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A33338 Medulla theologiæ, or, The marrow of divinity contained in sundry questions and cases of conscience, both speculative and practical : the greatest part of them collected out of the works of our most judicious, experienced and orthodox English divines, the rest are supplied by the authour / by Sa. Clarke ... Clarke, Samuel, 1599-1682. 1659 (1659) Wing C4547; ESTC R1963 530,206 506

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word_n ib._n but_o if_o we_o be_v convert_v why_o shall_v we_o hear_v so_o oft_o p._n 222._o whether_o be_v not_o this_o call_n the_o same_o with_o sanctification_n ib._n what_o be_v the_o nature_n of_o the_o call_v of_o god_n ib._n wherein_o do_v the_o necessity_n of_o this_o call_v appear_v p._n 223._o how_o be_v it_o a_o ground_n of_o faith_n ib._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o inward_a call_n ib._n what_o be_v the_o fruit_n of_o effectual_a call_n p._n 224._o what_o be_v the_o mark_n of_o it_o ib._n what_o be_v the_o sign_n of_o it_o ib._n chap._n xxv_o about_o care_n of_o the_o world_n how_o manifold_a be_v the_o care_n of_o the_o world_n p._n 225._o how_o may_v we_o arm_v ourselves_o against_o they_o p._n 226._o object_n i_o shall_v not_o take_v so_o much_o care_n be_v it_o not_o for_o my_o child_n p._n 228._o why_o shall_v we_o not_o be_v careful_a about_o worldly_a thing_n ib._n chap._n xxvi_o about_o charity_n beneficence_n and_o mercy_n what_o be_v charity_n p._n 229._o what_o be_v beneficence_n ib._n be_v these_o duty_n require_v of_o all_o ib._n who_o be_v the_o object_n of_o beneficence_n ib._n what_o be_v the_o property_n of_o it_o ib._n how_o must_v we_o show_v our_o cheerfulness_n in_o give_v p._n 230._o who_o shall_v be_v the_o object_n of_o it_o ib._n from_o what_o cause_n shall_v charity_n arise_v p._n 231._o how_o may_v we_o best_o perform_v work_n of_o charity_n ib._n what_o be_v the_o right_a end_n of_o charity_n p._n 232._o what_o must_v we_o give_v ib._n how_o much_o shall_v we_o give_v p._n 233._o what_o rule_n must_v we_o observe_v therein_o ib._n who_o may_v give_v and_o that_o lawful_o ib._n whether_o may_v the_o wife_n give_v without_o her_o husband_n consent_n p._n 234._o etc._n etc._n sundry_a objection_n about_o it_o answer_v ib._n to_o who_o be_v alm_n to_o be_v give_v p._n 236._o what_o order_n must_v we_o observe_v in_o give_v ib._n in_o what_o manner_n may_v we_o best_o give_v p._n 237._o whether_o may_v we_o give_v at_o our_o door_n ib._n what_o may_v we_o think_v of_o they_o that_o give_v alm_n at_o their_o death_n ib._n how_o may_v the_o alm_n of_o christian_n be_v difference_v from_o those_o of_o worldling_n p._n 239._o how_o many_o way_n must_v we_o express_v our_o charity_n p._n 240._o when_o must_v we_o forgive_v debt_n ib._n how_o must_v we_o relieve_v by_o free_a lend_n ib._n be_v alms-deed_n arbitrary_a or_o a_o act_n of_o righteousness_n ib._n what_o other_o argument_n may_v provoke_v we_o to_o charity_n p._n 241._o many_o objection_n answer_v p._n 242_o etc._n etc._n what_o else_o may_v move_v we_o to_o charity_n objection_n answer_v p._n 244._o do_v god_n take_v notice_n of_o our_o work_n of_o charity_n p._n 245._o what_o may_v move_v we_o to_o perseverance_n therein_o ib._n what_o warrant_v have_v the_o widow_n of_o sarepta_n to_o relieve_v the_o prophet_n before_o herself_o and_o son_n p._n 246._o be_v a_o man_n to_o prefer_v a_o godly_a stranger_n before_o his_o brother_n that_o be_v not_o so_o ib._n whether_o be_v we_o to_o relieve_v many_o stranger_n before_o one_o godly_a man_n in_o want_n ib._n why_o be_v give_v to_o the_o poor_a a_o duty_n ib._n what_o shall_v we_o be_v the_o better_a for_o our_o bounty_n ib._n how_o may_v we_o be_v enable_v to_o work_n of_o mercy_n p._n 247._o from_o what_o must_v we_o save_v that_o we_o may_v have_v to_o give_v p._n 248._o how_o much_o must_v we_o lay_v aside_o ib._n objection_n answer_v ib._n what_o may_v further_o move_v we_o to_o charity_n p._n 250._o what_o be_v spiritual_a alm_n ib._n what_o be_v christ_n meaning_n when_o he_o say_v lend_v look_v for_o nothing_o again_o p._n 251._o why_o must_v we_o so_o lend_v ib._n why_o be_v it_o blesseder_n to_o give_v then_o to_o receive_v p._n 252._o what_o be_v it_o to_o be_v a_o giver_n what_o to_o be_v a_o receiver_n ib._n chap._n xxvii_o about_o chastity_n who_o may_v be_v say_v to_o be_v chaste_a p._n 253._o what_o hurt_v chastity_n ib._n when_o be_v inward_a lust_n most_o vile_a ib._n what_o be_v the_o inward_a and_o outward_a thing_n that_o hurt_v it_o ib._n what_o be_v the_o remote_a provocation_n to_o it_o ib._n what_o be_v the_o near_a provocation_n to_o it_o p._n 254._o may_v we_o labour_v to_o cover_v deformity_n in_o our_o body_n ib._n how_o may_v we_o preserve_v our_o chastity_n ib._n what_o be_v chastity_n p._n 255._o chap._n xxviii_o about_o child_n what_o be_v the_o best_a course_n to_o have_v comfort_n in_o our_o child_n p._n 257._o what_o may_v move_v parent_n to_o labour_n after_o it_o ib._n wherein_o especial_o do_v their_o duty_n consist_v that_o they_o may_v find_v this_o comfort_n ib._n whether_o child_n shall_v be_v teach_v the_o scripture_n p._n 258._o how_o must_v child_n manifest_v their_o reverence_n to_o their_o parent_n ib._n whether_o we_o may_v call_v any_o upon_o earth_n father_n ib._n what_o if_o child_n be_v more_o wealthy_a and_o honourable_a than_o their_o parent_n ib._n whether_o child_n shall_v ask_v their_o parent_n blessing_n ib._n objection_n against_o it_o answer_v p._n 259._o what_o other_o duty_n do_v child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n ib._n wherein_o consist_v their_o obedience_n ib._n wherein_o their_o parent_n consent_n be_v necessary_a ib._n why_o must_v parent_n consent_v be_v have_v in_o their_o marriage_n p._n 260._o what_o if_o they_o urge_v they_o to_o marry_v such_o as_o they_o can_v love_v ib._n what_o if_o they_o neglect_v to_o provide_v they_o match_n in_o due_a time_n ib._n other_o case_n about_o their_o marriage_n answer_v ib._n wherein_o consist_v child_n active_a obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n p._n 261._o what_o if_o parent_n mistake_v in_o matter_n reprove_v may_v not_o a_o child_n make_v answer_v ib._n what_o be_v the_o extent_n of_o child_n obedience_n to_o parent_n ib._n if_o child_n yield_v better_a reason_n may_v they_o not_o refuse_v to_o obey_v ib._n what_o be_v further_o require_v of_o child_n to_o their_o parent_n and_o what_o rule_v therein_o p._n 262._o what_o duty_n do_v child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n after_o death_n ib._n how_o must_v child_n perform_v all_o duty_n to_o their_o parent_n p._n 263._o must_v equal_a respect_n be_v show_v to_o both_o parent_n ib._n whether_o the_o father_n must_v be_v prefer_v before_o the_o mother_n ib._n what_o if_o one_o command_v what_o the_o other_o forbid_v ib._n whether_o stepfather_n in_o law_n must_v be_v obey_v ib._n objection_n answer_v ib._n must_v child_n be_v subject_a to_o guardian_n and_o tutor_n p._n 264._o what_o argument_n may_v move_v child_n to_o be_v subject_a to_o their_o parent_n ib._n what_o if_o child_n be_v grow_v in_o year_n and_o not_o under_o their_o parent_n government_n ib._n whether_o be_v many_o child_n a_o blessing_n ib._n may_v parent_n make_v void_a a_o contract_n make_v by_o their_o child_n without_o or_o against_o their_o consent_n ib._n whether_o be_v marriage_n make_v without_o parent_n consent_v valid_a ib._n what_o rule_n must_v parent_n observe_v in_o give_v name_n to_o their_o child_n ib._n who_o be_v too_o curious_a herein_o ib._n who_o be_v too_o careless_a p._n 265._o why_o must_v there_o be_v such_o care_n have_v in_o name_v they_o ib._n when_o be_v it_o fit_a to_o give_v name_n to_o our_o child_n ib._n how_o far_o be_v child_n that_o be_v marry_v or_o call_v to_o public_a office_n bind_v to_o obey_v their_o parent_n ib._n what_o general_a rule_n be_v there_o to_o observe_v in_o obey_v their_o parent_n ib._n chap._n xxix_o about_o christ._n what_o be_v we_o to_o conceive_v of_o the_o incarnation_n of_o christ_n p._n 267._o how_o may_v this_o knot_n be_v untie_v ib._n how_o may_v we_o understand_v it_o ib._n what_o be_v further_o to_o be_v consider_v about_o it_o p._n 268._o what_o be_v the_o nature_n that_o be_v assume_v by_o the_o son_n of_o god_n ib._n what_o be_v further_a considerable_a about_o christ_n ib._n what_o else_o p._n 269._o what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o christ_n priestly_a office_n ib._n why_o must_v christ_n be_v a_o propitiation_n for_o our_o sin_n ib._n what_o satisfaction_n do_v christ_n as_o our_o surety_n bind_v himself_o to_o perform_v p._n 270._o what_o be_v the_o principal_a debt_n ib._n why_o must_v he_o be_v man_n ib._n why_o must_v he_o be_v god_n ib._n how_o may_v that_o appear_v ib._n what_o other_o debt_n be_v we_o liable_a to_o which_o we_o must_v discharge_v p._n 271._o why_o must_v christ_n be_v more_o than_o man_n p._n 272._o how_o be_v the_o redemption_n purchase_v by_o christ_n convey_v to_o we_o ib._n what_o else_o be_v require_v p._n 273._o how_o may_v this_o mystery_n be_v further_o open_v ib._n what_o be_v further_o to_o be_v consider_v herein_o p._n 274._o what_o be_v the_o bond_n of_o this_o mystical_a
