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A67549 The chiefest divine vertues epitomized, or, A compendious treatise of the three theological graces, faith, hope, and charity by Richard Ward ... Ward, Richard, 1601 or 2-1684. 1655 (1655) Wing W802; ESTC R12309 115,178 272

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counterfeit as was the love of Cresida to Treilus having tears at command as the Crocodile to betray and smiles at will to bewitch And III. Immoderate inordinate and lustful as the love of Josephs mistris unto him Gen. 39 9. Thus much for the eighth sort or kind of love Ninthly man loves sin and the world 1 John 2.15 James 4.4 Hic amor est odio majus scelus This love is worse then hatred I wave these till I come to treat of the World and Sin Tenthly man loves things viz. both I. Natural things as Xerxes all his great exploits both by sea and land being laid aside for a time he fell so far in love in Lydia with a Plane-tree which hapned to his sight that he tarried a whole day by it and caused the boughs to be adorned with chains of gold bracelets and spangles yielding thereto great reverence And II. Artificial things as a Senators son in Rome loved extreamly the Ivory picture of Vesta which wrought him such discredit as that he was exempted from bearing office in the City Pigmalion doted on an Ivory image that he had made with his own hands Ovid. Two young men of Athens were in love with the picture of Fortune Prillius Pilatus was in love with the images of Helena and Atalanta and Demetrius having strongly begirt the city of Rhodes for the love he bare to Protogenes painted table raised his siege Eleventhly Men love beasts as the Emperour Adrian caused a tomb to be made and a pillar to be set up with an Epitaph in praise of his horse Boristhenes which he exceedingly loved Julius Capitolinus witnesseth that the Emperour Verus ordained that there should be a tomb erected in the Va i●a● for his horse Volucer which he loved so much that he used him more like a man then a beast and made for him a statue of gold Dio●in vita Ver. The Persians for the affections they bare to their horses when they dyed buried them Alexander the great made a tomb for Bucephalus The Emperor Augustus buried his Parrot and Heliogabalus made a grave for his Sparrow out of their love to them Twelfthly beasts or living creatures love men At Assus a Babylonian City a Dolphin so loved a boy that following too far after him he stuck fast in the sand Solinus c. 18. Aelian tells of one Sophocles an Athenian who seeing himself to be so well beloved of his horse that he would exceedingly faun upon him he fearing some shame thereby sold his horse away which the horse took so heavily that he would never eat after but pined himself to death Thirteenthly beasts love beasts as Marcus Aurelius saith as one bird loveth another one bruit another one wiseman another so one fool loveth another Thus much for the sorts and kinds of love Qu. 12. What difference is there between the love of a childe and the love of a servant Answ They differ not in the subject matter of their obedience but in the m●nner thereof for the child ex amore obeys the law for the love of vertue but the servant ex timore obeys rather for fear of punishment The childe who conforms himself to the Law rather for love hath respect especially to the Affirmati●e precepts but the servant who conforms for fear hath respect chiefly to the Negative commandments Qu. 13. What difference is there between Love and Charity Answ 1. All charity is love but all love is not charity 2. There are three words which signifie Love Dilectio Amor. Charitas Peter Martyr loc com fol. 379. calce distinguisheth them thus Dilectio est lenior affectus Amor vehementior charitas vero ibi statuitur ubi conjunctio necessitudo quadam intercesserit Dilection signifies a lower degree of affection and love a higher but charity rather imports a necessary duty unto Parents Countrey Kindred and the like Qu 14. Wherein do Nature Reason and Religion differ in regard of Love An. 1. Nature bids me love my self and hate all who hurt me 2. Reason bids me love my friends and hate those who hate me 3. Religion bids me love all and hate none Nature sheweth care Reason wit and Religion love and therefore Nature may induce us and Reason perswade us but Religion must rule us Qu. 15. What difference is there between Love and the most if not all things Answ Of all things the newest is best save of love and friendship which the elder it waxeth is ever the better Qu 16 What difference is there between Love and Friendship Answ The difference between femine love and true friendship is Love is but an eye-worm which tickleth the head with hopes and wishes Friendship is the image of eternity in which there is nothing moveable nothing mischeivous As much difference as is between beauty and vertue bodies and shadows colours and life so great oddes is there between Love and Friendship A friend loveth always a Lover but for a time Qu. 17. What difference is there between the love of men and women Answ Some Poets and Painters representing the love of men bring in Cupid with a pair of wings discyphering the love of women a Tortuse under the feet of Venus shewing that as the love of men is moveable and unconstant as a bird so the fancy of women is as firm and fixed as a stedfast Tortuse This is not generally nor universally true for from what was shewed before Qust 11. it appears that 1. Sometimes men are more constant in their love then women 2. Sometimes women are more constant then men 3. Sometimes both are constant And 4. Sometimes neither Qu. 18. What difference is there between the love of heavenly things and earthly Answ The love of heavenly things is better then the knowledge of them the knowledge of inferiour things is better then the love of them Qu. 19. How doth our love differ from the love of God Answ Our love is caused from the goodness of a thing the love of God is the cause of the goodness of a thing Qu. 20. What difference is there between our love to God and to our neighbour in regard of the time Answ 1. We should chiefly and principally love the Lord in prosperity because otherwise he will not love us Xenophon saith We should always honour and love God but much more in prosperity because we may then more confidently call upon and seek unto him for succour in adversity Themistocles in his lower fortunes was in love with a young Gentleman who scorned him when he grew to his greatness which was soon after he sought to him but Themistocles answered We are both grown wise but too late Thus if we will not love the Lord in prosperity we may expect that he will not love us in adversity 2. We must approve our love to our neighbour or brother principally in adversity for as the Chrysolite is proved in the fire and the Diamond by the Anvil so love is tryed not by favour of
for example I. Love is greater then the Miraculous Historical or Temporary faith 1 Cor. 13.1 2 c. 15.2 II. Love being an effect of justifying Faith is inferiour unto it and therefore when it is said to be greater we must not understand it as though it were the greater grace or vertue much less in regard of the act of Justification Love not Justifying but 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 in a double respect 1. In regard of more ample effects because faith profits a mans self but love transmits his effects unto others And 2. In respect of a longer duration in regard of the act thereof because love shall continue in heaven but not faith III. In many things faith is greater then love for 1. Faith is the cause of love Gal. 5.6 1 Thes 1.5 but the cause is greater then the effect 2. Faith is called our victory 1 Ioh. 5.3 so is not love 3. We are born again by faith we are made the children of God by faith and Christ dwels in our hearts by faith Eph. 3.17 4. We are justified by faith we please God by faith and as faith without love is dead so love without faith is sin Rom. 5.1.14.23 Qu. 38. How or by what means is faith begotten and confirmed Answ 1. By Christs own teaching and preaching Ioh. 4.42.16 30. 