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be converted and your Sins shall be Blotted out Acts 3. 19. For if we confess our Sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our Sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 Joh. 1. 9. And whosoe confesseth and forsaketh his Sins shall find mercy Prov 28. 13. And if ye forgive Men their Trespasses your Heavenly Father will also forgive you your Trespasses Matt. 6. 14. And break off thine iniquities by giving to the Poor Dan. 4. 27. For by mercy and truth iniquity is purged Prov. 16. 6. And Mercy rejoyceth against Judgment James 2. 13. And having these Promises let us cleanse our selves from all filthiness of flesh and spirit perfecting holiness in the fear of God 2 Cor. 7. 1. Above all taking the shield of faith whereby ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked Eph. 6. 16. Putting on the breast-plate of Faith and Love and for an helmet the Hope of Salvation 1 Thess. 5. 8. And trust in the Lord and he shall save thee And know that the Lord thy God he is God the faithful God which keepeth Covenant and Mercy with them that love him and keep his Commandments to a thousand Generations Deut. 7. 9. His promises are all yea and Amen 2 Cor. 1. 20. His word is tryed and he is a Buckler to all them that trust in him 2 Sam. 22. 31. Glory be to the Father c. IV. With Thankfulness SHall we receive good at the Hand of God and shall we not receive evil Job 2. 10. The Lord gave and the Lord hath taken away blessed be the Name of the Lord. Job 1. 21. It is the Lord's mercy that we are not suddenly consumed Lam. 3. 22. Yea and it is good for me that I have been afflicted that I might learn thy Law Ps. 119. 71. And thou out of very faithfulness hath caused me to be troubled Ps. 119. 75. For because the wicked have no changes therefore they fear not God Ps. 55. 19. Blessed therefore is the man whom thou chastenest O! Lord and teachest him out of thy Law That thou mayest give him rest in the Days of Adversity Ps. 94. 12 13. Glory be to the Father c. V. With Patience 1. Patience towards God in Submission and Resignation of our Selves to his Holy Will WOE be to the man that hath lost Patience for what will he do when the Lord shall visit him Ecclus. 2. 15. Humble your selves under the mighty hand of God that he may exalt you in due time 1 Pet. 5. 6. For our Fathers after the flesh corrected us and we gave them Reverence and shall we not much rather be in subjection to the Father of Spirits Heb. 12. 9. Thy Will be done in Earth as it is in Heaven Mat. 6. 10. Father if it be possible let this Cup pass from me nevertheless not as I will but as thou wilt Mat. 26. 39. Shall we receive good at the hand of God and shall we not receive evil Job 2. 10. It is the Lord let him do what seemeth him good 1 Sam. 3. 18. And if he thus say I have no delight in thee Behold Here am I let him do to me as seemeth good to him 2 Sam. 15. 26. And in maintaining this Patience and Resignedness opposite 1. To Striving and Reluctance and Rising up against God Why dost thou strive against him for he giveth no account of his matters Job 33. 13. Woe unto him that striveth with his Maker Let the Potsherd strive with the Potsherds of the Earth Shall the clay say unto him that fashioneth it what makest thou Is. 45. 9. Submit your selves therefore to God And humble your selves in his sight and he shall lift you up Jam. 4. 7. 10. For if their uncircumcised hearts be humbled and they accept of the punishment of their iniquity Then will I remember my Covenant Lev. 26. 41 42. 2. To Unquietness and Tumultuousness and Disturbedness of Spirit Why art thou disquieted within me O! my Soul Ps. 42. 11. It is good that a man should quietly wait for the Salvation of the Lord. Lam. 3. 26. In your Patience therefore possess ye your Souls Luk. 21. 19. And whatsoever is brought upon thee take chearfully and be patient when thou art changed to a low Estate For Gold is tryed in the fire and acceptable men in the furnace of adversity Ecclus. 2. 4 5. 3. To Weariness and Faintness and Dejection Thou hast born and had patience and hast laboured and not fainted Rev. 2. 3. And my Son despise not the chastening of the Lord neither be weary of his correction Prov. 3. 11. If thou faint in the day of adversity thy strength is small Prov. 24. 10. And consider Iesus who endured such contradiction of sinners against himself lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds Heb. 12. 3. For in due season we shall reap if we faint not Gal. 6. 9. Ye that fear the Lord therefore believe him and your reward shall not fail Believe in him and he will help thee But woe be to fearful hearts and faint hands and the sinner that goeth two ways Woe unto him that is faint-hearted for he believeth not therefore shall he not be defended Ecclus. 2. 6 7 12 13. Why art thou cast down then O! my Soul Hope thou in God for I shall yet praise him who is the health of my countenance and my God Ps. 42. 11. When I am weak then am I strong 2 Cor. 12. 1● And tho the outward man perish yet the inner man is renewed day by day Whilst we look not at the things which are seen but at the things which are not seen For the things which are seen are Temporal but the things which are not seen are Eternal 2 Cor. 4. 16. 18. Let thy mercy O! Lord be upon me according as I hope in thee Psal. 33. 22. 4. Opposite to Hastiness as it notes Perseverance in waiting We give thanks remembring your Patience of hope 1 Thess. 1 2 3. And I wait for the Lord my Soul doth wait and in his word do I hope Ps. 130. 5. On thee do I wait all the day Mine eyes are ever towards the Lord Ps. 25. 5. 15. I will hope continually and will yet praise thee more and more Ps. 71. 14. Ye have need of Patience and the just shall live by faith Heb. 10. 36. 38. Set your heart aright and constantly endure and make not haste in time of trouble Ecclus. 2. 2. And he that believeth will not make haste Isa. 28. 16. O! therefore tarry thou the Lord's leisure be strong and he shall comfort thine heart and put thou thy trust in the Lord Ps. 26. 14. For he will not always chide neither will he keep his anger for ever He knows our frame and remembreth that we are but dust And like as a Father pityeth his own Children so the Lord pityeth them that fear him Ps. 103. 9 13 14. He hath not forsaken them that seek him Ps.
