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stone_n of_o all_o his_o other_o duty_n it_o be_v as_o the_o chief_a wheel_n in_o the_o clock_n which_o give_v a_o dexterous_a motion_n to_o all_o the_o other_o wheel_n thy_o cordial_a love_n to_o thy_o wife_n will_v sweeten_v her_o condition_n in_o this_o life_n in_o her_o worst_a outward_a cross_n in_o want_n of_o health_n wealth_n the_o society_n of_o good_a neighbour_n pleasure_n and_o what_o not_o nay_o let_v her_o life_n be_v fill_v with_o the_o affluence_n and_o confluence_n of_o all_o the_o comfort_n under_o the_o sun_n yet_o the_o bare_a want_n of_o the_o apprehension_n of_o her_o husband_n affection_n towards_o she_o will_v make_v she_o dip_v all_o her_o morsel_n in_o vinegar_n and_o gall_n and_o make_v she_o complain_v that_o she_o do_v not_o see_v one_o good_a day_n now_o that_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n appear_v eph._n 5.25_o husband_n say_v the_o apostle_n love_v your_o wife_n as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n that_o be_v for_o kind_n not_o for_o measure_n for_o the_o measure_n of_o the_o love_n of_o christ_n to_o his_o church_n no_o dimension_n can_v demonstrate_v for_o to_o know_v the_o love_n of_o christ_n the_o apostle_n say_v it_o pass_v knowledge_n eph._n 2.19_o and_o in_o col._n 3.19_o the_o apostle_n bid_v husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n and_o not_o be_v bitter_a unto_o they_o the_o woman_n be_v make_v of_o a_o rib_n take_v out_o of_o the_o side_n of_o man_n and_o therefore_o adam_n say_v she_o be_v bone_n of_o his_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o his_o flesh_n gen._n 2.23_o nay_o by_o god_n ordinance_n they_o be_v no_o more_o twain_o but_o one_o flesh_n and_o from_o hence_o paul_n take_v a_o argument_n to_o persuade_v the_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n because_o no_o man_n yet_o do_v ever_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n eph._n 5.28_o 29._o you_o may_v remember_v that_o upon_o another_o occasion_n we_o do_v observe_v that_o jacob_n esteem_v rachel_n his_o wife_n as_o his_o right_a hand_n he_o call_v his_o son_n name_n of_o who_o she_o die_v benjamin_n or_o the_o son_n of_o his_o right_a hand_n gen._n 35.18_o god_n call_v the_o wife_n of_o ezekiel_n the_o desire_n of_o his_o eye_n son_n of_o man_n i_o take_v from_o thou_o the_o desire_n of_o thy_o eye_n with_o a_o stroke_n ezek._n 24.16_o 18._o the_o prophet_n nathan_n tell_v david_n in_o a_o parable_n that_o bathsheba_n the_o wife_n of_o uriah_n lie_v in_o his_o bosom_n that_o be_v in_o the_o bosom_n of_o her_o husband_n affection_n 2_o sam._n 12.3_o you_o plain_o see_v then_o that_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n now_o that_o there_o be_v scripture_n incitation_n for_o it_o and_o scripture_n precedent_n for_o it_o too_o you_o must_v know_v you_o sin_n against_o god_n if_o you_o perform_v it_o not_o and_o if_o you_o do_v it_o not_o then_o as_o you_o have_v hear_v you_o bring_v affliction_n and_o grief_n on_o your_o wife_n so_o likewise_o you_o bring_v much_o prejudice_n on_o your_o own_o self_n for_o you_o discourage_v she_o from_o draw_v in_o the_o same_o yoke_n with_o you_o you_o disable_v she_o to_o be_v a_o meet_a helper_n you_o make_v she_o to_o be_v uncheerfull_a in_o all_o the_o duty_n of_o her_o general_a and_o particular_a call_n and_o which_o be_v worse_o you_o