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A58208	A guide to the Holy City, or, Directions and helps to an holy life containing rules of religious advice, with prayers in sundry cases, and estates ... / by Iohn Reading ...	Reading, John, 1588-1667.	1651 (1651)	Wing R447; ESTC R14087	418,045	550

you are deafe or carelesse to the word of God if you continue in mee saith Christ and my words in you yee shall aske what yee will and it shall be done unto you Job 15. 7. the just cryed and he delivered them 't is the prayer of the righteous which availeth much Jam 5 16. therefore saith the Apostle let every one that calleth on the name of Jesus depart from iniquitie and I will that men pray every where lifting up holy hands Sanctity like that stone which Aaron and Hur put under Moses fainting hands supporteth our prayers with assurance of obtaining his prayer is powerfull whose cause tongue action and life speake for him the Oratours rule is the hand speake's injuries cry for revenge such a voice had Abels blood so almes deeds for mercy Cor●●lius beneficence did so thy prayers and thy almes are come up for a memoriall before God prayer flyeth up to God with Cherub's wings faith and fervency but must have hands under those wings bee thou holy and attentive to Gods word and thou maist bee confident of audience with him otherwise hee will say when you make long prayers I will not heare you prayer is the soules soveraigne balme but cannot cure where any splinter remaineth in that wound where any intention is to continue in sin no prayers are heard The Lepers mouth by the Law was to be covered sinne thy soules leprosie stops thy mouth and therein thou but awakest Gods justice to punish thee it made the heathen in the storme say to some debauched fellowes when they prayed hold your peace least God should know such wicked fellowes sailed here To the ungodly God said what hast thou to doe to take my covenant into thy mouth seeing thou hatest to be reformed 5. It may be God denieth what you aske that he may give you something better It is indeed a bitter triall to pray and have no sense of being heard I conceave that made David expostulate with God as if he were forsaken but let a man consider what God hath done to his dearest servants O that Ismael might live in thy sight cryed faithfull Abraham God giveth him an Isaak a blessed seed Moses prayer could not obtaine his entrance into Canaan it obtained his present entrance into heaven he many times denieth our wills that hee may accomplish his in our salvation he denieth temporall things that profit not that hee may bestow eternall Be not dejected not ●illed with indignation but consider how God giveth lands fruits health children plenty and the like to them that daily blaspheame him he that gives such things to sinners what th●nkst thou he reserveth for his children Certainly not earth but heaven I say he meaneth to give himselfe to thee if he removes the lets that he may so doe art thou impatient Againe some will say as Moses I am not eloquent to form a prayer I answer there are many formed already for thee but canst thou say lesse then the poore Publican God be mercifull to me a sinner say that as he did and it shall be enough for thee to goe home justified what was the meaning of that caution in the Law that he might offer a paire of turtles who had not a sheep but that God will accept if we offer the best we can be it never so litle If thou have no more offer a contrite heart I shall never beleeve him destitute of happy audience with God who looking on the merits of Christ interceding for him can but weepe those teares have strong cries why else doth David mention the voice of his teares Powerfull prayer is more in the groanes of the spirit then rhetoricall elegancies more in weeping then speaking There are certaine rules of practice hereto nece●●ary 1. Before Prayer 1. Meditate on the gracious promises of God meditation and prayer are like the two Disciples going to Emaus wh●le they are conferring Christ joyneth himselfe to them and like Eliah and his servant on Carmel one obtaineth the other discovereth the blessing comming 2. Forgive all thine enim●es give those that w●nt thy help forgive those that offend thee put out all bitternesse and desire of revenge out of thy soule count it the most divine victory to overcome thine adversary with vertue and goodnesse 3. Set thy selfe in the presence of God remembring thine owne vilenesse and guiltinesse Thinke of the dreadfull Majestie of God before whom thou art to appeare before whom are thousand thousand glorious Angels those unseene messengers of his who see and heare thee 4. Disburden thy minde of all cares and thoughts of this world prepare thy heart to thinke only of heavenly things 5. Humbly and heartely begge pardon for all those sinnes which have interc●pted his grace and made thee lesse apt to pray and thy former prayers lesse fruitfull 6. Compose thy body to that humble gesture which may best serve to expresse thy high reverence of body and soule to stirre up the greater devotion in thy selfe and others 7. Entreat Gods assistance and the evidence of his spirit to helpe thy infirmities and to prepare thee to pray faithfully 2. In prayer 1. Lift up thy soule to God call upon him with thy heart fix thy thoughts in heaven and as much as humane infirmitie can attaine to turne thee to looke upon the throne of God through the merits of Christ at the right hand of God receaving and presenting thy requests to him 2. Watch over thy thoughts and diligently fetch them in from their extravagancies and wandrings out forcing them into an ardent attention 3. As oft as Satan distracteth in a briefe ejaculation and quick flight of a thought desire the Lord to reprove and restraine him and to assist and help thee 3. After Prayer let thy heart 1. Thanke the Lord for his gratious assistance 2. In an ejaculation pray God to passe by and forgive all thy failings 3. Resolve to wait Gods leasure and to subject all thy desires to his holy will for the time and manner of his grant 4. Attend what answer God giveth either 1. More confidence of obtaining 2. Cheerefulnesse of spirit and resolution to trust in him what ever he pleaseth to doe with thee 3. More fervently to persevere in prayer 4. A constant resolution carefully to examine thy waies in case thou art sensible of some obstruction and let to thy obtaining 5. Granting thy requests that thou maist acknowledge his mercy and glorify him and thence gather future assurance of being heard in the like or other necessities Thus enformed and prepared loose not the comfortable suits of dayly prayers by foreslowing thy opportunity of calling on God while he is nigh every houre will serve hereto but be sure thou set apart some specially the first and the last every place hath served God's children in necessity the lyons denne the prison the belly of the Whale the