now Lord what wait I●for truely my Hope is even in thee Ps. 39. 7. My Flesh and my Heart faileth but thou art the Strength of my Heart and my Portion for ever Ps. 73. 26. I Stretch out my hands unto thee my Soul Thirsteth after thee as a Thirsty Land Ps. 43. 6. All my Desire is before thee and my Groaning is not hid from thee Ps. 38. 9. Hide not then thy Face from me and forget not my misery and Trouble Ps. 44. 24. Cast me not off nor forsake me when my Strength faileth Ps. 71. 9. And rebuke me not O! Lord in thine Anger neither chasten me in thy heavy Displeasure Ps. 6. 1. But remove thy Stroke away from me for I am consumed by the blow of thine hand Ps. 39. 10. Wilt thou break a leaf driven to and fro and wilt thou pursue the dry Stubble Job 13. 25. Oh! Spare me a little that I may recover my Strength before I go hence and be no more Ps. 39. 13. Be not wroth ver●y sore O! Lord neither remember iniquity for ever Is. 64. 9. But turn from me that I may rest till I accomplish as an hireling my day Job 14. 6. and Ch. 10. 20. 21. Hear my Prayer O! Lord and give ear unto my cry hold not thy Peace at my Tears Ps. 39. 12. Be merciful unto me O! Lord for I cry unto thee Daily And thou art good and plenteous in mercy to all them that call upon thee Rejoyce the Soul of thy Servant for unto thee O! Lord do I lift up my Soul Ps. 86. 3 4 5. And hear me speedily O! Lord for my Spirit faileth Ps. 143. 7. And mine Eyes fail for thy word saying when wilt thou comfort me Ps. 119. 82. And make me hear of joy and gladness that the bones which thou hast broken may rejoyce Ps. 51. 8. Glory be to the Father c. II. For Deliverance and Recovery from the same I. IN thee O! Lord do I put my Trust let me never be ashamed deliver me in thy Righteousness Ps. 31. 1. Vnto thee have I cryed O! Lord and in the morning shall my Prayer prevent thee Ps. 88. 13. Hear my Prayer O! Lord and hide not thy Self from my Petition Take heed unto me and hear me how I mourn in my Prayer and am vexed Ps. 55. 1 2. Lord how long wilt thou be angry with thy Servant that prayeth Ps. 8. 4. Save me for thy Names sake and deliver me in thy Strength Ps. 54. 1. Make thy Face to shine upon thy Servant and save me for thy Mercies sake Ps. 31. 16. O! Let it be thy Pleasure to deliver me make hast O! Lord to help me Ps. 40. 13. And send out thy Light and thy Truth and let them lead me and bring me unto thy Holy Hill and to thy Tabernacles Ps. 43. 3. II. What profit is there in my Blood if I go down unto the Pit shall the dust praise thee Shall it declare thy Truth Ps. 30. 9. Shall thy loving kindness be declared in the Grave or thy Faithfulness in Destruction Shall thy wonders be known in the Dark and thy Righteousness in the Land of Forgetfulness Ps. 88. 11 12. The Living the Living he shall Praise thee the Father to the Children shall make known thy Truth Isa. 38. 19. Thou hast been my Succor leave me not neither forsake me O! God of my Salvation Ps. 27. 9. Thou art he that tookest me out of my Mothers Womb thou wast my hope when I hanged yet upon my Mothers Breasts I have been left unto thee ever since I was born thou art my God even from my Mothers Womb. Our Fathers also hoped in thee they trusted in thee and thou didst deliver them They called upon thee and were holpen they put their trust in thee and were not confounded Ps. 22. 4 5 9 10. And the Poor shall not always be forgotten and the Patient abiding of the meek shall not perish for ever Ps. 9. 18. O! Then deliver me and let me not be confounded for I have put my Trust in thee Ps. 25. 19. And men shall know that this is thy hand and that thou Lord hast done it Ps. 109. 26. Glory be to the Father c. On Receipt of Ease or any Abatement of Pain or Sickness BEhold God is my Salvation I will trust and not be affraid for the Lord Jehovah is my Strength and my Song he also is become my Salvation Thou wast angry with me O! Lord thine Anger is turned away and thou Comfortedst me Isa. 12. 1 2. He hath chastned me sore but he hath not given me over unto Death Ps. 118. 18. He knows our Frame he remembreth that we are Dust. And like as a Father Pityeth his Children so the Lord Pitieth those that fear him Ps. 103. 13 14. Glory be to the Father c. IV. Vnder the Accidents of Sickness I. Want of Sleep ALL the night make I my Bed to swim I water my Couch with my Tears Ps. 6. 6. For thou holdest mine Eyes waking I am so feeble that I cannot speak My sore ran in the night and ceased not My Soul refused to be comforted I call to Remembrance my Song in the night I commune with mine own Heart and my Spirit maketh diligent search Will the Lord cast off for ever and will he be favourable no more Is his mercy clean gone for ever doth his Promise fail for evermore Hath God forgotten to be Gracious hath he in Anger shut up his tender Mercies And I said this is my infirmity but I will remember the works of the Lord surely I will remember thy wonders of old Ps. 77. 2 4 6 7 8 9 10 11. Lord I remember thee upon my bed and meditate on thee in the night watches Ps. 63. 6. I have remembred thy name O! Lord in the night and have kept thy Law Ps. 119. 55. Glory be to the Father c. 2. On Excess of pain and weariness Lord thou hast set me as a mark against thee so that I am a Burden to my self In the day time I cry and cease not and wearisome nights are appointed to me When I lye down I say when shall I arise and the night be gone and I am full of Tossings to and fro unto the dawning of the day Job 7. 3 4 20. Thou wilt not suffer me to take my Breath but fillest me with bitterness Job 9. 18. O! turn thee unto me and have mercy upon me give thy strength unto thy Servant and save the Son of thine Handmaid Ps. 86. 16. Are not my days few cease then Lord and let me alone that I may take comfort a little Job 10 20. O! spare me a little that I may recover my strength Ps. 39. 13. And lay not more upon me than I am able to bear 1 Cor. 10. 13. My Grace sayest thou is sufficient for thee and my strength shall be made perfect in weakness 2 Cor. 12. 9. And in the multitude of my Thoughts
give●t me better things than thou takest away The bringing down my Body is for the inrichment of my Soul which is my better part And this smiting and wounding of my Flesh is for the healing and binding up my Spirit which is the truest way to do me good Oh! then that instead of dreading thy Visitation as my Scourge I may receive it as my Medicine That I may not repine at its making me weak in Body but rather rejoyce that it makes me strong in Spirit And give thee thanks for thy kindness and my comfort in thy Corrections which are to make me good that thou mayest make me happy and give me everlasting Rest and Bliss with thee thro' Jesus Christ my Lord. Amen IX Prayers for the Bodily Needs and Desires of Sick Persons 1. For Ease when Sickness grows very painful or troublesome 1. LORD look upon mine Adversity and Misery which call aloud to thee for ease For I am wither'd like grass and my Bones will scarce cleave to my skin My heart panteth and my strength faileth me and mine eyes are grown dim And there is no soundness in my flesh because of thine anger nor rest in my bones because of my sin Yea my bones are burnt as an Hearth and I go mourning all the day long and wearisom nights are appointed to me and I am full of tossing to and fro unto the dawning of the day This thou knowest O! My God for my groaning is not hid from thee Oh! Be not wroth very sore nor remember iniquity for ever Cast me not off when I need most to seek to thee nor forsake me when my strength faileth me But hear me and ease me O! Lord for thou delightest in Mercy Hear me for I cry unto thee yea I cry unto thee all the day Hear me speedily for I am brought very low and make no long tarrying for mine eyes long sore for thy word saying when wilt thou comfort me And though my flesh and my heart fail me yet let not thy Mercy and thy Word fail me For I still resign and trust my self to them and in my greatest weakness and extremity thou O! Father art my strength and my portion for ever thro' Jesus Christ my Lord. Amen 2. O! Most Gracious God my pains are extreme and too heavy for me have pity upon me and lighten them Correct me in measure and consider that I am but a feeble and frail Creature In thine anger remember mercy for I humbly submit my self and return to thee And Oh! Give me that tractableness and ingenuity of Spirit that will be check'd with a word and easily call'd off from evil and will not need any long or sharp methods of correction to reclaim me I have waited for thy Relief O! Father give me the comforts of it Yea Mine eyes long sore for thy word and are even wasted away with looking for thy saving health let them see it and be satisfied therewith Oh! shew me thy mercy and that soon for my need thereof is great And think upon me as concerning thy word for I trust to it to lay no more upon me than I can bear and to send me seasonable help and ease at present and everlasting Rest with thee in the end