expose_v yourself_o to_o the_o strength_n of_o many_o noisome_a lust_n as_o elsewhere_o have_v be_v mention_v be_v thou_o so_o convince_v that_o it_o be_v a_o special_a duty_n that_o the_o husband_n do_v owe_v to_o his_o wife_n even_o to_o love_v she_o with_o conjugal_a and_o entire_a love_n as_o that_o thou_o set_v thyself_o to_o the_o practice_n of_o it_o wherein_o stand_v thy_o own_o and_o her_o comfort_n the_o second_o duty_n which_o the_o husband_n do_v owe_v unto_o his_o wife_n be_v cohabitation_n wife_n the_o seconâ—_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o his_o wife_n or_o to_o live_v together_o in_o one_o family_n mutual_o to_o enjoy_v intimate_a society_n both_o in_o bed_n and_o at_o board_n for_o where_o this_o be_v not_o there_o no_o duty_n which_o a_o husband_n do_v owe_v unto_o his_o wife_n can_v be_v perform_v nay_o the_o very_a end_n of_o marriage_n be_v hereby_o null_a and_o frustrate_a the_o apostle_n peter_n lay_v a_o command_n on_o husband_n to_o dwell_v with_o their_o wife_n you_o husband_n dwell_v with_o your_o wife_n etc._n etc._n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o can_v a_o man_n have_v any_o true_a comfort_n in_o his_o wife_n or_o she_o in_o he_o if_o they_o do_v not_o dwell_v together_o true_o it_o be_v not_o only_o against_o grace_n but_o against_o nature_n too_o for_o they_o to_o do_v otherwise_o for_o the_o husband_n be_v the_o head_n of_o his_o wife_n and_o of_o his_o family_n when_o
to_o love_n and_o good_a work_n she_o will_v be_v a_o mean_n to_o help_v thou_o in_o the_o growth_n of_o grace_n here_o and_o so_o a_o mean_n of_o thy_o happiness_n hereafter_o here_o be_v more_o flower_n to_o add_v to_o thy_o begun-nosegay_n in_o the_o last_o end_n of_o marriage_n bound_v they_o together_o and_o they_o will_v be_v very_o odoriferous_a to_o please_v thy_o sense_n three_o thou_o have_v need_v to_o make_v grace_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n in_o choose_v a_o wife_n as_o thou_o desire_v thy_o love_n shall_v hold_v out_o to_o the_o end_n for_o if_o thou_o make_v riches_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n they_o may_v be_v lose_v they_o be_v subject_a to_o many_o casualty_n riches_n have_v wing_n like_o a_o eagle_n and_o may_v fly_v away_o prov._n 23.5_o and_o when_o they_o be_v go_v thy_o love_n will_v fly_v after_o if_o thou_o make_v beauty_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n that_o may_v vanish_v away_o for_o favour_n be_v deceitful_a and_o beauty_n be_v vanity_n prov._n 31.30_o beauty_n may_v be_v take_v away_o by_o sickness_n or_o by_o some_o accidental_a blow_n in_o the_o face_n by_o loss_n of_o a_o eye_n by_o a_o canker_n in_o the_o nose_n or_o some_o other_o mean_n and_o if_o once_o go_v love_n will_v go_v too_o if_o thou_o make_v person_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n that_o may_v suffer_v much_o detriment_n crookedness_n may_v grow_v in_o a_o body_n former_o straight_o such_o a_o comely_a body_n may_v come_v to_o want_v a_o leg_n or_o a_o arm_n which_o will_v be_v a_o blemish_n to_o it_o now_o person_n be_v defective_a love_n will_v be_v the_o same_o if_o thou_o make_v hope_n of_o honour_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n thy_o wife_n great_a kindred_n may_v fail_v of_o power_n to_o advance_v thou_o nay_o of_o power_n to_o hold_v up_o themselves_o we_o want_v not_o plentiful_a experience_n of_o