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and_o how_o can_v such_o two_o become_v one_o flesh_n lawful_o when_o as_o there_o want_v the_o union_n and_o conjunction_n of_o the_o heart_n the_o true_a natural_a mother_n of_o all_o marriage_n duty_n wherefore_o this_o promise_n must_v be_v in_o this_o respect_n at_o least_o willing_a and_o voluntary_a for_o albeit_o it_o be_v not_o necessary_a neither_o yet_o possible_a that_o there_o shall_v be_v such_o great_a measure_n of_o true_a holy_a and_o sanctify_a love_n at_o that_o time_n as_o afterward_o for_o that_o grow_v by_o little_a and_o little_o according_a to_o the_o blessing_n of_o god_n and_o the_o faithful_a performance_n of_o other_o duty_n afterward_o even_o to_o their_o life_n end_n yet_o if_o it_o be_v voluntary_a and_o unfeigned_a it_o be_v enough_o and_o sufficient_a to_o make_v a_o true_a contract_n in_o the_o lord_n so_o as_o no_o man_n ought_v to_o separate_v those_o who_o god_n have_v thus_o join_v second_o we_o call_v it_o voluntary_a in_o respect_n of_o constraint_n and_o compulsion_n contrary_a to_o a_o free_a consent_n for_o if_o either_o party_n be_v urge_v constrain_v or_o compel_v by_o great_a fear_n of_o their_o parent_n or_o other_o by_o threaten_v of_o loss_n of_o preferment_n of_o health_n of_o limb_n of_o life_n or_o of_o any_o such_o other_o like_a or_o by_o any_o other_o violent_a manner_n of_o deal_v whatsoever_o to_o yield_v their_o promise_n clean_o contrary_a to_o the_o motion_n or_o good_a like_n of_o their_o heart_n this_o kind_n of_o promise_n as_o it_o do_v not_o bind_v the_o party_n to_o keep_v it_o so_o it_o ought_v to_o be_v frustrate_v &_o break_v by_o the_o parent_n themselves_o or_o by_o such_o master_n as_o may_v and_o aught_o to_o command_v and_o rule_v they_o in_o such_o case_n if_o this_o be_v not_o so_o how_o can_v the_o party_n keep_v the_o commandment_n of_o god_n give_v they_o direction_n who_o to_o marry_v first_o that_o they_o shall_v marry_v only_o in_o the_o lord_n again_o that_o they_o shall_v not_o be_v unequal_o yoke_v with_o infidel_n neither_o of_o which_o they_o can_v keep_v if_o their_o parent_n may_v compel_v they_o to_o contract_n and_o marry_v it_o become_v the_o parent_n to_o persuade_v their_o child_n by_o all_o good_a mean_n to_o yield_v their_o consent_n rather_o than_o to_o draw_v they_o by_o wicked_a sleight_n and_o cunning_a drunkenness_n or_o any_o other_o wicked_a and_o violent_a mean_n for_o as_o that_o be_v not_o to_o marry_v in_o the_o lord_n so_o all_o such_o force_a contract_n may_v be_v break_v and_o frustrate_v by_o the_o magistrate_n who_o be_v god_n lieutenant_n to_o redress_v such_o intolerable_a enormity_n among_o the_o society_n of_o man_n for_o if_o parent_n may_v deny_v marriage_n to_o such_o as_o have_v only_o by_o force_n and_o violence_n obtain_v the_o word_n and_o body_n of_o their_o child_n much_o more_o may_v the_o magistrate_n deny_v marriage_n where_o only_o a_o verbal_a promise_n nath_v be_v get_v by_o violent_a compulsion_n and_o for_o these_o cause_n and_o in_o this_o sense_n and_o meaning_n alone_o we_o conclude_v that_o contract_n must_v be_v voluntary_a four_o it_o must_v be_v a_o mutual_a promise_n that_o be_v either_o party_n must_v make_v it_o to_o other_o not_o the_o man_n only_o nor_o the_o woman_n only_o but_o both_o the_o man_n and_o the_o woman_n