thro Jesus Christ my Lord. Amen A short Prayer on receipt of Ease or abatement of Pain or Sickness BLessed be thy Mercy O! my God which pitieth me in my Misery As a Father pitieth his Children when they cry out in the extremity of their pain so hast thou pityed me Thou hast chastned me sore but thou hast not given me over unto death thine anger is turn'd away and thou hast eased and comforted me Lord my Soul shall love thee and sing of thy Mercy And in my Distress I will always trust thee and not be afraid For thou art our strength whilst we suffer and our most merciful Deliverer when we are able to bear no more for our Blessed Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ's sake Amen 2. A Prayer for Strength under the same GIVE me strength O! Lord to strive with my Disease and to bear the weakness of Nature And strengthen my Spirit to withstand all its Temptations as well as my Body to bear its Diseases O! Enable me to resist the Devil and to suppress all stirrings of sin and folly To beat back all motions of corrupt Passion and not to lose the due Government of my self thro excess of pain but to shew my self mighty thro thee to bear all patiently and to fortifie my weakness by a firm Faith and unshaken Trust in thy Grace and sure Promises Lord if I have no strength but my own every weight will bear me down But if thou wilt support me nothing will be too heavy for me because nothing is too hard for thee But thy strength will be made perfect in my weakness and thy Grace is sure to overcome my Corruptions and thy Comforts to give me Ease thro' my most Blessed Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Amen 3. A Prayer for Deliverance from them DEliver me O! my God for I seek unto thee to help me yea I seek unto thee early and continue seeking all the day long Thou delightest in Mercy deliver me for thy Mercies sake Thou hast promised to be with us and help us in trouble Deliver me for thy Righteousness Thou art Glorious in might to help our weaknesses Deliver me in thy strength Thou hast formerly been my succour Oh! be so still And our Fathers hoped in thee and were delivered let not my hope in thee perish or be put to shame more than theirs was Save me O! Almighty Lord and make hast to my help And m●n shall know that it is thy hand and that thou hast done it and learn thereby both to give thee Praise and to make thee their strength and confidence thro Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen 4. Prayers for longer Respite and Recovery from Sickness 1. O! Almighty Lord in whose Hands are the Issues of Life and Death look in Mercy upon these Decays of Nature which my Diseases hath made and repair them and spare me a little that I may recover my Health and Strength again I do not desire Health O! my God to consume it in Idleness Nor out of Fondness for the gay Pleasures and Pomps of this World that I may be strong to pursue them For I believe and know them all to be Vanity and Vexation of Spirit I lift my Heart above them and do by no means desire to have this Earth for my home or to take up with them for my Portion For I love thee and thy ways O! Dear Lord above them and their Delights and will harbour no love of them but what is ready to submit them all to thee when thou art pleased to take them away and which will never sin against thy Laws to secure them to my self
Amen 8. A Prayer of Friends for the Sick when they are Light-headed or apprehend danger thereof LORD in this extremity of pain and sickness keep thy Servant in his Senses and let him not want the use of Reason when he stands most in need of its Succors Let not his Disease transport him into vane or violent Ravings And much less let the Enemy abuse his Fancy when he himself has lost all good use thereof and possess it with any frightful or ungodly Thoughts and Illusions But whatever he says or doth amiss or indecent under such Disturbance and alienation of mind impute not the same to him as his sins O! Lord whilst his Reason can neither understand nor refuse them and whilst that which takes away the use of his Reason from him is only his Disease which is of thy sending But impute them to the busie working of the Adversary upon an ungovern'd imagination And give thy Servant his Senses again that he may disclaim all the evil which he said or did whilst he knew it not and that he may watch against the Enemy and may see his own wants and earnestly implore thy Grace and Mercy for the supply thereof through Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour Amen X. PRAYERS for certain kinds of Sickness I. For Women with Child Scriptures for Women with Child 1. Before their Travail UNTO the Woman God said I will greatly multiply thy Sorrow and thy Conception in Sorrow shalt thou bring forth Children Gen. 3. 16. For the Woman being deceived was first in the Transgression Notwithstanding she shall be saved in Child-bearing if she continue in Faith and Charity and Holyness with Sobriety 1 Tim. 2. 14 15. And when she is in Travail she hath Sorrow because her hour is come But as soon as she is deliver'd she remembreth no more the anguish for joy that a man is born into the World Jo 16. 21. 2. In Travail LORD my heart is sore pained within me and the Terrors of Death are fal●'n upon me Fearfulness and trembling are come upon me and horror hath over-whelmed me Ps. 55. 4 5. But what time I am afraid I put my trust in thee Ps. 56. 3. Lord I beseech thee deliver my soul Ps. 116. 4. Oh! Be not thou far from me nor seem as if thou heardest not Shew some token upon me for good and make haste to help me O! Lord Ps. 38. 21. 22. and 88. 17. 3. After Delivery she may express her Devotion in one of the Hymns in the Office for Churching of Women or in this following I Love the Lord because he hath heard my voice and my supplicacations Because he hath inclined his ear unto me therefore will I call upon him as long as I live The sorrows of death compassed me and the pains of hell got hold upon me I found trouble and sorrow Then called I upon the Name of the Lord 116. 1 2 3 4. And in the day when I cryed he answered me and strengthened me with strength in my soul Ps. 138. 3. When I sought him he heard me and deliver'd me from all my fears Ps. 34. 4. Oh! Sing unto the Lord all ye Saints of his and give thanks at the remembrance of his Holiness Psal. 30. 4. Ye that fear the Lord praise him For he hath not despised nor abhorred the affliction of the afflicted neither hath he hid his face from me but when I cryed unto him he heard me And my praise shall be of him in the great Congregation I will pay my Vows before them that fear him Psal. 22. 23 24 25. Glory be to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Ghost As it was in the beginning is now and ever shall be World without end Amen Prayers for Women with Child 1. A Prayer for a breeding Woman and against Miscarriage to be used at any time before Travel O! Almighty Lord who in thy Mercy hast given me an hopeful Conception carry it on I humbly intreat thee to an happy Deliverance in thy due time Oh! let not my Child fare the worse for mine Offences nor deal with it according to my Deserts but according to thy own tender Mercies Give it its due shapes and full growth and preserve me from all Frights or evil Accidents which may cause me to miscarry and in great Love and Pity both to it and me bring it into the World at its full Maturity And Bless it in mind O God as well as in Body Endow it with an understanding capable to know thee and with an Heart well disposed and strongly bent to fear thee Sanctifie it from the Womb and receive and reckon it for thy Child as soon as it is mine lent to me for my Comfort but ever reserved and employ'd by thee for thy Service and Glory And Lord if it may please thee make it easie to me in the breeding and in the bearing and bringing forth also when the time shall come And grant that in both I may always bear my Burden with Patience and look up to thee with Faith and receive thy Mercies with all Humility and Thankfulness thro' Jesus Christ my Lord Amen 2. A Prayer when the time of Travel draws near GIve me Grace O! merciful God to look for the pangs and throws of Travel which now draw near unto me with holy Fear and humble Confidence in thee Let me not come to meet them O! Almighty Father in a stupid or careless Security as one insensible how much the smart and peril of this State do need thy help and mercy For nothing is fitter to show us our weakness nor calls more for the Succours of thy strength And therefore I disclaim all Confidence in my Self or other humane means and humbly seek to thee and give my Self and my poor Babe up for lost unless thou art pleased to stand by me But when I see how much I need thee let me not mistrust thee O! my God For thou art prone to shew Pity and my pangs will be strong to move it And the Preservation of my sweet Babe which has done nothing against thee will call aloud to thy mercy to deliver me Thou art ready to hear us and to help us O! Lord because of thy Promise And my Trust is that thy Power and Goodness will not be wanting to support and deliver me in this Case because I see thou daily dost extend the same to support and deliver others and because thou hast several times heretofore done the same to my Self And therefore O! Father I cheerfully commit my self into thy hands And look to find mercy from thee as one who absolutely needs thee and humbly trusts to thee For mine eyes are unto thee O! God and to thee alone to give me convenient Courage to meet my pangs and strength to bear them and to give me Patience to wait on thee and a safe Deliverance at thy due time for our Lord Jesus Christ's sake Amen III. Prayers in time of Travel
