of it 58 Attire vitious 14 waies 63 B Blessing kinds thereof 204 Blessings how inherited 214 How they may be gotten 216 How grow in comforts of them 217 Brethren who are so 189 Motives to love as Brethren 190 Brethren how to be loved 191 Rules for brotherly love 193 Brethren how to bee respected in case of sinne 194 C Calling to Christianity 205 Necessity of knowing it 208 Chastity in married persons 44 Motives thereto 45 Preservatives of Chastity 46 How a Chaste wife may be discerned 47 Christians divers sorts of them 209 Church of Rome not to be agreed unto 187 Cohabitation of husbands and wives 114 Compassion 188 What bowells of Compassion import 196 How Compassion rightly ordered 196 Conversion why all not at once converted 31 Corruptible things 71 Courtesie 199 D Daies evill in what respect 229 Daies good in what respect 232 Discords in opinions 184 Causes thereof 185 Divorce 118 Doing well 107 Motives thereto 107 E Earthly things vaine 224 Why they are not to bee loved 226 Example Two vertues of good example 88 How example bindos 90 F Feare of God how shewed 52 Motives to Feare 51 Feare how discerned 50 Feare servile of wicked 48 Who are without Feare 54 Frowardnesse the causes and effects thereof 80 G Good actions how marred 106 Grace manifold 163 What Grace excludes and includes 165 Graces previledge 166 Who sinne against Grace 168 Guile Signes of spirit without Guile 19 H Heart See Man of the heart Heires to Gods Saints 132 Markes of Heires 136 How to carry themselves 138 Men women all Heires 169 Husbands to live quietly with wives 2 Sixteene motives thereto 3 Helpes thereto 6 Causes of disorder betwixt them 5 Husbands duties why in the last place 111 Motives for Husbands to doe their dutie 112 Husbands to dwell with their wives 114 Cases for absence 115 Separation vnlawfull 116 Husbands must dwell with knowledge 123 Husbands must honour their wives 126 I Incorruptible things 73 Ioy spirituall 156 K Knowledge divine excellent 119 Meanes of making Knowledg powerfull 121 How man dwells with Knowledge 123 Properties and effects of Knowledge 144 L Life naturall 224 A meane thing 139 Life spirituall 141 Degrees of it 141 Originall of it 144 Nature of it 144 Nourishers of it 147 Difference betwixt spirituall and eternall life 149 How spirituall life is attained 157 Helpes thereto 158 Signes therof 160 Properties thereof 161 Duties required by vertue of spirituall life 162 Life of man short 234 Love of Life 223 How life to be prolonged 228 Love See Brethren M Man of the heart 66 Wherein he excells the outward Man 67 His naturall condition 68 How he ma be mended 69 How knowne to be right 70 Meckenesse what requisite thereto 76 Helpes to attaine it 81 Minde All of one minde 180 Helpes thereto 182 Miseries of life how avoided 219 N Nullities of Mariage 116 O Obedience six things required thereto 25 Old times what respect to be had thereto 92 P Peace 155 Pittie Motives thereto 168 See Compassion Pleasing God rules for it 84 Praiers excellency 171 Sorts of Praiers 173 How praier is hindred or interrupted 174 Pure how Saints are so stiled 40 Q Quietnesse See Meekenesse How kept quiet in trouble 177 R Repetition of the same things what imported thereby 9 Revenge 201 Revolting causes thereof 17 Righteousnesse 154 S Salvation how furthered 34 Sarah's Daughters 103 Scripture Gods Word 22 See Word Separation betwixt man and wife 116 Spirituall life See Life Subjection of Wives 1â— See Wives T Trust in God Signes thereof 95 Excellency of it 97 Effects of it 97 Rules about it 99 V Vnitie of minde See Minde W Winning men 29 Divers waies thereof 17 Signes of being wonne 18 Divers kinds of Winning 27 How Ministers win Soules 29 How wicked wonne by our conversation 36 How Wives may winne their Husbands 37 WIVES See Husbands See Women Why Wives dueties largely set downe 8 Why Wives ought to be subiect 12 In What Wives are subiect 13 How Wives must be subiect 14 Sonnes of Wives against subiection 15 Wives how they may win their husbands 37 Wives Chastity how seens 47 Wives feare of husbands 55 Wives amazement how caused 109 Women See Wives Women ought first to bee taught their duty 7 Womens frailties 129 Word of God to be obeyed 23 See Scripture FINIS Generall scope Note 16. motives for man and wife to live quietly and comfortably together Vsc. Five speciall causes of disorder betweene man and wife Helpes for man and wife to attaine an orderly and quiet life Reasons to prove that women ought to be taught their duties aswell as men Why the Apostle is so large in setting downe wives duties What things are imported by often repeating of them Note 8. reasons why wives ought to be subject Why the Apostle chargeth wives only with subjection In what things they are to be subject The maner how they must submit In wht cases the wife ought to subject her selfe Particular sinnes of the Wife against subjection Divers waies of winnnig men Note Causes of revolting in many are divers 9 signes to know whether wâ— be wonne effectually 6. things required to sound obedience Divers kinds of winning Note What a Minister must doe to winne soules To be wonne what it imports Note Why all are not converted at once Divers waies from God to further our salvation Doct. â— By what meanes we may winne wicked men in our conversation What things a wife must especially practise to winne her husband Note Vse In what respects godly men are said to be pure Vse Note Motives to chastity Preservatives of chastity How a chast wife may be discerned Reasons why wicked men are smitten with a servile