant_n over_o to_o such_o as_o these_o be_v or_o like_v to_o these_o shall_v answer_v for_o all_o the_o wrong_n be_v do_v to_o they_o §._o 20._o of_o master_n well_o manage_v their_o authority_n this_o apostle_n in_o 〈◊〉_d another_o place_n give_v this_o charge_n to_o master_n give_v unto_o your_o servant_n that_o which_o be_v just_a and_o equal_a by_o do_v these_o two_o thing_n master_n shall_v well_o manage_v their_o authority_n justice_n respect_v the_o place_n and_o service_n of_o servant_n deal_n equity_n respect_v their_o mind_n and_o manner_n of_o do_v service_n all_o servant_n in_o that_o they_o be_v servant_n and_o do_v their_o master_n work_n must_v have_v that_o which_o of_o right_n belong_v to_o servant_n this_o be_v justice_n such_o servant_n as_o bear_v a_o especial_a love_n and_o like_n to_o their_o master_n do_v service_n not_o by_o constraint_n or_o with_o eyeservice_n as_o men-pleasers_a but_o in_o singleness_n of_o heart_n with_o good_a will_n and_o all_o good_a faithfulness_n seek_v to_o the_o uttermost_a of_o their_o power_n their_o master_n good_a must_v be_v according_o respect_v and_o deal_v withal_o this_o be_v equity_n as_o the_o apostle_n comprise_v justice_n under_o this_o phrase_n do_v the_o same_o thing_n for_o service_n give_v due_a recompense_n so_o more_o especial_o he_o comprise_v equity_n under_o it_o for_o servant_n good_a will_n and_o more_o than_o usual_a respect_n of_o their_o master_n let_v master_n return_v good_a will_n and_o more_o than_o ordinary_a respect_n to_o servant_n s._n peter_n note_v these_o two_o virtue_n under_o two_o other_o word_n good_a 18._o gentle_a a_o master_n goodness_n have_v relation_n to_o justice_n his_o gentleness_n to_o equity_n §._o 21._o of_o master_n endeavour_v the_o salvation_n of_o their_o servant_n that_o justice_n which_o be_v require_v of_o master_n respect_v the_o soul_n body_n and_o estate_n of_o their_o servant_n in_o respect_n of_o their_o soul_n good_a master_n must_v seek_v the_o spiritual_a 15._o edification_n of_o their_o servant_n when_o zacheus_n first_o believe_v christ_n say_v salvation_n be_v come_v to_o this_o house_n luk._n 19_o 9_o why_o to_o this_o house_n rather_o than_o to_o this_o person_n but_o because_o he_o know_v that_o zacheus_n will_v do_v the_o duty_n of_o a_o good_a master_n and_o seek_v the_o salvation_n of_o his_o household_n herein_o must_v master_n bear_v a_o impartial_a respect_n to_o all_o in_o their_o house_n as_o the_o holy_a father_n who_o though_o about_o temporal_a good_n they_o put_v difference_n betwixt_o the_o place_n of_o child_n and_o condition_n of_o servant_n yet_o in_o serve_v god_n wherein_o eternal_a happiness_n be_v look_v for_o they_o do_v with_o a_o equal_a respect_n provide_v for_o all_o the_o member_n of_o their_o house_n the_o proof_n allege_v for_o servant_n obedience_n to_o master_n care_n in_o this_o point_n do_v show_v that_o this_o duty_n appertain_v to_o master_n see_v treat_n 7._o §_o 15._o the_o respect_n which_o master_n owe_v to_o god_n themselves_o their_o servant_n the_o church_n