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too_o cold_o and_o gentle_o chap._n 2._o 23_o 24_o and_o he_o say_v unto_o they_o why_o do_v you_o such_o thing_n for_o i_o hear_v of_o your_o evil_a deal_n by_o all_o this_o people_n nay_o my_o son_n for_o it_o be_v no_o good_a report_n that_o i_o hear_v you_o make_v the_o lord_n people_n to_o transgress_v beside_o his_o reproof_n he_o ought_v to_o have_v restrain_v they_o ch._n 3._o and_o 13._o as_o be_v high_a priest_n a_o judge_n and_o chief_a governor_n among_o the_o people_n he_o ought_v to_o have_v put_v they_o out_o of_o the_o priesthood_n as_o accurse_v person_n and_o execute_v the_o law_n of_o god_n against_o they_o which_o because_o he_o do_v not_o therefore_o god_n denounce_v very_o dreadful_a judgement_n against_o he_o by_o a_o prophet_n who_o he_o send_v unto_o he_o chap._n 2._o 31_o 3â—_n 33_o 34_o 36._o and_o chap._n 3._o 13_o 14._o and_o in_o chap._n 4._o we_o find_v his_o two_o son_n hophâ—â—_n and_o phineas_n be_v slay_v in_o battle_n by_o the_o philistine_n and_o 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