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A68568	Ruths recompence: or a commentarie vpon the booke of Ruth wherein is shewed her happy calling out of her owne country and people, into the fellowship and society of the Lords inheritance: her vertuous life and holy carriage amongst them: and then, her reward in Gods mercy, being by an honourable marriage made a mother in Israel: deliuered in seuerall sermons, the briefe summe whereof is now published for the benefit of the Church of God. By Richard Bernard ...	Bernard, Richard, 1568-1641.	1628 (1628)	STC 1962; ESTC S101697	273,649	490

her true loue both to the mother and the child She was in the house of Boaz that great rich man we here see and so well prouided for in her old age yet would shee take paines and not be idle So wee see that the godly though old and well prouided for yet will set themselues to labour and doe something for they make conscience of their time not to spend their dayes in idlenesse which they know to be a foule sinne and the nurse of many They will labour to be an 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 example vnto others and to spurre the younger on to take paines Though they liue of themselues yet they owe a duety to God to be doing what they may if they liue vpon others herein they shew their good will to be as little chargeable as they may and to be thankefull after their strength and power Now this holy woman is herein to bee imitated and let none thinke that they may be excused to liue idly either for age so long as they can take paines or for that they haue enough to liue vpon because God giueth none riches to liue a lazie life but such euen old persons should liue either in labour as Saint 1. Tim. 5. 4. Tit. 2. 3 4. Paul willeth the widow of threescore yeeres old or in teaching and instructing others a blessed exercise for old folke which will giue them comfort in the end of their dayes And laid it in her bosome This sheweth her loue and with what tender affection shee tooke him into her hands Foure things might moue Naomi thus affectionatly to loue the Babe First her loue to the mother who so exceedingly loued her Secondly her loue to Boaz the father who had so mercifully dealt with her Thirdly her loue to her husband Elimelech departed whose name was raised vp againe by this child vpon his inheritance Fourthly her great hope of ioy and comfort from the child it selfe as the women foretell in the former verse Howsoeuer it was here we may see that Parents carry a heartie affection towards their children they be in their hearts and bosome for if this loue was in Naomi a mother in law wee may well conclude it in naturall mothers which may appeare many waies in their great paines and care in nursing them and in bringing them vp in their griefe and sorrow when their children are any way diseased Marke 9 24. 7. 25. Mat. 15. 22. as we may see by the teares of the father and cry of the mother which Marke and Matthew make mention of In their kind imbracing of them as here and as did the father of the prodigall sonne In their great ioy to heare of their well-fare as Iacob did reioyce to heare of Ioseph Gen. 45. 27 28 In their easie natures soone reconciled to their children when they humble themselues before them as wee see in Dauid to Absalom and the father of the prodigall sonne Lastly in their great lamentation at the death of their children as Dauid did for Absalom though a most vnnaturall sonne and the widdow which followed her sonne to the Graue which Christ raised vp to life againe No other reason can bee giuen but that naturall and inbred loue to children in parents else some children are so hard-fauoured and ill conditioned as parents could not so loue them but onely for that they bee their children Let children hence learne to bee thankefull to God and their parents and shew loue to them againe in all obedience And became his Nurse That is a helpe in the mothers nursing of it as by holding it lulling of it asleepe giuing of it meat warming of it and such like helps for the nourishing of the life of the Babe and not giuing it sucke for shee was too old to doe this Wee may find in Scripture two sorts of Nurses dry Nurses such a one was Rebeccaes to helpe to attend on the childe and Gen. 24. 59. to ease the mother somewhat as Naomi doth here and in helping to nourish and bring vp a child in this sense a father is called a Nurse The other sort are milch-Nurses such as giue suck Num. 11. 12. vnto children as in Scripture we find onely those to be their mothers euen them that bare them to bring them vp also that as they afforded them the Wombe to beare them so the brests likewise to giue their children sucke And this is the mothers duety if possibly shee be able not birth wealth nicety nor idlenesse can exempt them from this duety as it doth a number of wanton Dames that they may be fitter to follow their lusts That mothers are to giue their owne children sucke it is apparent by these reasons the naturall instinct in beasts teacheth euery other Creature hauing paps to giue sucke yea the Sea-monsters draw out their brests and giue sucke to their young Lamen 4. 3. ones saith Ieremie and therefore such as neglect this duety are worse then these beasts which we hold vnkind if they let not their young ones sucke It is the principall vse and end of brests in women when God sendeth them children though too many now make them onely stales and bawdes of lust The Workemanship of God should make them doe this First in placing them so high as in no other creature euen neighbouring vpon the heart the Shop of heat to conuey the bloud sooner into the brests so as the heart workes for the Infant to teach mothers to haue affection to this worke Secondly so placing placing them as the mother is taught in nature to embrace the Infant to lay it to her brest the more to worke loue betweene the mother and the Babe Thirdly in making them to haue this facultie to turne bloud into milke And lastly Gods prouiding as soone as the Infant is perfect for birth milke in the brest for the Infant so as God and Nature call them to this duety except any will say that God hath done all this in vaine and might haue spared this Workemanship The very name of a brest Mamma should put them in mind hereof the first syllable whereof is that which an Infant doth soonest speake calling the mother Mam as if nature had giuen this first to the Babe so easily to frame to vtter this word to put the mother in mind of her duety and to giue it her brest Againe God in the worke of nature hath not onely giuen brests but heads or nipples for the Infant to sucke the milke out of the brests and to helpe it hath made the skin about the nipples more rugous and rough for the childs tongue to hold by The Heathen Arist Plutarch Philosophers endued but with the light of nature teach this and affirme that the mothers milke implants in children the loue of mothers yea mothers loue commonly those children better which they nurse than the rest and reason may bee giuen because the mother giueth and the child receiueth by sucking her