and_o commonwealth_n where_o they_o live_v require_v as_o much_o 1._o god_n have_v command_v as_o much_o deut._n 6._o 7._o as_o this_o charge_n imply_v thou_o shall_v talk_v of_o my_o law_n when_o thou_o sit_v in_o thy_o house_n and_o god_n have_v manifest_v his_o approbation_n thereof_o by_o commend_v abraham_n for_o command_v his_o child_n and_o household_n to_o keep_v the_o way_n of_o the_o lord_n gen._n 18._o 19_o 2._o master_n themselves_o reap_v great_a benefit_n by_o a_o faithful_a discharge_n 29._o of_o this_o duty_n and_o that_o both_o by_o discharge_v a_o good_a conscience_n to_o god_n who_o require_v this_o at_o their_o hand_n in_o that_o he_o have_v make_v they_o prophet_n and_o priest_n in_o their_o house_n as_o well_o as_o king_n and_o will_v require_v a_o account_n of_o they_o for_o all_o that_o be_v under_o their_o government_n and_o also_o by_o bring_v their_o servant_n to_o do_v more_o faithful_a service_n to_o they_o for_o there_o be_v no_o such_o mean_n to_o stir_v up_o servant_n to_o do_v all_o good_a duty_n as_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n plant_v in_o their_o heart_n that_o servant_n that_o shall_v find_v true_a grace_n either_o first_o wrought_v or_o further_o increase_v in_o he_o by_o his_o mastersmeane_n will_v think_v himself_o so_o behold_v to_o such_o a_o master_n as_o he_o shall_v never_o be_v able_a to_o make_v any_o sufficient_a recompense_n &_o therefore_o will_v endeavour_n to_o do_v what_o good_a service_n he_o can_v in_o way_n of_o thankfulness_n he_o will_v not_o only_o be_v faithful_a &_o diligent_a in_o his_o business_n but_o he_o will_v call_v upon_o god_n to_o prosper_v his_o service_n for_o his_o master_n good_a and_o to_o recompense_v that_o kindness_n which_o his_o master_n have_v do_v to_o he_o 3._o no_o earthly_a thing_n that_o a_o master_n can_v do_v for_o his_o servant_n be_v it_o portion_n of_o money_n preferment_n to_o any_o place_n of_o profit_n or_o credit_n or_o skill_n in_o a_o good_a trade_n and_o calling_n can_v be_v comparable_a to_o the_o edify_n of_o a_o servant_n in_o grace_n 4._o servant_n well_o instruct_v in_o piety_n be_v likely_a to_o prove_v most_o profitable_a not_o only_o to_o the_o family_n but_o also_o to_o the_o church_n and_o commonwealth_n where_o they_o live_v that_o master_n may_v the_o better_o edify_v their_o servant_n 1._o they_o must_v daily_o instruct_v they_o in_o the_o principle_n of_o religion_n servant_n and_o all_o duty_n of_o piety_n admirable_a be_v the_o profit_n which_o will_v arise_v from_o a_o daily_a and_o constant_a use_n of_o religious_a exercise_n though_o but_o a_o little_a time_n be_v spend_v at_o once_o yet_o will_v much_o knowledge_n be_v gain_v by_o a_o frequent_a use_n of_o they_o this_o duty_n be_v so_o much_o the_o more_o necessary_a because_o public_a minister_n can_v take_v such_o particular_a notice_n of_o every_o servant_n in_o their_o parish_n as_o master_n may_v in_o their_o family_n 2._o master_n must_v cause_v their_o servant_n to_o go_v to_o the_o public_a ministry_n of_o the_o word_n