preservative_n against_o it_o prov._n 2.1_o 3_o 4_o 11_o 12_o 16_o 17._o psal._n 119.9_o 1_o joh._n 2.14_o 8._o remember_v thy_o creator_n in_o the_o day_n of_o thy_o youth_n eccl._n 12.1_o consider_v that_o god_n do_v not_o make_v thou_o to_o wallow_v in_o the_o mire_n of_o these_o swinish_a pollution_n meditate_v also_o of_o thy_o own_o mortality_n that_o the_o thought_n of_o thy_o death_n may_v be_v the_o death_n of_o thy_o lust_n 1_o p●t_n 2.11_o 9_o walk_v in_o love_n when_o paul_n charge_v the_o ephesian_n to_o avoid_v fornication_n he_o serious_o advise_v they_o to_o walk_v in_o love_n eph._n 5.2_o 3._o as_o know_v that_o the_o exercise_n of_o true_a christian_a love_n breed_v such_o desire_n of_o holiness_n as_o mighty_o fence_v the_o heart_n against_o all_o base_a lust_n whatsoever_o 10._o avoid_v too_o great_a estimation_n of_o earthly_a thing_n which_o breed_v lust_n 1_o tim._n 6.9_o 11._o take_v heed_n of_o contemplative_a wickedness_n cast_v not_o about_o how_o to_o 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case_n of_o conscience_n about_o child_n quest._n what_o be_v the_o best_a course_n that_o parent_n can_v take_v to_o have_v comfort_n in_o their_o child_n answ._n the_o best_a way_n to_o have_v gracious_a child_n be_v to_o begin_v at_o religion_n plant_v it_o in_o they_o as_o their_o tender_a year_n will_v bear_v train_v they_o up_o in_o the_o knowledge_n and_o information_n of_o the_o lord_n drop_v into_o they_o by_o little_a and_o little_a the_o seed_n of_o holiness_n provide_v if_o it_o be_v possible_a that_o they_o may_v suck_v in_o holiness_n with_o their_o mother_n milk_n quest._n what_o may_v move_v parent_n hereunto_o answ._n first_o they_o shall_v consider_v that_o they_o have_v be_v the_o cause_n of_o their_o child_n evil_n and_o help_v they_o into_o sin_n beget_v they_o in_o their_o own_o image_n and_o so_o have_v bring_v much_o misery_n upon_o they_o and_o therefore_o they_o have_v need_v also_o to_o endeavour_v to_o bring_v they_o out_o of_o it_o second_o this_o be_v a_o 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soon_o as_o he_o be_v wean_v 1_o sam._n 1.24_o solomon_n be_v a_o tender_a child_n when_o his_o father_n teach_v he_o prov._n 4.4_o timothy_n be_v acquaint_v with_o the_o scripture_n of_o a_o child_n 2_o tim._n 1.5_o and_o the_o excellent_a fruit_n of_o this_o timely_a instruction_n appear_v in_o they_o all_o tailor_z on_z titus_n quest._n how_o must_v child_n manifest_v their_o reverence_n to_o their_o parent_n answ._n first_o by_o their_o word_n and_o that_o divers_a way_n 1._o give_v they_o reverend_a and_o honourable_a title_n of_o all_o which_o father_n and_o mothe●_n be_v fit_a object_n but_o this_o title_n of_o father_n be_v so_o proper_a to_o god_n that_o we_o be_v to_o call_v none_o on_o earth_n father_n mat._n 23.9_o answ._n this_o be_v not_o simple_o to_o be_v take_v of_o the_o title_n itself_o but_o of_o the_o mind_n of_o he_o that_o give_v or_o affect_v it_o if_o it_o be_v give_v or_o affect_v to_o obscu●_n god_n fathertherhood_n or_o to_o make_v a_o man_n a_o father_n 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21.30_o quest._n how_o else_o must_v they_o show_v their_o reverence_n to_o their_o parent_n answ._n second_o by_o their_o carriage_n towards_o their_o parent_n which_o consist_v in_o these_o particular_n 1._o if_o the_o child_n know_v that_o his_o parent_n be_v come_v he_o shall_v haste_v to_o meet_v he_o so_o gen._n 46.29_o 1_o king_n 2.19_o 2._o do_v such_o childlike_a obeisance_n as_o become_v their_o age_n and_o sex_n as_o uncover_v the_o head_n bend_v the_o knee_n bow_v the_o body_n stand_v up_o etc._n etc._n so_o gen._n 41.12_o 1_o king_n 2.19_o 3._o their_o countenance_n and_o gesture_n must_v be_v sober_a and_o modest_a in_o their_o parent_n presence_n 4._o they_o must_v give_v the_o place_n and_o upper_a hand_n to_o their_o parent_n quest._n but_o what_o if_o the_o child_n be_v more_o wealthy_a and_o honourable_a than_o the_o parent_n answ._n no_o honour_n be_v comparable_a to_o the_o dignity_n of_o fatherhood_n indeed_o a_o child_n by_o reason_n of_o some_o honour_n and_o office_n may_v in_o public_a be_v force_v to_o take_v place_n of_o a_o parent_n but_o they_o must_v not_o do_v it_o in_o private_a 5._o according_a to_o the_o custom_n of_o the_o time_n and_o place_n they_o must_v ask_v they_o blessing_n so_o gen._n 27.19_o and_o 48.1_o etc._n etc._n object_n these_o have_v the_o spirit_n of_o pprophecy_n whereby_o they_o can_v foreshow_v what_o shall_v come_v to_o pass_v afterward_o which_o make_v their_o child_n come_v to_o they_o answ._n first_o their_o blessing_n be_v more_o than_o prediction_n for_o they_o be_v also_o assurance_n that_o god_n will_v perform_v those_o blessing_n to_o their_o child_n for_o they_o be_v both_o prophet_n and_o father_n as_o prophet_n they_o foretell_v thing_n as_o father_n the_o obtain_v the_o blessing_n
pronounce_v and_o a_o assurance_n thereof_o to_o their_o child_n and_o that_o by_o faith_n and_o prayer_n second_o though_o parent_n can_v with_o such_o a_o extraordinary_a spirit_n assure_v to_o their_o child_n any_o distinct_a particular_a blessing_n yet_o the_o faithful_a prayer_n of_o parent_n be_v a_o special_a and_o ordinary_a mean_n to_o obtain_v the_o blessing_n on_o their_o child_n god_n promise_v extend_v to_o the_o faithful_a and_o their_o seed_n gen._n 17.7_o act_n 2.39_o prov._n 15.8_o object_n if_o parent_n be_v wicked_a their_o prayer_n be_v a_o abomination_n what_o blessing_n then_o can_v child_n look_v for_o from_o wicked_a parent_n answ._n though_o god_n hear_v not_o wicked_a parent_n in_o love_n and_o goodness_n to_o themselves_o yet_o for_o the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n he_o do_v and_o will_v hear_v they_o and_o that_o the_o rather_o to_o maintain_v a_o reverend_a respect_n of_o parent_n in_o the_o heart_n of_o their_o child_n for_o ask_v a_o blessing_n be_v a_o acknowledgement_n of_o superiority_n and_o authority_n according_a to_o that_o of_o the_o apostle_n heb._n 7.7_o the_o less_o be_v bless_v of_o the_o great_a and_o as_o for_o the_o gesture_n of_o kneel_v its_o answerable_a to_o the_o gesture_n use_v by_o jos●ph_n gen._n 48.12_o who_o bow_v himself_o with_o his_o face_n to_o the_o earth_n object_n but_o kneel_v be_v a_o gesture_n proper_a to_o god_n worship_n answ._n it_o be_v not_o so_o proper_a but_o it_o may_v be_v use_v in_o civil_a case_n else_o christ_n will_v have_v reprove_v the_o young_a man_n for_o kneel_v before_o he_o as_o well_o as_o for_o call_v he_o good_a for_o he_o conceive_v christ_n to_o be_v but_o a_o mere_a man_n and_o the_o worship_n he_o do_v be_v but_o civil_a it_o be_v not_o simple_o the_o gesture_n but_o the_o occasion_n of_o it_o the_o mind_n of_o he_o that_o perform_v it_o and_o the_o end_n which_o he_o perform_v it_o for_o that_o make_v it_o either_o divine_a or_o civil_a cornelius_n fall_v down_o before_o peter_n and_o be_v blame_v because_o his_o manner_n of_o worship_v be_v divine_a the_o jailor_n fall_v down_o before_o paul_n and_o silas_n and_o be_v not_o blame_v because_o his_o manner_n of_o worship_v be_v mere_o civil_a some_o disallow_v not_o child_n ask_n their_o parent_n blessing_n but_o think_v it_o meet_v only_o for_o child_n whilst_o young_a not_o consider_v of_o what_o year_n and_o state_n joseph_n be_v when_o he_o perform_v it_o other_o think_v it_o not_o unlawful_a but_o careless_o neglect_v it_o little_o consider_v the_o benefit_n of_o a_o parent_n blessing_n esau_n shall_v rise_v up_o in_o judgement_n against_o they_o gen._n 27.34_o heb._n 12.17_o quest._n what_o be_v another_o duty_n of_o child_n to_o their_o parent_n answ._n obedience_n which_o be_v the_o sure_a note_n of_o the_o honour_n a_o child_n give_v to_o his_o parent_n hence_o eph._n 6.1_o col._n 3.20_o without_o which_o external_a reverence_n be_v a_o mere_a mockage_n as_o mat._n 11.21_o obedience_n be_v a_o duty_n so_o proper_a that_o the_o apostle_n apply_v it_o to_o christ_n as_o a_o proper_a attribute_n 1_o pet._n 1.14_o as_o obedient_a child_n etc._n etc._n see_v christ_n