their_o passion_n grow_v to_o bitterness_n fierceness_n and_o unruliness_n but_o to_o cruelty_n they_o have_v passion_n without_o compassion_n and_o many_o time_n the_o rage_n be_v so_o great_a that_o the_o wife_n that_o be_v so_o much_o inferior_a to_o her_o husband_n in_o strength_n will_v not_o only_o give_v provoke_v speech_n but_o blow_v also_o she_o will_v fly_v at_o his_o head_n pluck_v he_o by_o the_o hair_n strike_v he_o on_o the_o face_n and_o throw_v any_o thing_n that_o she_o have_v in_o her_o hand_n at_o his_o head_n indeed_o here_o be_v a_o evidence_n of_o a_o choleric_a temper_n but_o certain_o all_o the_o anger_n of_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n that_o do_v not_o aim_n at_o the_o good_a of_o the_o party_n that_o he_o or_o she_o be_v angry_a with_o be_v sinful_a anger_n and_o be_v the_o effect_n of_o a_o furious_a disposition_n and_o thus_o i_o have_v show_v you_o as_o brief_a as_o i_o may_v the_o usual_a ground_n that_o occasion_n wrath_n and_o discord_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n ii_o i_o come_v now_o to_o show_v the_o evil_a of_o wrath_n and_o discord_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o these_o follow_a particular_n 1._o the_o gratify_v a_o angry_a passionate_a humour_n produce_v abundance_n of_o evil_a effect_n all_o other_o passion_n do_v but_o draw_v man_n and_o woman_n to_o evil_a but_o anger_n do_v precipitate_v they_o if_o any_o thing_n be_v the_o principle_n of_o evil_n it_o be_v a_o froward_a spirit_n which_o be_v the_o principle_n of_o anger_n and_o therefore_o let_v we_o consider_v the_o essect_v of_o frowardness_n and_o passion_n to_o see_v how_o much_o hurt_v it_o do_v to_o the_o soul_n of_o man_n and_o woman_n 1._o wâ—â—n_v a_o husband_n or_o wife_n be_v angry_a it_o do_v mighty_o blind_v the_o judgement_n of_o that_o party_n that_o be_v so_o and_o blind_a reason_n exceed_v much_o the_o hart_n of_o passion_n the_o fire_n of_o passion_n when_o it_o be_v kindle_v cause_v a_o great_a smoke_n to_o come_v up_o to_o the_o 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too_o fast_o forward_o and_o they_o who_o will_v not_o take_v time_n to_o consult_v of_o what_o they_o be_v about_o to_o do_v may_v have_v time_n to_o repent_v of_o what_o they_o have_v do_v and_o all_o this_o happen_v because_o the_o passion_n of_o anger_n cause_v a_o cessation_n of_o the_o exercise_n of_o reason_n other_o thing_n may_v dazzle_v the_o sight_n of_o reason_n but_o this_o make_v it_o stark_o blind_a and_o for_o a_o time_n make_v man_n and_o woman_n as_o it_o be_v distract_v and_o out_o of_o their_o wit_n anger_n have_v obtain_v the_o sovereignty_n over_o their_o mind_n take_v away_o all_o judgement_n counsel_n and_o reason_n and_o over-swayeth_a all_o by_o foolish_a affection_n and_o rage_a passion_n and_o by_o darken_v reason_n it_o be_v a_o kind_n of_o short_a madness_n save_v that_o here_o it_o be_v far_o worse_a in_o that_o the_o person_n that_o be_v possess_v with_o madness_n be_v necessary_o will_n he_o will_z he_o force_v to_o be_v subject_a to_o that_o fury_n but_o a_o sinful_a angry_a passion_n be_v enter_v into_o witting_o and_o willing_o madness_n be_v the_o evil_a of_o punishment_n but_o anger_n be_v the_o evil_a of_o sin_n madness_n as_o it_o be_v thrust_v reason_n from_o its_o imperial_a throne_n but_o anger_n abuse_v reason_n by_o force_v it_o with_o all_o violence_n to_o be_v a_o slave_n to_o passion_n so_o fit_a to_o execute_v those_o work_n of_o darkness_n in_o which_o rage_n employ_v