to Life or Death as thou pleasest only in both to thy Mercy And whether living or dying let me still please thee and be thou my Portion Oh! Perfect my Repentance and purge away all my sins And give me Patience whilst I live and Peace when I die and after that the happiness to see thy Face in a Blessed Eternity which thou hast prepared and promised to all that truly fear thee thro Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen 3. A Prayer for her Child PReserve my tender Child O! Father and let its own weakness and my Cries commend it to thy Blessed Care Preserve it to be regenerated and born again by Baptism and thereby made thine own Child by Adoption which is infinitely a greater Blessing both to it and me than thy making of it mine Keep it also afterwards in Health and Safety And as it increases in Years and Stature let it increase withal in Wisdom and in thy Fear I beg not for it Wealth or Greatness but Wisdom to know and serve thee For O! Lord I do not desire Life either for my self or it but that we may live to thee and grow daily in Love and Thankfulness for all thy Mercies and in Faith and Patience and all holy Obedience which may fit us both for ever to injoy thee thro' Jesus Christ our only Saviour and Redeemer Amen Afterwards when she comes to be Churched besides the accustomed Offering to the Minister she may add a Gift of Alms to the Poor as a proper and acceptable Tribute of Thanks and Praise Alms being as fit to attend and recommend our Thanksgivings as they are to inforce our Prayers And let her not forget the Churches Admonition to compleat her giving Thanks by Receiving the Holy Sacrament if there be a Communion that day or so soon as there shall be one II. Devotions on the Loss of Eye-sight to be read to them by some Friends for them to Meditate upon or to joyn in Scriptures I. WHO hath made the Seeing and the Blind Have not I the Lord Ex. 4. 11. And the Lord openeth the eyes of the Blind Ps. 146. 8. He hath anointed me to preach the Gospel to the Poor and recovering of Sight to the Blind Luk. 4. 18. Lord I grope for the wall and stumble at Noon-day as in the Night I wait for Light but behold obscurity for brightness but I walk in darkness Is. 59. 9 10. Lord I beseech thee that I may recover my sight Receive thy sight thy faith hath saved thee Luk. 18. 41 42. But if I must not receive it in my Body however open the Eyes of my Soul that I may behold wondrous things out of thy Law Ps. 119. 18. 2. The Light of the Eyes indeed rejoyceth the Heart Prov. 15. 30. For truly the Light is sweet and a pleasant thing it is for the Eyes to behold the Sun Eccl. 11. 7. But the Eye is not satisfied with seeing Eccl. 1. 8. For as Hell and Destruction are never full so the Eyes of Man are never satisfied Prov. 27. 20. And the Lust of the Eyes is not of the Father but of the World 1 Jo. 2. 16. So that we need to make a Covenant with our Eyes Job 31. 1. And if thine Eye offend thee pluck it out and cast it from thee It is better for the to enter into Life without Eyes rather than having Eyes to be cast into Hell-fire Mat. 18. 9. Besides in seeing much we see much evil and it may be thou shalt be mad for the Sight of thine Eyes which thou shalt see Deut. 28. 34. And just Lot in seeing vexed his Righteous Soul from day to day with the unlawful deeds of the wicked 2 Pet. 2. 7 8. 3. Moreover tho' the Body be dark yet the Eyes of our understanding may be inlightned Eph. 1. 18. For the Spirit of Man is the Candle of the Lord searching all the inward parts of the belly Prov. 20. 27. And we walk by Faith and not by Sight 2 Cor. 5. 7. And tho 't is pleasant to see the Sun yet 't is pleasanter to see those things which the Angels desire to look into 1 Pet. 1. 12. And to supply our want of Bodily Eyes our Friends and Neighbours may be to us instead of eyes Num. 10. 31. For I was Eyes to the Blind and Feet to the Lame Job 29. 15. And cursed be he that maketh the Blind to wander out of the way Deut. 27. 18. Or putteth a Stumbling-block before him Lev. 19. 14. Glory be to the Father c. PRAYERS I. For Recovery of Sight LORD pity me who have my Eyes always closed and all my Days turned into Night I cannot see what I eat or what I drink and I grope for the wall and stumble in the Light as in the Dark For the Light which maketh all things manifest about us and reviveth and maketh glad both Man and Beast is no Light to me but I am Dark at Noon-Day Oh! Support and comfort me in this my Adversity and restore my Sight to me again if it may seem fit to thee Consider Lord how greatly it serves for my comfort and safety And restore it to me for I seek to thee and thou art prone to pity me and thou only who gavest it canst restore it Yea do thou restore it O! my God that I may again behold the marvelous Greatness and the rich and various Beauty of thy Creatures and devoutly admire and praise the Glories of thy Wisdom Power and Goodness which they set forth daily before our eyes And above all that I may return to read thy Holy Word to instruct and comfort me and to make me perfect in the way of my Duty and of obtaining thine everlasting Mercy thro' Jesus Christ my Lord Amen II. For Patience under the want of it 1. AND in this state of Bodily Blindness O! Righteous Lord I do not in the least complain of thee for laying it upon me For thou hast continued the use of my Eyes much longer unto me than I have been careful to use and employ them for thee And because I would not take care to govern them virt●ously and wisely nor shut them up or restrain them my self thou hast shut them up in Darkness For they had taken me off O! Holy Father from minding thee to mind Worldly Pomp and show and to fix themselves in Clay They were grown greedy and unsatisfied in beholding Vanity They had often made me to offend And 't is better to want Eyes than to be made to offend by them and to enter into Life being Blind rather than having Eyes without Innocence to be cast into Hell fire So that I humbly submit to this Blindness O! my God and meekly accept of it both as the punishment of mine iniquities and as a means to cure and prevent them And if it be thy Pleasure to have me rest under it or whilst it is so thy Blessed Will be done And I will not only
lose them again That being made whole once it nearly concerns me to sin noe more lest I fall under something worse And that as I have now received them again from thee I ought above all things to Devote them to thee and that whilst they are in the way of pleasing thee they are surely in the best way of Benefitting and Comforting me And Lord have Pity upon others who are uncomfortable blinde as I was Hear their Cryes and Lighten their Darkness as thou hast Done mine Oh! that seeing what thou hast now done for me they may hold fast their hope and trust in thee And that all thy Servants may Praise and Magnifye thy Goodness which gives Sight to the Blind and raiseth the Poor out of Misery to be a Liveing monument of thy mercy and to Give thanks and Praise to thee thro our Blessed Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Amen Our Father c. IV. Prayers for a Sick Child 1. Out of the Office of Visitation of the Sick O! Allmighty God and most Mercyful Father to whom alone belong the issues of Life and Death look Down from Heaven we humbly beseech thee with the Eyes of Mercy upon this Child now lyeing upon the Bed of Sickness Visit him O! Lord with thy Salvation Deliver him in thy good appointed time from his Bodily Pain and save his Soul for thy Mercyes Sake That if it shall be thy good Pleasure to prolong his Days here on Earth he may live to thee and be an instrument of thy Glory by Serveing thee Faithfully and Doing Good in his Generation or else Receive him into those Heavenly Habitations where the Souls of them that Sleep in the Lord Jesus enjoy Perpetual Rest and Felicity Graunt this O! Lord for thy mercyes sake in the same thy Son our Lord Jesus Christ who liveth aud reigneth with thee and the Holy Ghost ever one God world without end Amen 2. Another Prayer for the same LOrd Pity the troubles and weakness of this Poor Child and Pity our Sorrows who are afflicted with it and for it Ease it of its Pains and strengthen it when it lyes struggling for Life and raise it