feare Feare two waies considered Reasons why we ought to express this feare of God in our conversation By what waies we must shew this feare of God By what waies we are to expresse this feare of God towards men What sorts of men have not Gods feare Wherein wives shew their fear of their husbands 11. Reasons against vaine attire in women 14. Waies by which apparell or dressing our selves becomes vicious What the man of the heart is His originall Wherein bee excells the outward man His naturall condition very miserable many waies Especially in his workes which are abominable By what means the man of the heart may be mended How we may know when the man of the heart is right Note 7. Things are incorruptible Note What things are requisite to meeknesse Motives to meeknesse Odiousnesse of frowardnesse from the causes and effects of it Helpes for the attaining of quietnesse and meeknesse Rules for our practise so as God may be pleased with us Note â—â—o singular â—ertues in a â—ood example â—hen an examâ—â—e bindes In what things Antiquity is ill pleaded In what cases respect is to be bad unto old times Signes of such as trust in God Reasons proving the excellency of this trusting in God Admirable effects
of this trusting in God Helpes to attaine this grace of trusting in God Rules to be observed in our right trusting in God Vid. 1. Tim. 5.5 Ier. 49.11 Note Doct. Godly women daughters of Sarah three waies What things marre a good action How we are said to do well Reasons why we ought alwayes to be doing well Causes of amazement in wives Why Husbands duties are noted in the last place Motives to perswade Husbands to be carefull of their duties What things cohabitation doth import Reasons why husbands ought thus to dwell with their wives In what cases it is lawfull for the husband to be absent Whether separation from bed and boord be lawfull Cases of Nullitie Concerning Divorce what rule is to be observed Excellency of divine knowledge in many respects Meanes to give power to our knowledge What this dwelling with knowledge imports How many waies husbands honour their wives In what things women are more frayle than men How godly men come to be heires Wherein the greatnesse and glory of our Adoption appeareth What kinde of persons we must be to attaine this Adoption Marks of Gods heyres and adopted children How Gods heirs must carry themselâ—es Naturall life but a meane thing in divers respects Degrees of spirituall life The originall of this life It hath its originall from God three waies The nature of it consists in a saving knowledge or celestiall light Which knowledge must haue these properties and effects in it Divers things nourish this life This life differs from eternall life many waies 1 In respect of place 2 In respect of the meanes that preserve this life 3 In respect of the company 4 In respect of the quality of the life it selfe 5. In respect of the effects of life in each degree as to instance 1. For righteousnesse 2. for peace 3. for joy What men must doe to attaine this life A Christian hath many helpes to attain it Signes of this life are six Properties of this life are five What duties this doctrine should compell godly men to practise Grace manifold What is meant here by grace Two wayes considered What is excludes What it includes What priviledges follow on such as enjoy Gods grace Men transgresse against the grace of God many waies Godly men and women are heyres together many waies The excellency of prayer appeares in many respects From whence the sorts and difference of Prayer doth arise Prayer may be hindred seven waies in the bearing of it How it is interrupted in the making of it Five things of singular use to keepe us quiet in trouble Note For what reason we ought to be all of one minde Helpes unto unity of minde 2 Pet. 1. ult Aggravations against discord in opinion Many are the ill causes of dissenting In what things we may not be of one minde with the Church of Rome Wherein we expresse our compassion The motives or reasons to perswade us to it Who are brethren Reasons to perswade us to love as brethren With what kind of love we are to love the brethren Rules to be observed that brotherly love may continue Either such things we are to avoid Or such things wee are to praâ—lise How to order ourselves towards our brethren in case of sinne against God or trespasse against us Three caveats to be looked unto in our loving of them What things bowells of compassion or mercy import When our bowels of mercy are right Motives to bee pittifull What things are comprehended under courtesie Divers kindes of blessing When wee blesse in deed Wherein particularly For what reasons a Christian should bee much affected with the consideration of his calling Reasons proâ—ng the necessity of knowing our calling and assurance By what means a christian comes to know his calling Divert sorts of Christians Carnall Christians know not their calling and why Causes why many weake Christians know not their calling Note Godly men doe inherit blessings many waies 1. From men 2. From their owne consciences 3. From God and that divers waies In this life godly men have Gods blessing three waies What we must doe to get Gods blessing How godly men may grow in the comforts of Gods blessing Note Note For what reasons men ought to take off their affections from the love of this life In what respects the vanity of earthly things appeare Men have no reason to bee in love with earthly commodities and that for divers causes In what cases it may be lawfull for some persons to be in love with this life What such must doe to prolong their life What daies are evill in respect of wicked men Wherein godly mens daies are evill Great difference betweene the evill daies of wicked and godly men Evill daies common to wicked and godly men What are good daies in generall In particular there are divers sorts of good daies to the godly Mans life is short In what respect it is short Causes why most mens lives are so short Vses