it_o well_o then_o o_o husband_n or_o thou_o o_o wife_n see_v thy_o immoderate_a anger_n be_v a_o injury_n to_o humanity_n and_o a_o rebel_n against_o the_o government_n of_o reason_n that_o it_o be_v without_o reason_n and_o against_o reason_n remember_v then_o that_o thou_o be_v a_o man_n or_o woman_n and_o do_v thou_o scorn_v to_o subject_v thyself_o to_o such_o bestial_a fury_n o_o with_o how_o much_o attentive_a care_n shall_v st_z thou_o avoid_v anger_n and_o notwithstanding_o provocation_n offer_v thou_o do_v not_o disturb_v the_o quiet_a of_o 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torment_v everlasting_o rage_n and_o fury_n torture_v more_o than_o wrong_a or_o injury_n hereby_o man_n and_o woman_n prove_v burden_n to_o themselves_o and_o hence_o it_o be_v that_o a_o angry_a husband_n or_o wife_n cry_v out_o no_o one_o be_v so_o plague_v as_o i_o be_o i_o know_v no_o body_n so_o cross_v as_o i_o be_o because_o indeed_o they_o be_v plague_n to_o themselves_o and_o cross_n to_o themselves_o they_o have_v no_o quiet_a in_o their_o own_o spirit_n nothing_o without_o be_v quiet_a to_o they_o if_o we_o can_v look_v into_o the_o bofom_n of_o a_o angry_a person_n we_o shall_v find_v that_o there_o be_v no_o such_o discontent_a spirit_n as_o a_o angry_a spirit_n be_v such_o a_o one_o will_v fain_o have_v his_o or_o her_o own_o will_n but_o sail_v herein_o in_o spite_n of_o he_o or_o her_o heart_n there_o will_v be_v nothing_o but_o confusion_n and_o trouble_n in_o he_o or_o her_o spirit_n immoderate_a anger_n have_v prove_v a_o enemy_n to_o the_o body_n itself_o it_o inflame_v the_o blood_n stir_v up_o disease_n and_o breed_v such_o a_o bitter_a displeasedness_n in_o the_o mind_n as_o tend_v to_o consume_v the_o strength_n of_o nature_n and_o have_v cast_v many_o into_o acute_a and_o many_o into_o chronical_a sickness_n which_o have_v prove_v their_o death_n and_o how_o uncomfortable_a kind_n of_o death_n be_v this_o well_o then_o let_v the_o party_n that_o be_v most_o overcome_v by_o this_o passion_n say_v what_o good_a do_v i_o get_v by_o this_o passion_n what!_o have_v it_o not_o be_v better_o for_o i_o to_o have_v put_v up_o this_o wrong_n than_o endure_v such_o vexation_n to_o myself_o and_o be_v guilty_a of_o do_v my_o body_n so_o much_o prejudice_n as_o to_o cause_v i_o if_o i_o continue_v my_o
it_o may_v be_v thy_o husband_n in_o his_o haste_n do_v once_o unadvised_o speak_v something_o to_o thy_o dishonour_n but_o thou_o make_v it_o a_o frequent_a practice_n upon_o every_o slight_a occasion_n of_o thy_o disgust_n thy_o husband_n may_v have_v desist_v such_o a_o practice_n but_o thou_o continue_v it_o and_o in_o excuse_n of_o the_o continuance_n of_o thy_o sinful_a practice_n in_o reproach_v thy_o husband_n thou_o do_v upbraid_v he_o with_o that_o single_a act_n of_o speak_v something_o that_o be_v not_o honourable_a to_o thou_o which_o perhaps_o by_o thy_o untoward_a carriage_n thou_o may_v give_v he_o great_a provocation_n to_o do_v so_o that_o notwithstanding_o all_o that_o thou_o can_v plead_v for_o thyself_o thou_o be_v the_o alone_a cause_n of_o thy_o own_o anger_n and_o of_o all_o the_o strife_n that_o happen_v between_o thyself_o and_o husband_n 5._o that_o party_n be_v true_o guilty_a of_o sinful_a anger_n that_o take_v distaste_n at_o every_o frivolous_a matter_n or_o any_o thing_n do_v unadvised_o and_o through_o indiscretion_n which_o the_o party_n offend_v do_v acknowledge_v that_o do_v rage_n for_o a_o trifle_n or_o thing_n not_o worth_a