and amity that they give not scandal to others nor create mutual bitternesse to themselves Mutual love is gods blessing on thy family a praeludium of heaven in thy house a comfortable pattern to thy children like the sun-beams on thy possession as the dew of heaven on thy fields which maketh all look cheerfully and be fruitful a state that cometh neerest up to that blessed Paradise-oeconomy of Adam innocent a blessing which maketh every estate such without which no store is blessed k Pro. 15. 17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is then a stalled oxe and hatred therewith l Pro. 17. 1. Better is a dry morsel and quietnesse therewith then an housefull of sacrifices with strife 4. That they do cheerfully and willingly communicate in all that which God hath given them in prosperity advising in adversity comforting each other with such sympathy in joy and sorrow as is in them who are truely one flesh 5. That they bear each others infirmities never taking things spoken or done in the worst sense nor making every trivial matter an occasion of quarrel or alienation of affection but passing by them so as that they may seem rather covered in love then excused in judgement or approved in stupidity in which practice Satan may be beaten with his own weapon while that every occasion which hee administred in hope to former discord being prudently used to demonstrate the invincible love of the party suffering and willing rather to put up injury then to admit the least breach of amity by retaliation more endeareth them to each other 6. That they join hands and hearts to assist each other in the way to heaven See 1 Cor. 7. 16. 1 Pet. 3. 7. 7. That they mutually defend each other so Michol preserved David when Saul sought his life so prudent Abigail endeavoured Nabal's preservation they must not be false Delilahs to con●ederate against the lives or estates of their husbands 8. That they neither unjustly take nor justly give occasion of jealousie which ever embittereth the otherwaies most happy families Jerom's rule is here to be commended to women m Etsi negagata non feceris tamen deforme putes testimonium si rogeris Hier ep 2l 9 though thou yeeld not being asked yet think it an odious testimony to be asked hee comes to neer who cometh to be denied The Duties proper to the Husband may appeare in these following Rules 1. Let the n 1 Pet. 3. 7. husband dwell with his wife according to knowledge giving honor to her as the weaker vessel as being co-heires of the grace of life that their prayers be not hindred where there needeth reproof let it neither be rough odious injurious publick clamorous nor disgracefull but allayed with such wisedome and opportune perswasions as may not only reform but endeare in the most happy wedlock there may be some matter of just dislike and therefore due cause of reproof it much concerneth thee to know thy wives faults but not to hate her for them let the rule be either beare thy wives faults if tolerable with patience or amend them with direction if they are intolerable in this thou makest her better in that thy selfe 2. Let a man love o Eph. 5. 33. his wife as himselfe esteeming nothing too good or dear for her good as Christ loved his Church which concludeth nothing for them who impiously and cruelly afflict their wives with stripes or otherwise for God saith p Col 3 19. Husbands love your wives and be not bitter against them it is uncertaine whether they have evil wives but certain that they deserve such who can no otherwise governe then by blowes Neither doth this binde any man to an indiscreet much lesse an impious and dangerous indulgence to his wife wherein she desireth that which needs must or probably may hurt her self her husband or family it is love and wisedome to deny her that 3. Let a man maintain his wife in cloaths and necessaries according to his estate so as shee may live cheerfully with him not as servant but as a partner in his estate 4. Let the husband use all comity holy gratious prudent and peaceable language as a pattern to all his family so specially as a pledge of love to his wife neither like rugged Nabal nor fond and vaine which commonly changeth into fits of extream bitternesse for who can like such inksome levity 5. Let the man heare the wife's advice but never be transported beyond better reason nor carried thereby against the holy will of God as Adam whose dreadfull sentence bare this cause in the front q Gen. 3. 17. because thou hast hearkned to the voice of thy wife as r 1 King 21. 25. Ahab hearkned to the voice of Jeza●el as s 1 King 11 3 Solomon whom his wives most fearfully corrupted t Anil●e mihi liber videatur cui mulier imperat cui leges imponit praescribit iubet vetat qui nihil impera●●i negare potest nihil recusare audet●● ego verò is●um non modò servum sed n●quissimum servum etiamsi in amplissima ●amilta natus sit appellandum puto Cic. pared omnes sapientes liberos esse c. The Orator could say of a man so awed by his wife I doe think that hee ought to be called not onely a slave but truely the worst of such Concerning the proper dueties of Wives I sinde these three principle rules 1. Let the wife be u Eph. 5. 22. Col 3. 18. subject to her husband as unto the Lord in every thing for the man is the wife's head w 1 Tim. ● 9 12. shee was made for man God permitteth not the woman to usurpe authority over the man this duety comprehendeth love x Eph. 5. 32. reverence ai● and assistance doing her husband good endeavouring to content please and comfort him See Pro. 31. 11. contrary to which is the imperious command of the domineering wife unreverend speech or action neglect of her charge through pride sloth or riotous wasting her husbands estate 2. Let her be chaste modest and silent the Scripture expresseth this by y 1 Pet. 3. 5 6 1 Pet. 3 1 c. 1 Tim. ● 9 10 chast conversation coupled with feare impudency and chastity are rarely compatible and modest apparreling which becometh women professing godlinesse and●let the women learn with all subjection● a me●k and a quiet spirit are of high esteem in Gods sight this is God's rule by what law they live who think it religion and good policy by their loud and quarrelsom tongues bitter spirits of contradiction and otherwise to master their husbands and cantonize themselves I know not it is certain these are heavy crosses and no better then the sad furies possessing and so restlesly haunting the house of a wretched man that hee may well take up that old bemoaning z Hei mihi nec sine te nec tecum vivere possum Woe is