Selected quad for the lemma: child_n
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A01782
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A glasse for housholders wherin thei maye se, bothe howe to rule theim selfes [and] ordre their housholde verye godly and fruytfull.
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1542
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STC 11917; ESTC S109863
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heart_n to_o depart_v with_o they_o though_o they_o have_v receyve_v it_o of_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n even_o for_o the_o same_o purpose_n whereof_o procee_v that_o many_o time_n for_o a_o veray_fw-fr little_a anger_n or_o displeasure_n the_o father_n do_v whole_o disheryte_v his_o son_n or_o at_o least_o take_v away_o from_o he_o a_o great_a part_n of_o his_o inherytauâ—ce_n whereof_o also_o procee_v that_o man_n can_v find_v in_o their_o herte_n many_o time_n yâ—_z their_o servant_n shall_v be_v make_v disposer_n of_o their_o good_n or_o their_o friend_n rather_o than_o their_o child_n all_o this_o as_o i_o suppose_v procee_v of_o none_o other_o thing_n but_o of_o the_o little_a love_n that_o they_o have_v to_o their_o child_n and_o this_o little_a love_n come_v of_o this_o that_o the_o natural_a mother_n nourish_v not_o her_o own_o child_n in_o the_o presence_n of_o the_o father_n wherefore_o my_o dear_a friend_n and_o christian_a brother_n let_v your_o own_o wife_n noryshe_v your_o child_n even_o though_o it_o shall_v seam_n a_o new_a thing_n and_o not_o use_v forsooth_o god_n and_o nature_n have_v not_o wrought_v breast_n and_o teat_n in_o your_o wife_n yea_o and_o milk_n health_n and_o habylytee_n in_o vain_a if_o these_o shall_v not_o serve_v for_o she_o own_o child_n and_o besides_o this_o she_o may_v not_o ryght_o be_v call_v a_o mother_n ful_o and_o perfyght_o afterwards_o of_o her_o own_o child_n be_v but_o half_o a_o mother_n and_o hereof_o procee_v also_o the_o can_v love_v and_o small_a reverence_n that_o some_o child_n have_v in_o their_o age_n afterwards_o to_o their_o father_n and_o mother_n for_o when_o the_o son_n or_o daughter_n be_v of_o age_n consyder_v how_o the_o father_n and_o mother_n refuse_v labour_n with_o he_o or_o she_o â—_o put_v they_o out_o to_o nurse_n from_o they_o regard_v they_o thereafter_o and_o when_o they_o be_v in_o necessite_a or_o lack_v they_o think_v they_o that_o may_v serve_v they_o like_o manner_n that_o be_v to_o 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have_v they_o in_o much_o love_n fear_n &_o reverence_n as_o true_a child_n also_o the_o mother_n be_v nurse_n to_o your_o child_n of_o a_o good_a desposition_n &_o temperauncie_n of_o body_n and_o in_o mind_n constant_a devoute_a and_o of_o a_o good_a inclination_n such_o as_o i_o trust_v your_o good_a judgement_n and_o dyscretion_n will_v choose_v you_o may_v be_v sure_a yâ—_z your_o child_n shall_v have_v both_o virtue_n and_o good_a temperance_n of_o body_n which_o he_o may_v lighte_o lack_v be_v nourish_v of_o a_o strange_a woman_n so_o for_o all_o these_o cause_n and_o other_o that_o may_v be_v consider_v i_o beseech_v you_o follow_v that_o which_o by_o these_o reason_n you_o may_v perceyve_v to_o be_v best_a when_o your_o child_n can_v speak_v and_o understande_v forthwith_o without_o any_o delay_n put_v they_o under_o some_o virtuous_a person_n to_o learn_v to_o read_v and_o write_v together_o but_o special_o to_o learn_v virtuous_a manner_n and_o to_o serve_v god_n and_o 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well_o root_v betwyxte_v you_o any_o dyscension_n or_o wrangeling_n arise_v it_o wylbe_n hear_v afterward_o to_o be_v turn_v into_o a_o comformyte_n or_o a_o unyte_n of_o lyve_v quiet_o together_o special_o if_o in_o such_o anger_n pass_v any_o myschevous_a word_n or_o styng_v or_o prick_n word_n or_o stripe_n love_v afterward_o be_v to_o be_v despair_v almost_o for_o ever_o which_o dissension_n or_o wrangeling_n though_o it_o happen_v afterwards_o that_o yâ—_z love_n betwixt_o you_o be_v well_o root_v &_o establish_v the_o one_o know_v well_o the_o other_o 〈…〉_o gre_fw-mi or_o discord_n can_v be_v so_o greâ—â—e_v