take_v notice_n of_o that_o be_v not_o at_o all_o offensive_a to_o god_n but_o only_o not_o correspondent_a to_o he_o or_o her_o corrupt_a and_o imperious_a will_n that_o party_n that_o do_v this_o be_v the_o sole_a cause_n of_o all_o contention_n that_o do_v arise_v between_o they_o 6._o that_o party_n be_v guilty_a of_o sinful_a anger_n that_o when_o contention_n do_v arise_v at_o any_o time_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n that_o do_v first_o of_o all_o give_v rail_v revile_v filthy_a and_o reproachful_a language_n for_o no_o person_n anger_n can_v be_v lawful_a and_o holy_a that_o do_v not_o observe_v christian_a modesty_n in_o abstain_v from_o malicious_a and_o wicked_a speech_n and_o unjust_a and_o spiteful_a action_n in_o express_v his_o or_o her_o anger_n for_o such_o as_o justify_v themselves_o 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it_o be_v principal_o guilty_a of_o sinful_a anger_n and_o be_v principal_a causer_n of_o the_o difference_n that_o happen_v between_o they_o as_o husband_n and_o wife_n 8._o that_o person_n either_o husband_n or_o wife_n that_o after_o some_o heat_n and_o difference_n between_o they_o be_v most_o backward_o to_o the_o performance_n of_o family-worship_n and_o will_v order_v or_o set_v about_o any_o unnecessary_a business_n or_o lawful_a employment_n to_o interrupt_v it_o be_v guilty_a of_o sinful_a anger_n and_o the_o only_a occasion_n of_o difference_n between_o they_o for_o whatever_o a_o person_n have_v do_v that_o indispose_v he_o or_o she_o or_o make_v he_o or_o her_o averse_a to_o the_o service_n of_o god_n be_v sinful_a when_o the_o rage_n of_o one_o be_v grow_v so_o high_a as_o not_o to_o pray_v with_o the_o other_o or_o join_v in_o sacrament_n together_o at_o least_o not_o willing_o or_o with_o complacency_n but_o after_o have_v join_v in_o prayer_n will_v quarrel_v at_o the_o matter_n of_o prayer_n carp_n at_o expression_n use_v in_o prayer_n and_o censure_v the_o party_n pray_v guilty_a of_o hypocrisy_n or_o if_o the_o party_n pray_v vent_n his_o own_o passion_n in_o prayer_n that_o party_n that_o be_v guilty_a in_o any_o of_o these_o respect_n be_v guilty_a of_o sinful_a and_o causeless_a anger_n and_o be_v the_o only_a cause_n of_o the_o difference_n that_o happen_v between_o they_o 9_o that_o person_n be_v the_o most_o faulty_a person_n and_o most_o guilty_a to_o sinful_a anger_n which_o be_v not_o willing_a to_o be_v reconcile_v again_o when_o once_o displease_v but_o will_v retain_v anger_n a_o great_a while_n that_o person_n do_v manifest_v much_o stoutness_n and_o proudness_n of_o spirit_n when_o vain_a trifle_n have_v stir_v up_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n to_o wrath_n his_o or_o her_o perseverance_n in_o it_o do_v evidence_n that_o it_o do_v seem_v to_o begin_v without_o a_o cause_n and_o so_o against_o all_o reason_n the_o injustice_n of_o he_o or_o her_o anger_n make_v he_o or_o she_o to_o persist_v in_o it_o with_o the_o great_a obstinacy_n and_o therefore_o thou_o do_v retain_v it_o yea_o increase_v it_o because_o thou_o may_v not_o seem_v to_o other_o to_o be_v angry_a without_o a_o cause_n and_o that_o the_o greatness_n of_o thy_o anger_n may_v make_v other_o believe_v that_o it_o can_v not_o choose_v but_o arise_v from_o a_o weighty_a occasion_n and_o just_a cause_n and_o so_o thou_o do_v choose_v rather_o to_o seem_v just_a than_o be_v just_a but_o the_o continuance_n of_o anger_n must_v needs_o be_v sinful_a because_o the_o apostle_n injunction_n be_v