this_o or_o they_o may_v be_v prejudice_v against_o thou_o and_o frustrate_v thy_o expectation_n and_o make_v thou_o see_v too_o late_o that_o 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then_o as_o grace_n do_v increase_v so_o thy_o love_n will_v abound_v but_o grace_n can_v but_o increase_v continual_o therefore_o love_n will_v multiply_v in_o thy_o heart_n exceed_o now_o as_o thou_o desire_v to_o be_v keep_v from_o apostasy_n or_o fall_v from_o god_n and_o the_o way_n of_o his_o grace_n and_o as_o thou_o desire_v to_o be_v help_v forward_o in_o all_o christian_a counsel_n and_o good_a way_n and_o as_o thou_o do_v desire_v to_o keep_v life_n in_o thy_o love_n and_o to_o increase_v therein_o to_o thy_o own_o comfort_n and_o the_o comfort_n of_o thy_o wife_n so_o let_v it_o be_v thy_o care_n in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n to_o look_v to_o thy_o own_o heart_n that_o it_o deceive_v thou_o not_o but_o that_o thou_o do_v indeed_o make_v grace_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n in_o the_o choice_n of_o thy_o wife_n then_o thou_o may_v certain_o expect_v by_o the_o blessing_n of_o god_n much_o comfort_n in_o such_o a_o yokefellow_n in_o all_o thy_o want_n of_o wealth_n or_o health_n of_o soul_n or_o body_n and_o may_v while_o thou_o enjoy_v she_o begin_v to_o write_v encomium_n of_o she_o and_o when_o she_o be_v dead_a 20._o gen_n 35.19_o 20._o then_o with_o jacob_n set_v up_o a_o pillar_n upon_o her_o grave_a and_o perhaps_o may_v true_o say_v many_o daughter_n have_v do_v virtuous_o but_o thou_o excelle_v they_o all_o for_o favour_n be_v deceitful_a and_o beauty_n be_v vain_a but_o a_o woman_n that_o fear_v the_o lord_n she_o shall_v be_v praise_v give_v she_o of_o the_o fruit_n of_o her_o hand_n and_o let_v she_o own_o work_n praise_v she_o in_o the_o gate_n here_o we_o shall_v turn_v in_o and_o proceed_v no_o further_o in_o the_o amplification_n of_o the_o first_o inward_a qualification_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n wife_n the_o second_o qualification_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n in_o the_o second_o place_n the_o chief_a qualification_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n next_o save_v grace_n be_v sweet_a disposition_n of_o nature_n that_o she_o be_v of_o a_o quiet_a and_o peaceable_a spirit_n for_o it_o be_v much_o to_o be_v bewail_v that_o in_o divers_a man_n and_o woman_n that_o we_o doubt_v not_o in_o the_o least_o measure_n but_o that_o they_o be_v very_o gracious_a and_o desire_v to_o prove_v their_o soul_n to_o god_n in_o all_o way_n of_o holiness_n yet_o be_v of_o bad_a nature_n and_o themselves_o can_v but_o see_v it_o and_o i_o doubt_v not_o but_o they_o desire_v to_o bewail_v it_o before_o god_n in_o secret_a and_o yet_o can_v attain_v to_o have_v their_o corruption_n in_o this_o kind_n mortify_v in_o any_o comfortable_a way_n yet_o it_o must_v be_v grant_v that_o such_o person_n be_v not_o many_o time_n comfortable_a consort_n and_o therefore_o thou_o that_o be_v to_o make_v choice_n of_o a_o wife_n have_v cause_n enough_o to_o endeavour_v to_o avoid_v lay_v a_o conjugal_a tie_n upon_o thyself_o to_o live_v and_o die_v with_o such_o a_o woman_n though_o otherwise_o one_o of_o good_a part_n if_o a_o woman_n be_v of_o churlish_a nature_n &_o of_o cross_a dispositon_n in_o the_o abstract_n she_o will_v cast_v such_o a_o cool_a damp_n on_o