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Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
book_n	vain_a	young_a	youth_n	18	3	7.5226	4	false

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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
B09711	Some needful instructions for youth. Formerly given by a parent to his children. And hoping they may be serviceable to others, they are now reprinted, and to be given away, / by J.P.	Pennyman, John, 1628-1706.	1697 (1697)	Wing P1415A; ESTC R181646	4,790	12

SOME NEEDFUL INSTRUCTIONS FOR YOUTH Formerly Given by a PARENT to his CHILDREN AND Hoping they may be Serviceable to others THEY are now Reprinted and to be given away by J. P. Learn of ME said our for ever Blessed LORD and Lawgiver for I am Meek and Lowly in Heart and ye shall find Rest to your Souls Mat. XI 29. Be Clothed with Humility For GOD resisteth the Proud and giveth Grace to the Humble 1 Pet. V. 5. LONDON Printed by John How in Ram-Head-Inn-Yard in Fenchurch-Street 1697. CHAP. I. Dear Children Hearken diligently to the Counsel and Advice of your Parents for they watch over you for your good IN the First place let the Fear of the LORD Who is the Searcher of your Hearts be always in your Minds that in awe of HIM you may for ever stand not daring to bring the least Reproach upon HIS Holy Name by any Miscarriages of yours so shall you be CHILDREN to HIS Praise and a Comfort and Blessing to your Parents 2. SEE that none of you render Evil for Evil unto any one but do you ever follow that which is Good both amongst your selves and towards all Men. 3. TAKE heed of letting out your Minds and Affections to Visible things for they Perish in the using and bring Trouble and Sorrow to all whose Hearts are set thereon but let your Mind ●lways be retired Inwards that you ●ay w●●● to feel That which is not of this World nor esteemed by it but only esteemed 〈◊〉 T●●●e who know the Virtue and Excellency of it and who have been willing to part with all to purchase it It is the * Or W●●● 〈◊〉 STONE 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 NAME Re● 2. 〈◊〉 whi●h no Ma● nor 〈◊〉 nor ●●an know but 〈◊〉 that hath it PEARL of greatest price happy are they that have found or that yet shall find it 4. TAKE heed of entering into many Words when you are bid to do any Business either by your Parents Masters or other Superiors but with all Readiness of Mind see you Obey all their Lawful Commands with Diligence and Chearfulness 5. BEWARE of mentioning the Name of the LORD in any case but with Fear and Reverence for HIS Name is Hallowed by them that Fear HIM but taken in Vain by those that Fear HIM not And tho' they seem to Praise or Pray unto HIM yet such Services without HIS Fear are an Abomination Wherefore take heed you be not Deceived by Those who are only in the good Words and fair Speeches but let your Minds be kept single to the LORD and HE will shew you who They are that draw nigh to HIM with their Lips when their Hearts are far from HIM and from such you are to turn away 6. LET your Words be few and be always more ready to Hear than Speak especially when the Question is not asked you But when 't is your place to Speak be sure it be in Mildness Love and Gentleness lest through your Provocation you cause others to Sin and then you will not be Guiltless for their Sin will be charged upon you Wherefore let this be always in your remembrance and for ever observ'd by you as it hath been the Practice and Experience of your Parents to give Mild and Soft Answers for they do often turn away Wrath. 7. WHATEVER you see Virtuous in any be sure to follow That and what you see Amiss in others diligently search your own Hearts lest your Selves be found Guilty thereof for 't is an easy matter to see and find Fault with Another most can do that but few love to Examine Themselves Be you my dear CHILDREN of that Number least you Perish with the Multitude for the Way is Broad that leads to Destruction and Many walk therein Therefore whilst you are Young seek after True Wisdom and it will Guide and Lead you in that Narrow Way which all the Holy Men walked in and in which All must walk before they can enter into Eternal Rest 8. BEWARE of Reading Foolish and Vain Books which tend only to the Corrupting of Youth and Dishonouring the LORD Wherefore heed you only Those that tend to Holiness and Vertue 9. I WARN you as I did at the first so I do again Charge you that you walk in Fear and in Humility all the Days of your being upon the Earth then shall you know that the LORD hath not only Blessed and Prosper'd your Parents but will also Bless and Prosper You But if you depart from HIS Fear and cast these my Instructions behind your Backs then know that you shall Perish in your own Iniquities and I shall thus far be clear in my Conscience concerning you CHAP. II. 1. DEAR Children Beware of a Lying Flattering Deceitful Tongue both in your selves and others Also beware of Pride High-mindedness and an Exalted Spirit for such the Righteous GOD will judge 2. BUT be you Adorn'd with Faithfulness Meekness and Patience and let your Behaviour be Modest Courteous and Gentle towards all And what-ever you would have Others do unto You be sure you do that unto Them and heed not so much Their Duties as your Own 3. BUSY not your Minds with Others Concerns but be you Careful and Diligent in the Discharge of your Own and then you need not be troubled what Reproach you bear for them 4. BE sure you Waste not the Substance committed to your Trust Yet let not That be a Cloak for Covetousness that Grand Iniquity but when there 's cause for it part with it freely lest through your Unfaithfulness therein you be Rejected both of GOD and Good Men for know you are but Stewards of what you Possess and for which you must be Accountable 5. BE cautious how you enter into a Married Condition but when in that State whatever Disappointment you meet withal see that you Faithfully perform your Relation therein for anothers Iniquity and Vnkindness to you will not Justify nor Excuse your Iniquity or Unkindness to them 6. BEAR patiently Afflictions for they are good for you therefore hasten not to be deliver'd from them but in the Retiredness of your Minds Consider the Cause and being better'd thereby Bless the LORD for HIS Mercies for whom HE Loves HE Chastises 7. BE careful with whom you Associate and chuse none to be your Intimates but Such who are Exemplary in Virtue and Goodness so will you avoid much Contention and Trouble 8. BE ready to do Good unto All as Opportunity is offer'd And take heed of Wasting any of the Good Creatures for if you be Unfaithful in those Things that are Earthly who shall commit to you Those that are Heavenly 9. BE not desirous of Riches or Honour neither Covet That which is anothers but be Content with your Present Conditions and Learn to be as well Satisfied with Want as Abundance then will you follow the Steps of your Parents who have learn'd Contentment whatever befalls them 10. BEWARE of Jeering or Scoffing at any neither give Abusive or Scurrilous Language