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A47291	A companion for the penitent, and for persons troubled in mind consisting of an office for the penitent, to carry on their reconciliation with God, and a tryal or judgment of the soul, for discovering the safety of their spiritual estate, and an office for persons troubled in mind, to settle them in peace and comfort / by John Kettlewell ...	Kettlewell, John, 1653-1695.	1694 (1694)	Wing K360; ESTC R13898	49,186	156

1 Jo. 1. 19. I will arise therefore and go to my Father and will say unto him Father I have sinned against Heaven and before thee and am no more worthy to be called thy Son Luk. 15. 18 19. Behold I was shapen in Iniquity and in Sin did my Mother conceive me Psal. 51. 5. And since I was born I have gone astray like a lost Sheep Ps. 119. 176. Mine Iniquities are increased over my Head and my Trespasses are grown unto the Heavens Ezr. 9. 6. But Lord I acknowledge my Sins unto thee and mine Iniquities have I not hid Psal. 32. 5. I acknowledge my Transgressions and my Sins are ever before me Against thee have I sinned and done these Evils in thy Sight that thou migbtest be Justified when thou speakest and clear when thou judgest Psal. 51. 3 4. God be merciful to me a Sinner Luk. 18. 3. To me the chief among Sinners 1 Tim. 1. 15. To me that have been at agreement with Hell and made a Covenant with Death Isa. 28. 15. And whose Destruction is of my self Hos. 13. 9. 3. For Resolution of Amendment I. IF I regard Iniquity in my Heart the Lord will not hear me Psal. 66. 18. Goe therefore and sin no more Jo. 8. 11. Sin no more lest a worse thing come unto thee Jo. 5. 14. And Remember from whence thou art fallen and repent and do the first works or else I will come unto thee quickly Rev. 2. 5. Repent and turn your selves from all your Transgressions so Iniquity shall not be your Ruin Cast away from you all your Transgressions whereby ye have transgressed and make you a new Heart and a new Spirit for why will ye dye O! House of Israel Ezek. 18. 30 31. Wash you make you clean put away the Evil of your Doings from before mine Eyes cease to do Evil learn to do well seek Judgment relieve the Oppressed judge the Fatherless and plead for the Widow Come now and let us reason together saith the Lord tho' your Sins be as Scarlet they shall be as white as Snow tho' they be red like Crimson they shall be as Wool Isa. 1. 15 16 17 18. II. CReate in me a new Heart O! God and renew a right Spirit within me Psal. 51. 10. I thought on my ways and turned my Feet unto thy Testimonies I made haste and delayed not to keep thy Commandments Psal. 1 19. 59 60. Lord Incline not my Heart to any evil thing Psal. 141. 4. Turn away mine Eyes from behold Vanity Psal. 119. 37. I have made a Covenant with mine Eyes Job 31. 1. Set a Watch before my Mouth and keep the Door of my Lips Psal. 141. 3. Remove my Foot from Evil Prov. 4. 27. Hedge up my way with Thorns and make a Wall that I may not find my former Paths to Evil Hos. 2. 6. Keep back thy Servant from Presumptuous Sins let them not have Dominion over me then shall I be upright and innocent from the great Transgression Let the words of my Mouth and the Meditation of my Heart be acceptable in thy Sight O! Lord my Strength and my Redeemer Ps. 19. 13 14. 4. For Fruits worthy of Repentance BRing forth Fruits meet for Repentance Mat. 3. 