that_o we_o must_v not_o let_v the_o sun_n go_v down_o upon_o our_o wrath_n ephes_n 4.26_o that_o person_n that_o can_v lie_v down_o and_o sleep_v and_o awake_v in_o a_o angry_a fit_n be_v very_o faulty_a in_o be_v angry_a and_o be_v the_o principal_a cause_n of_o the_o difference_n that_o be_v continue_v between_o he_o and_o his_o wife_n or_o she_o and_o her_o husband_n that_o party_n either_o husband_n or_o wife_n in_o who_o bosom_n anger_n be_v permit_v to_o rest_n be_v guilty_a of_o the_o great_a folly_n eccles_n 7.9_o that_o woman_n that_o be_v in_o a_o burn_a feverish_a fit_n of_o anger_n for_o a_o long_a time_n be_v certain_o sinful_o angry_a because_o there_o be_v a_o great_a evil_n in_o this_o abide_n of_o anger_n indeed_o the_o long_a anger_n continue_v the_o more_o it_o grow_v and_o the_o long_a time_n anger_n be_v draw_v out_o the_o great_a distance_n thou_o will_v be_v at_o from_o thy_o husband_n with_o who_o thou_o be_v angry_a and_o thou_o be_v one_o that_o delight_v to_o drink_v of_o no_o other_o water_n but_o of_o massah_n meribah_n of_o the_o water_n of_o strife_n and_o anger_n long_o retain_v be_v in_o danger_n of_o receive_v some_o sourness_n of_o malice_n from_o the_o dregs_o of_o thy_o corruption_n the_o continuance_n of_o this_o inhuman_a fury_n have_v dissolve_v even_o the_o most_o sacred_a friendship_n upon_o very_o 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bring_v forth_o the_o deed_n and_o work_n of_o the_o flesh_n be_v the_o constant_a duty_n of_o believer_n indwelling_a sin_n be_v the_o same_o which_o i_o mean_v by_o a_o fleshly_a principle_n now_o the_o more_o powerful_a thy_o corruption_n be_v the_o more_o violent_a will_v thy_o passion_n be_v which_o be_v the_o offspring_n of_o thy_o inbred_a corruption_n thou_o can_v not_o while_o in_o the_o body_n utter_o destroy_v indwelling_a sin_n that_o it_o shall_v have_v no_o more_o hold_v at_o all_o no_o residence_n in_o thy_o heart_n but_o this_o thou_o must_v aim_v at_o and_o earnest_o desire_v thou_o must_v with_o thy_o heart_n real_o desire_v that_o indwelling_a sin_n shall_v leave_v neither_o root_n or_o fruit_n in_o thy_o heart_n or_o life_n therefore_o the_o mortification_n that_o i_o press_v thou_o to_o set_v upon_o be_v a_o habitual_a weaken_n of_o indwelling_a
how_o terrible_a be_v the_o withdrawment_n of_o god_n when_o he_o withdraw_v in_o high_a displeasure_n and_o thou_o know_v not_o whether_o he_o will_v ever_o return_v again_o in_o mercy_n or_o not_o and_o it_o be_v say_v in_o 2_o sam._n 22.27_o and_o with_o the_o froward_a thou_o will_v show_v thyself_o unsavoury_a the_o hebrew_n have_v it_o with_o the_o perverse_a thou_o behave_v thyself_o as_o one_o turn_v about_o and_o that_o the_o very_a thought_n of_o god_n will_v be_v unsavoury_a and_o unpleasant_a thought_n to_o they_o angry_a froward_a person_n shall_v not_o have_v the_o least_o discovery_n or_o sense_n of_o god_n love_n while_o they_o be_v in_o their_o fit_n nor_o much_o at_o other_o time_n because_o a_o angry_a froward_a frame_n of_o spirit_n be_v a_o abomination_n to_o the_o lord_n prov._n 3.32_o &_o chap._n 8.13_o &_o 11.20_o '_o as_o frowardness_n cause_v strife_n between_o the_o near_a relation_n so_o it_o make_v contention_n between_o god_n and_o the_o soul_n the_o angry_a froward_a person_n oppose_v god_n and_o god_n oppose_v that_o person_n so_o that_o hence_o it_o appear_v that_o thou_o have_v abundant_a cause_n and_o reason_n to_o use_v all_o possible_a mean_n to_o restrain_v and_o suppress_v thy_o angry_a