up again if it may please thee to grow in years and stature and in Wisdom and thy Fear and thereby to comfort us and Glorifye thee We beleive O! Allmighty Father that thou knowest best what is fit both for it and us and wi●t Doe what is best for both And therefore we leave it to thee to dispose of as thou pleasest But whether it be to Life or Death let it be thine in both and either preserve it to be thy true and Faithfull Servant here on Earth or take it to the Blessedness of thy Children in the Kingdom of Heaven thro our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Amen Our Father c. A Thanksgiving for its Recovery BLessed be thy Name O! Father of mercyes for that thou hast heard us concerning this Child and raised him up for thy Service and our Comfort And Lord fill his Heart with Grace as thou hast done ours with joy Let Wisdom and Goodness still grow up with him and as fast as he grows capable thereof make him willing and carefull to Honor and obey thee Let not Company corrupt him nor youthfull Lusts as they come on prevail against his Soul But as now thou art the Preserver of his Life be ever henceforward the Keeper of his Innocence that whensoever thou shall call him again in thy Due time to meet Death he may have Comfort in the Remembrance of a Godly and well spent Life and sweetly fall asleep in thy Peace thro the merits of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen Our Father which art c. V. Prayers in times of common Infection Scriptures THe Lord killeth and he maketh alive he bringeth Down to the Grave and he bringeth up 1 Sam. 2. 6. And is there any Evil in the City and the Lord hath not done it Amos 3. 6. But in his Wrath he remembreth mercy Hab. 3. 2. Oh! then let us come and return unto the Lord for he hath torn and he will heal as he hath smitten and he will binde us up Hos. 6. 1. And make thy Dwelling in the secret Place of the most High and thou shalt abide under the Shadow of the Almighty He shall cover thee with his Feathers and his Truth shall be thy Shield and Buckler And then thou shall not be afraid for the Terror by night nor for the Arrow that flyeth by Day Nor for the Pestilence that walketh in Darkness nor for the Destruction that wasteth at Noon Day A thousand shall fall at thy side and ten thousand at thy Right Hand but it shall not come nigh thee There shall noe Evil befall thee nor shall any Plague come nigh thy Dwelling For he shall give his Angells charge over thee to keep thee in all thy ways And that because thou hast made the Lord which is my Refuge even the most High thy Habitation Ps. 91. 1 4 5 6 7 9 10 11. Glory be to the Father c. Prayers I. O! Almighty God just art thou in visiting us of this place with this infectious Disease which takes away not only the injoyments of Health but alsoe the sweetest earthly Comforts and Supports of Sickness and Deprives us whilst we Live of the Help and Company of our Friends We justifye thee and thy judgements and confess that our miseryes are still far less than our Sins But whilst it comes to chastize our wickedness let it cure it too O! Lord. Take from us the Plague of an Hard Heart and make us tremble at thy word And purge away all our Sins for I fear them more and am more Desirous of their Cure than of the Cure of any Bodily Maladyes And they are truly our Plague which has infected our whole Nature and wherewith we Dayly infect one another And when they have showd us our wickedness let thy judgements cease from us and be intreated from this miserable Land for thy Dear Son our Saviour Jesus Christs sake Amen 2. O! Righteous Lord thou hast showed thy People terrible things and Given them a Drink of Deadly Wine Thou terrifyest us with thine Arrows which wound secretly and Walk in Darkness And with a Destruction which wasts at Noon Day But this deadly infection tho it be very spreading can invade none O! God without thy Commission Nor kill those whom it doth invade till thou biddest it Soe that our Life and Health is not left at the mercy of raging infection but is still bound up in thy Hand And they who have thee for their Sanctuarye in the most Contagious time may Dwell in Safety For thou givest thy Angells charge over them that noe infection can touch or Destroy them And under thy wings O! Lord doe I seek for shelter for my self and for my Family We have noe Preservation against these Dangers but thy Good Providence And the
God The accidents and uneasiness of his Sickness will still alarm his fears and try his Faith and it must be his care to shew no anxious or distracted thoughts under them But as often as any accidents or prospects terrifie him let him remember that they are all in God's Hands and shall have such end only as he pleases That he who sends them will take care they go no further than 't is fit they should and will turn them to the best at last That he is Safer and better in God's keeping and ordering than he could be in his own and therefore may lay aside all painful and mistrustful cares for himself as knowing under all that happens how sure he is to be taken care of Devout Thoughts about trusting God in Sickness 1. About trusting him with ones self AND when he feels much Sorrow and many Difficulties and may fear and foresee worse let him often say Lord I meekly receive all my Sorrows and dangers because thou sendest them And they shall not terrifie me because thou governest them And I am sure thou considerest all that lyes upon me and wilt turn it unto good That thou considerest how much I can bear and wilt in tender mercy take off the rest That thou considerest what strength I have to bear and wilt graciously supply me with what is wanting That thou considerest how long I can bear and wilt give me ease at the fittest Season And since thou wilt ease me in thy due time and support me till thou easest me I will not grow weary O! my Dear Lord or faint in my mind but wait with patience till my ease comes Amen Tho' I walk through the Valley of the shadow of Death I will fear no evil for thou art with me and thy Rod and thy Staff they comfort me Ps. 23. 4. Yea though thou killest me yet will I trust in thee and have hope even in my Death to find everlasting Rest and Joy after Death Amen Because I live ye shall live also Joh. 14. 19. I know that my Redeemer liveth and that he shall stand at the later day upon the Earth And though after my Skin Worms destroy this Body yet in my flesh shall I see God Whom I shall see for myself and mine Eyes shall behold and not another Job 19. 25 26 27. 2. About trusting him with ones nearest Relations or Dear Children Friends or Dependants IF it troubles him to leave his Friends or Family perhaps meanly provided for or any good designs unfinished which his heart has been much set upon let him consider that God sees this as well as he and yet he thinks fit to call him away from them And this may make it plain to him that God himself who is more wisely careful for them than he can be has a mind to be trusted with them And therefore let him reckon to set them all safe by recommending them to him As our departing Lord † provided for his disconsolate and destitute Disciples by recommending them to his Heavenly Father and praying to him for them And let him remember also that this is truly to leave all to come to God if we can find in our Heart to go forth readily when all these call upon us to stay And let him often say I Trust thee O! God as with my self so with my nearest Relations my Wife and Family or Children and with my Friends and with all that depend on me I trust them with thee O! Lord for they are more thine than they are mine I trust them with thee in full assurance that there is no way to make them happy and safe like putting them into thy Hands I trust them to thee because thou art the Husband of the Widdow and the Father of the Fatherless and hast promised to take care of them I have always trusted them with thee whilst I was with them and have ever found thy tender love and care of them So that my own experience as well as thy sure promises may engage me to trust and commit them to thee now I may seem to be going from them And though I know not what they will do or how they will be cared for when I am gone yet I know thou doest and wilt order all things kindly both for me and them I leave them not destitute for thou art with them and thy care O! my Dear God is the best Guardian and thy Blessing is the Richest Portion And thou wilt have infinitely a more watchful care of them and canst do infinitely more for them than I can Lord take care of them for I commit them to thy care Yea even all my cares for them I cast on thee Oh! let them always have the special care and Providence which thou takest of the Widdows and Orphans Let them have the Blessing which by thine abundant mercy follows the Children of those that truly fear thee Lord be with them as thou hast been with me to their lives end And keep them always most thankful and Obedient unto thee And let them all have the Blessing of thy tender care at present and of thy Peace at the last Amen When my Father and Mother forsake me then the Lord taketh me up Ps. 27. 