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A25383 Apospasmatia sacra, or, A collection of posthumous and orphan lectures delivered at St. Pauls and St. Giles his church / by the Right Honourable and Reverend Father in God, Lancelot Andrews ... Andrewes, Lancelot, 1555-1626. 1657 (1657) Wing A3125; ESTC R2104 798,302 742

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great regard in times past not to abuse anothers Concubine 2 Sam 3. 8. In several there are in them two other Duties In the man understanding and wise government there is I say in the husband direction and there must be in the woman subjection to be subject to his direction And here I am to admonish women of seven things to make them to honor their husbands First they must consider that Adam was formed first and then Eve 1 Tim. 2. 13. Secondly Man was not created for the Womans sake but Woman for the Mans sake 1 Cor. 11. 9. Besides he was wounded that she might be made She was taken out of him She was brought unto him She was made to help him She received her name of his name his name was Ish her name Ishah She had in her name a letter of five in number lesse than man to shew she was but a diminutive All these doe imply womans subjection There are two other Duties several of the man and wife The Man must protect his Wife in danger chap. 20. 11. Providing is required of the man to provide for his houshold and family 1 Tim. 5. 8. And the woman is to preserve and enlarge that her husband hath provided the domesticall duty of preserving the house and houshold pertaineth to her as it is in Proverbs 31. 21. She should be of the property of the Snail still at home but a foolish Woman is troublesome Proverbs 9. 13. The house in holy Scripture is taken for the Children whom she must bear and bring up in the fear of God The Wife through bearing of Children shall be saved saith Paul 1 Tim. 2. 15. The house is taken for the Servants whom we must govern well And the house is taken for the implements which she must order and enlarge She must be not as Ivie which cleavth to the tree and is not profitable though green but as the fruitfull Vine on the sides of thine house she shall bear Children like to the Olive plants round about thy table Psalme 128. 3. 3. No divorce after marriage And this cleaving of each to other implyeth a perpetuity of this bond out of the 2 of Kings 18. 6. Man shall leave father and mother to cleave to his wife And in 1 Cor. 7. 10 and 11. Paul saith I command those that be married not I but the Lord Let not the Wife depart from her Husband and let not the Husband put away his Wife It is true Quos Deus conjunxit homo non separabit whom God hath joyned let no man separate Yet God himself may sever them either by death for when the Husband is dead she may marry to another man Romans 7. 3. or God may sever them by divorcement for lewdnesse and whoredome not for every light matter but for a very weightie cause as it is in the 24. of Deuteronomy 1. Divorcement is called in Hebrew a sawing and the divorce of man and wife should be as the sawing a 〈◊〉 from the body If a man have the dead Palsie in some part of his flesh he will not presently have it cut off unlesse it 〈◊〉 some other part Divorces for two causes The Wife so long as her Husband liveth is bound unto him 1 Cor. 7. 39. But if the flesh be not only dead but corrupted then may there be a proceeding to divorces and that upon two causes as the ancient Fathers doe say out of the Scripture The one is for Fornication and Adulterie And who so putteth away his Wife except it be for fornication causeth her to commit Adultery Matthew 5. 32. except it be for Whoredome Matthew 19. 9. And as I told you adulterous flesh is rotten 〈◊〉 it is 〈◊〉 flesh in the thighs and this divorcement for carnall copulation in Adultery they doe gather quia adherebit uxori 〈◊〉 out of suae to his own wife and she to her own husband must cleave The other cause of divorce is for spiritual Adultery which is 〈◊〉 as it is called in the Scriptures If thou have an unbeleeving Wife if she be content to dwell with thee for sake her not for in that she is an Infidell she is dead flesh but in that she is content to dwell with thee she putrifieth not but if she seek to draw thee to Idolatry in such things thou mayst not yeeld but there may be a departure 1 Cor. 7. 15. God suffereth separation and apostacie for spiritual Fornication which is Idolatrie and where God doth make separation there his Deputies which are his Priests for Incontinencie and Apostacie may suffer divorcement for that the People committed Fornication both bodily and spiritually with the daughters of Moab Moses in the name of God ordained they should be slain and Phineas with his spear appeased Gods wrath Numbers 25. In Ezra 10. 4. after they had resolved to put away their strange wives they came to Ezra the Priest saying Arise for this matter belongeth unto thee who bid them in verse 11. to separate themselves from their strange wives as you may see there at large But Pauls counsell in the 1 to the Cor. 7. 11. is my counsell here that but for argent occasion a man should not put away his wife but if she depart let her remain unmarried as if she did retain only to her Husband or let her be reconciled to her husband and this reconciliation maketh no new marriage but by repentance she if she have offended must renew her life in honestie and holinesse and this reconciliation must be a renuing of their love and the man must heartily forgive her as he would have God forgive him then there must be a forgetting of any sepatation as though there had been no breach at all that so faith and love may ever after be preserved that so their love may be not only more dear than that to Parents but that it may grow daily more and more that God may blesse them and their Children that their union in the flesh may breed the unity of their mindes that they may be united each to other as Christ and his Church we in him and he in us who by his Incarnation became our flesh and he is one body with his Church who was tormented and scourged who dyed whose very heart was pierced with a spear whence his Church was taken he forsook his Father in the Heavens and was incarnate he forsook his Mother and suffered death that he might cleave to the Church and the Church to him that so they might be one spirit that so this bond might continue perpetually and that this knot that joyneth Man and Wife might be indissoluble Erant autem illi ambo nudi Adam uxor ejus ae non erubescebant Gen. 2. 25. Novemb. 〈◊〉 1591. THis verse at the first sight may seem 〈◊〉 and to small purpose but the wisdome of the Holy Ghost did add the same to the rest for good purpose If it be referred to that which went
