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and_o inform_v their_o judgement_n by_o a_o catechisticall_a way_n in_o the_o solid_a and_o profound_a truth_n of_o god_n both_o concern_v faith_n and_o life_n thing_n to_o be_v believe_v &_o duty_n to_o be_v practise_v there_o may_v by_o the_o blessing_n of_o god_n on_o their_o sincere_a endeavour_n have_v be_v better_a fruit_n expect_v in_o these_o day_n of_o sadness_n and_o sorrow_n than_o decline_v pure_a truth_n vilify_a god_n ordinance_n and_o faithful_a minister_n rage_v against_o and_o worry_v of_o the_o tender_a lamb_n of_o christ_n in_o which_o they_o take_v the_o same_o diabolical_a course_n that_o some_o heathen_n of_o old_a take_v that_o be_v clothe_v the_o saint_n in_o the_o skin_n of_o bear_n and_o other_o wild_a beast_n that_o so_o their_o dog_n may_v fasten_v their_o empoison_a fang_n in_o their_o tender_a heart_n so_o these_o calumniate_v such_o who_o by_o the_o grace_n of_o god_n walk_v close_o to_o the_o rule_n than_o themselves_o with_o many_o opprobrious_a and_o vile_a but_o notorious_o false_a aspersion_n they_o be_v say_v they_o enemy_n to_o the_o state_n disturber_n of_o the_o peace_n of_o a_o nation_n and_o many_o other_o hellish_a accusation_n they_o have_v against_o they_o which_o i_o forbear_v to_o name_n not_o doubt_v but_o in_o god_n time_n the_o guilt_n of_o their_o abomination_n will_v settle_v in_o their_o own_o bosom_n and_o so_o clap_v to_o their_o heart_n and_o so_o sting_v their_o soul_n that_o by_o the_o goodness_n of_o god_n they_o shall_v be_v awaken_v to_o see_v their_o evil_n and_o repent_v of_o it_o before_o it_o be_v too_o late_o by_o reason_n whereof_o all_o their_o beagle_n and_o bloodhound_n take_v the_o send_v not_o by_o the_o foot_n of_o the_o non-guilty_a from_o the_o curse_a vomit_n of_o the_o accuser_n of_o the_o brethren_n and_o run_v with_o so_o much_o hellish_a fury_n at_o they_o that_o do_v not_o god_n gracious_o and_o the_o precious_a law_n of_o the_o time_n preserve_v they_o they_o must_v inevitable_o 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their_o bedlam-fits_a not_o know_v how_o to_o contain_v themselves_o within_o the_o bound_n of_o civility_n but_o these_o man_n have_v either_o never_o learn_v or_o soon_o forget_v that_o place_n of_o our_o saviour_n the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n suffer_v violence_n and_o the_o violent_a take_v it_o by_o force_n mat._n 11.12_o and_o other_o place_n luk._n 13.24_o heb._n 12.14_o luk._n 11.52_o such_o opposite_a spirit_a man_n and_o woman_n as_o these_o will_n by_o no_o mean_n endure_v that_o any_o child_n or_o friend_n of_o they_o shall_v come_v within_o the_o wall_n of_o a_o godly_a family_n to_o live_v in_o for_o fear_v they_o shall_v become_v puritan_n as_o they_o call_v they_o but_o to_o conclude_v this_o point_n or_o use_v let_v i_o tell_v they_o that_o without_o abundance_n of_o repentance_n for_o and_o reformation_n of_o this_o sin_n they_o shall_v have_v as_o large_a a_o share_n if_o not_o more_o of_o those_o inconceivable_a misery_n which_o be_v imperfect_o mention_v in_o the_o 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or_o church_n in_o his_o own_o family_n unto_o which_o i_o desire_v thou_o may_v add_v in_o thy_o retire_a meditation_n now_o i_o also_o say_v to_o thou_o arise_v and_o be_v do_v and_o the_o lord_n be_v with_o â—hee_o thou_o will_v say_v thou_o be_v a_o poor_a weak_a creature_n thy_o knowledge_n be_v little_a and_o thy_o part_n â—re_n small_a let_v i_o advise_v thou_o to_o gain_v good_a form_n of_o catechism_n be_v studious_a in_o they_o be_v diligent_a