2. By his Miracles wrought John 2.23 3. By the grace of God Acts 18.27 4. By the teaching and testimony of others Iohn 1.7.4.42.19.35 5. By sensible demonstration John 20.27 6. By a serious consideration and observation of the written Word John 20.31 7. By the example of others or those who are over us 1 Tim. 4.12 8. By subduing and weaning our affections from all immoderate delights in and desires of the creature and by setting them upon heaven and heavenly things Col. 3.1 Phil. 3.20 9. By prayer unto God whose gift faith is Mark 9.24 Luke 17.5 10. By the Gospel preached by his Ministers and Messengers John 17.20 Acts 15.7 1 Cor. 1.21 1 Thes 2.13 Rom. 10.17 Qu. 39. How or by what means is spiritual assurance augmented and encreased Answ 1. I might answer this question from the former because Ex iisdem nutrimur ex quibus generamur we are fed and nourished by the same means whereby we are begotten Answ 2. But I will add a word or two I. Distress and danger is sometimes a means to encrease faith Crescit amor fidei quantum ipsa pericula crescunt the more true faith is exercised the more it is encreased II. Experience of former love and mercy is a means to encrease faith He who delivered me from the Lyon and the Bear will likewise deliver me from this uncircumcised Philistin 1 Sam. 17.34.37 III. The word of God and therefore we must both read and meditate thereof privately Psal 119. and also hear it read and preached publikely Iam. 1.18 c. 1 Pet. 1.25 IV. To purge and purifie the heart and conscience Jam. 4.8 by a constant examination both of our thoughts words and works by the Word of God V. By meditating seriously of these four things viz. 1. How true and faithful God is in all his Promises 2. How unspeakable the Love of Christ hath been and is towards his children 3. What experience the Saints have had of the care and love of God and Christ towards them 4. What sweetness there is to be found in Christ viz. in the fruition and possession of him in the soul by a lively faith Psa 34.8 VI. By an earnest endeavour to encrease in these three things 1. In knowledge and truth Eph. 4.15 Phil. 1.9 Col. 1.10 2. In internal fruits Rom. 15.13 And 3. In external fruits also both of holyness and righteousness 1 Cor. 15.58 Col. 1.10 1 Thes 3.12.4.10 VII By fervent and earnest prayer unto God Rom. 12.12 Cant. 1.3 5 8.8.6 7. Qu. 40. Because we affirmed the word to be both a means to beget faith and to encrease it and the Apostle Heb. 4.2 3. testifying that the word profited not some because it was not mixed with faith in those who heard it it may be demanded How doth faith prepare our hearing if hearing precede faith How can faith be a help unto hearing and hearing a means unto faith Answ 1. Most certain it is that faith comes of hearing or is begotten by it For I. By preaching the subject of faith is given that is God Christ the Promises and Salvation And These things by preaching are given to the understanding And II. Preaching doth excite the affections and that 1. By shewing us the danger wherein we are by nature through sin And 2. By propounding unto us Christ as the remedy against both the evil of sin and of punishment And 3. By awakening us from the sleep of sin Isa 58.1 And III. The co-operation of the holy Spirit is Promised in the right hearing of the word of God Answ 2. Although faith be begot by hearing yet both of them mutually help one another For I. There is a hearing which doth excite unto some certain seeds of faith as we see in the blind man Matth. 9.28 Zach. 8.23 Acts 8.6 And II. That faith doth desire to hear more and more fully Acts 13.42 yea the heart being once molified the hunger and thirst is encreased Ezek. 36.26 And III. Frequent and continual hearing augments and perfects faith e. g. Those of Antioch 1. Hear the word Acts 11.20 And 2. In some sort or measure believe it Acts 11.21 Then 3. They send for Barnabas and Paul Acts 11.22 25. And 4. By their Doctrine are confirmed in faith Acts 11.26 c. Therefore we must neither neglect faith nor hearing but I. Attend to the hearing of the Word And II. Believe what we hear from the word though we do not understand it And then III. Labour to understand what we believe And IV. Implore the aid and assistance of the holy Spirit that our hearing may be profitable and comfortable unto us I conceive I may safely thus conclude this Question An Historical faith whereby we b●lieve the truth of the Word and a diligent attending unto and upon the Word doth prepare us unto and is a Means to beget Justifying faith in us which being begot is by the same means nourished cherished and augmented Qu. 41. VVhat are the benefits excellencies fruits and effects of true Faith Answ 1. In general many rare fruits and effects of faith are declared Heb. 11. which because every ordinary capacity may with ease conceive perceive and take up I willingly omit 2. In general Faith is like to the Cocorenut-tree which grows in the Islands called Maldyva of the wood whereof they make their Boats of the leaves sails of the Nut-shell strings which serve instead of vails and of the kernel they make both meat and drink for faith lays hold upon promises whether temporal spiritual or eternal 3. The Benefits of faith either concern I. People for if they believe in the Lord they shall be established 2 Chron.
men and that either with an evil or a good love First sometimes men love men with an evil love this love is fourfold I. Inconstant when for the smallest offence committed or but supposed to be done extream love is changed into extream hate Eusenides talking privately with the Philosopher Cuspides asked him If he were not so happy as that nothing could be added to his felicity seeing he was above all others most favoured and honoured by Ptolomy the King To whom Cuspides answered How soon can Fortune tumble thee down and then how miserable a thing will it be to have been happy Shortly after this discourse Ptolomy found Eusenides his great Favorite and one of his Concubines whom most dearly he loved talking privately together whereat he was so incensed that he made her stra●ght drink a cup of poyson and caused him to be hanged before his own gates And II. This evil love is immoderate inordinate and most lewd Adrian the Emperor so doted on the love of Antinous a beautiful young man that he dedicated a Temple to him at Mantinea and a City at Nilus Pausanius Too too many with a Sodomitical affection have loved and lusted after some Gen. 19. and III. This evil love of men to men is Sensual called Amor concupiscentiae which is this when we love our neighbour for our own profit and commodity onely as Laban loved Jacob onely for his own ends and as subjects sometimes love their Princes for their own advantage and advancement And IV. This evil love is most wicked and diabolical when men love such as themselves because they are wicked Psal 50 18. Suetonius tells us that Caligula the Emperour did deeply love Marcus Lepidus and Marcus Nestor the Buffoon onely for the commerce of mutual alternate brothelry or because they would accompany him to the stews Secondly sometimes men love men with a good lawful and laudable love this love is sixfold viz. I. Natural that is of Parents to children of children to Parents and of kinsmen to kinsmen Gen. 22. ● 25.28.37.3 And II. Oeconomical viz. of husbands to wives of wives to husbands of masters to servants and of servants to masters Genes 29.18.20.30 2 Chon 11.21 Prov. 5.19 Eccles 9 9. and III. Political when a man lives peaceably and quietly in a Commonwealth not having suits contentions or jars with any And IV. Reciprocal when one neighbour or friend loves another because he is beloved of him Exod. 21.6 1 Kings 5 1. It was said of Socrates that all who knew him loved him and the reason why any loved him not was onely because they did not know him he was so loving to all he knew And V. Moral which is an intimate entire and cordial love and is for the most part between two as Jonathan and David 1 Sam. 18.1 2 Sam. 1.26 Pylade● and Orestes Damon and Pythias Scipio and Laelius and Severus and Pertinax for such was the love of Severus the Emperor to Pertinax whom Iulianus slew that he commanded that all should