repugn_v to_o thy_o mind_n and_o if_o thou_o find_v any_o such_o holy_a exercise_n to_o which_o this_o hart_n of_o thou_o have_v less_o inclination_n than_o it_o shall_v examine_v the_o cause_n from_o whence_o that_o disgust_n arise_v 5._o how_o do_v thy_o hart_n remain_v affect_v towards_o god_n himself_o take_v it_o pleasure_n in_o the_o remembrance_n of_o god_n feel_v it_o not_o a_o sweet_a delight_n in_o call_v he_o to_o mind_n ah_o say_a david_n i_o have_v think_v upon_o god_n and_o take_v delight_n therein_o do_v thou_o find_v a_o certain_a promptness_n readiness_n and_o facility_n in_o thy_o hart_n to_o love_n god_n and_o a_o particular_a savour_n in_o taste_v this_o his_o love_n thy_o hart_n do_v it_o not_o recreate_v itself_o to_o think_v upon_o the_o immensity_n bounty_n and_o marvellous_a swetnes_n of_o almighty_a god_n if_o thou_o chance_v to_o think_v upon_o god_n amid_o thy_o worldly_a affair_n and_o vanity_n do_v this_o thought_n make_v place_n and_o win_v room_n and_o seize_v upon_o thy_o hart_n do_v it_o seem_v to_o thou_o that_o in_o such_o case_n thy_o hart_n take_v god_n part_n and_o turn_v to_o his_o side_n and_o as_o it_o be_v go_v before_o he_o to_o lead_v he_o reverent_o into_o the_o chamber_n of_o thy_o hart_n for_o there_o be_v many_o soul_n of_o this_o metal_n in_o the_o world_n 6._o a_o love_a wife_n when_o her_o husband_n come_v home_o from_o some_o far_a journey_n so_o soon_o as_o she_o perceave_v any_o sign_n of_o his_o return_n or_o hear_v his_o voice_n what_o business_n of_o ever_o she_o have_v in_o hand_n though_o she_o be_v constrain_v by_o some_o forcible_a consideration_n to_o stay_v herself_o yet_o her_o hart_n can_v be_v hold_v from_o look_v for_o her_o husband_n but_o abandon_v all_o other_o cogitation_n to_o think_v upon_o his_o joyful_a return_n soul_n that_o love_v god_n do_v the_o very_a same_o howsoever_o they_o be_v employ_v when_o the_o remembrance_n of_o god_n present_v itself_o unto_o they_o they_o neglect_v all_o thing_n else_o for_o joy_n that_o their_o belove_a be_v return_v unto_o they_o and_o this_o be_v a_o very_a good_a sign_n 7._o how_o be_v thy_o hart_n affect_v towards_o jesus_n christ_n god_n &_o man_n take_v thou_o pleasure_n in_o thinck_v on_o his_o life_n and_o death_n the_o bee_n delight_n in_o their_o delicious_a honey_n wasp_n and_o beetle_n in_o ill-favoured_a savour_n so_o holy_a soul_n have_v all_o their_o contentment_n place_v in_o our_o sweet_a redeemer_n jesus_n christ_n with_o a_o exceed_a tenderness_n of_o ardent_a love_n to_o he_o but_o such_o as_o be_v vain_a and_o wicked_a plant_v their_o affection_n altogether_o upon_o unprofitable_a vanity_n 8._o how_o be_v thy_o hart_n affect_v towards_o our_o bless_a lady_n thy_o good_a angel_n the_o saint_n of_o heaven_n do_v thou_o love_v honour_n &_o reverence_v they_o have_v thou_o a_o special_a trust_n in_o their_o intercession_n a_o respect_n &_o worship_n to_o their_o image_n delight_n in_o their_o life_n take_v thou_o pleasure_n to_o hear_v they_o praise_v 9_o concern_v thy_o tongue_n how_o speak_v thou_o of_o god_n be_v it_o a_o delight_n unto_o thou_o to_o talk_v and_o discourse_n in_o his_o honour_n according_a to_o thy_o condition_n and_o ability_n do_v thou_o love_v to_o sing_v hymn_n to_o his_o praise_n and_o glory_n 10._o concern_v work_n think_v whether_o thou_o have_v a_o true_a hearty_a desire_n of_o the_o outward_a glotie_n of_o god_n and_o to_o do_v somewhat_o for_o his_o honour_n and_o worship_n for_o such_o as_o love_n god_n do_v according_a to_o david_n love_v the_o ornament_n of_o his_o house_n 11._o consider_v whether_o thou_o have_v leave_v any_o affection_n or_o renounce_v any_o delight_n or_o forsake_v any_o thing_n for_o god_n cause_n for_o it_o be_v a_o great_a sign_n of_o true_a love_n for_o his_o sake_n who_o we_o love_v to_o deprive_v ourselves_o of_o any_o thing_n what_o then_o have_v thou_o in_o all_o this_o time_n since_o thy_o protestation_n forsake_v for_o the_o love_n of_o god_n a_o examination_n of_o our_o estate_n touch_v ourselves_o chap._n 5._o 1._o how_o do_v thou_o love_v thyself_o love_v thou_o thyself_o overmuch_o for_o the_o vanity_n of_o this_o world_n for_o if_o it_o be_v so_o thou_o will_v desire_v to_o dwell_v always_o in_o the_o world_n with_o a_o extraordinary_a care_n to_o establish_v thyself_o here_o upon_o earth_n but_o if_o thou_o love_v thyself_o for_o heaven_n sake_n then_o will_v thou_o desire_v at_o least_o wise_a thou_o will_v easy_o consent_v to_o depart_v from_o hence_o at_o the_o time_n and_o hour_n that_o it_o shall_v please_v our_o lord_n to_o call_v thou_o 2._o do_v thou_o keep_v due_a order_n in_o the_o love_n of_o thyself_o for_o there_o be_v