though_o decency_n and_o order_n require_v the_o man_n to_o do_v it_o first_o and_o then_o the_o woman_n because_o he_o be_v her_o head_n and_o she_o his_o glory_n and_o aught_o to_o lead_v and_o guide_v she_o in_o all_o thing_n wherein_o the_o lord_n have_v put_v a_o pray_fw-mi heminence_n for_o if_o this_o promise_n be_v not_o mutual_o make_v of_o they_o both_o but_o of_o one_o alone_a it_o be_v no_o true_a and_o perfect_a contract_n and_o therefore_o may_v be_v break_v by_o parent_n and_o such_o as_o have_v authority_n herein_o because_o the_o party_n unpromised_a be_v not_o bind_v by_o word_n or_o deed_n but_o be_v free_a in_o so_o much_o that_o such_o a_o contract_n be_v rather_o so_o term_v then_o that_o it_o be_v any_o true_a contract_n indeed_o but_o if_o it_o be_v mutual_a than_o it_o do_v mutual_o and_o muiolable_o bind_v both_o so_o that_o in_o this_o regard_n neither_o parent_n magistrate_n nor_o any_o other_o can_v or_o aught_o to_o break_v it_o for_o this_o be_v full_o perform_v and_o accomplish_v be_v one_o principal_a cause_n of_o make_v two_o one_o flesh_n in_o such_o sort_n as_o it_o be_v write_v therefore_o a_o man_n shall_v leave_v his_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o shall_v be_v join_v to_o his_o wife_n and_o they_o two_o shall_v be_v one_o flesh_n etc._n etc._n genes_n 2._o 24._o also_o that_o the_o man_n have_v not_o power_n over_o his_o own_o body_n nor_o the_o woman_n over_o she_o and_o so_o to_o be_v short_a hence_o arise_v all_o mutual_a benevolence_n between_o they_o and_o therefore_o a_o point_n of_o great_a weight_n and_o necessity_n in_o no_o wise_a to_o be_v omit_v in_o a_o contract_n five_o we_o say_v it_o must_v be_v between_o one_o man_n and_o one_o woman_n where_o first_o it_o be_v to_o be_v note_v that_o it_o may_v not_o nor_o ought_v not_o to_o be_v between_o any_o other_o creature_n but_o mankind_n nay_o neither_o among_o brute_n beast_n nor_o angel_n for_o god_n have_v not_o ordain_v or_o institute_v marriage_n for_o they_o neither_o can_v it_o be_v between_o man_n and_o man_n or_o woman_n and_o woman_n if_o any_o such_o contract_n be_v either_o voluntary_a or_o by_o fraud_n and_o deceit_n by_o ignorance_n or_o error_n it_o be_v no_o contract_n at_o all_o but_o a_o mere_a wicked_a profanation_n of_o god_n ordinance_n who_o give_v only_a woman_n to_o man_n not_o woman_n to_o woman_n nor_o man_n to_o man_n likewise_o it_o can_v be_v between_o angel_n good_a or_o bad_a and_o woman_n because_o god_n have_v set_v no_o such_o ordinance_n in_o the_o nature_n of_o these_o creature_n if_o therefore_o there_o have_v be_v any_o such_o matter_n or_o shall_v be_v attempt_v by_o satan_n with_o any_o woman_n as_o some_o story_n report_v it_o be_v nothing_o 〈◊〉_d but_o a_o mere_a illusion_n and_o devilish_a practice_n to_o deceive_v and_o draw_v superstitious_a into_o the_o kingdom_n of_o darkness_n and_o to_o entrap_v they_o in_o the_o chain_n of_o condemnation_n against_o which_o and_o all_o other_o diabolical_a illusion_n we_o ought_v to_o watch_v and_o pray_v continual_o second_o it_o be_v to_o be_v observe_v that_o between_o one_o man_n and_o one_o woman_n and_o not_o two_o man_n and_o one_o woman_n or_o two_o woman_n not_o between_o two_o woman_n and_o one_o man_n or_o more_o by_o which_o be_v condemn_v as_o mere_a nullity_n and_o profanation_n all_o contract_n whatsoever_o make_v between_o more_o than_o two_o for_o it_o be_v write_v and_o they_o twain_o shall_v be_v