call him Pertinax Entropius And VI. Spiritual and Supernatural vvhich is called Amor amicitiae love of friendship and is this When vve love either our neighbour chiefly for his ovvn good or our neighbour or our enemy for Gods sake This love I call spiritual because although the object of this love be our neighbour yet the reason why we love him is God THIRDLY men love women and that either with an evil or a good love First sometimes men love women with an evil love This is twofold I. Inconstant thus Demaphon was false to Phillis Aeneas to Dido Jason to Medaea Paris to Oenone And II. Immoderate inordinate lascivious and lustful Gen. 34.12 Colos 3.5 Militat omnis amans habet sua castra Cupido This love is a wanton war under Cupids colours Turinge had so many lovers that she could not reckon them upon her fingers ends but called for a bushel of pease to tell them by Aurelius Alexander for the love he bare to that famous for beauty infamous for lewdness harlot Thais caused that most renowned and rich City Persepolis to be burned Cataline for the love of Orestista killed his own son because she would not joyn in marriage with him while his son lived Salust From this lascivious and inordinate love came that proverb Wisdom and love never go together Secondly sometimes men love women with a good love this is I. Moral when 1. He who marries is as though he married not in regard of the moderation of his affection 1 Cor. 7.30 31. and. 2. When the husband is constant in his love to his loyal wife And II. Natural or Conjugal when men love women in the way of marriage Two things are here observable the kinds and causes of this love First this love s threefold for 1. Some love for vertue 2. Some for beauty And 3. Some for both loving dainty meat in a neat dish Secondly the causes of this Natural or Conjugal love are Sight and Suitableness I. Sight for looking is the cause of loving and a curious observation the rice of affection Etrasco the Roman and Verona being both born dumb by beholding one another were so taken with one anothers love that it continued full thirty years before they were joyned in marriage and of them descended the noble linage of the Scipio's Aurelius II. Suitableness of disposition Likeness is the cause of liking For as between the similitude of manners there is a friendship in every respect absolute so in the composition of the body or likeness of disposition there is a certain love engen dred both the bodies resembling each other as woven both in one loom FOURTHLY women love women and that sometimes with an evil and inconstant love and sometimes with a good and constant affection FIFTHLY women love men and that either with an evil or good love First sometimes women love men with a good and constant love as Charites loved her husband Expolemus Cornelia Gracchus Julia Pompey Artimesia Mausolus Panthea Abradatus Portia Brutus Alceste Admetus Penelope Vlysses Sulpitia Lentulus Hipparchia Crates and Macrina Torquatus Secondly sometimes women love men with an evil love this love is either I. Inconstant when women like to the Polipe stone change colour every hour or like the Weather-cock waver with every wind or like the Marigold change with the Sun This inconstant love proceedeth often from sudden choice for we account those Damosel● too light of love who betroath themselves upon the first sight and motion because as the ratling thunderbolt hath but his clap the lightning but his flash the baven but his blaze so hot love begun in a moment endeth in a minute Scalding water if it stand a while turneth almost to ice and Pepper though it be hot in the mouth is cold in the maw so hot love is soon cold and that affection which frieth in words commonly freezeth in works And II. The evil love of women to men is sometimes meerly feigned and
God but love them who love him seeseeing he loved them when they loved him not II. The extraordinary means are either lawful or unlawful 1. The extraordinary lawful means is a strange herb which Marcus Aurelius in his letter to Antigonus maketh mention of which groweth in Cypres upon a little mountain called Archady which herb is called Ilabia and hath this vertue if it be cut it dropeth blood and if a man rub another with the blood thereof while it is warm he will love him extreamly but if he rub him with the blood when it is cold he will hate him deadly The truth hereof the Emperor saith he found by experience for anointing one with the warm blood of that plant he would always protest that he would sooner lose his life then cease to love him 2. The extraordinary unlawful means are charms enchantments and philtres Love gotten with witchcraft is as unpleasant as fish taken with medicines is unwholsom or affection bred by enchantments is like a flower wrought in silk in colour and form most like but nothing at all in substance and savour Qu. 40. What is here required of us in regard of Love Answ To labour so to live that people may love us the love of others towards us being better then silver or gold Prov. 22.1 Qu. 41. Who are too blame in regard of Love Answ 1. They who are without natural affection Rom. 1.31 2 Tim. 3.3 2. They who love those who are unworthy to be beloved as Dido the Carthaginian Queen loved Aeneas a stragling Trojane as Phillis loved Demophoon a Pyrate a robber in Greece cast up as a shipwrack on the shore and as Sappho loved Phao a Ferriman a slave 3. They who love evil and loath good as the Scarab loaths the sweet flower and loves the corrupt flesh the Vulture forsakes the odoriferous oyntment to smell the dead carkass the common rabble are more delighted with a song which is ordinary and barbarous then that which is cunning and curious many with Sytha had rather hear a horse neigh then a musician play and too too many prefer in their affections the pleasures of sin which are but for a season before the joys which are at Gods right hand for ever and ever Qu. 42. What may we learn from Love Answ 1. That true love is very rare in the world Mat. 24.12 and 2. That in perilous times the love of many shall wax cold Mat. 21.12 and 3. That love consisteth in unity as the heart hath but one string and the heaven one Sun so true lovers have but one love And 4. That love sometimes turns to hate for as the best wine doth make the sharpest vinegar so the deepest love in some turns to the deadliest hate And 5. That the love of ancient approved friends for the most part is the truest as the young vines bring the most wine but the old the best so tender love maketh greatest shew of blossoms but tryed love bringeth forth sweetest fruit And 6. We may learn what the Causes of Love are viz. I. The goodness of the thing loved for no man loves any thing but what he apprehends to be good and worthy to be loved II. The knowledge of the thing loved Ignoti nulla cupido a man cannot love what he knows not and therefore as the thing must be good so he must know it to be such And III. Likeness is a great cause of liking Toute chose naturelle appete son semblable every natural thing loveth that which is most like to it as the French men say Adam loved Evah when he saw her first because she was like unto him As a man when he looks into a glass he loveth his image because it is like unto him but he loves not a Toad or Serpent because they are unlike him Thus much for love in general I proceed according to the method propounded to touch upon evil and inordinate love Qu 43. How many sort of Lovers are there Answ 1. I might answer that Lovers are either constant and true or inconstant dissembling and false 2 Sam. 13.4 15. Job 19.19 Judges 16.15 The love of some thaws like a waxen image against the fire which quickly bears no impression of the thing it was Some expressions of affection are but like Apes hugings which smoother with their embracings or 2. I might answer that there are three sorts of Lovers I. Some love what they should not II. Some love what they may III. Some love what they ought of all these I spake before 3. Some answer that as there are four sorts of Combats or wars Forreign Civil Duels and Internal conflicts so there are four sorts of Lovers Spiritual Carnal Temporal and Common F. Johan a. S. Geminiano lib. 1. de caelo cap. 4. 