8. This self same thing that ye sorrowed after a Godly sort Behold what carefulness it wrought in you yea what clearing of your selves yea what Indignation yea what Fear yea what Vehement Desire yea what Zeal yea what Revenge or punishing of your selves 2 Cor. 7. 11 If the Wicked restore the Pledge give again that he hath Robbed and walk in the Statutes of Life without Committing Iniquity none of his Sins shall be mentioned to him he shall surely Live he shall not Dye Ezek. 33. 15 16. If thou bring thy Gift to the Altar and there remembrest that thy Brother hath ought against thee Leave there thy Gift before the Altar and go thy way f● st be reconciled to thy Brother and then come and offer thy Gift Mat. 5. 23 24 Forgive and you shall be forgiven Luk. 6. 37. If ye forgive Men their Trospasses your Heavenly Father will also forgive you But if ye forgive not Men their Trespasses neither will your Father forgive your Trespasses Mat. 6. 14 15. Break off thy Sins by Righteousness and thine Iniquities by shewing Mercy to the Poor Dan. 4. 27. Thine Alms are come up for a Memorial before God Acts 10. 4. They lay up in Store for us a good Foundation against the time to come that we may lay hold on Eternal Life 1 Tim. 6. 18 19. Blessed are the Merciful for they shal● obtain Mercy Mat. 5. 7. He shall have Judgment without Mercy who hath shewed no Mercy but Mercy rejoyceth against Judgment James 2. 13. 5. For Pardon of Sins and Ground for the Hopes thereof ENter not into Judgment with the Servant for in thy sight shall n●● Man living be Justified Psal. 143. ● If thou Lord shouldest mark Iniquities O! Lord who shall stand But there is Forgiveness with thus that thou mayest be feared With the Lord is Mercy and plentious Redemption Ps. 130. 3 4 7. He knoweth our frame he remembreth that we are but Dust and pitieth those that fear him as a Father pitieth his own Children Ps. 103. 13 14. Likewise the Blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all Sins 1 John 1. 7. The Chastisement of our Peace was upon him and through his stripes we are healed Isa. 5. 3 5. And if any Man sin we have an Advocate with the Father Jesus Christ the Righteous and he is the Propitiation for our Sins 1 John 2. 1 2. For him hath God exalted to give Repentance and forgiveness of Sins Acts 5. 31. And that Repentance and Remission of Sins should be preached in his Name among all Nations beginning at Jerusalem Luke 24. 47. This is a faithful Saying and worthy of all Acceptation that Christ Jesus came into the World to save Sinners 1 Tim. 1. 15. He came not to call the Righteous but Si●ners to Repentance Mat. 9. 13. And there is Joy in Heaven over one Sinner that repenteth more than over Ninety and nine just Persons which need no Repentance Luke 15. 7. Create in me a clean Heart therefore O! God and renew a right Spirit with ●n me And hide thy Face from my Sins and blot out all mine Iniquities Ps. 51. 9 10 6. For Comfort in the same PUrge me with Hysop and I shall be clean wash me and I shall be whiter than Snow Make me to hear of Joy and Gladness that the Bones which thou has broken may rejoyce Restore unto me the Joy of thy Salvation and uphold me with thy fre● Spirit Then will I teach Transgressors thy ways and Sinners shall be converte● unto thee Ps. 51. 7 8 12 13. Blessed are they that Mourn for they shall be comforted Mat. 5. 4. He will speak Peace to his People and to his Saints but let them not turn again to folly Ps.