example_n luk._n 2.51_o solomon_n call_v the_o neglect_n of_o it_o a_o despise_n of_o a_o parent_n prov._n 23.22_o quest._n wherein_o consist_v this_o obedience_n answ._n first_o in_o forbear_v to_o do_v thing_n without_o their_o parent_n consent_v which_o be_v a_o duty_n they_o be_v most_o bind_v to_o whilst_o they_o be_v under_o their_o parent_n government_n during_o which_o time_n parent_n consent_n be_v not_o only_o meet_v but_o necessary_a numb_a 30.17_o and_o that_o for_o these_o reason_n 1._o child_n be_v as_o the_o good_n of_o their_o parent_n whole_o in_o their_o power_n to_o be_v order_v and_o dispose_v by_o they_o hence_o satan_n have_v all_o that_o job_n have_v put_v into_o his_o hand_n take_v liberty_n over_o his_o child_n as_o well_o as_o his_o good_n and_o cattle_n job_n 1.12_o 19_o 2._o child_n while_o under_o their_o government_n even_o the_o elder_a that_o be_v heir_n differ_v nothing_o from_o servant_n gal._n 4.1_o 3._o by_o god_n law_n parent_n have_v power_n to_o sell_v their_o child_n exod._n 21.7_o 4._o parent_n have_v power_n to_o disannul_v such_o thing_n as_o child_n have_v do_v num._n 30.4_o now_o this_o subjection_n of_o they_o consist_v principal_o in_o five_o thing_n quest._n what_o be_v the_o first_o answ._n first_o they_o must_v have_v their_o parent_n consent_v in_o make_v choice_n of_o their_o call_n jacob_n be_v send_v by_o his_o parent_n to_o laban_n gen._n 28.2_o david_n be_v appoint_v by_o his_o father_n to_o keep_v sheep_n 1_o sam._n 16.11_o 19_o when_o saul_n will_v have_v david_n to_o wait_v on_o he_o he_o send_v to_o j●sse_n 1_o sam._n 17.17_o so_o jerem._n 35.7_o jonadabs_n son_n be_v reward_v fo●_n their_o obedience_n in_o this_o kind_n second_o in_o their_o marriage_n for_o 1._o god_n himself_o have_v give_v we_o a_o pattern_n by_o bring_v the_o woman_n to_o the_o man_n gen._n 22.2_o show_v that_o he_o who_o give_v a_o be_v to_o the_o woman_n have_v a_o right_a to_o dispose_v of_o she_o in_o marriage_n which_o right_o now_o parent_n have_v in_o god_n room_n 2._o we_o have_v god_n express_a rule_n for_o it_o deut._n 7.3_o 1_o cor._n 7.36_o 37._o the_o parent_n have_v also_o power_n in_o give_v or_o not_o give_v she_o that_o be_v deflower_v exod._n 22.17_o 2._o we_o have_v the_o example_n of_o god_n saint_n for_o it_o as_o of_o isaac_n gen._n 24.67_o jacob_n gen._n 28.2_o he_o also_o ask_v his_o daughter_n of_o laban_n gen._n 29.18_o etc._n etc._n samson_n judges_z 14.2_o 4._o we_o have_v the_o judgement_n of_o the_o ancient_a father_n who_o constant_o teach_v this_o doctrine_n 5._o the_o very_a heathen_a acknowledge_v the_o equity_n hereof_o gen._n 34.3_o etc._n etc._n and_o 21.21_o yea_o and_o all_o law_n confirm_v it_o quest._n why_o must_v parent_n consent_v be_v have_v in_o marry_v their_o child_n answ._n first_o because_o by_o marriage_n they_o be_v put_v from_o their_o parent_n g●n_n 2.24_o therefore_o it_o be_v but_o equal_a that_o it_o shall_v be_v with_o their_o consent_n second_o the_o parent_n power_n by_o marry_v the_o child_n be_v put_v over_o to_o the_o husband_n or_o wife_n and_o shall_v this_o power_n be_v take_v away_o without_o their_o consent_n three_o child_n for_o the_o most_o part_n be_v rash_a and_o heady_a and_o will_v undo_v themselves_o whereas_o parent_n love_v their_o child_n and_o have_v more_o experience_n and_o discretion_n in_o choose_v for_o they_o q._n but_o what_o if_o their_o parent_n urge_v their_o child_n to_o marry_v such_o as_o they_o can_v love_v answ._n if_o they_o have_v no_o just_a exception_n against_o the_o party_n they_o must_v labour_v to_o the_o uttermost_a to_o bring_v their_o affection_n to_o the_o bent_n of_o their_o parent_n will_v but_o if_o notwithstanding_o all_o the_o mean_n they_o can_v use_v they_o can_v get_v affection_n they_o may_v in_o a_o reverend_a manner_n entreat_v their_o parent_n not_o to_o press_v they_o to_o it_o quest._n what_o if_o parent_n be_v negligent_a in_o due_a time_n to_o provide_v their_o child_n fit_a match_n may_v not_o they_o provide_v for_o themselves_o answ._n in_o such_o a_o case_n a_o child_n know_v where_o a_o fit_a match_n may_v be_v have_v may_v make_v it_o know_v to_o his_o parent_n as_o samson_n do_v judg._n 14.2_o crave_v his_o consent_n and_o help_v therein_o and_o if_o his_o parent_n will_v not_o hear_v he_o may_v use_v the_o meditation_n of_o friend_n and_o if_o the_o parent_n be_v still_o wilful_a he_o may_v have_v recourse_n to_o the_o magistrate_n who_o be_v in_o god_n stead_n and_o the_o father_n of_o his_o country_n and_o what_o the_o magistrate_n do_v it_o be_v as_o good_a a_o warrant_n as_o if_o the_o parent_n do_v it_o the_o like_a may_v be_v do_v if_o the_o parent_n be_v a_o idolater_n atheist_n or_o heretic_n and_o will_v not_o yield_v that_o his_o child_n shall_v marry_v to_o any_o but_o such_o as_o be_v of_o his_o own_o profession_n or_o disposition_n object_n though_o jacob_n marry_v one_o wife_n by_o his_o parent_n consent_n yet_o not_o the_o other_o answ._n jacob_n have_v a_o general_a consent_n from_o his_o parent_n to_o take_v a_o wife_n of_o the_o daughter_n of_o laban_n therefore_o if_o it_o have_v be_v lawful_a for_o he_o to_o have_v two_o wife_n he_o have_v not_o do_v it_o without_o their_o consent_n object_n servant_n may_v marry_v without_o their_o master_n consent_n why_o not_o child_n without_o their_o parent_n a._n 1._o it_o be_v not_o lawful_a for_o servant_n so_o to_o do_v while_o the_o date_n of_o their_o covenant_n last_v second_o parent_n have_v great_a power_n over_o their_o child_n than_o master_n over_o their_o servant_n the_o latter_a be_v
wilful_a contempt_n and_o careless_a neglect_n of_o this_o ordinance_n when_o it_o may_v convenient_o be_v have_v be_v dangerous_a and_o damnable_a and_o to_o such_o that_o threat_n belong_v gen._n 17.14_o that_o soul_n shall_v be_v cut_v off_o three_o the_o grace_n and_o mercy_n of_o god_n be_v free_a and_o not_o tie_v to_o the_o outward_a element_n joh._n 3.8_o the_o wind_n blow_v where_o it_o list_v i._n e._n god_n give_v grace_n when_o where_o and_o to_o who_o he_o please_v four_o infant_n bear_v of_o believe_a parent_n be_v holy_a before_o baptism_n and_o baptism_n be_v but_o a_o seal_n of_o that_o holiness_n 1_o cor._n 7.14_o yea_o to_o they_o belong_v the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n mark_v 10.14_o object_n they_o which_o be_v sanctify_v have_v faith_n which_o infant_n have_v not_o answ._n god_n say_v i_o will_v be_v thy_o god_n and_o the_o god_n of_o thy_o seed_n by_o virtue_n of_o which_o promise_v the_o parent_n lay_v hold_v of_o the_o covenant_n for_o himself_o and_o his_o child_n and_o the_o child_n believe_v because_o the_o father_n believe_v object_n infant_n be_v bear_v in_o original_a sin_n and_o therefore_o can_v be_v holy_a answ._n every_o believe_a parent_n sustain_v a_o double_a person_n 1._o as_o descend_v from_o adam_n by_o corrupt_a seed_n and_o thus_o both_o himself_o and_o his_o child_n be_v corrupt_v 2._o as_o he_o be_v a_o holy_a and_o believe_a man_n ingraff_v by_o faith_n into_o christ_n the_o second_o adam_n and_o thus_o by_o his_o faith_n his_o child_n come_v to_o be_v within_o the_o covenant_n and_o partaker_n of_o the_o benefit_n and_o privilege_n thereof_o and_o by_o the_o same_o faith_n he_o be_v a_o believer_n the_o guilt_n of_o original_a corruption_n in_o the_o infant_n be_v not_o impute_v to_o he_o to_o condemnation_n object_n other_o that_o will_v make_v it_o absolute_o necessary_a object_n john_n 3.5_o except_o a_o man_n be_v bear_v of_o water_n and_o the_o holy_a ghost_n he_o can_v enter_v into_o the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n answ._n first_o if_o this_o be_v mean_v of_o baptism_n than_o the_o word_n may_v carry_v one_o of_o these_o two_o sense_n 1._o christ_n direct_v his_o speech_n principal_o to_o nicodemus_n who_o be_v a_o timorous_a professor_n who_o remain_v ignorant_a and_o have_v long_o neglect_v his_o baptism_n 2._o that_o the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n be_v not_o here_o put_v for_o everlasting_a happiness_n but_o to_o signify_v the_o visible_a state_n of_o the_o church_n under_o the_o new_a testament_n and_o then_o the_o meaning_n be_v that_o none_o can_v be_v admit_v into_o the_o church_n and_o make_v a_o visible_a member_n thereof_o but_o by_o baptism_n nor_o can_v any_o be_v make_v a_o lively_a member_n of_o christ_n but_o by_o the_o spirit_n second_o or_o this_o place_n be_v not_o be_v understand_v of_o baptism_n but_o of_o regeneration_n wherein_o christ_n allude_v to_o exod._n 35.26_o which_o speak_v of_o clean_a water_n and_o then_o the_o meaning_n be_v thou_o nicodemus_n be_v a_o pharisee_fw-mi and_o use_v many_o