the world and had the honour to be ordayned in the blessedest place in this visible world even Paradise and was made betweene two persons that were like God himselfe and therefore God doth expect that men and women should walke very carefully in this estate Genes 2. 2 Because man and wife had so neer an originall and dependance one upon another The woman was made of the ribbe of man which Adam perceiving by a spirit of prophecy said she was bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh that is another selfe or himselfe in another shape or sexe and therefore whosoever disagreed they should agree it being most unnaturall for a man to hate or disagree with himselfe Gen. 2. Ephes. 5. and ever the more miraculous the forming of the woman was the more extraordinary should the affection betweene man and wife be 3 Because they are but two of them they would hardly please many that cannot please one 4 Because they are appointed necessarily to be companions in life without parting or dissolution and therefore since they live alwaies together they should resolve to dispose of themselves so as their lives might be comfortable 5 Because from man and wife is the originall of all mankind of Church and Common-wealth and all other societies now those Husbands and Wives that live disorderly dishonor the whole kind What would they have the streames to be when the fountaines are so troubled and impure 6 Because marriage is honourable in Gods account and ought to be so amongst men therefore it being a great dignity to which they are called it is as shamefull a fault to live disorderly in that estate as in the estate of a Magistrate or Minister or the like Heb. 13. 7 Note that the fift Commandement that concernes family-duties and the order should bee in our dwellings stands between the Commandements of the first Table and the rest of the Commandements of the second Table to signifie that from the carefull performance of domesticall duties men are fitter to serve God in the first Table or converse with men in the world in the second Table yea all we get from God in the first Table or from men in the second wee bring it home to our houses or to the place of well imploying it Note the last words of vers 7. of this chapter 8 Because man and wife resemble Christ and the Church by way of type or image and will men or women dare say that Christ and the Church carry themselves so unlovingly or disorderly one to another as they doe one to another Doe you not thinke it had been a hatefull thing for any man that was to be a type of Christ to have exprest the type by false or wicked waies Even so is it for man and wife to carry themselves one to another so as Christ and the Church doe not one to another Ephes. 5. 9 The end of marriage is Gods glory now if God may not have glory by the loving and orderly carriage of man and wife one to another he will winne himselfe glory to his Iustice in revenging the quarrell of the Covenant which they have broken 10 Because usually the carriage of man and wife is the originall cause of good or evill order in the family partly because thereby they are the more inabled or disabled for their carriage towards others in the family and besides their courses are exemplary and withall they thereby lay the ground of their owne honour or dishonour in the hearts of children and servants 11 Because Gods commandement injoyning them their duties one to another bindes the conscience as hard as any of the other Commandements so as God is aswell provoked by these disorders betweene man and wife as by swearing or cursing or Idolatry or murther or whoredome or drunkennesse or the like yea they that live in the customary breach of these duties are unjust and dishonest aswell as if they broke any other Commandements 12 The Apostles were the more earnest in pressing husbands and wives to a loving and orderly behaviour one towards another because of the scandall or honour came to Religion by it It did greatly adorne and become the Gospel if they lived amiably together it made men like of their Religion the better and contrariwise it was a foule scandall and caused the Religion to be lesse esteemed or else hated when they lived so ungodly and unquietly together 13 Because if they live lovingly together they are like to have a quiet conscience and a cleane heart whereas if they jangle and live in discontentment it is a thousand to one the conscience will be very froward and their hearts filled with foule lusts after others Pro. 5. And that the conscience should be froward how can it be otherwise when they live in the direct breach of Gods commandement which as was shewed before bindes as strongly in this as in another dutie 14 Because this commandement is the first commandement with promise To the faithfull discharge of these domesticall duties is promised a long and happie life in the land God hath planted men in 15 Because men and women may greatly further their salvation by living according to Gods will in this estate as is intimated 1. Tim. 2.15 16 Lastly let husbands and wives remember their accounts at the last day