and_o worship_n of_o god_n to_o be_v further_o build_v up_o thereby_o and_o confirm_v in_o their_o faith_n master_n under_o the_o law_n be_v 44._o command_v to_o let_v their_o servant_n eat_v of_o the_o passeover_n which_o be_v a_o solemn_a sacrament_n the_o law_n which_o enjoin_v all_o male_n to_o appear_v 16._o on_o the_o solemn_a feast_n day_n before_o the_o lord_n imply_v that_o servant_n also_o shall_v go_v this_o duty_n must_v especial_o be_v perform_v on_o the_o lord_n day_n for_o the_o charge_n give_v to_o master_n in_o the_o four_o commandment_n for_o sanctify_v that_o day_n be_v extend_v to_o servant_n in_o these_o word_n thou_o nor_o thy_o man-seruant_n nor_o thy_o maid-servant_n 3._o master_n beside_o instruct_v servant_n at_o home_n and_o cause_v they_o to_o go_v to_o church_n must_v take_v a_o account_n of_o their_o profit_v both_o by_o the_o public_a and_o also_o by_o the_o private_a mean_n of_o edification_n otherwise_o they_o shall_v not_o know_v how_o to_o order_v their_o manner_n of_o instruct_v they_o when_o to_o give_v they_o milk_n &_o when_o strong_a meat_n 4._o to_o make_v the_o mean_n more_o effectual_a and_o profitable_a they_o must_v to_o instruction_n add_v prayer_n mean_n without_o god_n blessing_n upon_o the_o mean_n be_v nothing_o as_o they_o observe_v any_o grace_n wrought_v in_o their_o servant_n they_o must_v be_v thankful_a unto_o god_n for_o the_o same_o and_o pray_v for_o the_o increase_n of_o it_o §._o 22._o of_o master_n neglect_v to_o edify_v their_o servant_n contrary_n be_v the_o mind_n and_o practice_v of_o most_o master_n they_o think_v if_o they_o allow_v their_o servant_n sufficient_a diet_n lodging_n and_o clothing_n or_o wage_n according_a to_o their_o covenant_n they_o have_v do_v all_o that_o they_o need_v to_o do_v and_o answerable_o they_o do_v no_o more_o wherein_o they_o show_v themselves_o no_o better_o than_o the_o heathen_a for_o do_v not_o the_o heathen_a so_o object_n at_o first_o take_v of_o a_o servant_n no_o more_o be_v covenant_v answ_n there_o be_v two_o covenant_n whereunto_o a_o master_n stand_v bind_v one_o with_o god_n the_o other_o with_o his_o servant_n though_o his_o covenant_n with_o his_o servant_n require_v no_o more_o than_o some_o temporal_a commodity_n yet_o god_n covenant_n require_v spiritual_a edification_n many_o master_n be_v so_o greedy_a of_o their_o servant_n work_n as_o they_o be_v loath_a to_o afford_v any_o time_n at_o
praebuit_fw-la sapiens_fw-la verò_fw-la etiam_fw-la providentia_fw-la mamma_n foeminis_fw-la binas_fw-la effinxit_fw-la etc._n etc._n plut._n de_fw-fr justit_fw-la lib._n in_o ijs_fw-la animantibus_fw-la quae_fw-la lacte_fw-la aluntur_fw-la omnis_fw-la ferè_fw-la cibus_fw-la lactescere_fw-la incipit_fw-la cic._n de_fw-fr nat._n d._n mater_fw-la bernardi_n liberos_fw-la suos_fw-la alienis_fw-la uberibus_fw-la nutriendos_fw-la committere_fw-la refugiebat_fw-la quasi_fw-la cum_fw-la lacte_fw-la materno_fw-la materni_fw-la quodammodo_fw-la boni_fw-la infundens_fw-la eye_n naturam_fw-la guil._n abb._n de_fw-fr vit_fw-fr bern._n