10. Leave thy Fatherless Children I will preserve them alive and let thy Widdows trust in me Jer. 49. 11. In God the Fatherless findeth mercy Hos. 14. 3. The Generation of the upright shall be Blessed Amen Psal. 112. 2. Secondly he must set himself to bear them with Resignation of himself to the Will of God And this will be easy after the former For there is no difficulty in giving up our selves to God if we dare trust him And we shall not only be contented but desirous to quit our own Wills for his if we are perswaded that his is better for us and that our true Interest and happiness is safelier lodged and may be infinitely better trusted with him than with our selves And if we have no will to be under what he orders 't is a plain sign that we do not apprehend our selves safe in his but think we should be better in our own Hands Let the Sick man therefore amidst all his pains and perils freely give up himself into Gods Hands and be glad and thankful that he can lodg himself there And let him often say Lord I know I am in thy Hands and that I cannot be in better nor do I desire to be in any other Especially not in my own nor to be the carver of my own condition Not my will O! God but thine be done Amen And do thou allot for me Life or Death Health or Sickness removeal or continuance of my Sorrows as thou seest would really be fittest for me and f●r thy Glory not as my mistaken fancy may think to be so Amen Thy Will be done O! my God for it is always a most Blessed and Beneficial Will to those that fear thee It sends Mercies
I will neither be afraid nor unwilling to go to him For whom have I in Heaven Lord but thee And there is none upon earth that I desire besides thee Ps. 73. 25. I desire to be Dissolved and to be with Christ Phil. 1. 23. Sweet Jesu come quickly Amen Rev. 22. 20. Yea as the Hart panteth after the Water-Brooks so panteth my Soul after thee O! God My Soul thirsteth for God for the living God when shall I come and appear before God Ps. 42. 1 2. Lord I come to thee receive me out of thine abundant Mercy I come to thee and him who cometh unto thee thou wilt in no wise cast out Jo. 6. 37. Lord Jesu receive my Spirit Amen Acts 7. 59. Receive me according to thy word and I shall live and shall not be disappointed of my hope Because I live ye shall live allso Amen Jo. 14. 19. Blessed is that Servant whom his Lord when he cometh shall find watching Luc 12. 37. All the days of my appointed time will I wait till my change come Job 14. 14. O! Father pity me as a Father Pityeth his Children and receive me for whom thou hast laboured and hast made me what I am O! Jesu Saviour of Sinners save me whom thou hast Redeemed with thy Blood which is too dear a price to be thrown away in a lost Purchase O! Holy Ghost the Sanctifier and Comforter now finish in me thine own work and comfort up my fainting Spirit O! Holy Blessed and Glorious Trinity I have humbly served and feared thee tho' in much Frailty all my Life receive and comfort me now at my Death Amen CHAP. VI. Of Care and Treatment of the Dead AS soon as the Dying Person has breathed his last his surviving Friends especially they whom he has intrusted with the care and Disposal of his Body must be very careful to Dress and treat it Decently till it be Decently interr'd Let it not lye too open to the Inquiries of the Curious nor let any thing of it be exposed which the Person if alive would blush at If he gave Orders for his own Funeral those Orders are a Trust which are Religiously to be observed But if he has left it to them they must Order the same with as Prudent a Regard to his circumstances and worldly Estate and with as much Decency and wise expression of Love and Respect to him as they can And lay out what is fit in Dressing out the Body and interring it in shewing Respect and Kindness where he bore them or where he ought them and in Doles and Deeds of Charity to the Poor and Needy In these layings out they should not spend more than is meet nor lavish any thing away vainly or imprudently And on the other Hand they need not Scruple some well chosen instances of expence which are rather Honorary than useful if there be Estate enough to bear them and good Reason for them and Moderation and Discretion shown in them For tho' this cost doth the Poor no Good as Judas once objected yet it expresses their Love and Respect to the Dead and such expressions of esteem and kindness to them who have Greatly deserved it and can now make no more Returns of it are Religious and well approved of both by God and Men. Our Blessed Lord himself very kindly receiving the cost of the Rich Oyntment which Mary Lazarurus's Sister poured upon his Head because she did it for his Burial At the Funeral when a Refection is brought according to the Custom of the Place to the Friendly Attendants of the Body before it is carried forth to relieve their waiting or their weariness let it be Dealt among them with Great Moderation Remembring that these Guests come not to gratifie and please their Palates but to bear their Part in a Scene of Grief and attend as Mourners And let all who meet there Remember that they are come to mourn with those that mourn and bear a part with the afflicted and be careful to shew themselves sensibly and seriously affected with their own or the surviving Relations Loss according as there is just cause however with the loud Warning and Alarm to themselves which is in these Providences Let them not talk lightly or Pleasantly nor fall into Discourses of News or Markettings or of other Worldly business For these neither suit with the Friendly Sadness nor with the Religious Seriousness of that occasion and shew them to be little touched either with their Friends Death or with Thoughts and Expectations of their own But instead thereof let them study each to employ themselves and entertain their Company with Thoughts and Discourses about the Vanity and uncertainty of all earthly Things about the Sorrows and benefits of Sickness about the Troublesomeness and Shortness of Life the certainty that we shall all Dye and the uncertainty of the Time when and the Suddenness many Times of these Changes and the Great need we all have constantly to expect and prepare for them and about the Hopes and Blessedness there is in Dying well and the Happiness of that State where we shall Dye no more nor ever have the Loss of any Dear Friends to Mourn for They may also Discourse of their Deceased Friends especially when they have things to say of them to their Advantage As how their Patience was tryed and approved in their Sickness how good God was to them and how Submissive and Devout they were towards him what Good words they said or Good works they did or Comfort and Support they found or any thing else belonging to them either Living or Dying for which they are fit to live in our Memory and be examples for our instruction or imitation And when they come thus to take up Good and Heavenly Thoughts and to infuse them into one another they will do Great Good to themselves as well as Honour to their Friend by paying him this last Office and all return better than they came from the House of Mourning When the Relations and Friends mourn and shew Decent sorrow for the Deceased as 't is fit they should to shew they expect to find a want of them or to express their Love and value for them as Jesus wept at Lazarus's Grave to show how he loved him they must be careful to Do it moderately and Christianly And Grieve for him like men who know that God has taken him and who have hope and comfort in Death and after it and believe when a Pious Friend Dyes that the living only have lost but that the Deceased has got by Dying But they must not repine against God who has taken their Friend away nor mistrust his Care to provide for them now their Friend is gone nor grow out of Humour or unthankful for all his other Mercies because they are deprived of this nor let their Grief be excessive or obstinate and refuse to be comforted as they who have no Hope Particularly let