he did now For as the Angells which though they were unmarried yet notwithstanding did fall and not keep their first estate So no doubt the Divell would have been as strong in his delusions to have made him to fall as he was in deceiving his wife we may therefore lay the fault of this finne upon Eve or the Divell for as St. James saith Jam. 1. 14. It was not so much any outward occasion as his inward and corrupt concupifcence which made him to sinne But be it that she was the cause of fall yet from whence then came that occasion of evill to him Non'e e latere viri why then out of himself came all this cause of sinne But if any shall complain yet further of the womans hurt and fault let us know that this woman was made by the counsell of God the means and occasion by which amends was made and that with advantage for the evill for all the evill which she had first done for as she brought forth sinne and death so she was a means to bring forth a holy seed which should bring eternall righteousnesse and life unto all for as the Serpent should deceive the woman So it was Gods purpose that the seed of the 〈◊〉 should destroy the Serpent and his works wherefore we must not so much with grief marvail that the womans sinne was made the occasion of all our misery as with joy and comfort to wonder that God made the seed of the woman to save us from sinne and to bring us to 〈◊〉 And thus much for the resolution of these two doubts Now for the second part we see that after deliberation God cometh to this determination and saith Faciam adjutricem where we may mark that God saith not fiat as when he made other Creatures but faciam which is a word of advisement and wise deliberation whereas fiat is a word of haste and expedition to be presently done without delay which almighty God doth to put us in minde that when we goe about to get our selves wives or to give our children in marriage that we must not 〈◊〉 about it rashly or suddenly to post up such matters on the sudden but with great discretion wise advice and consultation to attempt so weighty a matter that is first by considering whether it be good or no for us that a match should be made Again seeing it is plain that God only is the giver of good and meet marriages and wives we learn that therefore it is our duty when we lack this help to pray earnestly unto God that it would please him to say unto us as he said unto Adam I will make a meet help for 〈◊〉 For want of observing which rules in 〈◊〉 it often cometh to passe that very unmeet matches and marriages hath been in the world and foul corruptions and abhominable abuses have crep into this holy ordinance to the slander and disgrace thereof for this is set down as the chiefest cause of all the monstrous sinnes of the first age of the world Gen 6. 2. Because the sonnes of God looking upon the daughters of men took them wives according to their own fancies that is rashly and headily without advice and deliberation and they took them at the first sight as pleased themselves and did not crave of God to give them such as might please him Micholl Davids wife is said to be a wife of Saules making and giving and therefore because God made not the match and marriage between them she was not a meet help but a snare to intangle him And so God doth threaten Joshua 23. 12 13. verses that if the Israelites doe after their own wills take unto them heathenish woman to be their wives which he had forbid they should be no helps to them but hurts namely They should be thorns to their eyes whips to their sides and snares to their feet because they doe not take wives at Gods hands that is such as he alloweth and willeth them to take Nam quum formavisset Jehova Deus è terrâ omnes bestias agri omnesque volucres coeli adduxisset ad Adamum ut videret quî vocaret singulas etenim quocunque nomine vocavit illas Adam animantem quamque id nomen ejus est Gen. 2. 19. Octob. 16 1591. THese words contain the occasion of the former deliberation for that there might be an orderly proceeding it was necessary that man being alone and wanting a meet help which was good for him therefore that first a generall view and survey might be taken of all the Creatures which God had made to see whether amongst so many millions of goodly creatures some one might be found for Adam to be a meet mate for him and then if the man should not finde any one fit for him God might proceed in his former purpose in making one woman meet for his company In these words therefore we have first to consider Gods commission and warrant for the ministring and bringing together all the creatures before the man Secondly Adams answer returned non est inventus for after his diligent search it is said he found no meet help for the first because it is Gods royall prerogative to cause all the creatures to make their appearance at a certain place and time which man of himself might not presume to take upon him therefore God giveth over his right by a letter of Attourny and dedimus potestatem to Adam by which he might lawfully both take a streight survey of them all and also impose names to every one of them as he pleaseth which see that this writ and warrant is given out to all the living creatures here below saving unto fishes the reason whereof is because that if there were any likelyhood at all that man might finde a meet companion and mate for himself any where then it must needs be amongst one of these two kinds of creatures either amongst beasts of the field or fowls of the aire for there be some agreement and conformity between man and beasts and birds naturally but none at all between the fish and us the beasts as we have seen are made of the same mould and matter which we are made of and the fishes were made of the slyme of the waters and not of slyme of the earth Secondly because they have naturally divers notes and voices as well as man but the fish are mute and dumb and therefore unmeet for our company Thirdly beasts and birds doe feed on earthly things as we and breathe and live in the same aire and place which we doe and doe delight naturally in the sight and company of man and easily will be made tame sociable and serviceable for man whereas è contra the fish neither feed nor breathe as we doe they cannot live in the same place and element which we doe but are as it were inhabitants of another world below us and besides this they will by no means be made tame and
the Creation of the Woman therefore he would be alone that he alone might be known to be the only maker of the Woman and that he had no help or Counsell in the framing of her For the like cause God suffered the Disciples to fall into a deep and heavy sleep in the garden when Jesus Christ our Saviour was in the agony that it might not be doubted but that he alone wrought and brought to passe all the work of our Redemption without the help or comfort of his Disciples as it was prophecied of him before Ille Torcular calcavit solus So Almighty God purposing to have all the glory of the whole World alone and that Adam might not challenge any jot thereof therefore without his counsell help or consent he would doe it while Adam was fast asleep Which must teach us this Lesson That especially in this weighty matter of Wyving when we see we want that holy help we must not think by our own policie and strength to get us one meet and good for us but rather by prayer commend that work to Gods care and providence who then no doubt will bring that work to passe which shall be most fit and meet for us while we are fast asleep Object If any ask Why she was taken out of his side which is the middle part of mans body and not out of his head or foot Resp. This answer may stand with good reason That she was not taken out of his head or shoulder Ne insolesceret foemina that is lest affecting a superiority over the Man she should take upon her arrogancie to be the top of his head or to ride over his shoulders If any doe so let them know that it is not the Womans part nor place to exalt herself so high On the other side God of purpose would not have her taken out of the foot Ne eam homo sub pedibus contereret make her too much an underling as scarce good enough to wash his feet If any so use their wives let them know God made them not to so base and contemptible offices but would have good and vertuous women to be set next themselves as their matches in all dutie and love for God hath made her of his side that she might be collateralis that is be thought worthy to stand and sit and lye by his side therefore it is said that the Kings spouse being brought to him was set on his right hand Psal. 45. 