outward_a wash_n but_o unless_o thou_o be_v wash_v inward_o by_o clean_a water_n i._n e._n regenerate_v by_o the_o holy_a ghost_n thou_o can_v not_o enter_v into_o heaven_n three_o or_o the_o necessity_n of_o salvation_n lie_v not_o in_o both_o but_o only_o in_o the_o new_a birth_n by_o the_o holy_a ghost_n quest._n whether_o be_v not_o witness_n common_o call_v godfather_n and_o godmother_n necessary_a answ._n no._n first_o for_o in_o the_o primitive_a time_n the_o parent_n of_o child_n which_o be_v heathen_n and_o new_o convert_v to_o the_o christian_a religion_n be_v either_o ignorant_a and_o can_v not_o or_o careless_a and_o will_v not_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n according_a to_o the_o word_n of_o god_n and_o true_a religion_n which_o they_o new_o profess_v therefore_o person_n of_o good_a knowledge_n and_o life_n be_v call_v to_o witness_v baptism_n and_o promise_v to_o take_v care_n of_o the_o child_n education_n but_o now_o parent_n be_v better_o teach_v and_o qualify_v the_o other_o be_v not_o necessary_a second_o christ_n in_o his_o word_n have_v teach_v all_o thing_n that_o be_v fit_a and_o necessary_a about_o baptism_n among_o all_o which_o he_o have_v not_o appoint_v the_o use_n of_o surety_n three_o the_o whole_a congregation_n present_a do_v present_v the_o child_n to_o the_o lord_n and_o be_v witness_n of_o his_o admission_n into_o the_o church_n and_o therefore_o there_o need_v no_o other_o four_o that_o which_o be_v require_v of_o they_o to_o promise_v and_o perform_v may_v and_o aught_o to_o be_v perform_v by_o the_o parent_n of_o the_o infant_n baptize_v who_o by_o god_n command_n ought_v to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n in_o the_o knowledge_n and_o fear_n of_o god_n therefore_o the_o other_o be_v not_o necessary_a quest._n whether_o have_v child_n of_o excommunicate_v person_n right_a to_o baptism_n answ._n before_o this_o question_n be_v answer_v some_o ground_n must_v be_v lay_v down_o as_o 1._o there_o be_v two_o text_n principal_o about_o excommunication_n mat._n 18.17_o 1_o cor._n 5.5_o the_o scope_n of_o both_o which_o be_v to_o show_v that_o the_o excommunicate_v person_n be_v debar_v the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n for_o he_o be_v not_o to_o be_v hold_v a_o true_a member_n of_o the_o church_n but_o as_o a_o heathen_a and_o publican_n 2._o in_o excommunication_n there_o be_v three_o judgement_n to_o be_v consider_v 1._o of_o god_n 2._o of_o the_o church_n 3._o again_o of_o god_n the_o first_o be_v when_o god_n hold_v any_o obstinate_a sinner_n guilty_a of_o the_o offence_n and_o consequent_o of_o condemnation_n except_o he_o repent_v the_o second_o be_v of_o the_o church_n which_o follow_v god_n judgement_n pronounce_v the_o party_n guilty_a and_o subject_a to_o condemnation_n which_o judgement_n be_v not_o to_o be_v give_v absolute_o but_o with_o condition_n of_o repentance_n and_o so_o far_o forth_o as_o man_n can_v judge_v by_o the_o fault_n commit_v as_o also_o by_o the_o word_n which_o direct_v how_o to_o discern_v of_o the_o impenitency_n of_o the_o sinner_n the_o three_o again_o be_v god_n judgement_n whereby_o he_o confirm_v that_o in_o heaven_n which_o the_o church_n have_v do_v on_o earth_n so_o then_o the_o answer_n may_v be_v 1._o that_o the_o person_n excommunicate_a be_v in_o some_o respect_n no_o member_n of_o christ_n body_n and_o in_o some_o other_o respect_v they_o be_v quest._n how_o be_v they_o not_o answ._n first_o in_o that_o they_o be_v cut_v off_o from_o the_o company_n of_o believer_n by_o the_o sentence_n of_o excommunication_n and_o so_o have_v no_o participation_n with_o they_o in_o prayer_n hear_v the_o word_n or_o receive_v the_o sacrament_n and_o that_o because_o the_o action_n of_o the_o church_n stand_v in_o force_n god_n ratify_v that_o which_o his_o church_n have_v do_v second_o because_o by_o their_o sin_n they_o have_v as_o much_o as_o in_o they_o lie_v deprive_v themselves_o of_o the_o effectual_a power_n of_o god_n 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very_o well_o however_o what_o thou_o do_v with_o a_o upright_a heart_n and_o use_v thy_o best_a discretion_n in_o god_n will_v accept_v and_o take_v it_o in_o good_a part_n see_v dr._n harris_n hospital_n sermon_n quest._n but_o do_v god_n take_v notice_n of_o our_o work_n of_o c●rity_n answ._n yea_o first_o he_o take_v notice_n of_o the_o person_n that_o do_v they_o as_o of_o cornelius_n act_v 10.31_o second_o of_o every_o act_n of_o mercy_n three_o how_o much_o mercy_n every_o one_o show_v dorcas_n make_v many_o coat_n four_o of_o the_o time_n when_o obadiah_n in_o a_o hard_a time_n hide_v the_o prophet_n and_o feed_v they_o 1_o king_n 18.5_o five_o with_o what_o heart_n and_o enlargement_n of_o affection_n we_o do_v they_o as_o of_o those_o macedonian_n 2_o cor._n 8.3_o six_o yea_o of_o the_o least_o degree_n of_o mercy_n of_o a_o little_a cake_n 1_o king_n 17.30_o of_o a_o cup_n of_o cold_a water_n mat._n 10.42_o idem_fw-la quest._n what_o may_v move_v we_o to_o be_v constant_a and_o continue_v in_o our_o charity_n answ._n first_o in_o regard_n of_o our_o brethren_n need_n they_o may_v long_o continue_v to_o be_v in_o want_n he_o that_o hunger_n and_o thirst_v may_v hunger_n and_o thirst_n again_o joh._n 4.13_o other_o also_o may_v stand_v in_o need_n of_o our_o charity_n for_o mat._n 26.11_o you_o have_v the_o poor_a always_o with_o you_o we_o must_v not_o tie_v ourselves_o to_o relieve_v one_o man_n once_o only_o nor_o one_o alone_o second_o in_o regard_n of_o ourselves_o for_o the_o reward_n be_v promise_v to_o such_o as_o continue_v in_o well-doing_n rom._n 2.7_o dr._n gouge_n on_o heb._n quest._n what_o warrant_v have_v the_o widow_n of_o sarepta_n to_o relieve_v the_o prophet_n before_o she_o make_v provision_n for_o herself_o and_o her_o son_n answ._n have_v she_o not_o know_v that_o it_o be_v the_o special_a will_n of_o god_n she_o shall_v not_o have_v do_v it_o to_o defraud_v herself_o and_o her_o son_n to_o relieve_v a_o stranger_n contrary_a to_o the_o accustom_a rule_n of_o piety_n 1_o tim._n 5.8_o therefore_o paul_n will_v have_v widow_n to_o be_v maintain_v by_o their_o own_o kindred_n quest._n be_v a_o man_n to_o prefer_v a_o stranger_n eminent_a in_o piety_n before_o his_o brother_n which_o be_v not_o so_o adorn_v with_o it_o answ._n thou_o must_v rather_o nourish_v and_o relieve_v thy_o poor_a brother_n than_o thy_o friend_n for_o this_o office_n be_v couple_v with_o nature_n and_o blood_n according_a to_o which_o thou_o be_v more_o oblige_v and_o near_o to_o thy_o brother_n then_o to_o thy_o friend_n but_o if_o it_o be_v in_o thy_o power_n to_o advance_v the_o one_o to_o public_a office_n in_o church_n or_o state_n thou_o must_v prefer_v thy_o virtuous_a friend_n before_o thy_o carnal_a brother_n quest._n if_o i_o see_v many_o stranger_n in_o want_n and_o one_o good_a man_n also_o whether_o shall_v i_o relieve_v those_o many_o stranger_n or_o that_o one_o good_a man_n answ._n a_o good_a man_n be_v to_o be_v prefer_v before_o a_o a_o stranger_n but_o many_o stranger_n before_o one_o know_v person_n for_o the_o more_o common_a good_a be_v the_o better_a ball_n power_n of_o godliness_n quest._n why_o be_v give_v to_o the_o poor_a a_o duty_n answ._n first_o because_o its_o such_o a_o duty_n as_o every_o poor_a man_n do_v desire_v and_o crave_v of_o another_o and_o hope_n and_o wish_n that_o he_o may_v perform_v it_o to_o he_o and_o blame_v he_o for_o unmercifulnesse_n if_o he_o neglect_v it_o and_o every_o rich_a man_n will_v acknowledge_v that_o if_o he_o shall_v loose_v all_o he_o will_v desire_v that_o other_o shall_v show_v mercy_n to_o he_o therefore_o it_o be_v a_o manifest_a