l._n 1._o c._n 1._o lam._n 4._o 3._o matres_fw-la maiore_fw-la study_v &_o cura_fw-la nutrient_a nempe_fw-la ex_fw-la ipsis_fw-la visceribus_fw-la diligunt_fw-la liberos_fw-la suos_fw-la cum_fw-la nutrices_fw-la utpote_fw-la quae_fw-la mercedem_fw-la ament_fw-la charitatem_fw-la praebeant_fw-la subditiciam_fw-la plut._n de_fw-fr instit_n lib._n arist_n oecon._n l._n 2._o c._n 3._o plutarch_n loc_n citat_fw-la a._n gellius_n noct._n attic._n comment_n li._n 12._o cap._n 1._o gen._n 24._o 59_o 2_o sam._n 4._o 4._o 2_o king_n 11._o 2._o gen._n 35._o 8._o ruth_n 4._o 16._o &_o 1._o 12._o exod._n 2._o 7._o num._n 11._o 12._o 1_o thes_n 2._o 7._o luke_n 16._o 1._o etc._n etc._n reu._n 15._o 16._o hos_fw-la 6._o 6._o matt._n 9_o 13._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 23._o gen._n 21._o 8._o veraciter_fw-la conijcere_fw-la possumus_fw-la quid_fw-la valeat_fw-la in_o parvulis_fw-la baptismi_fw-la sacramentum_fw-la ex_fw-la circumcisione_n etc._n etc._n aug._n de_fw-fr bap._n l._n 5._o c._n 24._o gen._n 21._o 4._o luk._n 1._o 59_o &_o 2._o 21._o jos_n 5._o 5._o mat._n 12._o 7._o act._n 16._o 15_o 33._o mat._n 19_o 13._o gen._n 17._o 7._o act._n 2._o 39_o mat._n 19_o 14._o psal_n 51._o 5._o consuetude_n matris_fw-la ecclesiae_fw-la in_fw-la baptizandis_fw-la paruulis_fw-la nequaquam_fw-la spernenda_fw-la est_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr gen._n l._n 10._o c._n 23._o matth._n 28._o 19_o joh._n 3._o 5._o in_o patrem_fw-la &_o in_o filium_fw-la &_o in_o spiritum_fw-la sanctum_fw-la baptizamur_fw-la ut_fw-la trinitatis_fw-la unum_fw-la appareat_fw-la sacramentum_fw-la sed_fw-la in_o uno_fw-la nomine_fw-la quod_fw-la intelligitur_fw-la deuâ—_n hier._n in_o eph._n 4._o parent_n must_v give_v the_o child_n name_n name_n gen._n 17._o 19_o matth._n 1._o 21._o luk._n 1._o 13._o 13._o luk._n 1._o 59_o &_o 2._o 21._o why_o the_o name_n be_v give_v at_o baptism_n fit_a name_n to_o be_v give_v luk._n 1._o 59_o etc._n etc._n read_v the_o rubric_n before_o the_o form_n of_o administer_a baptism_n in_o our_o common_a prayer_n book_n christianorum_fw-la silij_fw-la si_fw-la baptisma_fw-la non_fw-la receperint_fw-la scelus_fw-la refertur_fw-la ad_fw-la eos_fw-la qui_fw-la dare_v noluerint_fw-la maxim_n eo_fw-la tempore_fw-la quo_fw-la contradicere_fw-la non_fw-la pote_fw-la rant_v qui_fw-la accepturi_fw-la erant_fw-la hier._n ad_fw-la laet._n seleuciani_n baptismum_fw-la in_o aqua_fw-la non_fw-la accipiunt_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr haer._n 59_o chemnit_fw-la harm_n euang._n cap._n 16._o sine_fw-la mysterio_fw-la trinitatis_fw-la quicquid_fw-la in_o unam_fw-la aut_fw-la alteram_fw-la personam_fw-la accipitur_fw-la imperfectum_fw-la est_fw-la hier._n in_o joel._n 2._o act._n 2._o 38._o &_o 10._o 48._o &_o 19_o 5._o lasciva_fw-la nomina_fw-la paruulis_fw-la baptizandis_fw-la imponenda_fw-la non_fw-la sant_z joh._n de_fw-fr bur._n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d in_o prole_fw-la attenditur_fw-la ut_fw-la amanter_fw-la suscipiatur_fw-la benignè_fw-la nutriatur_fw-la