nothing_o that_o mar_v we_o but_o only_o the_o inordinate_a love_n of_o ourselves_o as_o for_o well_o order_v love_n it_o require_v that_o we_o love_v the_o soul_n bitter_a than_o the_o body_n that_o we_o take_v more_o pain_n to_o get_v virtue_n then_o any_o thing_n else_o that_o we_o make_v more_o account_n of_o heavenly_a glory_n then_o of_o base_a and_o transitory_a honour_n a_o well_o order_v hart_n will_v more_o often_o say_v in_o itself_o what_o will_v the_o angel_n say_v if_o i_o think_v or_o do_v such_o a_o thing_n they_o what_o will_v man_n say_v 3._o what_o love_n bear_v thou_o to_o thy_o soul_n be_v thou_o unwilling_a and_o loath_a to_o help_v it_o when_o it_o be_v spiritual_o distemper_v and_o disease_v alas_o thou_o owe_v this_o care_n and_o attendance_n unto_o it_o to_o help_v it_o thyself_o and_o procure_v it_o to_o be_v holpen_v by_o other_o when_o passion_n do_v torment_v it_o and_o to_o set_v a_o side_n all_o other_o care_n when_o thy_o soul_n stand_v in_o need_n of_o thy_o care_n 4._o how_o do_v thou_o esteem_v of_o thyself_o before_o the_o eye_n of_o god_n almighty_a to_o be_v nothing_o at_o all_o doubtless_o but_o it_o be_v no_o great_a humility_n in_o a_o fly_n to_o think_v herself_o nothing_o in_o regard_n of_o a_o mountain_n or_o for_o a_o drop_n of_o water_n to_o esteem_v itself_o nothing_o in_o comparison_n of_o the_o main_a sea_n nor_o for_o a_o sparkle_n of_o fire_n to_o hold_v itself_o nothing_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o sun_n it_o be_v humility_n indeed_o not_o to_o prefer_v ourselves_o before_o other_o nor_o to_o affect_v or_o desire_v to_o be_v esteem_v of_o and_o well_o like_v by_o other_o how_o do_v thou_o feel_v thyself_o affect_v in_o this_o point_n 5._o touch_v thy_o tongue_n do_v thou_o not_o brag_v and_o vaunt_v of_o thyself_o one_o way_n or_o other_o do_v thou_o not_o flatter_v thyself_o when_o thou_o speak_v of_o thy_o own_o self_n 6._o for_o work_n &_o action_n do_v thou_o use_v to_o take_v any_o pleasure_n or_o passetime_o contrary_a to_o thy_o bodily_a or_o spiritual_a health_n i_o mean_v vain_a pleasure_n unprofitable_a recreation_n overwatching_a too_o much_o disorde_o labour_n and_o such_o like_a a_o examination_n of_o the_o estate_n of_o our_o soul_n towards_o our_o neighbour_n chapter_n 6._o 1._o the_o love_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n oughts_z io_o be_v sweet_a quiet_a earnest_a and_o constant_a and_o ground_v principal_o upon_o the_o ordinance_n of_o god_n who_o command_v it_o to_o be_v so_o and_o the_o self_n same_o be_v to_o be_v understand_v of_o love_n between_o parent_n and_o their_o child_n between_o we_o and_o our_o neighbour_n and_o our_o friend_n every_o one_o in_o his_o rank_n and_o degree_n 2._o but_o to_o speak_v in_o general_n how_o be_v thy_o hart_n affect_v towards_o thy_o neighbour_n do_v thou_o love_v he_o from_o thy_o hart_n and_o for_o god_n sake_n to_o discern_v well_o whether_o it_o be_v so_o or_o no_o thou_o must_v prepose_v and_o represent_v unto_o thyself_o certain_a person_n that_o be_v troublesome_a and_o intractable_a for_o there_o it_o be_v and_o towards_o such_o kind_n of_o man_n where_o we_o exercise_v the_o virtue_n of_o true_a charity_n towards_o our_o neighbour_n and_o much_o more_o towards_o such_o as_o have_v injury_v we_o either_o in_o work_n or_o in_o word_n examine_v well_o if_o thy_o hart_n be_v free_a from_o passion_n in_o this_o behalf_n and_o whether_o thou_o feel_v not_o a_o contradiction_n within_o thou_o to_o love_v any_o body_n 3._o be_v thou_o prone_a to_o speak_v ill_o of_o thy_o neighbour_n and_o especial_o of_o such_o as_o love_v thou_o not_o do_v thou_o any_o harm_n to_o thy_o neighbour_n direct_o or_o indirect_o though_o thou_o have_v never_o so_o little_a reason_n or_o discourse_n thou_o will_v easy_o find_v out_o thy_o defect_n in_o this_o point_n a_o examination_n of_o the_o affection_n of_o our_o soul_n chap._n 7._o 1._o i_o have_v extend_v these_o point_n at_o large_a because_o in_o the_o examination_n of_o they_o consist_v the_o knowledge_n of_o our_o spiritual_a
