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to_o two_o blessing_n gen._n 3._o 16._o gen._n 1._o 28._o john_n 16._o 21._o 1._o timo._n 2._o 15._o 15._o 15._o for_o those_o pain_n will_v try_v she_o say_v note_n gen_n 2._o 22._o a_o note_n of_o adam_n sleep_n gen._n 2._o 21._o 1._o cor._n 15._o 22._o &_o 45._o ephes._n 5_o 14._o john_n 14._o 6._o a_o note_n of_o adam_n sleep_n gen._n 27._o 3._o a_o note_n of_o adam_n rib_n gen._n 2._o 22._o ephe._n 5._o 23._o the_o father_n observation_n pro._n 14._o 14._o thus_o adam_n do_v gen._n 2._o gen._n 29._o 20._o three_o cause_n of_o marriage_n gen._n 1._o 27._o gen._n 1._o 28._o why_o marriage_n be_v call_v matrimony_n without_o marriage_n all_o thing_n shall_v be_v vain_a this_o be_v signify_v in_o deut._n 23._o 1._o prou._n 5._o 18._o mala._n 2._o 18._o the_o second_o cause_n 1._o cor._n 7._o 2._o papist_n stew_n 2._o sam._n 16._o 22._o mal._n 2._o 15._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 20._o deut._n 17._o 17._o 1._o tim._n 3._o 2._o gen._n 4._o 23._o math._n 9_o 5._o prou._n 2._o 16._o gen._n 36._o 24._o fornicator_n like_o the_o devil_n mat._n 13._o 25._o psal._n 128._o 4._o gen._n 1._o 28._o bastard_n jud._n 11._o 1._o they_o may_v be_v save_v but_o they_o have_v the_o mark_n of_o a_o curse_n levit._fw-la 20._o 10._o deut._n 22._o 22._o marry_a fornicator_n the_o marriage_n of_o minister_n 1._o cor._n 7._o 9_o hebr._n 13_o 4._o 1._o corin._n 7._o 1._o tim._n 3._o 2._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 6._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 17._o gen._n 2._o 1â—_n math._n 19_o 11._o 1._o tim._n 4._o 3._o 〈◊〉_d 3._o 8._o 8._o 8._o be_v not_o thou_o vain_a and_o these_o word_n will_v not_o be_v offensive_a hebr._n 13._o 4._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 3._o levit._fw-la 12._o 4._o 5._o etc._n etc._n 1._o cor._n 7._o 5._o the_o three_o cause_n gen._n 2._o eccl._n 4._o 10._o pro._n 19_o 7._o pro._n 27._o 10._o 1._o sam._n 14._o 7._o a_o wife_n be_v the_o poor_a man_n riches_n prou._n 21._o 9_o 1._o sam._n 16._o 14._o 3._o the_o choice_n deut._n 1._o 23._o 24._o two_o spy_n for_o a_o wife_n zach._n 5._o 7._o eccle._n 7._o 30._o 1._o king_n 3._o 9_o gen._n 24._o 12._o godly_a and_o fit_a ephes._n 5._o 29._o cant._n 6._o 8._o psal._n 45._o 9_o 1._o sam._n 16._o 7._o 1._o cor._n 13._o 13._o a_o sit_v wise._n the_o ceremony_n be_v not_o approve_v but_o the_o invention_n declare_v 1._o sam._n 2._o 35._o the_o say_n of_o a_o godly_a man_n gen._n 2._o 18._o 2._o cor._n 6._o 14._o gen._n 2._o 22._o phil._n 4._o 3._o ezek._n 16._o 44._o five_o rule_n in_o the_o choice_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n 1._o psal._n 112._o 6_o pro._n 107._o mar._n 14._o 9_o luc._n 6._o 26._o joh._n 15._o 19_o joh._n 8._o 46._o luk._n 1_o 6._o 2._o eccl._n 8._o 7._o act._n 3._o 2._o gen._n 24._o 65._o 〈◊〉_d to_o adam_n first_o and_o to_o moses_n after_o maid_n must_v speak_v like_o a_o echo_n math._n 12._o 34._o math._n 12._o 36._o prou._n 18._o 7._o prou._n 17._o 23._o eccl._n 12._o 10._o pro._n 31._o 26._o prou._n 19_o 15._o num._n 19_o 15._o 4._o luk._n 16._o 19_o mar._n 1._o 6._o 2._o king_n 1._o 8_o 1._o thess._n 5._o 22._o rom._n 12._o 2._o 5._o 1._o king_n 12._o 8._o prou._n 1._o 11._o psal._n 6._o 8._o gen._n 24._o 50._o parent_n consent_n in_o marriage_n exod._n 20._o gen._n 2._o 22._o exod._n 22._o 〈◊〉_d num._n 30._o 6._o deut_n 7._o 3._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 38._o job._n 1._o 3_o &_o 10._o gen._n 29._o 18._o 1._o sam._n 18._o 17._o gen._n 28._o 6._o gen._n 34._o 9_o gen._n 24._o 51._o 52._o 53._o jud._n 14._o 2._o marriage_n with_o papist_n etc._n etc._n gen._n 24._o 3._o exo._n 34._o 16._o gen._n 28._o 1._o mal._n 2._o 11._o ezra_n 9_o 12_o gen._n 34._o 14._o the_o similitude_n hold_v in_o their_o say_n and_o not_o in_o their_o meaning_n for_o they_o speak_v true_o but_o they_o mean_v false_o mat._n 19_o 6._o mar._n 10._o 9_o 2._o john_n 10._o math._n 4._o 3._o luk._n 11._o 4._o 1._o king_n 11._o 1._o etc._n etc._n 1._o cor._n 7._o 39_o gen._n 3._o 4._o gen._n 6._o 2._o math._n 22._o 11._o wedding_n garment_n note_n luk._n 14._o 20._o job._n 2._o 9_o &_o 3._o 1._o jud._n 14._o 2._o chro._n 21._o 6._o 2._o sam._n 6._o 16._o luk._n 17._o 32._o luk._n 14._o 20._o the_o duty_n of_o marriage_n the_o man_n and_o wife_n like_o cock_n and_o dam._n marriage_n compound_v of_o two_o love_n gen._n 3._o 6._o jud._n 16._o 17._o 2._o sam._n 13._o 15._o math._n 10._o 37._o gen._n 30._o 16._o mâ—â—h_o 27._o 19_o math._n 22._o 11._o best_a policy_n in_o marriage_n to_o begin_v well_o they_o must_v learn_v one_o another_o nature_n 1_o cor._n 9_o 20_o ephe._n 4._o 25._o 1._o cor._n 11._o 19_o 1._o sam_n 20._o 20._o a_o sweet_a example_n teach_v how_o coplâ—â—_n shall_v never_o fall_v out_o gâ—â—_n 1â—_n 6._o ephe._n 5._o 23._o the_o husband_n first_o duty_n understand_v in_o his_o marriage_n only_o ephe._n 5._o 25._o 1._o cor._n 11._o 7._o ephe._n 5._o 28._o levit._fw-la 19_o 18._o 1._o sam._n 1._o 8._o mar._n 10._o 7._o gen._n 12._o 1._o the_o husband_n second_o duty_n man_n and_o wise_n be_v two_o partner_n mar._n 10._o 8._o rom._n 8._o 32._o the_o husband_n last_o duty_n 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o husband_n must_v 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