passion_n because_o they_o hinder_v thou_o from_o enjoy_v the_o divine_a presence_n and_o the_o hlessed_a discovery_n of_o divine_a favour_n 2._o thou_o shall_v take_v great_a care_n to_o restrain_v and_o suppress_v thy_o angry_a passion_n and_o hasty_a frowardness_n of_o spirit_n because_o as_o they_o prevail_v thy_o act_n be_v as_o contrary_a to_o true_a grace_n as_o any_o thing_n almost_o that_o thou_o can_v think_v of_o and_o true_o there_o may_v be_v a_o great_a deal_n of_o suspicion_n whether_o thou_o have_v true_a grace_n or_o no._n i_o conceive_v there_o may_v be_v some_o analogy_n between_o a_o nazarite_n and_o a_o gracious_a soul_n it_o be_v say_v in_o numb_a 6.2_o that_o the_o nazarite_n be_v to_o separate_v themselves_o unto_o the_o lord_n they_o be_v to_o be_v separate_v from_o the_o ordinary_a course_n of_o that_o they_o may_v more_o free_o and_o whole_o dedicate_v themselves_o to_o the_o service_n of_o god_n and_o to_o a_o more_o strict_a and_o pure_a course_n of_o serve_v god_n than_o other_o man_n use_v and_o indeed_o god_n confine_v they_o to_o strict_a rule_n they_o be_v to_o abstain_v from_o any_o thing_n that_o do_v belong_v to_o the_o vine_n hereby_o also_o signify_v a_o full_a and_o perfect_a renounce_v all_o worldly_a pleasure_n or_o any_o thing_n tend_v thoreunto_o intimate_v that_o they_o be_v not_o only_o to_o abstain_v from_o all_o evil_a but_o all_o appearance_n of_o evil_a 1_o thes_n 5.22_o all_o the_o outward_a ceremony_n enjoin_v they_o be_v but_o type_n of_o inward_a holiness_n i_o take_v notice_n of_o one_o thing_n enjoin_v they_o which_o be_v most_o especial_o to_o my_o purpose_n which_o be_v that_o they_o shall_v drink_v no_o vinegar_n of_o wine_n or_o any_o other_o strong_a liquor_n that_o be_v to_o signify_v that_o they_o must_v not_o be_v of_o vinegar_n spirit_n of_o sour_a and_o eager_a spirit_n but_o of_o of_o quiet_a spirit_n of_o love_v and_o meek_a spirit_n now_o all_o the_o saint_n of_o god_n they_o be_v nazarites_n as_o christ_n be_v a_o nazarite_n so_o all_o that_o be_v christ_n be_v nazarite_n separate_v from_o other_o to_o be_v the_o lord_n people_n the_o lord_n separate_v the_o godly_a man_n for_o himself_o as_o in_o psal_n 4.3_o but_o know_v that_o the_o lord_n have_v set_v apart_o he_o that_o be_v godly_a for_o himself_o and_o they_o must_v not_o be_v of_o harsh_a and_o hot_a spirit_n but_o shall_v be_v adorn_v with_o this_o lovely_a amiable_a grace_n of_o meekness_n so_o that_o a_o hasty_a froward_a and_o passionate_a spirit_n be_v direct_o opposite_a to_o a_o meek_a patient_a and_o quieâ—_n spirit_n and_o if_o there_o be_v any_o grace_n in_o a_o furious_a person_n it_o be_v rake_v up_o under_o a_o great_a deal_n of_o ash_n of_o corruption_n that_o it_o be_v not_o easy_o discern_v now_o the_o opposition_n that_o anger_n and_o frowardness_n bear_v to_o grace_n appear_v 1._o if_o thou_o do_v consider_v what_o it_o be_v that_o grace_n do_v in_o the_o heart_n when_o it_o first_o come_v the_o first_o thing_n be_v to_o show_v unto_o the_o soul_n it_o be_v own_o vileness_n it_o be_v own_o wretchedness_n and_o baseness_n by_o sin_n and_o the_o danger_n that_o it_o be_v in_o through_o sin_n now_o a_o froward_a passionate_a heart_n be_v very_o contrary_a to_o the_o sight_n of_o its_o own_o baseness_n and_o vileness_n for_o thou_o can_v not_o see_v thyself_o to_o be_v a_o base_a vile_a sinful_a worm_n and_o yet_o bear_v nothing_o that_o be_v against_o thou_o but_o present_o thy_o heart_n be_v in_o a_o flame_n if_o any_o thing_n do_v