lewis_n s._n amé_n and_o s._n edward_n in_o their_o royal_a throne_n &_o dukedom_n nay_o it_o have_v oftentimes_o happen_v that_o many_o have_v lose_v their_o perfection_n in_o solitude_n which_o not_o withstand_v be_v so_o much_o desire_v to_o perfection_n and_o have_v conserve_v it_o amid_o the_o multitude_n which_o seem_v little_a favourable_a to_o perfection_n lott_n say_v s._n gregory_n that_o be_v so_o chaste_a in_o the_o city_n defile_v himself_o in_o solitude_n whersoever_o we_o be_v or_o of_o whatsoever_o calling_n we_o be_v we_o may_v and_o aught_o to_o aspire_v to_o perfection_n the_o necessity_n of_o a_o guide_n to_o enter_v and_o go_v forward_o in_o exercise_n of_o devotion_n chapter_n four_o 1._o young_a tobias_n command_v by_o his_o father_n to_o go_v to_o the_o city_n of_o rage_n say_v i_o know_v no_o whit_n of_o the_o way_n go_v then_o reply_v his_o father_n and_o seek_v out_o some_o faithful_a guide_n to_o conduct_v thou_o the_o same_o say_v i_o to_o thou_o my_o belove_a philotheus_n desire_v thou_o in_o good_a earnest_n to_o walk_v to_o the_o city_n of_o devotion_n seek_v some_o skilful_a man_n to_o direct_v and_o lead_v thou_o this_o be_v the_o rule_n of_o rule_n and_o the_o advertisement_n of_o advertisment_n for_o albeit_o thou_o search_v never_o so_o curious_o say_v the_o devout_a auila_n thou_o shall_v never_o so_o secure_o and_o certain_o find_v out_o the_o will_n of_o god_n as_o by_o this_o safe_a way_n of_o humble_a obedience_n so_o much_o recommend_v and_o practise_v by_o all_o his_o devout_a and_o faithful_a servant_n in_o former_a time_n the_o bless_a mother_n teresa_n foundress_n of_o the_o reform_a carmelit_n see_v the_o strange_a and_o extraordinary_a penance_n which_o the_o great_a lady_n catherine_n of_o cardova_n exercise_v in_o a_o cave_n in_o a_o wilderness_n of_o spanie_n be_v much_o move_v in_o hart_n to_o imitate_v she_o therein_o contrary_a to_o the_o advice_n of_o her_o confessor_n who_o have_v forbid_v she_o such_o kind_n of_o austerity_n yet_o be_v she_o tempt_v not_o to_o obey_v he_o in_o that_o behalf_n but_o god_n who_o many_o time_n familiar_o talk_v with_o she_o say_v unto_o she_o my_o daughter_n thou_o have_v already_o begin_v a_o very_a fafe_a and_o assure_v way_n see_v thou_o the_o penance_n of_o that_o good_a lady_n but_o i_o do_v make_v more_o account_n of_o thy_o obedience_n and_o therefore_o this_o bless_a woman_n ever_o after_o so_o love_v this_o virtue_n that_o beside_o the_o ordinary_a obedience_n due_a unto_o her_o superior_n she_o make_v one_o vow_n in_o particular_a to_o a_o certain_a learned_a &_o excellent_a man_n to_o follow_v in_o all_o thing_n his_o direction_n by_o which_o she_o find_v inestimable_a comfort_n and_o profit_n as_o both_o before_o and_o after_o she_o many_o devout_a soul_n have_v do_v the_o like_a who_o to_o subject_v themselves_o more_o perfect_o to_o the_o will_n of_o god_n submit_v their_o own_o will_n to_o the_o disposition_n of_o his_o servant_n a_o thing_n which_o holy_a s._n catherine_n of_o sienna_n high_o commend_v in_o her_o spiritual_a dialogue_n the_o most_o virtuous_a princess_n s._n elizabeth_n submit_v herself_o most_o extraordinarilie_o to_o the_o direction_n of_o her_o ghostly_a confessor_n conradus_n and_o one_o of_o the_o last_o advice_n that_o great_a s._n lewis_n give_v to_o his_o son_n before_o his_o death_n be_v in_o this_o in_o kind_n confess_v often_o &_o choose_v a_o confessor_n of_o learning_n and_o discretion_n that_o can_v and_o dare_v advertise_v thou_o to_o do_v such_o thing_n as_o be_v necessary_a for_o thy_o salvation_n 2._o a_o faithful_a friend_n say_v the_o holy_a scripture_n be_v a_o strong_a protection_n he_o that_o have_v find_v he_o have_v find_v a_o treasure_n a_o faithful_a friend_n be_v a_o medicine_n of_o life_n and_o immortality_n such_o as_o fear_v god_n do_v find_v such_o a_o friend_n these_o sacred_a word_n as_o you_o may_v see_v be_v principal_o speak_v of_o immortality_n for_o the_o obtain_n whereof_o it_o be_v needful_a above_o all_o thing_n to_o have_v this_o faithful_a friend_n who_o may_v guide_v our_o action_n by_o his_o prudentiall_a council_n and_o countergard_v we_o against_o the_o ambushment_n and_o slight_n of_o our_o ghostly_a enemy_n such_o a_o one_o shall_v be_v unto_o we_o as_o a_o treasure_n of_o wisdom_n in_o all_o our_o affliction_n desolation_n and_o fall_v he_o shall_v serve_v we_o as_o a_o medicine_n to_o ease_v and_o comfort_v our_o heart_n in_o our_o ghostly_a disease_n he_o will_v keep_v we_o from_o evil_a and_o make_v what_o be_v good_a in_o we_o agreat_a deal_n better_o and_o if_o any_o infirmity_n chance_v to_o befall_v we_o his_o careful_a assistance_n will_v procure_v that_o it_o shall_v not_o be_v mortal_a for_o he_o will_v lift_v we_o up_o again_o from_o our_o downfall_n 3._o but_o who_o be_v he_o say_v you_o that_o shall_v be_v so_o happy_a as_o to_o find_v such_o a_o friend_n the_o wise_a man_n in_o the_o same_o place_n tell_v we_o say_v they_o that_o fear_v god_n they_o that_o with_o a_o humble_a mind_n affectuouf_o desire_v their_o advacement_n in_o piety_n and_o in_o the_o service_n and_o worship_n of_o their_o creator_n see_v then_o that_o it_o import_v thou_o so_o much_o my_o philotheus_n to_o go_v accompany_v with_o a_o good_a guide_n in_o this_o holy_a voyage_n