all_o other_o and_o this_o do_v god_n declare_v say_v let_v we_o make_v adam_n as_o helper_n like_a unto_o himself_o by_o the_o helper_n be_v signify_v the_o utility_n and_o profit_n of_o the_o service_n and_o by_o the_o similitude_n and_o likeness_n be_v signify_v love_n and_o helpefulnesse_n for_o a_o servant_n and_o he_o that_o be_v hire_v be_v insufficient_a to_o supply_v that_o place_n there_o can_v neither_o be_v so_o much_o love_n and_o ability_n to_o minister_v help_n and_o comfort_n to_o a_o man_n as_o will_v be_v find_v in_o a_o faithful_a wife_n the_o child_n be_v part_n of_o the_o father_n and_o through_o a_o natural_a pity_n they_o love_v each_o other_o but_o yet_o the_o wife_n be_v more_o annex_v and_o join_v to_o her_o husband_n the_o father_n do_v labour_n and_o take_v pain_n for_o his_o child_n but_o the_o child_n seldom_o labour_n or_o take_v pain_n for_o their_o father_n and_o oftentimes_o be_v send_v to_o inhabit_v and_o dwell_v in_o other_o man_n house_n whereby_o in_o a_o manner_n it_o appear_v that_o their_o straight_a and_o fast_o society_n do_v dissolve_v and_o break_v but_o the_o wife_n clean_o contrary_a do_v continual_o take_v pain_n for_o her_o husband_n who_o may_v as_o long_o as_o she_o live_v neither_o change_n house_n nor_o bed_n if_o commodity_n and_o prosit_fw-la be_v look_v for_o no_o commodity_n excel_v this_o if_o thou_o shall_v love_v thy_o wife_n thou_o shall_v live_v most_o pleasant_o if_o not_o thy_o life_n will_v be_v most_o miserable_a and_o wretched_a for_o there_o be_v nothing_o so_o sharp_a nor_o so_o bitter_a as_o to_o hate_v the_o thing_n that_o do_v favour_n and_o love_v thou_o nor_o any_o thing_n more_o happy_a then_o to_o love_v he_o that_o love_v thou_o therefore_o love_n that_o thou_o may_v be_v love_v now_o we_o will_v in_o few_o word_n show_v the_o occasion_n of_o wedlock_n why_o and_o wherefore_o it_o be_v ordain_v and_o for_o what_o purpose_v it_o shall_v be_v contract_v that_o every_o man_n and_o woman_n may_v the_o better_o understand_v to_o what_o thing_n they_o consent_v when_o either_o of_o they_o grant_v to_o marry_v the_o other_o doubtless_o it_o can_v otherwise_o be_v but_o that_o marriage_n which_o be_v ordain_v of_o such_o a_o excellent_a author_n as_o of_o god_n himself_o and_o in_o such_o a_o worthy_a place_n as_o paradise_n and_o of_o such_o a_o ancient_a time_n as_o in_o state_n of_o adam_n and_o eve_n innocence_n and_o after_o such_o a_o notable_a order_n must_v likewise_o have_v special_a cause_n for_o the_o ordinance_n of_o it_o therefore_o the_o holy_a scripture_n do_v declare_v marriage_n chief_o three_o cause_n thereof_o the_o first_o be_v the_o procreation_n beget_v and_o bring_v up_o of_o child_n gen._n 1._o 27._o 28._o &_o 9_o 1._o for_o in_o the_o child_n do_v parent_n live_v after_o a_o sort_n even_o after_o death_n and_o if_o they_o be_v well_o and_o virtuous_o bring_v up_o god_n be_v great_o honour_v by_o they_o the_o commonwealth_n be_v advance_v yea_o their_o parent_n and_o all_o other_o fare_v the_o better_a for_o they_o for_o they_o be_v their_o parent_n comfort_n next_o unto_o god_n their_o joy_n staff_n and_o uphold_v of_o their_o age_n and_o therefore_o parent_n ought_v to_o begin_v betimes_o to_o plant_v virtue_n