9. And indeed if women did consider their estate they would know it to be farre better and safer for them being the weaker vessell to shrowd themselves under their husbands arms for defence as their protector than to sit above his shoulder as Lord and superior over him Again Women may see that God made them of a rib which is a strong bone that they might be a means and prop to their weaknesse to uphold and be a stay to them and their estate and not a weakning and decayiug of their estates and strength as many doe And as they learn this of the nature of their matter so they must learn to avoid one thing which is the bone of which they were made namely they must not be crooked and perverse and 〈◊〉 bones to their husbands heart for such wives saith Salomon are not bones to help us but putredo in ossibus and a grief to their heart Now we may consider that of this matter God made him not many wives not two wives yea not more than only one which condemneth 〈◊〉 for many reasons and respects for many inconveniences and griefs come to the man and the family where more than one hath been it was the cause occasion of strife and brawls as we may see in the example of Elkana his two wives 1 Sam. 1. 5. 7. 8. for they did not only vexe one another but both of them were a vexation to him The like example we have in Sara and Agar so ill did they agree under one man that one house was not able to hold them wherefore Gods ordinance is who knoweth what is best for us that one man shall have but one only wife A word now of the supplement for it is said that God taking out a rib made a wound and healed it up again and made flesh to be the supplement thereof By which we 〈◊〉 becanse Woman is the weaker vessel therefore God would have her to have some of the Mans strength and lest the man should be too strong and rigorous he hath imparted some of the Womans weaknesse to him Which must teach man and wife to know that God hath made them so that they should bear one with anothers infirmities And there is nothing which doth more make void the bond of love and unity which God hath so strongly confirmed between man and wife as this one thing that the one doth not bear with the others infirmities and imperfections Extruxitque Jehova Deus ex costa illa quam sumpserat de Adamo mulierem eamque adduxit ad Adamum Gen. 2. 22. Octob. 23. 1591. IN these words according to our last division are conteined the manner and fashion of her Creation which is here said to be after the manner and form of a building and also the end why she was made namely that she might be brought to man and given him for his help It is the Counsel of God that if we will purpose to make a house or building that we first of all prepare matter and stuffe where with all to build it Prov. 24. 27. and then after to settle upon the work which course of wisdome we doe see God doth here take and observe for having taken the rib out of the mans side as the meetest matter to build this beautifull matter for man now all things being in a readinesse and nothing wanting he proceedeth without delay to the framing and perfecting of this work of Woman Touching which we must know that it is not Moses purpose in this place to treat of the making of the Womans soul but only of the frame of the body for he had before in the 7. verse of this Chapter sufficiently and fully performed that narration shewing that God having made the body of Man and Woman then he breathed into them the breath of life and made them both alike living souls which confoundeth that prophane shamelesse objection of irreligious men which whether in jeast or in good earnest I know not have said that Women have no souls because in this verse Moses speaketh not but only of the frame of her body To falsifie and disprove which saying ye shall hear Rebecca say Gen. 27. 46. Taedet animam meam vitae meae And the Virgin Mary will confesse that she hath a soul as well as Man Luke 1. 46. saying Magnificat anima mea c. But we must know that this soul the Woman had not of the man but of God the Creator as Adam had
drift was by defence to put clean away all the fault from himself but now he laboureth by excuse to be seen to have as little part in the fault as may be and to have the shew and appearance of that evill to be put away from him that he be not brought within the compasse of the offence His first defence in effect is non feci But now this excuse is feci sed benè feci When that would not serve his turn his third excuse is feci malè sed non multùm q.d. though inceed I cannot deny but I am in the compasse of the offence yet I am not in the fault I did not much of the evill that was done And this is our nature when we cannot defend our selves à toto then we excuse us à tanto as Adam doth which saith you must not lay all the fault on me for God and the woman have parts and shares therein the woman for giving the apple to me and God for giving the woman to me This excuse then hath two parts the woman and God both which we will examine to see where the fault is indeed As it is a foul fault in a man to seek to excuse himself by accusing another so it is another fault worse than that that a man should make a silly woman the matter of his excuse for we say it is manhood in men to pitty and spare especially that sex as the weaker a foul shame to seek to intangle and draw woman into danger or hurt but rather to support and defend them as much as with modesty and honesty we could Adam might have considered that she heing the weaker the first of Peter the third chapter and the seventh verse that it had been his part to have made a buckler for her shelter and defence for men willingly should and naturally are taught to forbear and not to wreck their malice and anger upon woman-kinde But the fault in him which passeth all is this that this woman is his wife which he accuseth as the cause of his evill and bringeth in as the principall in this fact for by this there is perfidia on his part a breach of Faith and wedlock-love for it is most unseemly and unnaturall for a man to accuse his own wife If we consider that he which before in Gen. 2. 24. confessed that he should forsake Father and Mother for her sake yea which before by sinne was content to forsake God and all for her love if he did love her so well why doth he not shew it now for he should have stood out betweene Gods wrath and her for her defence which no doubt would have beene more acceptable to God for it is a thing commended in Moses Psal. 106. 