of_o devotion_n pray_v unto_o god_n with_o very_o great_a instance_n that_o he_o will_v furnish_v thou_o with_o one_o according_a to_o his_o hart_n and_o doubt_v not_o albeit_o it_o be_v needful_a for_o this_o end_n to_o send_v a_o angel_n from_o heaven_n as_o he_o do_v to_o young_a tobias_n but_o that_o he_o will_v give_v thou_o a_o good_a one_o and_o a_o faithful_a 4._o and_o in_o very_a deed_n in_o place_n of_o a_o angel_n ought_v he_o to_o be_v unto_o thou_o when_o thou_o have_v once_o find_v he_o regard_v he_o not_o simple_o as_o a_o man_n nether_a trust_n in_o he_o nor_o in_o his_o human_a prudence_n but_o in_o the_o providence_n of_o almighty_a god_n who_o will_v no_o doubt_n favour_v thy_o endeavour_n and_o speak_v unto_o thou_o by_o the_o mean_n and_o interposition_n of_o this_o man_n put_v into_o his_o mind_n and_o into_o his_o mouth_n that_o which_o shall_v be_v most_o expedient_a for_o thy_o spiritual_a advancement_n so_o that_o thou_o ought_v to_o hearken_v unto_o he_o as_o unto_o a_o angel_n descend_v from_o heaven_n to_o conduct_v and_o lead_v thou_o thither_o treat_v with_o he_o free_o and_o with_o a_o open_a hart_n manifest_v without_o all_o dissimulation_n or_o feign_v the_o good_a and_o evil_a which_o thou_o find_v in_o thy_o soul_n and_o by_o this_o mean_n thy_o good_a shall_v be_v more_o examine_v and_o assure_v and_o thy_o evil_a correct_v and_o amend_v thou_o shall_v be_v both_o ease_v and_o fortify_v in_o thy_o affliction_n and_o moderate_v and_o order_v in_o thy_o consolation_n place_v then_o a_o exceed_a confidence_n in_o he_o join_v with_o a_o religious_a and_o respective_a reverence_n yet_o so_o that_o the_o reverence_n diminish_v not_o thy_o confidence_n in_o he_o nor_o thy_o confidence_n hinder_v the_o reverence_n due_a unto_o he_o but_o trust_v in_o he_o with_o tremble_a as_o a_o chaste_a maiden_n do_v respect_v her_o severe_a but_o love_a father_n and_o respect_v he_o with_o a_o assure_a trust_n in_o his_o love_n and_o care_n as_o a_o obedient_a son_n will_v do_v his_o dear_a and_o tender_a heart_a mother_n in_o a_o word_n the_o friendship_n betwixt_o thou_o and_o thy_o ghostly_a instructor_n must_v be_v strong_a and_o sweet_a all_o holy_a all_o sacred_a and_o all_o celestial_a 5._o for_o this_o cause_n choose_v one_o among_o a_o thousand_o say_v auilla_n but_o i_o say_v unto_o thou_o one_o among_o ten_o thousand_o for_o there_o be_v few_o to_o be_v find_v then_o man_n imagine_v who_o be_v fit_a and_o capable_a of_o such_o a_o office_n he_o must_v be_v replenish_v with_o charity_n knowledge_n and_o with_o prudence_n for_o if_o but_o one_o of_o these_o three_o part_n be_v want_v in_o he_o it_o will_v be_v dangerous_a for_o thy_o soul_n therefore_o once_o again_o i_o advise_v thou_o to_o demand_v he_o instant_o at_o the_o hand_n of_o almighty_a god_n and_o have_v once_o obtain_v he_o bless_v his_o divine_a majesty_n for_o so_o great_a a_o benefit_n stand_v firm_a and_o steadfast_a under_o his_o conduct_n and_o change_v he_o not_o light_o for_o any_o other_o but_o go_v to_o he_o simple_o humble_o and_o confident_o and_o so_o shall_v thou_o make_v a_o prosperous_a voyage_n that_o the_o begin_n of_o a_o devout_a life_n must_v be_v take_v from_o the_o purgation_n of_o the_o soul_n chapter_n v._n 1._o flower_n appear_v in_o our_o ground_n say_v the_o spouse_n in_o the_o canticle_n the_o time_n of_o prune_v our_o vine_n be_v come_v what_o be_v the_o flower_n of_o our_o heart_n o_o philotheus_n
good_a &_o that_o in_o give_v light_n to_o other_o they_o shall_v consume_v themselves_o all_o this_o be_v a_o artificial_a kind_n of_o humility_n not_o only_o false_a but_o also_o malignant_a whereby_o one_o seek_v secret_o and_o subtle_o to_o blame_v the_o gift_n of_o god_n or_o at_o the_o least_o with_o the_o cloak_n of_o humility_n to_o cover_v the_o love_n of_o his_o own_o humour_n and_o slothfulness_n demand_n of_o god_n a_o sign_n either_o from_o heaven_n above_o or_o from_o the_o depth_n of_o the_o sea_n below_o say_v the_o prophet_n to_o unhappy_a achaz_n and_o he_o answer_v i_o will_v demand_v none_o neither_o will_v i_o tempt_v god_n o_o wicked_a man_n he_o will_v seem_v to_o bear_v great_a reverence_n to_o god_n and_o under_o colour_n of_o humility_n excuse_v himself_o from_o aspire_v to_o the_o grace_n which_o god_n goodness_n offer_v unto_o he_o but_o he_o understand_v not_o that_o when_o our_o lord_n offer_v we_o his_o grace_n it_o be_v pride_n to_o refuse_v they_o that_o the_o gift_n of_o god_n oblige_v we_o to_o receive_v they_o and_o that_o true_a humility_n be_v to_o obey_v and_o follow_v his_o will_n and_o desire_v the_o near_a we_o can_v but_o god_n desire_n be_v that_o we_o become_v