her_o husband_n love_n as_o may_v not_o only_o chill_a but_o kill_v it_o whereby_o though_o she_o may_v be_v a_o sad_a sufferer_n herself_o she_o will_v abundant_o prejudice_v her_o husband_n in_o his_o comfort_n and_o may_v shorten_v his_o day_n for_o a_o man_n can_v live_v that_o can_v love_v the_o love_n of_o any_o thing_n give_v contentment_n to_o the_o mind_n to_o enjoy_v the_o same_o a_o cross_n and_o tart_n nature_n in_o a_o wife_n un-wifes_n her_n as_o i_o may_v say_v for_o she_o that_o be_v not_o a_o meet_a helper_n be_v either_o not_o a_o wife_n or_o else_o a_o very_a imperfect_a one_o for_o how_o can_v she_o be_v say_v to_o be_v a_o wife_n that_o be_v not_o a_o meet_a helper_n who_o be_v unfit_a for_o comfortable_a society_n but_o such_o a_o wife_n be_v as_o sharp_a and_o bitter_a touchy_a and_o tangue_n by_o nature_n will_v not_o ordinary_o be_v sociable_a love_a kind_a and_o amiable_a in_o her_o carriage_n and_o deportment_n to_o her_o husband_n and_o do_v it_o not_o concern_v thou_o to_o avoid_v she_o in_o thy_o choice_n of_o a_o wife_n for_o such_o a_o woman_n as_o we_o speak_v of_o will_v not_o make_v a_o good_a wife_n nor_o good_a mother_n nor_o good_a dame_n or_o mistress_n she_o will_v not_o be_v good_a in_o any_o relation_n i_o mean_v in_o the_o latter_a part_n of_o this_o discourse_n where_o a_o untoward_a nature_n be_v predominant_a in_o a_o woman_n solomon_n say_v it_o be_v be_v better_a to_o dwell_v in_o a_o corner_n of_o the_o house_n top_n than_o with_o a_o brawl_a woman_n in_o a_o wide_a house_n prov._n 21.9_o he_o also_o say_v the_o contention_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v a_o continual_a drop_n pro._n 19.13_o a_o continual_a drop_n will_v wear_v waist_n and_o consume_v stone_n as_o observation_n will_v prove_v and_o true_o this_o drop_n from_o a_o contentious_a wife_n will_v wear_v waste_n and_o consume_v not_o only_o all_o the_o comfort_n 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9_o 16._o it_o be_v to_o no_o â—nd_n to_o teach_v the_o first_o way_n if_o you_o neglect_v the_o second_o or_o at_o least_o to_o little_a purpose_n the_o scribe_n and_o pharisee_n say_v christ_n sit_v in_o moses_n chair_n whatsoever_o they_o bid_v you_o observe_v that_o observe_v and_o do_v but_o after_o their_o do_n do_v not_o for_o they_o say_v and_o do_v not_o mat._n 23.2_o 3._o so_o if_o parent_n &_o c._n â—e_v like_o they_o in_o teach_v and_o in_o practice_n too_o well_o they_o may_v lead_v they_o to_o sin_n by_o their_o example_n but_o if_o they_o lead_v they_o to_o good_a it_o will_v be_v very_o rare_a for_o the_o evil_a example_n of_o superior_n be_v of_o great_a force_n to_o lead_v the_o inferior_n â—nto_o vile_a way_n and_o this_o daily_a experience_n will_v â—eare_z witness_n to_o if_o parent_n and_o master_n be_v give_v over_o to_o swear_v blaspheme_v lie_v drunkenness_n uncleanness_n hate_v of_o god_n his_o way_n and_o people_n or_o to_o any_o other_o sin_n of_o such_o 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word_n prov._n 29.19_o and_o yet_o certain_o god_n will_v have_v they_o reform_v too_o but_o take_v notice_n of_o this_o also_o that_o the_o procrastination_n or_o put_v off_o of_o correction_n of_o your_o child_n will_v but_o fit_v they_o to_o be_v incorrigible_a the_o bow_v tree_n whilst_o they_o be_v young_a be_v a_o similitude_n often_o on_o this_o occasion_n make_v use_v of_o but_o too_o