in_o their_o child_n breast_n for_o late_o sow_v bring_v sometime_o a_o late_a but_o never_o a_o apt_a harvest_n young_a branch_n will_v bow_v as_o a_o man_n will_v have_v they_o but_o old_a tree_n will_v soon_o break_v than_o bow_n etc._n etc._n but_o more_o of_o this_o shall_v be_v say_v after_o in_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n although_o marriage_n be_v a_o holy_a and_o sanctify_a ordinance_n yet_o none_o may_v use_v the_o benefit_n of_o it_o without_o some_o acknowledgement_n of_o original_a 5._o sin_n in_o that_o uncleanness_n may_v be_v practise_v therein_o which_o shall_v cause_v god_n child_n to_o use_v this_o mean_n with_o as_o much_o chastity_n as_o may_v be_v and_o husband_n and_o wise_a to_o keep_v themselves_o together_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n and_o in_o all_o modesty_n and_o sobriety_n if_o then_o in_o marriage_n itself_o there_o be_v such_o mischief_n what_o hellish_a mischief_n be_v there_o in_o those_o lust_n which_o be_v not_o express_v with_o these_o consideration_n so_o that_o marriage_n be_v not_o a_o mad_a and_o dissolute_a estate_n to_o give_v liberty_n to_o their_o wife_n in_o uncleanness_n nor_o wife_n to_o consent_v with_o their_o husband_n in_o impurity_n by_o immoderate_a intemperate_a or_o excessive_a lust_n many_o think_v they_o can_v sin_v in_o this_o behalf_n if_o they_o pass_v not_o their_o own_o wife_n but_o they_o may_v make_v their_o marriage_n pollute_v and_o defile_v if_o they_o use_v it_o without_o prayer_n and_o soberness_n etc._n etc._n 1._o tim_n 4._o 4._o 5._o therefore_o the_o husband_n be_v to_o forbear_v the_o company_n of_o his_o wife_n when_o it_o be_v with_o she_o as_o it_o be_v common_a to_o woman_n etc._n etc._n ezechiel_n 18._o 6._o leviticus_fw-la 18._o 19_o 24._o 22_o and_o 19_o 18._o this_o be_v one_o of_o the_o sin_n for_o which_o the_o lord_n root_v out_o the_o canaanite_n out_o of_o their_o land_n the_o second_o occasion_n why_o marriage_n be_v ordain_v be_v that_o the_o wife_n may_v be_v a_o lawful_a remedy_n chastity_n to_o avoid_v whoredom_n fornication_n and_o all_o filthy_a unclean_a lust_n 1._o cor._n 7._o 2._o 3._o etc._n etc._n touch_v this_o point_n i_o will_v say_v no_o more_o for_o it_o be_v handle_v at_o large_a by_o other_o already_o and_o i_o have_v elsewhere_o sufficient_o discourse_v of_o it_o the_o three_o and_o last_o cause_n be_v for_o man_n commodity_n cause_n to_o the_o end_n to_o avoid_v the_o inconvenience_n of_o solitariness_n that_o the_o one_o may_v help_v &_o comfort_v the_o other_o in_o sickness_n in_o affliction_n and_o in_o all_o household_n care_n and_o trouble_n as_o education_n of_o child_n and_o keep_v the_o family_n in_o order_n for_o this_o cause_n old_a man_n and_o old_a 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master_n no_o more_o than_o it_o become_v the_o master_n to_o be_v mistress_n but_o both_o must_v sail_v with_o their_o own_o wind_n and_o both_o keep_v their_o stand_n last_o we_o call_v the_o wife_n huswife_n that_o be_v housewife_n not_o a_o street-wife_n one_o that_o gad_v up_o and_o down_o like_o thamar_n nor_o a_o field-wife_n like_o dinah_n huswife_n but_o a_o housewife_n to_o show_v that_o a_o good_a wife_n keep_v her_o house_n and_o therefore_o paul_n bid_v titus_n to_o exhort_v woman_n that_o they_o be_v chaste_a and_o keep_v at_o