Propi●iation for our sins 1 Jo. 2. 1. In the Visitation of the Sick O! Saviour of the World who by thy Cross and precious Blood hast redeemed us save this thy Servant and help him we humbly intreat thee O! Lord. Amen In the Communion SPare him O! Lord who hath confessed his sins unto thee that he whose Conscience by sin was accused by thy merciful Pardon may be absolved through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen The Collect for the 21 Sunday after Trinity GRant we beseech thee merciful Lord to this thy Servant and to all thy faithfull People Pardon and Peace that they may be cleansed from all their sins and serve thee with a quiet mind through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen In the Visitation of the Sick THe Almighty Lord who is a most strong Tower to all them that put their trust in him to whom all things in Heaven and Earth and under the Earth do bow and obey be now and evermore thy defence and make thee know and feel that there is none other Name under Heaven given to man in whom and through whom thou mayest receive Health and Salvation but only the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen Unto Gods gracious Mercy and Protection we commit thee The Lord bless thee and keep thee The Lord make his face to shine upon thee and be gracious unto thee The Lord lift up his countenance upon thee and give thee Peace both now and ever-more Amen And the Peace of God which passeth all understanding keep your heart and mind in the knowledge and love of God and of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord and the Blessing of God Almighty the Father the Son and the Holy Ghost be with you and remain in you always Amen After all this is done I would put the Penitent in mind of one thing viz. That the Holy Communion is still a further and Principal means to settle and secure both the Pardon and the Peace of his Soul The receiving it from the hand of God's authorized Minister acting therein by God's appointment and in God's name is the most effectual Absolution and one of the best Assurances and Seals of Pardon The Cup which he gives the Penitent to Drink from God is Christs Blood for the remission of sins or the remission of sins which he purchased by the shedding of his Blood And the method of the Church in the restauration of Penitents was to finish and consummate their Reconciliation by giving them the Holy Communion For as oft as sins are remitted or absolved in the Church they receive Christ's Body that the remission of sins which is granted may be conveyd by his Blood says St. Ambrose And therefore the sick Penitent when he has received the foregoing Absolution would provide well for the Peace and Comfort of his Soul if after some respite to recover his strength or at some convenient time soon after when he sees most fit he would Consumate his Absolution by receiving the Blessed Sacrament And other Penitents after the use of this Office would do well and wisely to do the same as soon after as conveniently they can AN OFFICE FOR One troubled in Mind SCRIPTURES Psalm 103. v. 8 to 19 Ezek. 18. v. 21. to the end Luke 15. Psal. 130. Ezek. 33. v. 11. to v. 20. 1. For Profession of Trouble I Am poor and needy and my heart is wounded within me Psal. 119. 22. Mine iniquities have taken hold upon me so that I am not able to look up they are more than the hairs of my head therefore my heart faileth me Psalm 40. 12. Thou writest bitter things against me and makest me to possess the iniquities of my youth Job 13. 26. Lord why castest thou off my Soul why hidest thou thy face from me The Arrows of the Almighty are within me the poyson whereof drinketh up my spirit The terrors of God do set themselves in array against me Job 6. 4. Thy fierce wrath goeth over me thy terrors have cut me off While I suffer thy terrors I am distracted Psal. 88. 14 15 16. 2. Grounds of Comfort 1. From the Mercifulness of God WILT thou break a leaf driven to and fro and wilt thou pursue the dry stubble Job 13. 25. Will the Lord cast off for ever and will he be favourable no more Is his mercy clean gone for ever doth his promise fail for evermore Hath God forgotten to be gracious has he in anger shut up his tender Mercies And I said this is my infirmity but I will remember the years of the right hand of the most High I will remember the works of the Lord surely I will remember thy wonders of old Psal. 77. 7 8 9 10 11. Thou hast always been a God forgiving iniquity transgression and sin Ex. 34. 6 7. The Lord is merciful and gracious he will not always chide neither will he keep his anger for ever Psal. 103. 8. 9. Who is a God like unto thee that pardoneth iniquity He retaineth not his anger for ever because he delighteth in mercy Mat. 7. 18. 