seldom_o practise_v prov._n 13.24_o he_o that_o spare_v his_o rod_n hate_v his_o son_n but_o he_o that_o love_v he_o correct_v he_o betimes_o prov._n 23.23_o 24._o withhold_a not_o correction_n from_o the_o child_n for_o if_o thou_o beat_v he_o with_o the_o rod_n he_o shall_v not_o die_v thou_o shall_v beat_v he_o with_o the_o rod_n and_o shall_v deliver_v his_o soul_n from_o hell_n but_o in_o make_v use_n of_o this_o ordinance_n of_o correction_n whether_o of_o child_n or_o servant_n observe_v with_o care_n these_o three_o thing_n first_o a_o fit_a time_n second_o that_o your_o end_n be_v good_a and_o last_o that_o it_o be_v in_o a_o right_a manner_n first_o for_o a_o fit_a time_n which_o time_n be_v when_o the_o heat_n of_o passion_n be_v over_o for_o we_o must_v be_v just_a in_o the_o measure_n of_o correction_n which_o we_o can_v be_v if_o passion_n have_v command_v passion_n may_v provoke_v we_o to_o play_v the_o tyrant_n and_o to_o make_v the_o party_n correct_v despise_v in_o our_o eye_n deut._n 25.3_o and_o that_o will_v dishearten_v and_o deject_v they_o in_o the_o second_o place_n propose_v a_o right_a end_n in_o correct_v any_o under_o your_o charge_n you_o must_v not_o give_v correction_n to_o manifest_v your_o authority_n or_o to_o be_v revenge_v on_o they_o for_o cross_v you_o but_o sincere_o to_o kill_v sin_n in_o they_o to_o subdue_v
their_o exorbitant_a lust_n to_o make_v they_o more_o sit_v to_o glorify_v god_n and_o perform_v service_n unto_o man_n these_o and_o such_o like_a aught_o to_o be_v pure_o your_o aim_n and_o last_o you_o must_v administer_v this_o ordinance_n in_o a_o a_o right_a manner_n that_o be_v with_o lift_v up_o your_o heart_n to_o god_n desire_v he_o with_o the_o correction_n to_o vouchsafe_v to_o they_o instruction_n to_o sanctify_v it_o to_o they_o so_o that_o it_o may_v prove_v effectual_a for_o their_o reformation_n to_o make_v they_o obedient_a to_o god_n in_o word_n and_o deed_n and_o faithtull_n in_o the_o discharge_n of_o all_o the_o duty_n they_o owe_v unto_o you_o now_o when_o your_o carriage_n be_v true_o thus_o in_o your_o correct_a child_n or_o servant_n you_o may_v by_o the_o blessing_n of_o god_n expect_v some_o gracious_a effect_n of_o it_o except_o the_o lord_n have_v a_o controversy_n with_o and_o against_o they_o to_o harden_v their_o heart_n by_o this_o and_o other_o mean_n to_o their_o own_o perdition_n thus_o we_o have_v do_v with_o the_o four_o general_a duty_n which_o both_o husband_n and_o wife_n owe_v unto_o both_o child_n and_o servant_n as_o first_o to_o instruct_v they_o in_o the_o way_n of_o god_n second_o to_o pray_v with_o they_o and_o for_o they_o three_o to_o walk_v before_o they_o in_o good_a example_n four_o and_o last_o to_o seek_v to_o reclaim_v they_o from_o bad_a way_n now_o because_o the_o neglect_n of_o these_o duty_n be_v a_o prime_a cause_n of_o infinite_a dishonour_n to_o god_n the_o mean_n of_o many_o soul_n perish_v to_o all_o eternity_n and_o the_o breed_n of_o multitude_n of_o rot_a and_o vile_a member_n in_o church_n and_o state_n we_o shall_v endeavour_v with_o the_o lord_n assistance_n to_o proceed_v to_o some_o reason_n enforce_v the_o performance_n of_o these_o duty_n by_o all_o godly_a governor_n and_o then_o come_v to_o make_v some_o application_n thereof_o reas_n 1_o the_o first_o reason_n be_v take_v from_o the_o 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do_v