Will it not be a wofull miserie for a rebellious and froward wife to be throwne to hell and see her quiet and religious husband goe to heaven and so on the other side The use may be for complaint of the generall and grievous neglect of these things in the most men and women Where may a man observe in any family almost that amiable carriage betweene man and wife that ought to be Quest. What are the causes of this generall disorder and unquietnesse betweene men and their wives Answ. 1. It may be God revengeth some sinne in the manner of the marriage or going about it of which the parties have not soundly repented as precontracts or marriage for carnall ends without respect of Religion or Gods glorie as for wealth or the like or some secret wickednesse betweene the parties before marriage 2 In the most it is the want of the true feare of God they are carnall and so their Natures being not regenerate are full of all evill fruits Two carnall persons can no more agree together than two wilde beasts and what will not men and women allow themselves in when they doe not from their hearts feare Gods displeasure 3 In many it is ignorance of their mutuall duties men and women doe not studie with care and conscience the particular duties which in this estate God requires of them 4 In such as know their duties it is eyther unskilfulnesse to beare with infirmities or neglect of daily prayer to God to fashion their hearts to obey his will in those things as well as in other points of his service and worship 5 In some it is strange and strong
hates whoâ—edome in men aswell as women But yet it is true that some sinnes as they are abominable in any so they are much more in women as wee see in swearing and drunkennesse so it is true of filthinesse in the woman and therefore the whorish woman is called a strange woman in the Proverbs But I thinke it is not safe to restraine the sense of this place or other the like places so but I take the meaning of the Apostle to be so to commend chastity in the wife as that which is necessary in all both men and women And so I come to consider of Chastity and so would shew first the motives to it secondly the meanes to preserve it and thirdly the way how Chastity may be manifested and made knowen to others For the first many things should perswade with a Christian to preserve chastity and to avoide whoredome and bodily lusts First it is the speciall will of God and a speciall part of their sanctification to avoide fornication 1. Thes 4.3 Secondly the promises of God all of them should allure men to perfect their holinesse and to avoide all filthinesse both of flesh and spirit 2. Cor. 7.1 Thirdly the hatefulnesse of the nature of the sinne of fornication and whoredome should deterre Christians from the committing of it This is an hainous crime an iniquity to bee punished by the Iudges Iob 31.11 These lusts are lusts of the Gentiles 1. Pet. 4.3 A sinne not so much as to be named amongst Christians Eph. 5.3 A sinne that utterly corrupts naturall honesty Pro. 6.27.29 It is a sinne not only against the soule but against the bodie of a man even that body that was bought with the blood of Iesus Christ and was made for God and is the Temple of the holy Ghost and is a member of Christ's mysticall body 1. Cor. 6.15 to the end Fourthly the consideration of the cause of this sin should abash men it is a work of the flesh even a fruit of a corrupted and filthy nature Gal. 5.22 Fiftly the effects of whoredome are very fearefull for it is a sinne that defiles a man Mat. 15. and it makes a man unfit for the company of any Christian 1. Cor. 5.9 It brings dishonour and a wound can never bee blotted out Prro 6.33 and it causes the fearefull curse of God upon men Heb. 13.4 and that both upon their states and soules in this life By meanes of a whorish woman a man may bee brought to a morsell of bread Pro. 6.26 It is a sin will root out all a mans increase Iob. 31.11.12 And upon the soule it brings a fearefull senselessenesse and disability to make use of the meanes of salvation Whoredome and wine take away the heart Hosea 4.11 and God casts them many times into a reprobate sense Rom. 1. so as they are past feeling Eph. 4.18 so as the adulterous person goeth about like a Foole â—o â—he slocks or like an Oxe to the slaughter Pro. 7.22 In a word the adulterous person destroieth his owne soule Pro. 6.32 yea which is worst of all it deprives men of the kingdome of Heaven 1. Cor. 6.9 and casts both body and soule into the Lake that burnes with fire and brimstone Pro. 9. ult Rev. 2â— 8 22.15 For the second the meanes to preserve chastity in married persons are these First they must labour to excite and nourish matrimoniall love one to another Pro. 5.18.19 Secondly they must doe as Iob did make a covenant with their eyes and not carelesly give liberty to their senses to wander about after vaine objects Iob. 31.1 Thirdly they must store their heads and hearts with Gods words especially such words of God as doe give reasons and motives to disswade from this sinne Pro. 2.1.3.4.11.12.16.17 Psal. 119.9 Fourthly they must continually meditate of their mortality and that they are but strangers and pilgrims here and must come to judgement 1. Pet. 2.11 Eccles. 