Selected quad for the lemma: book_n
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A31196
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The art of complaisance, or, The means to oblige in conversation
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S. C.
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1673
(1673)
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Wing C119; ESTC R10330
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48,007
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195
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license_v april_n 9_o 1673._o roger_n l'estrange_n the_o art_n of_o complaisance_n or_o the_o mean_n to_o oblige_v in_o conversation_n quis_fw-la nescit_fw-la dissimulare_fw-la nescit_fw-la vivere_fw-la london_n print_v for_o john_n starkey_n at_o the_o mitre_n in_o fleetstreet_n near_o temple_n bar._n 1673._o to_o his_o ingenious_a friend_n mr._n w._n b._n sir_n it_o may_v seem_v strange_a to_o you_o and_o all_o those_o who_o have_v have_v any_o acquaintance_n with_o my_o humour_n that_o i_o shall_v pretend_v to_o give_v rule_n to_o the_o practice_n of_o which_o there_o be_v so_o little_a disposition_n in_o my_o nature_n insomuch_o that_o i_o have_v not_o escape_v the_o imputation_n of_o pride_n and_o singularity_n the_o truth_n be_v i_o have_v always_o have_v a_o aversion_n to_o gratify_v the_o pride_n vanity_n or_o ambition_n of_o other_o and_o ever_o disdain_v to_o make_v one_o in_o the_o affect_a train_n of_o every_o fantastic_a idiot_n how_o fortunate_a soever_o i_o never_o can_v 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