you_o matth._n 5.47_o for_o so_o it_o be_v render_v in_o the_o old_a translation_n what_o be_v the_o theory_n of_o religion_n if_o the_o practic_a part_n be_v want_v now_o as_o you_o will_v approve_v yourselves_o to_o be_v the_o child_n of_o god_n you_o must_v obey_v he_o in_o all_o thing_n for_o his_o servant_n you_o be_v who_o you_o obey_v rom._n 6.16_o the_o second_o reason_n infore_v from_o you_o the_o reas_n 2_o performance_n of_o these_o duty_n before_o mention_v for_o the_o good_a of_o your_o child_n and_o servant_n be_v take_v from_o those_o bowel_n of_o compassion_n that_o shall_v be_v in_o you_o relate_v to_o the_o good_a of_o their_o soul_n for_o by_o thy_o neglect_n of_o teach_v they_o the_o knowledge_n of_o god_n and_o pray_v for_o they_o and_o with_o they_o and_o walk_v before_o they_o in_o good_a example_n and_o labour_v to_o reclaim_v they_o from_o sin_n they_o may_v perish_v in_o hell_n for_o evermore_o he_o say_v james_n that_o convert_v a_o sinner_n from_o the_o error_n of_o his_o way_n shall_v save_v a_o soul_n from_o death_n 5.20_o jam._n 5.20_o and_o hide_v a_o multitude_n of_o sin_n and_o what_o know_v thou_o but_o by_o thy_o conscionable_a use_n of_o these_o mean_n thou_o may_v instrumental_o do_v it_o in_o exod._n 23.4_o the_o lord_n command_v that_o if_o thou_o meet_v thy_o enemy_n ox_n or_o his_o ass_n go_v astray_o that_o thou_o shall_v sure_o bring_v he_o back_o again_o how_o much_o more_o then_o ought_v thou_o to_o be_v careful_a when_o thou_o see_v thy_o child_n and_o servant_n go_v astray_o from_o god_n in_o the_o wale_n that_o lead_v to_o hell_n to_o be_v careful_a to_o bring_v they_o back_o again_o and_o so_o to_o secure_v their_o poor_a soul_n from_o perish_v now_o in_o the_o way_n to_o hell_n thy_o child_n and_o servant_n always_o walk_v when_o they_o be_v in_o a_o state_n of_o ignorance_n and_o in_o the_o practice_n of_o any_o sin_n my_o people_n say_v god_n be_v destroy_v for_o lack_n of_o knowledge_n hos_fw-la 4.6_o and_o as_o for_o thy_o poor_a child_n thy_o own_o loin_n have_v be_v the_o conduit-pipe_n to_o convey_v into_o their_o heart_n and_o soul_n from_o adam_n the_o fountain_n all_o that_o corruption_n of_o nature_n which_o be_v in_o they_o and_o all_o that_o propensity_n to_o sin_n which_o be_v in_o their_o will_n true_o it_o be_v not_o only_o against_o a_o gracious_a principle_n but_o against_o a_o humane_a and_o moral_a one_o too_o that_o thou_o shall_v thrust_v thy_o poor_a child_n into_o a_o dangerous_a quagmire_n and_o then_o deny_v he_o thy_o hand_n to_o help_v pluck_v he_o back_o again_o and_o that_o thou_o shall_v give_v he_o many_o a_o deadly_a and_o mortal_a wound_n and_o refuse_v to_o apply_v a_o plaster_n for_o his_o cure_n these_o similitude_n be_v infinite_o too_o short_a to_o set_v forth_o this_o case_n full_o now_o when_o thou_o do_v neglect_v these_o mean_n beforesaid_a thou_o do_v show_v thyself_o to_o be_v a_o cruel_a and_o bloody_a man_n a_o most_o savage_a beast_n there_o 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god_n call_v thou_o to_o be_v the_o governor_n of_o a_o family_n he_o have_v make_v thou_o a_o watchman_n over_o their_o soul_n and_o consider_v thou_o that_o place_n for_o the_o purpose_n in_o hand_n in_o ezek._n 33.8_o eli_n the_o priest_n be_v by_o reason_n of_o his_o indulgence_n to_o his_o child_n a_o very_a defective_a man_n this_o way_n yet_o many_o thousand_o