4. Lovers are of two sorts for I. Some love their souls better then their bodies And II. Some love their bodies better then their souls Qu. 44. Whereunto may inordinate love be compared Answ 1. To a fish for as they who angle for the Tortois having once caught him are brought unto such a sluggishness or numness that they lose all their spirits so those who hunt after the love of women and being taken in their toils are brought into such a slavery that they are deprived of their liberty and bewitched like those who view the head of a Medusa or the Viper tyed to the bough of the Beech-tree which keepeth him in a dead sleep though it begin with a sweet slumber Or as the Fish Echineis or the Remora albeit but little yet stayeth a ship under sail so the love of one or other beautiful woman hath often diverted wholly a mans course from study or the wars or at least hath for a time made him lay his great and important affairs aside 2. Inordinate love may be compared to envy for as envy consumeth both body and soul so doth such love And 3. To fire for as fire is not felt without burning so love is not entertained without enflaming and wounding B●sil de virginit Or unlawful love given way unto is like a fire-brand tossed in the wind by which how much the fire encreaseth still so much the brand with blazing flames consumes 4. Inordinate love may be compared to poyson for as poyson mixt with sweet wine at the first is pleasant to the drinker but afterwards paineth deadly so they who consume their time with beautiful harlots at the first feel pleasure but afterwards dolour sorrow and bitterness do follow Diogenes Qu. 45. Whether are all Lovers alike or not Ans They are not for as the Serpertine Powder is quickly kindled and quickly quenched but the Salamander stone once set on fire can never be extinguished so all lovers are not alike some being like troathless Jason some like trusty Troilus some like dissembling Damocles and some like loyal Laelius More particularly I. Some Lovers are faithful and constant like a stone found in Egypt which will quickly receive a form
but never change without cracking such Lovers were Amian to his Ignatia Auficlius to his Canchia Amador to his Florida Leander to his Hero Pyramus to his Thisbe Theagines to his Cariclia and Erasto to his Persida The Jacinth if it be rubbed with lime is soon set on fire and hardly quenched the Adamant and the iron are soon joyned but hardly dissevered the coyn hath its stamp in a moment which cannot be taken out without melting the Turtle chooseth but never changeth the Swan once liking never leaveth and the Lyon after his first choice never covets a second chance Lamia a Concubine by no torments could be haled from the love of Aristogicon II. Some Lovers are false inconstant and faithless more brittle then a glass more wavering then a weather-cock more variable in thought then the Camelion in hue more changeable in deed then the Nightingale in voyce now loving now loathing now fire now frost hot at the first and as soon cold as hot Qu. 46. What is the nature of inordinate Love Answ 1. It makes men blind and dark in their judgements and is the cause of sin Genes 3.6 34.12 Judges 16.4 2 Sam. 13.2 1 Kings 11.3 2. It is the greatest plague as Miltiades the Athenian was wont to say that of all the plagues wherewith the Gods did afflict mortal men love was the greatest in that they sought after that as a heavenly bliss which at last they found their hellish bane 3. It is a small thing yet produceth great effects for as the least spark if it be not quenched will burst into a flame and little moaths eat thick cloth and Coneys in Spain and Moles in Thessalia did undermine two towns so love which secretly creepeth into the mind as the rust doth into the iron and is not perceived consumeth the body yea confounds the soul As the little grain of Mustard-seed in time becometh a tree and the slender twig which with the hand might easily have been pulled up comes to that greatness that it is requisite to bring an ax to hew it down so love at first may be easily prevented but being suffered a while is not easily razed 4. The nature of inordinate love is that it is more bitter then sweet Parrasius dravving the counterfeit of love painted her tickling a youth on the left side with a feather and stinging him on the right vvith a Scorpion meaning that they vvho are besotted vvith the sorceries of ●upid reap for one dram of gold a pound of dross and for one pinte of pure oyl a vvhole Tun of infectious poyson being a fading pleasure mixed vvith bitter passions and a misery tempered vvith a fevv momentary delights Hence the French say Au prix du mal a' amour tout autre mal est doux all sovvr is svveet being compared vvith the svveet sovvr of love Love is likened to the Fig-tree vvhose fruit is svveet whose root is more bitter then a Bitterns claw or to the Apple in Persia whose blossom savoureth like honey but whose bud is more bitter then gall or to a Labyrinth which leadeth us to as much pain and pains ar Sisiphus Tantalus and Ixion endure and undergo Qu. 47. What are the Causes of this evil and inordinate Love Answ 1. Sometimes a heart naturally lascivious and lustful for as the dropsie cometh from abundance of moisture so love many times springeth from abundance of lust 2. Sometimes laziness is the cause of love for as a lamp is maintained with oyl so love is nourished with idleness Otia si tollas periere cupidinis arcu● 3. Sometimes wealth and worldly abundance is the cause of this evil love for as the Cedar tree is without fruit and the grain sown in the sand withers for want of moisture so inordinate love without wealth and outward fulness doth frequently freeze whence we see that this vice is more frequent in great men then in mean ones 4. Sometimes quick nimble and ripe wits are the causes of this love for as the fairest blossoms are soonest nipt with frost and the best fruit soonest destroyed with Caterpillars so the ripest wits are most apt to be overthrown by love Or as the dry touchwood is kindled with lime and fire quickly consumeth flax so love entereth the sharp wit without resistance and is harboured there without repentance Qu 48. VVhom do men inordinately love Answ 1. Sometimes their wives 1 Kings 11 3 c. 2. Sometimes harlots Judges 16.4 3. Sometimes strangers for their beauty Gen. 34.12 And 4. Sometimes their kindred 2 Sam. 13 2. Qu. 49. VVhat are the Fruits and Effects of inordinate lawless and immoderate love Answ 1. Sometimes the death of others as Fabia the wife of Fabrias Fabricanus sell so deeply in love with Pet●oninus Valentinus that in hope to enjoy him she caused her husband trayterously to be murthered for which she was hanged 2. Sometimes the loss of ones own life and that either by their own hands or by the hands of others I. Sometimes lustful love hath caused the loss of life by the ●o●●●rs own hand as Crates the Theban being asked What was the rea●iest remedy to quench love answered Hunger asswageth love and so also doth time but it these will not work the feat a halter will And I think 〈◊〉 ●ction hath an eye to this of some Peets who ●aign That in L●ucadia there is a very high sleep Rock which is a notable remedy to asswage love as was experimentally proved true in and by Cephalus who for the love of Degonetes whom he loved without measure leaped from the top of the Rock Giddica the wife of Pomminius Laurentinus did so lasciviously dote on her son in Law Comminius that not able to train him to her will and perceiving that her husband knew of her loose affections she strangled her self II. Somtimes this unlawful love is the loss of life by the hands of others as appears in Fabia mentioned before in this same question 3. Another bitter fruit growing on the tree of lascivious love is loss of Wit understanding and reason A Counsellor of the Parliament at Grenoble being taken with the love of a married Gentlewoman and perceiving that notwithstanding all his suit and endeavours she slighted and contemned him he grew so careless of himself that he began to grow lousie and being strangely tormented with lice he grew mad and so dyed 2 Hist of France 1559. Francis Valeriol● in his Physical observations l. 2. obs 7. tels us of a rich Merchant who fell so strangely and strongly in love with a maid that he was transported beyond the bounds of reason became stark mad and so continued a great while notwithstanding all the physical means used for his recovery Propertius when he was in love said he was not himself but a shadow Socrates saith the love of beauty is the forgetting of reason because love is not to be supprest by wisdom because not to be comprehended with reason 4. Another effect is it