home_n present_o after_o chaste_a he_o say_v 5._o keep_v at_o home_n as_o though_o home_o be_v chastity_n keeper_n and_o therefore_o solomon_n depainting_n 12._o and_o describe_v the_o quality_n of_o a_o whore_n set_v she_o at_o the_o door_n now_o sit_v upon_o her_o stall_n now_o walk_v in_o the_o street_n now_o look_v out_o of_o the_o window_n like_o curse_a jezabel_n as_o if_o she_o 30._o hold_v forth_o the_o glass_n of_o temptation_n for_o 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and_o therefore_o it_o can_v be_v neither_o be_v it_o to_o be_v hope_v for_o that_o either_o the_o father_n of_o his_o child_n or_o the_o husband_n of_o his_o wife_n or_o the_o master_n of_o his_o servant_n shall_v look_v for_o that_o obedience_n that_o reverence_n that_o faithfulness_n and_o that_o dutifulness_n which_o they_o of_o right_a aught_o to_o have_v and_o the_o other_o in_o conscience_n and_o of_o bind_a duty_n be_v bind_v to_o perform_v unless_o they_o do_v now_o at_o length_n endeavour_n to_o see_v these_o order_n and_o duty_n hereafter_o mention_v to_o be_v practise_v within_o their_o several_a household_n for_o if_o parent_n and_o householder_n shall_v perform_v no_o further_o duty_n to_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n then_o to_o provide_v for_o they_o meat_n drink_n and_o apparel_n and_o to_o pay_v they_o their_o wage_n then_o papist_n atheist_n yea_o turk_n and_o infidel_n do_v yield_v this_o duty_n as_o well_o as_o they_o and_o see_v all_o man_n be_v careful_a 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he_o from_o the_o mouth_n and_o pen_n of_o the_o godly_a namely_o that_o he_o have_v a_o church_n in_o his_o house_n that_o be_v a_o company_n of_o sound_n and_o faithful_a christian_n such_o as_o fear_v god_n indeed_o as_o the_o like_a report_n be_v give_v by_o the_o apostle_n to_o those_o godly_a housekeeper_n aquila_n and_o priscilla_n his_o wife_n rom._n 16._o 5._o 1._o cor._n 16._o 19_o as_o also_o to_o philemon_n phil._n 2._o therefore_o all_o parent_n and_o householder_n be_v in_o the_o lord_n to_o be_v exhort_v that_o they_o will_v be_v careful_a to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n and_o family_n so_o as_o they_o either_o by_o some_o good_a token_n may_v see_v they_o the_o child_n of_o god_n and_o heir_n of_o his_o covenant_n or_o at_o the_o least_o they_o may_v be_v comfort_v in_o their_o own_o conscience_n notwithstanding_o that_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n for_o some_o cause_n unknown_a to_o they_o do_v refuse_v their_o counsel_n and_o instruction_n see_v they_o to_o 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that_o be_v among_o all_o estate_n and_o all_o nation_n matrimony_n then_o be_v a_o indissoluble_a bond_n and_o knot_n whereby_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v fasten_v together_o by_o the_o ordinance_n of_o god_n be_v 31._o fat_a straight_o than_o any_o other_o conjunction_n in_o the_o society_n of_o mankind_n in_o somuch_o that_o it_o be_v a_o less_o offence_n for_o a_o man_n to_o forsake_v father_n and_o mother_n and_o to_o leave_v they_o succourless_a who_o notwithstanding_o aught_o by_o god_n commandment_n to_o be_v honour_v than_o it_o be_v for_o he_o to_o do_v the_o like_a towards_o his_o lawful_a marry_a wife_n wherefore_o let_v they_o look_v well_o what_o they_o do_v