perfect_a unite_n ourselves_o unto_o he_o and_o imitate_v he_o the_o best_a we_o can_v the_o proud_a man_n which_o trust_v in_o himself_o have_v just_a occasion_n if_o he_o know_v it_o to_o undertake_v take_v nothing_o but_o he_o that_o be_v humble_a be_v so_o much_o more_o courageous_a by_o how_o much_o more_o unable_a he_o acknowledge_v himself_o and_o according_a to_o the_o measure_n that_o he_o measure_v his_o own_o frailty_n his_o boldness_n in_o god_n increase_v for_o all_o his_o trust_n be_v in_o god_n and_o god_n he_o know_v delight_v to_o exalt_v his_o omnipotency_n in_o our_o infirmity_n and_o to_o magnify_v his_o mercy_n by_o our_o misery_n we_o must_v then_o humble_o and_o holy_o dare_v and_o undertake_v what_o soever_o be_v judge_v fit_a and_o convenient_a to_o our_o spiritual_a advancement_n by_o they_o that_o have_v the_o guide_n of_o our_o soul_n 7._o to_o think_v one_o know_v that_o which_o he_o know_v not_o be_v a_o express_a folly_n to_o play_v the_o learned_a man_n in_o that_o in_o which_o it_o be_v manifest_a we_o have_v no_o skill_n nor_o experience_n be_v a_o intolerable_a vanity_n for_o my_o part_n i_o will_v not_o take_v upon_o i_o a_o learned_a man_n person_n even_o in_o thing_n which_o i_o be_v certain_a that_o i_o know_v well_o enough_o as_o contrariwise_o i_o will_v not_o counterfeit_v myself_o altogether_o ignorant_a when_o charity_n require_v we_o must_v ready_o and_o sweet_o communicate_v to_o our_o neighbour_n not_o only_o that_o which_o be_v necessary_a for_o his_o instruction_n but_o withal_o that_o which_o be_v profitable_a for_o his_o consolation_n for_o humility_n which_o hide_v and_o conceal_v virtue_n to_o conserve_v they_o in_o their_o purity_n do_v nevertheless_o discover_v they_o and_o make_v they_o show_v themselves_o when_o charity_n command_v to_o increase_v and_o perfect_v they_o wherein_o she_o resemble_v a_o tree_n in_o the_o isle_n of_o tylos_n which_o all_o night_n long_o lock_v and_o enclose_v up_o her_o fair_a carnation_n flower_n and_o do_v not_o open_v they_o but_o at_o the_o rise_n of_o the_o sun_n so_o that_o the_o inhabitant_n of_o the_o country_n do_v say_v that_o these_o flower_n do_v sleep_v by_o night_n for_o even_o so_o humility_n cover_v and_o hide_v all_o our_o virtue_n and_o humane_a perfection_n and_o let_v they_o not_o be_v see_v abroad_o but_o when_o charity_n command_v and_o charity_n be_v a_o virtue_n not_o humane_a but_o heavenly_a not_o moral_a but_o divine_a be_v the_o very_a true_a sun_n of_o all_o other_o virtue_n upon_o which_o she_o must_v therefore_o ever_o predominate_a so_o that_o humility_n which_o be_v preiudicious_a to_o charity_n be_v without_o all_o doubt_n false_a humility_n 8._o i_o will_v neither_o counterfeit_v a_o fool_n nor_o a_o wiseman_n for_o if_o humility_n forbid_v i_o to_o counterfeit_v myself_o wise_a simplicity_n and_o plainness_n forbid_v i_o likewise_o to_o counterfeit_v myself_o a_o fool_n for_o as_o vanity_n and_o pride_n be_v contrary_a to_o humility_n so_o be_v affectation_n and_o dissemble_a contrary_n to_o simplicity_n and_o plain-dealing_a and_o if_o some_o great_a seruamt_n of_o god_n have_v make_v as_o if_o they_o have_v be_v fool_n to_o render_v themselves_o more_o abject_a in_o the_o eye_n of_o the_o world_n we_o must_v admire_v they_o and_o not_o imitate_v they_o for_o they_o have_v motive_n that_o induce_v they_o to_o this_o excess_n which_o be_v so_o peculiar_a unto_o they_o &_o extraordinary_a that_o no_o man_n ought_v from_o thence_o to_o infer_v any_o consequence_n for_o himself_o as_o for_o david_n when_o he_o dance_v before_o the_o ark_n of_o the_o testament_n with_o some_o more_o demonstration_n of_o mirth_n than_o seem_v to_o beseem_v the_o majesty_n of_o a_o king_n he_o do_v it_o not_o as_o counterfeit_v any_o foolish_a mirth_n but_o simple_o and_o plain_o use_v he_o these_o exterior_a motion_n conformable_a to_o the_o extraordinary_a gladness_n which_o he_o feel_v in_o his_o hart_n true_a it_o be_v that_o when_o michol_n his_o wife_n up_o braid_v he_o for_o this_o fact_n as_o to_o base_a and_o fond_a for_o a_o king_n he_o be_v never_o a_o whit_n sorry_a to_o see_v himself_o despise_v but_o persevere_v in_o the_o true_a and_o sincere_a representation_n of_o the_o joy_n which_o he_o have_v conceive_v in_o his_o soul_n he_o protest_v that_o he_o be_v likewise_o glad_a to_o receive_v a_o little_a shame_n for_o the_o love_n of_o his_o god_n and_o consequent_o i_o say_v that_o if_o for_o act_n of_o true_a and_o profound_a devotion_n thou_o be_v esteem_v simple_a abject_a and_o base-minded_a humility_n will_v make_v thou_o rejoice_v at_o this_o happy_a shame_n the_o cause_n whereof_o be_v not_o in_o thou_o but_o