34.8 II. We must pray unto God to work in our hearts an unfeigned love to his sacred Majestie Psalm 51.11 Phil. 1.9 III. We must be careful to preserve the seeds of grace in our hearts Jude v. 21. 1 John 15.18 19. IV. We must fear and reverence the Lord for where there is no reverence there is no love Deut. 10.12 V. We must be careful to avoid those impediments mentioned before yea separate our selves from whatsoever might hinder us from this holy duty Qu. 82. How many vertues hath divine and spiritual love Answ Four whereof The first is communicative for love is of some good and good is of a diffusive nature hence because God is exceeding good or the best of all he doth especially communicate himself Hence Dion saith Amor divinus est bonus boni propter bonum that is spiritual or divine love is good essentially of that which is good causally and for good finally The second vertue is motive or inclinative to the producing of every good thing The third is ordinative for it ordains and appoints all things to the good of the party beloved The fourth is elevative for love doth so extol the party loving and raise him to such a height that now the lover is not his own man but rather his who is beloved Gal. 2.20 Qu. 83. VVhat are the fruits and effects of our love unto God An. 1. Gods love in the heart kills and casts out sin Rom 6.2 2 Cor. 13.5 until the heart be enflamed with this love it is infected with some other novo vincitur omnis amor But when this new love enters the old departs for Non bene conveniunt nec in una sede morantur The love of God and of sin will not lodge together An. 2. Another fruit and effect of our love to God is joy or love is the cause of joy and that I. Propter benevolentiam for goodwil for to love is to will well Hence because we love any we rejoyce at their prosperity and preferment II. Propter boni praesentiam for the presence of the good loved for when we love that which is good we rejoyce in the enjoyment thereof III. Propter boni inhaerentiam for the inherence of good Hence when vertue and grace is lodged in those whom we love we rejoyce thereat Answ 3. The Schoolmen say Amor divinus quatuor bona in homine operatur I. Inclinat superiora inferioribus per humilitatem contemptum sui II. Superioribus inferiora per desiderium supernorum III. Ordinat aqualia aequalibus IV. Transformat amantem in amatum secundum affectum Answ 4. Others say Amoris effectus quatuor sunt Primò deformatum reformare convertit enim à falso objecto amoris ad Deum Secundò reformatum conformare viz. Per effecta unionis ad Deum Vnio autem triplex I. Substantialis sui nimirum ad seipsum talis Vnio 1. Identitatis est causa qua quis amat seipsum c. 2. Similitudinis qua quis amat alium II. Realis est unto amantis ad amatum quae fruitio est III. Essentialis seu mentalis quae nihil aliud est quam ipse amor Tertio conformatum confirmare est enim inseparabilis I. Ratione spiritus custodientis nos II. Ratione nostri non deserentis spiritum Quartò conformatum transformare amantem in amatum transformat amor The sum of all is I. Love changeth us from evil to good II. Love maketh us endeavour to be like unto God III. Love confirmeth us in this endeavour and likeness because 1. The Spirit taketh care of us And 2. We are careful to be directed by the Spirit IV. Love maketh us to go out of our selves and to devote our selves wholly up unto God Qu. 84. How may we know whether we love God or not or what are the signs thereof Answ In answer hereunto two things are seriously to be considered viz. 1. The necessity of examination 2. The rules of exploration First all think that they love God but the most are deceived for none can love him indeed but those to whom it is given For. I. There is an innate hatred in us towards God as is clear from these two particulars 1. We love not naturally the works of vertue And 2. The things which we desire in God or from him we desire for our selves onely out of self-love and otherwise nothing pleaseth our nature And II. This hatred of God which is in us is called An aversion of the mind from God and is not changed until our hearts be converted by the Spirit unto ●od 2 Cor. 3.16 And therefore it concerns us nearly to examine and try diligently by certain undoubted and infallible signs whether we love the Lord or not Secondly we may know whether we love the Lord truly and indeed or not if we seriously examine our selves by these clear and plain Signs viz. .1 He who loves God will adhere and cleave unto him Deut. 30.20 Matth. 6.24 2. He who loves God will keep his word 1 John 2.5 that is will obey him both I. ●ffirmatively doing what he requires And II. Negatively eschewing what he forbids 3. He who loves God the Father will and doth love God the Son 1 John 5.1 5. He who loves God will love his brethren 1 Joh. 4.20 21. 4. He who loves God will relieve and succour the necessities of his brethren 1 John 3.17 And 6. Will esteem the Lord as his chiefest good and giver of every good thing Deut. 6.13.10 20. And 7. Will withdraw all trust and confidence from all creatures placing his whole assurance upon the Lord and believing onely in him And 8. He will fear and stand in awe of him with a filial fear Deut. 6.13.10.20 Psalm 38.8 Prov. 24.21 1 Pet. 2.18 And 9. He will humble himself before the Lord and be lowly in his sight James 4.7 1 Pet. 5 6. And 10. He will patiently bear all adversity and affliction which is sent by God James 1.21.2.20 And 11. He will worship and serve the Lord as himself hath prescribed in his word And 12. He will meditate continually of God and his word and that with delight Psalm 1.2.119.172 13. In all things he will seek the praise and glory of God as his chiefest scope and aim 1 Corinth 10.31 And 14. For benefits favours and mercies received he will give thanks that is I. With his mind and spirit And II. With his tongue And III. VVith his gesture and countenance And IV. VVith his life by willingly doing whatsoever he commands and shuning whatsoever he forbids Psalm 50.15 Colos 3.17 And 15. He will continue stedfastly in all these unto his lives end Qu. 85. By what means may the love of God be augmented and encreased in us Answ 1. By knowledge we can neither desire nor love him whom we do not know since Affectus motus est cordis a notitia cognitione objecti exercitatus affection is the motion of the heart arising from the