2. From Promises to the Penitent WHen the wicked Man turneth away from his Wickedness that he hath Commited and doth that which is Lawful and Right he shall save his Soul alive Because he considereth and turneth away from his Transgressions that he hath Committed he shall surely live he shall not Dye Repent therefore and turn your selves from all your Transgressions so Iniquity shall not be your Ruine Ezek. 18. 27 28 30. As I live saith the Lord God I have no pleasure in the Death of the Wicked but that the wicked turn from his way and live turn ye turn ye from your evil wayes for why will you Dye Ezek. 33. 11. Go and sin no more then will not I condemn thee Jo. 8. 11. Come unto me all ye that Labour and are heavy Laden and I will give you Rest. Mat. 11. 28. This is a faithfull saying and worthy of all acceptation that Jesus Christ came into the World to save Sinners of whom I am Chief 1 Tim. 1. 15. If any Man Sin we have an Advocate with the Father Jesus Christ the Righteous and he is the Propitiation for our Sins 1 Jo. 2. 1 2. The Blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all Sin 1 Jo. 1. 7. There is therefore now no Condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus who walk not after the Flesh but after the Spirit Rom. 8. 1. 3. From the Compassionateness of our High Priest THe Lord Pityeth those that fear him like as a Father Pityeth his own Children For be knows our Infirmityes he remembreth that we are Dust. Psal. 103 13 14. We have not an High Priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our Infirmities but was in all points tempted like as we are yet without Sin Heb. 4. 15. He was made like unto his Brethren that he might be a Merciful and Faithful High Priest For in that he himself hath suffered being tempted he

whence I am faln and resolve by thy help to do my vows I will make bast to do 〈◊〉 and not delay to keep thy Com●●dments I beg no greater Mercy than to be fou●d stedfast in thy ways nor shall account any things to be so great favours to me as those which serve to keep me in the same I will most heartily thank thee O! Thou Faithful Guide and Keeper of returning Souls if thou wilt be pleased to hedge up my way with Thorns or with any worldly Difficulties that may keep me from finding my way to my former Vanities For 't is the unfeigned Desire of my Heart and shall be the great Endeavour of my Life above all things to keep true to thee and my chiefest prayer to thee is to keep me from falling any more from the way of thy Fear or from forfeiting thy Mercy God be merciful to me a Returning Sinner III. ANd having ●●w by thy Grace these hol●●houghts and Purposes in my He●●● I earnestly beg of thee O! Blessed Author and finisher of all Grace that I may never loose them I give my Heart to thee and humbly pray that it may always be in thy hands since it is so unconstant in what is good and prone to turn aside to what is evil when it is in mine own keeping O! Father keep it stedfast and unalterable in thy ways Let it not be inclined to any Evil thing nor lean towards any of my former Vanitys Keep mine Eyes from beholding wickedness and mine Ears from listning thereto Let not my Lips utter any thing that is Ill nor my feet move a step in any of the Paths of Death But hold my whole Spirit Soul and Body in ways of thy Fear and continue me under the Comfortable hopes of thy favour through Jesus Christ my Blessed Lord and only Saviour Amen 3. A Profession of the Fruits of Repentance and the Conditions of Forgiveness I. I Have sinned grievously O! Lord but I am angry at my self for my Sins and desire to prevent thy Justice and to take Revenge upon my own Head for my Transgressions And however disposed and easie I was to be drawn aside before yet now thou hast filled my Heart with such a Godly Sorrow and Compunction for my Sins as begets in me a Vehement Desire and Godly Care to sin no more By the help of thy Grace O! Merciful God I am ready now to walk in those Statutes which I have formerly transgressed and to give again whatsoever I have at any time unjustly taken away and to make full amends to the uttermost of my Power for all the Wrong and Damage which I have ever done to any And where either by my Example or by my Counsel and Perswasion or by my Importunities I have tempted others and drawn them into Sin It shall be the Study and Care of my Life to make them sensible of the Heinousness and extream Danger thereof as thro' the Blessing of thy Grace I am to recover them out of the same God be merciful to me a Returning Sinner II. I Am contented O! Holy Father to submit my self to those who have just cause to be offended with me and to use all fair ways of Reconciling my self to them before I hope for Reconciliation and Peace with thee I freely forgive all those that have Trespassed against me and with good Will offer them my Pardon as I most heartily desire thine And my Hearty Desire and Purpose