cross_v thou_o for_o thou_o can_v not_o be_v so_o angry_a if_o thou_o do_v not_o think_v thyself_o too_o great_a and_o too_o good_a to_o be_v cross_v 2._o when_o grace_n come_v into_o the_o heart_n it_o bring_v the_o heart_n into_o subjection_n unto_o god_n and_o unto_o another_o rule_n than_o it_o walk_v by_o before_o that_o be_v a_o principal_a work_n of_o grace_n to_o subdue_v the_o heart_n of_o a_o sinner_n unto_o god_n the_o heart_n of_o sinner_n be_v natural_o stout_a and_o rebellious_a against_o god_n and_o go_v on_o in_o a_o stubborn_a way_n till_o grace_n come_v and_o lay_v they_o under_o but_o a_o froward_a and_o passionate_a heart_n will_v be_v indeed_o above_o god_n and_o any_o of_o his_o rule_n it_o can_v keep_v itself_o under_o and_o lie_v in_o subjection_n unto_o rule_n and_o hence_o be_v the_o reason_n that_o froward_a and_o passionate_a people_n use_v to_o have_v such_o expression_n i_o will_v nay_o but_o i_o will_v and_o i_o care_v not_o their_o heart_n be_v subdue_v to_o the_o authority_n of_o god_n but_o the_o heart_n that_o be_v subdue_v to_o the_o lord_n bring_v it_o but_o a_o scripture_n and_o it_o yield_v present_o but_o a_o froward_a spirit_n be_v not_o so_o how_o contrary_a then_o be_v frowardness_n to_o grace_n i_o may_v instance_n in_o many_o other_o particular_n but_o i_o shall_v be_v too_o large_a then_o o_o then_o be_v passion_n and_o frowardness_n so_o opposite_a to_o grace_n do_v it_o either_o hinder_v the_o work_n of_o grace_n in_o the_o heart_n or_o at_o least_o weaken_v yea_o smother_v grace_n that_o it_o be_v almost_o extinguish_v though_o not_o total_o yet_o so_o as_o it_o be_v not_o easy_o discernible_a do_v thou_o not_o then_o see_v great_a reason_n to_o use_v all_o mean_n to_o mortify_v thy_o passion_n 3._o thou_o shall_v use_v thy_o utmost_a endeavour_n to_o mortify_v thy_o passion_n and_o live_v in_o peace_n with_o thy_o husband_n or_o thy_o wife_n because_o thou_o do_v manifest_v a_o true_o noble_a and_o generous_a spirit_n if_o thou_o will_v pass_v by_o offence_n without_o manifest_v anger_n and_o frowardness_n of_o spirit_n to_o this_o effect_n speak_v solomon_n prov._n 19.11_o it_o be_v the_o glory_n of_o a_o man_n to_o pass_v by_o a_o transgression_n that_o be_v not_o to_o manifest_v a_o angry_a displeasure_n for_o a_o offence_n that_o another_o do_v he_o and_o so_o we_o say_v when_o we_o restrain_v our_o anger_n against_o another_o for_o any_o thing_n do_v amiss_o i_o will_v pass_v you_o by_o for_o this_o time_n i_o will_v not_o take_v any_o severe_a notice_n of_o what_o you_o have_v do_v o_o it_o be_v a_o honourable_a thing_n to_o bridle_v anger_n when_o a_o person_n be_v offend_v to_o wink_v at_o small_a infirmity_n and_o remit_v great_a wrong_n generous_n spirit_n be_v as_o it_o be_v impenetrable_a by_o offence_n yea_o a_o spirit_n true_o elevate_v a_o generous_a and_o noble_a soul_n be_v always_o quiet_a moderate_a and_o grave_n never_o suffer_v itself_o to_o be_v transport_v with_o the_o violent_a motion_n of_o choler_n certain_o a_o meek_a person_n have_v a_o magnanimous_a and_o heroic_a spirit_n see_v what_o the_o wise_a man_n say_v in_o prov._n 16.32_o he_o that_o be_v slow_a to_o anger_n be_v better_a than_o the_o mighty_a and_o he_o that_o rule_v his_o spirit_n than_o he_o that_o take_v a_o city_n he_o that_o overcome_v himself_o be_v strong_a than_o one_o that_o overcome_v a_o city_n now_o it_o be_v a_o glorious_a thing_n for_o a_o soldier_n to_o overcome_v a_o city_n but_o one_o that_o can_v overcome_v his_o own_o passion_n be_v more_o valiant_a and_o have_v a_o more_o excellent_a spirit_n than_o one_o that_o overcome_v a_o great_a city_n and_o so_o some_o creature_n that_o be_v more_o heroical_a be_v more_o meek_a and_o gentle_a than_o other_o be_v the_o lion_n be_v of_o a_o more_o generous_a spirit_n than_o the_o wolf_n be_v the_o more_o honourable_a any_o one_o be_v the_o more_o he_o be_v of_o a_o peaceable_a disposition_n and_o his_o anger_n be_v