23. and in David 2 Sam. 24. 17. that they offered themselves to be punished to acquit and save others there from for they were content to beare Gods displeasure themselves that others might bee set free but here è contra Adam was willing to bee in the society of the fact and fault but now hee will pull his neck our of the Coller and will not have any society or part with her in the punishment Adam blameth God Now I come to the other part of his excuse in which he layeth part of the blame on God as bringing him also within the compass of this evill committed vtinam hoc tantum dixerat Comedi saith one for to challenge God for giving this woman to him and to come to upbraid God to the face with this The woman which thou gavest mee made me to sinne is another offence most intollerable He will not be content with one excuse but will have two strings to his bowe for fayling that if the woman will not serve to bee his excuse then this may To bring God into the fault and to say directly that he is in the society and had a part therein is intollerable blasphemy The womans excuse which shee alledgeth in the next verse is far better in accusing the devill But to say Data a te dedit mihi sinne was her gift and she was the gift thou gavest me the woman and the woman gave me the apple of offence wherefore if thou hadst not given her to me the apple had not been given and so I should never have sinned against thee q.d. I did not pluck it I was not the author nor cause of it If I have sinned I may thank you for it you were the 〈◊〉 of all which gave her to me you would needes give me a wife if you had meant me that good which you pretended you should not have given me such a one as would give me this forbidden fruit or at least if you must needs make and give her you should not have joyned nor put her together with me in the place and garden where I am but put her in a garden by her self apart and separated from me for I knew not else what she should mean by staying with me Thus we see that his excuse and allegation for himselfe is partly an expostulation with God and partly an accusation against him In both which he seemeth to say this in favor of his fault it did not become me to suspect her of any evill whom thou gavest to bee a meet help and good for me I thought that whatsoever she did or should perswade me to would have become good and helpfull to me ergo I yeelded to it This we see is a foul fault to quarrell with Gods goodnesse and to charge God with sin whereas all iniquitie and sin God doth utterly abhorre There is no affinitie between God and evill for no evill commeth neer his dwelling est ne iniquit as apud deum saith Saint Paul the second to the Corrinthians the sixth chapter and the fourteenth verse to such which thus impudently reason against God What agreement hath righteousness with unrighteousness why then O man dost thou charge God with sinne so that he fetcheth the Pedigree of his sinne which he committed and derived it thus even from God himself The sinne which is came by eating of the apple which was the gift of Eve which was the gift of God Thus to make his sin inmeasurable sinfull he deriveth his sinne from the holiest of all and wrappeth not only the woman his wife in the transgression but also fetcheth God in for company as partner with them in this their evill Tum dixit Jehova Deus mulieri Quid hoc est quod fecisti dixit autem mulier Serpens iste seduxit me comedi Gen. 3. 13. February 12. 1591. IN the end of the last verse before ended the triall of Adams offence for as you have seen from the seventh verse hath been the triall and examination of the crime committed In the seventh verse was the arest in the eighth verse was the second processe which being served on him was of force to shut him close in prison in the bushes in the
ninth verse he is brought forth of his Goal and arraigned having his indictment and accusation laid against him and he is permitted to speak for himself in the tenth verse he pleadeth not guilty alledging reasons why in the eleventh verse God traverseth the cause by joyning issue with him and in the twelfth verse we have seen his confession and his allegation why sentence should not proceed against him Now in this the other party guilty which was accused before is brought to her triall in which for the Judicials and manner of proceeding the generall intent of God is not only to convent before him a Malefactor but not to give over untill he hath found out the principall that is to finde who hath been chief in the trespass and as some say to make diligent search whose hand was deepest and most 〈◊〉 in this offence In Physick we are taught to search to the bottom and goe to the Core In Logick we are taught to bring and reduce every thing that is said or reasoned upon unto the principall action or rule by which it is scanned In Divinitie it is a point especially materiall as our Saviour Christ saith to goe to the beginning and first institution of things to see how it was then And this is Gods course in judgment to find out the principall and chiefe cause of evill things which are committed The way and manner of finding this out is by inquirie and by way of interrogations ministring interrogations unto him for all crimes and sinnes being works of darkness and therefore as much as may be hid and concealed from apearing in the light and sight of men therefore the praise and labor of a Judge is to finde and search it out that being brought to light ill works may be reproved the third of John and the twenty first verse For this cause this duty is enjoyned by God to all Judges after two waies the thirteenth of Deuteronomie and the fourteenth verse ut perscrutarentur interrogarent that by search and diligent inquirie the truth might be boulted out It is the course to be taken in the case of murder the twenty first of Deuteronomie and the fourth verse In the case of adultry the fisth of Numbers and the fourteenth verse In the matter of theft the twenty second chapter of Exodus and the eighth verse 1 Reg. 8. 31. And it is the course which may be holden in any Crime or Cause whatsoever that upon good and sufficient presumptions and detections they may proceed to inquire diligently and the party called in question is bound to make answer to purge and cleanse himself which is suspected or accused for this is the ground and foundation on which God frameth his action against Eve Adam saith that thou his wife diddest intice perswade him to eate thereof The question therefore which I demande of thee is why hast thou done this And this is that to which she is bound to answer Now if we looke to her answer which she maketh unto the interrogatorie propounded to her we shall see it very frivolous for God asketh quare and she answereth to quis Some think that it was for fear or shame or else as others say for the defect of a right and a true cause For well may one alledge the tempter and occasion which moved or sollicited us to sin but otherwise no right or proper cause of sin can be assigned But howsoever it is we must take her answer as it is First we see that she is not mute or silent but knoweth how to shape an ill answer and to