is to study doing Good to my Brethren in their Needs that I may not be held unworthy to receive it from thee in mine own and to shew Mercy unto others that I may not be ashamed to ask it for my self and that the Rigorousness and Unrelenting hardness of my own Dealings towards them may not deprive me of the favourable Indulgence and Mercifulness of thy Dealings towards me God be merciful to me and forgive me a Merciful and Forgiving Sinner III. I Have no Hope in my self O! Gracious Lord but only in thy Mercy Nor any expectation of the same thro' my Deservings but meerly thro` thy Blessed Son's Infinite Merits Nor rest my Soul upon any other Name given among Men whereby thy Justice may be satisfied and my Sins expiated but on his alone God be merciful to me a Great but an Humble and Believing Sinner IV. I Am heartily sorry for all the Sins which I can call to Mind and do yet know my self to have been guilty of and am fully purposed by thy Grace as far as I can to amend them And I am truly desirous to discover all the rest which are yet hid from me that I may be as particularly sorry for the same and amend them too And I humbly and earnestly pray thee O! Father of Mercies that for Jesus Christ's sake thou would'st be pleased to accept this my Repentance Receive it O! Lord according to the Riches of thy Mercies and supply whatsoever is wanting therein by the Power of thy Grace And place me among the number of those who are truly contrite for all their evil ways and whose Repentance has prepared them for the free and full Remission of all their Offences through the Merits and Mediation of Jesus Christ our Lord Amen 4. A Prayer for Pardon of Sins O! Holy and most merciful Father spare me thy poor Sinful but Repenting Creature Spare me good Lord spare me and let me not perish in my Sins now I am heartily troubled and sorry for them but thro' thine infinite Mercies find pardon of the same I am a Sinful Person O! Lord But thou Blessed Jesus art the Saviour of Sinners And thy coming into the World was to call Sinners to Repentance Lord I come and Repent at thy Call cast not me and my Repentance away from thy Presence I have gone astray and am very defective in my return home thro' the frailty of my Flesh. But thou Gracious Lord considerest our frailties Thou knowest our frame and considerest whereof we are made Oh! be not extream to mark mine Offences nor to exact Rigors in my Repentance of the same but for Christ's sake make me all needful and favourable Allowances Now I have found the way to thy Fear let me find the Comforts of thy Mercy I have a truly Contrite Heart O! Lord despise it not My Spirit is broken and trembleth at thy word O! Lord revive it It is heavy laden and wearied with my Sins O! my God give it ease from the same Pity me O! Father as a Father pitieth his own Children Receive me as the offended Father did the returning Prodigal Tho' I was lost yet now by the Blessing of thy Grace I am found again Oh! welcome thy lost Sheep when it returns home and let there he joy in Heaven on the Repentance of me a lost Sinner Oh! let the Blood of Jesus cleanse me from all my

comfort to poor Penitents and Broken Spirits who shall hereafter he upheld thereby and hope for like mercy in their Dejection as thou shalt have graciously shewed to me in mine for my Blessed Saviour and Redeemer Jesus Christs sake Amen 4 Prayers for Mercy and favourable allowances in trying our Services I. BE not extream O Lord in marking what I have done amiss nor deal Strictly and Rigorously with me but Judge of all my ways with mercy Thou knowest our frame and considerest how weak and frail it is Oh! make gracious allowances for all the Pityable frailtyes and forgetfullness thereof In pleading my Cause O Blessed Jesu shew thy self a mercyfull High Priest who canst bear in reason with our Ignorance and Errors and canst be touch'd with the secling of our ins●●mitys Stand not upon Rigours in discussing my poor Services nor reject any good beginnings of thy Grace in my returning Heart Quench not the smoaking Flax but by the gentle breathings of thy Holy Spirit quicken it into a pure flame Nor break the bruised Reed but in tender care and pity bind it up Examine all my ways and weaknesses Oh! my God with the indulgent and compassionate abatements of a Father Judge me O! Lord with the mercy and gentleness of a Saviour Try me with the favour of one that dyed for me and seeks at any rate if it may be done justly and reasonably to save not to condemn me Be such a Judge O! blessed Jesu as will not strain things to my prejudice but that seeks as far as it may be done with any fairness to make the best of my Cause A Judge that is ready to make the most of my well meant and sincere Services and to supply their wants and imperfections by a gracious acceptance And to make the least of my