in_o a_o humble_a manner_n and_o superior_n ought_v to_o act_v as_o man_n accountable_a to_o a_o high_a power_n and_o those_o which_o be_v above_o other_o on_o earth_n be_v to_o be_v inform_v when_o they_o offend_v god_n in_o heaven_n he_o which_o be_v superior_a in_o one_o respect_n be_v inferior_a in_o another_o the_o husband_n which_o have_v dominion_n over_o his_o wife_n be_v under_o god_n dominion_n though_o he_o be_v above_o his_o wife_n yet_o he_o be_v not_o above_o god_n law_n god_n law_n must_v oblige_v the_o husband_n as_o well_o as_o the_o wife_n and_o when_o the_o husband_n break_v god_n law_n he_o may_v be_v lawful_o tell_v of_o it_o by_o his_o wife_n in_o a_o regular_a and_o humble_a manner_n so_o that_o she_o do_v always_o manifest_a a_o reverence_n to_o the_o superiority_n god_n have_v place_v in_o her_o husband_n but_o many_o wife_n think_v that_o they_o be_v not_o at_o all_o inferior_a to_o their_o husband_n they_o conclude_v that_o they_o be_v equal_a with_o they_o 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their_o husband_n 1._o i_o shall_v endeavour_v to_o convince_v they_o that_o their_o husband_n have_v a_o right_n of_o superiority_n over_o they_o 2._o i_o shall_v give_v some_o caution_n to_o wife_n to_o prevent_v their_o insult_a over_o their_o husband_n under_o a_o pretence_n of_o reprove_v their_o fault_n that_o they_o may_v not_o presume_v to_o exercise_v any_o kind_n of_o authority_n over_o they_o that_o god_n require_v they_o to_o be_v subject_a unto_o and_o therein_o acquaint_v they_o with_o the_o proper_a method_n god_n allow_v they_o to_o take_v in_o admonish_v their_o husband_n 3._o i_o shall_v direct_v they_o both_o how_o to_o carry_v themselves_o to_o those_o that_o be_v subordinate_a to_o they_o both_o for_o their_o proper_a carriage_n to_o their_o inferior_n in_o their_o family_n will_v be_v a_o special_a help_n to_o preserve_v peace_n between_o they_o 1._o to_o prove_v the_o husband_n right_a of_o superiority_n over_o the_o wife_n 1._o consider_v that_o the_o title_n give_v the_o husband_n in_o scripture_n do_v prove_v his_o superiority_n and_o the_o wife_n subjection_n the_o husband_n be_v call_v the_o wife_n lord_n 1_o pet._n 3.5_o 6._o be_v in_o subjection_n to_o their_o own_o husband_n even_o as_o sarah_n obey_v abraham_n call_v he_o lord_n so_o in_o gen._n 18.12_o he_o be_v her_o master_n est_z 1.17_o 22._o her_o head_n 1_o cor._n 11.3_o her_o guide_n prov._n 2.17_o she_o forsake_v the_o guide_n of_o her_o youth_n which_o be_v mean_v of_o her_o husband_n who_o she_o marry_v in_o her_o youth_n and_o who_o by_o marriage_n she_o receive_v as_o the_o guide_n of_o her_o youth_n under_o god_n who_o be_v to_o be_v her_o guide_n both_o in_o youth_n and_o old_a age_n and_o by_o forsake_v the_o government_n of_o her_o husband_n in_o his_o command_n direction_n and_o counsel_n she_o forget_v the_o covenant_n of_o god_n make_v in_o marriage_n all_o these_o expression_n do_v evince_v the_o husband_n superiority_n and_o the_o wife_n subordination_n &_o 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