make an excuse as well as her husband God saith in the fiftieth Psalme and the one and twentieth verse because I held my tongue and envyed no more against mens sin therefore the Devill hare Eve in hand that Adams excuse went for good payment and put God to silence as if it had been so full an answer to God as that he could say no more against him and therefore seeing that held so well he perswadeth the woman to take the same course for we shall perceive that both her and her answer are so like as if they had been framed in one forge for the like pride we see in both which will not seem so ill as they are but doe lay the fault upon another to excuse themselves Secondly the method and form of answering is alike and even the same in both their answers but the substance and matter of the excuse is not one and the same for Adams excuse was his wife Eve but her excuse is the Serpent so that if we compare Adams answer and Eves together we shall see in what they agree and wherein they differ both of their confessions are extort and indirect both are maimed and unperfect and neither of them can plainly say peccavi c. Usus Out of which we learn that both these came from one Schoolmaster Sathan the Author Accuser and Procter of all sinne and he doth mankind more hurt when he is an Advocate and Proctor giving us counsel how to defend and excuse our sinne than when he is an accuser accusing us of sin to God the Judge of all because when the Devill is only an accuser against us Christ will be our Advocate to plead our cause for us and an Intercessor and Mediator for us to his Father and he being on our side we need not fear though he Devill be against us But if we entertain the Devill for our Proctor Christ will be a 〈◊〉 Judge against us to condemne us and oppose himself to the Devill Therefore the Devill careth not what excuse we alledge though they lay the blame of their sinne upon him he is content to beare it rather than they should confesse their sin plainly and make Christ their Advocate To cover and conceale sinne is a double sinne and not to confesse it plainly is partly pride and presumption or else servile fear and dispaire fearing lest they should confesse all to God as though he had not goodnesse or mercy enough to forgive them or else they conceale it of pride presuming that God cannot see and finde out that which they dissemble and hide from the eyes of men So we see that it is a compound sinne though the woman be in impari sexu yet she is pari superbiâ as proud as he and as farre dead in hiding and dissembling sinne as he and as well able to say for herself as he A difference of Confessing finnes thus pride maketh men ashamed to confesse or else so to confesse that one may see a plain difference between the confession of a proud and a poor humble sinner between the confession of the good and faithfull and the evill Infidells Between Sauls confession and Davids Sauls confession smelleth of pride in the first booke of Samuell fifteenth and the thirtieth verse Peccavi saith he sed honora me That is he would so confesse his sin that he might keepe
with a groane and by all lawes of Nations the husband is above the wife Touching the particulars of the Text. Her Sorrow First hee will greatly increase her sorrowes besides the sorrowes in conception and bringing forth children her sorrow is afterwards increased many a woman breedeth and beareth her owne sorrow she may beare her childe to misery if shee see it beg it increaseth her sorrow shee may beare it to execution as wee have too many lamentable examples but the sorrow of a mother is much more increased if it live so wickedly that shee beare it to hell fire For the sorrow of Child-bearing in the Psalmes and throughout the Prophets the greatest sorrow is compared to a womans laboring with childe which is so great that many a one dyeth of it as did Rachell Gen. 25. 18. never was childe borne without pain according to that old verse Nascitur haud sine vae fuerit qui filius Evae But here God sheweth even in judgement his mercy for shee sinned in soule is punished but in body and that punishment is temporary though the sinne deserved death eternall and which is further there is a blessing even in this Sentence for to have children though with pain is a great blessing and by the ancient Fathers is called the blessing of the womb and brests and barrennesse of woman is held a greater sorrow and payne than to have children with much griefe and payne for when the childe is once borne the payne is forgotten but barrennesse is to her a continual grief in the 30 of Genesis vers 1. When Rachell saw shee was barren and Leah fruitfull shee envied her sister and so great was her desire of children that unlesse shee had children shee would die So it is a Sentence of Justice mingled with Lenity the punishment is not with rig or but with indulgence it is tanquam fraenum non flagellum as a bridle rather to check than a scourge to bruise it is but a chastizing of sinne in Eve non est quasi Coluber as a Serpent to sting but an easie correction Her subjection The second part of her punishment is That shee shall bee subject to her Husband and there is mercy in this also for the best are of opinion that in time of integritie there was order and subordination for order is the mother of perfection The two ends of marriage here is a subordination of affections the womans to the husbands and of occonomicall government for generation and cohabitation are the two ends of marriage and in both shee is to bee ruled by her husband some idle-headed fellowes gather hence That seeing women are to bee subject to men therefore men ought not to bee subject to women but marke hee saith viro tuo to thy husband Touching the Rule of Women now the rule of women as in most Common-wealths hath beene allowed even so in Scripture for Candace Queene of the cast and Sabaes Queene are commended nay it is Gods owne Law Numb 27. 8. That if a man die without a sonne his inheritance shall fall to his daughter then the daughter of a King is not barred government which is her inheritance but oeconomicall subjection here is chiefly understood that made Sara call her husband Lord. In the first of Ester you see Vasbti the Queene punished because shee would not obey Ahashuerus the great King of Persia a great Monarch shee came not when hee sent for her advice was taken how shee should bee punished for her disobedience this offence was not only against the King but by example against the Princes and People for in the seventeenth verse of that Chapter This example among other women shall make them despise their husbands and therefore a solemne Sentence was pronounced against her That shee should bee divorced and deposed the end of which Decree was as appeareth in the end of that Chapter That all the women through that huge Monarchy should doe their husbands honor both great and small and further the King sent forth his Letters to every People after their language That every man should beare rale in his own house Esther her selfe was example of this who worshipped with reverence her King shee must bee subject unto man in regard of her weakenesse and infirmities as Paul speaketh in the Corinthians Woman is not her selfe her own for at marriage she giveth not her self but is given to her husband by a man and after marriage shee loseth her own name and beareth her husbands bee the husband wise or simple hee must beare rule over her for subjection is the condition of all Wives to all Husbands Abigaiell in the first chapter of Samuel and the twenty fith verse must as well obey Naball her husband as David even of Religion this obedience is this is the Mercy that though hee shall rule her yet they both shall rule their houshold hee shall rule her not as a King his subject or a Lord his slave not in feare but in love Adamo verò dixit Quia auscultavisti voci uxoris tuae comedisti de fructu arboris illius quo interdixeram tibi dicendo ne comedas ex isto maledicta esto terra propter te cum dolore comedito proventum ejus omnibus diebus vitae tuae Eaque spinam carduum proferto tihi tu verò comedito herbam agri In sudore vultûs tui vescitor cibo donec revertaris in humum cum ex eâ desumptus fueris nam pulvis es in pulverem reverteris Gen 3. 