11.9 Fiftly they must by confession and godly sorrow and prayer crucifie these first risings of inward lusts and so by repentance for the lust of the heart prevent the filthinesse of the flesh Gal. 5.24 Sixthly they must walke in love that is exercise themselves in a Christian and profitable society with such as feare God Eph. 5.1.3.4 Lastly they must with all care and conscience avoide all the occasions of this sinne such as are 1 Idlenesse that sinne of Sodome Exech 46.49 2 Fulnesse of bread and drunkennesse as is noted in the same place They must beat downe their owne bodies 1. Cor. 9.27 3 The desire to be rich for the love of money breeds noisome lusts 1. Tim. 6.9 4 Ignorance of God and his truth Eph. 4.17.18 5 Evill company especially the society of such as are filthy 6 Lascivious attire and filthy dressing such as are strange colours and naked breasts This is whoredome between the breasts Hos. 2. 7 Lascivious pictures and prophane representations of filthie practises such as are exprest by those wicked Stage-Plaiers against which the very light of nature pleadeth 8 Chambering and wantonnesse and all provocations to lusts Rom. 13.13 For the third point if you aske how those huâ—bands could behold the chast conversation of the wives I answer they might know that they were chast boâ—h by their modesty in secret in the use of the marriage bed by their strict care to behave themselves modestly soberly abroad in the family or in other places by their great conscience to avoide all occasions of evill when they discerned that they did abhorre the society presence of light vain persons detested all the provocations to lust of what kind soever The next verse shewes one way how they may know they were chast even by their care to avoide pride and vanity in attire Such men as have wives that are proud and follow the fashion of the world in attire or delight in vaine company and haunt stage-plaies are fooles if they bee over-confident of their wives chastity unlesse it be in case of necessity where they want either beauty or temptation or opportunity And it is a probable argument of a chast minde in the wife when she keepes house and is diligent and carefull and painefull in the businesse of the family and desires to please her husband in all things and willing to be subject to his will Thus of a chast conversation A conversation with feare followes Some refer this fear to the carnall husbands make the sense thus While they with feare behold your chast conversation It is true that wicked men feele a great deale of feare many times in themselves when they look upon the godly and get the feare as the fruit of their watching and prying and observing That wicked men are smitten many times with feare many Scriptures shew as Deut. 28.10 1. Sam. 18.15 Psal. 102.15 The reasons why they are afraid are divers 1 Naturall conscience doth homage to the image of God stamped upon
God and walke in his waies 3 It greatly staies and supports the heart of man in the evill day when temptations or afflictions befall us yet the comfort of our assurance sustaines us and refresheth us greatly For helpe in the evill day the Apostle saith wee should above all things put on the shield of faith which if it remove not the crosse yet it quencheth the fiery temptations of Sathan with which we may be assaulted Eph. 6.16 and it greatly helpes us against the feare and terrour of death Heb. 10.19 20 22. In a word it overcomes the world 1. Iohn 5.4 5. 4 The faith of a Christian is all his living hee lives by faith in all the occasions of life as his faith helps him when all other meanes failes him and makes all other meanes more successfull when he useth them The just man lives by faith The people in captivity that were Gods children raised a living for themselves in a strange land by their faith Hab. 2.5 5 It puts life into all the duties of religion or righteousnesse it worketh by love it sets all our affections on worke towards God and his people and creatures Gal. 5.6 6 It opens a spring of grace in the heart of a Christian every good gift from above is excited and made to flow from within him by the benefit of his certaine knowledge and assurance of faith Iob. 7.38 Now if any aske how a Christian comes to know his calling I answer 1 By his sensible feeling of his sinnes to be a heavie burthen to him of which hee is truely weary so as hee desireth more to be rid of them than of any burthensome crosse whatsoever Mat. 11 2â— 9.13 2 By his manner of receiving the voice of Christ and the preaching of the Gospell not in word but in power The voice of Christ hath a marvellous power over him above all things in the world which appeares by the effects of it For he feeles in hearing the word first such an estimation of it as he acknowledgeth nothing like it for power and wisdome 1. Cor. 1.23 24. Secondly he finds at sometimes especially such an assurance of the truth of his religion and the doctrine hee heareth that he is fully established and â—â—eed from his naturall uncertainties about the true religion Thirdly the Word worketh in him spirituall senses and very life from the dead which hee feeles in all parts of his conversation making conscience of his waies in all things bewailing his frailties and striving to be such as God would have him to be Fourthly it makes him to separate himselfe from the world avoiding all needlesse society with the wicked and exciting in him constant desires to use the world as if he used it not Fiftly much spirituall joy before the Lord even then when in respect of outward things he is in much affliction The most of these effects are noted 1. Thes. 1.4 5. 