religiosè_fw-la educetur_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr gen._n ad_fw-la lit_fw-fr l._n 9_o c._n 7._o refectionis_fw-la tempus_fw-la &_o mensura_fw-la &_o qualit_fw-la as_o pveris_fw-la competenter_fw-la discernantur_fw-la basil_n ascet_fw-la c._n 15._o 15._o 1_o king_n 14._o 2._o 2._o joh._n 4._o 47._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 8._o 1._o contrary_a covetousness_n non_fw-la est_fw-la boni_fw-la parentis_fw-la qucm_fw-la procrearit_fw-la &_o eduxerit_fw-la cum_fw-la non_fw-la &_o vestire_fw-la &_o ornare_fw-la cic._n de_fw-fr orat._n nun_n ipsae_fw-la ferae_fw-la foetus_fw-la suos_fw-la arctissimè_fw-la amant_fw-fr nihilne_n fando_fw-la de_fw-la pardis_fw-la apris_fw-la boumque_fw-la armentis_fw-la audijsti_fw-la quanto_fw-la cum_fw-la tremore_fw-la eorum_fw-la saluti_fw-la consulant_fw-la greg._n naz._n ad_fw-la ueial_n pro._n 27._o 7._o si_fw-mi parentum_fw-la incuria_fw-la silij_fw-la in_o intemperantiam_fw-la labentur_fw-la genitores_fw-la rei_fw-la animarum_fw-la illarum_fw-la fient_fw-la constit_fw-la apost_n l._n 4._o c._n 11._o i._o the_o kind_n of_o nurture_n nurture_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d see_v treat_n 1._o §._o 110._o 110._o pro._n 22._o 6._o 6._o leu._n 19_o 32._o pro._n 25._o 6._o luke_n 14._o 8._o 8._o gen._n 23._o 7._o &_o 43._o 33._o job_n 32._o 4_o 6._o 6._o job_n 30._o 1_o 12._o luke_n 14._o 7._o 1._o cor._n 14._o 40._o 40._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d rome_n 13._o 13._o 1_o thes_n 4._o 12._o phil._n 4._o 8._o 1_o king_n 10._o 5._o gen._n 43._o 33._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 1._o 1_o thes_n 4._o 12._o matt._n 23._o 23._o 1_o cor._n 14._o 33._o admonition_n to_o schoolmaster_n pro_fw-la 22._o 6._o 6._o gen._n 4._o 2._o 2._o gen._n 37._o 12._o 12._o gen._n 29._o 9_o 9_o exo._n 2._o 16._o 16._o 1_o sam._n 16._o 7._o benefit_n of_o a_o good_a call_n psal_n 91._o 11._o direction_n for_o choice_n of_o calling_n 1._o general_n principle_n be_v to_o be_v teach_v non_fw-la sunt_fw-la contemnenda_fw-la quasi_fw-la parua_fw-la sine_fw-la quibus_fw-la magna_fw-la constare_fw-la non_fw-la possunt_fw-la hier._n ad_fw-la laet._n 2._o the_o calling_n must_v be_v lawful_a 3._o the_o calling_n must_v be_v fit_a for_o the_o child_n ability_n 4._o the_o best_a calling_n must_v be_v prefer_v 1_o cor._n 12._o 31._o child_n to_o be_v train_v up_o to_o the_o ministry_n mat._n 12._o 44._o solon_n legibus_fw-la cavisse_fw-la legitur_fw-la ut_fw-la filius_fw-la quem_fw-la parent_n nullam_fw-la artem_fw-la docuissent_fw-la non_fw-la cogeretur_fw-la illos_fw-la alere_fw-la senio_fw-la confectos_fw-la aut_fw-la ad_fw-la inopiam_fw-la redactos_fw-la eras_n instit_n matrim_n phoenices_fw-la veneri_fw-la donum_fw-la dabant_fw-la de_fw-la prostitatione_n filiarum_fw-la antequam_fw-la iungerent_n eas_fw-la viris_fw-la aug_n de_fw-fr ciu._n d._n l._n 4_o c._n 10._o vide_fw-la lud._n uiu_fw-la in_o hunc_fw-la loc_n recte_fw-la dicuntur_fw-la parent_n filios_fw-la daemoniorum_fw-la sacrilegijs_fw-la obligare_fw-la