to_o improve_v they_o for_o the_o good_a of_o all_o under_o thou_o by_o this_o mean_n if_o thou_o be_v conscientious_a indeed_o and_o seek_v to_o approve_v thyself_o to_o god_n in_o thy_o discharge_n of_o these_o duty_n and_o abundant_o desire_v to_o yield_v furtherance_n to_o the_o soul_n of_o thy_o wife_n child_n and_o servant_n by_o this_o mean_n i_o say_v thou_o shall_v find_v that_o in_o teach_v other_o thy_o own_o knowledge_n shall_v increase_v and_o thou_o have_v a_o promise_n from_o the_o mouth_n of_o christ_n for_o this_o that_o to_o he_o that_o have_v more_o shall_v be_v give_v and_o he_o shall_v have_v in_o abundance_n mat_n 13.12_o we_o have_v a_o good_a proverb_n applicable_a here_o that_o be_v use_v leg_n and_o have_v leg_n and_o thou_o say_v thy_o part_n be_v weak_a if_o thou_o can_v not_o pray_v with_o thy_o family_n but_o in_o a_o very_a weak_a manner_n than_o i_o say_v pray_v to_o god_n to_o teach_v thou_o to_o pray_v pray_v in_o secret_a for_o both_o the_o spirit_n and_o gift_n of_o prayer_n that_o thou_o may_v be_v able_a to_o perform_v it_o in_o thy_o family_n but_o beware_v thou_o set_v not_o too_o high_a a_o rate_n on_o the_o gift_n of_o prayer_n for_o it_o often_o go_v alone_o without_o the_o spirit_n thou_o be_v better_o of_o the_o two_o have_v the_o spirit_n of_o prayer_n than_o the_o gift_n but_o both_o together_o do_v best_a especial_o in_o relation_n to_o edify_a other_o simon_n magus_n desire_v to_o purchase_v a_o power_n to_o give_v the_o holy_a ghost_n to_o who_o he_o please_v his_o end_n be_v base_a as_o well_o as_o his_o tender_a vile_a he_o do_v aim_v as_o good_a divine_n think_v at_o popular_a applause_n beside_o a_o curse_a gain_n true_o i_o much_o fear_v popular_a applause_n and_o vain_a ostentation_n be_v too_o too_o much_o the_o aim_n of_o some_o in_o our_o time_n where_o i_o see_v a_o gift_n of_o prayer_n yea_o and_o of_o preach_v too_o and_o a_o spirit_n of_o predominant_a pride_n i_o must_v take_v the_o liberty_n to_o think_v of_o such_o a_o man_n as_o i_o do_v apprehend_v clear_a ground_n for_o this_o last_o passage_n i_o do_v insert_v for_o this_o end_n principal_o to_o take_v off_o the_o inordinate_a affection_n of_o any_o poor_a soul_n from_o the_o gift_n of_o prayer_n sincerity_n in_o all_o thy_o walking_n with_o god_n will_v comfort_v thou_o in_o the_o midst_n of_o all_o defect_n and_o what_o know_v thou_o dear_a christian_n but_o god_n will_v join_v his_o strength_n with_o thy_o weakness_n and_o make_v thou_o a_o instrument_n of_o beget_v 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affable_a carriage_n of_o a_o meek_a and_o quiet_a spirit_n the_o happiness_n whereof_o will_v be_v permanent_a in_o the_o next_o place_n we_o shall_v proceed_v by_o the_o help_n of_o god_n to_o some_o outward_a yet_o very_o necessary_a qualification_n for_o thou_o to_o pitch_v thy_o thought_n on_o and_o to_o labour_v to_o obtain_v that_o so_o thou_o may_v lay_v a_o good_a groundwork_n to_o prevent_v too_o late_a repentance_n in_o thou_o for_o thy_o rashness_n qualification_n the_o three_o qualification_n in_o the_o three_o place_n to_o make_v a_o addition_n to_o thy_o comfort_n in_o the_o marriage_n estate_n be_v very_o careful_a in_o thy_o choice_n to_o satisfy_v thy_o eye_n both_o in_o the_o person_n and_o favour_n of_o such_o a_o one_o as_o thou_o will_v enjoy_v for_o thy_o consort_n both_o in_o bed_n and_o at_o board_n as_o we_o say_v and_o in_o this_o thou_o must_v be_v somewhat_o curious_a belove_a there_o be_v a_o threefold_a curiosity_n first_o there_o be_v a_o unnecessary_a 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