3 By the Image of the vertues of Christ in his heart by new gifts in some measure for when God calls a man he reveales his Sonne in him Gal. 1.15 16. There is begotten in him a likenesse of Christ his very disposition is changed into the similitude of the vertues of Christ God gives him a new heart with the Image of Christ stamped upon it and hee is like Christ in respect of lowlinesse of minde and meeknesse and contempt of the world and love of God and the godly mercy wisdome patience love of his very enemies and desire to live without offence and praying to God as to his father Quest. But if Christians may know their calling what should be the reason that so many Christians are so unsetled and are not assured of their calling Ans. Distinguish of Christians some are Christians in name and outward profession but not in deed beeing not at all converted though they have the meanes of conversion and this is the estate of the most men and women in all places Now some are indeede converted but are weake Christians as it were infants that lye but in the cradle of religion Now for the first sort the answer is easie They know not their calling because they are not called yea they are so far from knowing it that they generally are offended at it that we should teach that any body can know his owne calling certainly Carnall Christians then know it not because they have it not and in particular the causes why these Christians attaine not assurance is because they rest upon common hope of mercy in God which house is but like the house of a Spider and will give up the ghost when the evill day commeth upon them And besides they live in knowne sinnes which they love and preferre before all things can bee offered to them by the Gospell Now it is impossible to have true assurance and to lye at the same time in knowne grosse sinnes without repentance And further many Christians by their wilfull unteachablenesse and incurablenesse in sinning doe so provoke God that all meanes notwithstanding yet those things that concerne their peace are hidden from their eies Luk. 19.42 Now for the weake Christian the causes of his want of assurance are such as these Sometimes ill opinions about assurance either that it may not be had contrary to the charge given 2. Pet. 1.10 or if it be had it will not bee profitable contrary to the reasons given before Sometimes it is their ignorance they are so unexpert in the Scriptures that not discerning the frame of godlinesse in generall they can never tell when they fully know this or any other doctrine in particular And this let is the stronger when they smother their doubts and will not aske the way or seek resolution in things they understand not especially in cases of their owne consciences In some Christians this want of assurance ariseth from meare slothfulnesse though they bee often called upon and convinced yet they returne to their former carelesnesse and will not bee at the paines to use the directions given them for the setling of their hearts In some Christians it is a violent pronenesse in their natures to take offence at such infirmities or mistakings as they observe in such as have professed religion before them yea sometimes they take offence at the liberty of those that are truly godly though they abuse not their libertie And this offence is sometimes so deadly that they give way to the projects of renouncing of all religion because they have observed such things in those that professe religion As in the primitive church many Christians took grievous offence at other Christians for the use of their liberty in things indifferent so as the Apostle was affraid they would fall away and perish in their scandalls Lastly some Christians are not setled because when the evill day comes upon them they cast away their confidence and strive to thinke that because God afflicteth them therefore they are not his being for the
they doe soe is because they themselves did feele by experience how unable they were to beare crosses when they fell upon them It was this Peter that denied his Master upon the very sight as it were of adversaries and it was this David that gave this advice after himselfe had changed his behaviour before Abimelech as you may see by the title of the Psalme Which should teach us to bee thankfull for that publike or private quietnesse any of us doe enjoy and besides it should warne those unruly froward Christians that live not in quiet either at home or abroad to repent and amend their words and workes They cannot imagine what singular comfort and contentment they withhold from their owne lives and the lives of others If they did but know how much God abhors a froward Christian they would be more affraid than they are Thus of the generall observations The first part concernes the persons that are exhorted and they are described by two formes of speech the one Such as will love life the other Such as would see good daies If any man will love life From this forme of speech three things may be observed Doct. 1. That men by nature are prone to the love of life and so prone that the most men will breake all bounds and will love life whatsoever bee said to them or done to them This is a point so sensibly felt by the experience of the most that heare it that it needs no proofe If any man aske what the reason should bee why there is such an inordinate love of life in the most many things may be answered The first cause of it is the generall corruption of nature in the most men which came in by sinne To love it selfe is nature but to love life so pertinaciously is from degeneration and the great abasement of the nature of man that cannot now move it selfe towards the perfection of it selfe for unto the godly the change of life is