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A16763 A treatise of christian beneficence, and of that like christian thankefulnese which is due to the same The which, as they are duties of singular account with God, so are they of as necessarie vse to all christians, for the keeping of faith and a good conscience, as are fire and water for common vse and comfort to the naturall life of all men. Allen, Robert, fl. 1596-1612. 1600 (1600) STC 367; ESTC S112321 178,520 256

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and_o in_o good_a housewifry_n that_o they_o be_v first_o of_o all_o espouse_v to_o jesus_n christ_n their_o heavenly_a and_o spiritual_a bridegroom_n and_o so_o make_v fit_a for_o marriage_n may_v have_v in_o his_o due_a time_n husband_n of_o his_o most_o wise_a choice_n and_o appointment_n with_o who_o they_o may_v lead_v not_o a_o wanton_a and_o idle_a but_o a_o right_a christian_n godly_a and_o comfortable_a life_n marry_o thy_o daughter_n say_v a_o wise_a man_n and_o so_o shall_v thou_o perform_v a_o weighty_a matter_n but_o give_v thou_o she_o to_o a_o man_n of_o understanding_n ecclesiasticus_fw-la 7.25_o thus_o much_o for_o answer_v concern_v inordinate_a care_n for_o child_n objection_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o pretend_a unworthiness_n of_o those_o that_o stand_v in_o need_n to_o be_v relieve_v do_v now_o follow_v objection_n 1._o in_o regard_n of_o pretend_a unworthiness_n of_o those_o which_o stand_v in_o need_n to_o be_v relieve_v i_o think_v in_o my_o conscience_n say_v the_o covetous_a and_o unmerciful_a man_n that_o i_o shall_v do_v very_o ill_a to_o give_v to_o so_o many_o as_o be_v ready_a to_o ask_v of_o i_o for_o i_o shall_v maintain_v many_o poor_a folk_n in_o their_o idleness_n and_o to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n also_o idle_o etc._n etc._n which_o shall_v be_v hurtful_a to_o the_o commonwealth_n answer_n for_o the_o poor_a to_o live_v idle_o in_o a_o christian_n commonwealth_n and_o likewise_o for_o they_o to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n in_o idleness_n it_o be_v very_o a_o great_a yea_o a_o double_a sin_n and_o aught_o of_o conscience_n to_o be_v mislike_v and_o condemn_v of_o all_o see_v it_o be_v condemn_v of_o god_n himself_o he_o that_o will_v not_o work_v shall_v not_o eat_v as_o the_o lord_n by_o his_o holy_a apostle_n say_v 2._o thes_n 3.10_o and_o the_o civil_a magistrate_n shall_v fail_v great_o in_o his_o duty_n and_o so_o sin_n against_o god_n if_o he_o shall_v not_o by_o his_o authority_n provide_v against_o it_o 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