17.18.19 Septemb. 17. 1598. SAint Chrisostome writing upon this place saith sedet Judex non surgit God who is the Judge sitteth still and riseth not Adams punishment he continueth his Court and give●h not over till he hath given judgement upon all the offenders This is as it were the third O yes saith that Father upon Adams offence which sentence is conteined in the 17. 18. and 19. verfes In the Sentence upon Adam two things In which sentence are conteined two parts the one is the fault contained in the beginning of this verse the other is the penaltie contained in the end of the 17. vorse to the end of the 19. verse First the Fault Secondly the Penalty Of both these in generall these are the proceedings of God whence the rule and patern of all Justice is grounded for God goeth here to sentence upon a cause because thou hast heard the voice of thy Wife and eaten the forbidden fruit and upon a Cause not alledged by an Accuser but confessed by the Offender the 12. verse before so that in justice God will say to Adam ex ore tuo te judico I will judge thee even out of thine own mouth thou evill Servant Luke 19. 22. In the sentence two things Particularly In the fault are two parts or branches first there is an inordinate consent the other a disordinate act The first is the hearing the voyce of
the Kingdome which he had usurped began to meddle in Religion and to set up two Calves saying Behold your Gods in the first of Kings the twelfth chapter so Irad calls his Sonne Mehujael First what thing is God such a one as saith with Pharaoh Who is the Lord Exodus the fift chapter that is that cared not for God And as Abraham when he came to Gerar said Surely forasmuch as the feare of God is not in this place they will kill me Genesis the twentieth chapter so Mehujael that cared not for God begets Methujhael that is a desparate fellow that cares not for death and his Sonne is Lamech that is a violent fellow a persecutor and an oppressor one that spoileth and treadeth down every man On the other side as Cain hath Irad one that would exalt himself to be Lord so Seth hath Jerad one that is content to goe down for Mehujael a contemner of God among the Children of God there was Mahalaleel id est anuncians or laudans deum a religious person that would praise God For Methushael among the godly there was Methushelah whose name tells us death is triumphing because it is the reward of sinne and hath a worm that dieth not and a fire that is never quenched For Lamech the wicked he is the seventh from Adam as Enoch the Sonne of Seth but this Enoch being the seventh respects things that pertain to the seventh day wherein Lamech is given to oppression This Enoch prophesied an excommunication against sinners that did wickedly spake proudly saying The Lord commeth with thousands of his Saints to give judgement against them as it is in the fourteenth verse of the epistle of Jude and we shall not see any in the Scripture that spake so proudly as this Lamech for he not only brags of his sinne but contemns Gods threatnings and saith he will kill any that come to him therefore this excommunication concerns him for as Seths Enoch walked with God so Lamech that comes of Cain walked after the spirit of the world In the story of Lamech there are two things to be observed First his overflowing lust Secondly his contempt of God and the punishment which God threatned The excesse of his lust stands in this that he took two Wives Where we are to note that he is the first that durst vaunt of poligamie he is primus sacrilegus nuptiarum for in so doing first he did violate the institution of God which is A man shall forsake Father and Mother and cleave 〈◊〉 his Wife Genesis the second chapter and the twenty fourth verse not to his Wives and they two shall be one flesh not three in one flesh Secondly His taking of two Wives is a violating of humane custome for he is in the seventh generation from Adam Adam had but one Wife no more had Cain nor the rest but Lamech treading all custome under foot takes two wherein it is plain that a breach is made of the primitive custome for as Christ saith Matthew the ninteenth chapter non sic fuit abinitio Thirdly Marriage is a mysterie Ephesians the fift chapter and the thirty second verse for God commends unto us a sacred thing in marriage that is the spirituall and holy conjunction of Christ with the Church In which regard persons in that state should not exceed in lust but possesse their Vessels in holiness in the first to the Thessalonians the fourth chapter and the fourth and fift verses and not in the lust of concupiscence As Lamech sinneth against the institution of marriage in these three respects so in regard of the ends of the same which are three First To be a remedy against fornication in the first to the Corinthians the seventh chapter and the second verse but Lamechs two Wives were an allurement to it rather and no remedy against it for every man must have 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 in the first to the Corinthians the seventh chapter and the third verse therefore if he have Wives it is an allurement to lust Secondly The end of marriage is propagation of Children that there may be not only a seed but semen sanctum Malachie the second chapter For that cause he made Adam but one Wife whereas he had spirit enough and might have made him more but he sought a holy seed therefore if any seek seed by more Wives it is not a holy seed but semen nequam semen corruptem Isaiah the first chapter Thirdly The end is for mutuall help but to have more Wives at once the one is a hindrance and no help so were Rachel and Leah to Jacob Genesis the twenty ninth so were Annah and Peniah to Elkanah in the first of Samuel the first chapter Assumpsit autem sibi Lemec uxores duas prioris nomen fuit Hada nomen secundae Tzilla Peperitque Hada Jabalum hic fuit autor habitantium in tentoriis pecuariae Nomenque fratris ejus fuit Jubal hic fuit autor omnium tractantium citharam organon Tzilla verò ipsa quoque peperit Thubal-Kajinum qui erudivit omnem fabrum aerarium ferrarium sororemque Thubal-Kajini Nahamam Gen. 4. 19.20.21.22 Decemb. 16. 