Errors and Miscarriages admitting and makeing the uttermost of any thing which can with truth and reason be offered in abatement or excuse thereof Judge me O! merciful God with such condescentions of Love and Mercy and with such mixtures of favour and equity as may give poor Sinners who know they labour under manifold defects and frailties cause to hope in thee and comfort to appear before thee With such as may make them look up to thee with Peace and Joy and long for thy coming and support them under all the Trvals and Sorrows of this troublesome World with a comfortable confidence of being received at last into thine everlasting Kingdom through the Merits and Mediation of Jesus Christ our Lord Amen II. LORD tho I am still offending thee yet I dearly love thee I can never take pleasure in my self but when I think I have pleased thee Nay I hate my self for it as often as I find that I have offended thee And I bear thee a Child 's obedient Regard and Reverence tho alass with too much of the alloy and mixture of a Childs folly and forgetfullness Look upon mine offences therefore I humbly intreat thee O! Father as the offences of one who loves thee above all things Look upon them as the slips of one whose Heart nevertheless is bent upon thy fear and devoted to thy Service But who pays thee this Service under a load of Humane Infirmitys and much frailty of the flesh Who at one time is drowsie at another unwary who is forgetful in many things and hasty and inconsiderate in more who naturally grows weary and remiss when tryals return often or continue long and whose unconstant Temper is too often dull and listless when it needs to be most active and vigorous and supine and inadvertent when it should be most circumspect and stand most strictly upon its Guard But through all this Cloud of mine infirmities be thou pleased O! Gracious Lord to look to my Love and Devotedness to thy Laws and mercifully accept my Love and pity my weaknesses Oh! thou who madest me Consider and Pity my frailty Oh! thou who hast bore our infirmities tho without sin in thy self have compassion on them in me Bear with them O! Lord as with the failures and forgetfulnesses of a sincerely affectionate and devoted tho of a very frail and heedless Servant Bear with them O! Father as with the Errors and Oversights of a loving and dutiful tho of a very weak and frail and simple Child And let me have thy Grace to help and guard me against them as well as thy mercy to pity and pardon them for my dearest Lord and Saviour Jesus Christs sake Amen 5. A Prayer for a Clear and settled Judgement of our Selves and of what may establish us in Peace O! God the giver of all wise thoughts and the light of those that sit in darkness send forth the light of thy Spirit into my Heart and scatter those Clouds of Fears and Ignorance which have been gathering and settling themselves upon it Rid me of all confusedness of thoughts and clear up my mind with just and due apprehensions both of thee and of my self And fix and stablish me O! Lord in right Judgements that when by thy Grace I am once well resolved in things belonging to my peace I may not be soon shaken in mind or easily removed from the same by any returns of ill grounded and distempered fears and melancholly suggestions Remove from me if it may please thee O! Merciful Father any disorders of a distempered Body that make me unstable in those just persuasions of thy Grace and Mercy which should do me good or that do any otherways cast a Mist before my troubled Spirit Suffer not my fears for my sins to encrease so far as instead of being a help to carry me out of them to prove a snare to detain me in them and to hinder me from putting forth my self to do my duty by holding me under an unprofitable sorrow and tempting me to despair of mercy Lord fill me plenteously with all those Graces of thy holy Spirit which must recommend my Soul to thee and with such comforts of the same as may sweeten Religion to me and carry me instead of spending my self in fruitless complaints to put forth real endeavours of doing thee Honour and Service and to lay out my self in ways of thy Glory and of mine own everlasting peace through Jesus Christ my Lord Amen 6. A Prayer for Recommendation of our Humble fears to Gods merciful acceptance BUT tho I am afraid yet O! my God I trust in thee My fears and mistrusts are only of my self and of the worthlessness and unacceptableness of mine own Services or of the insufficiency or insincerity of my own Repentance but are not at all a mistrust of thy Promises or of the certainty of thy mercy towards all true Penitent Sinners And let not this lowliness in mine own Eyes O! Merciful Lord hinder me from being acceptable in thine Look graciously upon me as thou didst upon the poor Publican tho I stand afar off and dare only call for mercy at