brests more of her substance than they which doe not Children loue their Nurses we see by experience and better then their mothers that bare them so long as they be without iudgemēt to discerne onely follow nature for the nourishmēt of life It is not so naturall say also these Heathen to be nursed of another as of the mother in whom it is conceiued for differing bodies haue differing temperature and therefore the taking away of the Infant so soone from the accustomed nourishment in the mother must needs breed an alteration A learned man thinkes this to be the cause Kick. in his Oecono of the degenerating so much of Great mens sonnes and of their so little loue to their mothers It is a token of no great loue to children when their mothers put them ouer to strangers it is iust with God if mothers after find their children ouer-strange to them being but rather Note this you vnnaturall mothers halfe than whole mothers mothers of necessitie not of good will for perforce they bring forth but it is true loue which maketh a mother to giue sucke safety to themselues disereth the former or else to dye with it in the Wombe but loue onely to the Infant procureth this latter at their hands Besides all these reasons the examples of all the godly women in Scripture teach mothers now this duety That right honourable Sarah Gen. 21. 7. the wife of a most honorable man and mightie in substance and power nursed her sonne Isaac Princely Iob was nourished by the brests of her Iob 3. 12. Cant. 8. 1. whose wombe did beare him Queene Bathshebah nursed Salomon What shall I speake of holy Hannah the mother also of Moses of Samsons 1. Sam. 2. 23. Exod. 1. Iudg. 13. 42. mother and others The mother of Iesus our Lord and Sauiour whom all doe honour shee did giue her blessed Babe sucke all women call her blessed because shee bare Christ And was shee not as blessed in giuing him her brests to Luk. 11. 27. sucke Yes verily Some good Ladies at this day disdaine not this duety And what should hinder them Such persons may giue sucke and then may deliuer the child ouer to a dry Nurse to attend it in all other things which helpe the poore cannot haue Lastly as there is a blessing Gen. 49. 25. of the Wombe to bring forth so of the brests to Hosea 9. 14. giue sucke and the dry brests and barren wombe haue beene taken for a curse Let mothers therefore take knowledge of these things to presse them to this duety of nursing their owne bowels that in giuing still of their owne substance they might the more worke loue in their children towards them Their excuses are idle are of no force against these reasons for true motherly loue is seene in nursing for lust brings to conceiue necessity forceth to bring forth but onely true and naturall loue causeth a mother to nurse her child Verse 17. And the women her Neighbours gaue it a name saying There is a sonne borne to Naomi and they called his name Obed he is the Father of lesse the Father of Dauid HEre is the naming of the child which was borne of Ruth where note who named it the reason the name thereof and what he came to be shewed in his honorable and royall posterity in his Sonne and Grand-child And the women her Neighbours The women here are those before in verse 14. very godly and religious as appeareth by many things before spoken off These godly women were Naomi and Ruths Neighbours such as dwelt together with 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 them as the word signifieth Here may be noted who be fittest to be called to such businesses the honest Neighbours and Kinsfolke as was at the birth and Circumcision of Iohn Baptist for kinsfolke they expect it and haue therein an interest and cause of reioycing in the increase of their linage and therefore may not be carelesly neglected and Neighbours are to be called as those which be nigh at hand and helpfull at need who being neere are better as Salomon saith then a brother farre off But here obserue farther what manner of Neighbours they were which these godly women had euen such as themselues for godly women delight to haue about them such as themselues for the wicked and they cannot accord they haue differing heads and hearts ouer the one God ruleth ouer the other Satan the one is regenerate in heart the other vnregenerate and therefore cannot but iarre in word and deed the one being an abomination to the other as Salomon speaketh But the godly hauing Prou. 29. Act. 4. one head Iesus Christ and one heart they will reape benefit one of another by instructing admonishing comforting and praying one for another Therefore to shew your selues godly bee yee delighted to haue them about you And gaue it a name It is said the women gaue it we finde that sometime the Fathers gaue the name as Abraham to his sonne whom hee called Isaac Mothers often as we may see in Leah and Gen. 29. 30. Rachel so kinsfolke now and then as wee may note out of Luke chapter 1. 58 59. And here in Ruth the Neighbours gaue it yea sometime a stranger named the child vpon iust occasion as Pharaoes daughter did giue the name of Moses to him which the Parents did not alter so as it seemeth this was not strictly stood vpon though most commonly the Parents gaue the name If any here aske concerning the time when children were named I finde that it was sometime at the birth of the Infant so Rachel and the wife Gen. 35. 18. 1. Sam. 4. 21. of Phineas gaue their children names vpon their departure but being in such cases it seemeth not to be ordinary it may be thought to be vsually at the time when the child was circumcised as we may perceiue at the naming of Isaac Gen. 21. 4. Luke 1. 59. and Iohn the Baptist And thus doe wee giue names at the baptizing of Infants that as they did so we may put children in minde of the Couenant made in Baptisme of their badge of Christianity and of their ingrafting into Christ and how they were admitted as Gods children into the household of faith and as heires of the Kingdome of Heauen There is a Sonne borne to Naomi That is for the good and comfort of Naomi as is before shewed out of the fifteenth verse and as may bee gathered by the like phrase elsewhere So as in Esai 9. 6. Luk. 2. 11. these words is a reason of the name which they gaue vnto the child Whence note that the godly in ancient time gaue names not by hap-hazard but as good reason did leade them thereunto for they gaue names in obedience to Gods commandement Gen. 17. 19. 21. 3. Luk. 1. 13. who appoynted sometimes names vnto children to knowe also whence they were and whence taken