conantes_fw-la spir_fw-la taliter_fw-la homicidae_fw-la aug._n epist_n 23._o infans_fw-la tibi_fw-la est_fw-la ab_fw-la infantia_fw-la sanctitate_fw-la imbuatur_fw-la abipsis_fw-la unguiculis_fw-la spiritui_fw-la consecre_n tur_fw-la greg._n naz._n orat._n 40._o in_o s._n bapt._n lege_fw-la hier._n epist_n ad_fw-la laet._n laet._n deut._n 4._o 9_o &_o 6._o 7_o &_o 11._o 19_o psal_n 78._o 5_o 6._o 6._o exo._n 12_o 26._o &_o 13._o 14._o 14._o jos_n 4._o 6_o 7_o 21._o 21._o deul_n 6._o 20._o 20._o gen._n 18._o 19_o 19_o pro._n 4_o 4._o 4._o &_o 31._o 1._o 1._o 2_o tim._n 1._o 5._o reason_n 1._o benefit_n of_o piety_n 2._o necessity_n of_o piety_n fiunt_fw-la non_fw-la nascuntur_fw-la christiani_n hier._n ad_fw-la laet._n 3._o charge_v of_o parent_n parent_n 1_o sam._n 3._o 13._o why_o parent_n as_o well_o as_o minister_n be_v w_a to_o teach_v piety_n 4._o equity_n equity_n psal_n 51._o 5._o 5._o ezec._n 16._o 20_o 21._o 5._o god_n child_n 6._o cause_o of_o obedience_n 7._o comfort_n of_o parent_n on_o their_o deathbed_n 8._o propagation_n of_o piety_n 1._o principle_n of_o piety_n to_o be_v all_o take_v out_o of_o god_n word_n 2_o tim._n 1._o 13._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d mat._n 7._o 9_o 10_o 11._o 2._o let_v child_n at_o first_o read_v the_o scripture_n sacrae_fw-la scripturae_fw-la nominibus_fw-la utantur_fw-la &_o loco_fw-la fabularum_fw-la selectae_fw-la illis_fw-la historiae_fw-la narrentur_fw-la &_o sententijs_fw-la proverbialibus_fw-la ex_fw-la solomone_n instituantur_fw-la basil_n ascet_fw-la c._n 15._o 3_o catechise_v child_n daily_o deut._n 6._o 7._o isa_n 28._o 10._o 4._o take_v all_o occasion_n from_o sensible_a thing_n to_o make_v a_o spiritual_a use_n deut._n 6._o 7._o 5._o open_v the_o mystery_n of_o the_o rite_n of_o the_o church_n exo._n 12._o 26._o &_o 13._o 14._o 6._o let_v god_n great_a work_n be_v declare_v jos_n 4._o 6_o 21._o 7._o let_v religious_a master_n be_v choose_v 1_o sam._n 1._o 25._o magister_fw-la probae_fw-la aetatis_fw-la &_o aquavitae_fw-la atque_fw-la eruditionis_fw-la est_fw-la eligendus_fw-la hier._n ad_fw-la laet._n 8._o be_v a_o example_n example_n jos_n 24._o 15._o 15._o psal_n 101._o 2._o nihil_fw-la in_o te_fw-la &_o in_fw-la patre_fw-la svo_fw-la videat_fw-la quod_fw-la si_fw-la fecerit_fw-la peccet_fw-la mementote_fw-la vos_fw-la parent_n virgin_n magis_fw-la eam_fw-la exemplis_fw-la doceri_fw-la posse_fw-la quam_fw-la voce_fw-la hier._n ad_fw-la laet._n job_n non_fw-la tantum_fw-la pro_fw-la corpore_fw-la filiorum_fw-la sollicitus_fw-la erat_fw-la sed_fw-la plus_fw-la de_fw-la anima_fw-la cogitabat_fw-la orig._n in_o job._n lib._n 1._o alexander_n &_o in_o moribus_fw-la &_o in_o incessu_fw-la l._n eonidis_fw-la paedagogi_fw-la svi_fw-la non_fw-la potuit_fw-la career_n vitijs_fw-la quibus_fw-la adbuc_fw-la paruulus_fw-la fuit_fw-la infectus_fw-la hier._n ad_fw-la laet._n parent_n non_fw-la educant_fw-la filios_fw-la in_o erudition_n domini_fw-la quia_fw-la solliciti_fw-la non_fw-la sunt_fw-la pro_fw-la salute_v vel_fw-la perditione_n eorum_fw-la