only_o by_o mutual_a covenant_n and_o the_o servant_n voluntary_a subjection_n but_o the_o former_a be_v by_o the_o bond_n of_o nature_n object_n child_n marry_v for_o themselves_o not_o for_o their_o parent_n why_o then_o shall_v their_o consent_n be_v so_o stand_v on_o ans._n first_o though_o they_o marry_v not_o for_o their_o parent_n yet_o from_o their_o parent_n be_v by_o marriage_n free_v from_o their_o power_n second_o child_n be_v not_o their_o own_o but_o be_v the_o inheritance_n of_o the_o lord_n psal._n 127.3_o and_o god_n have_v give_v they_o to_o their_o parent_n as_o a_o inheritance_n therefore_o a_o child_n may_v no_o more_o alienate_v himself_o from_o his_o parent_n than_o other_o of_o his_o good_n three_o child_n may_v not_o alienate_v any_o of_o their_o parent_n good_n without_o their_o consent_n gen._n 31.36_o gal._n 4.1_o and_o that_o 1._o because_o parent_n may_v hereby_o know_v what_o they_o have_v and_o what_o they_o have_v not_o and_o accordingly_z order_n their_o expense_n which_o they_o can_v not_o do_v if_o child_n may_v purloin_v and_o take_v of_o their_o good_n at_o their_o pleasure_n 2._o it_o be_v a_o mean_n to_o restrain_v the_o lavish_a humour_n of_o child_n that_o so_o their_o parent_n may_v be_v the_o better_o enable_v to_o lay_v up_o for_o they_o 2_o cor._n 12.14_o four_o child_n must_v be_v order_v by_o their_o parent_n for_o their_o apparel_n israel_n make_v joseph_n a_o coat_n gen._n 37.3_o five_o child_n must_v forbear_v to_o bind_v themselves_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n against_o their_o parent_n consent_n they_o may_v not_o make_v a_o vow_n without_o their_o consent_n numb_a 30.4_o quest._n wherein_o consist_v the_o active_a obedience_n of_o child_n to_o their_o parent_n answ._n in_o yield_v themselves_o pliable_a to_o their_o parent_n will_v and_o that_o especial_o in_o four_o thing_n first_o in_o be_v ready_a to_o their_o uttermost_a ability_n to_o perform_v all_o their_o lawful_a command_n eph._n 6.1_o as_o for_o example_n 1._o they_o must_v come_v at_o their_o call_n gen._n 49.1_o 1_o sam_n 3.5_o etc._n etc._n and_o 16.12_o 2._o they_o must_v go_v on_o their_o errand_n though_o far_o and_o troublesome_a gen._n 28.5_o and_o 37.14_o and_o 42.2_o 3._o 1_o sam._n 17.17_o 20._o 3._o they_o must_v attend_v upon_o their_o parent_n when_o command_v gen_n 22.6_o 4._o they_o must_v faithful_o perform_v what_o business_n be_v enjoin_v they_o gen._n 50.5_o jer._n 35.8_o 1_o sam._n 17.20_o 34._o second_o in_o obey_v the_o wholesome_a instruction_n which_o their_o parent_n give_v they_o prov._n 1.8_o 9_o and_o 4.1_o 3._o exod._n 18.24_o for_o 1._o parent_n be_v command_v to_o instruct_v they_o 2._o great_a wisdom_n may_v be_v attain_v hereby_o prov._n 13.1_o and_o 1.9_o and_o 4.9_o 3._o much_o joy_n be_v bring_v to_o parent_n by_o it_o prov._n 10.1_o and_o 27.11_o contrary_n gen._n 26.35_o 1_o sam._n 2.25_o gen._n 19.14_o three_o in_o submit_v to_o their_o parent_n reproof_n and_o amend_v what_o be_v just_o reprove_v gen._n 37.10_o 1_o sam._n 20.30_o etc._n etc._n quest._n what_o if_o the_o parent_n mistake_v in_o the_o matter_n reprove_v may_v not_o the_o child_n make_v answer_v answ._n yea_o but_o he_o must_v do_v it_o mild_o reverent_o and_o seasonable_o object_n christ_n take_v up_o his_o mother_n roundly_o for_o reprove_v he_o unjust_o luke_n 2.49_o answ._n christ_n as_o god-man_n be_v great_a than_o his_o mother_n and_o so_o with_o authority_n blame_v she_o for_o her_o unjust_a reproof_n this_o she_o know_v and_o therefore_o be_v silent_a four_o in_o submit_v to_o their_o parent_n correction_n and_o amend_v what_o they_o eat_v just_o correct_v for_o heb._n 12.9_o prov._n 29.17_o quest._n what_o be_v the_o extent_n of_o child_n obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n answ._n in_o all_o thing_n col._n 3.20_o to_o wit_n in_o the_o lord_n eph._n 6.1_o for_o which_o end_n 1._o they_o must_v labour_v to_o bring_v their_o judgement_n and_o will_n to_o the_o bent_n of_o their_o parent_n to_o 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of_o their_o parent_n how_o willing_a they_o be_v to_o please_v they_o 3._o it_o be_v a_o great_a mean_n to_o preserve_v peace_n and_o love_n betwixt_o parent_n and_o child_n quest._n what_o be_v further_o require_v from_o child_n to_o their_o parent_n answ._n to_o repay_v and_o recompense_v what_o they_o can_v their_o parent_n care_n cost_n and_o kindness_n towards_o they_o and_o that_o in_o the_o way_n of_o thankfulness_n 1_o tim._n 5.4_o quest._n what_o rule_n be_v to_o be_v observe_v herein_o answ._n child_n must_v relieve_v their_o parent_n according_a to_o their_o necessity_n which_o may_v be_v through_o 1._o natural_a infirmity_n or_o 2._o casual_a extremity_n concern_v the_o first_o the_o rule_n be_v 1._o child_n must_v bear_v with_o their_o parent_n infirmity_n not_o the_o less_o reverendly_a esteem_v their_o place_n or_o person_n nor_o perform_v the_o less_o duty_n to_o they_o by_o reason_n of_o the_o same_o remember_v that_o themselves_o in_o their_o young_a and_o weak_a year_n be_v subject_a to_o many_o infirmity_n as_o gen._n 27_o 12._o it_o be_v a_o great_a infirmity_n in_o isa●c_n to_o prefer_v profane_a esau_n before_o godly_a jacob_n especial_o against_o a_o express_a word_n of_o god_n yet_o jacob_n reverence_v he_o not_o the_o less_o gen._n 28.5_o so_o gen._n 37.10_o 1_o sam._n 31.2_o luke_n 2.51_o contrary_n prov._n 30.17_o 2._o child_n must_v cover_v their_o parent_n infirmity_n both_o by_o pass_v they_o by_o and_o conceal_v they_o from_o other_o as_o much_o as_o they_o can_v for_o 1_o pet._n 4.8_o love_n cover_v a_o multitude_n of_o sin_n so_o gen._n 9.23_o contrary_a gen._n 9.22_o 2_o sam._n 15.3_o concern_v the_o second_o the_o rule_n be_v 1._o child_n must_v bear_v with_o their_o parent_n and_o not_o the_o less_o reverent_o esteem_v they_o nor_o perform_v the_o less_o duty_n because_o of_o they_o be_v cross_n which_o by_o god_n providence_n be_v lay_v upon_o man_n whether_o upon_o his_o body_n as_o blindness_n lameness_n sickness_n etc._n 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weakness_n of_o judgement_n slipperinesse_n of_o memory_n violence_n of_o passion_n etc._n etc._n 4._o with_o their_o outward_a infirmity_n which_o arise_v from_o instant_a tentation_n such_o be_v those_o gen._n 9.21_o and_o 19.33_o 2_o sam._n 11.4_o and_o 18.33_o gen._n 12.13_o and_o 26.7_o and_o 37.34_o 35._o quest._n what_o duty_n do_v child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n after_o death_n answ._n first_o to_o inter_v their_o body_n with_o such_o decency_n and_o honour_n as_o may_v be_v answerable_a to_o the_o place_n and_o reputation_n wherein_o they_o live_v gen._n 25.9_o and_o 35.29_o and_o 50.7_o for_o 1._o it_o be_v a_o testimony_n of_o their_o great_a love_n and_o respect_n to_o they_o 2._o it_o be_v a_o blessing_n promise_v by_o god_n to_o his_o saint_n 1_o king_n 14.13_o 2_o king_n 22.20_o the_o contrary_a be_v threaten_v as_o a_o curse_n jer._n 22.19_o
will_v be_v merciful_a to_o such_o as_o show_v mercy_n mat._n 5.7_o twelve_o if_o we_o hear_v the_o cry_n of_o the_o poor_a god_n will_v hear_v we_o isa._n 58.7_o 9_o so_o we_o see_v in_o cornelius_n act._n 10.4_o contrary_n prov._n 21.30_o thirteen_o if_o we_o pity_v the_o poor_a god_n will_v pity_v we_o in_o our_o affliction_n psalm_n 41_o 1_o 2_o 3._o isa._n 58.10_o fourteen_o hereby_o we_o reap_v the_o benefit_n of_o the_o poor_n prayer_n to_o god_n for_o we_o 2_o cor._n 9.14_o fifteenth_o alms-deed_n further_o our_o salvation_n luke_n 16.9_o etc._n etc._n 1_o tim._n 6.18_o 19_o prov._n 14.21_o and_o 22.9_o deut._n 15.10_o mat._n 5.7_o luk._n 14.14_o job_n 29.12_o 13._o sixteenth_o the_o great_a benefit_n of_o our_o alm_n redound_v to_o ourselves_o hence_o act._n 20.35_o prov._n 11.17_o 25._o 2_o cor._n 8.1_o 2_o 7._o seventeenth_o fearful_a threaten_n be_v denounce_v against_o the_o unmerciful_a ezek._n 16.49_o prov._n 21_o 1●_n frustra_fw-la manus_fw-la ad_fw-la deum_fw-la expandit_fw-la qui_fw-la have_v ad_fw-la pauperes_fw-la non_fw-la extendit_fw-la 2_o cor._n 9.6_o gal._n 6.8_o prov._n 28.27_o deut._n 24.15_o job_n 31.16_o to_o 29._o jam._n 2.13_o as_o in_o the_o parable_n of_o the_o rich_a glutton_n non_fw-la habuit_fw-la gutte_fw-la quia_fw-la non_fw-la dedit_fw-la micam_fw-la he_o have_v not_o a_o drop_n of_o water_n because_o he_o will_v not_o part_v with_o a_o crumb_n of_o bread_n aug._n eighteenth_o by_o alms-deed_n our_o estate_n be_v confirm_v and_o increase_v 2_o cor._n 9.8_o 10._o isa._n 58.10_o 11._o prov._n 11.24_o and_o 28.27_o ninteenth_o the_o merciful_a shall_v be_v fill_v with_o joy_n as_o it_o evidence_v god_n grace_n in_o we_o twenty_o such_o shall_v attain_v to_o a_o prosperous_a estate_n with_o honour_n psal._n 112.9_o prov._n 14.31_o and_o they_o which_o honour_n god_n shall_v be_v honour_v by_o he_o 1_o sam._n 1.30_o isa._n 58.10_o master_n downam_n plea_n object_n but_o we_o be_v poor_a and_o have_v not_o to_o give_v answ._n 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shall_v never_o have_v our_o request_n grant_v but_o hopeless_o perish_v in_o our_o want_n 6._o we_o shall_v forbear_v these_o overstrict_n examination_n of_o the_o poor_a le●t_o hereby_o we_o do_v not_o so_o much_o comfort_v they_o by_o our_o gift_n as_o torment_v they_o by_o our_o harsh_a manner_n of_o give_v 7._o consider_v that_o though_o the_o poor_a be_v unworthy_a to_o who_o thou_o give_v yet_o god_n be_v worthy_a for_o who_o sake_n thou_o give_v and_o if_o thou_o give_v in_o obedience_n to_o his_o command_n though_o it_o seem_v to_o be_v cast_v away_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o