1599. IN which verses is set down first the Marriage and after the Race and Ofspring of Lamech The former point verse the ninteenth the latter in the three verses following Concerning the Marriage of Lamech we have already made an entrance into it besides that which hath been already said If we will know what to reckon of this second Wife which Lamech took the Holy Ghost doth set it out unto us in her name For even in the names of holy Scripture as we have heard is engraven most excellent divinitic His second Wifes name was Zillah which hath relation to his first for it signifies her shadow but truth and shadowes are opposite and therefore the Holy Ghost by this name tells us a second Wife is no true Wife but a false and that in such a marriage there is not the body and substance of Gods Ordinance but only a shadow of it as our Saviour Christ said to the Woman that had five Husbands John the fourth chapter and the eighteenth verse He whom thou now hast is not thy Husband And the sentence and judgment of the Hebrew Writers is that where Lamechs former Wifes name is Adah taken from a word that signifies an open assembly and the second Zillah that is a shadow or secret place it is to teach us that Lamech had his former Wife only for a shew but he kept Zillah in secret places to satisfie his unclean lust privily Now because we see this evill act of Lamech hath not so much as a good pretence it is so much the worse and that he wanted a good pretence we shall finde if we inquire what moved him to break out so farre contrary to the Ordinance of God in the Creation who therefore created Adam but one Wife to teach him he might not have more at once
The only pretence for taking a second Wife is the example of Abraham Genesis the sixteenth chapter who for that he was without ofspring was permitted by Sarah his Wife to goe in to Agar that of her he might raise up Children but the case stood not so with Lamech for he had by his first Wife two Sonnes Jabal and Jubal and therefore it was not for the raising up of seed that he took Zillah Secondly But if he say these were not enough we shall see that the seed which he had by his false Wife did not 〈◊〉 to the increase of mankinde but to the destroying of it For if we 〈◊〉 the seed that God gave him by 〈◊〉 the shadow of a true Wife it was Tubal Cain who was the first that gave an edge to 〈◊〉 and brass that is the first Warrier and he that brought war into the world So we see Lamechs purpose in taking a second Wife howsoever he desired to increase the world yet by Gods just judgment turned to the destroying of mankinde for he brought forth Tubal-Cain one that was a destroye To this we add his Daughter whom he had by Zillah his unlawfull Wife whose name was Naamah that is fair which being compared with the sixt chapter we shall see that she was the overthrow of the world For the sons of Seth saw the daughters of men that they were fair and beautifull and that 〈◊〉 in them a lust after them so as it confounded that distinction of the holy Familie of the godly which caused the Lord to drown the world with a flood so that as well the Daughters as the Sons that Lamech had by his unlawfull Wife proved the overthrow of mankinde and therefore it was no good pretence to marry a Second Wife to increase it Thirdly To proceed one step further in the choice of a second Wife the example of David may be a good pretence who seeing a virtuous woman Abigal 〈◊〉 good to his first Wife to add a second in the first of Samuel the twenty ninth chapter so that the good quality of the second Wife may somewhat abate the sinne But Lamech took not Zillah for any such respect of virtue Zillah which is a shadow betokens lightness and 〈◊〉 Adah is an open place and withall signifieth a tireing and decking of her self and Naamah signifieth made beautifull So these three things were the cause hat made Lamech take his second Wife And as in these we see a plain description of the woman of the old world so we see also what manner of women they were that brought destruction upon the whole world Naamah that is beauty made is the mark of Jezebel in the second of Kings the ninth chapter and the third verse Who for that she was not beautifull of her self naturally painted her face Adah that is tireing and gorgeous apparell is a mark of the Daughters of Canaan when Deborah describes by their apparrell of divers colours Judges the fift chapter and the thirtieth verse Zillah that is lightness and wantonness sets out unto us the strange woman that is an Harlots behaviour Proverbs the seventh chapter and the tenth verse and of a wanton pace such as the Prophet describes Isaiah the third chapter On the other side Esther when sweet odours were offered her to purifie her self she refused and desired nothing but that which was naturall she did not make her self beautifull to delight the Kings eyes Esiher the second chapter and the fifteenth verse As for Adah that is glorious apparrell The holy women of old as Sarah that trusted in God did not deck themselves 〈◊〉 with broyded haire and putting on of gold or apparrell but with 〈◊〉 in the first 〈◊〉 of Peter the third chapter and the fift verse contrary to the wicked generation of Cain As for Zillah the wanton and light woman Rebecca covered her self with a Vail Genesis the twenty fourth chapter and the sixty fift verse These examples of good and evill women are set down first to correct and reprove such as tyre themselves like the women of the wicked generation and to exhort and instruct others to follow the modesty of godly and holy women for that is the use of the holy Scripture in the second of Timothy the third chapter that no man should take two Wives at once but as the Apostle tels us That every man have his proper wife and every woman her proper husband in the first to the Corintbians the 〈◊〉 chapter and the second verse that we should not ensue the steps of the cursed generation of 〈◊〉 or follow Cains seed in making choice of Wives for glorious apparrell for beauty and wantonness but to choose such as are vittuous as Boze chose Ruth All this is testified of Lamech by way of reproof and correction to himself and those that follow his example And as there is woe threatned to them that walk in Cains 〈◊〉 so 〈◊〉 bath a way that brought woe to him and his way was that he taught the Daughters of Moab to intice the Children of Israel by painting their faces and so made them commit whoredome with them Numbers the 25. chapter and the 1. verse therefore whosoever shall cause his Daughters by their wanton attire to allure the minde of the Sonnes of men they walk in Baalams way and shall be partakers of his woe Thus much for Lamechs marriage That which is set down rouching his Children followeth in the next verses In which part we are to observe Gods power First in blessing him with Children Secondly Gods providence in directing the matter First There is set down three of Lamechs children First Jubal that signifieth apportantem Secondly Jubal oblectantem Thirdly Tubal-Cain that is one that terrifieth maketh afraid Of which the bringing in is referred to store of wealth delight is referred to pleasure 〈◊〉 or making afraid hath his end in revenge In those things stands the facility of the first Enoch and of all those that dedicate themselves to this world For as we heard Cains Enoch sets his minde on things present nihil sperans quod sequitur but Seths Enoch which came on the seventh day hath a course by himself that is looked to things to come Thus by their names we see their affections and the same we shall see by their actions and professions Jubal is said to be a Grasier and not only so but the first that back'd horses and made other beasts fit for their uses for which they were appointed by God that is the first bringer in of all riches and wealth Secondly to Jubal belongs the invention of Instruments whether they be such as are to be played on with fingers or with the winde Thirdly Tubal-Cain was the first of those that gave an 〈◊〉 and point to brasse and iron and applied it to warlike use to the end he might have weapons to fight with and to 〈◊〉 all he world subject to him and his 〈…〉 Add 〈◊〉 this his fair Daughter