55. 22. For in thee O! Lord the Fatherless findeth mercy Hos. 14. 3. And tho● hast said Leave thy Fatherless Children I will preserve them alive and let thy Widows trust in me Jer. 49. 11. And I never saw the Righteous forsaken but his seed is blessed Ps. 37. 25 26. The Generation of the upright shal be blessed Riches shall be in his house and his Righteousness endureth for ever Surely he shall not be moved for ever but shall be in everlasting remembrance Ps. 112. 2 3 6. For when their Father and Mother forsake them then doest thou take them up Ps. 27. 10. Even thou who art the Father of the Fatherless and the Judge of the Widows Ps. 68. 5. And as a Mighty Redeemer wilt plead their cause Prov. 23. 10 11. 3. The Benefit of both And he who thus trusteth in the Lord mercy shall compass him about Ps. 32. 10. Because thou hast made the Lord which is my refuge even the Most High thy Habitation There shall no evil befal thee neither shall any plague come nigh thy Dwelling For he shall give his Angels charge over thee to keep thee in all thy ways Ps. 91. 9 10 11. Behold the Eye of the Lord is upon them that fear him upon them that hope in his Mercy To deliver their Soul from Death and to keep them alive in Famine Ps. 33. 18 19. And the Lord is a strong hold in the day of trouble and he knoweth them that trust in him Nah. 1. 7. He Redeemeth the Soul of his Servants and none of them that trust in him shall be desolate Ps. 34. 22. And they who know thy Name will put their trust in thee for thou Lord hast not forsaken them that seek thee Psal. 9 10. And Trust him 1. To Temper the Sickness and Sorrows to our Infirmities I will not leave thee altogether unpunish'd but I will correct thee in measure and will not make a full end of thee Jer. 30. 11. and c. 46. 28. And when Epaphroditus was sick nigh unto Death God had mercy on him and not on him only but on me also lest I should have sorrow upon sorrow Phil. 2. 27. In his wrath he will remember mercy Habak 3. 2. And to the Vpright there ariseth light in the darkness Ps. 112. 4. For he will not always chide neither will he keep his anger for ever Psal. 103. 9. His Anger endureth but a moment and in his favour is life Weeping may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning Ps. 30. 5. He knows our frame and remembreth that we are dust and pitieth us like as a Father pityeth his Children Ps. 103. 13 14. He remembreth that we are but flesh a wind that passeth away and cometh not again and doth not stir up all his wrath Ps. 78. 38 39. And he is faithful and will not suffer us to be tempted above what we are able 1 Cor. 10. 13. 2. To support us under them and help us to bear them The Salvation of the Righteous is of the Lord he is their strength in time of trouble And the Lord shall help them because they trust in him Ps. 37. 39 40. The Lord will strengthen him upon the bed of languishing he will make all his bed in his sickness Ps. 41. 3. And we have not an High Priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities but was in all points tempted like as we are yet without sin Let us therefore come boldly unto the Throne of Grace that we may obtain mercy and find Grace to help in time of need Heb. 4. 15 16. For in that he himself hath suffered being tempted he is able to succour them that are tempted Heb. 2. 18. And my Grace is sufficient for thee my strength is made perfect in weakness 2 Cor. 12. 9. I said indeed in mine haste I am cut off from before thine Eyes nevertheless thou heardest the voice of my supplications when I cryed unto thee Psal. 31. 22. Even when my Soul fainted within me I remembred thee and my Prayer came in unto thee Jon. 2. 7. Wait thou on the Lord then be of good courage and he shall strengthen thine heart Ps 27. 14. For he hath said I will never leave thee nor forsake thee So that we may boldly say I will not fear for the Lord is my helper Heb. 13. 5 6. Yea tho I walk thro the valley of the shadow of Death I will fear no evil For thou art with me thy rod and thy staff they comfort me Ps. 23. 4. 3. To Deliver us from them or make us Gainers by them Call upon me in the day of trouble and I will deliver thee and thou shalt glorifie me Ps. 50. 15. Behold the Eye of the Lord is upon them that fear him upon them that hope in his mercy To deliver their soul from Death Ps. 33. 18 19. He is their strength in the time of trouble And he shall help them and deliver them He shall deliver them because they trust in him Ps. 37. 39 40. We know that all things work together for good to them that love God Rom. 8. 28. And tho' many are the afflictions of the Righteous yet the Lord delivereth him out of them all Ps. 34. 19. For the Lord he kills and he makes alive he wounds and he heals Deut. 32. 39. He bringeth down to the Grave and bringeth up 1 Sam. 2. 6. And that when we have the Sentence of Death in our selves that we should not trust in our selves but in God who raiseth the Dead 2 Cor. 1. 9. Glory be to the Father c. III. They are to be received with Faith in Gods Precious Promises THIS is a Faithful saying and worthy of all acceptation that Jesus Christ came into the World to save Sinners 1 Tim. 1. 15. If any man Sin we have an Advocate with the Father Jesus Christ the Righteous and he is the Propitiation for our Sins 1 Jo. 2. 1 2. O! Death where is thy Sting O! Grave where is thy Victory The Sting of Death is Sin and the Strength of Sin is the Law But thanks be to God which giveth us the Victory thro our Lord Jesus Christ 1 Cor. 15. 55 56 57. Who shall lay any thing then to the charge of Gods Elect it is God that Justifieth Who is he that condemneth it is Christ that Dyed yea rather that is risen again who is even at the Right hand of God who also maketh intercession for us Rom. 8. 33 34. And he hath promised I will never leave thee nor forsake thee Heb. 13. 5. He will give the Holy Spirit to those that ask him Luk. 11. 13. He will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able but will with the Temptation also make a way to escape that ye may be able to bear it 1 Cor. 10. 13. And this is the Promise that he hath promised us even Eternal life 1 Joh. 2. 25. He hath said Repent and
tormented with any long Fears thereof And that the suddenner the stroke was the less he was like to feel it Or should he have felt it more yet he might not have felt a painfull Disease less had it been his Executioner For altho that would have been more slow it might not have proved less Cruel nor have smarted lighter but only lasted longer And if my Dear and Deceased Friends Paine was more violent O! Lord it was short and thro thy mercy I hope it is the last he had to endure And far be it from us O! God to repine that he was thrown hastily and Headlong into Death especially haveing a Comfortable Hope that the effect thereof is to pass with less Pain and more Dispatch into a better Life and more easily and speedily to take possession of immortality thro Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen 4. Prayers on the Death of Friends who had lead ill lives and Gave noe Comfortable Proofs of Repentance at their Deaths ●N this Case we may put the surviveing Friends in minde of the many other Things which they have to take Comfort in and this I think is all the Ground we have here of speaking Comfort unto them But we can not fetch Considerations of Comfort from their Deceased Friends For such Sinners as would have nothing to do with the Fear and Service of God have noe Reason of Comfort in themselves nor can afford any good Reason of it to their well-wishers And with Relation to them we must not pretend to Preach Comfort I conceive but Submission To help them meekly and patiently to submit themselves to God in these sad Cases the surviving Friends may use Prayer 1. When a Friend Dyes especially if they leave out the Paragraph within the Hooks p. 307. They may allsoe use this Prayer following to Comfort them ANd Blessed be thy Mercy O! most Gracious God which in this sad Case doth not leave me comfortless For if this Deceased Friends Case suggests things full of Greif I have many other Friends who give me great Cause of joy And to Compensate my Trouble in Pity for others by thy Grace I have something to Satisfye and Please me in reflecting on my self For I can look with Comfort on my own Soul and hope thro the merits of my Blessed Saviour to finde Mercy for it and take Comfort in it both Living and Dying I have thee O! Lord for my Portion and nothing Can make my Case Comfortless whilst I am thin● and thou art mine and whilst I have thy Power to trust to and thy Love to rejoyce in And under all this Sorrow at present I am sustain'd by the Blessed Hope of being received at last into thy Presence where all Remembrance of former Troubles shall be quite effaced by the abundance of my Present Bliss where I shall have noe Sorrow from the miscarriage of Friends but unspeakable Satisfaction in their well-being and well-doing and where I shall ever Delight●in thee and in the Continual Emanations of thy surpassing Mercy thro Jesus Christ my Lord and only Saviour Amen 5 A Prayer on the Death of a Child O Almighty Father thou art pleased now to turn my joys into S●rrows and to take away from 〈◊〉 that sweet Babe which thou lately gavest me for my Delight and Comfort But I humbly Bow my will to thine and submit my Self to 〈…〉 and without murmuring 〈◊〉 it is thy Doing Thou hast sent this poor Child into the World O! Lord to See and to ●ast Life but hast not allowed it to Stay till it Could rightly understand the end and busyness or relish the Comforts and Satisfactions thereof But I will Consider O! my God that thou wilt not require from it any Services of Life whilst it was not Capable to understand them And that if it Stayed not here to enjoy