party_n yet_o not_o in_o respect_n of_o thou_o who_o give_v for_o god_n will_v certain_o reward_v thou_o object_n but_o i_o have_v a_o great_a charge_n and_o many_o child_n and_o therefore_o must_v prefer_v they_o before_o stranger_n answ._n they_o that_o be_v miserable_a because_o they_o have_v wife_n and_o child_n will_v not_o be_v liberal_a if_o they_o have_v none_o ne_fw-la transferas_fw-la culpam_fw-la in_o insontes_fw-la say_v basil_n lay_v not_o the_o blame_n upon_o those_o that_o be_v innocent_a beside_o be_v not_o the_o gospel_n write_v for_o such_o as_o well_o as_o for_o those_o that_o have_v no_o child_n and_o be_v not_o both_o by_o it_o equal_o bind_v to_o work_n of_o mercy_n do_v they_o beg_v child_n of_o god_n for_o this_o end_n that_o they_o may_v plead_v by_o they_o a_o privilege_n from_o obey_v god_n commandment_n may_v they_o not_o just_o fear_v that_o god_n for_o this_o cause_n will_v ease_v they_o of_o their_o burden_n by_o take_v away_o their_o child_n we_o may_v provide_v for_o they_o a_o competency_n and_o yet_o not_o deny_v to_o god_n of_o our_o abundance_n and_o superfluity_n when_o thou_o begin_v to_o number_v thy_o child_n number_v they_o and_o spare_v not_o but_o forget_v not_o to_o reckon_v christ_n as_o one_o of_o the_o number_n he_o have_v give_v thou_o whatsoever_o thou_o have_v and_o will_v rich_o recompense_v thou_o beside_o thou_o know_v not_o how_o thy_o child_n will_v prove_v it_o may_v be_v ungrateful_a and_o will_v not_o thank_v thou_o for_o it_o it_o may_v be_v wicked_a and_o prodigal_a who_o will_v misspend_v it_o profus_o yea_o it_o may_v be_v the_o wealth_n thou_o leave_v they_o will_v be_v the_o occasion_n of_o their_o everlasting_a ruin_n second_o we_o must_v love_v our_o child_n wise_o and_o take_v care_n so_o to_o provide_v for_o they_o as_o that_o their_o estate_n may_v be_v bless_v and_o durable_a which_o be_v best_a effect_v by_o leave_v they_o to_o god_n blessing_n in_o a_o moderate_a estate_n without_o which_o they_o may_v be_v oppress_v by_o those_o that_o be_v more_o mighty_a or_o defraud_v by_o those_o that_o be_v more_o crafty_a etc._n etc._n but_o if_o god_n take_v charge_n of_o they_o he_o be_v their_o best_a protector_n so_o that_o none_o shall_v wrest_v their_o patrimony_n out_o of_o their_o hand_n psalm_n 37.26_o three_o be_v we_o sure_a that_o the_o estate_n we_o leave_v they_o shall_v prosper_v with_o they_o yet_o we_o shall_v not_o love_v our_o child_n better_a than_o ourselves_o nor_o prefer_v their_o wealth_n before_o our_o own_o soul_n and_o their_o flourish_a estate_n which_o be_v but_o momentany_a and_o mutable_a before_o our_o fruition_n of_o those_o joy_n which_o be_v infinite_a and_o eternal_a object_n but_o trade_v be_v bad_a and_o our_o burden_n many_o and_o we_o have_v not_o wherewithal_o to_o give_v alm_n answ._n first_o use_v your_o hand_n such_o as_o be_v able_a must_v labour_v and_o take_v pain_n to_o relieve_v those_o that_o can_v do_v neither_o eph._n 4.28_o second_o use_v your_o head_n cast_v about_o how_o the_o want_n of_o other_o may_v be_v supply_v three_o do_v something_o by_o way_n of_o abatement_n abridge_v yourselves_o a_o little_a that_o you_o may_v be_v helpful_a to_o other_o abate_v something_o from_o your_o back_n from_o your_o belly_n from_o your_o recreation_n etc._n etc._n object_n but_o we_o must_v not_o only_o maintain_v nature_n but_o our_o honour_n and_o credit_n in_o the_o world_n answ._n it_o be_v true_a yet_o we_o must_v abate_v from_o our_o superfluity_n christ_n disrobe_v himself_o for_o a_o time_n for_o our_o sake_n of_o his_o glory_n and_o we_o for_o his_o sake_n must_v lay_v aside_o of_o our_o overplus_n abate_v something_o from_o a_o dog_n from_o a_o bird_n from_o a_o beast_n etc._n etc._n quest._n but_o what_o may_v move_v such_o as_o be_v able_a to_o be_v willing_a also_o to_o work_n of_o mercy_n answ._n first_o look_v to_o god_n he_o be_v our_o friend_n nay_o our_o father_n if_o a_o friend_n say_v to_o you_o such_o a_o friend_n or_o kinsman_n of_o i_o be_v in_o want_n pray_v you_o do_v something_o for_o my_o sake_n you_o will_v do_v it_o how_o much_o more_o shall_v you_o do_v it_o when_o god_n say_v so_o to_o you_o second_o
1_o king_n 21.23_o 24._o psalm_n 79.3_o 3._o it_o be_v a_o great_a deformity_n for_o a_o corpse_n to_o lie_v above_o ground_n therefore_o child_n who_o be_v most_o bind_v to_o cover_v their_o parent_n deformity_n be_v in_o this_o respect_n bind_v to_o bury_v they_o second_o child_n must_v have_v respect_n to_o the_o credit_n of_o their_o decease_a parent_n and_o that_o especial_o in_o three_o thing_n 1._o in_o pay_v their_o just_a debt_n so_o far_o as_o they_o can_v when_o their_o good_n or_o land_n come_v to_o their_o hand_n psal._n 37.21_o 2._o in_o suppress_v evil_a report_n of_o their_o parent_n as_o much_o as_o they_o can_v for_o matth._n 7.2_o 3._o in_o imitate_v their_o parent_n good_a example_n so_o 1_o king_n 3.3_o 2_o king_n 22.2_o 1_o king_n 15.11_o quest._n after_o what_o manner_n must_v child_n perform_v all_o these_o duty_n to_o their_o parent_n answ._n first_o for_o conscience-sake_n rom._n 13.5_o 〈◊〉_d 3.20_o 1_o pet._n 2.13_o second_o in_o sincerity_n col._n 3.23_o three_o cheerful_o and_o with_o a_o ready_a mind_n 2_o cor._n 9.7_o four_o reverendly_a as_o to_o they_o that_o bear_v the_o image_n of_o god_n five_o so_o as_o yet_o not_o to_o sin_v against_o god_n it_o must_v be_v in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n six_o constant_o or_o else_o they_o lose_v their_o reward_n quest._n must_v equal_a respect_n be_v show_v to_o both_o parent_n answ._n yea_o the_o law_n mention_n both_o father_n and_o mother_n so_o gen._n 28.7_o and_o solomon_n 1._o because_o both_o parent_n under_o god_n be_v alike_o mean_v of_o their_o child_n being_n 2._o the_o care_n and_o pain_n of_o both_o be_v very_o great_a object_n the_o wife_n be_v subject_a to_o the_o husband_n therefore_o ought_v a_o child_n to_o prefer_v his_o father_n before_o his_o mother_n answ._n though_o there_o be_v a_o difference_n betwixt_o they_o in_o relation_n of_o one_o to_o another_o yet_o in_o relation_n to_o their_o child_n they_o be_v both_o as_o one_o and_o have_v alike_o authority_n over_o they_o 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it_o incest_n for_o a_o man_n to_o lie_v with_o his_o stepmother_n leu._n 18.8_o 17._o therefore_o they_o be_v in_o the_o room_n of_o natural_a parent_n and_o so_o to_o be_v honour_v 3._o it_o be_v a_o great_a honour_n which_o a_o child_n do_v to_o his_o natural_a father_n or_o mother_n to_o respect_v such_o as_o they_o have_v make_v one_o flesh_n with_o themselves_o object_n nature_n can_v so_o well_o brook_v a_o step-parent_n as_o a_o natural_a parent_n answ._n first_o if_o not_o so_o well_o yet_o we_o must_v not_o depise_v they_o second_o conscience_n and_o religion_n shall_v alter_v corrupt_a nature_n object_n step-parent_n seldom_o care_v for_o their_o husband_n or_o wife_n former_a child_n answ._n first_o god_n teach_v not_o only_o to_o be_v subject_a to_o the_o good_a and_o gentle_a but_o also_o to_o the_o froward_a 1_o pet._n 2.18_o and_o not_o to_o be_v overcome_v of_o evil_a but_o to_o overcome_v evil_a with_o good_a rom._n 12.21_o second_o the_o scripture_n reckon_v such_o as_o rise_v up_o against_o their_o parent_n in_o law_n among_o such_o as_o rise_v up_o against_o their_o natural_a parent_n mic._n 7.6_o quest._n must_v child_n be_v subject_a to_o guardian_n and_o tutor_n answ._n yea_o for_o the_o apostle_n faith_n that_o they_o be_v under_o they_o gal._n ●4_n 2_o so_o esther_n ch_n 2.20_o and_o elisha_n 2_o king_n 2.15_o etc._n etc._n and_o 6.1_o quest._n what_o argument_n may_v move_v child_n to_o obey_v their_o parent_n answ._n first_o they_o be_v command_v to_o obey_v they_o in_o the_o lord_n i._n e._n because_o parent_n be_v to_o the_o child_n in_o the_o lord_n stead_n liberis_fw-la suis_fw-la pater_fw-la est_fw-la vice_fw-la dei_fw-la greg._n nazian_n they_o bear_v god_n image_n and_o child_n in_o obey_v they_o obey_v god_n second_o it_o be_v right_a col._n 6.1_o which_o imply_v three_o thing_n 1._o it_o be_v agreeable_a to_o all_o law_n of_o god_n nature_n nation_n 2._o the_o place_n of_o parent_n require_v so_o much_o for_o right_a require_v 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dr._n gouge_n household_n duty_n quest._n whether_o be_v many_o child_n a_o blessing_n answ._n yea_o so_o say_v david_n psal._n 127.5_o and_o 128.3_o 6._o hence_o ruth_n 4.11_o quest._n whether_o may_v parent_n make_v void_a a_o contract_n secret_o make_v by_o their_o child_n without_o or_o against_o their_o consent_n answ._n the_o scripture_n give_v they_o authority_n either_o to_o