that_o be_v ready_a for_o light_n and_o small_a cause_n to_o separate_v man_n and_o wife_n see_v that_o christ_n himself_o say_v mat._n 19_o 9_o that_o whosoever_o be_v separate_v from_o his_o wife_n save_v for_o whoredom_n and_o marry_v another_o commit_v adultery_n this_o be_v a_o thing_n worthy_a to_o be_v 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16._o 20._o 21._o psal._n 127._o 3._o see_v more_o of_o this_o point_n in_o the_o use_n and_o necessity_n of_o catechise_n the_o second_o point_n deut._n 6._o 10._o exed_a 12._o 26._o &_o 13._o 14._o the_o proper_a duty_n of_o good_a parent_n to_o their_o child_n be_v to_o 〈◊〉_d they_o sober_o to_o keep_v they_o vender_n obedience_n and_o to_o teach_v they_o good_a manner_n prou._n 23._o 13._o &_o 19_o 18._o &_o 19_o 15._o 17._o &_o 22._o 15._o &_o 13._o 24._o 1._o sam._n 2._o 12._o &_o 3._o 12._o 13._o 14._o 1._o kin._n 1._o 5._o 6._o 2._o kin._n 2._o 23._o 24_o how_o child_n shall_v be_v bring_v up_o hold_v thy_o child_n in_o awe_n and_o they_o shall_v have_v thou_o in_o reverence_n prou._n 30._o 25._o and_o 6._o 0_o 7._o mat._n 6._o 19_o shall_fw-mi 127._o 3._o lat_fw-la 12._o 33._o reason_n gen._n 5._o 3._o prou._n 18._o 21._o 1._o sam._n 9_o 2._o etc._n etc._n and._n 16._o 11._o psal._n 78._o 70._o 71._o 1._o kin._n 19_o 19_o amos_n 1._o 2._o good_a manner_n in_o speech_n good_a 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this_o life_n to_o counsel_v or_o to_o provide_v they_o fit_a and_o religious_a marriage_n 2._o cor._n 12._o 14._o gen._n 4._o 2._o 3._o 4._o ruth_n 3._o 1._o when_o parent_n do_v abuse_v their_o authority_n parent_n must_v not_o match_v their_o child_n only_o for_o carnal_a respect_n when_o parent_n do_v marry_v their_o daughter_n to_o man_n of_o understanding_n they_o shall_v perform_v a_o weighty_a work_n colos._n 3._o 21._o parent_n ought_v to_o deal_v sincere_o in_o the_o choice_n for_o their_o child_n in_o provision_n of_o match_n for_o their_o child_n parent_n ought_v to_o begin_v with_o prayer_n the_o three_o point_n example_n do_v much_o more_o persuade_v then_o word_n 〈◊〉_d must_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d not_o by_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d as_o the_o father_n begin_v so_o it_o be_v like_o the_o son_n will_v proceed_v gal._n 6._o 7._o mat._n 18._o 7._o 1._o cor._n 15._o 33._o the_o last_o point_n gen._n 3._o 19_o ezech._n 16._o 49._o prou._n 12._o 11._o &_o 18._o 9_o 1._o tim._n 5._o 10._o 11._o 2._o thes._n 3._o 10._o 11._o idleness_n bring_v much_o evil_n mat._n 12._o 36._o to_o learn_v that_o science_n which_o they_o be_v most_o apt_a for_o objection_n answer_n pro._n 3._o 13._o 14._o 15._o why_o some_o man_n bring_v not_o up_o their_o child_n to_o any_o good_a perfection_n in_o learning_n luke_n 16._o 27._o prou._n 22._o 6._o 〈◊〉_d of_o the_o elder_a 〈◊〉_d be_v the_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d chron._n 21._o 3._o exod._n 13._o 1._o 2._o &_o 34._o 19_o 20._o num._n 3._o 13._o &_o 18._o 16._o deut._n 21._o 18._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 35._o 22._o 1._o chron._n 5._o 1._o 1._o eph_n 6._o 1._o 2._o 3._o colos._n 3._o 20._o 20._o levit._n 19_o 3._o num._n 12._o 14._o 14._o pro._n 15._o 5._o 1._o tim._n 5._o 4._o mat._n 15._o 4._o 5._o 6_o gen._n 47._o 12._o father_n and_o mother_n be_v to_o their_o child_n in_o