in_o they_o that_o lie_v it_o upon_o thou_o that_o humility_n make_v we_o love_v our_o own_o debasement_n and_o abjection_n chapter_n 6._o 1._o i_o pass_v far_o philotheae_n to_o tell_v thou_o that_o above_o all_o thing_n thou_o love_v thy_o own_o abjection_n but_o thou_o will_v ask_v i_o what_o it_o be_v to_o love_v our_o own_o abjection_n in_o latin_a abjection_n be_v all_o one_o with_o humility_n and_o humility_n with_o abjection_n for_o so_o when_o our_o lady_n in_o her_o sacred_a hymn_n say_v that_o all_o generation_n shall_v term_v her_o bless_a because_o god_n have_v see_v the_o humility_n of_o his_o handmaid_n her_o meaning_n be_v that_o our_o lord_n behold_v with_o great_a love_n her_o abjection_n her_o baseness_n and_o lowness_n to_o endow_v she_o with_o favour_n &_o inestimable_a grace_n yet_o there_o be_v great_a difference_n between_o the_o virtue_n of_o humility_n and_o abjection_n for_o abjection_n be_v the_o litlenes_n baseness_n poorne_n &_o the_o nothing_o that_o be_v in_o we_o of_o our_o own_o self_n we_o not_o know_v nor_o consider_v it_o but_o as_o for_o the_o virtue_n of_o humility_n it_o be_v a_o true_a feel_a knowledge_n and_o voluntary_a acknowledgement_n of_o our_o abjection_n and_o vileness_n 2._o but_o the_o principal_a point_n of_o humility_n consist_v not_o only_o in_o this_o willing_a acknowledgement_n of_o our_o abjection_n but_o to_o love_v it_o and_o take_v a_o delight_n and_o contentment_n in_o it_o not_o for_o want_v of_o courage_n or_o magnanimity_n but_o to_o extol_v so_o much_o the_o more_o the_o divine_a majesty_n and_o to_o esteem_v much_o better_a of_o our_o neighbour_n in_o comparison_n of_o ourselves_o this_o point_n be_v that_o which_o i_o exhort_v thou_o to_o insist_v in_o most_o of_o all_o and_o that_o thou_o may_v the_o better_o understand_v and_o conceive_v it_o consider_v that_o among_o the_o affliction_n and_o trouble_n which_o we_o suffer_v in_o this_o life_n some_o of_o they_o be_v base_a contemptible_a and_o abject_a other_o be_v honourable_a and_o glorious_a and_o many_o apply_v themselves_o willing_o to_o honourable_a tribulation_n but_o scarce_o any_o at_o all_o will_v abide_v those_o that_o be_v abject_a &_o ignominious_a so_o a_o devout_a hermit_n all_o ragged_a and_o shiver_v for_o cold_a every_o body_n honour_v his_o tear_a habit_n take_v compassion_n of_o that_o which_o he_o endure_v but_o if_o a_o poor_a tradeseman_n a_o decay_a gentleman_n or_o a_o poor_a gentlewoman_n be_v in_o the_o same_o case_n man_n despise_v and_o mock_v they_o and_o so_o thou_o see_v how_o their_o poverty_n be_v abject_a and_o ignominious_a a_o religious_a man_n receave_v devout_o a_o rigorous_a reprehension_n of_o his_o superior_a and_o a_o child_n of_o his_o father_n and_o all_o man_n count_v it_o and_o call_v it_o mortification_n obedience_n and_o good_a manner_n but_o let_v a_o knight_n or_o some_o great_a lady_n suffer_v the_o like_a of_o another_o
that_o ornament_n of_o our_o virtue_n they_o will_v notwithstanding_o spring_v up_o again_o as_o abundant_o as_o before_o and_o the_o razor_n of_o these_o malicious_a back_n bite_v tongue_n will_v be_v to_o our_o credit_n as_o the_o gardener_n hook_n to_o the_o vine_n which_o by_o cut_v of_o leaf_n and_o prune_v some_o superfluous_a branch_n make_v it_o become_v more_o fructifull_a 5._o let_v we_o fix_v our_o eye_n always_o upon_o our_o saviour_n jesus_n christ_n crucify_v for_o we_o and_o march_v on_o confident_o in_o his_o service_n simple_o and_o plain_o yet_o prudentlie_o and_o discreet_o and_o he_o will_v be_v the_o protector_n of_o our_o reputation_n if_o he_o suffer_v it_o to_o be_v take_v from_o we_o it_o be_v either_o to_o honour_v we_o with_o a_o far_o more_o glorious_a renown_n or_o at_o least_o wise_a to_o make_v we_o profit_v in_o the_o exercise_n of_o holy_a humility_n whereof_o one_o only_a ounce_n be_v better_a than_o a_o thousand_o pound_n of_o honour_n and_o estimation_n if_o we_o be_v uniustlie_o defame_v let_v we_o meek_o and_o quiet_o oppose_v the_o plain_a truth_n against_o false_a calummation_n if_o then_o never_o the_o less_o cavil_n persevere_v let_v we_o likewise_o persevere_v in_o humble_v ourselves_o resign_v our_o reputation_n together_o with_o our_o soul_n into_o god_n hand_n we_o can_v place_v it_o in_o better_a security_n let_v we_o setue_n god_n in_o infamy_n or_o good_a fame_n according_a to_o saint_n paul_n example_n that_o we_o may_v say_v to_o god_n with_o david_n for_o thou_o o_o lord_n have_v i_o suffer_v shame_n and_o confusion_n have_v cover_v my_o face_n i_o except_o nevertheless_o certain_a enormous_a crime_n so_o infamous_a that_o no_o man_n ought_v to_o sufferre_fw-la himself_o to_o be_v false_o