Pleasure soe neither did it Stay to be pined away with Sorrow and Care It lived not long enough to be versed in all the Vexations of our State nor to run thro that Great variety of miseryes and misfortunes which are incident here to our Nature But went off before it had time to trye how much Evil is to be Endured in this Life yea before it was come to aggravate any afflictions by imagination or to anticipate the same by Fear or to reflect in bitterness of Spirit and lay to heart what it did endure And as it Dyed young O! Lord Soe I have the Comfort to think and hope that therefore it Dyed innocent For it is taken back to thee before it knew Good or Evil or had done any thing to offend thee It has left the World ere it was made the worse by it or had Contracted any of the Wickedness thereof to follow it and fright it at thy Judgement By thy Mercy O! Father it Stayed till it was received for thine own Child by Baptism and was therein assured by thee of remission of Sin and made an Heir of thy Kingdom And by the same Mercy it is now Call'd away ere it had done any thing to fall from that Relation or to forfeit that Blessing So that in this takeing it away fro● me thou hast translated it O! Father of Me●●yes from the miseryes of this World to the joys of Paradice it is taken from me to be at thy Provision and to be kept for ever safe and Happy in those Blessed mansions which thou hast Provided for thy Children And therefore if I have lost the Comfort of haveing a Child to train up in thy Service in this World it is for the far greater Comfort O! my God of haveing sent one to live with thee and attend for ever about thy Throne in Heaven And there I my self allsoe hope thro thy mercy to be received in thy due Time not only to see and injoy it but what is infinitely above all for ever to see and injoy thee thro Jesus Christ my Lord. Amen 6. A Prayer when one is made Childless or is like to Dye without Children O! Blessed Lord thou art pleased in thy Wisdom to beleave me of my Children and to leave me 〈◊〉 appearance of issue to Sweeten the Cares of Life and to keep up my Memory to Posterity I am content therewith O! my God because it pleaseth thee and comeing from thy Wisdom a●d Care of me I will not only own it to be just but Esteem it to be most wise and fit for me And if by haveing noe Children I have fewer Delights I will remember withall O! Father that I have lighter Cares and fewer Sorrows I have not the Torment of seeing them take ill wayes nor of Fearing continually lest they should fall to take them nor shall have the Pains and Trouble of parting with them which Commonly is quicker and more affecting than the Pleasure of haveing them And I may now fix my Love and Care more intrely upon thee haveing no Cares for them to call me off And I have less Temptation to Descend to mean
or ungodly Shifts if ever I come to be pinched with Persecution or adversity or to Comply with any things unworthy and misbecoming my Self or Displeasing unto thee And when I can leave noe Children to support my Name and Memory let me have Good Deeds O! Dear God and a Life of unblemish'd integrity and Honor to doe the same for me Oh! that I may be remembred after I am Dead for acts of true Piety and Charity which give the truest and most lasting fragrancy However let me leave behind me the memory of a truely Religious humble and Virtuous Carriage for the imitation of all that knew me Especially O! Holy Father let a Constant course of Obedience and Godlyness recommend me thro the Blood of thy Son to thy Approbation And tho among Men I am quite forgotten yet let me be Graciously remembred and received by thee when thou reckonest up and callest over the Number of thy Children for my Dear Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ's sake Amen Trinuni Deo Gloria THE CONTENTS THe Preface Directions for an Holy and an Happy Death Chap. 1. OF Settling Worldly Affairs and Care of the Body in Sickness p. 1. Chap. 2. Of Securing Peace with God in Sickness p. 10. By Profession of Repentance p. 11. and of Faith p. 14. and of Continuance in the Vnity of the Church p. 17. Chap. 3. Of Carriage under Sickness p. 22. and Particularly of Trust in God p. 23. Of Resignation p. 29. and I of Thankfulness p. 32. Chap. 4. Of Patience under Sickness p. 39. and Spending Sick Bed Hours ●p 51. and ministring to Sick Persons p. 53. Chap. 5. Of Carriage at the Approach of Death and in the last Extremiti●s p. 58. Chap. 6. Of Care and Treatment of the Dead p. 68. Devotions for the State of Sickness I. A General Prayer for the Duties and Needs of Sick Persons p. 129. and one out of the Office of Visitation p. 131. and Scriptures about the mercifull ends of Sickness p. 79. II. Prayers and Scriptures for their particular needs and duties I. For Repentance in Sickness and the several expressions of it Scriptures p. 82 c. and Prayers p. 133 c. II. For an Heart to give Alms and at the time of giving them Scriptures p. 85. and Prayers p. 143 c. III. For Trust in God and on the chief a●ts and Branches of it and motives to it in Sickness Scriptures p. 88 c. and Prayers p. 147 c. IV. For Faith in Gods Promises under Sickness Scriptures p. 96 c. and Prayers p. 160 c. V. For Resignation under Sickness Scriptures p. 100. and Prayers p. 162 c. VI. For Thankfullness under Sickness Scriptures p. 99. and Prayers p. 168 c. VII For Patience under Sickness both 1. The chief Acts and expressions of it Scriptures p. 100 c. Prayers p. 176 c. 2. the Helps to it p. 186. c. 3. the motives to it Scriptures p. 107. Prayers p. 189 c. And this 1. Towards God p. 175 c. 2. Towards Friends and Attendants Scriptures p. 108. and Prayers p. 180 c. 3. Towards our selves under the Heaviness and Brokenness of our own Spirits Scriptures p. 109. and Prayers p. 183 c. VIII For Spiritual improvements by Sickness Scriptures p. 110. and Prayers p. 196 c. IX For the Bodily needs and Desires of Sick Persons viz 1. For ease under Pains Scriptures p. 111 c. and p. 119. Prayers p. 201 c. and on Receipt thereof p. 117 and 204. 2. For strength under the same p. 205. 3. For Deliverance from them Scriptures p. 115 c. Prayers p. 206. 4. For longer Respite and Recovery p. 207 c. 5. On Taking Physick Scriptures p. 120. Prayers p. 210 c. 6. On want of sleep Scriptures p. 118. Prayers p. 212 c. 7. On excess of sleep p. 214. 8. On their being Light-Headed p. 216. X. For Certain kinds of Sickness viz. I. For Women with Child both Scriptures and Prayers 1. Before Travel p. 218 and p. 222 c. 2. In Travel p. 219 and p. 225 c. 3. After Delivery p. 220 and 229 c. with a Prayer for her Child p. 233. II. On the Loss of Eye-sight both Scriptures p. 235 c. and Prayers 1. For Recovery of Sight p 238. 2. For Patience under the want of Eye sight p. 239 c. 3. For Good use of Blindness p. 243. III. Vnder the Loss of Hearing both Scriptures p. 245 c. and Prayers 1. For Recovery of Hearing p. 247 c. 2. For Patience under the want of Hearing p. 249 c. 3. For Good use of Deafness p. 253. 4. A Thanksgiveing on Recovery from Blindness or Deafness p. 254. IV. For a Sick Child p. 256 c. V. In Times of Common Infection Scriptures p. 259 c. Prayers p. 260 c. VI. In Behalf of Natural Fools and Mad-men p. 264 c. VII For Attendants about the Sick Scriptures p. 122 c. and a Prayer p. 267. XI A Thanksgiveing for Recovery from Sickness Scriptures p. 124 c. and Prayers p. 269 c. Devotions on the Apprehension or Approach of Death I. ON the Prospect of ones own Death Drawing near Scriptures p. 274 c. Prayers p. 283 c. II. On willingness to Dye Scriptures p. 276 c. and Prayers p. 285 c. III. Against Fear of Death Scriptures p. 279. Prayers p. 289 c. IV. Against Presumption Scriptures p. 280. A Prayer p. 293. V. In the last Agonyes Scriptures p. 281. and Ejaculations and Prayers p. 295 296 c. with a Prayer against Sudden Death p. 300. Devotions upon the Death of Friends I. WHen a Friend Dyes Scriptures p. 302 c. and Prayers p. 305 c. A Prayer when they think God is angry at them when he takes away their Friends p. 312. When these Losses come close after one another p. 314. For Learning thereby to ●it loose to the World and be more fix'd in the Love of God p. 315. II. When a Friend is taken away in his Prime Scriptures p. 304. Prayers p. 316. III. When he is taken away by a violent untimely Death p. 318 c. IV. On the Death of Friends who had lead ill Lives and gave noe Comfortable Proofs of Repentance at their Deaths p. 322 c. V. On the Death of a Child p. 325 c. VI. When one is made Childless or is like to Dye without Children Scriptures p. 305. A Prayer p. 328 c. Books ERRATA PAge 14 line 24. read descendedst p. 20 marg r. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 p. 21. the word Peace is set after l. 4. which should make the liue before it p. ●● l. pennlt for put after Sufferings p. 35. l. 3. r. b● p. 44. l. 8. after sickness add Amen p. 63. l. 15. r. sense of to the last p. 78. l. 4. r. taken p. 99. l. ●3 r. hast p. 140. l. 12. for my