an alteration that brings perfection Secondly ignorance and unbeliefe is the cause of it If men did know beleeve those glorious things God speaks of a better life they would loath this present life long to be in heaven Thirdly the cause in many is that their hearts are â—ngaged upon such perplexed and intricate projects about profit or pleasure or greatnesse in the world that they are not at leasure to examine the reasons of the love of life the heart of man is usually oppressed with some one or other of these projects Fourthly in all sorts of people there is such an incurable inconsideration that no warning from the Word or workes of God no experience of their owne or other mens can force them to a serious and constant meditation of the things concerne their true happinesse Fiftly the love of life ariseth in the most from the Idols of their hearts There is one thing or other that they have set their hearts upon in a vicious manner and this unreasonable love of their particular sinnes doth hold them downe in bondage to this present life and so cannot be cured of the disease till they repent of their beloved sinnes And the guiltinesse of their consciences makes them affraid of death and judgement and to embrace this present life upon any conditions And in godly people this inordinate love of life ariseth from the defect of particular repentance for it Thus of the first point Doct. 2. Men have cause to take off their affections and not to bee so desperately bent to the love of this present life This is a point very profitable to be urged and most men and women have need of it and therefore I will shew more largely the reasons why wee should not love life or not so inordinately as to be unwilling to leave it upon any tearmes The first reason may be taken from the commandement of Christ who gives this in charge to all that will bee his Disciples that they must not love life As they must deny themselves in other things so in this particular And hee so gives this in charge as hee seemes to threaten them with the losse of life if they love it so Luk. 17.33 Iob. 12.25 The second reason may bee taken from the example of the godly that have not loved life Iob detested life Iob 3. Salomon tels of a multitude of occasions that he had to hate life in his book of Eccles. and a multitude of godly men have shewed the proofe of it in laying downe their lives willingly when they have beene called to it Act. 20.24 Phil. 2.20 Heb. 11.35 37. The third reason may bee taken from the consideration of life in it selfe both in the nature of it and in the end of it for the nature of it it is but a winde or a vapour Iam. 4. so meane a thing that no man can well tell how to describe it perfectly which is the greater wonder that it should get the love of all the world and yet no body knowes what it is hee loves And for the end of it it is not in the power of man to number his owne daies God hath set an appointed time for every mans death and though they love life never so much they cannot hold it beyond that time Iob 7.1 And besides our times are so hid that a man cannot bee sure of a moneth a weeke a day an houre and shall our hearts be so bewitched with that which wee know not how long wee shall enjoy Iob 24.1 and the rather because there are so many waies for life to goe out at though but one way to come in And further we can find no means that hath sufficient power to make a man live God hath so reserved the power of life in his owne hands that none of the meanes we use to preserve life can do it to make it hold out for a moment if God doe not from above give speciall assistance Man liveth not by bread Mat. 4. and if a man had abundance of all worldly things yet a mans life consisteth not in that Luk. 12.15 c. The fourth reason may bee taken from the profession of a Christian or his state or relative calling or condition in this life First we are Christs spirituall souldiers Now men that goe to war intangle not ahemselves with the things of this life that they may please them that have chosen them to bee souldiers 2 Tim. 2.4 Secondly we are pilgrims and strangers in this life and therefore nothing should be more easie to us than to be weary of the present condition and to long to be at home Thus did the Patriarches Heb. 11.13 Thirdly in this life we are but poore cottagers that dwell in poore houses of clay and shall wee love to be here rather than in those eternall mansions 2. Cor. 5.1 Iob. 14.2 The fift reason may be taken from the sinnes of life Even sinne is a disease and a loathsome contagious one Now then see what life
is thou thy selfe hast innumerable sinnes and there is no man alive that sinneth not in the whole world now if every man have innumerable contagious diseases what a loathsome pest-house is this world to live in The thoughts of a man can reach to the depth and length of this argument but inconsideration buries all wholsome counsell motives But besides this respect of sinne a Christian findes from his owne sinnes if there were none else in the world great cause to be weary of life first because sinne argues the imperfection of his nature both in soule and body and so long as he is in this sinfull life he can never have a perfect nature now a a man that loves himselfe for this reason would never love life Rom. 7.23 Secondly because sinne is an offence to God now a child of God should therefore loath life because by sinning he doth injury to God his mercifull father and in the most holy Christians this argument hath extraordinary force The sixth reason