but_o that_o soon_o you_o shall_v return_v again_o into_o grace_n and_o favour_n into_o peace_n and_o concord_n ¶_o the_o govern_v of_o a_o household_n also_o the_o charge_n of_o the_o governaunce_n of_o yâ—_z house_n you_o may_v in_o manner_n geve_v whole_o to_o your_o wife_n &_o as_o you_o will_v yâ—_z she_o shall_v not_o much_o entermedle_n in_o your_o merchandise_n or_o business_n which_o be_v do_v out_o of_o yâ—_z house_n or_o out_o of_o her_o room_n so_o it_o be_v not_o seem_v that_o you_o great_o busy_a yourself_o in_o thing_n ol_v the_o house_n long_v to_o her_o charge_n as_o many_o womanly_a man_n do_v which_o wyllynglye_o without_o comeliness_n come_v under_o the_o subjection_n of_o their_o wyve_n and_o join_v to_o this_o foresaid_a charge_n of_o the_o house_n some_o other_o business_n and_o labour_n mete_v for_o she_o so_o that_o she_o may_v always_o be_v occupy_v &_o never_o idle_a many_o other_o thing_n may_v be_v say_v as_o concern_v the_o conversacyon_n betwixe_v the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n which_o now_o of_o purpose_n i_o leave_v to_o speak_v of_o least_o i_o shall_v be_v tediouse_a to_o you_o in_o read_v my_o simple_a council_n experience_n have_v and_o may_v instruct_v you_o far_o better_o than_o my_o wit_n can_v express_v yet_o somewhat_o i_o will_v say_v more_o as_o concern_v your_o child_n ¶_o as_o concern_v child_n first_o god_n send_v you_o child_n it_o be_v again_o nature_n tha_z woman_n shall_v not_o 〈◊〉_d their_o own_o child_n child_n see_v that_o none_o other_o woman_n nurse_v they_o than_o your_o own_o wife_n it_o be_v a_o great_a uncomlynesse_n and_o inconvenience_n yea_o i_o say_v cruelness_n that_o comen_o be_v use_v among_o man_n and_o woman_n i_o do_v not_o say_v beastliness_n for_o that_o they_o put_v forth_o their_o young_a child_n to_o nurse_n yea_o and_o some_o man_n and_o woman_n will_v cast_v their_o child_n out_o of_o door_n within_o a._n iii._n or_o fouredaies_o after_o that_o it_o be_v bear_v to_o a_o strange_a to_o norishe_v it_o it_o be_v to_o be_v wonder_v very_o what_o confydence_n the_o mother_n of_o the_o childre_n have_v special_o forasmuch_o as_o she_o thynkety_n that_o a_o strange_a woman_n will_v suffer_v the_o labour_n which_o be_v requisite_a in_o the_o nurss_v of_o the_o child_n when_o she_o that_o be_v natural_a mother_n refuse_v it_o they_o will_v anon_o say_v that_o 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the_o labour_n or_o pass_v more_o upon_o the_o child_n then_o upon_o the_o money_n but_o who_o will_v doubt_n but_o the_o child_n shall_v be_v more_o helthful_a a_o more_o temperate_a in_o body_n if_o it_o have_v suck_v his_o natural_a lyquore_fw-la where_o w_z e_z he_o be_v nourish_v in_o his_o mother_n womb_n who_o may_v think_v that_o nature_n not_o do_v much_o more_o to_o the_o helthe_n and_o good_a disposicyon_n of_o the_o child_n body_n then_o money_n can_v do_v or_o ever_o shall_v be_v able_a to_o do_v very_o it_o be_v not_o like_a but_o the_o child_n shall_v be_v the_o helthy_a not_o only_o in_o his_o in_o fancy_n but_o all_o day_n of_o his_o life_n afterward_o if_o the_o mother_n will_v play_v the_o mother_n in_o nourish_a the_o child_n once_o in_o the_o begin_v they_o put_v the_o child_n in_o jeopardy_n of_o his_o life_n in_o take_v he_o from_o his_o natural_a milk_n wherewith_o he_o be_v nourish_v in_o his_o mother_n womb_n and_o beside_o that_o yâ—_z mother_n have_v never_o so_o perfyghte_a love_n to_o yâ—_z child_n which_o a_o other_o woman_n noryssh_v as_o if_o she_o nourish_v it_o herself_o for_o while_o she_o nourish_v it_o not_o she_o remain_v but_o half_a a_o mother_n for_o the_o offyce_v of_o a_o whole_a &_o parfyght_a mother_n be_v to_o bear_v child_n and_o norishe_v they_o or_o bring_v they_o forth_o now_o she_o repart_v the_o one_o part_n with_o yâ—_z norse_o and_o so_o also_o in_o love_n she_o remain_v but_o half_a a_o mother_n they_o will_v say_v that_o their_o love_n can_v not_o be_v diminish_v towards_o their_o child_n though_o other_o woman_n no_o rishe_v they_o but_o it_o be_v not_o so_o for_o though_o nourish_a of_o child_n be_v laborious_a and_o peynfull_a yet_o it_o engender_v much_o love_n betwixt_o the_o