things which are most near unto us 1 Tim. 5.4 4. We must love Parents more then children in those things which ought to redound from the effect to the cause of which kind are honour estim●tion reverence thankfulness and the like 5. We must love children more then Parents in those things which ought to be derived from the cause to the eff●●t of which kind are maintenance adv●n●●men● ●●●cation and the like 6. We must love husbands and wives more then either Parents or children in those things which belong unto the society and union of this life Gen. 4.24 Matth 16.5 7. We must love those who have deserved well of us more then others and amongst those we must love them most who have communicated spiritual things unto us Gal. 6.6 Qu. 117. What are the steps and degrees of true Christian love Ans 1. We must love some for God and thus we are commanded to love strangers and enemies Exod. 23.4 Deut. 10.18 19. 1 Sam. 24.5 7. 2. We must love some in God and thus we are commanded to love the faithfull Rom. 12.9 10. 1 Pet. 2.17 3. We must love the Lord for himself that is simply by himself and according to all the parts of love i. e. with the affection of good will with the desire of union with a most contented yea joyful acquiescing in the fruition of him and all this in the highest degree Qu. 118. What are the fruits and effects of true Christian love and charity towards our brethren Ans 1. It will cover a multitude of sins Prov. 10.12 1 Pet. 4.8 2. It will be a means to keep a man in the light and to preserve him from all scandals 1 John 2.10 3. It is a sure sign unto us that God dwelleth in us and that his love is perfected in us 1 John 4.12 4. It confirms us in an assuran●e of glory 1 John 3 14. This question may be much amplified and enlarged from Quest 113. and 114. Qu. 119. By what Means may we obtain love and kindness from our brethren Answ 1. By making a Covenant and league of amity with them 1 Sam. 20.14 15. 2. By being kind unto them Gen. 21.23 Josh 2.12 1 Sam 15 6. 3. By being loving and kind unto those whom they love 2 Sam. 2.5.6 4. By fair and gentle entreaties Gen. 40.14 John 2.12 5. By covering their trespasses and transgressions Prov. 17.9 6. By forgiving them their debts Luke 7.47 7. By a friendly rebuking of them Prov. 9.8 8. Aristippus saith a means to preserve love between us and our neighbour is this Haunt not too much thy friends house for that engendereth no great love neither be long from thence for that engendereth hate but use a mean in all things Neither be too troublesome unto nor too great a stranger from thy friend and neighbour Qu. 120. What are the Impediments of true Love and Charity or what things hinder us from loving our neighbour Answ The causes hindring this love are either internal or external First The Internal impediments are I. A natural 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 or coldness or want of affection there are some who care for none II. Self love some love themsel●es so much that they cannot love others at all as they ought III. A proud affection towards a mans own will or a supercilious wilfulness for he who adores and deifies his own will as his God can never love his neighbour IV. Suspition jealousie and doubtings that our neighbour loves not us at least not truly but only for his own end● V. Want of patience a peevish passionate impatient and angry man cannot as he ought love another Secondly The external impe●iments of Love between neighbour and neighbour are either in others or our selve● I. The Impediments of Love in others are 1. Whisperings and tale-bearings Busie-bodies and carriers of tales are oftentimes the Devils instruments for the kindling of hatred and cooling of love between friend and friend 2. Evil counsellers many by perswading urging and solliciting of others unto hatred and revenge do hinder love betwixt neighbour and neighbour II. The Impediments of love in our selves are 1. Our injuring and wronging of our neighbour 2. Our carelesness to provoke and incense them 3. An aversness from reconciliation for if a man abuse and wrong his neighbour if a man be careless of his carriage towards his neighbour never regarding whether he give him just cause of distaste or not and if a man refuse to be reconciled unto his neighbour when some breach hath been made between them there can be no true love or charity Qu 121. Who are too blame in regard of brotherly love and charity Answ 1. Those who would not be beloved Cepariu● tel● us of Gonzaga the ●esuite vita ejus ●46 that he was sorry if any body loved him To be free from love is strange but to think scorn to be beloved is monstrous And 2. Those are too blame who will love none but those who love them Mat. 5.46 And 3. Those who hate those who love them Psalm 109. 4 5. as Tereus did Progne Minos did Scylla and one of the Sabins did Tarpeta And 4. Those who love men better then Christ Dr. Ruy Lopez being accused for undertaking to poison Queen Eliz●beth answered with oaths and execrations that he never intended any hurt to her for he loved Queen Elizabeth better then he loved Jesus Chr st Amongst these they may be ranked who are more careful to please men out of their love unto them then to please Christ If a Prince were to come to a subjects house what painting what paving what flourishing with flowers what perfuming with smels what t●●mming of apparel what garnishing with Jewels no cost too costly no pains sufficient Quicquid ergo non vis inveniri in domo tua quantum potes ut non inveniat Deus in animae tua August de temp Are we so conceited of our house and so curious of our apparel against the coming of an earthly Prince oh how provident shouldst thou then be of thy soul and careful of thy body for the entertaing of the Lord of glory Shall not the Prince see a cobwep in thy house and shall God behold sin in thy soul shall not he see a spot in th garment and shall God behold filthyness in thy body Certe non amant ille Christum qui aliqu d plus quam Christum a●●nt August Those who either love men or sin more then Christ are much too blame and unworthy of Christs love 5. Those are faulty who love none affectionatly Bias the Philosopher gives this counsel 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 so love as though thou wert immediately to hate so hate as though thou shouldst shortly love but Scipio could never believe that ever this was the speech of a wise man because according to this rule or advice we must never Love any heartily 6. They are too blame who have minds evil affected towards the people and servants of Christ
must beloved in truth and verity He must have the heart as well as the hands Deut 6 5. the soul as wel as the body Mat. 22.37 he searches the mind so ●oon as the man 1 Sam 16 7 and will be worshipped within as well as without 5. We must love the Lord constantly and perseverantly never falling from our first love Rom. 8.35 39. Apoc. 2.4 6. With all our heart and with all our soul Deut. 13.3 Ephes 3 17. To love with all the soul is to love wisely to love with all the strength is manfully to suffer for truth to love with all our heart is to prefer the love of God before all other things The measure to be observed in loving God is to love him without measure for our love to our God should be in the highest degree and that both I. In regard of the Object or as they say Objective that is wishing greater or more good unto him then unto any And II. In regard of estimation or as some speak Appretiativè that is by preferring him and his will before all other things yea before our own life M●t. ●0 37. Luke 14.26 yea so that we had rather choose to dye and to submit our selves to death then transgress the least of his Commandments And III. Intensively i. e. in regard of our most vehement endeavour in applying all our faculties to the love of God Deut. 6. ● Thus the Prophet David saith That he will love the Lord with all that is in him which our Savior Luk. 10.27 28. expounds thus We must love the Lord with all the heart soul mind and might that is First in general that there must be no part of us void of the love fear and honour of God but that all our zeal thoughts will study of the mind and labour of the body should tend unto the love service and honour of God and there must be nothing in any part of us which is not dedicated unto God But Secondly more particularly Deut. 6.13 it is said Thou shalt love the Lord with all thy heart soul and strength S. Matthew 22.37 saith with all thy heart soul and mind and S. Luke hath all Heart Soul Might and Mind I. Thou shalt love the Lord with all thy heart that is Thou shalt esteem and acknowledge him thy chiefest good V sin or With all thy heart that is with thy whole understanding without any errour August de doct Christ ca. 22. or with all thy heart that is wisely Bern. ser 20. sup Cantic II. Thou shalt love the Lord with all thy soul that is with thy whole will and purpose Vrsin or With all thy whole will without contradiction August de doct Chris ca. 22. or sweetly and with joy Bern. ser 20. s Cantic III. Thou shalt love the Lord with all thy strength or might that is all thy actions both external and internal must be con●ormable and agreeable to the will and law of God Vrsin or With all thy strength i. e. so valiantly couragiously and constantly that we neither be subdued by deceit nor seduced by