ratify_v such_o contract_n or_o to_o make_v they_o void_a numb_a 30.6_o the_o father_n may_v make_v void_a a_o vow_n of_o his_o child_n in_o matter_n pertain_v to_o god_n worship_n much_o more_o a_o matrimonial_a promise_n if_o a_o young_a man_n deflower_v a_o maid_n in_o equity_n he_o be_v to_o be_v compel_v to_o marry_v she_o deut._n 22.28_o yet_o by_o god_n law_n it_o may_v not_o be_v without_o the_o father_n consent_n exod._n 22.17_o quest._n whether_o be_v a_o marriage_n make_v without_o or_o against_o the_o parent_n consent_v valid_a or_o no_o answ._n it_o may_v be_v valid_a in_o the_o court_n of_o man_n according_a to_o humane_a law_n and_o therefore_o the_o issue_n of_o such_o be_v free_a from_o bastardy_n yet_o it_o be_v not_o a_o divine_a or_o spiritual_a conjunction_n or_o marriage_n be_v flat_o against_o god_n precept_n deut._n 7.3_o exod._n 34.16_o 1_o cor._n 7.38_o mr._n perk._n upon_o gal._n quest._n what_o rule_n be_v parent_n to_o observe_v in_o give_v name_n to_o their_o child_n answ._n first_o they_o shall_v give_v they_o such_o name_n as_o may_v put_v they_o in_o mind_n of_o some_o good_a duty_n paul_n can_v never_o hear_v or_o remember_v his_o new_a name_n but_o he_o be_v thereby_o put_v in_o mind_n of_o his_o new_a office_n and_o duty_n which_o he_o be_v to_o perform_v among_o the_o gentile_n second_o as_o much_o as_o may_v be_v these_o name_n must_v be_v give_v in_o the_o natural_a language_n thus_o the_o hebrew_n give_v fit_a name_n in_o hebrew_n the_o greek_n in_o greek_a as_o timothy_n etc._n etc._n act._n 26.1_o the_o latin_n in_o latin_a as_o tertius_fw-la quartus_fw-la rom._n 16.22_o 23._o three_o we_o must_v neither_o be_v too_o curious_a nor_o too_o careless_a in_o give_v name_n to_o our_o child_n quest._n who_o be_v too_o curious_a answ._n such_o as_o give_v they_o name_n above_o the_o nature_n of_o man_n some_o draw_v too_o near_o the_o deity_n itself_o as_o emanuel_n and_o the_o jesuit_n some_o of_o angel_n as_o gabriel_n michael_n etc._n etc._n some_o of_o virtue_n as_o grace_n faith_n mercy_n patience_n etc._n etc._n quest._n who_o be_v too_o careless_a answ._n such_o as_o name_v their_o child_n with_o heathenish_a name_n as_o hector_n achilles_n hannibal_n julius_n caesar_n etc._n etc._n as_o if_o they_o will_v have_v they_o prove_v like_o they_o sometime_o they_o give_v they_o name_n of_o thing_n
far_o below_o the_o nature_n of_o man_n as_o of_o beast_n tree_n flower_n etc._n etc._n dr._n tailor_n on_o tit._n quest._n why_o must_v there_o be_v such_o care_n in_o name_v our_o child_n answ._n because_o such_o who_o name_n be_v appoint_v by_o god_n as_o gen._n 17.19_o mat._n 1.21_o luke_n 1.13_o and_o such_o as_o be_v give_v by_o holy_a man_n and_o woman_n that_o be_v guide_v by_o god_n spirit_n be_v holy_a sober_a and_o fit_a name_n as_o 1._o name_n which_o have_v some_o good_a signification_n as_o samuel_n hear_v of_o god_n john_n the_o grace_n of_o god_n jonathan_n the_o gift_n of_o god_n simeon_n obedient_a etc._n etc._n 2._o name_n which_o have_v in_o time_n before_o we_o be_v give_v to_o person_n of_o good_a note_n who_o life_n be_v worthy_a our_o imitation_n as_o isaac_n david_n peter_n mary_n elizabeth_n etc._n etc._n that_o the_o name_n may_v move_v they_o to_o imitate_v those_o worthy_n 3._o name_n of_o our_o own_o ancestor_n and_o predecessor_n to_o preserve_v a_o 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be_v helpful_a to_o they_o yet_o be_v they_o not_o bind_v to_o desert_n their_o calling_n luke_n 9.62_o or_o to_o return_v to_o take_v care_n of_o their_o family_n business_n as_o they_o do_v before_o dr._n davenant_n on_o col._n quest._n what_o general_a rule_n be_v to_o be_v observe_v by_o child_n in_o obey_v their_o parent_n answ._n first_o they_o must_v obey_v not_o in_o some_o thing_n and_o at_o some_o time_n but_o always_o through_o the_o whole_a course_n of_o their_o life_n eph._n 6.2_o second_o they_o must_v perform_v this_o obedience_n 1._o with_o reverence_n internal_a and_o external_a internal_o they_o must_v have_v a_o high_a esteem_n of_o they_o a_o tender_a respect_n to_o and_o show_v honour_n and_o observance_n of_o they_o external_o they_o must_v show_v it_o by_o all_o reverend_a behaviour_n as_o by_o rise_v up_o before_o they_o give_v they_o the_o honour_n to_o speak_v first_o etc._n etc._n 2._o with_o readiness_n to_o hear_v and_o receive_v their_o instruction_n prov._n 1.8_o three_o they_o must_v endeavour_v to_o fulfil_v their_o desire_n by_o their_o labour_n or_o otherwise_o four_o they_o must_v submit_v to_o their_o rebuke_n prov._n 13.1_o to_o their_o restraint_n about_o diet_n apparel_n recreation_n etc._n etc._n to_o their_o correction_n heb._n 12.9_o five_o they_o must_v pray_v for_o they_o for_o if_o they_o must_v do_v it_o for_o all_o much_o more_o for_o they_o 1_o tim._n 2.1_o six_o they_o must_v show_v meekness_n of_o love_n three_o way_n 1._o by_o obey_v without_o inquire_v murmur_a or_o contend_v 2._o by_o bear_v with_o their_o infirmity_n whether_o of_o body_n or_o mind_n yea_o though_o age_a disease_a crabbed_a 3._o by_o obey_v without_o respect_n of_o profit_n the_o contrary_n be_v base_a and_o mercenary_a seven_o they_o must_v show_v thankfulness_n and_o gratitude_n by_o recompense_v their_o parent_n kindness_n and_o relieve_v they_o in_o their_o want_n if_o they_o fall_v into_o want_n 1_o tim._n 5.4_o mr._n byfield_n on_o col._n chap._n xxix_o question_n and_o case_n of_o conscience_n about_o christ._n quest._n what_o be_v we_o to_o conceive_v of_o the_o incarnation_n of_o christ_n answ._n that_o it_o be_v a_o notable_a wonder_n and_o great_a beyond_o all_o comparison_n that_o the_o son_n of_o god_n shall_v be_v make_v of_o a_o woman_n gal._n 4.4_o even_o of_o that_o woman_n that_o be_v make_v by_o himself_o john_n 1.3_o col._n 1.16_o that_o her_o womb_n and_o the_o heaven_n now_o shall_v contain_v he_o act_v 3.11_o who_o the_o heaven_n of_o heaven_n can_v contain_v 1_o king_n 8.27_o that_o he_o who_o have_v both_o father_n and_o mother_n who_o pedigree_n be_v record_v even_o up_o to_o adam_n who_o in_o the_o fullness_n of_o time_n be_v bring_v forth_o in_o bethlehem_n and_o when_o he_o have_v finish_v his_o course_n be_v cut_v off_o at_o jerusalem_n shall_v yet_o be_v in_o truth_n that_o which_o his_o shadow_n melchizedek_n be_v only_o in_o the_o conceit_n of_o the_o man_n of_o his_o time_n without_o 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may_v be_v true_o speak_v of_o the_o whole_a person_n from_o whithersoever_o of_o the_o nature_n it_o be_v denominate_v for_o the_o clear_n whereof_o remember_v that_o in_o he_o dwell_v all_o the_o fullness_n of_o the_o godhead_n bodily_a col._n 2.9_o i_o e._n by_o such_o a_o personal_a and_o real_a union_n as_o do_v inseparate_o and_o everlasting_o conjoin_v that_o infinite_a godhead_n with_o his_o finite_a manhood_n in_o the_o unity_n of_o the_o selfsame_a individual_a person_n quest._n how_o may_v we_o understand_v this_o answ._n remember_v that_o he_o in_o who_o that_o fullness_n dwell_v be_v the_o person_n and_o that_o fullness_n that_o so_o dwell_v in_o he_o be_v the_o nature_n now_o there_o dwell_v in_o he_o not_o only_o the_o fullness_n of_o the_o godhead_n but_o the_o fullness_n of_o the_o manhood_n also_o so_o that_o there_o be_v two_o distinct_a nature_n in_o he_o and_o two_o so_o distinct_a that_o they_o do_v not_o make_v one_o compound_v nature_n but_o still_o remain_v 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not_o propound_v christ_n as_o a_o saviour_n to_o they_o in_o the_o first_o place_n but_o must_v do_v as_o paul_n when_o he_o preach_v to_o foelix_n act._n 24.25_o lay_v open_a the_o wrath_n of_o god_n to_o he_o for_o his_o sin_n so_o that_o he_o tremble_v so_o must_v they_o humble_v they_o by_o the_o law_n before_o they_o preach_v the_o gospel_n 3._o reprobate_n have_v this_o advantage_n by_o christ_n that_o they_o enjoy_v all_o the_o mercy_n they_o have_v for_o all_o be_v forfeit_v by_o adam_n sin_n by_o christ_n who_o be_v the_o heir_n of_o all_o thing_n they_o come_v lawful_o to_o enjoy_v the_o mercy_n they_o have_v for_o its_o christ_n that_o bear_v up_o the_o world_n indeed_o they_o have_v not_o a_o sanctify_a use_n of_o what_o they_o enjoy_v for_o to_o the_o impure_a all_o thing_n be_v impure_a tit._n 1.15_o but_o otherwise_o they_o have_v a_o lawful_a right_n before_o god_n and_o man_n to_o what_o they_o enjoy_v psal._n 115.8_o 4._o it_o be_v by_o christ_n death_n that_o many_o 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not_o faith_n and_o repentance_n give_v they_o therefore_o four_o there_o can_v be_v a_o great_a love_n than_o christ_n to_o die_v for_o one_o and_o if_o god_n