charge_v with_o they_o when_o he_o can_v lawful_o disproove_v the_o defamer_n and_o certain_a person_n likewise_o upon_o who_o reputation_n and_o credit_n the_o edification_n of_o many_o soul_n depend_v for_o in_o these_o case_n we_o must_v with_o tranquillity_n and_o discreet_a moderation_n stand_v upon_o the_o defence_n of_o our_o honour_n and_o good_a name_n according_a to_o the_o doctrine_n of_o all_o divine_n of_o meekness_n and_o gentleness_n to_o ward_n our_o neighbour_n and_o remedy_n against_o anger_n chap._n 8._o 1._o the_o holy_a chrism_n which_o by_o apostolical_a tradition_n we_o use_v in_o the_o church_n of_o god_n for_o confirmation_n and_o consecration_n be_v compose_v of_o oil_n of_o olive_n mingle_v with_o balm_n which_o beside_o other_o thing_n represent_v unto_o we_o the_o two_o dear_a and_o lovely_a virtue_n which_o shine_v in_o the_o sacred_a person_n of_o our_o lord_n and_o which_o he_o most_o particular_o do_v commend_v unto_o we_o as_o if_o by_o they_o our_o hart_n be_v especial_o to_o be_v consecrate_v to_o his_o service_n and_o apply_v to_o his_o imitation_n learn_v of_o i_o say_v he_o for_o i_o be_o meek_a &_o humble_a of_o hart_n humility_n perfect_v we_o to_o godward_o and_o mildness_n or_o meekness_n towards_o our_o neighbour_n the_o balm_n which_o as_o i_o say_v before_o sink_v to_o the_o low_a place_n in_o all_o other_o liquor_n represent_v humility_n and_o the_o oil_n of_o olive_n which_o swim_v always_o above_o other_o liquor_n signify_v mildness_n and_o affability_n which_o among_o all_o virtue_n be_v most_o excellent_a and_o of_o delightfull_a appeerance_n as_o be_v the_o flower_n of_o charity_n for_o charity_n according_a to_o s._n bernard_n be_v then_o most_o perfect_a when_o it_o be_v not_o only_o patient_a but_o mild_a also_o and_o courteous_a 2._o but_o take_v heed_n philotheus_n that_o this_o mystical_a chrism_n compose_v of_o meekness_n &_o humility_n be_v indeed_o with_o in_o thy_o hart_n for_o it_o be_v one_o of_o the_o great_a subtlety_n of_o the_o devil_n to_o make_v many_o a_o man_n very_o cnrious_o study_v to_o make_v a_o show_n of_o these_o two_o virtue_n in_o word_n and_o exterior_a compliment_n who_o not_o exame_v thorough_o their_o inward_a affection_n esteem_v themselves_o humble_a and_o meek_a where_o as_o in_o deed_n they_o be_v nothing_o so_o which_o we_o may_v well_o perceive_v because_o for_o all_o their_o ceremonious_a mildness_n and_o humility_n at_o the_o least_o cross_a word_n give_v they_o at_o the_o very_a lest_o injury_n proffer_v they_o they_o puff_n and_o swell_v like_o toad_n with_o marvellous_a arrogancy_n and_o impatience_n they_o say_v that_o those_o who_o have_v take_v the_o preservative_n common_o call_v the_o grace_n of_o s._n paul_n swell_v not_o at_o all_o by_o the_o bite_n and_o sting_v of_o viper_n provide_v that_o the_o preservative_n be_v not_o counterfeit_a in_o like_a manner_n when_o humility_n and_o mildness_n be_v true_a and_o unfeigned_a they_o preserve_v we_o from_o the_o burn_a sore_n and_o swell_a humour_n which_o injury_n be_v wont_a to_o raise_v in_o man_n heart_n but_o if_o be_v sting_v and_o bit_n by_o the_o slanderous_a and_o malicious_a tongue_n of_o our_o enemy_n we_o swell_v with_o fierceness_n spite_n and_o rage_n it_o be_v a_o evident_a sign_n that_o our_o humility_n and_o meekness_n be_v not_o frank_a and_o free_a but_o artificiallie_o counterfeit_v 3._o that_o holy_a and_o illustrious_a patriarche_n joseph_n send_v back_o his_o brethren_n from_o egypte_n to_o his_o father_n give_v they_o this_o only_a advice_n be_v not_o angry_a by_o the_o way_n i_o say_v the_o self_n same_o to_o thou_o philotheus_n this_o wretched_a life_n be_v but_o a_o way_n to_o the_o happy_a life_n of_o heaven_n let_v we_o not_o be_v angry_a one_o with_o another_o in_o this_o way_n but_o march_v with_o the_o troop_n of_o our_o brethren_n and_o companion_n sweet_o peaceable_o and_o love_o and_o i_o mean_v we_o shall_v do_v so_o roundly_o without_o all_o exception_n be_v not_o angry_a at_o all_o if_o it_o be_v possible_a take_v no_o occasion_n or_o pretext_n what_o soever_o be_v offer_v to_o open_v the_o gate_n of_o your_o hart_n to_o anger_n for_o s._n james_n tell_v we_o very_o brief_o and_o without_o any_o distinction_n or_o reservation_n the_o anger_n of_o man_n work_v not_o the_o justice_n of_o god_n 4._o we_o must_v indeed_o resist_v the_o evil_a and_o suppress_v the_o vice_n of_o they_o that_o be_v under_o our_o charge_n constant_o and_o stout_o but_o yet_o mild_o and_o peaceable_o nothing_o so_o soon_o tame_v the_o elephant_n be_v anger_v than_o the_o sight_n of_o a_o little_a lamb_n nothing_o break_v so_o easy_o the_o force_n of_o canon_n short_a