his speech Matthew the twenty sixt chapter so by a mans talk it will appear how his heart is affected His speech consists first of a preface Heare my voice ye wives of Lamech hearken to my words Secondly the body of his oration I have killed or will kill a man in my wound and a young man in my hurt Thirdly If Cain shall be avenged seven times then Lamech seventy times seven times In which words he saith in effect that he will neither doe right not suffer wrong His Preface we see is a solemn and grave Speech as if Solomon himself were delivering some great piece of wisedome or as if some Prophet were to declare some weighty matter in the name of the Lord. That we may see that the wicked are as carefull in stirring up the hearers to hear their blasphemies as the Prophets and Saints of God are to crave attention to their heavenly doctrine They are like the words of Jacob to his Children Genesis the fourty ninth chapter and the second verse Hear ye Sonnes of Jacob hearken to Israel your Father where to hearken is more than to hear and the speech is more than the voice whereby Lamech willeth his Wives with all attention to bow their eares to that which he saith which sheweth that he imagined that which he spoke was some great matter whereas indeed it is nothing but a vain boasting of his power that he can doe mischief Psalm the fifty second for the Prophet saith That the great men speak out the corruption of their hearts and they wrap it up Micah the seventh chapter and the third verse and so doth this great Gyant Lamech we see by his words he hath this opinion that he ought to be heard being a man of this power For as the Wise-man saith of the practise of the world If the rich man speaks all must hearken to his word but the poor when he speaks cannot be heard but see what is the effect of his speech for all his good preface therefore we must not presently impute wisedome to every one that beginneth in this solemn manner Of the body of his Oration be two parts First a proclaiming to the world What he will doe if he be touched Secondly If Cain be avenged seven times then Lamech seventy times seven fold Of the former there are two readings the one is I have stain a man being but wounded and killed a young man in my hurt The latter is I would kill a man If it be the former it is a Commemoration If the latter a Commination wherein he breatheth forth threatnings as Saul did Acts the eighth chapter against any that should doe him wrong The one is a bragging of his strength that he feels himself so strong as if he were wounded yet he is able to be avenged of him that shall touch him The other shewes his vindicative spirit that is so far from suffering that if he be but touched he will kill he threatens pro vulnere mortem In the first by that which the Apostle saith in the second to the Corinthians the tenth chapter That if God give strength and power to any man it is not to destroy but to 〈◊〉 We see it is no true boasting which Lamech makes he doth not boast aright that saith he is of strength to doe hurt the commendation of strength is not in killing and wounding but in saving and defence For the second interpretation we are to know it is no just dealing to kill him that hath but inflicted a wound for justice is there should be talio wound for wound and not death for a wound If it be read as the Fathers read it I have killed a man in my wound then it is a confession Now we know confessions proceed of repentance but that was not the cause of Lamechs confession for then he would not have chosen these confessions but it is in the spirit of arrogancie that he confesseth to his wives what he hath done He saith that when he had killed one man in his wound then he proceeded to kill a young man that is he added blood to blood It is enough for a man to sinne though he doe not brag of it but when they doe as the Sodomites did that is praedicare peccata sua Isaiah the third chapter and the ninth verse then they are come to the 〈◊〉 of wickedness if they brag of their sinne and are so far from sorrowing for their finne that they seek applause for it as if they had done well This preaching of sinne and that rejoying in wickedness which the Wise-man speaks of Proverbs the second chapter and the fourteenth verse exultat in rebus 〈◊〉 falls upon none but such as are in profundo peccatorum that is grievous sins and at the pitch of all naughtiness Naturally men are ashamed of sinne and it is a signe of grace so to be affected therefore the Lord saith Jeremiah the eighth chapter and the twelfth verse Were they ashamed when they had committed abomination but where instead of covering their faces with shame for sinne Men have 〈◊〉 foreheads and will not be ashamed Jeremiah the third chapter and the third verse that is a sinne out of measure sinfull for shame is a 〈◊〉 of that singultus cordis that is of that inward grief of heart in the first of Samuel the twenty fift chapter which they conceive that they have offended God but when instead of sorrow and shame there is an exaltation or rejoycing of the evill they have done and a hardness of heart so as they cannot be touched with any grief of their 〈◊〉 These are the tokens of one that is past grace and these appeared in Lamech of whom the Apostles words are verified That his shame is his glory Philippians the third chapter In both these he justifieth Cain for he was ashamed to confesse that he had killed Abel and therefore answered the Lord I know not am I my brothers keeper and after he is very sorry and greatly cast down and therefore saith My sinne is greater than can be pardoned This is it we learn in the 〈◊〉 part The second is worse for where there is no shame there may be fear He that hath lost shame for 〈◊〉 is like the beast 〈◊〉 the 〈◊〉 ninth for the beast is not ashamed of any thing but though 〈◊〉 beasts be without shame yet they have fear for they will 〈◊〉 willingly run into the fire it is so terrible to them therefore he that feareth not when he 〈◊〉 the danger of sin he is 〈◊〉 than a 〈◊〉 yea than the Devils themselves Who 〈◊〉 and 〈…〉 the second chapter Therefore where as 〈◊〉 is not 〈◊〉 to kill and murther him that should but wound him having not 〈…〉 That if a man 〈◊〉 evill sinne 〈◊〉 at the dore but 〈◊〉 an 〈◊〉 of Gods wrath upon Cain for murther that is a sign that his 〈◊〉 is greatly hardened A man would think the very 〈◊〉 of 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 be