allurements nor dejected by injuries and afflictions Bern. ib. IV. Thou shalt love the Lord with all thy mind and thought that is thou shalt always intend to think and meditate of God that thou mayest both know him and love him the better Vrsin or VVith all thy mind i. e. with thy whole mind without oblivion August Qu. 76. VVhether are we to love God more for the moe benefits he bestows upon us or not Answ God is to be loved though he should give us nothing but correction as a good child loveth his father although he correct him But when it is said VVe are to love God for his benefits this word FOR denotes not the final cause here but the moving and therefore Augustin in Johan ser 3. saith It is a good thing for a man to think upon Gods benefits that he may be stirred up by them to love ●od but to love him onely for himself and not for his benefits Qu 77. Can we by nature this love God Answ No for by nature we rather hate him That we cannot by nature love God appears thus I. Nature is so wholly corrupted and depraved that we are prone unto every evil thing but averse from every thing that is good Jer. 3.12.14 II. The love of God is a spiritual work and that a hard one and consists not in word or countenance but in internal and ineffable joy Psal 42.1 63.1 Cant. 5.8 III. The love of God requires self denial which is a duty not to be performed Viribus naturae by the power of nature Eph. 2.3.5.17 Heb. 10.36 1 Pet. 41. 1 John 2.16 17. Qu. 78. VVhether is the love of God or of our neighbour one sort of love or not Answ It is one sort of love for the formal object of our love in this life is God because all things are reduced to God by love and the material object of our love is our neighbour and these two make not two sorts of love but one for as there is but one Spirit though diversity of gifts so there are two precepts and but one love 1 Corinth 13. Qu. 79. VVhat things are contrary to the true love of God Answ 1. The casting away of Gods love or the contempt and hatred of God as the avenger and punisher of sin Inordinate love of our selves or of other creatures viz. when we prefer our own lusts pleasures wills and lives before God and his will and will rather offend him then part with them 3. A feigned love of God viz. when we seem through hypocrisie to love him but indeed do not Mark 7.6 Qu. 8● VVhat are the Impediments of the love of God or VVhat things hinder us from loving him An. 1. The love of the world James 4.4 1 John 2.15.3.17 2 The want of love to our brethren 1 John 4.8 19 20. 3. The love of sin Psalm 52.3 4. The love of our selves 2 Tim. 3.2 5. Idolatry Hosea 3.1 6. Drunkenness Hosea 3.1 7. Pleasure Hosea 3.1 Qu. 81. By what means may we attain unto this love of God or How may we be enabled to love him An. 1. The Author hereof is the Author of all good viz. God who works this love of himself in our hearts by his holy spirit Deut. 30.6 Rom. 8.28 2 Cor. 13.11 Phil. 1.9 1 Tim. 1.14 2 Tim. 1.7 1 Pet. 1.22 An 2 The means which the Lord useth for the begetting of love in us towards his Majestie is the revelation of his love towards us 1 John 4.10 whence the Saints are called Beloved Rom. 1.7 Col. 3.12 and therefore we should meditate of this infinite love of his towards us John 3.16 Rom. 5.6 7 8. An. 3. The means which we must use if we desire that the love of God may be wrought in our hearts are these I. We must learn the sweetness of God and labour to taste how good and gracious the Lord is Psalm
heart towards others declaring it in words behaviour and duties convenient and requisite Or It is the work of the Spirit in our hearts whereby we are moved to wish well and to do good unto our neighbours to the utmost of our power when they stand in need of our help in the name of God and Christ or according to Aristotle it may be defined thus To love our neighbour is to will all that which in our judgement we esteem good unto him and to the uttermost of our power to procure it for and unto him Qu. 108. Why must we Love our neighbour or brethren or be charitably affected towards them Answ The reasons hereof are many whereof the first is taken from God I. Because we are so commanded by him from the beginning 2 John 5 II. Because God takes notice of it Apoc. 2.10 III. Because this lesson is taught us by God 1 Thes 4.9 IV. Because Love is of God 1 John 4.7 V. Because God our Father hath Loved us 1 John 4 11. VI. Because we provoke God to leave us if we will not love our brother Memorable to this purpose is that story which is recorded of Nicephorus Metaphrast in Niceph. Mer. who being brought to the place where he was to receive the Crown of Martyrdom and seeing Sapritius between whom and him there had before some bitternesses and enmity broke forth fall down before him and beg a Pardon and reconcilement was so much elated with this glory of Martyrdom and his heart did so rise against him for former injuries that uncharitably he disdained to admit of any reconciliation In punishment of which uncharitableness he lost his whole hope and victory for the Spirit of God forsook him and he apostated from the faith so that it appears that Love and Charity is justly esteemed the form of Martyrdom The second reason is taken from Christ First Because Christ hath commanded it John 13.34 Secondly Because Christ hath Loved us Eph. 5.2 Thirdly Because Love to the brethren is the chiefest office of a Christian or of him who by covenant is engaged to the profession and service of Christ for I. This is a note of a disciple of Christ as follows afterwards II. It is a sign of the Lords paternal Love unto us III. It is a sign that we Love God 1 John 4.10 IV. It is a sign that we are sensible of our communion and concorporation with the faithful V. Because we are a people separated and set apart for the service of God and therefore must Love our brethren either in or for God VI. Because we are hated of the world and therefore had need do that which is acceptable unto God VII Because we are united unto Christ and therefore we should be one in Love with all his The third reason is taken from the excellency of Love because Love is the fulfilling of the Law and the end of the Commandments Rom. 13.7 8. Gal. 5.14 1 Tim. 1.5 The fourth is taken from others because thereby we shall give a good example unto them 1 Tim 4.12 2. Tim. 3 10. The fifth is taken from our brethren themselves because this is the principal debt we owe unto them Romans 13.8 The last reason is taken A signo and that both Negatively or Privately and Affirmatively First Negatively if we do note Love our brethren it argues these things I. That we yet abide in death 1 John 3.14 II. That we do not love God 1 John 4.20 21. III. That iniquity abounds in us when love waxeth cold Math. 24.12 IV. That we know not God 1 John 4.8 And V. That we are not of ●od 1 John 3.10 Secondly Affirmatively if we do truly love our brethren then I. It will be an argument unto us that God dwelleth in us and that his Love is perfected in us 1 John 4.12 And II. That we are the Disciples of Christ John 13.35 III. That we are of the truth 1 John 3.18 19. IV. That we are heirs of salvation not of perd tion 1 John 3.14 And V. That we are born of God and know him 1 John 4.7 Qu. 1●9 Why do men Love men Answ 1. Some love men for their Poetry Thus Sci●io Affricanus loved Ennius and Augustus the Emperour Virg●l 2. Some love men for their Oratory thus Pomponius Atticus loved Tully thinking himself happy when either he was in his sight or his books in his bosom 3. Some love men for their skill in painting engraving carving c. Thus Alexander loved Apelles and Lysippus forbidding all to draw his picture save Apelles and to cut it in brass except Lysippus Curtius 4. Some love men for their careful tuition of them and diligence in their good education thus Alexander loved Aristotle many Schollars their Masters and many good hearers their Ministers 5. Some love men for their former care love and kindness unto them Valerius servant to Panopion hearing that certain souldiers were come unto the City of Rheatina of purpoose to kill his master he changed apparel with his master and conveyed him away suffering himself to be slain in his masters bed for the great love he bare him his master having formerly used him more like a son then a slave 6. Some love men for their grace and goodness or because they see as it were the image of God in their face thus men love the Lords faithful ones as such 7. Some Love men for their strength courage magnanimity and resolution thus Alexander crowned the tomb of Achilles and Hephestion that of Patroclus for their valour 8. Some love men for revenge and cruelty Timon of Athens called M santhropus a hater of men loved none but only Alcibiades and him he loved and once kissed because he saw in his face the destruction of Athens Plutar. 