god_n stead_n exod._n 20._o 12._o deut._n 5._o 15._o by_o honour_n be_v mean_v all_o kind_n of_o duty_n which_o child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n 〈◊〉_d 23._o 39_o mat._n 23._o 9_o 1._o king_n 2._o 19_o 1._o king_n 2._o 20._o joh._n 849._o 〈◊〉_d 9_o 22._o the_o honour_n due_a to_o parent_n child_n duty_n be_v from_o their_o beginning_n to_o their_o end_n to_o be_v subject_a obedient_a and_o helpful_a to_o their_o parent_n mat._n 15._o 4._o 5._o 6_o exod._n 21._o 15._o 17._o levit._n 20._o 9_o pro._n 20._o 20._o &_o 30._o 17._o deut._n 〈◊〉_d 16._o what_o child_n do_v to_o their_o parent_n they_o do_v to_o god_n so_o that_o they_o may_v not_o purloin_v or_o diminish_v any_o of_o their_o substance_n pro._n 28._o 24._o mat._n 7._o 12._o mat._n 7._o 2._o 1._o sam._n 20._o 28._o &c_n &c_n &_o 22._o 17._o dan._n 3._o 18._o act._n 4._o 19_o mat._n 23._o 9_o when_o a_o woman_n lose_v her_o honesty_n then_o have_v she_o lose_v her_o chiese_n treasure_n gen._n 34._o 12._o child_n may_v not_o marry_v without_o the_o consent_n &_o agreement_n of_o their_o 〈◊〉_d so_o that_o a_o unlawful_a promise_n make_v by_o the_o child_n may_v lawful_o be_v break_v it_o be_v a_o sweet_a 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brethren_n revile_v word_n and_o unreasonable_a 〈◊〉_d do_v much_o more_o hurt_n to_o servant_n then_o good_a 〈◊〉_d 16._o 17._o exod._n 20._o 10._o 〈◊〉_d 5._o 14._o 1._o tim._n 5._o 8._o servant_n do_v rather_o imitate_v the_o work_n they_o see_v their_o master_n do_v than_o the_o word_n which_o they_o hear_v they_o speak_v luke_n 7._o 8._o ephes._n 6._o 9_o the_o covetous_a wan_a in_o gain_v riches_n lose_v himself_o psal._n 39_o 6._o that_o which_o thou_o can_v do_v convenient_o thyself_o commit_v it_o not_o to_o another_o master_n ought_v to_o make_v good_a choice_n of_o their_o servant_n gen._n 30_o 26._o 27._o etc._n etc._n and_o 29._o 2._o 3._o 4._o 5_o 6._o 23._o 23._o isaiah_n 6._o 6._o it_o be_v a_o rare_a thing_n for_o a_o master_n to_o bring_v his_o servant_n to_o be_v godly_a who_o be_v not_o godly_a himself_o revel_v 5._o 10._o act._n 16._o 31._o 32_o &_o 18._o 8._o 1._o cor._n 1._o 16._o ge_n 18._o 17._o 18._o phil._n 11._o 16._o gen._n 29._o josua_n 24._o 15._o psal._n 101._o 7._o act._n 10._o 2._o they_o must_v keep_v no_o idle_a profane_a superstitious_a nor_o disorder_a 〈◊〉_d in_o their_o house_n ephcs._n 6._o 4._o master_n ought_v to_o have_v a_o tender_a care_n of_o their_o servant_n in_o their_o sickness_n mat._n 8._o 5._o 6._o luk._n 7._o 1._o the_o wife_n behaviour_n with_o servant_n the_o master_n must_v correct_v his_o servant_n and_o the_o mistress_n her_o maid_n eph_n 6.5.6.7.8_o col._n 3.22.23.24_o tit._n 2.9.10_o 1_o pet._n 2.18.19.20.21_o 1._o tim._n 6._o 1._o 2._o luk._n 17._o 7._o 8._o 9_o 1._o king_n 5._o 13._o the_o property_n of_o a_o good_a servant_n gen._n 29._o 18._o 19_o 20._o &_o 39_o 5._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 16._o 7._o 8._o 〈◊〉_d phil._n 10._o etc._n etc._n how_o far_o forth_o servant_n ought_v to_o obey_v their_o master_n mat._n 8_o 9_o and_o among_o servant_n to_o help_v and_o ease_v of_o one_o another_o necessary_a servant_n must_v to_o the_o uttermost_a of_o their_o power_n seek_v the_o commodity_n &_o benefit_n of_o their_o master_n mat._n 7._o 2._o
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