million_o of_o man_n be_v more_o he_o seek_v to_o reclaim_v his_o son_n from_o their_o wickedness_n only_o by_o admonish_v they_o of_o it_o and_o of_o the_o judgement_n of_o god_n for_o the_o same_o which_o be_v more_o perhaps_o than_o thou_o do_v ever_o do_v but_o there_o unreasonable_o come_v to_o a_o period_n god_n punish_v this_o sin_n of_o he_o first_o upon_o those_o his_o wicked_a and_o degenerate_a son_n then_o on_o his_o own_o person_n and_o last_o on_o his_o whole_a house_n his_o son_n be_v slay_v both_o in_o one_o day_n himself_o break_v his_o neck_n and_o his_o house_n lose_v the_o priest_n office_n 1_o sam._n 2.22_o 23_o 24_o 34_o 35_o 36._o chap._n 4.11_o 18._o read_v the_o story_n and_o lay_v it_o sad_o to_o thy_o heart_n but_o the_o learned_a do_v conceive_v that_o the_o personal_a punishment_n of_o eli_n be_v but_o temporal_a because_o he_o be_v gracious_a though_o in_o the_o case_n beforementioned_a a_o grievous_a offender_n i_o say_v read_z and_z and_o consider_v and_o as_o thou_o like_v the_o punishment_n so_o practise_v the_o sin_n it_o be_v true_a god_n be_v patient_a but_o this_o his_o patience_n if_o further_o abuse_v by_o thou_o will_v not_o prove_v thy_o privilege_n but_o thy_o infinite_a disadvantage_n for_o thou_o shall_v when_o it_o be_v too_o late_a find_v thou_o be_v rather_o reserve_v for_o hell_n than_o
punishment_n for_o the_o plague_n and_o vengeance_n of_o god_n do_v follow_v sin_n as_o the_o thread_n do_v the_o needle_n and_o here_o we_o may_v run_v in_o infinitum_fw-la in_o make_v this_o clear_a from_o scripture_n demonstration_n some_o we_o shall_v produce_v and_o but_o a_o few_o to_o what_o we_o may_v read_v deut._n 28._o the_o whole_a chapter_n consider_v lam._n 3.39_o also_o 2_o chron_n 36.14_o 15_o 16._o and_o hos_fw-la 4.1_o 2_o 3_o 5._o last_o mat._n 23.37_o 38._o thus_o for_o the_o first_o use_n in_o the_o second_o place_n it_o may_v serve_v for_o just_a reproof_n use_v 2_o and_o to_o speak_v terror_n and_o horror_n to_o the_o conscience_n of_o all_o parent_n and_o master_n who_o be_v guilty_a of_o the_o curse_a neglect_n of_o the_o duty_n beforementioned_a which_o they_o owe_v unto_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n in_o reference_n to_o the_o good_a of_o their_o soul_n you_o have_v see_v that_o by_o this_o mean_v you_o be_v accessary_a to_o the_o overflow_a enormity_n of_o every_o kind_n and_o horrid_a crime_n of_o the_o time_n and_o be_v the_o meritorious_a cause_n of_o the_o inundation_n of_o the_o misery_n that_o be_v now_o by_o the_o hand_n of_o the_o all-just_a god_n fall_v upon_o we_o in_o these_o our_o day_n which_o without_o infinite_a mercy_n will_v bury_v every_o man_n and_o mother_n child_n in_o their_o own_o justly-deserved_n ruin_n and_o have_v thou_o whosoever_o thou_o be_v a_o heart_n of_o stone_n insensible_a of_o thy_o own_o condition_n be_v thou_o worse_o than_o a_o stoic_a have_v thou_o like_o jonah_n set_v the_o sea_n of_o the_o world_n all_o in_o a_o rage_a and_o be_v thou_o fast_o asleep_a ah_o poor_a soul_n thy_o condition_n be_v to_o be_v lament_v with_o tear_n of_o blood_n both_o in_o regard_n of_o thy_o guilt_n and_o also_o of_o thy_o punishment_n thou_o be_v guilty_a first_o of_o the_o sin_n of_o thy_o family_n and_o by_o their_o bad_a example_n of_o the_o sin_n of_o whole_a town_n city_n county_n and_o of_o the_o whole_a 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