9. Some love men for their filthy lust and lascivious life Caelius cap. 30. li. 8. reports that Bagoas the Eunuch was much endeared unto and highly beloved of Alexander the great for no oth●r cause but that there was some brutsh and unnatural congress betwixt them Qu. 11● How many waies do men Love others Answ An Au●hor which I have read answers There be five waies of lo●ing one another whereof one is praised three dispraised and one neither pr●ised nor dispraised I. Some love their neighbour for Gods sake and thus good men love all men II. Some love their neighbour for natural affection because he is his son brother or k nsman III. Some love their neighbour for vain-glory that they may be commended and esteemed for so doing IV. Some love their neighbour for covetousness a● when men flatter some and pretend a great deal of love unto them hoping to be enriched or promoted by them V. Some love for sensual lust and appetite as some men love women and some men for their bellies or gluttony and drunkenness Of these The first is spiritual therefore praise-worthy The second natural therefore deserves no praise The third fourth and fifth sensual and carnal and
Acts 12.2 And 7. They who love their brethren only for their own base ends Gal. 4.17 Qu. 122. What is required of us in regard of the Christian Love and Charity of others towards their Brethren Answ 1. To give thanks unto God for them Eph. 1.15 Col. 1.4 2 Thes 1.3 2. To imitate them 1 Tim. 4.12 2 Tim. 3.10 Qu. 123. What is our duty in regard of Christian Love and Charity towards our brethren or what is required of us in regard of Christian Love and Charity Answ 1. To follow after it 1 Cor. 14.1 2 I●m 2.22 2. To let all our actions be done with it 1 Cor 16.14 3. To put it on Col. 3.14 4. To provoke one another unto love Heb. 10 24. 5. To speak the truth in Love Ephes 4.15 6. To labour to edifie our selves in love Eph. 4.16 7. To continue in faith and charity 1 Tim. 2.15 or to abide in love one towards another Heb. 13.1 or to be always paying of this debt one to another for love is a debt which we must be always a paying where it is due and yet never so pay it that we owe it not Qu 124. How doth it appear that our enemies are to be loved Ans 1. From Lev. 19.17 18 where three things are laid down I. We must reprove our enemies and not suffer them to sin II. We must not avenge our selves upon them III. We must not remember the injuries they have done us And Ans 2. It appears from Rom. 13.9 12.20 21. whereupon Augustine saith de doctr 1.30 that this precept of loving our enemies belongs unto all Qu. 125. To love is to esteem as a friend how can this then p●ssibly agree w th an enemy for to be a friend and an enemy are contraries Ans We must not hold any man our enemy but every one our brother friend or neighbor This is taught us by the parable of the man who was wounded betwixt Ierusalem and Iericho the conclusion whereof is that we must hold every man our neighbor and none our enemy Luke 10.31 c. Yea in the Gospel we are taught that all men are our brethren either 1. By regeneration or creation Or 2. In deed or in hope Or 3. ●n the Lord or for the Lord and therefore none are to beheld as enemies Qu. 126. How are we to love our enemies A s 1. I may answer ●hat our enemies are to be considered three manner of ways First as our private enemies Secondly as ●ods enemies viz. those who sin against the holy Ghost Thirdly as his ●●●ches enemies who persec●●● the 〈◊〉 thereof To apply this to the q●●st on propounded I say I. We must always distinguish betwixt our own pr●vate c●use and Gods and his Churches cause II We must distinguish always betwixt the perso●s of wicked men and their actions III. We must l●ve ou● private enemies although they have wronged us 〈◊〉 we must lo e their persons not their ●ins and we must pray against their sins not their persons 2 S●m 5.31 Acts 4.29 IV. We must he ready to help our private enemi●s with temporary thing when they are in ne●d u●●ess those th ngs b ●urt ●ll unto them but it th●●●e enemies to the Church we ●re not t● supply their w●●ts unless we have some prob●bl● hope by that means to draw them to the Church V. If the persons sin unto death 1 Ioh. 5.19 then we are to pray not only against their actions but against their persons also IV. Because few have the spirit to discern these we should apply the imprecations used in the Psalms against the enemies of the Church in general Or Ans 2. I may answer this question Affirmatively and Negatively First affirmatively we must love our enemies thus I. As they are men and so flesh of our flesh II. As they are our enemies we must not covet or desire to be avenged of them yet III. ●e may lovingly reprove them for their amendment Secondly Negatively thus we may not love them viz. I. As wicked men lest so we be found to love wickedness which God hates Nor II. As the enemies of God Psal 139.21 22. Nor III. Must we love them unto death that is so love them that our love be a means to bring them to perdition i. e. we must not flatter them in evil but labour by gentle reproofs to reduce them from their errors Qu. 127. Why must we love our enemies Answ Because it is a probable A●gu●e●t that we are more then natural for a man 〈…〉 naturals may love his friend but it argues an Angelical and Evangelical nature to love our enemies indeed the light and Law of nature doth teach this lesson to some but it is only to a very few as Phoc●on after he had done many notable Services for the Athenians was put to death by them and a little before his death he charged his son never to wish ill to the Athenians for what they did to him 2. Because we shall astonish our adversaries when they see our patien e and thereby they will know that we seek another life enduring all the troubles of this ●o patiently and consequently they will ●●●●by be moved to abstain from injuring of us I●●c● dil●gere ●●●m cum si vis ●avere inimi●um August●n Psal 99. the means to be preserved from enemies is to love and pardon enemies 3 Because they are procurers of great rewards for us they being truly blessed who suffer for righteousness sake 4. Because it shews that there i● in us a great measure of love unto Christ when we are contented to endure reproaches for his sake 5. Because they occasion excellent virtues in us for tribulation brings forth patience c. Rom 5.3 6. Because they are but Gods instruments whereby he doth either chastise or prove us 7. Because herein we shall imitate our God who is an exemplar hereof unto us Matth. 5.45 8. Because otherwise we cannot love God 1 Ioh. ● 20 9. Because otherwise we have not the Spirit of God 1 John 4.7 10. Because the bond of peace is to be preferred before all outward things and therefore we must suffer any thing rather then dissolve and break it 11. Because if there were any cause why we should hate any it were for their hatred of and hostility against us but this is no cause of hatred seeing we are to look upon God not man and therefore for his sake we must wish them well who wish us evil we must love and be friends to our enemies praying for and not cursing of them who do despightfully use us Qu. 128. What are the Degrees of this love of our enemies Answ The Schoolmen observe a threefold degree thereof for I. They say there is a common love which is indifferent or communicable or to be shewed both to friends and enemies and all alwaies II. There is a particular love which is to be exhibited and shewed unto our enemies in the time of need III. There is