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adulterous_a wife_n therefore_o due_o divorce_v be_v thus_o dead_a in_o law_n as_o to_o her_o husband_n the_o husband_n stand_v now_o as_o free_a as_o if_o he_o have_v never_o marry_v so_o as_o i_o know_v not_o why_o the_o apostle_n shall_v not_o as_o well_o speak_v to_o he_o as_o to_o any_o other_o when_o he_o say_v nevertheless_o to_o avoid_v fornication_n let_v every_o man_n have_v his_o own_o wife_n 1_o cor._n 7._o 2._o neither_o be_v it_o otherwise_o in_o the_o case_n of_o a_o chaste_a wife_n after_o her_o separation_n from_o a_o adulterous_a husband_n mar._n 10._o 12._o in_o these_o right_n god_n make_v no_o difference_n of_o sex_n both_o may_v lawful_o claim_v the_o same_o immunity_n which_o certain_o shall_v they_o be_v deny_v to_o either_o must_v needs_o draw_v on_o very_o great_a inconvenience_n for_o in_o how_o hard_o a_o condition_n shall_v the_o innocent_a party_n be_v hereupon_o leave_v either_o the_o husband_n or_o wife_n must_v be_v force_v to_o live_v with_o a_o 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