may be taken from the crosses of life Hath not every day his griefe Is there any estate or degree of men free from them Are not those whom God loves corrected yea and perhaps more than other men Seriously thinke of what thou dost suffer in thy particular What diseases or infirmities are in thy body What unquietnesse and vexation doest thou suffer in the house where thou livest What crosses doe follow or feare thee in thy calling Yea doth not thy religion breed thee trouble If the reproaches and oppositions be considered of which godly men somtimes suffer we might say with the Apostle Of all men they are most miserable 1. Cor. 15.19 Paul saith he was a man crucified while he lived Gal. 2.20 and did alwaies in his body carry about the dying of the Lord Iesus 2. Cor. 4.10 Besides consider of the danger of what may come upon thee in life What if war come or the pestilence or sudden poverty that cannot be cured or fearefull diseases that will fill thee with horrible paine Nay what if thou shouldest fall into some shamefull fault Oh what were the misery would follow upon it The seaventh reason may bee taken from the extreame vanity of those things that seeme to be felicities in life all the things in life that with any colour of reason can be made objects of thy love are either the people of the world or the commodtties of the world Now for the first of these thou hast no reason to be in love with life for the people of the world with whom thou livest for 1 Amongst all the thousands of men and women thou seest in the world it may bee there is scarce one that loveth thee entirely scarce one from whom thou maiest enjoy delight or comfort They are poore things thou canst have from the rest whether they be neighbours or strangers More then thou givest thou shalt not receive unlesse it be in poore complements of salutations and ceremonies of life 2 If thou didst excell in the priviledge of being loved by friends kindred wife or children yet reckon how smal a portion of thy life is refreshed from them there is sometimes more delight in one poore dreame than will be had this way in a long time 3 Thinke of it what changes and losses thou doest or maiest suffer if there were any thing worthy thy love in friendship or acquaintance thy friends may be daily lost either by the change of their mindes from thee or by distance in habitation or by death and the pleasure is had by thy acquaintance is made not worth the having either by interruption or by discord and taking of offence or want of power or will to helpe when thou hast most need 4 Who would not hate life for this very reason which I now give Let a man consider by experience in all others how little the world cares for him If thou wert to dye what would the world care or almost any in the world let it bee thy wife children neighbours hearers dearest friends yea thy religious friends what would any of these care for thy death Looke not at their words but note it in their deeds How few will be sorry for thee or for how short a time and how soone wilt thou bee cleane forgotten or how poore a thing is the greatest memory any man hath when he is dead Doest thou live to heare this and yet wilt be so mad as to love life for the love thou bearest to any other 5 The evill thou sufferest from the world is greater than the good thou canst get by it thinke of the reproaches injuries oppositions contempts persecutions infections thou maiest finde from unreasonable men How many thousand would triumph over thy poore fame if thy feete doe but slippe Lastly the company thou shalt have of Angells and spirits of just men in another world should make thee loath all these things in this life whether thou respect number or power or dearnesse in friends even in such as must be companions of thy life and therefore for the company that is in the world thou hast no reason to love life The commodities of the world are lands houses money honour credit beauty pleasure and the like now men have no cause to be so in love with these if they consider 1 How small a portion they have of these If a man had won the whole world and the glorie of it yet it were not worth the having if he must lose his owne soule Nay if it were all had upon the best conditions yet it would not make a man truely happy and therefore much lesse these silly parcells of the world wee can attaine to Eccles. 1.3 2 These are all common things and that in two respects first there is nothing new now to be had which hath not been had heeretofore ordinarily What is now hath beene before and will be afterwards Thou canst enjoy no felicity of life that can be proper to thy selfe Eccles. 1.9 10. 3.15 And then further all these things a fool may enjoy as well as a wise man and a wicked man as well as a godly man A man shall never know love or hatred by these things for they fall alike to all sorts of men Eccles. 2.14 3 All things are full of labour who can utter it If men doe reckon the paines and care and unquietnesse and wearinesse they are put to about the getting or keeping or using of these things they would finde little cause to love them especially considering that unto the use of the most of these is required a daily labour with toile that men that possesse these things cannot possesse themselves they are so overburthened with the cares and labours of life Eccles. 1.8 4 If a man had never so much of these things yet they cannot satisfie him his soule will not bee filled with good The eye is not satisfied with seeing nor the eare with hearing Hee that loveth silver shall