as_o soft_a wool_n we_o esteem_v not_o so_o much_o the_o correction_n that_o proceed_v from_o passion_n though_o it_o be_v accompany_v with_o never_o so_o much_o reason_n as_o that_o which_o have_v no_o other_o cause_n or_o beginning_n but_o reason_n for_o the_o soul_n of_o man_n be_v natural_o subject_a to_o the_o rule_n of_o reason_n be_v never_o subject_a to_o passion_n but_o tyrannicallie_o and_o therefore_o when_o reason_n be_v accompany_v with_o passion_n she_o make_v herself_o odious_a her_o 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worth_a one_o must_v not_o be_v spare_v or_o courteous_a towards_o a_o love_n which_o be_v so_o contrary_a to_o the_o love_n of_o god_n 7._o but_o when_o i_o have_v break_v the_o chain_n of_o this_o infamous_a bondage_n there_o will_v yet_o remain_v unto_o i_o some_o scar_n some_o mark_n and_o print_n of_o the_o slavish_a chain_n and_o shackle_n wherewith_o i_o be_v bind_v they_o will_v stick_v still_o imprint_v in_o my_o foot_n that_o be_v in_o my_o affection_n no_o my_o philotheus_n care_v not_o they_o will_v not_o remain_v long_o if_o thou_o conceive_v as_o great_a a_o detestation_n of_o thy_o sin_n as_o it_o deserve_v for_o so_o thou_o shall_v never_o be_v shake_v with_o any_o motion_n but_o only_o this_o motion_n of_o a_o extreme_a horror_n of_o this_o infamous_a love_n and_o of_o all_o thing_n that_o depend_v of_o it_o and_o thou_o shall_v remain_v free_a from_o all_o other_o affection_n to_o the_o object_n which_o thou_o have_v abandon_v save_v only_o the_o affection_n of_o charity_n pure_o for_o god_n cause_n but_o if_o for_o the_o imperfection_n of_o thy_o repentance_n there_o shall_v yet_o remain_v in_o thy_o soul_n any_o naughty_a inclination_n procure_v for_o thy_o soul_n a_o solitary_a ermitage_n as_o before_o i_o have_v teach_v thou_o and_o retire_v thyself_o thither_o the_o often_o that_n thou_o can_v and_o by_o a_o thousand_o iterate_a resolution_n of_o spirit_n renounce_v all_o thy_o bad_a inclination_n reject_v they_o with_o all_o thy_o force_n read_v holy_a book_n more_o than_o thou_o be_v wont_v go_v to_o confession_n often_o &_o communicate_v more_o frequent_o confer_v humble_o and_o plain_o all_o thy_o suggestion_n and_o temptation_n which_o arrive_v unto_o thy_o soul_n in_o this_o behalf_n with_o thy_o spiritual_a master_n if_o thou_o can_v or_o at_o least_o with_o some_o faithful_a and_o prudent_a friend_n and_o doubt_v not_o but_o god_n will_v set_v thou_o free_a from_o all_o passion_n so_o that_o thou_o persevere_v faithful_o in_o thy_o 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22._o 1._o i_o have_v yet_o a_o note_n of_o imporance_n to_o give_v thou_o touch_v this_o self_n same_o matter_n friendship_n require_v great_a communication_n between_o friend_n otherwise_o it_o will_v neither_o grow_v nor_o continue_v it_o happen_v oftentimes_o that_o joint_o with_o this_o communication_n of_o friendship_n other_o communication_n do_v pass_v unseen_a and_o unfelt_a from_o one_o hart_n to_o another_o by_o a_o mutual_a infusion_n and_o interchange_n of_o affection_n inclination_n and_o impression_n this_o happen_v especial_o when_o we_o great_o esteem_v of_o the_o party_n who_o we_o love_v for_o than_o we_o open_v our_o hart_n in_o such_o sort_n to_o his_o amity_n that_o withal_o these_o inclination_n and_o impression_n enter_v very_o easy_o altogether_o be_v they_o good_a or_o bad_a very_o the_o bee_n that_o store_n up_o honey_n in_o heraclea_n do_v search_v nothing_o else_o but_o honey_n and_o yet_o together_o with_o the_o honey_n they_o suck_v up_o unaware_o the_o 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matrimonial_a love_n be_v the_o lawful_a generation_n and_o the_o careful_a education_n of_o child_n it_o be_v a_o in_o explicable_a honour_n to_o you_o that_o be_v marry_v that_o god_n by_o his_o omnipotent_a power_n determine_v to_o multiply_v reasonnable_a soul_n which_o may_v praise_v he_o for_o ever_o will_v make_v you_o as_o it_o be_v his_o feelow_a labourer_n in_o so_o worthy_a a_o work_n give_v you_o the_o privilege_n &_o honour_n to_o engender_v body_n into_o the_o which_o he_o distil_v the_o new_a create_a soul_n like_o celestial_a drop_n into_o the_o body_n 7._o conserve_v then_o you_o husband_n a_o tender_a constant_a and_o hearty_a love_n towards_o your_o wife_n for_o therefore_o be_v the_o woman_n take_v from_o the_o side_n of_o man_n and_o next_o his_o hart_n that_o she_o shall_v be_v belove_v of_o he_o hartylie_a and_o tender_o the_o infirmity_n of_o your_o wife_n corporal_a or_o spiritual_a must_v not_o provoke_v you_o to_o any_o disdaigne_a or_o loathe_n of_o they_o 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