have_v deliver_v up_o christ_n for_o we_o how_o shall_v he_o not_o with_o he_o free_o give_v we_o all_o thing_n rom._n 8.32_o therefore_o to_o say_v that_o christ_n die_v for_o all_o and_o yet_o will_v not_o save_v all_o be_v to_o grant_v the_o great_a and_o deny_v the_o less_o quest._n how_o then_o shall_v we_o know_v who_o they_o be_v that_o have_v a_o interest_n in_o christ_n death_n answ._n first_o such_o as_o be_v dead_a to_o sin_n christ_n death_n and_o sin_n death_n go_v together_o rom._n 6.10_o 11._o gal._n 5.24_o if_o christ_n be_v crucify_v for_o thou_o the_o lust_n of_o sin_n be_v crucify_v in_o thou_o second_o such_o be_v not_o only_o dead_a to_o sin_n but_o to_o the_o world_n also_o so_o paul_n gal._n 6.14_o col_fw-fr 3.2_o 3._o so_o then_o not_o only_o gross_a sin_n exclude_v from_o a_o propriety_n in_o christ_n death_n but_o also_o a_o inordinate_a frame_n of_o heart_n to_o these_o lawful_a thing_n below_o indeed_o if_o this_o inordinate_a affection_n be_v a_o burden_n and_o grief_n to_o thou_o they_o hurt_v not_o non_fw-la sensus_fw-la sed_fw-la consensus_fw-la nocet_fw-la three_o such_o make_v the_o death_n of_o christ_n a_o pattern_n of_o all_o patience_n and_o humble_a resignation_n 1_o peter_n 2.21_o 24._o for_o christ_n death_n be_v not_o only_o efficacious_a and_o meritorious_a but_o exemplary_a christ_n learn_v obedience_n by_o his_o suffering_n heb._n 5.6_o when_o he_o be_v revile_v he_o revile_v not_o again_o etc._n etc._n so_o shall_v it_o be_v with_o we_o four_o such_o look_n upon_o the_o bitterness_n and_o ugliness_n of_o sin_n as_o be_v so_o foul_a that_o nothing_o but_o the_o blood_n of_o christ_n can_v wash_v it_o away_o the_o very_a thought_n of_o christ_n death_n make_v they_o cry_v out_o of_o the_o curse_a and_o filthy_a nature_n of_o sin_n five_o such_o be_v infinite_o affect_v with_o the_o love_n of_o god_n and_o christ_n in_o this_o his_o death_n so_o 2_o corinth_n 5.14_o consider_v from_o what_o a_o die_a damn_v state_n christ_n death_n free_v they_o it_o work_v in_o they_o unspeakable_a affection_n and_o enlargment_n towards_o god_n and_o christ._n six_o such_o will_v resign_v up_o to_o christ_n all_o that_o they_o have_v and_o now_o live_v no_o long_o to_o themselves_o or_o to_o worldly_a motion_n but_o unto_o christ_n rom._n 6.10_o 11._o 1_o pet._n 2.24_o 1_o cor._n 6.20_o they_o look_v upon_o their_o body_n estate_n health_n part_n etc._n etc._n not_o as_o their_o own_o but_o resign_v up_o all_o to_o christ._n quest._n what_o be_v the_o privilege_n which_o come_v by_o christ_n death_n to_o such_o 〈◊〉_d have_v interest_n therein_o answ._n first_o such_o as_o can_v plead_v christ_n death_n can_v also_o plead_v his_o resurrection_n intercession_n and_o whatsoever_o glorious_a action_n be_v do_v by_o he_o for_o his_o people_n rom._n 8.34_o second_o such_o have_v a_o propriety_n in_o all_o the_o benefit_n of_o his_o mediatorship_n justification_n sanctification_n and_o glorification_n rom._n 8.33_o 34._o heb._n 10.14_o three_o such_o shall_v have_v no_o other_o good_a thing_n either_o in_o heaven_n or_o earth_n deny_v to_o they_o rom._n 8.32_o he_o that_o have_v christ_n have_v enough_o and_o if_o thou_o want_v any_o thing_n it_o be_v not_o because_o god_n do_v not_o love_v thou_o or_o because_o his_o merciful_a thought_n be_v not_o towards_o thou_o but_o because_o many_o good_a thing_n be_v not_o absolute_o good_a in_o themselves_o and_o so_o not_o whole_o necessary_a for_o thou_o four_o such_o may_v from_o this_o special_a love_n to_o they_o rather_o than_o to_o other_o have_v a_o assure_a persuasion_n of_o their_o perseverance_n in_o grace_n till_o they_o attain_v to_o glory_n for_o christ_n will_v not_o lose_v any_o of_o those_o for_o who_o he_o suffer_v such_o bitter_a thing_n rom._n 8.35_o five_o such_o can_v rejoice_v in_o all_o tribulation_n and_o especial_o be_v above_o the_o fear_n of_o death_n christ_n death_n have_v take_v away_o sin_n which_o be_v the_o sting_n of_o it_o 1_o cor._n 15.55_o etc._n etc._n quest._n what_o be_v the_o benefit_n we_o have_v by_o christ_n ascension_n and_o exaltation_n answ._n first_o hereby_o his_o holy_a spirit_n be_v give_v more_o plentiful_o and_o abundant_o imply_v john_n 7.39_o so_o john_n 16.17_o if_o i_o depart_v i_o will_v send_v the_o comforter_n etc._n etc._n second_o hereby_o we_o be_v enable_v with_o all_o holy_a and_o heavenly_a gift_n either_o in_o a_o sanctify_a or_o ministerial_a way_n so_o eph._n 4.8_o christ_n when_o he_o ascend_v give_v gift_n to_o man_n that_o we_o have_v a_o ministry_n and_o ordinance_n with_o the_o spiritual_a effect_n thereof_o it_o be_v whole_o from_o this_o yea_o john_n 14.12_o all_o miraculous_a gift_n descend_v from_o this_o yea_o our_o faith_n repentance_n love_v to_o god_n and_o delight_n in_o holy_a thing_n be_v because_o of_o this_o truth_n three_o hereby_o he_o prepare_v a_o place_n for_o his_o child_n john_n 14.3_o he_o be_v go_v to_o heaven_n to_o see_v that_o throne_n of_o glory_n be_v provide_v for_o his_o people_n four_o christ_n be_v go_v to_o heaven_n to_o be_v our_o advocate_n and_o to_o plead_v our_o cause_n 1_o john_n 2.1_o h●b_n 7.25_o in_o his_o great_a glory_n he_o forget_v not_o his_o child_n as_o pharaoh_n butler_n do_v joseph_n yea_o when_o we_o can_v mind_v ourselves_o christ_n be_v commend_v our_o estate_n to_o the_o father_n and_o plead_v our_o cause_n when_o any_o accusation_n be_v bring_v against_o we_o five_o though_o christ_n be_v go_v to_o the_o father_n yet_o he_o be_v not_o depart_v from_o we_o for_o ever_o but_o will_v
be_v all_o one_o whether_o we_o be_v defile_v with_o our_o own_o or_o other_o filthiness_n four_o god_n have_v ordain_v humane_a society_n to_o better_v we_o and_o help_v we_o out_o of_o sin_n not_o to_o pollute_v and_o strengthen_v one_o another_o in_o sin_n five_o the_o hard_a this_o duty_n be_v by_o reason_n of_o the_o deluge_n of_o sin_n and_o the_o scorn_n that_o be_v cast_v upon_o it_o if_o we_o walk_v alone_o and_o cross_v the_o time_n by_o so_o much_o the_o more_o acceptable_a it_o be_v to_o god_n as_o we_o see_v in_o noah_n lot_n etc._n etc._n six_o the_o want_n of_o conscience_n in_o this_o duty_n set_v and_o continue_v all_o thing_n out_o of_o frame_n in_o all_o estate_n as_o when_o the_o magistrate_n punish_v not_o minister_n reprove_v not_o master_n and_o parent_n restrain_v not_o and_o so_o make_v themselves_o guilty_a of_o most_o sin_n of_o their_o inferior_n dr._n tho._n tailor_n quest._n how_o else_o may_v we_o communicate_v in_o other_o man_n sin_n answ._n according_a 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fall_v into_o some_o shameful_a sin_n be_v thereby_o bring_v to_o repentance_n and_o humble_v or_o when_o by_o the_o occasion_n of_o some_o soul_n impiety_n a_o good_a law_n be_v make_v against_o it_o which_o otherwise_o will_v not_o have_v be_v make_v phil._n 1.15_o 16_o 17_o 18._o ames_n cas._n consci_fw-la chap._n xxxviii_o question_n and_o case_n of_o conscience_n about_o the_o choice_n and_o use_n of_o company_n quest._n what_o rule_n be_v we_o to_o observe_v in_o the_o choice_n of_o our_o company_n answ._n never_o cast_v thyself_o into_o wicked_a company_n nor_o press_v among_o the_o profane_a especial_o upon_o choice_n voluntary_o and_o delightful_o and_o abide_v no_o long_o with_o they_o at_o any_o time_n upon_o any_o occasion_n than_o thou_o have_v a_o sound_a warrant_n and_o call_v thereto_o foyes_n its_o uncomely_a and_o incompatible_a with_o a_o good_a conscience_n it_o be_v not_o for_o the_o honour_n or_o comfort_n of_o god_n child_n to_o keep_v company_n or_o familiar_o 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etc._n now_o god_n child_n be_v bind_v by_o the_o law_n of_o god_n and_o prudence_n from_o converse_v with_o delight_n and_o from_o the_o exchange_n and_o exercise_v of_o those_o special_a passage_n of_o dear_a acquaintance_n with_o profane_a man_n and_o enemy_n of_o god_n quest._n what_o reason_n may_v be_v render_v for_o this_o answ._n first_o by_o such_o society_n he_o incur_v a_o double_a hazard_n 1._o of_o be_v infect_v with_o sin_n can_v a_o man_n touch_v pitch_n and_o not_o be_v defile_v or_o go_v upon_o coal_n and_o not_o be_v burn_v pro._n 6.27_o 28._o indeed_o there_o be_v a_o strange_a attractive_a and_o impious_a power_n in_o ill_a company_n to_o poison_n and_o pervert_v even_o the_o best_a disposition_n for_o 1._o by_o familiar_a correspondence_n with_o such_o there_o steal_v upon_o a_o man_n a_o secret_a and_o insensible_a dislike_n of_o his_o former_a sober_a course_n as_o have_v thereby_o too_o much_o abridge_v himself_o of_o his_o liberty_n 2._o there_o sly_o 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